The Evolution Of Long-Term Intimacy: Wisdom From 23 Years of Marriage | Julie Piatt X Rich Roll

Rich sits down with his wife Julie Piatt to talk about intentionally evolving a long-term relationship and lessons learned through their 23-year partnership. To read more about Julie and peruse the full show notes, go here👉🏾bit.ly/richroll791
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00:00:00 Intro
00:04:28 Transitioning to a New Phase
00:05:35 Recommitting and Redefining Their Commitment
00:10:49 Investing in Ritual and Intentionality
00:12:03 The Beauty of Vulnerability
00:15:24 Discovering New Aspects of Ourselves
00:17:37 Elevating the Way We Interact
00:18:31 The Fear of Intimacy
00:20:50 The Importance of Shadow and Vulnerability
00:23:02 Understanding and Accepting Quirks
00:24:27 Intimacy and Connection
00:25:12 Recommendations for Deepening Intimacy
00:28:18 Facing Challenges in a Relationship
00:30:01 The Future of Their Relationship
00:30:38 Wilco Concert Experience
00:33:49 Crosstown Concourse and SriMu Memphis Opening
00:35:49 The Vision for Crosstown Concourse
00:38:26 The Community at Crosstown Concourse
00:40:27 The Magical Home and Solar Eclipse
00:42:30 Memphis and Its Connection to Egypt
00:44:17 Creative Community in Memphis
00:45:36 Challenges of Moving a Business to Another City
00:48:39 New Products and Expansion Plans
00:52:13 Creating a Vibrational Nourishment Community
00:55:04 Value of Subscribing to Newsletters
00:56:48 Dream of Opening a Shrimp Shack and Music Festival
01:00:37 Tom Shadyac and Memphis Rocks
01:04:54 SriMu's Artisan Neighbors
01:06:43 Celebration of Julie's Achievement
01:07:50 A Special SriMu Offering
01:09:04 Closing Remarks
01:10:00 Credits
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[@Kiwiwanderer]

Joni Mitchell said it best - ‘ If you want endless repetition, see a lot of different people. If you want infinite variety, stay with one.’ What happens when you date is you run all your best moves and tell all your best stories - and, in a way, that routine is a method for falling in love with yourself over and over. You can’t do that with a longtime mate because he knows all that old material. With a long relationship, things die and then are rekindled, and that shared process of rebirth deepens the love. It’s hard work, though, and a lot of people run at the first sign of trouble. You’re with this person, and suddenly you look like an asshole to them or they look like an asshole to you - it’s unpleasant, but if you can get through it, you get closer and you learn a way of loving that’s different from the neurotic love enshrined in movies. It’s warmer and has more padding to it.”

[@aaronpoage597]

In the embrace of love, I found my light, A force that transformed my darkest night. It whispered hope when all seemed lost, And taught me lessons worth the cost. Love, a mirror reflecting my soul, Revealing wounds that needed to be whole. It challenged me to rise above, And showed me the strength of selfless love. Through love's gaze, I saw my flaws, Yet found acceptance without any pause. It nurtured me, encouraged my flight, And illuminated my path with its guiding light. Like a tender seed reaching for the sun, Love helped me grow, my journey begun. It taught me patience, kindness, and grace, And in its warmth, I found my place. With love as my guide, I faced my fears, Embracing growth, shedding silent tears. It sculpted me, shaped my every part, And etched its wisdom into my heart. In love's embrace, I found my truth, A boundless well, an eternal youth. It gave me strength to face my strife, And transformed my journey into life. So here I stand, shaped by love's art, Grateful for its unyielding heart. For in its embrace, I've come to know, The power of love, in helping me grow.

[@shiewhun1772]

20 minutes in. Rich is the interviewer, nominally. But in the way the discussion has unfolded, he's had to confront a lot of his own resistance to experience. He's had to be the one to answer uncomfortable questions. And it's fascinating how his typical traits of being articulate and eloquent are being picked on by Julie as a protective cover on a more sensitive layer. Clearly, there's only so much of their private lives they can reveal on air, but it's fascinating seeing Rich talk about stuff without talking about it.

