The MOST Unhealthy Mom Situation Got Worse

[@zaphodflys]

It's not just the food, it's her general demeanor. It's giving 'feeding my child is such a burden' with the slamming of plates and dismissively tossing the plate in front of her child. She chooses to film herself like this, it's not like it was a hidden camera, so either she is baiting the internet, thinks this type of trash behavior is normal (which judging by her other life choices this may be the case) or worst case scenario, acts better than she does in real life, in which case, I don't wanna know how she acts off camera if this is what she thinks is going to impress the world.

[@TheCrapOnYourStrapOn]

Imagine being her kids and seeing these videos when you grow up. Knowing that your mother couldn’t care less about you as a child. It’s just wrong

[@abigailfeldman]

@@TheCrapOnYourStrapOnwhat an awful and depressing thought.

[@LaPenserosa1]

​@TeenyHatHarold I'm about to do a whole lot of projecting but....perhaps it will be a blessing for her children. Not may of us have video evidence and self-recorded parental monologues that they can refer back to and say, "no, in fact, mom - you did not do your best, you didn't try as hard as you could,"..etc. They won't fall for any gaslighting, guilting or shaming because this mom filmed all of her 'efforts'. I hope these videos give them a sense of certainty and peace in their decisions.

[@TheCrapOnYourStrapOn]

@@LaPenserosa1 I do agree with you on that but it would still be better if this woman watched the video herself and decided “hey, you know what? I’m a bad mom” and fixed herself. Her kids are going to have enough difficulty with growing up obese but now they’ll get to deal with kids at school making fun of them for their mom’s TikTok’s

[@ALittleSnowFairySaga]

This.

[@imaginekudryavka9485]

Her boyfriend only took her back on the condition that he can bring his new girl into the fold. Now those two spend their days playing video games together while she works (to some capacity) and takes care of her 3 children. She should have some more self respect. That is not a healthy polyamorous relationship. The way she speaks about it sounds like she thinks she's really cool for being in a thruple and that people just judge for that, but no, it's just painfully clear to people that she's being used. And no, obviously I don't actually know the intricacies of her life. But she chooses to share all this, so I'm free to come to my own conclusions. I don't care enough to follow her or comment on her stuff.

[@attitudeproblem6462]

Wow. No wonder she just doesn’t give a shit. Does her “relationship” even include *her* anymore???

[@stephanieterrell4838]

Is it the father of the kids?

[@MikeBarbarossa]

There's no such thing as a "healthy ployamorous relationship" If it involves parents and their kids, and another person

[@lainiwakura1776]

So she cares more to not be single than her own children... pathetic.

[@lordfreerealestate8302]

I'm trying to be compassionate, but she's made some bad choices. Maybe she came from a broken home herself - since she claims to have mental health issues and BPD, it's plausible. Maybe she needs to stand up for herself more.

[@_weasel]

Some people should just not be broadcasting their lives. She’s not cut out for it. Logging off is always an option. 🤷‍♀️

[@PopFizzPaperDani]

Won’t happen. When money has been a struggle, it’s hard to walk away from it when it shows up. Even if it costs you more in the long run. 🙃

[@dietcokehead350]

She has as much right to post as anyone else does and I think everyone has to get over that, too. This is more *everyone* than it is *her*.

[@AudreyCCT]

@@dietcokehead350 she can post but it’s obvious that it’s bugging her. Negative social media can be highly detrimental to anyone’s mental health. Her videos get more views when she showing unhealthy foods, but she still catches flak for the healthy food. It’s not worth the stress to try and win over everyone.

[@steffymuze]

Problem is, these are the ones who won't log off.

[@BubblesChika]

@@dietcokehead350 Sure, but when you're as thin-skinned as she obviously is, maybe posting your life for others to ridicule isn't such a good idea. Being in the public eye is hard. Not everyone is cut out for it.

[@Strawberry__crochet044]

I grew up with a mom like this and I can 100% say this has nothing to do with money and everything to do with her being lazy. And the fact that there is THREE ADULTS in that house and they can’t afford to give their kids appropriate food? Be so fr.

[@SoCalJellybean]

THIS. 👆🏻

[@gojiberry7201]

And wanting attention

[@Peacht4n]

I grew up extremely poor in a muslim family..My mother still cooked me healthy meals made of cheap vegetables. Everyday I am thankful my mother chose to feed me healthy meals instead of feeding me quick processed things. I am now a 27 year old adult, I don't earn a lot and yet I still cook everyday, very healthy meals full of vegetables and proteins. And it doesn't cost me a fortune either.

