The game you didn't know you were playing

The metaphors we use to understand the world dramatically affects our experiences. Many people see life as a 'battle,' or a difficult 'test,' which assumes life is something we must endure. But there's a key shift you can make that can transform your life.
The topic for this video was inspired by Dr. Jonathan Chu's wonderful video on viewing life as an open world video game. It can be found on his channel Engine which can be found here (although his video is very different from mine): • Your Life Is An Open W...
CHAPTERS
00:00 - Every era has its own metaphor for looking at life
00:57 - The shift: a different way of looking at life
01:43 - Perspective: A brief look at Rick and Morty
05:01 - Myth 1: Why conventional "wisdom" is wrong
05:33 - The story of Joe Simpson and Simon Yates
11:11 - Myth 2: What conventional “wisdom” gets wrong
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[@DiceDecides]

Imagine if when we die we don't go to hell or heaven but we can take off the VR headset

[@ModernIntuitionist]

Cheers to the great mystery, Dicedecides!

[@SaleemRanaAuthor]

That was what I thought after I took off my first VR headset many years ago after enjoying a virtual parachute jump from a helicopter over luscious green hills under a deep blue sky. I thought what if my reality in this living room is just a VR game, too.

[@ikedacripps]

That's what actually happens when you die. You'd take off the headset i.e you'd leave your body and wouldn't wish to get back in it.

[@josipstrugar1]

That's a cool thought I also had! But where do we wake up to? I mean, in a sense it's impossible to not question the reality then. From one dream to the next, infinitely

[@hercolorfulmind]

@@josipstrugar1Which is why we should strive to enjoy it and grow from it!

[@streptomyces]

My perspective is a little different. With this video, you’re suggesting that people might begin to improve their situations by changing their outlook on life, by viewing life more as a game rather than take life so seriously. I actually think your most valuable piece of advice is a different message within your video. Whether one views life as a game or some other way, people who are looking to improve their situations ultimately need to take action. Having a certain mindset, whatever that may be, is not enough. Your video provides the key action item that everybody can follow and that has worked for countless people: take small concrete steps everyday. Don’t think too big, because the end goal is probably too overwhelming. Instead, take small steps and build momentum. Ultimately, all those small steps combine to create large progress. For example, Joe Simpson told himself, “let me just get to the next rock.” Then when he reached that rock, he told himself, “okay, I made it here. Now let me get to that next rock over there.” In other words, he took small, concrete steps which added up to a large success (saving his own life) in the end. But the key is all those small, very specific and achievable steps he took. Taking small, concrete steps on a regular basis is what helped me overcome low points in my life too, and I know others who have done the same. It really works. Thus, I really want to highlight this part of your video. You’ve given people a major tool they can use to improve their situations, whatever difficulties they may be facing right now. I hope people will recognize the significance of this message and apply it to their own lives. Don’t think too big; that’s too overwhelming. Just take small, concrete steps everyday.

[@ModernIntuitionist]

Wonderfully said, Streptomyces! I appreciate you highlighting that, as I agree it's critically important. And if that's the only thing people take away from the video, that would be fantastic. However, I also believe the combination of BOTH mindsets and action has an even greater impact and is especially powerful i.e., the choice to approach life with a sense of play increases resilience/grit and helps to take those small concrete steps everyday. For instance, Francesca Gino's book "Sidetracked" goes into some research on how children do better in school when it's treated like a game. Navy Seal James Waters talks about how their training has a greater than 90% drop-out rate, but those who can frame their experience as a game were most likely to pass and become SEALs. I suppose a more materialist explanation would be that our brains evolved to select for those who like to create and play games because it does a lot of things: helps with visualization, helps anticipate possible future outcomes, and is a way for people to reward themselves in the absence of clear rewards in their environment. The mind seems naturally drawn to play. I always try to find a way to make things fun in the work I do, and in my experience it rings true that play increases resilience/persistence in the face of obstacles. I thought about including this research in the video, but in the end left it out because I felt it would make the video too long. In any case, I always love reading your insights, and I truly appreciate your ongoing support. Big love, my friend.

[@adrianoss.bougas3720]

Thank you both… If I have failed for the last 10 years to improve my disgusting life…what makes it probable that it will change now?

[@misha4392]

@@adrianoss.bougas3720It’s over only when you give up. Take small steps to improve your life. I think you should think positive. I have experienced terrible life for 5-7 years and yet I managed to find a way. Just never give up. Die trying, but never give up.

[@denise1176]

@@adrianoss.bougas3720 You have the headset on. Realize that and start playing the game…

[@TheStudiolight]

Love this discussion. Very thought provoking videos and comments. I would like to join. What if you are wrong? Wrong about life. What if life is not a game. What if it is only lived once? The idea in this video reminds me about CTMU the theory of everything, where reality is experiencing itself. I have a problem with that as i see a problem, similar to the reincarnation theory of a well known religion. What is the use of it if I, the exponent of reality do not remember it. I’m either just an empirical data gatherer or not part of the reality. Reality would be god or a similar universal entity. On return into that reality I become one with it, thus loosing my personality. We also talking about control. Can we really control anything? We are so dependent on a multitude of factors. It is hard to have actual control. Don’t want to sound negative :) Right now I adhere to the idea that life is just worth living as is. Let go of control and desires. Just experience it in an awaken state.

[@angierox6964]

Excellent! This is exactly what I needed today. I have a huge challenge. I have been procrastinating and overthinking. Today it becomes a game, and I will win! Thank you! Thank you!

[@ModernIntuitionist]

Thanks so much Angie! May you continue to follow your bliss

[@aaaverage]

I think we all have a big challange, they may not be as big at yours but they're still challanges either way

[@jasonbrownjourno]

​@@aaaveragepretty sure Angie was sharing her own experience, not speaking for anyone else? But yes, life itself - in all it's complexity - is a big challenge, for anyone. Less so if we imagine advice like this as a way to help overcome those complexities, seems to be the message here?

[@Tadeu8575]

Same here

[@marcusdekker]

In relation to procrastination (I am an expert); read "atomic habits" by James Clear. Start the Wim Hof Method. Become a shaolin warrior/monk (Shaolin Temple Europe). Then GO!!