[@deanebruner2396]

Master class in explaining why you sleep in a tent without providing a direct explanation.

[@Thatveganlifestyle]

Julie episodes are the best. I admire how she expresses herself very much.

[@davidramirez650]

Rich & Julie I may never meet you in person, but I want you guys to know as much as I love my own parents they’ve done so much for me, I consider you two like my KZbin parents. You two are the shining example Of what it means to grow love and give and love each other at the same time. Rich one day I hope I can be a man like yourself, And Julie I hope I can find a strong, spiritual woman like you. I love you both very much. I hope one day we can meet you and your family. Take care. 💛💚☸️☮️✌️🥲

[@petrathornewill1761]

I disagree with the podcasts with his wife are his best. He has such good podcasts that really go deep and have such deep topics. You basically say this in no way comes close to the talks with his wife. No way. Keep going Rich. You are a really good interviewer and you bring very important topics to your table.

[@ssharp8900]

Ah yes....the best episodes are the ones with beautiful Julie Piatt. Thank you both for sharing with us.

[@observer5864]

Rich is maturing like fine wine 🍷

[@TechOutAdam]

I’d say the Julie and Rich episodes are the best ones every time.

[@luzaguirre2830]

i love his monolgues...when someone has enough passion to stand on a soap box & wax lyrical on a subject as eloquently as Rich...now that's my Jam

[@jopalmer4392]

I originally got into the Rich Roll podcast as my husband has addiction issues - with alcohol and cannabis. He's making progress but recovery is not a linear path for sure. The amount of vulnerability Julie is asking from Rich is extremely full on, he's a very special person to be able to take on this level of exposure of his soul and inner being and what a journey he's had in his life from his own dark days of addiction. Julie is no doubt right it is the path to the deepest relationship of all. However, in the reality of daily life it seems like both Rich and Julie are mega busy with their own projects and at times are not in the same geographical location. Of course personal growth and change and rebirth is essential for a meaningful life but for the journey of growth of the relationship itself needs time investment. The thing that Steve and I have found most beneficial for our relationship (we're about the same age as you guys) is quality time together. All day Saturday, sometimes getting up as early as 5am to see the dawn, we'll go hiking in the countryside together - no distractions, just us, nature and quality time. So yeah maybe it's not about developing "a protocol"- my god Steve would freak if I suggested this - but simply walking hand in hand.

[@lukefenwicklifecoach]

I love every episode they create together. Always beautiful, always kind. Always enlightening ❤❤

[@mariannewolf57]

Always appreciate it when Julie is on- she feels like an old wise soul. Thank you both! - Love from Austria

[@m.b3191]

Old? I bet she'll love reading that 😂

[@mariannewolf57]

@@m.b3191 😅I think Julie knows that "old' soul actually is a huge accomplishment.

[@m.b3191]

​@@mariannewolf57Thoughts on the war in the middle east and the massacre of innocent Palestinian civilians and kids?

[@catrionahayes9166]

I was gonna say, I wonder if in addition to the whales Julie feels empathy for the stolen lives and land that the process of settler-colonialism she benefits from has exacted, both in Palestine and here

[@aubreesorteberg5484]

These are the best episodes. Every time...just Rich and Julie being themselves.

[@MaryeDisney]

I agree Rich. I have been happily married for 36 years and my husband and I have raised three successful kids. We are very close but I feel we need to have our own down time after giving everything we have to our partner and children. As empty nesters this is the time to celebrate our dedication and do something for ourselves. It's freedom and you deserve a little space of your own.

[@mariannewolf57]

So right. That space of our own is crucial in a partnership.

[@johannatheone]

I always love when Julie is on.

