This is How a Stalker's Brain Works And It's Really Disturbing

[@stinkytoby]

"Have you ever received an unwanted gift, a series of strange phone calls, or a weird letter?" Not even if you remove the adjectives

[@hollywoodsdestiny7919]

Lol. Good

[@Umbratilis]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@thestrays815]

Toby, one of the best comments I've ever read

[@iSketchRandom]

Toby LOLLL

[@marian8346]

xddd

[@I.v.king24]

My landlord has been stalking me for the past 3months. He keeps using “late rent” and “eviction notice” as an excuse to speak to me. He use to call and txt me a lot but I blocked him. Makes you realize anyone can be stalked.

[@ellenoresalvi8870]

Or he has a major crush on you and maybe wants to know you better. Or is hella lonely. Wait wtf what if he is a stalker and I’m backing him up? AHHHH-

[@hillarymcdonald9954]

Mine shows up near when the rent is due a week in advance I see him everywhere opening my gate checking the pipes and drains and inspecting my place without my knowledge. Then there are these random ppl threatening my security near my gate and I'm pretty sure I've never experienced this level of security problem before moving there lol.

[@gaarasama1247]

That IS creepy. Be careful and check everywhere for cameras 😦

[@MrRyan-wu4jx]

Whatever you do don’t give him keys to your place.

[@darrenrobertc3238]

@@ellenoresalvi8870 I think she doesn't pay her rent

[@jillianfry4520]

Im an anti stalker. I learned the schedule of someone I dont like just to avoid them.

[@dieforfunk]

Nebula Hahaha this is actually so relateable 😅

[@jillianfry4520]

@@dieforfunk it's a lifestyle 😌💅

[@ZiqpY]

What about this person makes you dislike them so much? @Nebula

[@southernmalesubmissive4570]

I did that with one co worker I had at walmart. She was the most annoying person I have ever met and no I dont have a problem with women my best friend at that location was a woman and my favorite boss there was a woman but this particular womans whole agenda was to make service difficult for customers and to run and tell on every employee for every little bullshit thing to the point of the mangers hating her as well. I dont think Ive ever met a bigger piece of human garbage than that woman and I ended up manipulating my schedule with the help of my aformentioned favorite manager so I would not have to work with her.

[@mycatjoe4]

That’s still creepy in its own way Edit: so people seem to get upset by my comment so here is something to maybe change your mind(maybe it won’t I don’t really care) The word „anti-stalker“ includes „stalker“ and stalkers are people who actively pursue someone in order to learn their behavioral patterns (be it day to day routine or something very specific) So let’s say if someone where to tell me that it’s not creepy because they are „broadcasting their daily lifes“ i mean sure if you use the information at hand to dodge that person that’s totally normal and acceptable but „stalker“ means as stated above that you pursue that person in a proactive way to obtain information about the person which would not be presented by just coexisting with the person. (For instance: their address, their family members, their favorite restaurants, their sleep time, their commute route, their commute time and the list goes on (you probably know what I mean by now))

[@Smashingblouse]

I never heard it put like that before. When my ex managed to break into my house and confront me he said “I feel like you’ve died so I don’t see the problem with killing you”. Unhinged and genuinely scary.

[@SC-sn3xs]

Oh hell naw!!! Smhhh glad you’re alive today cuz that’s wild!

[@Smashingblouse]

@@SC-sn3xs thanks man. Yeah it sucked. I had to move

[@drakeduped2872]

🧢🧢

[@Sophia-ks9yu]

Did we have the same ex?? My deranged ex did that right after we broke up and before the lock guy came to change the locks. I have never been so sure I was going to get killed

[@Smashingblouse]

@@Sophia-ks9yu I hope not. I also hope if they are with other people they don’t treat them the same. I hope you’ve healed/healing from the horrid experience 🫶🏻

[@BonazaiGirl]

I have a stalker. A family member who’s moved into our house this year. He follows me into my bedroom and the bathroom. He always sneaks into my bed or under it when I’m half asleep. And worse, he gets so close to me when I’m trying to eat, watching me take every bite. Worse, he has a terrifying habit of licking my things, and in my sleep, my skin. It freaks me out how little space and privacy I have when in my own home under the fear that he’s always watching me. I knew I should’ve gotten a cat instead of a dog...

[@emc5674]

They got us in the first half ngl

[@tadrosse3786]

Holy shit

[@priscillaguzman8072]

I was so disturbed until that last sentence omg 😂😭

[@imacenoo74gr]

Good shit👏

[@Yorana9069]

Omg

[@dankdopths6955]

The scariest stalkers are the ones who don't know that their actions are super weird and creepy, or they don't care.

[@sunnyd8585]

I think the ones who do not know that they are being weird and creepy are the least scary because it is most likely that they do not have bad intentions toward the victim. Once these types of stalkers are informed that they are being weird and creepy, they would most likely apologize and not bother the victim again.

[@andydo9308]

Those stalkers are mainly women

[@santanapage5044]

​@@andydo9308I totally disagree, it's men

[@aina1307]

@@andydo9308 that's funny bcs the crime statistic show the opposite

[@COOLEVELYNNN]

Yes………

[@TheNoirAlien]

Must be hard for Stalkers at the moment, being outdoor types.

[@metra8604]

I feel bad for them now

[@Arirezz]

Actually one of my childhood friends was one (idk them anymore) and can confirm that he was an introvert

[@emilystevens6055]

Actually I’ve found that it has been much easier to stalk when your future husband is in a confined space that he cannot leave for the foreseeable future. You would think that somone would notice you in their house when they are and have to stay inside all day however it is easy to disguise myself.

[@sunnybugaboo9478]

@@emilystevens6055 hol up

[@emilystevens6055]

Savage Bugaboo see you think that you are laying on your bed however i have disguised myself as a bed. Can you feel that itch? thats me covered in itching powder, pretending to be a matteress, listening to you watch youtube.

[@alolaunica]

I’ve been stalked twice. Literally ladies, a guy being obsessed with you is not something you want. Always living in fear in your home, job, anywhere is insane and I’m so thankful that I got away.

[@savannahleeross7373]

Agree with you! Currently in a very serious situation that Im a complete wreck riddled with a horrid high heart rate and even more anxiety than I already deal with! Im fckin scared asfck! 😭

[@Crystal-l4f]

I stop going to random discord groups.

[@OmiTheEel]

Stalkers hate this technique "Stalker no stalking" "Stalker no stalking" "Stalker no stalking"

[@yoongi9424]

*snaps fingers* aw man

[@mcpugh]

I tried this and they blocked it with “Stalker yes stalking” “Stalker yes stalking” “Stalker yes stalking” Anyway, so that’s how I died.

[@honeybubble9649]

@@mcpugh just get a uno reverse card dude

[@doodlescnof4424]

omg that made me lol

[@catnoirsimp6779]

You’ve achieved comedy

[@camerondale6529]

in middle school and high school, a girl that had been stalking me for years made a facebook account of me, using pictures she had taken covertly when I was unaware. She then pretended to be me and talked to people who thought they were speaking to me. it was some really weird shit. I hadnt made a facebook account prior to this, and I didn't find out until my irl friends told me they spoke to me on facebook and I had to convince them it wasn't me. I eventually made an account solely to prevent this person from abusing my identity. susan, if you're reading this - leave me alone

[@leonamvinoy3008]

She is still there stealing your identity?

[@Ishmeueu]

Identity theft is not a joke jim

[@AnhTran-if2wk]

OFFICE REFER-

[@vodkaklbd9598]

leave then alone Susan.

[@thatveganchef112]

@Ishmu Ali You👏Are👏A👏Legend👏😂

[@cornpop5898]

I am currently being stalked by people who are oddly overly concerned about my car's extended warranty. the weird part is I don't even own a car. haven't for 8 years.

[@ryanjung4416]

hahahah good one

[@abcd-oh2te]

dude those people are annoying

[@noonehere4332]

Especially when you are looking for work haha.

[@ThemysticsageLeeza]

Mannn I keep blocking they number and they call from a new one...

[@lisabeam4354]

These people are obsessed with getting their hands on your money.

[@starrysparkles404]

In the case of the Predatory stalker; it's not about grief, it's about POWER AND CONTROL!!! You don't know anything about stalkers if you think it's grief or love sickness. Never!!! It's about REVENGE. TRUST ME. They're crazy sometimes

[@ConservativeHippie001]

Facts!!!

[@TrinaGallo]

I agree. Mine was SO ANGRY that I didn’t want to be in a relationship with him. So instead he terrorized me in every way possible.

[@melonneleh]

@@TrinaGallo oh no! I hope you are doing well now

[@CoachK10190]

@@TrinaGallothey deal with rejection terribly.

