The FASTEST Way to Heal Fearful Avoidant Attachment

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

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[@r_and_a]

i realized what *i* feel as "insecurity" is essentially the flip side of "not trusting" particularly in the relationship with my DA partler which is understandably how they took it so i started working practicing trusting them whenever my anxious side got triggered & i felt insecure (largely thanks to pds providing context that helped me understand how my DA *does* take me into consideration & actually is congruent) i still have plenty of work to do, especially with self trust, but it honestly amazes me how much personal development i've experienced since discovering pds (& my counselor wholeheartedly agrees, lol) there's a saying that's helped me with trust both in my relationship & self - birds don't relax while resting on branches because they trust it won't break but because they trust the strength of their wings to save them if it does 💜

[@Shemayisrael968]

This was an incredible video! I love how Thais breaks everything down step by step. It really helps visualize what’s going on in my head and how to overcome some of these recurring behaviors within myself. I’m definitely saving this video for future reference. I can’t thank you enough, Thais, and Personal Development School, for your mission and vision. This video was a total mic drop, and all I can do is give a standing ovation from the comments section.🙌👏✊😁

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

It’s wonderful to hear how much value you’ve found in the video. Breaking things down step by step truly makes understanding and personal growth more manageable.💜

[@Calicokitty2]

This is such a great video! Such a good explanation of why I don't trust people and for sure not myself. I've gone from AP to FA and am approaching secure. But I still have real issues with trust, so thank you for this.

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

Thank you! Congratulations on the progress you’ve made toward becoming more secure. Trust can take time, but you’re moving in the right direction.💜

[@sifublack192]

Wow, so it all comes down to trust... Didn't realize that; incredible perspective! I can now understand why FAs exhibit some of the behaviors they do.

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

Gaining a deeper understanding of trust really can shed light on attachment behaviours. Glad the video offered new insights for you.

[@SummitMan165]

Excellent vidéo! Thanks for sharing with us !

[@handleName73]

Does the same apply for the individuals with FA as secondary attachment? If not, what would be the equivalently fast healing process for them?

[@sudhanshuvyas]

I'm only through 6 minutes of the video, but I think this is the most useful one for me to understand my avoidant ex. It explains a lot, excluding my lack of communication skills which I'm trying to correct by my ex's recommendation to learn NVC. Though my ex warned me about their avoidant style, I observed signs of security from my ex and assumed my ex was fully recovered from their past trauma. Thank you for this lesson.

[@lisalyons5381]

I’ve learned from your channel that I am a FA I don’t see how a course can fix my self trust and the want / desire to trust others I semi trust in friendships but romantic relationships I run from and co create situationships / limbo stuff with men who usually are also an anxious or something else and when one of us leaves or ghosts the other moves on. But it is a very bitter way of living and deep down I don’t like what I’m doing and who I’m attracting.

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

Hi Lisa! There is a course in PDS called "Overcome Jealousy and Heal Trust Wounds." It covers healing trust with others, healing self-trust and overcoming jealousy through core wound healing. If you search it on the dashboard you will see it. It can be so hard to feel like that and it is definitely something possible to release

[@lisalyons5381]

@I will check it thank you. Feel like I need an exorcism lol. I jus t found out my mom is still lying about the 529 for my kids and her name on it taking the profits plus I found out my half brother died of an overdose in 2021 and I didn’t know until almost 2022. I found out on thanksgiving. These are the tip of iceberg. I knew my parents withheld and lied and abused in my childhood. And it’s incredible it hasn’t stopped. Im heartbroken and it’s very difficult to explain these deep wounds to anyone.

[@handleName73]

I watched already so many times this video

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

This is an excellent question. Exploring how trust-building applies to different attachment styles can definitely be insightful.

[@handleName73]

@@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Thanks a lot for answering me :) still wondering though if the "trick" and "source of healing" is the same for these two or whether the root lies a bit further away...

[@SpicyOatmilk]

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[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

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