[@tamic193]

He seems fearful of being judged. I mean right away in the beginning she was already going after him saying oh is they’re a better vocabulary word I should be using? What I heard him say was he wanted to hear more about what she was going to say about him and she comes out swinging. Don’t blame him for staying in his cave is mere simple words evoke that kind of response. Not making it safe for him to reveal himself.

[@rebekah4947]

I agree.

[@FitgirlDancer]

She is a total narcissist. I could only watch a bit because she is so self-important and constantly corrects him, then agrees with his point,, then disagrees, then agrees about the simple point he was making about a relationship transitioning from logistical with children in the house to semi-empty nesters. Any conversation with her would leave somebody absolutely spinning.

[@anabaez21]

She is heavy for lack of a better word. Poor Rich 😮.

[@emmagoldman6616]

Rich is such a brother man to so many of us.

[@claudieharris9046]

Very worthwhile episode. Julie has a lot of love and patience!! I don't mind her talking about her cheese, even though I can't afford it. Her passion makes it interesting to listen. I really don't think the episodes with Julie are the best, although I do love them and I'm glad they appear now and then. The best ones for me are those that offer crucial information on a wide range of topics, help me understand human beings better, and/or guide me to make my own life healthier, richer. happier, more compassionate, etc....

[@catrionahayes9166]

Totally can't afford the cheese 😫 I live houselessly and if I had $48 I would put it toward a new wood stove, and not a wheel of cheese

[@ingridfaro7442]

I love Rich opennes and Julies depth, what a great dance of two beautiful souls.

[@CoolInOlympia]

Thank you for sharing this couple conversation!!!!

[@brookie_cuqui]

There is much less tension than in other conversations between these two, I'm glad to see it and thankful for transparency throughout. I will say though, there are kinder ways to address weak vision in one eye. Anyway, happy for them. Shrimu is very exciting! Happy for this creative offering.

[@annabroad3192]

What a beautiful episode and beautiful couple, thankyou Rich and Julie for celebrating your relationship. You speak to what I believe so many people have been processing within their own relationships over the last 3 years. Thank you for your intimacy. Always look forward to episodes with you both 🙏

[@lunalieben9]

Allowing yourself to be this vulnerable in front of an audience is remarkable and such a gift. You guys are amazing and thank you so much for this episode. It's so rare for people to break out of their patterns of routine and avoidance, and rarer still to recognize it and talk about it.

[@chrisgodwin8473]

I love those hats on her! Such a cool style.

[@TerGillespie]

Thank you for sharing and for both being so vulnerable ❤️

[@slowdownadventures]

I love the first part of this, talking about their relationship, but then it becomes too much of an advertisement show for Shrimu.

[@saturnscrush]

My favorite episodes are the ones with Julie too! I just love watching the evolution of these beautiful souls♥️ Thank you for sharing your journey 🙏🏾

[@juliehsunflower]

hi there. i never say anything on these videos but i wanted to this time… coming from a, i don’t like the word dysfunctional but its accurate. ill say unhealthy, household, this hurt a lot. seeing how healthy relationships can be. I am just starting this journey at 20 after an extremely rough five years. ill be listening to this off and on. i was just downtown at the local coffee shop. the past few months one of the local musicians have been coming for an hour to help me and a few other guys learn guitar. its incredible… i am alone most of the time. i am trying to change that. having to leave the lesson always leaves a crack in me. it sucks. then today the owner of the shop went up to ‘M’, the guitar teacher, and said ‘i’m going to sign my daughter up for private lessons!’ that one stung. he gives away his time for an hour a month because i cannot afford it. it was a hit in the face of what i never had. i am doing my best to get up everyday and get the rock up the hill. its like sisyphus though, everyday its back at the bottom. anyway i apologize for rambling. I needed to get this hurt out today instead of bottling it up. I have learned so much on this channel. i never had anyone to teach me how to cook in a healthy way so i’ve learned all i know from folks like you. so thank you. i hope whoever reads this is having a good day. some of us appreciate a smile more than anything… it can save a life. thanks 🌻

[@cherylgilchrist1647]

😊

[@marywinc]

So inspired with how you are engaging with life. Thank you 😊

[@ShawnaInk]

I agree. I love the sessions where you two meet. Thank you for inviting us into your hearts and lives.

