When You're Tired of the Bare Minimum WATCH THIS!

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Hi Ladies! What was supposed to be a 10-minute video ended up being 22 minutes😅 There's so much to say about standards - I ended up needing an extra day to streamline it all. I hope you enjoy this and use it to raise your standards unapologetically and to transform your life!

[@neetsdomination]

We are not upset!! We are thankful!! ❤😊❤

[@prettyone-bk6hc]

2:17

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[@prettyone-bk6hc]

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[@prettyone-bk6hc]

😂Qq😂😂

[@ninawestlake5005]

Me not being impressed with the bare minimum is inherent . I'm not ungrateful. I'm just not easily flattered nor impressed.

[@bsmiles7933]

Totally agree. I’m the same way 😊

[@jlina]

Well obviously not everyone is or there would not be a need for a 22 minute video. Weird flex.

[@frenchgirl5878]

“ If you have to say it, it's because your energy is not transmitting it”

[@sulusu4812]

Wow dear, you do sound arrogant.

[@ninawestlake5005]

​@@frenchgirl5878Aren't you the "energy guru".🎉😂

[@briaunahinds6092]

"If you have to say it, it's because your energy is not transmitting it". Thank you 💯🌸

[@Stephanie-kw3lr]

Yes that one was really good!

[@nomondesambakunsi3107]

Beautifully said. Someone somewhere is praying for a person like me

[@MarieN8959]

And me 🥰

[@ButternutBanyana]

😄Amen sis. Thats confidence right there💓

[@BecomingaQueen]

“ never apologise for having high standards. Those who belong in your life will meet you at your level” 👑❤️

[@rhodahgloria6247]

I so much love this ❤

[@VeronikaBrioche]

It’s very refreshing to listen to a Black woman that speaks of value and respect I never had black lady friends because of the lies, low standards and betrayal characters they portray

[@candiluv8287]

Just the other day i was telling myself that i am fed up living with bare minimum; then this video appeared. I needed to hear this. I really did.

[@Jeweltiya]

My type is a man who treats me well My type is a man who are going after what they want in life and are happy and content within themselves because I feel like it really communicates who they are and how they deal with others.

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

That part! 😉

[@Meg104D]

This video was powerful! For me, "You may have helped me, but I was already on my way" really spoke to me.

[@jillgreene9225]

DITTO! ...Developing my positive outward Self Sufficient ENERGY🎉🎉🎉🎉....Going to venues to enjoy without a + 1😊

[@mcormick41]

AMEN ! I’m definitely working on me. I don’t know how this became a recommendation but GOD knows best!🙌🏾😉

[@AvbobDreamTeamwithRetha]

"Energy felt never said" I felt that.

[@briannaphillips4255]

My husband tried not to impress me when we were dating but being an impressive bachelor was a huge turn-on, attractive, and incredibly valuable, he went for my heart and he's still my gentleman 11 years later ❤ Having his heart and faithfulness is a full circle of our communication and love.

[@NoName-zh9ov]

my partner has been told so many times that I'm out of his league since he has been called a below average guy, but you know whats way above average? his personality, kindness and intelligence. I don't need a muscular dum dum in my life, I want someone to hold educated conversations with and who challenges me and my knowledge and while I have some good looks I value knowledge more and have been told I'm settling for less than I deserve but that's because they only see his looks. I know what I want and I'm not settling for less, keep your looks opinions to yourself, because I frankly don't care.

[@theswych]

OUCH! Girl!... you really laid it on the line with this video! You packed enough info. in here for a 4-module Course! The hard-hitting self evaluation tips and direct suggestions for interacting with others show that you are truly wise beyond your years! I really hope these younger women (I'm 62) realize the value of what you're teaching so they can apply these things earlier in life and thrive! Keep up the amazing work you're doing! 🥰

[@nneka8861]

💯 in my mid 40s and love This channel!! Especially the anonymity

[@TheLeslieMichelle]

Setting boundaries did help me. I was able to factor in what I needed versus what I didn't want. Having boundaries also helped me see who had my best interest too. I didn't have to settle for anything or anyone that didn't suit me presently.

