THE INEVITABLE PATH TO ALONENESS

[@liseraphina2421]

I have longed to be a lone wolf from when I can first remember. I recall when my mom first dropped me off at a small daycare facility. The entire time, (maybe two hours), I was there I hated it! Clear as day, decades later I remember the feeling of not liking being in a group of people. I never went back and to this day I loathe being in groups of people.

[@randominsights1012]

Once I finally got past seeking validation from a woman (in a romantic relationship) and learned that I was OK, I was well on my way to Lone Wolfdom. This happened 7 years ago at age 54. Life is so much better now.

[@mkroach59]

I've been a lone wolf since my 20's, I'm 65 now. I realize these next years will be the best time of my life ! TY for sharing your videos.

[@nataliebaker918]

You are so right with all if this. I never considered myself a lone wolf. Came from a big family, married into an even bigger family. Divorced after 25 years of marriage. The full life turned empty over night. I learned a lot about myself and cut out many friends and family that were toxic. By choice, I have only a few close friends (that have been in my life 25-40 years). My work, now, is my primary regular social outlet. I have had to do some major adjusting. I love my alone time and I love my social time too. So the balance is good 👍

[@mattwalsh7051]

As a lone wolf, I believe the concept that "nothingness" is something in it's own right....

[@websurfer5772]

I think it's normal for us to also ruminate, resent, and regret. Like there's nothing wrong with that. This is a dualistic experience. Some of those 'r' words help you define your boundaries and learn to not care so much what others think of you.

[@r.o.b.480]

Time alone=time with God

[@websurfer5772]

That's what Sister Wendy (PBS art nun) used to say. She said other people would look at her as weird when she'd say it and she was a nun! She's on YT and the web by the way. I find this concept very inspirational on a spiritual level.

[@brandonnelson-ey5mt]

Fuck God

[@basminnee1866]

i always was on my own... with my LEGO... my music... my drawings... i never got birthdays... christmas... i liked the presents... but i didnt get it at times... i wnet to the movies by myself... swimming... hiking... riding a bike...

[@satsitter]

Keep your health, wolves. Good practices will keep us from needing assistance as we get older

[@sailormike]

Hello Fraya!! Great video, plus the last one too. As much as like my space and alone time there are moments that I do miss company plus the extra set of hands that is helpful for some jobs. Need a balance.

[@frayamortensen]

of course that's totally normal to miss company! You're human!

[@jonathanhunt371]

God your face expressions make me laugh. Love it. Lots of personality. The passion is obvious, well done you

[@Armored_Saint]

When the wolf is loose in the city, well the city will fight to survive. You can hide in the streets of the city but no one will care. No one will know you're alive. You've got Time to Burn. ~ Dio (1986)

[@websurfer5772]

Dio!!!!!!!!!! 🎸

[@WakeUp-p6h]

Good video again! ;) 👍🏻

[@markshishnia520]

Great one Fraya! Your embracing the being of a lone wolf has always given me such affirmation and confidence in my own aloneness. Really enjoying the awesome energy in your videos!!

[@Chuv777]

I've been ready my whole life.❤

[@jamesgrosrenaudjr812]

Good with being alone at home but I struggle with being alone in public . Like seeing a movie or dinning .

[@MichaelSmitZA]

Love your videos. They resonate so much.

[@Freddy78909]

This was an uplifting and inspiring video. Thank you

[@JournalsOfACakeArtist]

Here, I'm here now. I love it though

[@npginnyg]

Omgosh thank you!

[@philwyatt2176]

Thanks 👏

[@XAirForcedotcom]

Howling! : )

[@XAirForcedotcom]

No friends, no contact with my family, and no partner. Yes, it could be lonely sometimes, but it also has advantages

[@XAirForcedotcom]

I left home at 18 and I might’ve been back a dozen times but that hasn’t even happened in over a decade and I don’t plan it happening ever again

[@XAirForcedotcom]

I also retired at 40. Bye-bye all the people that I used to work with and don’t give a damn about : )

[@XAirForcedotcom]

Unless someone on the Internet says something to include my brother that showed up on blue sky so I deleted my account, there are no arguments anymore. I ran for president and had both political parties cheat. My own brother told me that would not surprise anyone, and so who cared. Lol. I was like what? Now you can see why I don’t hang around my family anymore

[@XAirForcedotcom]

How many of your family members chose Biden over you? Lol

[@pureconcept-q7p]

i needed this again. thank you so much, fraya. we're perfect. you're dazzling and i love you so much in my way. i forgot to say goodmorning.. so goodmorning, precious.

[@frayamortensen]

I'm so glad to hear it resonated with you - we are all perfect in our own unique way. 🙏

[@pureconcept-q7p]

@@frayamortensen we're resonators. that's exactly it. you're very good at it.

[@Max.Wiggins]

Bravissima!

[@ASacredClown]

I love your alone wolf videos, do you have plans on creating more content sharing your Middle Path mindset.

[@frayamortensen]

Hey Dennis, everything I talk about always speaks to this mindful path! Are you familiar with The Tao? I've released many videos that talk about mindfulness. In case you missed them, here's a few links: kzbin.info/www/bejne/a17dk6mlh6yIpdU kzbin.info/www/bejne/iqnPiapqnrCIq6s kzbin.info/www/bejne/sHvchZmbbsuZeJI kzbin.info/www/bejne/hl7Xc2amppyEd8U kzbin.info/www/bejne/a2O6fpVtn9aJntE

[@ASacredClown]

@frayamortensen my first spiritual pursuit was reading the Tao of Pooh and the the Tao te Ching.