[@johnpedersen3458]

My favorite interpretation thus far is from Scott Adams. He suggests that he doesn't know if we are in a simulation or not. However, he finds that believing it is helps greatly to navigate in life, and credits this to his success. Interesting, imo

[@JonathanChuMD]

Whoa, really wasn't expecting my video to be featured when I clicked, thanks so much for the shout out Elson! You really did an amazing job expanding on the concept and adding in lots of relevant life lessons! All your videos are really beautifully produced, but I must say that I think this one has some of the most actionable advice and lessons woven into it, and is super valuable. It seems to be a pattern that older souls seem to go through more unusual tribulations in life, almost like the universe assigns a higher challenge level to lightworkers and "more advanced players" so to speak, so I think that these lessons will really resonate with those going through tough times and trials, finding meaning in their suffering. Sometimes this world can be extremely harsh, and I think there can be a strong temptation to think of this world as a type of soul prison of some type. However, I definitely do agree that the challenges are here for character building and spiritual development. Without trials and adversity, many qualities such as heroism, courage, perseverance, patience, compassion, would have no meaning. I believe that Yogananda was once asked why God allows the world to be such a dysfunctional place with so much corruption and evil, and he said that it is God's will for humanity create Heaven on Earth through our own efforts, with Him guiding us, because if He just snapped his fingers and did it entirely for us, humanity would have no chance for growth or learning. I also really like how you refer to this life as a "collaborative game," as I think we are here to work together to create a better world, and also develop ourselves during the journey. Also I had to laugh a little when you referenced Rick and Morty. I actually watched that clip a few years ago and it was one of the inspirations for my video, and I think it's so funny and interesting that we were influenced by the same media. After watching that clip, I came to the conclusion that I really didn't want to spend my entire life playing it safe, but it was only a couple more years later that I actually gathered the courage to take action. Keep up the beautiful work Elson.

[@HowardPritchartt]

I am a devout agnostic. At the tender age of 18 I lost one of my best childhood friends. It was at that point I gave serious thought about the afterlife. Years later i went on a spritual quest doing my own research beginning with the book written by Dr. Raymond Moody who did a lot of research on patients that had been clinically dead and resusitated using defibulators on near death expereinces. I still do this research done by only qualified professionals. I highly suggest to use modern these tools many of which are available on youtube. Reincarnation is real proven by translife regression hypnosis. I may be wrong but check it out for yourself. Our creator is the universe itself not some old man with a beard and a penis. 'Nuff said!

[@revanamarie7210]

I think Humanity is getting an Upgrade ... Health Harmony Peace and Love to All the Beautiful Souls of Creation. Thank you to ALL the Beautiful Souls sharing Creation with me!!!

[@carbon18]

My youngest daughter loved Rick and Morty, seen every episode more than once. Some of the conversations I've had with her growing up where "what if's" about the possibility that you could enter a simulation where entire lifetime's could be experienced in a moment and each time you finished, it changed you to the core depending on your abilities to surrender to the lessons it had to offer. I would ask her to imagine how much several of these simulations each day for an entire year might change her. She couldn't imagine meeting such a person much less becoming what might result from all those lifetimes. I don't remember her mentioning the Rick and Morty episode that mirrored that conversation, I'll have to revisit that with her now that she's an adult.

[@ModernIntuitionist]

Thank you, Jonathan for inspiring this work, and for always taking the time to share your wonderful insights. Beautifully said, I believe the act of creating anything, taking something that exists only in your mind and bringing it into the world, is a divine act. May you continue creating as well, I look forward to more of your future work!

[@the_Success_Experiments]

This is my GIFT to you and anyone reading this.. These suggestions have made me the person I am today. So take one or two or all of them and transform yourself to a super being. Thank me later. I personally did and do everything listed below and I got massive results. 1. Write out a statement of your Short Term Goal AND your Chief Aim/Main Goal... on a "goal card" or paper. 2. Write it out 50 times a day for 30 days preferably around the same time each day. After the 30 days, you go back and write it out ONCE a day. This is your compass in life. 3. Set your phone alarm to go off every 3 hours (to disrupt your daily routine) and when it goes off write down your statement and then close your eyes and see yourself with your goal for 2 mins. 4. Record your statement in your voice on a voice recorder on your phone, and play it back to yourself on loop while you sleep and as often as you can daily, example... in the shower or when you are using the rest room. 5. Find an accountability partner. If you cannot find someone, then you MUST write out your statement DAILY. By doing this you make yourself accountable to YOURSELF. 6. Find a community or FB group/group chat, etc and from that community form a Mastermind with one or two people who have studied from REAL Mentors and are giving VALUE. There is a "Law of Giving" and many people are using it. Andrew Carnegie told Napoleon Hill this back in the early 1900s. Its a LAW and it works. Its what I am doing with this post. 7. Auto-Suggest (Think and Grow Rich Chapter 4) to yourself in front of the mirror in the bathroom at least twice a day. Look directly INTO your eyes OR one eye and recite your WRITTEN statement. Then splash cold water on your face. This sudden shock seals the thought into the subconscious due to emotional and physical shock from the cold water. 8. Write out ten "I AM" statements a day. example. I AM happy, I AM more confident. Use the word MORE; implying you already have it, but want more. You trick the brain. 9. Write out 5 things you HAVE that you are grateful for and 5 things that you are grateful for that are coming to you. Mix up the list one after the other. 10. When in public tell people you see that you love them in your mind. Simply say "I LOVE YOU" to them as you pass them, especially when driving, because their subconscious hears and FEELS the intention. Say it to about 10 to 15 people daily. This increases your Good Karma. It might seem like a lot. But it took me less than two weeks to incorporate the list into my life and 32 days later I started getting massive results. What have you got to lose, try some or ALL and see your results. Let me know know too. Have a great day... and thanks for reading.

[@user-lj4xs4gn8u]

Wow! Thank YOU.

[@mindpoacher4732]

Great video!!! I have gotten to the point where it's all about self.....that nothing is outside of me. when ever I'm in a challenge or I seem stuck I ask myself to show me the truth...I always get my answer. I call it referencing and by making it a habit my fear level plummets . One of my favorite sayings is 'There's nothing to fear only to be understood " So when fear is crawling all over me I get by my self and ask what is this fear showing me...trying to teach me. That's not to say sometimes I forget I'm creating this whole thing but when I remember I'm doing this I ask where's my lesson and when I see it I can move on. I'm completely unable to phantom going thru life without what I call self referencing

[@ModernIntuitionist]

Thank you for sharing your really wonderful mindset, and what you call self-referencing. Beautifully said Mindpoacher, I love that!