[@biancahardin1269]

Exactly

[@MoonGoddessTarot16]

Exactly.

[@JKRBW]

10:10. Hearing the other woman screaming the F word in the background. There's a lot more going wrong in that household than the food.

[@berrymerry1141]

The issue is she's shown her toddler on camera and the child is clearly way bigger than a normal kid her age, that's the issue. This woman is setting that child up for lifelong issues and monetizing the process. And I'm sorry but this has nothing to do with money and everything to do with laziness. I'm getting a bit tired of that narrative, you can buy chicken/ground beef and veggies for cheap or at least the same price as processed food nowadays. Some people just don't feel like cooking and would rather feed their kids junk lol

[@Emm325]

THIS! 💯💯💯💯💯

[@elisea.740]

Exactly! I don't understand blaming being poor, truly. Convenience foods are considerably more expensive. I'm a mother of 4 boys, 2 of whom are teenagers who work out a lot (ie they are always hungry), and we live on a modest income. There's no way I'd be able to afford feeding my family junk food every day, haha. Like what?! That stuff is so expensive. I buy whole, raw ingredients and make meals. It's cheaper (though still expensive... cuz damn, food costs a lot) and nutritious. It's not an issue of income. It's an issue of ignorance and laziness... In my humble opinion.

[@StaciaBielka]

One can even get lots of frozen meat and fresh vegetables for free. Food banks and pantries at churches exist for this exact purpose.

[@LifeAfterLosing]

People like this having kids is why I am raising my 2 nieces. Some people should never have children. It’s not good for kids to know that their parents don’t care enough about them to put in the work to properly care for them.

[@MyDuckSaysFucc]

It is SO easy these days not to have kids. Just don’t!!!! Not unless you can care for them well!

[@patray162]

Good on you 🙏

[@writergrrrl]

I raised my two nieces as well. If no one has told you recently: you're doing a great job.

[@LifeAfterLosing]

@@writergrrrl thank you! It’s been ok. Nothing that I have planned at all for myself, but they are going to be just fine. We are learning together.

[@nancyhopkins389]

I guess I’m too old for the interwebs. I remember a time when people had shame and weren’t proud to be a mess. This woman clearly is a disaster. Physically and mentally. I feel bad for her kids who didn’t ask to be born into this shitshow. And yes, making money off of your kids is gross.

[@Cjai8518]

I agree, I believe any monetization off kids should be banned. The people that are binge-watching this content are no better than the people that watch mukbang content created by creators like Nikacado Avocado, but now we have children involved that have absolutely no control over their diets. This is abusive behavior all in the name of the almighty dollar.

[@TheCrapOnYourStrapOn]

@@Cjai8518I watch the stuff to remind me how much I love my kids and that sometimes they become a lot to handle but never would I ever take this approach to them. I certainly wouldn’t put it on the internet where my kids could later see it for themselves

[@lindanj9830]

I agree 100%, not to mention the time spent on this could be used spending time with the kids.

[@metroidhunter965]

I blame things like TLC. They see those reality tv shows like what’s hosted on there like _Dr Phil_ or _My 600 Pound Life_ and go “huh. I could do that.” Without the seeking a medical professional bit It’s like mukbang videos getting inspiration from shows like _Man Vs Food_ (even though Adam had several trained health and fitness experts to advise him how to not turn into a bulimic or Nikacado)

[@hahshsdh4646464]

Setting your kids up for failure in life, physically and mentally, is one of the most evil things you can do as a parent. You almost never see kids, who are obese, with parents who take their health seriously.

[@MissUnperff]

“And that’s fine, my name is John.” Literally that line was so cute and pure. This is why you’re one of my favorites 🤣

[@andreamunoz6088]

I don’t get how there are three adults in that house and only one of them “works” or does anything around the house or raising kids or anythi bf

[@FeechLaMannas]

She’s being used by both of them. That much is clear. 2 adult sized burdens.

[@boosqueezy2418]

yeah she’s a moron. her boyfriend brought a chick into their relationship and she agreed to it like a fool lol

[@CharleysMom2]

They all probably get SSI checks and food stamps

[@JKRBW]

​@@CharleysMom2jeez. Wouldn't that be something if they're on SSI for health issues while using that same income as justification for feeding the kids such low nutrition food.

[@CharleysMom2]

@@JKRBW just saying 💯

[@lisahance]

I would absolutely put PB & J on a hamburger bun if I had to use up the buns before they went stale. Nothing wrong or weird about that.

