The Dream Girl Dynamic | Get the Treatment You Want! | Need to Know Guide

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

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[@olaebrhem5641]

Become YOUR OWN dream girl.💕👌😌

[@audreymo63]

I love that idea❤❤❤

[@CC-pu6qn]

Yessss!!!! ❤

[@Kashmir-lt4cx]

@olaebrhem I been saying that to myself! 😊❤

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Yes! This literally makes everything in your life better!

[@Nightingale671]

That’s the real flex 😩💅🏾

[@Sevinc.Boateng]

1. Be your own dream girl 2. Understand the categories( wifey material or a situation ship) 3. Not just by looks 4. Stop talking and start listening 5. Be Observant & watch the way he treats you 6. Be brutal don’t take it personal( literally don’t make excuse for him, if he wanted to he would) Ladies we deserve better. It’s high time we let the nothing for good men waste our time. We are golden and we deserve all the golds. Work on yourself

[@FC-eh7ll]

I think you mean not* let :)

[@Flawless1383]

Absolutely

[@slayfaee]

We should also categorize men like they do to us. We’re our own dreamgirl, prize and the chooser after all!

[@kheleecebrown1799]

Exactly 💯.

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Absolutely! I think women always have...players, time-wasters, f-boys, frauds/representatives, high value men, dream men, etc. It's just about being _better_ at categorizing them ie: not mistaking time-wasters as dream men or potential husbands _and_ being able to accurately assess how they view you, so you don't waste your time.

[@aimees4990]

For real. Like their "f***, marry, kill" game.

[@themusegoddess444]

I like this content idea she should do one for them too.. It's will help us choose a GREAT CAR 💯

[@floradelsol9042]

But what is the difference between a dream man and a high value man ?

[@anonymousbyname1121]

Men actually do categorise women as cars, I heard it first hand myself. A work colleague told me his girlfriend was “only a Ford”, I asked him “what do you mean she’s only a Ford?” He replied “not particularly attractive but reliable” I was astonished as he claimed to be very religious, shortly afterwards she suddenly broke off the relationship I wondered if that comment got back to her. He fell to pieces he was not coping at all without her we all could see it at work, she made him sweat and work extremely hard to win her back as it was more than a year later she took him back and then they got married. Personally I thought his ego was way to big for who he was and I didn’t think he was a good catch either, a backstabber with a massive ego!

[@Stormy867]

Believe it or not this was so inspirational!

[@anonymousbyname1121]

@@Stormy867 Really, how? May I ask?

[@Stormy867]

@@anonymousbyname1121 because she knew her worth and walked away until he got it right! He didn’t value her when he had her, therefore he had to miss her while she was gone.

[@anonymousbyname1121]

@@Stormy867 yes that’s true and the way she made him beg and work extremely hard for over a year to try and win her back, she knew her worth

[@Sarah-kv3qs]

Scared for her because when he sees his version of “a Benz” then he’s going to be moving along.

[@maddyG7414]

My man consistently tells me I’m his dream girl, and most importantly, he shows it. It’s really that obvious. I never feel like the second choice, or that he settled, because he goes above and beyond to make me feel special, loved and amazing. He’s kind, he listens and responds to any problems I have, and he committed to our future. Funny thing is I friend zoned him at first! And I think in a way, that was good for us. I was more relaxed around him, and we got to be friends first. Then one day I woke up and saw who was in front of me. So ladies, make sure to be open to all kinds of men! The flashy ones are definitely not always the prize.

[@Kashmir-lt4cx]

@maddyharvey omg soooo true! Committed to your future? Proposed, married you? How long you been together?

[@Jassywazzy1]

Congratulations! Your self concept must be be on point! Lol

[@unbiasedtv6525]

​@safespace1294 the guy you wanted didn't want you back so you settled. Typical 🤣

[@Kashmir-lt4cx]

@unbiasedtv6525 I thought she did end up back with the original.guy she mentioned and said she didn't know so didn't answer. This is confusing!