[@bryck7853]

somehow though if you were in a medieval dungeon for twenty years that would be someone's game too.

[@jasonbrownjourno]

For those translating from English :) "I'm completely unable to *fathom going thru life without what I call self referencing" In this context, fathom = understand I'm guessing good old autocorrect gave us phantom instead of fathom, might have been a voice-to-text slip-up.

[@aaronlyall1973]

I often think of this episode of Rick and Morty. Thank you for the reminder of how it went in the episode. I think yes, we are playing our own version of “Roy”. I think this is what Shakespeare meant when he said “all the world is a stage”.

[@darrensurff8554]

I cannot find that episode anyone know what season 😢😢😢

[@ReflectionsofChristianMadman]

@@darrensurff8554 Season 2, Episode 2: “Mortynight Run”

[@edwardramirez8589]

@@darrensurff8554Season 2, Episode 2.

[@themisfitowl2595]

@@darrensurff8554 It was early on in the show's history. I wanna say episode... okay one sec... _quickly Googling_ Ah it's called Mortynight Run and it's Season 2 Episode 2. Same episode has the Jerry Daycare and the space cloud named "Fart" singing _"Goodbye Moonmen"_ It's a great episode!

[@aaronlyall1973]

@@darrensurff8554 The episode is called “mortynight run” season 2, episode 2

[@s.a.8652]

This rallied my spirit in a direction I didn't expect. I went from sad and hateful to light and optimistic. I can't wait for tomorrow.

[@Control-Alt-Delete619]

It's already tomorrow, so has your game changed for better or worse???❓❓❓

[@danncarr08]

I recently injured myself and I'm currently struggling.This video came out exactly when I needed to see its message, thank you.

[@ModernIntuitionist]

I'm wishing you a full and complete recovery, Dann. Looking back at my own times when I was injured, they were really challenging times, but they also forced me to reflect on the things that were happening in my life, and made me appreciative of the things I still had and could still do. Healing a physical injury helps heal the soul as well. Take good care, my friend

[@rmschindler144]

wishing you all the best, brother . my heart goes out to you

[@Goldifarms]

Same here. I’m in recovery and came across this video. Sending you healing energy and love

[@sylviasomaduroff4472]

See what I mean... better than you think

[@jasonbrownjourno]

Feel ya bud, year and a half into recovery from a double-concussion. Still something of a struggle, but I'm much better at it now lol Counselling really helped - how to observe one's own emotions, as they happen, accept them, and allowing a moment to decide whether to go with that emotion, or, knowing how painful that always is, divert energy towards a moment more of calm, then problem solving. Hard to do when the pain - and there's always mental pain with the physical - is your new 24/7 housemate. I suffered constant nausea for over a year, for example, because the head knocks knocked me into a state of constant anxiety and psych help helped me see I was literally worrying myself sick. If professional counselling not an option, eg in the US, there are dozens of back-to-work services including non-profits. Talk to as many as possible about what you're going through. If nothing else, you get to hear your own voice, outside your head, and helps process things. As we get better at our own story, so we get better in our minds, then our body? Something like that ! Sorry to ramble on; you look young, hale and hearty, so you've got that going for you, which is nice. All bests !

[@hiddenname9809]

I was just talking about it the other day. Life is a game, supposed to be taken lightly and enjoyed. And yet, we take it all too seriously. No matter what we do, we will all log-off (die). It's like we are playing a video game. We enjoy it, but as we continue playing, we become invested in it, forgetting that it is just a game. We are invested in the "coins, energies and other rewards" in the game. But it doesn't change the fact that it is still just a game.

[@TheKent2288]

Nicely put. Just like a game, we don't own anything from the game once we log off. Our soul/consciousness is and will always be the only thing we own in "true" life.

[@scotternst7803]

Thank you for this video! I randomly stumbled across it and found that I really needed it. I have been extremely down lately after facing rejection after rejection trying to find meaningful and rewarding employment after losing my job many months ago. I have seriously considered giving up on my dreams, of taking the easy way out as a beaten, downtrodden man in a minimum wage position, even if it meant losing my house, my possessions, everything. You have given me a renewed vigor to keep going after what I know I can succeed at even if right now no one else seems to know it. Eventually I will convince someone I am still worth employing! I just need to get back to taking one step at a time toward my goal....

[@ModernIntuitionist]

You are an inspiration, Scott. You're going to make it, my friend. Big love to you and yours as you proceed towards your goals and dreams.

[@lesleyM84]

scott, right there with ya! me personally, i am realizing that most places just aren’t interested apparently, in hiring a 60 year old🧐🤨🤓; so i rummaging thru AARP’s site for better resources! a baby step! i hope good things are streaming your way! We will blaze on☺️✨💫✨💫☺️

[@mabrifravdv]

Great video! Thank you! 2 years ago, just before my 60th birthday, I adopted that view point, that my life's a game. After many years of suffering, I now enjoy life more than ever. One of my birthday presents was a book that has been written more than a century ago called "The Game of Life and how to play it" by Florence Scovel Shinn. I wish everybody a life full of play and authenticity. Enjoy 💙🦋🐬

[@shebasan13]

That book changed my life!!!!

[@Krewfan1773]

Added to my library. Thanks.

[@dalesco4205]

Within the first few minutes of the video, I thought of Tetris. It's the only video game I play and I often used to wonder why, since I get angry and frustrated if I don't get the pieces I want. Why do I keep getting back to it if it can make me feel so miserable? Well, solving problems is indeed a lot of fun. Beyond fun, there can even be an urge, a craving for it found within. Yet I enjoy it most when there is some sort of harmony and balance in how the problem-solving unfolds. It's weird but in those moments, it feels like I develop a sense of intuition regarding the pieces that come next. Sometimes I pretty much just have to ask for those I need to see them come. I even had to look up how the code to randomly select the pieces works, as on some occasions it feels like it's reading my mind. Tetris is a great life teacher. It reflects the attitude you have towards your own life and it can help you improve it.