[@Supersonicnoise]

same! it's still bread to me, just round

[@ydorri2460]

Right? Why does the shape of the bread matter lol? Tbh, I've never watched her videos so I don't know what else she feeds them x

[@Sigmarr]

@@ydorri2460its only a problem if you do it all the time- normal "wheat" bread has a lot less sugar and a lot more nutrients, which matters when the jelly and peanut butter are the main parts of the sandwhich

[@ydorri2460]

@@Sigmarr oh OK, I'm in the uk, we don't usually have added sugar in our burger buns. They are the same as regular wheat bread.

[@Sigmarr]

@@ydorri2460 Youre so lucky XD its no worries in the usa burger buns are usually pure bleached white bread thats cakey and sweet. Like I said not a huge issue now and then (i do it too) but also if its the main thing it wont be very filling

[@MrsEmmKay]

My first thought was "childcare is expensive" but then I heard that there are three adults in the household. They should have two full time wages coming in, given there's no need to pay childcare.

[@existentialgamer9206]

*puts controversial material online for all to see* “Mind your business!” 😤 Also, begging trolls to stop trolling and just don’t watch never works and yet so many creators waste energy doing it

[@LifeAfterLosing]

Exactly

[@blueeyedbatman]

The reason she points out the smaller issues is because they're the ones she feels she has answers/excuses for. There's no excuse for her parenting style

[@designateddoser7651]

I don't care what your financial situation is or what your own health is like. When you have kids, your life isn't about you anymore. Feed them good food, it's not expensive, go to the dollar general or walmart and cook. If you can't do that and feed your kids at least semi-healthy foods, you are not a good parent and don't try and tell me you're trying. And if you're willing to film your kids and make content of your kids you know will rage-bait people and make you money...Pretty or not, you're gross and sketchy as a parent at best. Also "not having access to proper nutritional education" isn't an excuse when you spend time on social media with your phone that can teach you the equivalent of a college course if you put effort into learning.

[@FeechLaMannas]

Not to mention there is no consent from those kids to be filmed on a highly frequent basis and they are ostensibly not keeping any of those profits. All family vloggers should be subjected to the same laws and restrictions applied to child actors in Hollywood. She’d to find another content format or a different line of work entirely.

[@Gaibreel]

Exactly. Dollar tree has frozen veggies and blueberries. I have bought their blueberries and they aren't bad

[@designateddoser7651]

@@Gaibreel I know, drives me up a wall. I make meals for a group of 4 with leftovers for $13 at Walmart! Includes veggies and meat.

[@patray162]

Yes yes and yes! Exactly. People who accidentally have kids or are unprepared to bear the costs and take the time to properly care for them....need to step up and prioritize the needs of the child. She's now making $ off TikTok, I wonder how much she is spending on herself instead of making changes that will give her kids a chance at a healthy life... And also a big yes to this content putting $ in the parents' pockets with the cost being borne by the children who are used for public entertainment. Namely their privacy, through both publishing intimate/sensitive life details (which have caused devastating identity theft for many young adults whose parents used them during childhood for social media content, as well as physical stalking of minors by predators), and also violating their rights to control their digital footprints and personal data online. The child actor laws must be extended to this content, and with additional restrictions on the sharing of personal information due to the many risks it imposes on those being exploited.

[@HelloNewMoon]

Preach

[@manzg1]

Bro I used to watch your channel allll the time, maybe about 7-8 years ago. It’s clear to me that your focus hasn’t only been on the body but also you mind as well. You seem a lot more enlightened and seem to be taking great care of your body and mind. Keep it up bro!

[@powderandpaint14]

The boyfriend is apparently the father of atleast the youngest child, he should be working and contributing to the costs of the household.

[@HailieBear]

You're one of the most kind and well spoken men on this platform, appreciate you

[@juliam7082]

As someone who had a baby young and with horrible food habits, my first goal has been to learn how to cook so I don't pass on my problems to my son. Not saying she is horrible for not fixing her ways, but we all should be striving to do better for our kids.

[@karilnowak7962]

My mother grew up with two alcoholic parents. They didn't care much about feeding their two children They left them alone in the evenings when they went out and spent their money in bars. My mother was four years older and would cuddle with her brother, hungry and afraid to be alone. She was under 100 pounds when she married my father at 21 and couldn't boil water. I remember my early years living on hot dogs and B vitamins (I was very skinny) as she worked full time as a RN. . She got better at cooking. Started watching Food Network Channel and moved on to a real interest in learning how to cook, reading cookbooks and Gourmet magazine at five in the morning and became a truly amazing cook until her advancing age and her own alcoholism took over. I still admire her tenacity and skill and the great appreciation she gave me and the rest of her family of truly fine cooking, which was entirely self taught, as she taught us the love of good food.