[@berrymckockiner5883]

​​@@safespace1294sounds like he is the good enough guy, I feel sorry for him. You said you despised him before 😂😂😂

[@mrs.dawkins9023]

Before I met my husband 33yrs ago❤, as a single/dating woman my motto was "there's nothing 'wrong' with him, he's just not 'right' for me". Also the 'love' you receive may not be the 'love' that you require and there's nothing wrong with knowing what you need and require in a relationship ❣️

[@yzma6142]

This is a great way to approach dating , I’m adopting this motto!

[@AnnemarieMay]

Wise.

[@carolinacarpio8650]

Thank you so much for sharing this!❤

[@cherissewilliams8748]

"What the happiest, healthiest version of you wants and accepts is going to be very different than what the desperate, wounded, low vibration version of you wants and accepts." You're always giving us gems!💎💎💎And yes to categories! I'm so curious to hear more about these. The car analogies really did make a point...that station wagon killed me😅😭

[@leonelyshidalgo5761]

Only when you love yourself enough you will attract that person that love you in the same way . Its a mirror effect. That person is a reflection of you😇

[@AngelicWitch444]

I just realised I was my ex’ “out of my league” girl… what does that mean omg??

[@lynne4948]

Be God’s dream, He molds accordingly, and all else will follow. It’s guaranteed! “Seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness and ALL things (not some but all) will be added unto you.” Matthew 6:33 💕

[@amandanyuswa4345]

Lovely!❤

[@jenniferq7319]

Agreed 💯

[@jojos.1041]

Amen and God bless you.❤️

[@bsmiles7933]

Agree 💯

[@bsmiles7933]

Agree 💯

[@rebeccaheldottir]

The most important line for me: you deserves time to become your own dream girl. After, you become someone else dream girl. Solitude can be a gift sometimes.

[@yzma6142]

I was with a man who treated me like a dream girl, but he was very anxiously attached and honestly became manipulative when I felt stifled. He also didn’t entirely respect boundaries. I’m torn because I liked him and he treated me well, but I really did not feel comfortable with him at times. I felt love bombed.

[@moreafterthistime]

Trust that instinct. You may be way too far outside of his league and he’s insecure. He needs work on himself.

[@yzma6142]

@@moreafterthistime thank you - I will keep listening to my intuition even though I miss the good times. I kind of felt like I was settling in the relationship. Also when I needed space he tried to do hot & cold behaviour. Like excessive compliments and then withdrawing. it was jarring

[@MissChannyliss]

It’s because you were the buggatti babe 💋 He knew he didn’t deserve you and couldn’t be what you really needed, and was afraid you might realise it.

[@MissChannyliss]

@@yzma6142thats what insecure men do to make you feel like you’re lucky to have them

[@berrymckockiner5883]

​@@MissChannylisswait so you want to be the dream girl but don't like everything that comes with it

[@WacoBeautyQueen]

Definitely been treated like the good enough girl, and I’m working towards better.

[@mirandafeminine5231]

Same ❤

[@LoveAndSnapple]

You know you're your own dream girl when a guy comes along and he has to be WELL worth the addition to your already magnificent life.

[@meeunice]

Loved it! ❤ Categories! Your first tip: "be your own dream girl", was my favourite. Treat yourself the way you'd want a man (or anyone really) to treat you. We set the tone ladies! 😍

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Exactly, Eunice! We set the tone! When you treat yourself a certain way day in and day out that becomes _your_ _norm_ . And it becomes much less likely that you'll ever accept less 💕

[@roses4me451]

@@TheFeminineUniverseOne thing I learned is this: "The love you seek from someone else, you should be giving to YOURSELF first!" Love is an "inside job". To avoid any disappointments, NEVER put the keys to your happiness in someone else's hands.