[@nothingnewunderthesun4292]

My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ Either way, she played it all down and got defensive and a bit mad even when I, without much thought behind it, called it stalking, so was it stalking or not?

[@ironheadfm]

"The only thing that a paparazzi differentiates from a stalker, is his camera." Charlie Sheen

[@Retr0Sk1ll]

One has an expensive high-quality digital camera for professional use, while the paparazzi takes pics of celebrities

[@truckerhatadventures5649]

Good one!!

[@seilove7044]

Time to get a camera btfu. Idk why I though that was funny so I had to post it

[@samanthajohnston9269]

I heard a serial killer describe how he felt when he stalked/murdered his victims, and he said the first time was such a rush and then when it wore off he wanted that same feeling but it's like he couldn't reach that level again so he would keep trying. It sounded like an addict describing their battle with drugs. It was pretty unsettling.

[@Bouwe99]

That’d sooo creapy

[@sammu101]

there’s an episode of criminal minds that says the exact same thing! i know that’s fiction but i just wanted to mention 😅

[@KJfromTheFort]

That's why so hard to believe this God n Devil stuff bc we are attracted to danger and drama, playing with death until it kills us . Thanks God for setting me up to fall

[@Dylan-bj4fx]

@@KJfromTheFort God never said life was going to be easy so you’re wrong on that. If it was so easy to be a good person all the time wouldn’t everyone be in Heaven? Next time you comment think

[@ridealongwithnicolle1581]

That isnt a stalker. That is a serial killer.

[@FEARLovingGirl]

"There's a good chance that you've been a victim of stalking." Me: "You flatter me, good sir."

[@RealityCheck6T9]

Lol

[@ItsNotMeItsYou007]

If you have never had a stalker, maybe you are one. LOL

[@hedleypanama]

A stalker here! 💇

[@arintheseatsesh6242]

@@hedleypanama yucky.

[@aron4317]

Lol

[@hushpuppy7694]

I've been stalked by someone I saw a few times and didn't know had a girlfriend. The girlfriend was stalking to the point she placed 2 tracking devices on my car, coming to my home and work. Started texting and calling me with different burner numbers. She had men calling me and mentioning my kid. The cops couldn't do anything because I didn't have enough proof. So I had to hire a lawyer and private investigator. She and whoever joined her stalked me for over a year, but would wait 2-4 months then do something again, as if to wait for my guard to go down. That has broke me to the point I still have not healed. I'm very much afraid to go outside. But therapy is slowly helping.

[@longdongmc.johnson]

I just stood around my ex' house for a couple of hours wearing a disguise. Trying to look inside to see whats going on. Gotta make sure she isnt stalking me or something.

[@jpeg.600x2]

lol

[@guy8360]

Smart move, you can never be to safe these days lol

[@IshaFarzana]

You're the stalker bro

[@ASmartNameForMe]

@@IshaFarzana say it with me. R\whhhhhooooooooooooooosh

[@dimitrivanderhel9261]

Isha Farzana your a genius my man

[@drone_video9849]

I'm stalking Thoughty2, he is a cool guy, he doesn't even know I watch him every day.... its Obvious, I don't even try hide it - but he has no idea.... I even leave a thumbs up, but he hasn't figured it out it was me.

[@mubarakadam2102]

In this case the victim is getting paid for being stalked " watched ", i wouldn't mind that type of stalking. #justSayin

[@sews5742]

@@D_Marrenalv he's just kidding...

[@cedricpod]

Drone_Video i obsess over T2’s moostash .....

[@sebastienbolduc5654]

Or maybe you're the victim and Thoughty2 is stalking you!

[@SiliconBong]

GET OUT OF HERE S.T.A.L.K.E.R. !

[@amandaowens8458]

I had a stalker once. I stalked him back. I was left alone. Sometimes you just have to outcrazy them

[@VijayThakurMD]

You took all the fun of staking Don't do such evils deeds to anyone ever, no one deserves such harsh punishment.

[@Goon_Less]

@@VijayThakurMD lmao

[@eaipu4408]

big brain moves

[@amandaowens8458]

@@eaipu4408 If you understand your enemy you can defeat your enemy. It's not that hard

[@eaipu4408]

@@amandaowens8458true

[@ayashinightcore8282]

I came close to becoming a domestic stalker mainly because I wanted to be with my ex so badly, what helped me is learning that if I love her I need to let her go and be happy

[@yamataichul]

Take care!

[@cobalt101]

@theformidabletruth Respectfully, this is incredibly important. Props to the OC for showing their true love through this change.

[@minji202]

@theformidabletruth this is not the best response to someone who reflects on their own actions and learns that it is a mistake to fulfill those. As human beings, we have a complex psyche and emotions, which can be wrecked at times, but what is important is to be aware of the negative sides of oneself and not let it take control.

[@Columnn1]

You're mental

[@cobalt101]

@@Columnn1 Again, with respect, this person took active steps to better themselves. I don’t believe they deserve to be called this after they improved upon their past actions for their ex’s benefit. It’s understandable, in my opinion, that they missed their ex so strongly-these situations can be very hard for some. The OC proved that they could prevent these feelings from surfacing in a terrible way, and I think this is what truly matters. …but hey, that’s just me :) Edit: I’m not condoning anything to do with disregarding the fact that domestic stalker thought processes are severely flawed and can be dangerous. Just considering that this person was able to redeem themselves, I only feel it a little unfair to judge them based solely on these circumstances. As long as they don’t have any intentions of harm in any way, judging them as a whole seems like the better and more understanding alternative.

[@AB-gz9yb]

Stalking is when 2 people go for a romantic walk but only one of them knows about it.

[@ItsDeebs]

By the way, you're out of milk.

[@ibrahim-sj2cr]

friendzone

[@steviejrr]

ur fit

[@AB-gz9yb]

Josh Hsoj hahahahah thanks for the info. Now can I have my knickers back 😂

[@avinashkatiki1505]

lol

[@MrLump]

I used to be a stalker, but I’m recovering and rarely think about her. What I did was schedule my day so I never crossed paths with her, and I changed all my passwords and usernames to random stuff so I couldn’t recover them.

[@zayn6699]

Good advice. I think I'll do that

[@kailzedillo]

Late to the party but good job. I'm glad u realized what u we're doing was wrong. There's so many people in the world

[@nicholashodges201]

I had girl who thought I was stalking her. We both had similar schedules and lived/worked in the same 1 mile area w no car. I don't think it would have come up but, we we're both bar workers (most of the bars in that town are in sight of each other, so if you work at one you get an idea of who's working the others) and we walked the same direction. I didn't know I was stalking her until she jumped out of a bush & maced me. It took some work for the cops to get her to realize it was all in her head. Even then we had a couple of run ins & it eventually led to a spat of bar bans on others who got involved...

[@zayn6699]

@@nicholashodges201 I hope you overcome your struggle

[@nicholashodges201]

@@zayn6699 I just moved the hell out of that college town. Those people are crazy Stoopid

[@1javixD]

Stalking is when you’ve lived with your husband under the same roof for 20 years and he doesn’t know it yet.

[@daram.9565]

Hyahaahhahahayayayayayhhahahahhehehhehyayayayayyahahayayyaayheehyeahhahaehehehah

[@Cecily_Smith4]

First born unicorn he’s not alive how would he know?

[@catnoirsimp6779]

UHM-

[@myariah8921]

LMAO

[@paperbag4956]

555 likes can’t wait to ruin it...

[@realmiu]

this is actually terrifying. every single point made in this video regarding the 'home stalkers' fit my dad perfectly. him and my mom have been arguing my whole childhood, and he lost full custody over me and my brother 4 years ago. he started sending agents after my mom to see if she had a new husband. he even started threatening to kill my stepdad if he even gets near me.. it has been getting better recently, and i’ve been improving my relationship with my dad - but everytime we meet up he starts insulting the hell out of my mom (which i don’t appreciate). he claims he’s gotten over her, yet there’s never been a time where we met up without him talking about her.

[@pip.pip.pooray]

Sheesh this is frightening..im really sorry for your family. what have the police etc said about it? do they take it seriously?

[@MTBR077]

"they think they are the victim." That's fucking terrifying. This guy who used to be my friend, who followed me around and even molested me had actually gone around telling people I was playing hard to get, lashed out at him for no reason and that I rejected him unreasonably. He isolated me and got people to stop talking to me. He really went around convincing people he was the victim when I expressed disinterest.

[@hahapain.4521]

the second amendment is there for a reason my friend

[@la6136]

I’m sorry that happened to you that guy sounds like trash

[@rainsara2795]

That's awful I'm sorry

[@amandag5125]

I'm sorry you went through that.

[@Icewind007]

If people stopped talking to you because of what someone else said, they were never really with you to begin with.