[@ModernIntuitionist]

That's a really beautiful description, Dalesco. I haven't played Tetris or any other video-game in years, but back when I did, I've experienced the same thing you describe: the sense of intuiting or willing the next piece to come when I need it. Also beautifully said. I completely agree that games are great life teachers and help with visualizing possible future outcomes, strategy, intuition, etc. and they're just inherently fun and played for their own sake. I always enjoy reading your insights, and I appreciate you, my friend!

[@kamichan127]

I absolutely love Tetris and the problem solving has even helped me solve real life problems by distracting me for a bit and letting me get a few wins before I get back to my own irl problem

[@victorn5870]

Its a game if you dont have to worry about survival

[@skl5532]

You didn’t understand anything 😅the point is: you can “worry” but it won’t even matter in the end

[@timothyblazer1749]

So, play it like Rust. :-)

[@Skate_lift_hunt]

Yeah dude it’s a SURVIVAL game 😊😉

[@MrSzeth]

The best games are played in survival mode.

[@caomunistadoggo4129]

pov: I'm the one that only play minecraft in survival mode

[@GMK888]

Every single video on this channel is a masterpiece! The way you put things together and tie ideas to movies and shows is just amazing! The way you narrate and your tone are perfect! Thank you for such a wonderful thought-provoking channel!

[@ModernIntuitionist]

Wow, that really touched my heart. Thank you!

[@waybackvideos6566]

I found out life was a game. As a black person who lived in the U.S...its was a shitty experience at first until I decided to live off the grid outside america. Best idea I ever took action on.

[@user-lj4xs4gn8u]

You’re so brave! Good for you.

[@user-lj4xs4gn8u]

Sorry about the shitty part. Impressed you overcame.

[@stratovation1474]

Good move

[@stop_lying_bro]

Tell me about it. Where’d you go and where were you in the US? I grew up in North Florida.

[@createa.googleaccount713]

Did you move to Africa?

[@lilsalooohy]

By far one of best and relatable video for a my point of view for life. You did a great job in braking down and putting this video together and relying your thoughts to the viewer!

[@JettyJet15]

Loved the video, you remind me of Einzelganger a youtuber here as well, that talks about philosophy and life in general. for the commenters here you should understand that "Life is a game" is subjective, and the one making this video only shows the "possibility or what if's of having life as a game" in the end, it's totally up to you whether you accept this or incorporate this type of mindset, but for me it really depends Everything is arbitrary. Life is unpredictable and we make a lot of things or try to explain it in a number of ways like to stage tournament contest, a struggle, etc. but the endpoint there is really it's uncertain. The certainty of uncertainty. keep up the good work looking forward to more videos from you. You are already part of my official list of the best KZbinrs.

[@ModernIntuitionist]

That's high praise! Thanks so much, Jetty! I appreciate you

[@rainydays8248]

This video hits close to home as I very much relate to the being dropped in many sink or swim situations. In survival situations, your brain becomes hyper-focused on getting from point A to B, and everything else becomes secondary priority. The question of whether something is difficult, painful, or whatever emotional responses you have that isn't helpful will be pushed away and restricted, because there's simply no energy or time for them And once you've overcome a situation where the odds were grossly stacked against you, the scary and uncomfortable things don't seem to phrase you anymore.

[@Magmon]

Agreed! And you can see further……

[@zhongshanzou2814]

After working on a film all night, half asleep, I have no idea why I ended up watching this video, or why it appeared on my screen. But I truly wish you all the best, and this is a really good one.🙏 have some fun with your game✌

[@heaven7360]

I think it would be hard for me to play a game with my life's challenges right now. Maybe I'm of a generation not plugged into this solution.

[@zhongshanzou2814]

@@heaven7360 This is definitely not the brightest moment in my life as well, I don't know what you've experienced, but I wish you all the best 🙏🙏🙏and there should be a silver lining.

[@SanndraB]

you have no idea how much I wish I could just go for a coffee with you and talk about all of that with someone I can actually talk to and who "gets it"!! Thank you for that video🙏💚

[@ModernIntuitionist]

You are so welcome, Sanndra. Thank you for being so wonderful and for being such a source of warmth and kindness in the comments. I appreciate you, my friend!

[@SanndraB]

🙏💚@@ModernIntuitionist

[@TaniaMeira8]

Yes, this is a smart approach to life, agreed. At the same time, unlike a video game, life is not voluntary, not our choice, and not safe. It reminds me more of gladiator games in Ancient Rome. Gladiators participated in games that they neither chose nor enjoyed. They were imprisoned in their 'games', just like the human condition. What do you think? I have a sort of protest against being "thrown" into a life on the terms I did not choose, with the contract I did not sign. I know, playing well looks like the only answer, but maybe I want more access to "control keys"? Maybe one can find decoding while being alive, insight into the reality behind the game?

[@JCashEngraving]

Wow. I don’t normally comment on videos, I just watch and absorb. But this concept is one I can embrace. Great job!

[@ZUTHINA]

I can't describe how this video has made me feel, I have this fuzzy feeling in both my head and heart as if there is a gate opened in my mind. Thank you for making this video, it take the weight off me on how I think my current challenges.

[@roel3377]

I learned from my ADHD therapy to try 'Game-ification' for studying, simple tasks, harder tasks, building habits etc.... And surprisingly, this worked. I don't have my life figured out yet. But I believe, that if I try 'playing' life as intense as I can, I can just finally achieve goals that I want to achieve. Instead of leaving them, or waste to much time with thinking about them. It's a different and great way of motivation. I think it should be learned as a skill at schools.

[@kornelia1084]

Thank you! (from a fellow ADHDer)

[@Angelaangelat]

This was exquisite. Can’t wait for the follow up, and I’m excited to check out your other videos. Thank you so much!

[@marybellastellar]

WOW!!!🤩 This message touches me so deeply, specially with all that I am going through right now!!! Listening to this today has inspired me to look at things from a different and much lighter and playful perspective. BEAUTIFUL 🥰

[@purpurina5663]

This relates to the Heraclitus phrase "Character is destiny". My mother used to say it and I didn't really understand... and now as I get older I see more and more how true it is, because life responds to what you give it. It also reminded me of my grandfather. An exceptionally wise man who instilled in us the idea of absurdity -not in a depressing, existencial way, but in the way that gives you perspective and lessens all loads. Just laugh, laugh even at the worst things, even at death (yes, it takes some dark humor). You'll see most human things are ultimately absurd. Nothing is that serious. This has helped me tremendously through hard times. ETA: I was discussing "Touching the Void" with someone just as this video was released. Wow!!