[@zoeshannon9509]

Can’t believe Julie is 61 years of age. She looks no older than 50. Love the style, Julie!

[@rundiluff9811]

Thank you!! I love the Julie and Rich episodes! You guys are truly inspiring. ♥️⚡️

[@muddyshoes4517]

Julie is "comfortable" with the level of intimacy she's asking for bc it is her default by practice. She has tools that she practices daily. This is what she thinks about & probably saturates her thoughts in. It is her way of life. I understand her desire and enthusiasm for this level of intimacy. Also, I hope she relaxes a little on Rich bc he is different than she is in SO many ways. To start, women have 1000x more neuro pathways connecting the logical and emotional parts of the brain. For context, imagine have 1000x more $ in your bank account. Say you start with $500. X 1000 = $500,000. That's next level!!! 😮 Second, if intimacy is what you do for a living & you already excel at it, then you have the neuro pathways developed. And, you know your way around the dark forest of your shadow. This can make you well equipped to guide, and at the same time, well equipped to demand more than someone is capable of at your speed & capacity. Cut him some slack. (THIS is advice for me too.) Compassion isn't just used as a balm to make up for our trespassing. We must see & respect what we see, then tread lightly (preventative). Guiding through vulnerability with compassion & respect for the other person's capacity. Thank you for helping me see this in my own behavior, as you illustrate the instinct to want more than is possible at the moment, and how respect & patience is essential for high quality love

[@luanakiehl1475]

I get what you're saying. I perceive this as a beautiful way the universe brought together two beings supporting mutual expansion. Julie brings exactly that which scares Rich, presenting the portal for him to be able to walk through safely and lovingly within the container of their marriage. :)

[@safahummel9396]

Thank you both for this beautiful interaction 🙏🏻 I love listening to the wisdom coming through Julie’s ❤️ so calm and present 🕊

[@AscendedVitality]

Bless You Julie + Rich... I Appreciate Your Vulnerability + Transparency. I Appreciate Julie's Clarity of Desiring PRESENCE... DEPTH... SURRENDER Into the UnKnown Intimacy of Self + Other + Togetherness. I Appreciate Rich's Honesty + Vulnerability of His Fear to Surrender... I Appreciate Julie's Obvious Depth of Love for You Rich! 🙏🏼💪🏼🖖🏼🕊

[@yeahyeahyeahyeah1111]

Congrats on the accomplishment my guy 🙏🏆 im sure having a wife as beautiful ,stylish and disciplined as yours makes it easier,definitely reigniting my openess to the possibility of having a marriage

[@eleverett77]

I love the openness, sharing, vulnerability and the loving admiration you both have!!! Thank you❤

[@omvilla7469]

I listened... she overwhelms him, he is fearful of her... I smell divorce...🤷‍♂️

[@BitcoinMap]

Often sticking together very close is fear of standing alone and it limits life diversity

[@radessvk4441]

Looking forward to hear this one

[@regjones9519]

Julie thank you for sharing the cinema story - BRILLIANT!!!!!! as it was so honest of you to self reflect that it led you to a different perspective and also -Rich- imo that led to one of your most brilliant shares ever (you had no idea this would be profound!) about cinema OCD and I think secretly coveting the Beckhams ordered wardrobes and kitchens 🙂 What this made me feel is exactly what Julie described -and what I -like you and I bet others- am sometimes afraid of- that people have only liked me because Ive been an imposter and if I dont get the downtime to restore my shine and hide my quirky traits (I like a good square line and it leads to many a disagreement about fitting our new bathroom- I like to sit directly in the middle at the cinema or on the sofa at home- etc etc!!) that I will get caught out- but what you both revealed is actually THOSE are the reasons people love us. Please dont think your need for order or a way of framing the world and feeling safe (or sitting in a chair which helps your vision!) makes you somehow crazy or less than. This made me wake up to that fact that the thing that separates you and those of us who struggle with perfection but are vulnerable is the fact that we can be HONEST about it. Our kids need to see this in us so that they dont automatically define these things as crazy or that crazy or difference- or sitting in a different chair or living in a tent-is wrong.Thats about letting the ego go, something which Julie has talked a lot about over the years. THANKS AGAIN!