[@Nia_The_Cow]

There’s this technique that might work: “If they are following you and you know that they are, act like someone called you and they are about to pick you up. Once you let them realize that you’re getting “picked” up, turn around and yell “aye! Is that you! I think I see your car” and like wave your arms in front of them, now if that was just a regular person the worst thing you’ve done was yell in a strangers face.” -coryxkenshin

[@regenx]

Yessir we all love our CoryxAdvice

[@nghtspawn651]

You're*

[@Nia_The_Cow]

N!GhTSpÄwN thanks😂

[@dimitrarena5643]

I do sth similar. I stop, look at my phone and turn and go back to the oppostite direction. Towards them. But acting like u are getting picked is better. Esp. If u really call someone

[@choiya]

I KNEW THIS SOUNDED FAMILIAR OMGGGG BYE

[@Triferus]

My girlfriend always calls me a stalker and tells me to get out of her house, then starts screaming at me. She's so funny and quirky.

[@kittenrants]

😅😂

[@satanlovespussy9707]

Are you sure your relationship will last if you were to take arguements so likely or as a joke considering it is *always* frequent. I dont know i just feel that something is not right thats all and jesus christ stop saying its just a joke how the hell could u even assume that bruh.U cant make a joke out of that

[@blobmaster118]

@@satanlovespussy9707 its a joke bro

[@doodlescnof4424]

that’s so cute❤️❤️. I can relate

[@sierralilbit7558]

@@RhythmWalkerKS 😆

[@Masha_Sulym]

It was at this exact moment when I realized that I used to stalk my ex. Not too much, I think, but I was looking for every occasion to meet him. And a couple times I was standing under his balcony, looking into his window. I didn't realize back then how creepy it was. I genuinely felt like someone close to me died, I couldn't let him go. One time he told me that he saw some footprints on snow leading under his balcony and asked if it was me. I confessed. And he was really scarred after that. To be honest, I was glad, because the rest of the time I always felt like a victim in those relationship, especially as it was him who dated other girl behind my back and when I found out and told him he has to choose, he dumped me. But now I realize that it was for the best because that relationship made me paranoid and stalkery and was bad for me. I never hurt him on purpose though. But I was totally obsessed. I have never been so obsessed in my life before. This is really weird.

[@Charamelllo]

Real

[@uluruise]

Very brave of you to share. I hope you're in a better position now.

[@Masha_Sulym]

@@uluruise yes, for sure. That's an ancient history.

[@maruftalukdar1805]

The way he walked us into that promotion at the end was quite smooth ngl.

[@ManicMonster713]

Definitely 🤣🤣🤣

[@squirtbadazz0267]

Got me good there I had to like after he did that

[@lookaguy6255]

why is this comment 3 months old and there is comment s on it from like today

[@squirtbadazz0267]

Didn’t even notice I did that today💀

[@Firestar-zp5dq]

I didn't even notice the transition happened tbh

[@DelightfullyGrace]

“A domestic stalker never thinks they’re a stalker” Me: “Wait. _Am I a stalker?”_

[@angelross3135]

I was the same way XD

[@angelross3135]

Like am I really one or..? This makes me question everything

[@zoopylove2937]

👀👀

[@MissJellybean]

If you questioned if you were stalker you probably are not.

[@ryanhiggins8869]

Miss Jellybean depends on the conclusion you come to I suppose

[@pleadureneedspain5649]

When I was in high school a girl stalked me for about a week. When she found out how boring I was, it thankfully stopped.

[@autumnolguin5329]

Pleadure Needs Pain 😂😂

[@jodiehudson2325]

Hahaha your hilerious

[@jungha265]

Are you really thankful, or hurt?

[@dennisdevries2226]

That's nice

[@wizardofahhhs759]

Me too, and I was eventually attacked by her. Had a class with this girl and never said two words to her but for some reason she became obsessed with me and eventually attacked me.

[@bethanyfury1209]

I was stalked by an ex for 3 years. My heart goes out to victims of this.

[@poppopper33]

You prob betrayed him and berated him and caused all of it

[@anmyarchive]

@@poppopper33nobody is to be blamed for any sort of abuse except for the abuser.

[@poppopper33]

@@anmyarchive nah that’s emotional abuse to betray your partner.

[@poppopper33]

@@anmyarchive so you deserve whatever happens after breaking someone’s trust like that

[@danbaker7640]

Thank you !@@poppopper33 speaking facts !

[@freckledandred]

My ex definitely admitted to being a stalker. It was part of his trying to scare me games but he straight up said. "I know I'm crazy, and you're not out of my life until I say you are."

[@Theofficialskzdormricecooker]

That is terrible, what did you do?

[@Jose-gc3xt]

@@Theofficialskzdormricecooker they got back together and are now engaged

[@rafreyes1190]

@@Jose-gc3xt hahahaha tragedy

[@kerang7185]

Is he away now?

[@LilXancheX]

Did he kill you lol

[@lurvad6615]

Bold of you to assume I'm important enough to be stalked

[@X606]

Yeah I feel that

[@adzinferno415]

nina wallen you already know it why you askin

[@alixlegend7952]

nina wallen reply of the year lol

[@thriftyfreebies]

I think most people probably think that and maybe that’s why they don’t think they’ll ever be stalked. But, I don’t think stalkers think like that. I mean, if they were thinking rationally, they probably wouldn’t waste their time stalking somebody to begin with.

[@xfairy3800]

My point exact it's crazy to even assume that

✔️ Unwanted gift ✔️ Strange phone calls It's confirmed, my grandma is a stalker

[@wesleytait7982]

Comedian

[@grzegorzbrzeczyszczykiewic536]

Vaří alespoň dobře?

[@completebilingual]

Haha. Made my day.

[@rmpgloco7054]

Thats pretty ungrateful

[@sinkmagg0t]

Grandma's calls are NEVER unwanted. DELETE THIS COMMENT IMMEDIADETLY OR THE GRANDMA DEFENSE SQUAD WILL FIRE 😡😡

[@kristinmeyer489]

A lot of stalkers seem to form online "social" groups, where they share tips on traumatizing and collecting video trophy "evidence" of the damage they deny they're doing. These jerks also seem to gravitate towards "service" jobs where they, or their demented buddies may find easier access to single women, whom they may traumatize much easier than any other category of people.

[@1mol831]

I guess they are the safe stalkers

[@kristinmeyer489]

@@1mol831 There's no such thing as a safe stalker.

[@1mol831]

@@kristinmeyer489 they said the stranger stalker is unlikely to follow through their threats, they must be safer stalkers

[@nothingnewunderthesun4292]

My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ Either way, she played it all down and got defensive and a bit mad even when I, without much thought behind it, called it stalking, so was it stalking or not?

[@naomiwork]

@@nothingnewunderthesun4292it was

[@alexandriacandler2877]

You look like a dad who says “I’m not mad, I’m disappointed” a lot.

[@randomgirlonutube0847]

I see it 😂😂😂

[@samuelcox5016]

Diddily.

[@zsaz4453]

Lol. For real D

[@inactive2378]

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

[@ratticusthewinion]

for real-

[@DanielJohnGaming]

I’m a night stalker, I don’t know why this guy is creating such a stigma. The groceries on the shelves won’t just replace themselves over night!

[@totallynotafanficreader7850]

Are you telling me shelves AREN'T infinite food making machines???

[@cyberspino6277]

Are u meaning to tell me that stores don't just have free food there everyday and someone restocks them

[@staymad.3616]

HSKSJKEJR

[@zilverplayer8805]

Im being stalked by mosquitoes, but the police wont take me seriously.

[@arikakarin2323]

I don't want to be stereotypical but... Are you Os?

[@hannahmarieartistry4603]

I have a very serious stalker who went after me for years. I still don’t have protection from him because the police have no idea how to handle that kind of situation, even less so when they use online resources to reach/ sabotage you. Please sign my petition demanding that police take action when it comes to situations like these. It also links to a KZbin video describing the extent of what I was put through. It’s a very serious and under-policed situation that could happen to anyone so please take the time so sign. www.change.org/p/facebook-eliminate-cyberstalking

[@Kiemixo]

Haaa

[@aliviaaudioss5573]

Sksks

[@stqrcles]

They might be radioactive..

[@soundofmoosixsoundofmoosix7963]

I never thought it would be me, I lived life very naively until I found out I was being stalked by 2 men online when I was 16- one of them was a senior in my school who watched me from class to class and wrote out my entire schedule so he could follow me, the other man lived 7 hours away and came to my school to find me. This was all because I had a public Twitter account as a teenager, please stay safe out there you guys ❤

[@nothingnewunderthesun4292]

My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ Either way, she played it all down and got defensive and a bit mad even when I, without much thought behind it, called it stalking, so was it stalking or not?