[@hardstylelife5749]

Great quote !

[@ModernIntuitionist]

Beautifully said, Purpurina! Thank you for taking the time to share that. Your grandmother and mother are inspiring and remarkable people, and what a gift is to be able have their perspective. Big love to you and yours, my friend! PS. I also experience many synchronicities from wonderful people in the comments like yourself! Thank you

[@stephenwalsh3643]

I love this quote. It reminds me of "Sow an act, and you reap a habit; sow a habit, and you reap a character; sow a character, and you reap a destiny". Ralph Waldo Emerson.

[@mckennasweda3614]

To me, character is destiny for as long as Destiny wants you to play that character. We are observers of our part played upon the stage but the cosmic script is us

[@ekindemirkaya465]

Hey, I'm not religious but it reminds me what prophet of islam says when a follower asked him why are we trying so hard on life if everything is already written in our destiny? Muhammad answered; you have to make effort because whatever is in your destiny is eased by your nature (character).

[@tiffanybeta]

This reminds me of the Undone series. She kept time-travelling to fix her present, but in the end she went back to where she started. Sorry about that spoiler, but it's still totally worth watching both seasons.

[@troysolomon7747]

So glad to see someone else has seen this amazing show!

[@tiffanybeta]

@@troysolomon7747 I spent SO MUCH time, trying to convince my fav ppl in life to watch it. I love that you seem to have enjoyed it as much as me.

[@tiffanybeta]

@@troysolomon7747 I love that you seem to have enjoyed it as much as I did! Once I FINALLY got my siblings to watch, they both enjoyed it so much, but its hard getting other people into a new show

[@jonathangogi]

your method of documenting and filming is high quality, thank you for sharing your work

[@ChrisMarrin]

That was a beautiful video, message but also the editing and your voice over. It found me on the right moment. Thank you for creating this. Looking forward to 'the video on the left side of the screen'

[@daphnent-b1240]

Thanks! This video came at a great time. I am currently overseas visiting my parents' homeland for the second time in 30 years and it has been a challenging experience, so this message has helped me to reconsider these challenges as adventures in a game and lessons that I can evolve from. Really looking forward to your next video around strategies for living life like a game. All the best until next time 😊

[@ModernIntuitionist]

That's so wonderful Daphne! May you create many wonderful memories on your adventure, and find deeper connections to your family history and homeland. Have an incredible time, my friend

[@daphnent-b1240]

@@ModernIntuitionist Thank you 😊

[@joeanthony2885]

I just wanna say that I love the way you narrate, the tone in which you say it, and the content is so amazing! Thank you.

[@aifan6148]

I like the narrator of this video. So soothing and smooth. I have been under a lot of pressure lately, to the point of complete debilitation. but thanks to your video, I feel a bit relieved. 🥰Thank you! 🥰

[@sebelzahntigerkind3923]

This video was thoroughly enjoyable, thank you for putting it together, also with the gentle voiceover on such extreme situation events... kinda shifts ones' perspective indeed. You won yourself a new subscriber, keep up the good work!

[@ModernIntuitionist]

Thanks so much! I appreciate you

[@kevink8372]

Clicking like on all your replies to us viewers was part of my game this morning. Is pleasant to see genuine engagement. Overwhelming as it is sure to get, try not to lose that.

[@ModernIntuitionist]

Thank you, Kevin! That means a lot to me, as I truly value and appreciate you and everyone who takes the time to watch and engage with what I'm doing. May you continue to follow your bliss, my friend

[@danfortier9312]

This is the first video of yours I have seen and it was awesome! I truly appreciate the time and effort you put into this. Really powerful content that I will be coming back to again and again. 🙂

[@hanaezra9452]

Same here 😊

[@ModernIntuitionist]

Thanks so much for watching and supporting my work, Dan and Hanaezra!

[@PulpParadise]

I was about to watch this video yesterday, but I read the notes first. I decided to watch the original video that led you to creating this one. I enjoyed the original video, but today I am watching your video. I'm less than half way through it and I can honestly say that I like your version significantly more than the original inspiration. You got a new sub! Thanks for the video!

[@hemmel777]

I started gaming my life a few years ago. I am now "speed running" it. My income has grown to 6 figures and will double this year. The plan is to retire in 18 months. I just started working 6 months ago. I'm a doctor btw and buying other practices. I grew up in a trailor park. Some people are straight up NPCs. When I lose something, instead of looking forever, I just resolve it despawned and will respawn when i come back.

[@silvertree3181]

Your video echoes my sentiments/experiences. My sons are at this very crossroads. I have forwarded this video to them. Always good value sir. I always appreciate your content. ❤blessings

[@ModernIntuitionist]

Crossroads are always a challenging and exciting time, and they are blessed to have a wonderful and thoughtful mother to help them through it. Big love and hugs to you and your sons, Silvertree! I know they'll do great. I'm so grateful for your ongoing support, my friend

[@pedrocampinopt]

Brilliant concept, brilliantly presented. Thank you. I'm looking forward for the next video...

[@JR-gh8lp]

This is exactly what I needed today... Subscribed and liked after this first video. EXCELLENT and THANK YOU.

[@makethingshappen8427]

This is really well edited, we can tell you put effort into this and it shows!

[@sparklesandsmog]

i resolved my extreme anxiety about going out after covid by telling myself each person i had chance encounter with, carried potential easter egg - that would get me off this level of game/life - and to the next one, but I had to interact with them to find it. this practice taught me to be present with people more and the gift of active listening.

[@BodyMindChoice]

H.O.W (Honesty, Open-minded, Willingness)... Be true to you!

[@kenmacallister]

That was one of the best and most inspiring videos I have ever seen on this platform.Shared it with a bunch of friends and family. I hope this gets many millions of views.

