*ENFP :Monotony And thank you for taking the time to make this list! 🙏🥰
@pepsicola07862 жыл бұрын
Where's ENFP 😭
@mailill2 жыл бұрын
@@pepsicola0786 4:45 ENFP :Monotony (Spelling mistake makes it listed as ENTP)
@Bolshechemty2 жыл бұрын
Redndancs
@TheDenisedrake2 жыл бұрын
My INTJ husband definitely needs purpose in every activity. Poor guy is married to an ESFP, where yelling "Whoop! Whoop!!!" has it's own very important purpose.
@istp19672 жыл бұрын
ISTP here; and you're right. I hate having to depend on others.
@YellaSpiceFamily2 жыл бұрын
I used to think that the thing that killed the soul of my INTJ was "boredom", but I think your term is FAR more accurate: it's purposelessness. Particularly in environments where one's success is tied to doing various purposeless things for no reason other than to please the people in charge, all of whom are too stupid to notice the pointlessness of their existence. If he's trapped in an environment like that for too long, he starts to implode, emotionally and otherwise, becoming less and less able to get himself out of there: truely and really like kryptonite.
@JT-wc3hr2 жыл бұрын
INTJ here and I am constantly turning down doing something because there is no purpose in doing it. I was literally explaining this to my mom the other day that I don’t like going out and socializing with small talk because there is no purpose in doing it and that I would much rather be home by myself working on a project. Of course she didn’t understand and told me life isn’t about working and I should go out and have fun but she just can not understand as most don’t that my version of fun is not the same as her version of fun…… my wife is ISTJ and is constantly organizing our house and telling me things are not put away back in their place. Man you are spot on with these.
@zeeteepippi2752 жыл бұрын
It's also tied into the optics problem that a lot of INTJs struggle with. Many things rely on these seemingly arbitrary assumptions, especially if something's controversial. So much of it's appearing good and not really defining why you hold the positions you believe or the change you want to see. But doing that sometimes forces you to brush up against uncomfortable questions or make peace with something that's not considered acceptable.
@anshikaprabhat62792 жыл бұрын
As an ENTP I'm going crazy with boredom and stress. I really just want to do something crazy and laugh like a maniac to pacify my heart
@linzihenry-watson78842 жыл бұрын
I'm an INFP and I definitely really related to mine. The quickest way to get me to disappear is to shout or be aggressive. You are right it doesn't matter whether it's directed at me or someone else, i still hate it. I am more likely to intervene if it is on behalf of someone else though. Hate seeing anyone bullied. I did quite relate to the INFJ and ENFP ones as well though! Also absolutely love the channel! Thanks so much for all the brilliant videos ❤
@judael56052 жыл бұрын
For me as an intj, I can't stand bullies but not as much as infj or infps. Bullying, stabbing each others backs for social gains and materialism, status and all sort of, inm petty human desires are just too common and the norm, even tho people act like friends and bestiest while I stay silent and distant and ponder the meaning of "friendship" you guys regard so highly about when it's actually ingenious and self benefiting while making it sound like you care about each other when truly it's all about what can be gained no matter how genuine it might seem... Genuine love and care has nothing to gain yet superficial displays of imo meaningless affection and "love" is considered caring that's where I'm highly against because I study human psychology for 20 years and it's nothing about love when someone open the door for you etc. It's always about themselves and their future gains. When someone truly "love" you, first sign is to look at is how superficial and ego driven are they. Thank you, take care and goodbye
@linzihenry-watson78842 жыл бұрын
@@judael5605 I used to work in a place that had all the things you describe. It was very hierarchical, people spoke about everyone behind their backs and they were constantly vying for status and position. My manager was so confused when I said I found it horrible and when I left for a job that paid less money but was just a much nicer place to be. I have found that I need to have a place that suits me, because I don't want to adapt to fit into places that don't gel with my values. I feel your pain though, sometimes it feels like the whole world values things that seem totally hollow to me. I'm actually training to be a therapist at the moment and I feel at home with the people I meet through that! You take care too!
@tuskinekinase2 жыл бұрын
Totally agreed! Whenever I see aggressive verbiage online (which is often), my brain completely shuts down, to the point that I couldn't even remember the very words that has given me such a bad vibe. People and social media seems to agree that anger brings attention to issues, well, for me, it only brings trauma. Calm down and lay out the conflicts and we might solve them; when people throw intense words at each other I just want to run away and hide in a forest cabin for the rest of my life...
@linzihenry-watson78842 жыл бұрын
@@tuskinekinase literally could not relate to that more 🤣
@jaklumen2 жыл бұрын
I am INFP, and I'd never really thought about this before. But I find anyone who is a taskmaster, or ballbuster, or otherwise "cracks the whip" very draining, even if they are warm and congenial people. This is true whether they are male or female, but I respond very differently to aggressive women compared to aggressive men, for a myriad of complicated reasons.