[@MoralGovernment]

Not only should you listen, really listen, when a man is telling you who they are, but once you're in a relationship listening is so powerful. People rarely get really listened to when they speak, and when a woman listens to a man, puts down her phone, and doesn't keep changing the topic and making it about them, but ask follow up questions about what they want to talk about, and look genuinely interested, he will fall in love and stay in love. This works for friendships too. I'm autistic and I always struggled socially, but when I learned to listen I have friends and people want to hang out with me and people compliment my conversation skills and say how much they enjoyed talking with me. It's like a cheat code of socializing in all situations.

[@relatableinclass]

Yess this, it's almost like they become obsessed with you 😂❤

[@ingridyau3012]

I'm grateful that I'm my mom's dream girl and she is my dream girl, so I know how it feels to be loved as #1 priority. I won't settle for less because I know how greatly I can love others.

[@TiffanyinOklahoma]

As a married woman of 13 years everything is spot on

[@TheeCheleMarie]

Once again, you hit this out of the ball park! So true, “be your own dream girl !” 🥰💗💕🥂

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

_Be_ _your_ _own_ _dream_ _girl_ ! It all starts there! Always happy to here from you, love 💕

[@TheeCheleMarie]

@@TheFeminineUniverse that’s right!! Thank you!! 💕

[@heyheysamantha]

I've watched 2 o your videos so far, and my chest is burning, I'm really uncomfortable, I feel like running away lol. You hit a nerve, I feel challenged, and I'm not used to that lol. Thank you for exposing me to a new perspective..

[@LeahWalentosky]

I'm asexual but this helps with my relationships with friends and co workers. Learn to listen, be polite and be interesting

[@naomia472]

I am not his dream girl but I'll be my own dream girl.

[@naomia472]

If he wanted to he would.

[@ChakaSasha-vq3su]

I used to be the desperate girl. Now, I’m the good enough girl-guess I’m going places😂

[@Goddess-h2g]

It’s all a state of mind !

[@nomessnostress]

😂

[@OGTigerTopaz]

SOOO many women need to hear this!! Women are so quick to tell what they DONT want but if u ask them what they DO want or need they can't even tell u..smh..glad I'm not like that😂❤

[@Theprosperityqueen]

Hey there, Queen! First off, let me just say, your insight on the dream girl dynamic is a revelation! Your video isn't just a guide; it's a roadmap to self-discovery and empowerment. Understanding that being a dream girl isn't about contortion but recognition is profound. It's about knowing your worth, setting standards, and ensuring you receive the respect and love you deserve. Your words hit home, echoing the importance of recognizing when we're valued and when it's time to walk away. Every woman deserves to be a dream girl, cherished and adored. Your message isn't just empowering; it's a game-changer. But here's the twist: in this quest for the dream girl dynamic, it's not just about others seeing it in us. It's about us recognizing the dream person within ourselves. It's in the way we carry ourselves with confidence, in how we nurture our passions, and in the love we give ourselves. Realizing we are our own dream girls opens up a world of self-love, attracting the right energies and people into our lives. Thank you for this eye-opening journey into self-worth and empowerment. Your wisdom is a beacon of light guiding us toward becoming our own dream girls, and that's the most empowering realization of all. Shine on, beautiful souls!

[@sallyjrwjrw6766]

Men constantly categorize women as objects. I find this video just accepts it as a premise in order to move onto the lesson. Basically saying, "since men will view you as an object, just make sure it's an object he values." At some point, we just need to understand the rules to win. Thank you for this video. Subscribed.

[@Maggiebenjee]

How affirming. "I'm an object" smh Until he finds a newer one. Then what are you?

[@sallyjrwjrw6766]

@@Maggiebenjee discarded

[@lauriejordan2716]

This may literally be the best video I have ever seen on this topic.

[@ChloeKanawha]

Categories! There should be a love button to push instead of a like button!! I have moved out of my home state and obtained my dream job in order to secure my dream life. This video is wonderful and is motivating me to achieve my dream life!! Thank you for making this video! ❤❤❤

[@mrsandmrbutterfly]

Wow I really love this. I had to go on this type of long journey first, before I became the dream girl and found the dream partner. Everyone comments that they hope to get a long-term relationship like ours. It definitely helped to go through a divorce (both his and mine) before figuring it out!