[@soundofmoosixsoundofmoosix7963]

@@nothingnewunderthesun4292 holy shit … that’s stalking .. please stay safe because your ex gf is crazy and there is no reasoning with a crazy person. as Whoopi Goldberg says , you in danger girl!!!! Stay safe ❤️

[@windy4632]

I stalked my stalker before. We ran into each other it was quite awkward but I wanted him to know how creepy it actually was

[@mushroommagic1697]

What happened next, did you scared him?

[@tobenfarrell1334]

Wow, beautiful and smart, some one could become obsessed with you easy as.

[@naxusv7232]

🧢

[@jamiezebra23]

Lol

[@Siegfried5846]

In some ways I understand guys like that. The movie "one hour photo" was very good before they started demonising the man who stalked a woman. Sometimes when you have no life, you just want to watch someone else's from the outside. Of course, threats or violence is bad. I'm not talking about that.

[@Trainfan1055Janathan]

When I worked at Amazon (literally the woese place ever, don't work there), I heard stories of a man who worked in shipping. He would save all female addresses, then stalk them. He was later fired.

[@thriftyfreebies]

Wow, how did he find the time to stalk so many customers?

[@Trainfan1055Janathan]

@@thriftyfreebies I have no idea. At the end of my shift, I was too tired to drive, so I took an hour-long nap in my car. But I was still tired afterwards, so I gave up.

[@maiajade7457]

pls tell me not in MA??

[@Trainfan1055Janathan]

@@maiajade7457 I'm not sure. They didn't say at which location.

[@wesleytait7982]

@@thriftyfreebies I know! 'ALL FEMALE ADDRESSES' Hmm🤔

[@bellarose894]

My mom was stalked by her ex boyfriend as a teenager, and he made death threats and threatened to kill himself. My mom felt bad for him (he had a mental disability as well, I’m not sure what it was)so she tried dating him again to see if he would change. One day she broke up with him and he “drove her home”, but actually drove her to an empty parking lot and tried to choke her. But he came to his senses pretty quickly and stopped. He then sought help and they no longer communicated, but my mom was very lucky because if he hadn’t have come to his senses things could’ve gone much worse

[@seth9577]

So scary

[@bellarose894]

@R3TR0 30 IKR?

[@mjd4287]

@R3TR0 30 she said he had a mental illness

[@Camazotzer]

@@lynseyjones1146 "ex boyfriend" *also he is reffered as "he" multiple times and the mother is reffered as "she" as well.

[@PennyWenny224]

@@lynseyjones1146 why does it matter

[@missbealovesalbert8353]

I've been stalked in the tradition sense by an ex. I took all the legal routes. When that didn't work, I realized anything he can legally get away with- so can can I. When I was done with him, he was in tears begging the police to make it stop- they laughed at him- and I still grin when I reminisce.

[@mariapiccioni5974]

Omg what did you do I need to know more!!

[@TeaLaRee]

Write a manual 💰 😂

[@nothingnewunderthesun4292]

My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ Either way, she played it all down and got defensive and a bit mad even when I, without much thought behind it, called it stalking, so was it stalking or not?

[@uluruise]

definitely stalking. @@nothingnewunderthesun4292

[@Trobtwillis]

​@@nothingnewunderthesun4292 She stalked you.

[@csehestedt94]

What if a stalker realizes they are being a stalker? I lost a friend once and tried to find them because I missed them and realized I was being a stalker so I stopped. Don't worry i caught up with them later and even discussed it with them and we were okay about it.

[@yooghurt]

But you weren't doing it in a creepy way were you? You just wanted to find them

[@LadyMFUnicorn]

Its not stalking unless you are going the extra mile. I have a friend i been looking for. A Joe Angel. I spent a year searching. Never found him thats not stalking though.

[@KevinRAAMAAAGE]

@@LadyMFUnicorn I hope you find your friend

[@TheBizarre1]

I dont think thats stalking at all. Perhaps you had a deep connection with that friend, no matter how long you have known them, and you just wanted to find them. And like he said, you cannot convince a stalker that they are a stalker, so if you felt that what you were doing might have been creepy, chances are you know your boundaries and are not a stalker.

[@davidmacias7677]

They are in your basement aren't they? Lol

[@nietzscheshorse7713]

Your mustasche makes you seem like an expert on the subject.

[@DONTKNOW123DONTCARE]

hahaha @AngelofDisease 666, you took the thoughts right out of my head... I was thinking that too.. :) :) Rocking it though :)

[@nofilterfrankie7225]

Rockin the 70's creeper stash !

[@kimmypresley6621]

Haha epic

[@willherrin5650]

like Jacksfilms' pedostache lmaoo

[@MoonHowler340]

@Thawatchai Boonchuenchom Creeper, ah maan

[@Poppy-yx8js]

It’s weird when you are aware that someone has a creepy curiosity about you but then, say when they are caught cyberstalking and confronted that they are annoyed by you and don’t really want to talk to you- weird energy- you can’t tell if they have a crush on you or they want to k*ll you!

[@ilya8132]

My heart goes out to those suffering from stalkers.

[@yourordinarysmallyoutubech1373]

Bro cmon why

[@staarbloom]

It sucks

[@GOldenPROdigy115]

My dream is to be stalked by a woman

[@GOldenPROdigy115]

@@ksnndnfr6101 Nothing wrong with wanting to be admired by the opposite sex

[@wow-rs2kn]

@@GOldenPROdigy115 stalked and admired are quite different but humour is subjective so u do u

[@AsielMe]

"You've probably beanstalked."

[@talab6302]

Can't unhear it now 🤣👍🏾

[@foggyfrogy]

i red the comment at the same time he said it...guagagshhh I'm chocking

[@sibusisofaya7874]

Lol I read this as he said it lmao.

[@jamiewulfyr4607]

Damn, synchronicity! Read it just as he said it too.

[@flowerpower8722]

Oh, peas!

[@lolwolf1344]

I get uninterested so fast in things I couldn’t imagine being a stalker

[@stephanieh355]

How do I know that’s not something a stalker would say 🤨🤣

[@lolwolf1344]

Stephanie H ...you don’t 👀

[@blrlfrstfy2176]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/fninl4eul7mbiac

[@TheEyez187]

I know what yo... oh hi Kitty!!

[@TheBeanEnthusiast]

I used to be a stalker. I eventually got therapy and joined a 12 step program and a day at a time I work on making sure I never harm anyone in that way again.

[@Corvid-Conquest]

It takes courage to admit that. Good on you!

[@mminguriicc]

Victim: You're a stalker please stop stalking me Stalker: Understandable have a nice day

[@berryraspberry162]

LOL

[@serien194]

Ok but it would be much better if stalkers actually did that instead

[@hannahmarieartistry4603]

I have a very serious stalker who went after me for years. I still don’t have protection from him because the police have no idea how to handle that kind of situation, even less so when they use online resources to reach/ sabotage you. Please sign my petition demanding that police take action when it comes to situations like these. It also links to a KZbin video describing the extent of what I was put through. It’s a very serious and under-policed situation that could happen to anyone so please take the time so sign. www.change.org/p/facebook-eliminate-cyberstalking

[@el_tdg]

@@hannahmarieartistry4603 just whoop his ass

[@mayflower2158]

Shame on you for using stalking for your sponsored advertisement

[@shadowdancer5330]

Has anyone ever stalked a stalker before? The hunter becomes the hunted.

[@izukumidorya1379]

Theres a comic about that

[@EvelynCorvin]

Tv version of Hannibal?

[@kovarcoley8418]

Killing stalking

[@mansisharma7375]

The player by kresley Cole

[@silvercandra4275]

I mean... I just found out that I'm stalking my ex, while I'm being stalked by my own father so... kinda?

[@KayleeCee]

I had a stranger stalker a few years back. He used to come into the restaurant I worked at, but then he started leaving notes on my car, following me around, and driving by my house. When I told him I wasn't interested and had a boyfriend he turned nasty. He would come into the restaurant and just sit and glare at me. My tires started getting slashed. My boyfriend, who I lived with at the time, was a cop. That didn't seem to stop him, at first. But the word got around to my bfs colleagues and they upped their presence in my neighborhood. That must have gotten the point across because he stopped coming around after that, thank christ.

[@drone_video9849]

Sorry to hear of your past circumstance, but glad to hear it has improved. Just wanted to say despite some levity in the comments with the nature of this video, I for one understand the serious nature of this as I'm sure everyone does.

