The Mechanics of Direct Emotional Control

[@Forged88]

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[@jacksavage279]

Thank you for your content it is invaluable and saving lives

[@freeone1545]

My man right on time brotha 💯 much love and respect Like I said once before right on time I'm just getting out of work I pulled in with my semi truck as soon as your video popped up. You know self destruction has been my greatest enemy throughout my life As a young kid violence and gang activity was my outlet for emotions which is why I spent 10 years in prison it was only then in solitude for over one year did I finally realize I'm the problem. I've been home for a couple of years now have 4 great kids and make over a 100 grand a year I thank God for this everyday

[@aravind8797]

Something I keep telling myself is that it is important to *feel* your emotion, but you don't have to *show* every emotion you feel

[@hakihamilton3179]

This is why it's good to do foundational shadow work in your own time to get a better understanding of your strengths and weaknesses in your own value and priority hierarchies, so that you have the self awareness to pick out helpful things in the critiques of others and at the same time have enough self esteem to not let provocation spiral you towards dying in a ditch and having emotionally charged reactions. Emotions are not logical and have so many layers to them, so having an acute awareness of your own values and behaviors is imperative to work towards maintaining a masculine frame with a stoic reaction in the face of provocation. Do not dismiss your emotions, but at the same time do not let them be the ultimate decision maker in your life.

[@Obama46]

Respect, I've been developing this skill for 8 months now and It's just how you've explained It.

[@freeone1545]

Love and support brother accountability is the answer for everything get up and strive to be the best you can be today

[@captnrobvious47]

This is only how I see the idea of "controlling emotions". Stay with me... I have always believed total control of one's emotions was impossible. It has always been said to me in a context that suggested that I can choose how I feel towards something. I have never been able to CHOOSE HOW I FEEL towards "triggers"; pranks, compliments, bullies, friends, a dead cat on the side of the road. The context in which you explain it here is what I had to learn over time as well. Instead of skipping to the end and controlling or choosing my emotions, I had to learn how to NOT LET THEM CONTROL ME. In my mind, they are not the same thing. It means to control myself and how I respond, IF I respond to triggers or stimuli, external, internal or combined. For example, the holidays are usually a difficult time for me, especially recently. This has been the third year in a row I had been left behind to look after everyone's pets while my friends and family go out of state to enjoy Thanksgiving so I attempted something similar to your ice-cream strategy. I made a peanut butter pie, something that used to be a staple in our family. They were not eating this where they went, so I shared a picture, but kept the pie to myself. A little retribution I thought, but even with that, shifting one's thoughts from the negative to the positive is especially difficult for one with ADHD. I would still find myself circling back to the same feelings of resentment, as if they had conspired to ditch me when I knew that was not true.

[@pushthroughthewall3396]

Emotion is probably the root cause for 90% of the worlds problems. The more we all can learn how to control it and properly utilize it in constructive and helpful ways, the better we as humans will be.

[@Name_Lessness]

In the spiritual community this introspection is called alchemizing. Even when you do manage to acknowledge your emotions going forward it's equally important to reflect on everything going backwards. The Yang (shadow) side of an individual is psychic in nature. If and when done right you'll experience visions and senses from your past, this is healing your karmic imprints. It's said in death we feel all the karma we put on others from their perspective and in the end your heart is weighed to determine what's next. You don't have to wait till you die though. When one is done manifesting/full filling their ego the path of enlightenment can begin and start balancing their karma.

[@agentorange81]

I'm sure with me you'll know when i would be on my own paths values and such ,that's a high bar of what I should be and its infinite too

[@kaedelynn4584]

I also want you to know that women are learning from your videos too. Just most of us are just quiet about it, except me. It is not really the most welcome environment but the content is fabulous. I know as a fact of my circumstances that every human is on a treacherous life journey. The severity of that journey and the amount of growth required depends on your initial conditions at birth. If like me you are a female given circumstances to have to fend for yourself at an early age you must become double solid in your strength of character and strategy. And we may elect to proceed with the game set to extreme difficulty and follow the archetype of Athena or we may select a warrior to fight on our behalf. To each her own and whatever leads to the most happiness, actualization and fulfilment of a brief life

[@iansepter6440]

Thought-provoking and helpful you are insight is strangely invaluable.