@Nathan-yn3jo2 жыл бұрын
as an INTP I also relate to ISTPs and ENTPs in every aspect
@pugninja70372 жыл бұрын
same. intp plus istp plus enfp entp
@heckoffsupremev94972 жыл бұрын
you should
@T216-n3h2 жыл бұрын
As an istp I can relate to you but I retain my ability to throw a ball properly or ride a bicycle without looking odd or out of place
@pugninja70372 жыл бұрын
@@T216-n3h 😜
@GhostCatFromHell2 жыл бұрын
As an intj, I can relate to INTPs and ISTPs, and a little bit with ENTPs as well
@WolfoxBR2 жыл бұрын
I *loved* the handpicked quotes in this. It shows you care and I appreciate that.
@emiliya72 жыл бұрын
Oh,i love your content! Especially, the way you describe each type with equal care,interest, and accuracy! The emotional supression part hit so close home. The worst thing one can tell me to do is be dishonest about my feelings or not let show. This will end up terribly bad. :,)
@end45672 жыл бұрын
I liked the INTJ one a lot and it took me a while to realize how important purpose is for this type. I had a period in my life when I was extremely depressed and as stupid as it may sound, the thing which got me slighty motivated to finally start working on myself was just finding a meaningful enough reason to do so, not just that I had to do it in order to be "normal" again. I had to do it in order to be able to experience the things I always wanted to do and to finally show myself and others my true colors and potential. The reason why I said it sounds stupid is because of how obvious it was all along yet I couldn't see it. I was too narrow focused.
@christineherrmann2052 жыл бұрын
Feeding the algorithm, since this feels like a spot on summary video, and the weak spot of ENFJ is actually something I think about a lot whenever I start to doubt my type. To be alive this long and still relegate meaningful self-care to second place at times is crazy. We KNOW better.
@JohnDoe-pd4jo2 жыл бұрын
As an istp, I hate when people impose their beliefs on me and become too dependent on me, especially emotionally. It’s so draining to be expected to emote about the same things everyday, without a true desire to find solutions. Very annoying.
@alejandroaugusto77892 жыл бұрын
As an ENTJ I agree on the impatience. I often say “I’m a man who doesn’t know what patience is” but I also find other Kryptonite, which is intolerance. I have been working in those things for a while now, but back then my intolerance led me to withdraw from the world and “depend only on myself”. Now I try to be more acceptable and flexible but believe me, it isn’t easy.
@draug79662 жыл бұрын
I´m INFP and i would say aggression can go both ways, either it makes me wanna disappear or i snap and get twice as aggressive as the person starting it. Can´t really explain it, guess it depends on who´s aggressive and why and how the person is aggressive. Maybe it´s one of those cases of Fi being weird lol.
@multitudesreplyaccount31632 жыл бұрын
Yeah, same; nothing weird about it, I think. The ones who instigate aggression are the ones who deserve it, usually. Fighting back against an aggressor is different than attacking an innocent person.
@guerimjj2 жыл бұрын
Yes yes!! I can totally relate
@Janasartgallery2 жыл бұрын
I like aggression behind closed doors 😏 if you know what I mean
@alisonfisher18772 жыл бұрын
Haha I can relate to ‘it depends.’ INFPs need the full context of everything before knowing how they would handle a situation. I think we might be the type best suited for understanding and recognizing the nuance of any given moment and the transitions that happen between those moments.
@draug79662 жыл бұрын
@@alisonfisher1877 Yep, context is everything!
@yuishizu22 жыл бұрын
It's nice that this video wasn't just about pointing out one weakness of each type, but how these irritating/frustrating circumstances can potentially be used for one's own growth (at least, for some of them). It felt wholesome. Thanks for that. -ISFP
@barbarajloriordan26972 жыл бұрын
I love your comment, “If you put yourself and the other person second, the other person will be better off than they would have been if you had put them first and yourself second.” I have just shared it, attributing the comment to you, on my Facebook page.
@kyurei44782 жыл бұрын
As an INFJ that's maybe why absurd humor makes me laugh so much. Because my brain desperately tries to find any possible meaning and fails miserably so it makes me laugh histerically every time, as if I were becoming crazy for a second. I accepted the fact that natural forces in universe don't have a meaning (or I can just imagine one to motivate myself even tho I know it's fictional) but I still can't conceive that people could do things for no reason. If it's the case, I might just think that it's one of the main reasons why this world feels so wrong.
@DarerebeI2 жыл бұрын
^ I feel that.
@shikhasuman8712 жыл бұрын
Damn! I think like that too.
@Chigger2 жыл бұрын
As an ENFP, this is completely true. I hate for things to be boring and repetitive. Stability and organization, those things are good, but the same thing over and over needs to be shaken up a bit.
