The Instant Shift that Gets Men Looking forward to Call You

[@majesticqueenj5725]

This is good! Thank you Monique so much Blessings to you! I love it, "we get what we are instead of what we want." That brought total awareness to my spirit. Understanding and awareness is so key. Thank you for dropping a true Jewel ️ ❤️

[@queenofthesouth4205]

YES!!! Nothing like hearing a cheerful voice on the phone. This society needs to adjust from mostly "texting" to speak with people on the phone.

[@lisairions8835]

Just discovered you. I think your amazing and I am grateful

[@FEMININEINFLUENCE]

Thank you Lisa!

[@franchesskaw36]

I love your videos and they are so informative. I wished I knew about it before, but it's never to late. Thank you and God bless

[@allyomeally-watson3285]

I know what you mean , one of my girl friends answers the phone by asking ' what's up?' in a bland voice and it feels like 'what do you want?'. Perhaps it's in my imagination, but it makes a big difference if you can make a person feel that you are excited to hear from them.

[@nomathamsanqandara8288]

Hay Monique it's Noma here all the way from south africa. really appreciate it

[@a.h.2667]

I can recall guys saying that I always sounded sad or annoyed on the phone even if I wasn't. I am much more aware of how I answer to phone now and remain intentional about that with my boyfriend now. I even make sure to use his first name more with enthusiasm and not just say hey.

[@toosweet0303]

I really loved this video. I know this is something I need to work on. Andeer the phone better and increase my vibration. The last guy I dated told me I was stale. It really hurt me but I guess this is what he meant. I'm very laid back and indifferent. I'm working on energy.

[@torrenceparker8941]

Very enlightening! I am so independent. I need this info.

[@barbaracharles9143]

I just started watching you and it's very interesting.👀

[@ggirl471]

I know this is an old video but I still have a question. I am 53 and in great shape mentally and physically. What some of my gf's say is a problem is that I don't like when men compliment my body and continue to look me up and down when they talk to me and most sometimes they make sounds (what I call hungry like). Very little time is spent looking me in the eyes or my face. Usually I shut the conversation down because that doesn't appeal to me. They think I let good ones go. I say if he's really a good one he'll come with a different approach and try again. What do you think???

[@butn0tyet]

ggirl471 I know you didn't ask me, but I'm 41 and had been in the same boat 6 years ago. It's amazing that you look good at 53, so take the compliment. I wonder if you shift the conversation to a topic that you know the right type of man would be intrigued by, if you could sift out the nonsense and draw eye contact. I used this method and several conversations later, I'm married and we still spend hours talking about the economy, etc. and enjoying the 2 children. When we think of a wonderful evening, it's talking with each other over really good music... he still makes the same comments on the way I look :)

[@tstyles9690]

butn0tyet AGREE

[@tstyles9690]

ggirl471 I understand you my sister. Men are visual creatures they look at assets first and its always been this way. Accept the Compliment and move on. Only you will know when the man is Genuine👍

[@mhow8059]

be greatful

[@victoriaschera5149]

The one will see YOU, not just your body. If he complements you on your character or something not immediately noticeable by everyone, THAT is the man you give your time to. Trust God, He’ll never steer you wrong ♥️

[@teedy1boy]

I hear, you fine. I agree and are see the you doing, your thing. Speak on it

[@sweetzCA]

Enjoy your videos! Could you make a video about knowing when a man is interested in you as a friend vs. a romantic partner? I can sometimes get the wrong signals from men.

[@sweetzCA]

I know common sense is to just ask him, but im afraid of rejection becuase I like him and if he is not interested I dont want our friendship to become awkward because our kids are good friends and we frequently go on playdates together. I just want to know the signs to draw my own conclusion.

[@TheDuxchess]

This so me, and it attacks friends and elderly people and men. But I swear they sap me of my energy and feel like they don't deserve it. That's probably not nice. But they try to take advantage of my energy to ask for money, my time , its funny to get a NO from me although I coming across chipper, they don't expect a NO! Hilarious.

[@dreamadream4013]

Hey monique are you still open to helping plan of action to help women move forward? I would like to sign up

[@Heyu7her3]

You might wanna email her at the email address she posted in the previous comment

[@MauriesRoom]

This is awesome

[@barbaracharles9143]

I do have a relationship question . one day I'll ask

[@smoothfrequency558]

Someone please tell me how to fan the flames of and new friendship with a man who travels and is out of state? I can only say so much on the phone!

[@loyal_cake9121]

I am deeply scarred. As a single mom I feel my confidence and self esteem diminished after child birth. Constantly running into the same problem with men. Mostly I'm not able to be myself because I'm ashamed and insecure amongst a lot of other limitations. I'm a great woman I just need to ask what can I do to take the beauty on the inside and display it outside. People think I'm cold and mean because I show very little emotion but anger when I'm hurt. I need help period.

[@ZanePatricia]

Do you still need help? For God loves you so much and he knows everything about you! Please message me back if you need guidance

[@Heyu7her3]

Dating immediately after childbirth makes one assume that either y'all broke up during your pregnancy or maybe that there was an "oopsie" with someone you'd dated. Get therapy, spend some time raising your child and forget romantic relationships for a while. The relationships that matter are the one with your child, the one with yourself, the ones with family members/ friends, and the one with good. Good luck!

[@majesticqueenj5725]

Hi Monique! I do have a question, my question is what advice or tool can you share in regards to a woman who is an empath; very loving, caring, who seems to be a magnet for narcissistic men? I'm 36 years old and I always remain optimistic even when I have had to end relationships because one I know they shouldn't have started and two I'm a lover and I attach very easy but I realize when I'm attaching it's because they are giving out false images of who they are when I've been truthful. I've brought true 100% of me to the table and so it's painful. my goal is to stay optimistic and not become bitter and closed off and want to be a woman who's in the house with 15 cats and not even thinking about dating anymore LOL. Sorry I have a sense of humor it's truly what keeps me going 😂 thank you!

[@Softening.into.His.Glory.]

Out of curiosity, are you either ENFJ or INFJ? I've been wondering the last few videos now.

[@nyashatsvangirai2592]

Hey Monique can i have you email add

[@FEMININEINFLUENCE]

[e-mail]

[@dreamadream4013]

Hey monique are you still open to helping plan of action to help women move forward? I would like to sign up