[@MagusKali]

As a man who has struggled with this I'd like to share some insight with the rest of you, hopefully it resonates with those who are open-minded. There's an allure to being in control, it keeps you safe and also prevents the outside chaos from screwing up your inside peace. Growing up all I heard was "control yourself", "you have to control your emotions", or "be a man". The problem I encountered was "how do I do that?" and "what does that mean?" I was convinced that suppression meant strength, and that emotion clouds judgement; my beliefs ultimately led me down a path where I tried to learn how to ignore my feelings and see things for what they were. I'm sure that this will be familiar to some of you, maybe you've thought the same thing at some point. As I've grown into maturity, I've also learned that suppression does not make you a man, it actually will break you as a man. We are not meant to bottle up what we feel, we are meant to understand our feelings and choose how to better the outside world because of them. It is my belief that the world should benefit from our strengths, and our weaknesses, because we should not depend on anybody else to do it for us. If you do nothing but suppress your self, you are only going to accumulate internal stress which can lead to health-related problems down the line. It's not worth it just so other "real men" see you as a "real" man. What I offer you instead is a tactic that a wise person shared with me. One of the greatest strengths we have as a human being is our curiosity, it is one of the first things we develop as a young child and it is through our curiosity that we learn about the outside world. Sadly, we push it to the side because of our accumulated experiences and because we "know better". I will argue that it is our curiosity that can help us through even the harshest emotional reactivity, and even through traumatic events. It is curiosity that will help you understand your self, your secrets, and also your inner chaos; it takes a real man to be able to look at these things directly, and own them. Over-reacting is just your body/mind responding to a perceived threat, it may or may not, even be a real threat to your life. It's the perception that will dominate you, the thing that you must understand to truly be free. Breathe, get your body under control. Your body is just trying to help you survive, but, unless you are faced with a legitimate threat, it may not be the best way to handle things. Next is the perception, which is what you have to get a hold of. Somehow you have a belief about whatever triggered you, and it's your job to understand it or else you will be a slave to it. By being curious about it, you can look at your internal workings without judging yourself, and see what makes you tick. Don't give yourself a hard time for it, just let it work itself out. Maybe you have something that needs to come out (anger, resentment, bitterness, mourning) and you should dedicate time into that. The gym, combat training, a hike/run, or even screaming can help. Learn from it what you can ... and let it go. You would be surprised at the strength you will find at the other end of your suffering. Let this motivate you to do something constructive, and turn your weakness into a potential strength. The funny thing is that once I found that strength, I realized that all of the people who told me to "control myself" never really learned how to do that other than by suppressing themselves. They meant well, but they just didn't know any better. Sometimes people only do what they were taught to do by other people who were never taught properly, or, sadly, by people who learned from bad experiences and never let it go. They are life-long victims, and it is unacceptable, as a man, to be a victim of somebody else's suffering. It is your duty to be FREE men. That liberty is worth it. Peace.

[@Magicmanjohnson]

Thank you, man. This was a blessing to read

[@BlackGoId]

Another beautiful batch of wisdom. Thanks forged always a pleasure to hear from you.

[@waterleeleepad]

Basically. Incentivize your life. If something hurts you, incentivize harder!

[@bladedup]

this is the best video i’ve seen on this topic👍🏽

[@DeterminedPhilip]

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[@devoyblake4569]

truth

[@agentorange81]

I. Never thought I'd be one to make enemies and enough to go off on them finally because I hold back long as I can ,if I get mad it's Rambo time cause its then finial line believes me ,i prefer to stay here ,even if the end times of good and evil fight ,What Christian would leave people ,good ones in your opinion ,or your partner your freedoms religion taken is aweful these people u knew growing up they'd lie to spite their face ,every american high school and such , you stay to fight rather than rapture away , my duty will remain because short or long in battle I think I deserve better ,we ,some ,thpeople grew fought or had kids being the result of the greatest gen and were brainwwshed and it works I love that time ,it was so just it all was perfectly timed in history to show integrity , another bonus ,we all were diff parties we all know the difference or served with others that showed we all do what's good don't leave a good man behind