[@IAmContemporary]

The issue isn’t even whether the food itself is healthy or unhealthy. The issue is, as with all things parenting: would the outcome be positive if this child consistently followed the behaviour they’re being taught for the rest of their lives? You’re not just feeding your child, you’re teaching them how to feed themselves in the future. The long-term difference between “a donut is fine as a treat sometimes” and “donuts are an acceptable part of your everyday meals” is huge.

[@Sarahlittrell3110]

I was low income, did not feed my children donuts in the morning! Or ever, my oldest tasted soda at 10 and my yongest has never even tried it....depression and poverty are not excuses for bad behavior

[@spicyhotdumpling]

When I was 13,my dad started his business and we struggled to buy groceries for a month and he still managed to buy us healthy food

[@karilnowak7962]

I was pregnant and lived in Italy, back in the early 70"S. My Italian husband made $70 US dollars a month, and my parents in the US subsidized my apartment. I had $2 a day to spend on food. What did I buy? Parmeasan cheese, wild turkey from the market and fish as the fishing boats came in. My baby was a perfect 7 1/2 pounds. No soda, no bread, no juice, no sweets, no alcohol, not even an aspirin.Whatever I spent had to be spent on protein.

[@TheCrapOnYourStrapOn]

Her children deserve better than the life she is giving them. I think we can all agree on that

[@Flyig_Walrus]

Why do ppl not understand when you put your life, your family, your weight loss journey whatever on social media you're going to get sh*t.

[@val-wr4je]

Seriously tho it’s literally impossible to be liked by everyone! Some people are just not made for social media

[@donnagelina8548]

If she was smart she'd prepare terrible, junk food meals like pretzels with grape jelly and a frozen sausage and Hawaiian Punch. And then in reality cook up a delicious vegetable soup that she serves the kid off camera. She could ACT like a terrible, lazy slovenly mom and not really be one and still rake in the cash.

[@raaaaaaarr]

Too bad eh. Shea definitely not smart

[@caitlyntia6199]

that’s what i was thinking!

[@sheviper]

Maybe she is, and she's so good she's got us fooled

[@jerodwolf5582]

So this woman says that she barely has money but also pumps out 3 kids, with 3 years apart? You would think the 1st kid would be enough, but somehow that money problem eluded you when you did it again, and again!

[@patray162]

Aren't bananas and oats more affordable than prepackaged sweets, meats drenched in oil, and tortillas packed with processed cheese? edit-- I also saw someone point out that dollar stores carry frozen fruits and vegetables.... Really, how can anyone excuse the lifelong damage being inflicted on children in these homes?

[@alexterria4331]

No actually processed food is always cheaper in the big picture

[@patray162]

@@alexterria4331 The "big picture" meaning what? And "always," really? So you are including the example of the items noted above that this mother is serving her toddler? Or are you referring to fast food as consumed by families in other situations?

[@ellaella5537]

@@alexterria4331nah, it’s not, it’s actually pretty expensive to buy processed food, with a few exceptions. You can eat healthy for cheap.

[@Sara5698]

Yes, she’s just lazy and depressed. I’ve been there so I know.

[@serendouss9575]

Processed foods tend to be more shelf stable so its cheaper in that you don't have to re-purchase them frequently. Fresh fruit like bananas will go bad if you don't use them and that's money down the drain. Most processed foods are also easy to cook so it seems like a better deal than cooking from scratch.

[@sharkussyslayer1000]

my biggest issue with her is that she CHOOSES what to put out. She chose to film herself feeding her kid donuts... how did she think that would go down? like no we don't know what goes on because you chose to film that specific meal and upload it. Deal with your choice.

[@supererikman5331]

Agree, cooking some eggs veggies and ham on a skillet takes like 5 minutes, whole wheat takes 2 minutes to toast in a toaster. In 7 minutes you can cook a balanced breakfast of eggs, ham, veggies and toast

[@Unknown2Yoo]

I saw an article, I think for TODAY magazine, that she wanted to show what "real mothers" feed their kids because she saw all these mothers with aesthetic videos and wanted to be a voice for the "real" mothers that don't have time for that. So she technically put that out on purpose, but the outrage was an unintended consequence. She's not handling it well, imo.

[@sharkussyslayer1000]

@@Unknown2Yoo yeah I watched a tiktok of her explaining that but it still bugs me because she could’ve stated in the donut video, “I know this isn’t the best for the kids but it’s the best I can do right now, it’s better than nothing”. Maybe she wouldn’t have had that much backlash idk, she probably still would’ve but at least she would’ve clarified it first 🤣

[@Unknown2Yoo]

@@sharkussyslayer1000 I think she doesn't care it's not the best because that's how she eats and she likes it. I agree, people would've still flipped even if she clarified with a "best I can do" speech.