[@ladyd8028]

I'm not for everyone. Everyone is CERTAINLY not for me.

[@hellosavije1888]

I’m so tired of seeing people faking the good life. Give me genuine and slow, down to earth realness with class . ✌🏽

[@razitatebug7067]

Your voice is out of this world I can listen to you over and over and never get tired Your voice alone is damn captivating OMG❤❤❤❤❤

[@smartanajones4u]

I love these videos! Even as a more mature woman in my 40’s, i still learn something from them with every click. I only wish educational materials were readily available at my fingertips when I was younger so this is surely a blessing for you younger ladies so please take heed to this great stuff this channel always drops

[@NalloryLove]

Same I wish it would have been available. I am so happy for the younger generation. Hopefully the cycle ends as they learn to raise their standards and the men are challenged to meet them.

[@joannastanden5816]

Iam 63

[@Liz-ic6jb]

"Don't give organ donor appreciation for a meal!" That is hilarious 😂

[@barbarahJ.]

I totally agree with what you say. Raising standards and working on healthy self-esteem have been key so that despite being single for the first time, I have never felt so fulfilled and happy. Your videos are always very helpful. Thank you ❤

[@tamiausten873]

I've gotten used to getting things done alone. I read about 3 types of people: leaders, team players and lone wolf. I fit more into lone wolf because I've experienced a lot of unreliable people in my 22 years of life. Infact I learnt this sad lesson very early in life, so I don't like teams or I just do the most I can do when in a team and hope for the best. I've stopped expecting anything from others, even parents. I'm actually trying to be the person who can ask for help and even have people I can depend on sometimes, life wasn't meant for loneliness. I've actually experienced good relationships for short periods, but life can be so rude 😂😂 cutting me off without warning: another reason why I stopped waiting for people. I lost my only sibling in 2021, along with other constants I'd had around me, so I'm currently coming out of depression. I'm young and learning, I believe better days and things are ahead for me😁😁😁 I've just had some setbacks

[@Erica-cf1xb]

In case you needed to hear this you are doing well. Most people have an arrested development and Choose to live their life as a spy on someone else's life to validate their existence and to supplement their income as an informant. Talk to God, an animal, or plant. Anything you say or write will be public knowledge and used against you. God knows this, be thankful you are NOT like the majority.

[@susanstable9033]

Beter days and things are ahead for you in God's grace. So sorry for your lost.

[@inuhundchien6041]

Your first advice is on point. We should meet our own standard before putting them on others!

[@natashasoteli2915]

This reaffirms my improved belief system... I realized how much everything about my happiness and peace depended on others...at the end of the day... what's within can only be well taken care of from within...❤ Thankyou Feminine Universe

[@dahliavonvalentine1170]

You never disappoint💖. And one of my fav quotes " If I'm to much, go find less 💅🏽 " 😉

[@ladyd8028]

YES!

[@ОльгаСоколенко-ы8х]

"If I'm too much you can find someone who is less" and "you don't give diamonds for a box of chockolate"🌺

[@ladyd8028]

LOVED that line. 😄

[@wairuriblackpoet8252]

I listened to this today my Born day and it could not have come at a better time

[@marigunyaga9262]

Happy Born Day lovesss

[@moniquejohnson59]

I love how you continue to keep it REAL! I'm here for it!

[@polemicvs2298]

Yesterday i asked a male friend to bring me lunch his reply was I need to be treated too.I said to myself this is one of the reason I could never even give u the time of day on a leveling up journey and doing it this time thank u

[@angelgreen9945]

Yes same happened to me. Thanks for this comment

[@Still_prettyyy]

Needed thissss. I’m gonna rewatch all your videos starting all the way from the first video again JUST BECAUSE til I get it stuck in my head 😊😊😊

[@supergreen3233]

Dang, this feels like the most densely comprehensive yet. I have some serious work to do. Thank you!