[@agentorange81]

Seriously if I had a shot ,and I can make a small difference or help be the alert or the Achilles now ask those that are in deep literal bible belt stuff Evangelical types the legit good mostly kind ,few but I don't want it there's a good point for the war anyway ,garaunteed 7 year win and prosper for 1k years rebuild it rightit isn't my place at all to say when god says my theory is we battle evil at times worldwide seems like , wouldn't be the first for the generation lol I'd rethink these evil doers planning ,its just downhill from here for us currently and I'm feeling no bad ,not great but wed go normandy over it again you dam right if its like the 2nd world war was and worse it don't matter bring it , johnny Reb better remember he's on parole for the extreme fringe that was never like a lot of Republicans ,there's good chance the world would help plus NATO so shhhhhh you promised way back and that wouldn't even your spoiled future asses common jack! Another self educated integrity driven person from Kentucky who knows bs when he smells it ,y'all stank like sh!+ of dishonesty and mean heartedness and greed and power hungry and there's those cold enough to do it for a win like its gd basketball or some shit move on like oh well my inciting and rich and powerful in something ass got mad over tax you act like the trump sitcom we had was 25 -50 years of no taxes. You depended on that lol riiight and cleaned up then they gave your fair share to do like I did , you claim its helping them spitefully around 60% corporations rwised the 60 that had not increased their profit margins and kept price in other words , its only about 40 or less id say and its a cash grab by force , monopoly , hatethat fu*n game sometimes ,dark money special interests ,u had allll that ,your still gonna loose with the messages we seen since well me born 81 I remember the reds the wall well ,enough well any, don't we all deserve a break and get this going to help our situation not dramatise bs that some are being go team some brain washed easily , some greedy ,some traitorous ,some hatefully biased and will in anything do anything to get what they reap in a bad year

[@agentorange81]

I needed a rant there ty if its too um well edgy and I should hush lol do whatever doesn't matter its a rant I got plenty ,I just got no f***s to give out,my tank run dry of fucks sorry it won't kill me I'm rich in it and sto currency online ,for only in game stuff lol I'm out of fucks and space game rich bitches I'm Crazy

[@agentorange81]

I can get it like hot water faucet on tap if its the right thing to tick at me this did it I thought better than that than the number voted this too like huh?! What?!😦I'd be ashamed to see my mom ,after all of that and bet the ones moms that arnt for maga are seeing through like xray for some lol I mean you can't hide that big a pile of bs no time soon ,I thought better ,and some for real ,can't help it in a way too that's Sad yall do anything manipulate the ones can't think right that's some Savage bloodthirsty shit you don't have to be like that but look ,look who's rich who's asking for their own social security taken , the orange Mussolini was not letting any one get power eventually , he had personality cultures not oaths that we hold dear , they hold dear leader or drink that flavor aid if that was here rob me and use me , you hate the poorly educatedmand you hate a lot of fringes dont you , djt should be in Guantanamo bay with the super traitors we have ,always had anyway there with the white powers family , or he needs the lesson of broke and in a southern maga populated prison with a lot of diversity and he has to live life there permanate if the sentence is too light ,see dammit ,goes off like hair trigger 💥🔥, hope it helps those thinking that and don't get started on Russians too ,should be REAL ashamed ,😡🙌dudes dudetts , you made conservatives , Republican votes ,independent votes go to sleepy Joe ,tortoise not the hair , you need help ,we do some , you poured gas on a candle vigil its still much to do ,and thorough

[@FERALxIMP]

Biggest trigger is being called stupid

[@xerxespowers2557]

When you call an intellectual stupid, its very painful insult.

[@freckleheckler6311]

@@xerxespowers2557 doesn’t that make the insult painless because they know it not to be true?

[@agentorange81]

Liar ,or thief , cheater or accused wrongly ,judged wrongly but years of bad has made it so I crave it for everyone that's not a hassle on us all or @*nt lol

[@kadirul00]

@@freckleheckler6311 some people get offended because they know it's not true.

[@supercooleliseo11]

Much love ❤️ thank you older bro