[@KayleeCee]

@I'm super EVIL I don't think I'll ever know what his true intentions were, but even if he had never started bothering me I would have said that there was something not quite right about the guy. For one, he never smiled. Not once. He used to come in with a girlfriend before they broke up and he turned his attention towards me. And in the 2 or so years that I knew him as just a regular customer he never smiled. It's almost as if it wasn't physically possible for him to do so. He also had cold, dead eyes. When you're talking to most people you usually notice some kind of light or spark in their eyes. This guy had nothing going on there, you couldn't get any kind of read or energy off of him. And the last creepy thing was that when he and his girlfriend split up she left in the dead of night without telling him and without taking anything but the clothes on her back. She just took off and ran. For someone to leave like that and to leave all of their things behind tells me that something must have been pretty bad and that she didn't feel safe leaving under any circumstances where he could have tried to stop her.

[@Beaneabean]

Kaylee F Lol, how do you know all that? Did you stalk him?

[@karamzidan9860]

@@KayleeCee Holly Shit it's like you're describing a psycho killer from a movie , how was his personality ? was he confident & masculine in interacting with you ?

[@princess_sonianevermind]

I had one to at my job smh

[@elizabethrose644]

i know i have problems with obsession and compulsion and loneliness on top of that. i started to think i was stalking my crush and felt very bad because i legitimately cared for him and didn’t want to harm him, but if he knew how much my world revolved around him it would be weird to say the least

[@leighchannel.02]

Hmm, I used to be liked this to my ex. He was very secretive and private even to me (we dated online).. I probably was too obsessed I wanted to know what he was up to since we're really far away. I recognized my issues and thought I'm too pathetic to be stuck on viewing his life instead of living mine.. I'm slowly trying to stop the urges.

[@SOM-v4o]

Have you ever tried confessing to him. Maybe it may work.

[@scarlettkathrynrosevlogs9820]

I legit had a stalker when I was 14. He was in his late 30s. I'm 18 now and he still isn't in jail. 🤢🤢

[@dillpickle5486]

Be careful, don't post on social media anything

[@pissapocalypse]

Yikes

[@rose4490]

OMG! That's truly terrifying! I'm so sorry, I hope he leaves you alone.

[@marceldwayne8491]

@Alessandra Gabbana - confront him with a male adult ( preferably a big dude, or masculine)

[@juliannahikaru9912]

@@marceldwayne8491 for male dudes, including dad and police

[@LoLowashere]

Well, my stalker would be bored as hell...I never leave my house

[@marystellarosetarot5700]

They would love that actually. You'd be easy to find. In my experience a stalker really only wants to know where you are, it's satisfying to them and the stories they would make up in their head about you are usually what makes them "excited" not whether or not you leave the house and where you're going... but again, that's just my experience as someone who is an introvert and a homebody, and as someone who has been stalked.

[@henrikwaschk1148]

So true

[@LoLowashere]

@@marystellarosetarot5700 well, shit... Lol but no, I believe you're 100% right about that. I can't believe that happened to you, I'm so very sorry. I'm glad you're doing okay. Were you able to out your stalker and get a restraining order? Has he bothered you since?

[@marystellarosetarot5700]

@@LoLowashere unfortunately, the situation with my ex boyfriend who was stalking me, ended in a rape and when I called the police, they said there was nothing they could do #defundthepolice. So, after my sexual assault and having night terrors living by myself for a few years, I decided to move in with a man who I thought was my friend, and who is my current roommate, but after he started to display similar obsessive behavior like my ex, I told him I was thinking about moving and he physically assaulted me, giving me extensive prefrontal cortex damage which has made it more difficult for me to find a job and move out. It's a really issue and really isn't always easily detected. I hope you or anybody else never has to go through what I've gone through 🙏

[@marystellarosetarot5700]

@@LoLowashere truth be told, the humor in your comment was a bit refreshing though because it reminded me of myself before all of this happened. So thank you for that, it added a moment of lightness for me in my current situation. One love 🙏❤

[@LilMissTravelPants]

Me, who refuses to answer unknown numbers or open my own mail: I'll never know

[@neighborhoodsunbear9838]

Me, who's never shown his face on the internet for more than 5 years, and never uses any form of social media tied to my irl life: same.

[@jve89]

Same here. I don't respond to unknown numbers and block them right away.

[@serenitycat]

@@soggybanana i told the stalker eating cat is delicious,after that it gone silent

[@soggybanana]

@@serenitycat LMAOOO

[@mrguy561]

You don’t open your own mail?

[@geoffmoore1828]

I have borderline personality disorder but I’ve never acted this way. In fact once I’ve broken up with someone or vice versa I cut them off completely and never speak to them again usually.

[@jesshazen6220]

It’s all fun and games until you wake up in a glass cage

[@Zeldarw104]

Hahahahha!😂😂😳

[@jesshazen6220]

Young Goodman Brown I read that in Paris Hilton’s voice😂

[@catsfirst]

Lia Lane not glass.

[@555starangel_]

Ha! I see what you did there😂

[@nvmffs]

@Young Goodman Brown Disgusting actually

[@Luke-yl9oc]

Stalking has such a horrifying impact on the victims. It's kind of upsetting when people say "I wish I had a stalker" or "any attention is attention". Being sexually harassed or stalked is not something to be trivialised or idealised; if you experience it you'll definitely understand.

[@Luke-yl9oc]

@bryan diaz varela I'm really sorry to hear that and I hope you're doing okay. Stalking isnt the kind of attention anyone would actually want to get though, trust me.

[@Luke-yl9oc]

@bryan diaz varela wtf

[@ptsd73]

Yes. I am a victim of stalking and constant threats and it is so frightening. Just someone trying to ruin my life and my reputation by stealing my identity and threatening people I know pretending to be me. I have suicidal thoughts as I am very alone.

[@Luke-yl9oc]

@@ptsd73 so sorry to hear that, I hope you eventually feel better and that your stalker ends up in prison where they belong.

[@ptsd73]

@@Luke-yl9oc Thank you, I hope so too.

[@Master_Therion]

Feb 14th, Valentine's Day. Other KZbinrs: Romance and love. Thoughty2: Stalkers!!!!!!

[@lidunnester]

LMAOOOO

[@AussieSusan1]

LOL

[@Danilego]

I always forget when Valentine's Day is! But that's because in my country we celebrate it in June lol

[@omniyambot9876]

I literally stalked my ex and my bestfriend dating this afternoon lol gimme a rope

[@gumunduringigumundsson9344]

Hahaha!

[@Nickilove259]

I’ve seen movies about stalkers and always thought “no way, just call the police” until I had a stalker, and it was actually terrifying. My sister found him in the window once, broke in, stole stuff, hacked my social media, slashed tires, egged my car. Called 40+ times a day. It was pretty scary/annoying always feeling watched, not knowing if something would be wrong with my car the next day. I found myself checking my house before and after, and waiting around at night watching my windows.

[@SOM-v4o]

Damn that. I hope Jesus can help you. He will protect you if you let him. I pray he will protect you regardless. God bless.

[@TheElectricCheeseProductions22]

I love this guy’s mustache

[@ezratorres8195]

Well it don’t look right on him🤭

[@owenbush2991]

It looks like 2 dogs kissing 😂

[@pochato2632]

Me 2

[@zsaz4453]

"all my fiends are bearded so you know.If you like to shave well carry on. You dont know the amount of care it takes we brush wax n shove'.I dont know the text anymore but its 'heathens' turned into bearded.D great song

[@bingbong2816]

agreee d

[@laurenj432]

It’s so important to know your self worth. When you start to view other people as being more worthy than you, it’s very easily to become obsessed with them

[@wakeup6778]

I did it out of revenge

[@laurenj432]

@@wakeup6778 You stalked someone out of revenge?

[@PGOuma]

@@wakeup6778 an ex?

[@wakeup6778]

@@laurenj432 She is extremely narcissistic. She humiliated me multiple times and after she left me behind completely confused i almost committed suïcide. Something snapped inside of me. I went through a severe depression and build up an enormous hate wich made me decide to stalk her pure out of revenge. In the moment itself i enjoyed it, but afterwards i felt a bit bad about it. People who noticed it call me a creep and stuff. I admit it was not a good thing to do, but when you lose your mind, you are capable to do anything.

[@wakeup6778]

@@PGOuma yes an ex. Great mistake

[@chocolateandicecream8568]

I’ve been receiving creepy calls for almost three years now. They are mostly silent hang up calls. Sometimes it’s breathing. I’ve changed my number atleast 4 times, I block all the numbers (they use fake numbers through apps), creepy messages asking for nude photos and saying they’ll hurt a child if I don’t give them “what they want”, countless police reports (they don’t do anything, say I need a “court order”) and hearing this is so creepy...don’t know what else to do or if I should be worried

[@berrybee4437]

That’s creepy a f maybe don’t answer calls u don’t know

[@nickmagma7745]

@kijuro uzumaki in holland?

[@suspiciousfigure3096]

Or...you can track their number, stalk them, then kill em! Works every time bro.