@mokshadasethi81192 жыл бұрын
Thanks for taking the suggestion of breaking the blank black screen with your face, made the video slightly more engaging (at least for this ENFP), your facial expressions break the 'monotony' which is my kryptonite as rightfully explained by you ;P Merci beaucoup !
@nurainiarsad73952 жыл бұрын
I thought the INFJ one was quite resonant. And then you got to INTJ and yeah, actually between the two, it’s purpose. I do consider meaning extremely important, but it is actually because I feel it is to determine *purpose*, not as end to itself.
@bethiciaprasek94152 жыл бұрын
INFJ who regularly works at utilizing my extroverted side (at least until I need a break). Definitely need a larger purpose for what I do. Have accepted that I am unmotivated if I put myself number one, so focus on how I can help others in the ways that best also helps me. Win-Win.
@mohammedlahreche13702 жыл бұрын
How to be sure that I am INFJ
@bethiciaprasek94152 жыл бұрын
@@mohammedlahreche1370 If you are here then you are likely an INFJ or a closely affiliated type. If tips and approaches work for you then continue to use them. It is more important that the advice is correct than that the exact type is correct.
@flusel49492 жыл бұрын
As an ENFJ I don‘t have a problem with doing self-care. I do quite a lot of things for myself to keep me running. I have a problem with doing it without feeling guilty about it.
@kylesavage45252 жыл бұрын
Video request: Which mbi type other than themselves would each type prefer to be
@tatyannafrancis99352 жыл бұрын
Love this idea!
@lyrakawashita2 жыл бұрын
INTJ want's to be ISTP
@tatyannafrancis99352 жыл бұрын
ENTP here, I think it could be fun to be an ENFP or ESFP :)
@ellensteinbrinck63072 жыл бұрын
@@lyrakawashita INTJ here, married to an ISTP. Don't want to be him per se, but I can relate strongly.
@booboo36902 жыл бұрын
Genius
@pepsicola07862 жыл бұрын
This video came at the perfect time for me. I'm an ENFP and lately I've just been feeling off lately. Nothing's actually been wrong though yet I've been feeling somewhat depressed. I hadn't been able to put my finger on what the causes could be. Now I'm realizing that my everyday routine is so boring and monotonous and it mentally weighs me down. What is life without fun and novelty?
@foogentog2 жыл бұрын
ENFP here too. I have felt the same way often
@jaklumen2 жыл бұрын
I am an INFP, but I am married to an ENFP, and I would say that very much fits for her.
@Hallelujur2 жыл бұрын
Fellow ENFP here who's struggling with life's repetetiveness as well. 😩 Heidi Priebe's channel has been a great help in learning more about what I need to do to stay energized and excited about life. She's an ENFP herself and shares the absolute best insights. 😃🌻
@barbelarmbroster65242 жыл бұрын
@@Hallelujur Heidi is a gem💎
@PippiOnePointOh2 жыл бұрын
As an INTP, I don’t necessarily hate when people are ignorant, it’s when they are *willfully* ignorant that I can’t stand. People who would rather keep their head in the sand, simply because they either don’t want to admit they are wrong, or find it’s too much work to think it through and come to a logical conclusion. So, lazy thinkers.
@natashadavis29592 жыл бұрын
Self-assurance in ignorance brakes my brain. In order to show them they're wrong you'd have to dismantle the false foundation they have built their precariously life upon. I get stressed out thinking about it and then give up, because a person who so readily accepts and defends foolishness isn't going to listen anyways and then I start think of all the people who also believe in absurdity, get really depressed, despondent and go watch House or some mindless show or listen to music. -INTP
@trinaq2 жыл бұрын
I can relate to the ENFJ and INFJ headings the most. I try to search for the meaning in everything, yearn to find purpose, and struggle with putting myself first.
@businessisboomin72522 жыл бұрын
INFJ and same tbh...
@riri72072 жыл бұрын
@@jellyfishi_ I agree with you a lot. I find most part of the ENFJ subreddit/forums cringy when they are whining about how selfless they are and no one reciprocates. Calling oneself "selfless" sounds like they think highly of themselves. Like are you really a "giver" when you go out your way helping people while expecting things back and get frustrated when none of it is reciprocated? No, that's not a giver that's a "loan giver" A typical giver gains happiness solely from helping others instead of being drained by helping everyone
@plagueravestv20082 жыл бұрын
the intp and entp ones are both relatable
@aaronlaluzerne66392 жыл бұрын
Before I found out I was an Intj, when I was young, I wanted to be a game designer, but since the gaming industry has gone to Hell in a hand basket and that being a game designer is actually one of the worst jobs a person can get, I've been looking into other things that I actually want to do and could make a living off of. So far at this point, I came to the conclusion that I should just make my own business(es), be a freelancer, sell a bunch of stuff, and make a bunch of money to live off of for the rest of my life and use my free time to enjoy all the the things I care about and my favorite hobbies such as reading, collecting and enjoying art, playing video games, listening to music, watching tv shows and movies, learn about new things, playing and taking care of my animals, and cooking and baking. Also 10th comment here.