[@ModernIntuitionist]

Wow, thanks so much, Ken! I appreciate you

[@themisfitowl2595]

I have often seen people commenting on a video going "OMG this video changed my life!" and while sometimes I would be happy that someone took something positive from a video, other times I would just roll my eyes. However... I genuinely believe this video WILL change lives. It has a powerful message, yet is delivered in an easy, conversational manner that doesn't bash you over the head. It's very relaxed, calming and supportive, exactly like a good game tutorial would be. I hope we can all take something positive from this video, and enjoy the game everyone. I look forward to playing with you! 😊

[@ModernIntuitionist]

Wow, what an extraordinarily kind comment, it really warmed my heart and made my day! My best to you and yours as you navigate your own game

[@themisfitowl2595]

@@ModernIntuitionist The same to you friend! I have to say this was the first video of yours I'd seen, and I really enjoy your videos now, especially your look at Black Swan and shadow work. I think it is safe to say your work is very influential in the best most positive way. I look forward to more!

[@IAmNumber49]

My take is that, Life has no meaning. It is just a blank platform. What life is will depend on ourselves. How we navigate life, what we make it to be, until we take our last breath.

[@anemonana428]

My God guides my knife

[@stevemurphy4263]

Really insightful, it’s like wearing a different set of glasses to view your life and experience it differently

[@kevinmichael4829]

The truth though we REALLY are living a dream. As a theologian I’ve found the most common denominator of all religions and philosophies is the agreement that there is an afterlife. Yes, they disagree on the details and definitions but, the truth is we know that an afterlife exists. The truth that I’ve found is at the crossroads of science and spirituality. They have all discovered energy or spirit never dies. Once you fully remember this truth, that we are in fact immortal souls living a human existence, you will awaken. Remember my friends, we most certainly decided to experience this exact existence and with excitement. See you all again on the other side. Have fun!

[@ronaldokun]

That was by far one of the most insightful videos I've watched. I was somewhat familiar with the concept but the references and delivery struck me in a totally different way. The Alan Watts was a gold one! I'll restart my current level now. Thank you!

[@ModernIntuitionist]

I appreciate you, Ronald! Thanks so much

[@luna7207]

I always looks forward to your uploads. They're top tier.

[@ModernIntuitionist]

Thanks for always being here, Luna! Big love

[@amarug]

Omg. How ... is this ... I'm lost for words... brilliant! This will change everything.

[@myfamiliar795]

The great book Barking up the wrong tree from like a decade ago talks about the Joe Simpson thing and how he turned it into a game.

[@markp3594]

I told my Dad several yrs ago - “Life is one long problem solving exercise, the better you get at solving problems - the better your life will be.” He laughed & said not a bad insight kid!

[@Oldman_nomad]

I needed this. Thank you brother for making it and thank you universe for putting it in my path.

[@ModernIntuitionist]

You're so welcome, Lost nomad. Peace, power, and love to you as you follow your bliss, my friend

[@celestekalil517]

This is beautiful. You deserve a million views!

[@ModernIntuitionist]

I'm grateful for every person who views this, and I'm grateful for you Celeste. I appreciate you!

[@ARdave311]

Man your videos… there amazing!!! Not only is the msg incredible but the visuals, my god! Thank you for these videos I feel like you pick my brain. I watch them over and over and over and can’t wait for the next!

[@ModernIntuitionist]

Thanks so much, Dave!

[@damianzelazny5785]

Great material. Once, when I was shattered into pieces, wise friend told me this: "There are things that you can and you cannot control, there is no point worrying about things you cannot control"

[@cathm5472]

Wow, universe timing amaze me. Yesterday, I was writing how I feel stuck and lost.....I wrote 2 pages to get my feelings out and today universe answer me with this video. I never thought to see life as a game. Merci! 💜

[@ModernIntuitionist]

You're so welcome, Cath! De rien, and big love! I appreciate you

[@na-vn5jx]

Beautifully devine timed piece 😍😍❤❤🤗🤗 thank you Elson! The joy of play and co-creating is wonderful! You are a legendary soul to remind us all! Sending lots of good vibes to you and you all! ^-^ ☺☺❤❤😊😊🤗🤗

[@ModernIntuitionist]

Wow, thanks so much, my friend. I'm so grateful to have support from legendary souls like yourself, and it really warms my heart. Big love to you and yours

[@na-vn5jx]

@@ModernIntuitionist A pleasure and a privilage to be able to support you my friend! ^-^ ☺☺🤗🤗😊😊❤❤Lots of love always being sent to you and yours! ^-^ 🤗🤗❤❤😊😊☺☺

[@rajantandan2614]

Thanks You! You don't know at present how much helpful it was for me. I really needed it. Keep making more valuable content

[@abdulbasitdalvi3963]

I really really loved the examples you used: like the Tetris game providing adequate challenges. I've become your fan from this single video. How you explain things is beautiful ❤️.

[@raidarsheri]

Your videos are like a good coincidence, always aligned with whatever I am going through and they give me perspective 😊. Good job 👏🏾 🏔

[@ModernIntuitionist]

That really warmed my heart to read. Thank you, Raider Sheri!

[@myrnavides4640]

Your videos a unbelievable!!! They touch me so deeply. Thank you ❤

[@ModernIntuitionist]

That really warms my heart, Myrna. Thank you so much! Big love to you, my friend

[@TakeMeToYourLida]

I’ve toyed with the idea life is a game and it helps me get into a flow state and be more effective. When you mentioned resorting to patterns during and after a traumatic event, and it made me think of their relation between childhood trauma and autism, and how patterns are a coping mechanism. Great video. Subscribing 👍🏼

[@happiness7808]

Thank you for this video, I love the insights! I’ve already begun taking small and steady steps to improve my life, I’ll incorporate the mindset shift as well, I can already feel the burden of life lighten up a little as I consider it!

[@JamesHawkeYouTube]

The world is a circus. I'm no longer buying tickets.

[@alexandrebeaudry8377]

So you are going to perform? Circus is so sexy and amazing.

[@Abrpatel]

Beautiful! Life is an infinite game. I'm personally drawn to table top role playing games for years now, as they're in many ways an analogy of what life is but also what life can be if you strengthen, practice and unlock your imagination of all the possibilities, colors and dimensions life could be and also who you could be in those situations. Life is a game, just not a finite one.

[@ModernIntuitionist]

I remember playing "Settlers of Catan" back in the day. You can tell so much about someone from how they play a game like that. Some will take it so seriously, you wonder if they're even enjoying the game. Others have a light and playful approach. Both types of players can be extremely skilled. So I completely agree it's a fascinating analogy for life. Thank you for always watching, I appreciate you my friend! I look forward to your next video productions on your channel.