[@_Madridista_]

@@suspiciousfigure3096 too much😳 plus wastage of energy

[@claustrum5534]

If you've changed your number 4 times and they've been able to keep calling, who have you shared your new numbers with? It could be someone you know but would never suspect.

[@fellownormie]

obsessing on things is like, a coping mechanism to direct attention from one’s insecurity or current stress away. it’s a distraction

[@IamNG8]

my mom is being stalked by her ex boyfriend for almost 2 years now... the police won't do anything about it, he reads all her text messages, e-mail, everything, he follows her, he always knows where she is, he hacked her computer, phone, home security system... it's really scary and I hate that there's nothing we can do.. :'(

[@littlerugrat6107]

yeah, you can. have every picture on her phone, computer, and email have a penis pic with his face attached at the head of it. you start stalking him, hack his computer and ruin his life. fight fire with fire and be weirdly gross with it. Go to his job and talk to his boss about him stalking you, call his mother and tell her that he's outside the window. If he is close to you carry maze spray and flaunt it in his face. if you notice that he is following you, then go to a gun shop and start looking at rifles. go to a shooting range and have his picture as the target.

[@Xeyuno]

little rugrat 😂 don’t be sayin jokes on him bro

[@Xeyuno]

Me to the police didn’t help me cuz I show them a pic of he’s face what’s so scary is he Lives right near me an he don’t know it Ik where he lives and he’s Ip so If the police won’t help I’ll do it myself

[@Xeyuno]

By the way a Good tip is Get a VPN or get a new modem so then your WiFi will change and he can’t access your internet change password on everything fb ig snap YT skyp Idk what u have change password

[@Xeyuno]

Next tip get a laser gun an make sure if your in your car and he’s still stalking you u might need to hit him of the road 👀 😬

[@Awesomejadie1991]

I had a stalker. He stalked me for almost 2 years. I got in some very scary situations with him and then it suddenly stopped one day. I brought my experience up to a new friend about a year later and I found out they'd been at school together... he'd had a random heart attack and that's why it stopped.

[@samuelswenson1505]

Plot twist; that new friend actually was the stalker.

[@nolifeking138]

I'm not even stalking you still

[@bartg6937]

NecroMelodia It’s only stalking if you’re ugly.

[@spyho7406]

@NecroMelodia why tf does that matter

[@h.borter5367]

OMG! How scary 😲

[@peachesandcream1523]

When you're afraid to be stalked but u remembered that you're not that interesting anyway.

[@cow1234ful]

Same lol

[@Xeyuno]

Ik right Idk why I got stalked like I’m lame asf I just play video games 😂😂

[@dikithapa699]

Same 🤣🤣🤣

[@coraroberts2999]

I mean, nobody would need to stalk me. I'd invite them in for cake😂😂

[@hannahmarieartistry4603]

I have a very serious stalker who went after me for years. I still don’t have protection from him because the police have no idea how to handle that kind of situation, even less so when they use online resources to reach/ sabotage you. Please sign my petition demanding that police take action when it comes to situations like these. It also links to a KZbin video describing the extent of what I was put through. It’s a very serious and under-policed situation that could happen to anyone so please take the time so sign. www.change.org/p/facebook-eliminate-cyberstalking

[@honiideslysses12]

"Every breath you take, I'll be watching you." Sting was always baffled why his tune was so popular at weddings.

[@navaranjit673]

The more I look at him makes him look like a Russian soldier

[@hecate3062]

Thanks! Now a I can't unsee the Russian soldier😂😂

[@navaranjit673]

@Żabia Herbata that's what I'm saying

[@specialone6731]

GRENADA!

[@_laur._.ren_2632]

Great! Now i can't unsee it

[@mnm6387]

GERMAN!!

[@lizzistorm7474]

Let's not forget that the police won't do anything until you're physically hurt (or worse) by your stalker.

[@mrkitty777]

A police officer here stalked a 17yr old girl and shot her dead with his gun in front of everyone here. She was working in the supermarket, the next day this case against police was closed and we are advised to not speak of it or be next. She refused relationship.

[@stefanniggemeyer9359]

@@mrkitty777 This stuff is real.

[@stefanniggemeyer9359]

@@mrkitty777 They help each other with murder and rape and abuse.

[@CaseyAvalon]

Yes. And some won't even help you unless you have been in an relationship with them wtf

[@mrkitty777]

The police officer and 17 yr old girl had a relationship indeed, but the girl ended the relationship between them.

[@veeistiredasf]

"They do maintain more than one victim at the same time." Me: *glances at stalker* "Okay I see how it is smh, now get out my backyard tree before I call the cops. Our stalker-victim relationship is over!"

[@hannahmarieartistry4603]

AkaJust Vih I have a very serious stalker who went after me for years. I still don’t have protection from him because the police have no idea how to handle that kind of situation, even less so when they use online resources to reach/ sabotage you. Please sign my petition demanding that police take action when it comes to situations like these. It also links to a KZbin video describing the extent of what I was put through. It’s a very serious and under-policed situation that could happen to anyone so please take the time so sign. www.change.org/p/facebook-eliminate-cyberstalking

[@goncalobaia1574]

@@hannahmarieartistry4603 if something really happened to you then I'm sorry, but if it hasn't, and that's my inclination, you're a ghoul

[@hannahmarieartistry4603]

gonçalo Baia You are free to believe whatever you want, although if you would like to observe proof I provided a myriad of screenshots throughout the video explaining my situation. I also ensured that the video had an 18+ age restriction on it since it contains quite a bit of vulgar content, so there is no chance of it ever being monetized if you think that’s my incentive. I’m just trying to get as many signatures on my petition as possible so the chances that someone with power will take it seriously are increased, because no one deserves to be put through what I went through. Law enforcement’s resources to handle this kind of situation are far too limited and it is imperative that that change. That’s all I’m trying to convey. Hope you have a nice day.

[@shaye2281]

I was stalked by a lawyer I met for a case I had to clear up. He called me After I paid for his help, What he said was very creepy! He said on that phone call "I know every police officer and FBI agent in this city. There's no where you can't go, that I can find you!" I froze, I didn't know what to do, I felt like I couldn't talk to the police about it out of fear that the lawyer would bs them. So, I talked to my boss, and he told me to sell my house and get the hell out of that area and set me and my son in a hotel under a different names. Thanks to my boss, the lawyer stalker couldn't find us. That was terrifying!

[@carmensmithaguirre3049]

Hold on. That could've been escalated even further like to the FBI or something. That is like something out of a nightmare! I'm so sorry you guys went through that.

[@shaye2281]

@@carmensmithaguirre3049 It was very scary! We are glad it didn't go that far, it could have been much worse I agree. You just don't know when or where people like this are, so you stay vigilant, I told a friend one day when she asked "why do you look around the parking lots when we go out and about?", my answer to her and everyone else is, when you're out doing your thing, ALWAYS look around your surroundings, let them know that you see them and blend into a crowd. You can still see them and they loose sight of you, take a pic of them after you blend into a crowd and contact the police. If you're being followed, go to the nearest police station ans seek help. Not everyone knows this guy!

[@Itsonlyme11.11]

Sounds like baby reindeer

[@shaye2281]

@@Itsonlyme11.11 I haven't seen the movie yet, but I will. You just never know how peoples mentality work up are and it's scary, really scary. I've learned to be mindful after that happened. Now, I will help people in these situations, I also learned, how not to be afraid and signed up for martial arts, just to stay somewhat safe.

[@zekesalazar7643]

Sometimes stalkers aren't aware they are being a creepy stalker. They have a disconnect between reality and what they perceive to be acceptable behavior due to the panic and trigger of losing someone they really liked. I actually have sympathy for some of them. They don't really mean to be creepy or have actual malicious intent, their brains are just freaking out. They just need a heavy reality check; feelings can be a very powerful thing.

[@buyerbware25]

The incompetent suitor type is worlds away from the predatory type.

[@animalkingdom2871]

@Rebel Mixes violent solves nothing🙄💀

[@alfiueun1472]

Your comment reminds me of a Korean drama "Born Again" which has a similar story. It's a beautiful drama.