@aaronlaluzerne66392 жыл бұрын
@@PoetryInHats Thank you for the advice and information.
@sullt7662 жыл бұрын
@@aaronlaluzerne6639 Watch objective personality and watch there intj videos. Very Good definitely wont regret. If u dont u wouldve missed a great oppurtunity.
@aaronlaluzerne66392 жыл бұрын
@@sullt766 Alright, I will.
@sullt7662 жыл бұрын
@@aaronlaluzerne6639 How was the channel, did you find what you were looking for bro?
@aaronlaluzerne66392 жыл бұрын
@@sullt766 It was alright.
@m4lev0lentdem0nknightamv52 жыл бұрын
I never clicked so fast as an INTJ
@Raphsophomes2 жыл бұрын
As an isfp i relate to the intp, but im more irritated at the intentions behind ignorance, the lack of honesty or self reflection and the fact some people would hurt others out of this kind of arbitrary loathing at nothing.... they always seem to associate it with random stuff but if they lived on an island of perfection i can tell they would still suffer from it.
@multitudesreplyaccount31632 жыл бұрын
Yes, as an INFP, I too hate ignorance that has negative consequences for people, as well as the lack of honesty and reflection in many cases.
@NZC_Meow2 жыл бұрын
3:40 intj one is so accurate. I've been trying to explain this to my enfp friend for years. I ask her "what do you want to become after growing up?" (now we're in 9th grade) and she says "I don't know, let Allah decide for me" and I'm like "no, you have to decide. A person on the road who doesn't know their destination is a person who is lost." But she never listens
@infernal..2 жыл бұрын
Arent we all trying to find ourselves
@moflo60932 жыл бұрын
"Not all those who wander are lost" - J.R.R Tolkien We infps and enfps like to draw our experiences through play. You can imagine that we are like children and we are full of desire to discover new things. It's such a ne thing that's hard to explain, but it feels like it's against our nature to commit to a single path. But that's also the reason why we are so attracted to Ni users ;) It is a wonderful symbiosis of discovery and planning. chaos and order. (of course Ne users can also plan and Ni users also want to discover :b) btw. sorry for my bad english, im not a native speaker.
@businessisboomin72522 жыл бұрын
Let Allah decide for me.... So doesn't she know that she must must take action in oder for Allah to actually help her? Leaving everything to Allah that's a must I don't deny that, but without putting in any work or doing your best and leaving the rest to Allah, you'll stay stagnant both due to your own actions (or rather the lack of them) and Allah not blessing you due to you not putting in any efforts
@Raven_Black_2522 жыл бұрын
As an INTJ, I don't agree that life has to have a meaning for everyone. There isn't an objective purpose in life, because if there were one, everyone would have the same purpose. And no, survival isn't the objective purpose either, if it was no one would be committing suicide in any circumstances. So everyone has to decide for their own subjective purpose in life, what they want to do BUT, we are living in very unpredictable times. I personally don't have a grand purpose because even if I make plans for next 30 years, life will be making its own plans for me. Things never go according to plan. And even if you graduate with a specific diploma in a specific area, you will most likely end up doing some other job. So, leave your ENFP alone and learn from them, learn how to adapt to new and unplanned circumstances. Not everything has to have a purpose just because you personally believe so. I'm not a believer, I don't care about the religion part. But I wish I applied this mindset sooner into my life, it would have saved me from a lot of anxiety about my future.
@NZC_Meow2 жыл бұрын
@@businessisboomin7252 true
@anakerendoofenshmertz99852 жыл бұрын
I am an INTP. A week ago, I was chatting on a new server I was on. Someone was questioning the nature of the server and criticizing. I started making put together arguments against their arrogant claims. Then, they rebounded by simply putting me down instead of properly defending their arguments. In short, arrogance ignorance is the most disappointing and disgusting thing for me as an INTP. That said, me and the other members of the server managed to kick the person out and I hope that toxic person has already received the worst karma.
@ElodieN_INTJ_Typology_Insights2 жыл бұрын
In others word, it's what it can cause us stress, possibly depression, and feel stuck. What is frustrate me, is when I have solutions, but there is obstacles. And theses obstacles are just people who just don't want to communicate, stay in their own perception. Or when I know I can solve something fast and simple, and I just don't find the solution. INTJ
@mirriyastia2 жыл бұрын
I guess there is some tricky difference between points for ISFJ and INTJ - they seem to be close (both relatable for me). I guess the difference lies in the details of terms "direction" and "purpose". In some cases they are synonims, in other - not. ISTJ and INFP also sound like good ideas to me. And in this case, an interesting nuance is hidden in the difference between understanding of the term 'control' by INTJ and ISTJ (as both these types are naturally inclined to it).