[@frayamortensen]

@@ASacredClown Excellent! Then you know the middle path and how important it is. And yes, there will be more videos coming to discuss this. 😁✌

[@robert-wr6md]

Devastation is other people being around. (The music was funny).

[@eren.c13]

How do you earn income, Fraya? Online business? Can you make another video about financial stuff for lone wolfs?

[@frayamortensen]

Hey great question! I have a 1:1 program where I coach people from around the world. Been doing that for the last 4 years and luckily it's been keeping me afloat! Not gonna say it's always smooth sailing, but highly satisfying and rewarding. Lone wolves makes great entrepreneurs! They thrive in positions where they are given a lot of autonomy... don't necessarily like to be leaders but can be seen as one.

[@leonznidarcic]

... And the music choice yo😂

[@speciallion1135]

Excellent, Fraya. But you don’t need this validation. 😉

[@frayamortensen]

I"m always open to receiving feedback!

[@speciallion1135]

@@frayamortensen Feedback observation : This is the amusing thing, in this AI society…..it’s always asking for feedback. Anything you buy or any service which is provided to you, there is nearly always a follow up email, to ask for feedback! My reply, if I give any, is; “If you did your job, according to your conscience in the first place, you wouldn’t need to ask me how you were doing” AI doesn’t know how to handle it, because it doesn’t have a conscience. Anyway, it’s generally known, amongst the mindful kind, that AI is generally built on the negative feedback which people give it & incapable of having original thought, because it lacks soul, knowing & wisdom. It only spews out information, which it collects as data. It’s no wonder then, that people who are able to sit alone, feel that they live in a world surrounded by programmed robots, who have been bought under the guise of social expectations. ‘Think out of the box’? NO, - get rid of the box! 🙏🏻

[@websurfer5772]

@@speciallion1135 You're a genius. Wow! Thank your for this message. It should be a PSA.

[@alwayscuriousalwayslearnin]

if I go by that chart the majority of my life since late teens early twenties would be around that 60 year mark which is because I am a loner people tend to drain me lol I think that since the internet started what people call aloneness really isnt aloneness because we can chat online watch videos on places like here its not even close to what real aloneness is like aloneness would be driving int oa forest with knowone around the only thing is nature all you can here is mostly the silent scream of nothing which personally I think everyone should do this for at least 4 days a year to reset themselves , I am not anti social or anythign but I am alone maybe talk t oa person or two a day but mostly if I am grocery shopping or goign for a walk I will say high to people and I hear people all the time all around me in the apartment building I hear sirens trafiic noises and people noises all the time that isnt aloneness because people are all around you ca nsee them hear them ;) in my lifetime of over 60 years I have met a fair amouibnt of people and out of all those people throughout those years I hmay have had 2-3 true real friends all the others were people from work which are acquaintance even if you go to their homes for a BBQ. anyway I am babbling I wil lsay like I said in the beginning I am a lone wolf because people can be very draining but als oI know who I am inside and out most people dont know this they are who they want people to think that they are or maybe they are what others want them to be ;)

[@alanssnack1192]

why are women so happy to be alone? all i see out there arew women deeply concentrating on their phone and with their Dog husbands.

[@websurfer5772]

I'm female and when I was in my 30s all of the vibrantly beautiful, creative, intelligent women I knew would take me aside and tell me how depressed they were. It blew my mind. Some had great husbands and kids too. I'm normally a happy camper but I was also one of those gals who liked to hang with the guys. Now I've got to be alone with just my hubby due to health issues. I now understand that because our world is patriarchal us women really do have it worse in society. But hey, we're primates so that's how it is. Maybe humans can evolve past that but I'm not gonna hold my breath. lol

[@alanssnack1192]

@@websurfer5772 no way, im seeing it the other way around, my mother used to tell me "its a mans world" and i could clearly see us males could enjoy so much things, bikes etc, are all mans stuff, and women seemingly had not much to enjoy in this life, however now i am seeing all the benefits of a womens world, they are accepted everywhere, they have a easy life, they are accepted and enjoy the work world and accumilate money very well, they go out and have fun, males lives are so bad you have no idea really. we all are seriously unhappy, unless we have a reasonably good normal life. anyway, yeah everything balances out, yin yang etc, its obviously equal in many ways for each sex, if anything its just opposites, so women get all the BBC they want, men don't get all the young girls we want do we. no.

[@SalvatorePellitteri]

it's sucky to begin alone, I know it but it looks like you made a yt channel only for the purpose to justify your loneliness! genius! or for having views from people that suffer 😢

[@frayamortensen]

Hey there, i'm not lonely, and you will notice in the comments many other people who are also not lonely, nor are they suffering but striving! I'm sorry to hear you are suffering, and I hope my content will allow you to explore your loneliness a little deeper, find what lies beyond those emotions, what needs within yourself you can give some compassion to.

[@krustysurfer]

Our primary purpose is to help the alcoholic addict who still suffers... That community uses up a lot of free time, I cherish my time alone and dig awaiting to hear from my higher power in meditation doing the dishes, taking a bath, gardening, sitting on a surfboard in big water, sitting in a boat or kayak in the middle of a lake or stream side fishing. I also cherish the time spent interfacing with my children. Life is full, I am blessed beyond measure, I am grateful. If we have a connection with a higher power then we truly are never alone. Mahalo and aloha Fraya🤙🫶⭐

[@websurfer5772]

I think alcoholism is a direct response to feeling lonely. If you want instant friends go to your nearest bar. It worked for me for awhile.

[@krustysurfer]

@@websurfer5772 41 years without a drink, I've never had a legal drink, I've never even tasted a wine cooler... what a long strange trip its been 😎 aloha Fraya