[@normaelainewhyte6435]

THISssssssss Absolutely amaaaaaazing! Epic! Thank you so, so, much for this episode. This was a truly amazing experience for me. How absolutely beautiful. I thought that before I was even half-way through. Thank you again for such transparency and beauty. May God continue to bless you both. 🌹❤️🙏🏾

[@barbaramorningstar5173]

Recently came across your podcast platform while searching some of Steven Pressfield's work. Have been revisiting the beautiful and historic series of interviews with Bill Moyers and Joseph Campbell on the power of myth and the hero's journey. In one of the segments Campbell speaks of the sanctity of marriage and the deeper invitation at play. Might be a special series of conversations for you both to watch at this pivotal time in your life journey together. Many thanks for your work.

[@georgejensen]

I listen to Rich Roll regularly. 48 minutes into this segment I got the feeling all the previous minutes led up to an ad-sell oppty for Julie to talk about her product line.

[@cathiecaccia427]

I always love when Julie is a guest. Such illuminating conversations. I love how you describe Memphis focusing on looking forward not back. The vertical village sounds fabulous. I want to bring to your attention Memphis Rox Climbing gym and community. Also VERY community minded and forward thinking.

[@SungYooQuietude]

I have so much I want to express and so little words that can describe it accurately. Wow. Thank you.

[@zenveg]

Been together with wife even longer and every day is misery and longing for change but change is very very hard. You both are truly blessed.

[@antoinettecurran7683]

Guys this is a beautiful vulnerable honest conversation ❤ what a celebration of Life & 💕 all credit!

[@kbfam3825]

Beautiful on so many levels. So grateful for your example.

[@malcolmlarri8236]

I love Rich's face when Julie talks about things like presence ....he's desperately searching for an instruction ha ha

[@Narasmethod]

This is amazing! I would love to one day film an episode with my husband. It is harder than you guys make it look 🙌🏼

[@rasam4076]

A gorgeous couple, warm wishes to both. Julie's live sessions are amazing as well, love them ❤

[@garycambridge2578]

this is merely based on what you folks have shared. You both feed each other. Both compliment each other entrepreneurially and spiritually. Always enjoy hearing her take on things 🙏🏾 Strong work & continued success.

[@snezzy3082]

Rich, and Julie, probably have an immense amount of stress to ascend being a human, morally, especially in front of an audience. Flaws will leak through and we as listeners have to accept that and choose love. I love what you do rich, thank you for changing my life, showing me the light. I hope you do what feels right for you and keep pushing!

[@Julia-kv2po]

Love the hat and the real deep talk. Beautiful.

[@paulasalladay2722]

Love when Julie comes on the podcast. She has a strong pesence and seems confident /comfortable where she is in life.

[@noornoornoor23]