@coloraturaElise2 жыл бұрын
YES!!! Slowness drives me mad....really! Besides being an ENTJ, I'm also ADHD, so it's a double-whammy for me. I loved that quote about patience; I'm a teacher and am often asked where I get my patience from. My usual response is that I'm pretending to be patient!
@levia-chan2 жыл бұрын
The world continues to turn even without you in it... that oftenly comes to my mind and I thought it was such a lonely statement and a fact. So I wondered, How can I make myself worthy, how can I use this life and make it meaningful. How can I stand in front of others, how I can give them something that could help them. I struggled to find meaning for my life and questioned myself multiple times if I am only being good because I wanted to have a meaning to satiate my loneliness or if I was just being genuinely good.
@Ghost-jp5qn2 жыл бұрын
As an enfp... very accurate. I am confident that I couldn't keep a routine to save my life.
@bluebellbell37252 жыл бұрын
An infj that had to much of a esfj people-talking, so this week I told her "That is gossiping, don't talk about other people with me". That was tuff. The moment after I ask her about something that would be a good, smoothing subject. I cringe when people just talk and I feel what's inside them. So meaningless...
@geojay98552 жыл бұрын
Si is my kryptonite. - ENTP
@m4lev0lentdem0nknightamv52 жыл бұрын
Hey Dude ... Remember me?
@geojay98552 жыл бұрын
@@m4lev0lentdem0nknightamv5 I remember everything, but it is draining the life out of me.
@tatyannafrancis99352 жыл бұрын
As an ENTP, I apologize for any post-boredom messes I’ll make from here on out…
@HeavenSpectrum2 жыл бұрын
That's so right! My first job: My boss didn't want to hire me in the first place, but it came that I got an offer. He talked bad about me before I got to know my colleagues. So my purpose I had in doing the job was to show everybody that I'm good in what I do. When I quit the job, I got the feedback they never had a better one doing this job, so I reachedmy goal. Second job I got hired and they told me something different than I later did. I quit the job because of missing a purpose. Third job I wanted to challenge myself. Me being an INTJ I forced myself in a sales job and dealing with customers drained my energy. I only did this job to learn dealing with people, because I really had a hard time dealing with other humans back then, so I wanted to encourage myself to learn this a bit at least. In the end it drained my energy. Now I have the perfect job. I'm not working for the profit of another person, I work for everybody's safety. It gives me a good feeling and I have a good reason to get up and work everyday. It's useful and it fits my personality. I use my skills and a continuous development.
@jessicathespy2 жыл бұрын
My mum is an estj, she complained about the pointlessness of her womens bible study for a year and complained the organizer didnt engage her with questions when she declared she was leaving. Now shes in a bible study that its predominantly older and very challenging and engaging and wants to tell everyone about how great it is because it's not a redundant group that gives nothing to her needs. Love it, once a year I have to stop my entp husband from quitting his job as he does love his colleagues and the business type, so he move laterally and is reinvigorated with unique challenges.
@stevedavenport12022 жыл бұрын
Have had some ISTJs follow behind me in the book section of a thrift store to put books back in perfect order, whilst muttering angrily under their breathe. This personality type and dealing with the public don't mix well. 😙
@lulukrassova21962 жыл бұрын
hahaha ENTP "boredom," here I am thinking I am never bored when I am on my own (with internet). "Put them in a boring situation for a long time" OHHHH. Please, please, please let this never happen to me. I have come close and let's just say the precaution he mentions is an understatement.
@cinnamonknick-knack20372 жыл бұрын
I laughed so hard when he said it. Basically people are sick of me during boring lessons at school bc I always do sth different XD I can't even express how many times I did sth extremely stupid out of blue
@richsackett34232 жыл бұрын
He doesn't really miss the boat like this one. Can I get a Hell-yeah for the toxicity of minutae? I'm not interested in the backstories of secondary characters.
@lulukrassova21962 жыл бұрын
@@richsackett3423 que? As in inferior Si? Indeed.
@richsackett34232 жыл бұрын
@@lulukrassova2196 Nobody told there was going to be a quiz.
@lulukrassova21962 жыл бұрын
@@richsackett3423 hahaha well this made me laugh. It's a bad habit I have.
@emstratman2 жыл бұрын
I was about to argue with you about the ENTP one, but then I realized you're right. - ENTP
@kkech12 жыл бұрын
1:56 Mao ordering to kill all the birds lmao
@businessisboomin72522 жыл бұрын
1:08 caught me red-handed, "Man's search for meaning" immediately grabbed my attention when I was in a bookstore LMAO
@elodiepollock73262 жыл бұрын
Infp here. I'm not an angry person, not at all, I more get upset or sad at stuff than angry or annoyed. So when I do feel aggression in myself it is deeply disturbing at times, I just don't identify with it. And yeah, watching someone be on the receiving end really is very very upsetting to me (surely it's not only infps, but they might feel it more gernerally). I also immediately had an example pop into my head and straight away got really uncomfortable
@CzesiaPL2 жыл бұрын
Intj here. I argued once with a person refusing any logical contrargument. It fried my wires. I was shaking and as soon as I was alone with my friend I started sobbing uncontrollably.