[@pwetty4r4]

This is the first femininity advice that I actually agreed with

[@ladyleo94]

Categories | side note, these videos have definitely helped with my accountability and focus on myself and the value i display and attract, thank you

[@basicinfo2022]

18:40 yes, dont take their lack of attraction as personal. Youre just not his type or he knows you deserve better. Go where you are loved, valued and respected. You coud be the right package at the wrong address. What a man offers, doesnt determine your worth. Toxic men have the audacity to mistreat and low ball the most beautiful women to bring her self esteem down. Dont fall for it.

[@Erica-cf1xb]

They can't help it when all they know is creatures from the bin or lost and found.

[@AnimeFreak792]

I LOVED this!!! I wish everyone would watch it! Lol I think something that struck me here is that my fiancée treats me like I'm his dream girl in every aspect of our life but I feel like I don't "deserve" it. If you make a video about something like this, it would be awesome. I am exploring others reasons and still working on myself as always to at least feel better about myself overall as well as to show him I appreciate him as well ❤

[@AayraAgrawal]

Accept urself and love ursepf furst. And start affirming robotically through out the day " I love my self . I am most beautiful and most deserving person". Just repeat this in mind .. doesn't matter if u believe or not just repeat and what happened after 3 days. Reply me

[@Jassywazzy1]

Mirror work is helpful as well! 😊

[@dahliavonvalentine1170]

💕 Categories 💕 I am definitely working on becoming my own dream girl 💅🏽🤗

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Yay! That's one of the absolute best things you can do for yourself. Cheers to you🥂

[@canelareina3795]

Im married and looking for videos for my relatives and friends. This is one of the best. I will share it!

[@studyorelse4231]

Categories! Thank you for these videos they've been so helpful to my journey to a life I can be proud of ❤️

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

I'm so happy to hear this! Proud of you, love! Keep shining and growing ✨

[@AbbyLaporte]

this is possibly one of the most helpful and specific and applicable channels I've ever watched. thank you so much! taking literal notes with pen and paper haha (the five categories video, first)

[@AbbyLaporte]

also the visuals help so much because it's a ton of examples of the actual situations and facial expressions, etc. for each category and aspect of it. thank you!!!!

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

You're very welcome! I'm so glad this was helpful and enjoyable for you 😊

[@Laylajes]

Not going to lie some of these videos is feeling like a therapy session

[@minervasworld1002]

I sometimes wonder where the knowledge and understanding comes from. I laughed when I saw the category part as it is on point! ❤❤❤loved it! So yeah! Do a category vid sis! 🥰🥰🥰

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Haha! It's a process, love! Categories video coming soon 😊

[@minervasworld1002]

@@TheFeminineUniverse I'll be here when it comes babe! Thank you in advance.

[@caryle1969]

The full video on the categories is definitely needed!

[@Nina-wf3dm]

Since I’ve been subscribed, I’ve become much softer than I was before and has significantly improved my day to day and overall mental state. You should call your channel the feminine university! 😊

[@Ahmed-Benazzi]

One of the best channels on youtube thank you so much for spreading the positive vibes .

[@charliecharles8517]

WOW. PROFOUND. I had to stop at the cars.YES, you should do a full video on that WOW. I can tell from your voice that you are young, BUT you are WISE BEYOND YOUR YEARS! 🤯 THANK YOU for doing this channel and thank you for THIS VIDEO! 🙏🏾🇧🇧

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Thank you! I'm happy to have you here and glad you enjoyed this video so thoroughly! The full video on these categories will be coming out this week 😊

[@sakura-rc3ed]

this was so incredibly beautiful and needed i literally cried.

[@sunnywithachanceofclouds]

I just love your content! I can really feel the transformation in how I feel about myself. It shows in the way I interact with others now. Could you do one surrounding mental health? Maybe just addressing anger or anxiety and how to deal with those.