Episodes with Julie are definitely interesting and an important part of the RRP. And I hope they continue till eternity. Speaking of 'best' or 'favourite' episodes, I personally love those episodes the most which make me feel emotionally elevated, whether by the depth of emotions in the guest's sharing of their stories or by the abundant, important information I learn from some guests. Where these 2 aspects are combined, wow, those are total treats. Some of my favourite episodes from the recent ones, in no particular order, - Steph Catudal - Brad Stulberg - Pete Holmes - Lesley Paterson - Zoe Lister-Jones - Peter Attia (his vulnerability in opening up about his struggles was very inspirational) - Cory Booker (his vulnerability in sharing how he failed some people in his life was very impactful) Some of my favourites from all time, not just recent, in no particular order, - Tommy Rivs (heard recently only after listening to Steph's episode) - Mel Robbins's 1st appearance (though I don't like her current content on other platforms, including her own) - Sacha Gervasi and Anvil cast - Matthew Walker - Max Fisher - Whitney Cummings - Tom Bilyeu (though I can't tolerate any other content of his, including his own platform :)) ) - Billie Eilish mom (though I have never heard a single song of Billie yet :P ) - Cal Newport - David Goggins - Terry Crews - Andrew Huberman both episodes - Lori Gottlieb - Susan David - Mike Posner - Paul Conti - I am really sad I can't recollect/find her name but the runner whose father died in the Vietnam war The episode, or rather the guest, that I absolutely hated, - Joe De Sena (the guy who made Christmas gifts some sort of a challenge-to-win for his kids, along with other terrible parenting practices) People I would love to see on RRP. Well there are many and honestly I love being surprised by new people I come across here on RRP, but 2 people form the top of my mind, - Elizabeth Gilbert (she has great depth though is often misunderstood. her eloquence and RR's interviewing skills, gosh... will be 1 of the best days of my life if this ever happens :D ) - ME :)) To be clear I am just an ordinary person going through my struggles, but often during the worst I motivate myself by telling myself that, "haa, one day I will share all this on the RRP when I have become someone worthy enough of being on his show

[@susanconnelly1692]

OMG Rich! Crazy coincidence. I’m a huge Wilco fan and have seen them 9 times. All on the East Coast except this last time in Santa Barbara where we were celebrating my son’s 27th birthday! They are awesome. I was pumped the minute I saw you had their t-shirt on.

[@mcrisantasj8242]

❤ Thank you so much for this very special and most beautiful, touching podcast I've ever heard! So brave, admirable and inspiring of the two of you to share with us your vulnerability, your stories, your undoubtedly love for each other, your intimate thoughts, etc. I learned a lot from you. God bless. 🤗 Do you ship Julie's products to Canada?

[@sambrown1779]

The beginning of the podcast was amazing. I laughed, I cried...it was beautiful. Then it descended into an infomercial for her businesses. Unfortunate. I stopped watching. Love your work Rich. Always will. But this missed the mark ✌️❤️

[@rebekah4947]

I stopped before that. This is the first podcast I've heard with both of them together. I found her rather condescending in a way that spiritual people tend to come off. I don't think anyone needs to open themselves that deeply (as she asks). We can be vulnerable, yet we still have parts of us that are not permeable. I felt somewhat sad for Rich in this one. I hope they can work through things, but not on his highly successful podcasts.

[@catherinezeigst]

I saw the title and thought "23 years, well done!" Then I remembered it'll be 23 years for me and hubs in December.🤦‍♀️ I admire how you both have separate projects and seemingly different sensibilities and use these to grow as individuals and as a couple.

[@Vince-um5nq]

Rich-Julie episodes are my favourite

[@johannatheone]

Same

[@ann-katrinsechtem8493]

Lovely episode ❤

[@garyssimo]

A close friend and his wife both retired and were home together a lot recently and Randy got annoyed by her constant over management and mothering for lack of better term. He moved out for a month or two to sort things out and moved back home. Too much time together after both working full time I can imagine the stress from the change. Im coming for you would get me a bit defensive too! Forgive her for a poor use of words. I think she enjoys tweaking Rich's emotions to get a reaction....good or bad. What if neither of you could do better thsn each other? I try to be 100% transparent and honest with everybody....all the time! try it for a day...then a week ...then a month. There are gifts from this. You will never go back.

[@ishitamalik8638]

Rich loves her so much

[@michellejulene3125]

I love your hat! You go girl!

[@AngelaKirbyonbeingyou]

Love you two❤thank you for being real and raw Ohhhhh to try Sri Mu here in Australia

[@Portugalian]

Hi Julie! I love when she's on.