@strawbrrriii2 жыл бұрын
Honestly im not even here to hear what you have to say about my pt (i know myself good enough) im just here to learn about all the weaknesses of the other types so i can use the data for my own profit lol
@reuben49492 жыл бұрын
Loved how you said "safe distance" when talking about ENTP
@pada59922 жыл бұрын
If you put yourself first, then the people you put second are better off than they would have been if you put them first. Well put, sir.
@danw912 жыл бұрын
As an XNTP I view boredom as something that is a luxury that many can't afford. Also it's really difficult for me to be bored because there's always so many things I can think about anyway.
@7XSubaru2 жыл бұрын
I know boredom. This happens at meetings where you have to be present, where others talk about the everyday life of people you have never seen. Expect to shut up and listen to their blah blah without even explaining the context. Be quiet, be kind, smile like a stupid doll, .. it's boredom and horror at the same time.
@tatyannafrancis99352 жыл бұрын
Loved this video!! Good combination of words to read and Nathan’s face
@yanismartinel40432 жыл бұрын
Having to deal on a daily basis with people on constant emotional disintegration is something else to for Infjs. It's like... Well okay I guess I'm down with you now... But then this is the last thing I want for myself, it's like my subconcious forces me to feel down too around those people, I can't help it. Y'all Infj folks have any advices, especially when life circumstances forces you to do it and you have no other options ? So far my defence mechanism has been to latch onto Ti too much and to become a little cold. Fe feels unatainable since it could only be used in an attempt to express all of the frustration, and it ain't gonna be pretty 😅 I don't want that. I'm also scared of the Se gripp that it might end up creating, since this particular person really triggers that part of me : constantly crying and making unecessary noise, trying to get an emotional response from me and those around. This person suffer I get it but at this point the emotional and psychological burden is just too much for me to handle. I'm an enneagram fucking 5 god damn it 😭. Help 🥲
@thatguybutitsactuallyagirl53842 жыл бұрын
For me, it's self-care and ignorance. It could be boredom too because I am extremely prone to be bored, but the thing is I am too lazy to go out there and adventure out of that boredom, so I essentially just agitate myself and get depressed until it passes or I take any occasion I have to go out with people or I flirt with anything or I start virtual arguments. Monotony is definitely boring to me, but it really depends what kind of monotony we're talking about in order for me to go about it differently each time. Aggression is definitely accurate for me but only when it comes to freedom individuality. Disorder as well, but it's more of a global picture to me than something that's a day to day life. For example, I have no problem for my room to be disorderly as long as I know where everything is, but I have a problem with a building being in the place of a tree because, logically, it should be a tree there in that order. Get it?
@jillharrison39242 жыл бұрын
I took many screenshots of these fantastic quotes. Ty for finding these gems and for always teaching in such a witty way. At the risk of sounding even more hyperbolic, I want to say I’m a big fan of your channel, and I think you’re a genius
@dacksonflux2 жыл бұрын
As a misanthrope, I am thoroughly allergic to all humans.
@TheDenisedrake2 жыл бұрын
ESFP here: I thought you would have said BOREDOM or MISSING-FUN, but RESTRAINT is good too. I feel like I am going to die if I'm missing out on something fun or interesting-- especially if it involves other people.
@solarisan_2 жыл бұрын
Ideas/suggestions for future videos (in case you ever need some): Types (or cognitive functions) as: - Philosophical doctrines - Types of love (agape, philautia, philia,…) - Architectural style (art deco, art nouveau, rococo,…) - Mythological creatures (phoenix, chimera, griffin,…) - Book/movie genre - Harry Potter spells and school subjects - Celestial objects - Lyrics from a song/lines from a poem - Historical landmarks - Cities/countries - Colors - Flowers/plants - Types of communication style - Jungian archetypes - Famous paintings - Art movements - Literary movements
@AnyaChuri2 жыл бұрын
Then sit back *at a safe distance* and watch the chaos 🥰🥰🥰🥰
@mojyoqueen3502 жыл бұрын
There was one time when my ENTP friend had to focus on his schoolwork. We didn't talk for a week, and when he return to his social life he told us how he brutally took a revange on his classmate by expose him in school radio. I'm not proud of him, but my friends from his school told me that it in fact was a pure chaos.
@fosskytheanswerer2 жыл бұрын
The whole NT family is relateable af
@bodine2192 жыл бұрын
Awesome video. I love these (and I like the blend between showing your face and the black screen :) ) Once again, you were spot on with the INFP. And it *is* just as bad or worse watching someone else be yelled at.