[@DMKC]

This video was worth the wait. The dedication in teaching me how to obtain then maintain standards is crucial. Especially to the last point in remembering that if I’m a lot to someone, a job, or place, then I am enough for someone, a job, or place that is willing to meet it. Thank you so much TFU! 🙌🏾🥰 Happy Friday Queen 🤎✨

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Yes ma'am! For every person who thinks you're too much, there's someone who'd be happy to give that _and_ _more_ . 💕

[@FaithFashionFinances]

Amen! I am feeling the shift!

[@monique.thenurse55]

I am worth more than Bare minimum.. I’m self-sufficient with and unique I know what I want. I know how to get it my communication, intelligence of mercury. Mutual grounded actions show others who you are as a person..

[@sandyjohnson4701]

Ladyyyy for 2024 , you just got another subscriber!!! I just found you January 1st ,and I know I will be with you for a long time 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@akilihh3065]

This channel is my favorite channel, and it has truly enhanced my life at 42.

[@ayodeletaiwo4390]

'Let your energy transmit it'. Thanks for this.

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

You're welcome, darling!

[@debragittens4749]

Must say I just came up on your Videos & being a older Woman this is truly beautiful Content that is really needed in these Perilous times cause for What I am seeing Some of Our Women has truly lost their way & so I absolutely Apprecilove you daughter ❤ Continue to bring us all of these Wonderful & gems because it's so much needed darling lol 💖.

[@reginam.9403]

I love your message. It’s so clear and very easy to take in. I think sometimes if you’ve been on the receiving end of years of verbal abuse, hurtful criticism, and slighted put downs, honest correction can still hurt and possibly trigger old wounds. But your words didn’t hurt. They were easy to take in and motivate me want to be that best highest version of myself. So glad I found your channel. I’ll continue to listen.

[@mehretelarose2466]

I needed to hear this. I got to do better I have invested into the guy that I am dating and have realized we always wants and need something. I I always show up for him and gets the bare minimum. To me it's like he feels he's doing me a favor by being with me. I will be doing the work . Thanks for such an uplifting video.

[@chasitymaxie3373]

I wish I could like this 1,000,000 times!

[@BlackGirlSerenity]

Having expectations and standards is really a beautiful thing. When you take care of of yourself others will just start treating you better. Honestly it could as small as doing your hair daily goes a long way

[@roses4me451]

Talk about giving the keys to the "Level Up" game and the play book on standards & boundaries!!!! Sis, you knocked it out of the park. Time to get busy in 2024 and live my BEST life. Thanks for sharing. Peace & blessings! I've subscribed.

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Welcome to the family, darling💕 I'm glad you're enjoying the content. Cheers to 2024 being downright fantastic 🥂

[@drea0795]

Yet another top quality, relevant, EXCELLENT session. Thank you again 🙏🏾👌🏾🙌🏾🤗 So many crucial gems dropped, it’d be beneficial to re-listen and take notes.

[@WithEase0211]

This is priceless. I wish I had this information 30 years ago. I’m in the process of reinventing myself. This is one of the best videos I’ve seen that’s actually helpful. Thank you for sharing this information and framework for being our best selves.❤

[@obakeng_k]

The more videos you produce, the greater your wisdom is becoming. As you rise, you lift others with you. Keep going!

[@richbeauty212]

What a word sis!! You really dropped jewels here. Well packed ❤💯👏🏽

[@mandisandlovu5515]

Literally get to the end of this video and start it all over again!!! You speak once and I hear you a million times ❤❤❤

[@ira_herself997]

Girl, I needed that last part with the company looking for an asset. I’m searching since June and all I can find are companies that don’t value my hard earned skills. Its so painful but I’m hopeful even if I refused many that my standards will be met soon. ❤

[@roses4me451]

Stay the course, know your worth, and don't settle for less! These companies now want to pay you the least, while you do the most, and treat you like a work horse! Your credentials speak for themselves. If one company won't meet your standards, another one will. Good luck!