[@claudiafegari5116]

7:43 >> "In order to move through [because] there is no way out; there is only through. And in order to move through, we have to be willing to burn or transmute that entire relationship of those unspoken agreements or expectations or projections of each other have been, of what we’ve been to each other in order to make room to something new. "

[@aliciameloniejones4677]

Opening with that sales of freakin cheese. Im turned off big time. 13th box free, wow what a gift 😅

[@simini1837]

Haven't listened to the full episode yet but find it very interesting as I am 46 myself and my husband 53. Recognise the transition part. It's not only kids flying away, also menopause and guys also experience hormonal changes.

[@aaron-dm2bw]

27:43 is the new flex - working thru the adversity and staying together, Principle of Perseverance (step 10). At 30:21 to Julie, some woman too, will say no to that. To Rich, I'm going thru the alternative...the family afterward isn't always together but still a family.

[@normaelainewhyte6435]

I am breathless at 30.55-57. O my goodness. I love this. Mercy! ❤️

[@FWood-br6nq]

Thank you❤️You guys make me want to believe ❤️

[@hannevieira1952]

It’s not what you say, it is How you say it. So yes, I can see that “ I am coming for you “ sounds like a thread. Perhaps she could consider saying instead ” I am with you. “

[@dameanvil]

00:13 🔄 Julie and Rich are in a pivotal moment of transformation in their 23-year marriage, redefining their relationship and committing to deeper intimacy. 03:31 🗣 They discuss the challenges of parenting and the need to balance logistical aspects of family life with nurturing their relationship. 07:56 🔥 They acknowledge the importance of confronting unspoken expectations and projections in order to create space for new growth in their relationship. 13:32 💑 Julie expresses a desire for deeper presence and understanding between them, wanting to be known at a more profound level. 15:44 🎨 They both embrace the opportunity for a fresh start, viewing it as a blank canvas with endless possibilities for their relationship. 19:20 💬 Rich acknowledges his resistance to fully exposing his vulnerabilities, fearing it may be met with rejection or judgment. 21:22 👀 An incident at the movies highlights the importance of understanding each other's unique perspectives and experiences in the relationship. 23:52 🤝 Rich shares a personal quirk related to his vision and explains how it influences certain decisions he makes. 24:20 🗣 Julie emphasizes that openness and vulnerability in a relationship lead to deeper intimacy and connection. 25:08 📚 Julie recommends having the desire for deeper intimacy as the first step, and suggests exploring resources like books and practices to help navigate this journey. 26:32 🤝 Julie and Rich have strong communication skills, and they find they don't necessarily need a third-party facilitator or therapist in their relationship. 27:50 🔄 Julie highlights the importance of recommitting to and redefining a relationship, recognizing that transformation is a pivotal aspect of any stage of life. 29:50 💞 Julie expresses her deep love for Rich and theimportance of going deeply into each other to uncover what's next in their relationship. 35:47 🏢 Julie talks about Cross Town Concourse in Memphis, a place of creativity and innovation that holds personal significance for her. 40:03 🏠 Julie describes a house in Memphis that she rented, which brought back nostalgic memories of her youth spent in a similar architectural setting in Alaska. 44:32 🎬 Rich shares his encounter with filmmaker Craig Brewer, who has a creative office in the same building as Julie's flagship cafe in Memphis, highlighting the vibrant artistic community in the area. 47:53 🧀 Julie Piatt and Rich Roll discuss the challenges they faced in getting their cheese product, Shu, certified for sale. 48:20 🧀 Shu is praised for its stability and quality, making it widely available in Los Angeles. 48:49 🧀 Julie Piatt mentions upcoming products, including a butter and a dessert called "mlay cake" made with cacao, cayenne, cinnamon, and date. 49:41 🧀 Rich Roll asks about the process of introducing new products, and Julie emphasizes the importance of measured growth to maintain brand identity. 51:29 🧀 Julie mentions a mozzarella product that stands out and hints at potential future expansion or unique products. 52:35 🧀 Julie explains why she moved her operation to Memphis, emphasizing the benefits of cost and ease of operation. 53:31 🧀 Julie expresses her desire to foster subscriptions for Shu, emphasizing the importance of community and shared values. 55:08 🧀 Rich Roll discusses the value of newsletters that provide meaningful content beyond just sales and discounts. 56:16 🧀 Julie shares her vision of opening a Shu Shack in Loten, Norway, to promote awareness about whales and offer a plant-based alternative. 57:35 🧀 Julie talks about her inspiration from the Arctic Circle and her plan to host a Shu music festival with a unique mobile stage. 01:06:16 🧀 Rich commends Julie's growth and impact, recognizing her unique frequency and wisdom in the world.