@whitneygerbode86922 жыл бұрын
I like this video, it gives the blame to other people a lot. Whenever someone says man, I wonder if they mean man or man. In the context of INTJ I think it's more biblical like in terms of how to be royal man is the We without murder.
@kaspervendler17262 жыл бұрын
"And are being tied down. Not in the fun way.." 🤔😏
@mlandry4912 жыл бұрын
lol
@Tue_2 жыл бұрын
When people dont add time stamps to their videos. I know it isn´t long, but it is a simple thing to add so people can find the one personality they want to check fast. :)
@bookwormboy31042 жыл бұрын
As an INFP, aggression is a good choice. It does definitely put me off. However, I find I can walk away from it alright. If I do face aggression I just find ways to avoid it. So yes, it makes us disappear; but once we're gone it's no longer hurting us. My kryptonite is definitely being misunderstood. Even after I walk away the memory will remain with me and seep into my soul. I think INFPs feel the most alone and misunderstood of the types. We're just always told that we're different. So we crave some connection. Even if you don't relate, we want you to try to understand. We just wish people could see the beauty that we do. But more often than not, people can't see it. So they misunderstand us, which can seem a bit dismissive and like rejection. So a lot of INFPs become timid and don't like sharing their beauty, because they're afraid of being misunderstood.
@Victoria-hz8tq2 жыл бұрын
"Drain INFJs of their lifeblood" the way this can describe so exactly the feeling is a such a relief
@faz_ed2 жыл бұрын
As an ISTP i also relate to ESTP INTJ and INTP
@fergarising19722 жыл бұрын
INTJ - Futility would be another way to describe our kryptonite. It is what I struggle with every day in my battle with nihilism. Purpose is a fine bandaid but somewhere in the back of our head we are OVERWHELMINGLY aware that we are going to die and even if we blessed the world, like for instance Nietzsche, with our brilliance, our words and legacy will be marred with misuse and abuse and deluded ideals.
@capability-snob2 жыл бұрын
Wow a Larry Wall quote! You know he's impossible to type, according to Rice's theorem.
@deegeraghty94262 жыл бұрын
Thank you for succinct summary of these personality types.
@bellarose85112 жыл бұрын
ENTJ says "stop beating around the bush!"
@Sharkuterie3272 жыл бұрын
“Existentially nihilistic self-creation.” That one. Shh.
@adriangibson31532 жыл бұрын
For me personally (INFJ-A), the vision of failing people whom I care for is rather debilitating for my ego. It requires acceptance and letting go... still tweaking on it at 38 years 😂
@DarerebeI2 жыл бұрын
24 INFJ-T, same boat. It's going to be a rough ride.
@VarjoFilosofi2 жыл бұрын
Have you read/listened (the audiobook version is an amazing) Harry Potter and The Methods of Rationality? That ISTJ quote was from there. Absolutely loved it! Both audiobook and e-book are free.
@fionavar89572 жыл бұрын
Well now, I see someone is very cultured indeed.
@marycamerlengo2 жыл бұрын
I so enjoy your videos. I really related to the INFJ/INTJ today, as usual. :)
@whitneygerbode86922 жыл бұрын
It's also interesting to flip it and make their weaknesses strengths.
@anudeepshetty82312 жыл бұрын
Being infj could relate to intj, infp, entj entp, intp
@monk3ypilot5782 жыл бұрын
Entp spot on, that's why I made a sudden change in career literally 2 weeks ago
@richsackett34232 жыл бұрын
ENTP - First one of yours I've disagreed with entirely. Boredom is a sensation: a data point without absolute valence. Being bored can be a useful and productive state, rather than immobilizing. A very constructive inspiration, even. Monotony is its own song. Real answer: The Minutiae of Life.
@roachqueen47772 жыл бұрын
Tell me you didn’t skip to the ENTP part first, then get back to whatever point you’re trying to make here
@richsackett34232 жыл бұрын
@@roachqueen4777 I didn't. That's not the way I watch these. There's four types or so of family and friends I like to check out. Must admit I watch Frank James like that, though. Nathan's a much better writer.
@barbarajloriordan26972 жыл бұрын
In Nonviolent Communication, we often say that the feeling of boredom may signify a need for meaning. I agree with Rich Sackett that it’s excruciating for ENTPs to try tolerate the minutiae of life.
@i_accept_all_cookies2 жыл бұрын
I agree, we can't really get bored, we have no shortage of things to occupy our minds. It's the distracting minutiae that interrupt this quality time...
@chocolatefrenzieya2 жыл бұрын
Welp, you nailed me, istp and my daughter, estp.
@agatatomicka85372 жыл бұрын
love your channel, thank you for your work, all the best!