[@ira_herself997]

@@roses4me451 thank you so much! I wish the best to you. 👩🏻‍🦱♥️

[@jessicaredding5144]

I love this !!! This is what exactly I need to hear, Queen. This will boost my self-esteem and standards. This will me to find myself. ..thank you so much 💓

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

You are so welcome, love! That's such a great point; boosting your self-esteem will have a direct impact on the standards you set. You've got this 💕

[@mermer418]

Your videos are ALWAYS on point. I've learned so much from your videos. I've been on a self improvement journey since college pretty much (now in my mid 30s) and man has it been a journey but an AMAZING journey I will never take for granted. I am the woman I want to be and it's so crazy the different ways people interact with you when you have a silent confidence yet you're personable and nice. Thank you so much for your content. Even though I have learned so much and have come so far, I can always learn more and improve myself and your videos provide great knowledge and new things I never think of. So again...thank YOU!

[@THEBUTTERFLYEXPERIENCE77]

Im unapologetic that no matter how far i get knocked down..i always get back up..no matter how insecure i have been..i get back to believing in myself..and when SHE believes in herself nothing is in her way

[@Amariiiiie]

Thank you so much! I just finally had the courage to cut someone off who wasn’t even meeting my bare minimum standard. I began a journey into healing myself taking note of the fact that I could be so broken as to allow myself to endure that situationship as long as I did. This topic was on my heart, and the video showed up on my feed at the right time. I really needed to hear this. 💓 It was confirmation that I made the right choice for myself.

[@lifewithkahunde]

If I tell you, I needed this as a course unit back in school this is life changing . I really have to share this message with the my special people. Thank you dear 👏🏾👏🏾👌🏾

[@WhirledPublishing]

@17 minutes: Truthful ... peaceful ... kind and helpful ... health-conscious and health-oriented ... My list goes on which is why I'm still single.

[@dawnartrey6001]

Standards raised 😊

[@Msluwcee]

This was packed with jewels!! Damn! It has really got me thinking and realizing a lot. Its a wakeup call to improve myself. Thank you ❤

[@memyselfandiamangel2006]

Thank you!’ I understand better what I need to do for me and set the stage. I have to rewatch this with my pen and journal! ❤✍🏽🧐💡

[@janerubybell]

So much wisdom in one video! It felt soothing and really resonated with me. Thank you for the beautiful message ❤

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

You are so welcome! Glad you enjoyed it, love 💕

[@centiamodisakeng]

Always love your posts which are entirely adaptable and worth consideration-feels like what one may learn from "Finishing School", and then some. Keep them coming-Let us know how we may support the channel. This instalment of breaking down a high caliber/quality woman is top notch. Your Friend from South Africa...

[@olabmar498]

You are brilliant, MashaAllah! Your analogies, insights and breakdowns are just so top notch. This was insightful to say the least. Going back to watch the power of suggestion as I tend to be very direct in all situations and most times my facial expression says it all

[@suziesuzan1581]

Am so much inspired by this statement "don't be impressed by the bare minimum."this would be my slogan.❤❤❤❤.love this

[@nitadavi9547]

This is a beautiful channel. Humble but assertive and sound advice. Ladies of 2023 need this type of content. Keep up the great work!!

[@TheeCheleMarie]

Yes, you are back!!! I was wondering where you were? 🤗💕 Anyways, this is a great topic to touch on and yes, you will have men haggle you down when you know your worth. I had a guy that I was conversing with , talked about going out and he tells me that, he knows I like nice things but why don’t we go somewhere that’s not “too bougie”. Needless to say, he hasn’t heard from me again! 😂

[@yvonnekavithe6247]

I've rewatched this like 4 times per day. Much needed❤️much appreciated

[@sherules5005]

Wow, I feel like I'm at the rooftop now. This advice is magic ✨. Grab it and see your world turning around

[@msdepree7950]

I've got THIS on REPEAT!! 👏🏽👏🏽💯💯❤️❤️

[@meghandavitt1618]

Another fantastic video! These are great reminders and prompts for thought.