[@spookychan7189]

Honestly yes, I feel the same way. I had a long distance relationship with someone and realized it wouldn't work out between us since they wanted more from me. (Physical and sexual connection) I wasn't ready for that, and kinda panicked, soon saying we should take things slow. They promised, but a week later went back to begging. So, I decided we should see other people since long distance relationships aren't really gonna help with what they wanted. Honestly, part of it was my fault because I wasn't experienced in relationships as much as they were and just thought, "Hey if they like me, why not give it a shot?" But again, I shouldn't have gone through it since 1- I ain't experienced, and 2- I just wanted them to be happy. Once we broke up however, I noticed there mood change. They kept changing from aggressive, to super depressed, even going so far as to saying they wanted to end their selves. I tried to synthesize with them and even talk them out of it, soon trying to explain why I broke up with them. They say they get it, but then go back to doing this again the next day. I soon began to distance myself hopping they'd move on, but they instead followed me online, joining random chats and social medias I was in and that I didn't even tell them about. I thought it was strange, but didn't think nothing of it. I just thought, "Maybe it's a coincidence?" So, I just continued talking to friends, and talking to a guy friend about video games. Immediately, on discord, I received several screen shots of me and my friend's conversations, and my ex replying, "You moved on pretty fast huh?" I was scared, soon asking a close friend of mine what I should do. We soon decided to talk to my ex again, trying to tell them, "Um, Dude, it's kinda weird ya doing this." He tried to explain himself, soon getting mad and leaving conversation. The last time we interacted was when I was in a voice chat with a group of friends. Immediately I see my ex join and quietly listen to us playing Smash brothers. He then began to argue with me and call me foul slurs, saying how bad of a person I am and how I was a bitch. I left, not knowing what to say or do. I distance myself from social media all together, soon coming back a month later and realizing how terribly sorry my ex was

[@spookychan7189]

I kinda felt bad, but, I was kinda nervous to talk to them again. But, we soon talked and we came to an understanding. Yes, what he did was wrong, but he was going through the motions. And plus, I'm the one who broke up with them, hurting them. I'm sure they didn't mean to do what they did, and I just hope maybe, he learned from this. Lol, sorry, I made a book out of these replies but, this comment and video reminded me of that stuff.

[@crackaby7075]

Everybody gangsta until they realize the whole video was just a sponsor.

[@Lilaliba88]

Ikr?😂😂😂

[@kitsune9376]

Fuck... Should I finish the vi- He’s talking about the sponsor...

[@bellag3051]

gotta respect the impeccable transition tho 😂😂

[@helingunes955]

I havent seen the sponsor part yet let me guess: vpn? Nord vpn or shark vpn haha

[@crackaby7075]

@@helingunes955 Nope...... a site thats supposed to protect your password. Great guess tho :V

[@miffedcuttlefish6139]

I have stalkers. They're little people who watch me when I poop and ask me for food, and call me "mommy" for some reason. 🤷‍♀️ 😊

[@softbabeh]

that sounds terrifying i hope you find help ahahaha

[@diamondsparkle9967]

😂😂

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

LOL!!!

[@tomeofslyev]

Ah, the pain of the cute lil babies~

[@yazoo8611]

my mum had exactly the same problem!! a reliable solution that worked for her was making mushroom soup for the 3rd night in a row. hope this helped, plz let me know your results as they vary from person to orphan! 😊

[@ericlondon2663]

I remember a creep that stalked my wife for three months eleven years ago. He stopped. We had a conversation at 3am in the alley under our bedroom window at the time. Amazing how good I am at negotiations. He saw it our way, quickly. The stranger stalker didn't inspire fear. No. He inspired rage. He didn't like that but he did agree with me that he made a big mistake.

[@sophiavnuk5898]

Everyone is commenting funny comments about stalking, but I'm just here commenting about how the only subtitles are Dutch.

[@Yorana9069]

sophia vnuk nice

[@goncalobaia1574]

Thank you, I appreciate it

[@dreadedsnail985]

Stroopwafels

[@froggiebcg]

*laughs in Dutch*

[@RohanSingh-qg1jw]

Persoonlijkheidsstoornis

[@leanna7378]

I mean as someone with bpd, having it doesn’t mean you’re going to stalk your ex’s. Just wanna make that clear bc there’s already such a negative stigma around it

[@salaad_aisha019]

I don't think he meant it as a bad way, more like someone who has bpd is more likely but not all the time. Well I guess yeah he could've worded it differently.

[@r20-v1q]

I have it aswell tho and can admit we all have a evil side, when people call us crazy and insane its true im the type of person that will hurt myself if it means i hurt them

[@queentargaryen9389]

Yes but that doesn't apply to all bpd people. There are very different levels severity. Some people have a lot less severe symptoms. Also people with npd are more dangerous and more likely to be stalkers and abusive. But that wasn't mentioned.

[@Malcolm5252]

Yeah, I have to say, I know people with BPD in my life and would never harm anyone.

[@cassieclover99]

exactly. I definitely feel like he could have worded that better. my mom has bpd and while she does have obsessive tendencies at times, she would never take it so far. I think he should have mentioned that bpd is a spectrum and that this is more likely to happens to those with severe symptoms.

[@jovane486]

The biggest stalker: KZbin RECOMMENDATION!

[@babydande]

And if we really go to the core, it’s actually the artificial intelligence being the biggest stalker

[@kamaalkatariya1088]

No they are shit now

[@ihatebertram9719]

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[@tahtoeproject2751]

I wanted to like your comment, but the number looks perfect 666

[@_vlaix_]

@@tahtoeproject2751 hahah its 667 now!

[@sly3186]

Ive been stalked by a 71yr old man for a year now and it is so scary... and his my neighbor! My husband work everyone has told him to leave me alone and he wont! Its scary

[@manicpixiedream1890]

i'd just like to clarify for anyone who needs to hear it, as someone with borderline, not all of us are stalkers. a large number of stalkers MAY be borderline but that doesn't mean everyone w bpd is a stalker.

[@silly9434]

Thank you, was looking for a comment like this

[@neeadevil4840]

Thank you was looking if someone said this already fellow person with BPD here.

[@words_under_fashion4775]

Thanks for clarifying I was gonna say the same

[@oblivionsaway1290]

I don’t have BPD, but it felt off that the guy offhand mentioned it without also addressing this. Thank you for this comment.

[@nrgbunni.]

Thank you I was also annoyed he mentioned that. People with bpd tend to more often than not be the victim of abuse and stalking and most people develop bpd from traumatic events something that's happened to them rather than them causing something traumatic to another person.

[@MegaMerlin96]

"A domestic stalker never thinks they are a stalker" Good thing that I think I'm a stalker so I'm actually not a domestic stalker.

[@AP-yx1mm]

@Dustin Keil Not a domestic one, a normal on...

[@closerrl9851]

Haha that was my conclusion as well. I know I am a stalker so now I am not. Cool with me.

[@AP-yx1mm]

@@closerrl9851 But what kind of stalking are talking about? Are you following random people? Or just gettin informations that are public domain on the social medias?

[@closerrl9851]

I have followed random people when I was drunk with some friends to make them bike faster when I was young. But thats about it hahaha

[@AP-yx1mm]

@@closerrl9851 Hahahaha That's not stalking, it is more keeping them fit and lowering healthcare costs in the long run! So altruistic!!!! Well done hahaha!

[@Sam-bd8bl]

When you're afraid to be stalked but you remember that nobody knows you since you don't go outside.

[@elvis4868]

Ez clap

[@liabee7035]

lol sorry

[@Itsme_isabelly]

Facts

[@hillarymcdonald9954]

Sorry to break it to you that's when they stalk you through social media check whose following you there bet its some random stranger Good luck to you

[@crazymadstriker766]

@@hillarymcdonald9954 but like some people dont have social media

[@tonialvarez4192]

I had a stalker in college and he was convinced I was leading him on which justified him to follow me home and lock me in stairwells and call me from grocery store phones because I blocked his number and watch me from the coffee shop I lived across from. His friends would call me screaming that I was awful for how I treated him. He had everyone convinced I was the issue when I made things very clear I didn’t want anything to do with him. It was a very confusing time for me. He very much thought he was the victim.

[@ThelVadlee]

Bruh, how does he have friends if he’s that delusional

[@emmakeoghan9016]

I’ve experienced both types of stalkers. Everything he says is spot on. The Domestic Stalker is very aggressive and more likely to cause harm. The Stranger Stalker would just hang around in the background and watch wherever I go.

[@pikachulovable]

Glad ur okay

[@HomoSapien-z5q]

Damn I'm sorry you had to go thru that. I hope you are okay now

[@MissNevada08]

I have survived both kinds of stalkers too. I thought I'd be part of a very small group...& as much as I hate it happened to you, I'm glad I'm not alone. My first relationship, when I ended it at 22 years old...he stalked me for years. Resulted in a restraining order. Unfortunately my second stalker was way worse. It happened when I was 35. As the District Attorney told the Judge, it was the most aggressive form of stalking between strangers in Sacramento County history. He ended up having to serve prison time over it. It made national news as the 'Buffalo Head Stalker.' He's been connected to several missing women, so I'm unable to speak about it online too much. I dont want to interfere with law enforcement's active investigations on him. I wish you peaceful days. I was left with a wicked anxiety disorder, but working out and therapy have gotten me a lot better. Good luck to you, my fellow sister.