[@anon_ya]

❤

[@AmbrosiaK]

cool breakdown, thanks :)

[@susanfabrican2244]

As he crosses his arms…

[@elliefeelslight5918]

Love Julie and Rich.❤❤

[@Kiwiwanderer]

I LOVE ❤ this couple. I want to marry them both.

[@Mookiethedog]

I'm pro hat, anti suit jacket! Haha....love these two humans!

[@sheeva3.0]

I love this unconditional love

[@malcolmlarri8236]

coolest couple on the planet !

[@aquie4d999]

Reaaaally good 🎉❤

[@PKedu1984]

Sir and ma'am you are fashinating GOD bless you both.

[@radessvk4441]

Thanks

[@saraalarid1265]

The majority of this is just her promoting her vegan cheese business. I was hoping it would stay on topic of evolving their intimacy in their long term relationship like the title states.. 😅

[@kerendg]

I bought the ‘yankee hotel foxtrot’ record(vinyl obviously) :) loved this session. #wilco

[@Tarawater18]

Great couple ❤

[@user-bk8gz4ku3w]

I really love you two :heart:

[@joanneprero2491]

Julie~ your skin is so beautifully radiant ❤ Could you share your skin regiment/ products.

[@sk8oasis788]

Yes this please so glowly and gorgeous ❤🎉

[@macy9123]

Why is it working, the HAT !! LOL Everyones different, being single is fun, and gives you adventure

[@BitcoinMap]

Travelling alone I made the most intense experiences, grouping up limited contacts made drastically

[@myronschabe]

Btw, in order for a relationship to last it is hightly advisable to sleep in separate quarters....because if you sleep( as in slumber) in the same place the polarity lessens and you become too similar for it to be a 'juicy'. So separate bedrooms is very wise. I think what is being discussed here is what is present when ego(as in the mechanical activity of 'I) is not...even to know that in the context of 'yourself'...that is the best game going. I think Rick is struggling with an inaccurate sense of identification...identifying himself as the ego/I and not the vastness of being.... Courageous conversation!!!!!

[@ambergendron8167]

GOTTA be a water sign and fire sign marriage lol!

[@laurafahey542]

Live her hat

[@stopdragginaround]

When i am julies age i expect i will have an amazing collection of hats

[@orsimillafogarasi4005]

Julie might be the first one ever to tame an avoidant and show them the light of intimacy. I mean that with love towards both of these amazing souls. 😊

[@ejt8573]

My best friend did that to me…hella avoidant … key is, empathy, asking, respect for oneself, choosing to love me…crazy magic

[@kinolima235]

❣️💫🌍 Have a nice day ✨️ Love ✨️ Love 🌎☀️❣️

[@ag34393]

why was half of this a plug for cheese?

[@IndigoWisdom1]

🙌🏽 ❤❤❤

[@wakefulwitch]

Listening for the 3rd time because the first time I heard an amazing Quote I want to write down by Rich and I'm trying to find it! If you know which excerpt I'm referring to, pls comment it!

[@wakefulwitch]

"a relationship is never static. You're either moving towards each other or away from each other"-rich