[@missyT1987]

Gem of A Dream Gem Girl Guide! Every girl should hear this before 1st date. Best way to slaying in dating and Win! ❤💯💖🥰💎

[@Jade-yu8mh]

Categories! Definitely can’t wait to watch that one ❤

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Working on that!

[@truthersprotectingtruth490]

So wonderful. You put alot of intense thought into these posts. Thank-you.

[@Skaniathespartan]

Categories.. Thank You so much for such an amazing video. You always hit it where it needs to. I appreciate you.

[@bintokiria5338]

Every single lady needs to hear this,,, Thanks you so much❤❤❤

[@esthercazeau6464]

Thank you for this video. At the right time. Your content never disappoint, since I started the feminine journey and find your page I can see lots of changes, Again thank you. And yes we do want the categories video😊. God keep blessing you and this channel.

[@ajohonly3721]

Be your own dream woman amen 🙏.

[@adrialenico8022]

You deserve time and space to become the best version of yourself❤

[@thehopestrategist]

Categories!!! Love this video!! You hit it on point!!!

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Yay! Glad you enjoyed it, love! Always appreciate your input 😊

[@That_one_normal_person]

CATEGORIES please 😊 really enjoy your content and your delivery of all this "game" 😉for us ladies! So needed! Thank you!!

[@bethpulliam803]

i will be watching this over and over again. Just what I needed to hear!!!

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Glad you find this so helpful!

[@monieluv]

Categories!! Thank you for keeping me accountable and motivated sis. 💕

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

You're so welcome, love! Categories video is live now 😘

[@Liveandletlive0101]

I am my own “rich husband”, and when I tell you that meeting the right guy is harrrrd???!! Wow😕I’m almost 40 and still waiting to meet a guy I won’t be settling with.

[@Still_prettyyy]

Hopefully he finds you soon 😊✨

[@NonoKhumalo-jc1jl]

All I can say ... is thank you ❤ God lead me to watch this

[@vanityvixen19]

❤ you are always on point, thanks for all that you do ❤

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

You're welcome, darling! I'm glad you always find value here! More to come 💕

[@renatac8829]

I love that I had some of this concepts already on my mind but girl you enlisted everything in a much clearer way. Thanks !

[@lilly_ann]

Just heard a very old song I liked called 'dreamgirl' today on the radio...and now scrolling through YT I randomly saw this video, from a channel I've never seen before, but ofcourse I had to click on it! I found to car analogy to be very useful. Thanks for this video!

[@somethingforthefamily5869]

Divine timing, thank you so much for this video.

[@dreamofjayda5268]

Categories were ON POINT!!!!

[@pharris1833]

What a perfect analogy. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. Looking forward to 5 vlogs. Bellissimo.

[@leworelaxingsounds9308]

Categories! Thank you for sharing these amazing ideas with us ❤️

[@paulettemusicqueen1282]

Categories please 🙏🏾 Side note, I always appreciate the diversity of the videos you show 🥰🙌🏾

[@studyorelse4231]

Can you please make a video on how to cultivate ones personality or gain patience? I personally feel like I'm fumbling in both these areas and would like some guidance rather than reaching in the dark like I have been.

[@bookbutterfly2408]

I second a video about cultivating hobbies + personality

[@Braidsbymyalanae]

Such a good video! Thanks for the tips!💕

[@jama3189]

You articulated this topic beautifully! Thank you for sharing your knowledge…. “Categories”

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Glad you enjoyed it, love! Working on the categories for you 😉

[@pamelazimmerman787]

I just love all your videos thank you for helping us woman out here gain some knowledge!! You are much appreciated ❤

[@myisharoberson]

Love your videos! Please do a categories vid...looking forward to it ❤

[@lakeithasiggers2087]

Love, Love, Love this video. Being your own dream girl is key!!!