[@tommycharles4666]

The issue is for every nine women who have been legit stalked and are talking about it online, there's one woman who claims to have been but hasn't. She had type #3...the imaginary stalker who feeds her narcissism. Believe women is a nice sentiment, but sadly ~6% of women have cluster B personality disorders that make them prone to lying in order to garner sympathy and attention. So the thinking men who aren't simps can't blindly believe all claims. Glad you're okay.

[@aimeekelly4121]

Damn what’s the odds of having 2 stalkers how common is stalking ?

[@lavalordYT]

"Or most commonly, an ex-partner" Guess I'm safe then

[@princeraphaeljohnson2578]

Subtle self-roast

[@lukewhitaker3312]

lavalord I’ll drink to that bro

[@marcelloberry6829]

Why did I read this comment at the exact time I was watching the video

[@neuro1073]

Marcello Berry let me translate what you said my dude “why did I do something that most people who watch KZbin videos do?” There ya go.

[@marcelloberry6829]

Ayman Bahatheq no I meant I read that comment at the exact time it was said in the video

[@beahartemisia5249]

I've been a victim of stalking. I noticed the pattern very quickly and let my friends, parents and even colleagues know about it. That was the time I started to carry pocket knives with me (and it hasn't failed me yet, actually saved my life four times). I threatened my stalker and avoid him whenever I spot him in the streets as if he's the plague. I still can hear his "endearing remarks" though. Truly traumatizing and only served to increase my anxiety levels and panic attacks frequency.

[@xcangrejo]

Same to everything you said, the best thing you can do is to educate those around you and yourself about how to deal with this situations. It's traumatazing and isolating but it really does get better with time. 1 year into my healing process I wasn't afraid of being in my own house anymore, 2 years I started talking about my situacion openly with no pain, 3 years in I would laugh at his attemps of contacting me, 4 I wasn't afraid anymore of having a public acount on social media, now 6 years later I do yoga, have tons of friends and go where I want when I want to, and my anxiety after 2 years in therapy feels like a thing of the past. Be strong and know you are never alone.

[@beahartemisia5249]

@@xcangrejo Exactly. I've only talked to my friends about the situation and how it affected me, a couple months ago. And they had seen my reaction to seeing the guy in a cosplay convention. I only told them about all this after talking to my girlfriend and understanding nobody would judge me weak or anything. It was all in my head and I could count on my dear ones.

[@annamaiaroli8848]

hi, sorry pretty late to the party. i’ve been thinking about pocket knives and how i (as a woman) could use them for my self defense. if you’re comfortable answering this question, how did it save you? because i’m pretty scared that it could be used against me

[@ohno-cz6jb]

@@annamaiaroli8848 same

[@Panda_54]

@@annamaiaroli8848 same

[@Axcelion1987]

Never stalked anyone, however I've been accused of it. I'm an introvert and I usually avoid people. So God forbid I take an interest in someone. It's why I seldom talk to people. In today's day and age, you can't even "like" someone without being called a creep.

[@susiesa8295]

the stalker who is stalking me is twisted and now is saying i am to blame while she peeps on my comments, sees all my private messages with my friends , comments on exact post i comment on and says i sleep all day long and somehow she says she is not a stalker?!! she even popped on a live on instagram and i deleted that app so now she is following me on youtube !! i am just raging how this creepy freak thinks she is entitled to creep on others privacy and then whine to say she is the victim?! i am lost for words for this situation i am in.

[@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823]

If you're been accused of it, they're probably right. Don't do things that make others uncomfortable. That's not bringing anything to their table. That's being selfish.

[@ilikemantits6935]

I had a stalker who was on the news for kidnapping and r*ping children when I was 10. I’m glad I got out of that one-

[@katieanderson8639]

Shit!

[@intestinalobstructiongamin157]

HOLY CRAP

[@waltuh2.3bviews3secondsago3]

@Gabriel Mondragon lol ok

[@neighborhoodsunbear9838]

@Gabriel Mondragon je-je-jeez...........

[@couragelk9428]

@Gabriel Mondragon lmfaooooo

[@melaninhunnie328]

I’m a stalker victim. This old man keeps coming to my job asking about me and once he tried to get my number. Recently last night he was in the parking lot of my job watching me. He waited till there was no customers in there to come in and look for me. Guys I’m scared

[@kunjavyas7425]

Omg I'm scared for you. Please take care. Report it to someone

[@biancalewis4232]

Call the police and apply for a restraining krder

[@inbIoom]

are you okay omg?!

[@vanessarichardson110]

What's the update?

[@melaninhunnie328]

@@biancalewis4232 I can’t get one in the state of North Carolina

[@spaceowl9246]

My stalker must be really bored with stalking me, because I never leave my house lol

[@hearanecho]

I never leave my house and I'm currently being stalked. Single woman alone here. Stolen garbage can, car broken into random notes on my door, and they bring my newspaper to the door.

[@seinonymousxx6294]

False on my case. he frequently entered our house and peeks into my windows without me knowing. never knew it until he got caught and confessed he did it for 4 years

[@donotreadmyprofile9373]

@@seinonymousxx6294 that's scary as hell

[@seinonymousxx6294]

@@donotreadmyprofile9373 yup. the scary part is that he successfully broke into my house while everything is on blackout and i was alone. istg I'm thinking of leaving this house but i really can't. I don't have anywhere to go

[@julzzietasmr9590]

The fact that this sentence was said as if its normal for everyone to have a stalker gives me weird wibes. Like "MY stalker does this, yours?"

[@ExNAudioz]

When I was beginning out in high-school I broke up with my boyfriend and a lot of my friends went missing and one was found. My ex had borderline personality disorder and was already obsessed with me. Stay alert please!

[@Lozzie74]

My girlfriend says I’m a stalker. Well, she’s not actually my girlfriend... yet.

[@hollywoodsdestiny7919]

Lol

[@ShadowKAMII]

Lmao

[@NoName-kc4jn]

Lozzie74 bruh

[@ryan19754]

Timesplitting Shapeshifter there’s this girl at my school. Should I try that with her?

[@thestrays815]

Thanks for making me laugh mate 👌

[@preshuzmelody]

that twisted “it’s not my fault”, “s/he made me do it” victim mentality is what makes stalkers dangerous and extra hard to deal with.. because you just can’t reason with unreasonableness

[@willgotrocks5348]

They try to make whatever they do justifiable honestly shits bad

[@deseodevida7511]

They should get the death penalty or be put in a mental institution and sedated for life. I don't feel bad for them.

[@konpeitojellie]

nah... my best friend promised me the world, she doesn’t get the luxury of calling herself the victim after ruining my world.

[@konpeitojellie]

@@deseodevida7511 I agree, people who make stalkers stalkers are disgusting

[@Metalkid1500]

Victim complexes are dangerous in general

[@noahnussbaumer6868]

This is the most sophisticated ad I've seen this month.

[@hambrientoamigo2069]

I would be too lazy to stalk someone

[@dianaricker5870]

The part where he said "the stalker feels as HE's the victim" "and "a stalker never believes he is a stalker"...is the most accurate definition of my stalker. Stalking with emotion and desire to see me suffering is exactly him.."if I am suffering so will you" mentality..The more I call him a stalker the more he stalks, threatens and tries to hurt me. Over the age of 45yrs old, speaks very poorly about their ex, has zero to little purpose in life and speaks or treat ALL women bad..all red flags.

[@rosewilliams5830]

So frustrating

[@tom51202]

Probably not true

[@rrteppo]

The example he went with wasn't a very good one. After a divorce the husband should be told stuff like schedules and where people live. They are still his kids and he still gets to see them.

[@CMM726]

@@rrteppo yea but I kinda wonder if there was a reason why she kept the kids from him. Maybe he’s mentally ill, violent, and completely delusional. That happens sometimes and as painful as it is, a mother HAS to protect her children. They can’t protect themselves. If he’s exhibiting that type of behavior that Gives me reason to think that’s why She denied him visitation. There have been ex spouses who have killed their children to punish them for leaving the marriage. There are parents who develops skitzophrenia and can break down into paranoid delusions and put small children in danger. I know there are women and men who keep the kids from the other partner after divorce selfishly or to extort money and that’s totally not cool. I’m not condoning THAT. However, if the other parent is severely mentally ill, exhibiting violent behavior that puts children at risk, or using drugs and alcohol to excess, you have every right to refuse visitation until DCF or the court evaluate the individual and tell you that they are safe for the kids

[@rrteppo]

@@CMM726 well 50% of marriages end in divorce. and 80% of the time it's the woman filing. and 90% of the time she gets the kids. You just said 30% of the male population would murder their kids.