[@MandyJRoss]

This was feminine fire 🔥👑💖

[@soposh5671]

I just love it here ❤ This was powerful

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Love having you here! Always appreciate seeing your comments 💕

[@Wellnessdrinkingbuddy]

This NEEDS to be a course for all women! Thank you for creating this Real and much appreciated guide. 🌹🌹

[@supermommy2717]

I needed this video, thank you Queen 🙏🏾 blessings to you all on your journey!

[@kehindechidiebere]

Thank you so much for this video!! Very timely and insightful

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

You're welcome, love! I'm glad it was helpful 😊

[@stephanieoghale1074]

Thank you so much for this very educative and enlightening video. The Universe will consistently reward you for uplifting women.

[@obengjemima6477]

You made me cry with your last step.

[@devildiamond68]

A resounding yassss. Thx for sharing this point ❤🎉

[@browniebrown6992]

This page is amazing!

[@MademoiselleGisela]

Thank you Queen for your content ❤

[@Makeupbykimberlyp]

ALL OF THIS!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 The advice in this video was so good!

[@marleycharlse6614]

I just love this channel spendg a day without hearing from it makes me 😢😢😢

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

More to come, darling!

[@atarahmc8055]

this video was short and sweet! I had to subscribe. I love how you break things down for us. It helped me a lot thank you. Will be coming back for more

[@fatema555]

I just realized that I've been living in a bare minimum bubble...thanks for bursting it

[@michaelaengels7825]

Wow. Really good video. Thank you very much. Good job !

[@jakenyajones7268]

GIRRRRLLLLLL I LOVE THIS AND I LOVE YOU

[@california3173]

I'm a NEW subscriber and I love your channel. Everything what you said make sense. I love how you discuss the important points with such a mellow tone of your voice. It is NOT irritating lol 😂 Thank you so much 😊 more power to you🙏

[@suzanne1529]

Thank you for this! I loved it. Being a part of The Feminine Universe is such a pleasure 💋❤❣

[@breezy30153]

Came across this today and when I say this has blessed me in more ways than one. Thank you for sharing this ! 💕🙌🏽

[@zalbilly7159]

I remembered I requested from this kind of video... thank you for answering me ....let me set my standards Now

[@rizwanabano7261]

Thankyou from Pakistan 🇵🇰 my dear mentor. More respect and power to you

[@gabrieladanailova780]

Теа,много си готина. Напълно чувствам същото като теб,когато съм далече дори и за кратко от семейството си. ❤

[@jackieansic6468]

I love your videos! - they are so helpful for me! Thank you so much x

[@mathehanyane6246]

U HAVE NO IDEA HOW POWERFUL THIS VIDEO IS 😮😮😮

[@sophiabreidfischer6242]

Your voice is always so soothing. Would love your persepctive specifically on cultivating female friendship

[@sonalib1224]

😅lol as a lady under the bridge with missing teeth, I think you hit the nail on the head! Thanks for keeping it real! 💯

[@sharesocialharmonyandreale8361]

EVERYTHING, EVERYTHING, EVERYTHING. I always love the content but this one has changed the game. Implementation plan in the works

[@mcormick41]

So true! 💯 you are the first partaker in anything you want to achieve in life. 1st time here. You have yourself a new subie. Thanks❤

[@QueenAmour8888]

Thank you so much for this lesson. I will definitely apply this into my life❤

[@lakeithasiggers2087]

Heeey girl! This was a much needed healthy video!! Love everything about it ❤❤❤❤

[@Kashmir-lt4cx]

@21:53 and then some! ❤😊

[@Madewithlovebysky]

Thank you for this video! I thoroughly enjoyed.

[@ofulueebube3902]

Thank you soo much. Now I know I'm not ungrateful, I just actually rose my standards😂

[@JULIETNAKANGU-mb5zs]

I love you so much and thank you for always helping us with your valuable lessons 🥰🥰🥰