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

It really is! It lays the foundation for everything else 😊

[@nyeguono]

I learned this the hard way at 15-16, at 25, I’m partly glad I went through that experience so early in life. It saved me my future shit. (The Pining after someone who doesn’t see the value in u part)

[@AshleeinCommercials]

You are saving lives with this info. Ty

[@sugar_skull_mua6147]

Not me frowning in the beginning about my used Honda that I adore. 😂 Love your content. Thank you! 🩷

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Haha! So glad you enjoyed this and have a sense of humor😘

[@dnugget924]

Categories!! Amazing video as always and can't wait for the categories one! Thank you so much❤

[@tanishataylor1529]

Another great video. Thank u sis❤

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

You're very welcome, love!

[@unwitched]

This is solid and essential dating advice that every woman needs to know and the way you explained everything was so eloquently put! Thank you for another great video! Man, where was this video during my early 20’s! I could’ve saved myself from so much pain and time wasted by men who didn’t value me. My mother never taught me how to be strategic with dating. Well I’m definitely going to show my future daughter your videos and teach her what I’ve learned from your channel. I love your channel and your content so much! It changed my life! 🩷

[@pumpkinseed5498]

agreed

[@blondie9422]

Exactly. My mother had no clue and neither did I at first. I’m getting much better treatment now that I’m more aware and know when to walk away.

[@Beztyausten]

Your voice is everything and always sends the message straight to my medulla Thanks for this message So far I am being treated like a situationship and I know I deserve better and working towards leaving him though it’s hard

[@urszulakwasniewska4509]

Yes, drop the categories video please 🤞

[@JULIETNAKANGU-mb5zs]

I love you and thank you for changing my life👏🤗

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Ahh! So happy I can help, love! Keep growing 💕

[@678tanesha]

Excellent video. Thanks for all the hard work and preparation.

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

You're very welcome, darling!

[@littycandlesllc]

I needed this thanks for sharing 🎉❤

[@charmaine920]

As always love love love your video💕 They are straight to the point and very helpful!! Yes, drop another gem for us sis! Categories💎

[@kimmak888]

The opening 🙌🏾❤ girl I needed that!!!

[@yzma6142]

The lavish tip is a big one. Some men just use gifts to distract you from their flaws…

[@ericagafford2101]

I’m always the dream girl pretty and seemingly have everything, and humble when the guy comes along he will either start letting his insecurities out or if I do start to let my guard down and seem interested in him , it’s like he starts taking me for granted as ok I got her now . Once it’s over then they will want to come back realizing will never find another one like me, no matter how pretty the other women are but by that time it’s a wrap I don’t want him nor want him to have access to me.

[@deboraha4908]

This is great information. I learned a lot. Thank you.

[@janemuthoni7304]

You are anazing. Are wise and you have no idea how much i needed this ❤ Looking forward to the categories video ❤

[@savannaharcher3021]

Thank you for creating this channel ❤

[@forestcouchy1623]

This Chanel is fire I love it thank you for everything 🔥❤

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Glad it was helpful, love! Welcome to the family - happy you're here💕

[@DesignsbyLIAMLI]

Wow I loved and needed this! Thank you!

[@sunlight8366]

I’d love to see a video on the categories! Thank you so much for this video ♥️♥️♥️

[@kinyuajanet1411]

Always in love with your content. Categories.

[@ellelloyd1949]

love your videos. they are always uplifting to me! I became the dream girl and i received my dream man.... but it is all thanks and glory to Yah only!!!! Bc I was an utter mess. Praise be to Yah

[@sarahmeadows5432]

HalleluYAH

[@ellelloyd1949]

@@sarahmeadows5432 😊💯❤️

[@wassabilove1111]

Categories! Great content girl, thank you!!!

[@heatherhull1009]

This was an amazing succinct reminder! Intrigued by the 'categories...'

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Glad you enjoyed this one, Heather! Categories video is in the works 😉

[@klevisahysko4258]

Can't wait : Categories!!! 😍

[@teruahadaya]

You NEED to do that video on categories 👏🏼