@PriHL2 жыл бұрын
I'd say the INFJ one is right but I somehow see a meaning for something seemingly meaningless so I don't really feel like things lack meaning for me or for others. It's that we mostly don't see the meaning behind something. However when I don't get results, I am more likely to question the meaning of something. Surprisingly, I relate to the ESTP one most. I just can't handle when I have to do what other people (who mostly see less than I do) tell me what to do, especially when I see that it's going nowhere. But if someone has a clear direction and knows what they're doing, I'll gladly cooperate. The problem is, it rarely happens, so I'd rather be in charge myself. And no, I don't like being told what to do :)
@pinkbanana12762 жыл бұрын
Intj: pattern finding. I often realise that i know more about a job than a professional in that job. Not in terms of skill; heck, that’s even a weakness for me, but in terms of what that profession is going towards, or how a small detail in that job is having a bigger purpose, when it comes to a bigger picture. I can say that I undrestand every profession and how it works and where it is going or using the knowledge from another system and applying them to another, but i suck at them, when it comes to actually doing them. Yes, I’m one of those heavily theoretical INTJs😂.
@FOXARUS2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like Ne
@pinkbanana12762 жыл бұрын
@@FOXARUS or the Ni Te combo🤷🏻♂️
@YellaSpiceFamily2 жыл бұрын
Mad props to you for not only knowing but openly acknowledging that this is quite different from being good at actually doing the thing. 😂 My personal INTJ (we're coming up on 15 years of marriage) spent some painful years learning and relearning this lesson in many different ways when we were young. He chose a career with a LOT of inherent hazards to it, too: I spent a fair many of those early years feeling very worried. 😂 - an ENFJ
@i_accept_all_cookies2 жыл бұрын
ENTP here, after living by myself in isolation for the past two years. Stand back.. way back...
@fortune_roses2 жыл бұрын
*Purposelessness* ... try saying that 3 times fast :D
@r.m.s.68232 жыл бұрын
Gah you are soo good at getting ESTJ right...
@mlandry4912 жыл бұрын
These days Im not quite sure about being an infp. For me, aggression can be a thing if i feel provocation. If confronted with a bully or if I see an injustice I will step out and make my presence unwaiveringly known. I do not need coercion. A bully may start, but make no mistake, I will finish. doesn't sound like an infp, does it. What cognitive function is protective point making/ line drawing? I mean, i will zelenski a person. is than an unhealthy infp? or a healthy something else like estj?🤔
@omoxo2 жыл бұрын
1:56 INTP
@bfsobnfs2 жыл бұрын
I literally looked for the timestamps in the comments before even watching the video. Are we all that lazy??
@clownplayer72652 жыл бұрын
"ENTP: Boredom. Put him in a box with nothing to do for quite a while, them leave him out and see how explodes in interests and creativity." That being said, one tip for fellas ENTP from personal experience, that's sadly also the process when we can get much more reckless and risky, probably doing things our trusted and loveable companion Ti wouldn't have allowed it it weren't for the lack of excitement.
@floatytrouty2 жыл бұрын
Can't describe a better word for INTJ, because I already trying to find a purpose at a young age, and found that it's meaningless until you yourself make it meaningful
@yuiitodoro77912 жыл бұрын
I am lost not knowing what to do with my life and what intrests I have or hobbies that I gravitate towards , it makes me feel so helpless and I am very indecisive rn - isfj
@elphieofkiamoko2 жыл бұрын
"Being tied down...and not in the fun way" SIR I SPAT MY WATER
@Bolshechemty2 жыл бұрын
Even though im an enfp the intj example hit me square in the face
@TimaHypenoodles2 жыл бұрын
How would you guys describe the difference between having a direction and having a purpose?
@indigoowl78412 жыл бұрын
I think having a direction is more about the path you're taking while having a purpose is more about the end destination. This is my interpretation though and any other insights would be appreciated :)
@jonathanrehm72 жыл бұрын
Hey I'm a little confused. I took the 16 personalities test not too too long ago and got ENFP-T. At the time, it fit me more perfectly than anything ever has. Now I still feel associated with that type but I can tell I've changed a little bit as a person and become a little colder and less empathetic. I also realized though, that the reason I've felt colder and less empathetic is because I've had close to 0 human interaction for the past few months, so I haven't really had much of a chance to be empathetic and nice. I took the test again, answering the questions in a way that reflects my internal self, and I got INTP-T. I suppose I'm INTP-T on the inside, in terms of how I think of things and ENFP-T on the outside, in terms of how I interact with others socially? Can it work that way?
@danieschenkekraft71992 жыл бұрын
It's recommended that you take a look into the different cognitive functions and answer for yourself which ones you relate more to; especially look the problems that arise with the inferior functions of the types you might see yourself in. I'd recommend personalityjunkie but Love Who has got videos regarding cognitive functions as well
@jps0117 Жыл бұрын
As an INTP, I don't think "ignorance" is my kryptonite, but rather "absence of both curiosity and systematic epistemology". It's just like an INTP to leave a comment like this.