[@thegaspatthegateway]

This is literally how I've taken to understanding life-through the lens of a homebrew TTRPG system I've been fiddling with for years. Top takeways for me in shifting to this perspective are, like at any table, have a good trusting relationship with the MC (even if it's Game Masterless or a solo one, know thyself). Once you have that foundation, you can trust boundaries and safety tools to be respected-which (perhaps counterintuitively to some) empowers you to play to your fullest, free from fear or shame

[@Neceros]

You are describing how sages and enlightened people have been telling us reality works. Love it.

[@emilya8314]

Yes! I've been doing this since 2019 as a result of learning to practice mindfulness and learning about game design & computer programming. It's been incredible. That "next right move" step has also been key. I think of the Shel Silverstein poem Melinda Mae, of the tiny girl who ate a giant whale. I love the way you've articulated this.

[@hlt23h23]

Masterful! As usual ❤

[@ModernIntuitionist]

Thanks so much, my friend! Big love as always

[@merryfergie]

Wow! beautiful storytelling. I love to play with life & I enjoy dreaming the life I play

[@ModernIntuitionist]

Thanks so much, Merry Fergie! Keep shining bright, my friend

[@reddrunners]

Absolutely amazing video! Thank you so much for the time and dedication you put into your content. Your hard work certainly doesn't go unnoticed.

[@ano4400]

Your video comes just in time for me. At the age of 30, single and struggling, not really certain of what future holds, I realize that I have more chances and blessings that I can count. Thanks!

[@eliasst8024]

Less than 1min and iam already feeling like this is the vídeo I was looking for.

[@LisaCulton]

Thank you! Uncoincidentally, I was just discussing this with someone a few days ago, wondering why people often say things like "life is suffering". Really, it can be so great if you only look at it in a different way. Another synchronicity: I've had a copy of "Deep Survival" for years, but I haven't read it... Until now. 👍🏽

[@LisaCulton]

@@Moralatheist101 You're not right. You're completely wrong.

[@ModernIntuitionist]

Wow, that's an amazing synchronicity! So great to hear from you Lisa! I hope you're well my friend. Big love to you and yours

[@LisaCulton]

@@ModernIntuitionist Everything is fantastic! It's all just one big game. 😃

[@veiledsiren]

I absolutely love this perspective. I'm going to embrace this as often as possible.

[@tjlegs6621]

When you master the skill of lucid dreaming, you can live any life you want all within the dream. Took me 8 months to master this skill. It's alot of fun. There's often a downside to this in that you can wake up from the dream missing the people and pets you created in the dream. It's a strange byproduct of lucid dreaming because you know you are dreaming and you know it's not real. But still, it's alot of fun.

[@user-lj4xs4gn8u]

How wonderful!

[@GlenWorton]

How did you learn?

[@MSHNKTRL]

If Life is a game, my build is somewhat lacking

[@user-lj4xs4gn8u]

😊

[@ibanezgirl4623]

I have a few questions (maybe some can relate): 1) What if you don’t like anything about the open-world game? Or you don’t see a point in playing it? After all, there are no goals. You have to make them up yourself. 2) I’m the type of person who gets overwhelmed when there are too many options. Probably due to my ADHD. I get decision paralysis. If I go to a restaurant with too many menu options, I walk out. If there are too many options in life, I end up doing nothing. Hence why I’m stuck in life. I have no idea what to do with my time, as the bulk of it is spent eating and sleeping and other mundane tasks, which drain all my energy. The few hours left aren’t enough to do anything worthwhile, so not worth starting. I also have a hard time enjoying things. Always have since I was a kid. Overwhelmed by all the sensory stuff, so don’t enjoy vacations even. Too busy trying to protect myself from sensory overload, so spend much of my time locked away. 3) How can you ever really enjoy anything knowing that it’s not really important, as well as the fact that it will inevitably end? Nothing worse than having the fun cut short. I’d rather never love than to have loved and lost. I’d rather be oblivious to it all. These things we call emotions are too much, and have actually caused me more harm than good. I have a chronic illness that I probably acquired from chronic emotional stress. I guess with being highly sensitive, the only way to survive is to be numb.

[@weaviejeebies]

I have ADHD too and found the ideas in the video did not resonate with me at all. We tend to have a very hard set of experiences that neurotypicals won't understand. I also suffered extreme abuse (as in hospitalization and nearly fatal more than once) and emotional neglect as a child. I was trafficked for, shall we say, certain types of behaviors children shouldn't see or know, and I wasn't allowed to choose. I think that despite the rationalizations given here that adults running about telling one another to treat it like a game introduces a risk of profoundly trivializing the kinds of experiences that others are keeping hidden just under the surface. Like any fad, I can see people being in-grouped and out-grouped by how 'playfully' they present to one another. Big successes could become proof (more than they are already) of some kind of philosophical rank. One thing I know is that you can't look at others and judge them, because there are kinds of suffering that most people couldn't even imagine happening every day and everywhere. So, I don't want to hear that I'm wallowing in negativity when I could or should be gamifying it. It's called PTSD and it's not a conscious thing for me. Don't tell me I need to view it all as "this is good for my growth and resilience." Growth? Or growing old because we stopped 'playing'? Excuse me, but I was 80 years old inside before I was 10. Resilient? I survived. I've got nothing to prove to anyone on that score. And along the way, no one in better circumstances lifted a finger. No one gave me justice, compassion, or assistance. I have had to work like a dog for where I am in life, and keeping a job is no picnic when you have ADHD. So, this concept to me is a pretty glib oversimplification of adversity, and tailored to neurotypicals who weren't born into situations that tried to crush them in infancy. Yes, the survival story of the two climbers is uplifting and extraordinary, and I can see how surviving that changed their outlook. I have had second chance euphoria at times but it's not permanent and I don't think it should be. I also want to point out that they went on that climb by their own choice. They were in control until the instant of the accident, and afterwards, no one challenged their personal decisions in that situation, they only had their inner critic to answer to. Believe me when I say adversity hits a lot differently when you are powerless, and it's one thing to survive a very bad few hours, days, or a week. When your entire life has been spent climbing out of disability, poverty, hunger, abuse, or systemic oppression, "treat it like it's a game" is the epitome of trite and privileged. I'm sure your average 12 year old child bride or factory laborer would agree with me, if they were able to read this. Tl;Dr the WASP vibe of this concept is not my jam.

[@user-lj4xs4gn8u]

God bless you in your struggles and very interesting observations.

[@chiron1st]

​@@weaviejeebies My thoughts exactly. Life is not a game but more of a prison. It's a prison where you get to spend a few pleasures every once in a while to make up for extended periods of boredom. The only time it reminds me of a game is when I meet NPCs or is exposed to NPC media.

[@eternal7346]

Games have painless reset options. There are challenges that are designed to make resets much harder, but resets are always an option in any great game. Playing YOLO style in popular games like Zelda BOTW etc would suck for all but the most masochistic hardcore gamers, and even then, someone who lost the YOLO challenge would surely want the option to try again painlessly.

[@Hustlah-]

This was an amazing perspective for life which I've thought of before but in a more vague and dark maybe kind of mechanical way. I like your perspective more and intend to start reminding myself to play this game as much as a can. Great content!!!

[@alleskoco5174]

this is such an motivating, inspiring and absolutely awesome created video. Hands down, i love it. Thank you so much for this!!!

[@user-lj4xs4gn8u]

Do you have any videos for people obsessed with comfort? I do not like games.

[@bradjenkins1199]

That would be a good video.

[@scientistwithanaxe2570]

The problem here is that a lot of us growing up with our own videogames would realize that when there was no way we could complete the level with the poor health/mana/weapons we had, we would just kill ourselves and start over at the previous checkpoint. It provably doesn't work that way IRL

[@user-lj4xs4gn8u]

No. This planet is a very unfair harsh reality. God bless you, and me.

[@difchiyan]

In the real game, you simply choose a timeline, there is always a timeline that you have the most badass weapon and best health

[@lisawhite2935]

Thank you!! Loved this!! Can’t wait for your next!! Off to play until then!!❤⛰️

[@ModernIntuitionist]

Thanks so much, Lisa! Have fun and keep shining bright, my friend. I appreciate you

[@safulgence]

Super impressed with your videos! Thank you for the work you put into them.

[@juliekovich-recordingartist]

I love this. Thanks! At 9:45 there is a quote that is similar to a song I wrote "Stronger" about accepting what we can't control and doing our best.

[@Disappears-in-light-mode]

You did a phenomenal job with this video. Generally I don’t subscribe to faceless channels. But count me in, that was a perspective that I’ve been needing to bring back into view and it was beautifully orchestrated. Thank you.

[@ModernIntuitionist]

I'm so grateful for your support. Thank you!

[@mizaelenciel]

For some reason, this video is so relieving... I've been facing several problems... And then... I just feel I need to cross the river calmly to see what lies on the other shore.

[@seanbeukman9563]

Great stuff and well explained. Thank you very much! It is significant intensely for me right now as a 57 year old. Awesome. I often think about this in a different way in that whether you choose it or not, you WILL find yourself in a situation that you chose, which challenges you to confront deeply ingrained patterns of behaviour or attitudes that will not go away. They keep resurfacing, those same issues. This, I believe is how we evolve to the next stage of evolution. Our children will inherit this growth and then face challenges of their own. It is most importantly the experiences that hurt a lot that will teach us the MOST. That is why we cannot avoid them, because our destiny is to improve. And that very specific nature of our issue is our cross to bear. We live and learn. Wow! I have learned so much. Enough said. Thank you again.

[@ModernIntuitionist]

Thanks for sharing your hard-earned wisdom and experience, Sean! I appreciate you

[@milahu]

taste. its a matter of taste, aka personality type. some people see life as a game of patience, they seek security, stability, monotony, linearity. some people see life as a game of luck, they seek freedom, dynamics, variation, chaos.

[@Semerjian]

Buddy, your videos are the best to apply those messages in life! Thanks again

[@ModernIntuitionist]

That is so gratifying to read, Semerjian. Thanks so much, I appreciate you, my friend!

[@Semerjian]

@@ModernIntuitionist do you have an Instagram profile? What’s your name?

[@DJvvAZZ]

Thank you.. this was exactly the video I needed to watch. One step at a time.

[@jedics1]

This refelects my own experience, our minds have a cache or a limited amount they can keep in immediate memory, some have more than others but regardless you have to work with what you have. By taking on one problem or a part of the problem at a time I was able to build an entire house by myself with zero experience. When things overwhelmed me I would stop and go do something else to relax and gradually think of other ways to solve the problem under no pressure or anxiety. Eventually I got everything a home needs to be comfortable working perfectly over a few years by myself....If your determined and create the conditions to let your mind work for you rather than against you, you can achieve more than you might think.

[@bahmdiggity9577]

Excellent video. Going to go watch some of your older stuff now.

[@tooltrader2009]

I have been doing this for a while now. I work in a machine shop (the gameboard) and play the game of manufacturing everyday. The game requires employing strategies (choices) to fabricate metal parts that are precise, on budget and on time without loss of time or material. I have also realized that we are playing multiple games all the time which can be divided for explanation into 3 parts or subsets of the larger game of life. They are health, wealth and relationships. It seems to me the purpose of life is to learn to make choices because it's all we do. It's like this: Choice > effect. choice> effect, choice> effect and so on and on until your life come to an end.

[@rachelw222]

Your videos are always worth the wait Elson! ✨

[@ModernIntuitionist]

Thanks so much, Rachel! Your comment really warmed my heart to read.

[@coolbreeze5683]

Thanks for another great video! I love this topic and enjoyed the Rick and Morty example 😂 This reminds me of the movie "Life is Beautiful" when the father and son are in a concentration camp during WW2 and the father decides to turn it into a game in order to shield his son from the horrible things happening around them. It's up to us how we want to perceive what happens in our lives and to see that all of the experiences, painful and pleasurable, are what makes it all worth it. 🏔 It's why our souls come to Earth. If we didn't want the challenge of playing this game, we'd stay in the spirit realm with our 1 giant tetris block 😂

[@ModernIntuitionist]

'Life is Beautiful' is a wonderful and heartbreaking film, thanks for reminding me of it. And what you wrote is beautifully said. Amor fati. May we all find a way to accept all the different types of tetris blocks we come across. Big love to you and yours, Coolbreeze. As always I'm grateful for your continued support

[@sarayusarayu832]

First time watching your channel. Thank you for this content. It’s so refreshing in these modern times.