[@karilnowak7962]

@@supererikman5331 Sometimes I just cook several slices of deli ham topped with cheese in a skillet with a tab of two of butter. You can add toast or not. Or drop two eggs in a pan and add chopped veggies like spinach, or mushrooms and celery (sorry, I adore celery, just barely cooked). It's a fake omelet, but so easy and really good. These things are really fast, don't take longer than mashing up a sugar donut. Just learn what you like that is good for you or your family.

[@amunrae07]

You're a really nice guy. You can tell by how you speak about others.

[@kenzie7438]

I always worry for people who go viral on Tiktok out of the blue for something fairly mundane like feeding their kids because overnight you have millions of eyes on you, talking about you, criticizing/critiquing you, and I really don't think most people can handle all that attention so suddenly. Hell, I'm not sure if anyone could, at least not gracefully.

[@taylorbug9]

It's good that she's broadcasting this so that CPS can get involved. They will take your children away for improper nutrition. We used to live down the street from an old lady. In once a week we would see her taking a walk with her very overweight, very young grandson. Then, one day, we saw him being moved in with her, without his parent(s). And after that, we saw them walking every day.

[@melteddarkchocolate000]

I’m more annoyed of her calling TikTok as her job. Like seriously you serious 🙄

[@catherinewink8433]

​@taylorgriffith94 I've only seen a couple of her videos. But what I have seen would not cause CPS to blink an eye. I stand corrected if she has put content out that shows abuse and neglect. I think John would have mentioned in this video if he had seen that too.

[@ragtimes1015]

i've been watching your videos a lot more lately (kind of comes and goes... like the video games) and i just want to say that i appreciate how levelheaded and down to earth you are. you always give people credit and benefit of the doubt, and you don't attack people or insult them for no reason. you seem like a genuine and sweet guy. i really appreciate your commentary and your unique perspective!

[@acaciajacqueline]

My question is, if that garbage she fed her kids was so uncommon, and she knew it was not good, why post a video of it? I still think thats most of their diet and she thought it was no big deal, and shes just trying to save face.

[@Zakuyuki]

I think you may be right! I can never imagine people actually being so clueless and dangerous without even trying. I always think that they must be doing it on purpose. Like she purposefully feeds her child junk knowing it will get the most attention. But most of the time people aren't evil, they're ignorant and stupid, which is just as dangerous.

[@xtinkerbellax3]

@@Zakuyuki Yea rage bait content is a thing but like, how maladaptive are you in the first place that you choose to make content solely to make people mad? Also not a smart choice if you're looking to monetize.

[@taylorbug9]

I used to be a live-in nanny for a couple that would buy their 2 year old daughter a full sized, icing & sprinkle covered chocolate donut every morning before they left for work. Doing terrible things for her diet and her eating habits. I felt like a complete and total a****** every single morning, but as soon as they were out of the driveway, I took the rest of the donut away. I will not be complicit in giving a 2 year old diabetes. No way, no how.

[@brianmills9554]

@@xtinkerbellax3 I think everyone is giving her way too much credit, she’s not some super villain playing 3d chess with her videos. That’s how they normally eat and it will probably be how they continue to eat in the future. I’m sure not every meal is doughnuts, but a majority of them are.

[@xtinkerbellax3]

Oh I totally agree, people love to claim someone's trolling but the much more likely reality is usually they're just not much of a thinker. @@brianmills9554

[@HelloNewMoon]

So I have heard she is part of a Poly relationship and that child is raised by 3 people. ONE OF THEM has to have time, means and brains to feed the baby more than hostess donuts

[@heather4074]

None of those adults in that home works. The way she makes the food and plates it just makes her look like she doesn't even care to put any effort into a healthy meal. Tossing plates on the counter, tossing the food on the plate,throwing everything and then tossing in front of her child. She chooses to film the way she does and from her choices it looks like she doesn't care at all.

[@Rosietosie420]

I don’t know why people act like they need to eat doughnuts when they are poor, you know what is cheaper than a bag of hostess doughnuts? An apple

[@stephanieterrell4838]

Agreed. I'm poor and don't eat anything like that

[@BoringTroublemaker]

My issue is that there are thin, insta-aesthetic moms online feeding their kids donuts (but _fancy_ donuts) and people applaud her. There is absolutely a double standard. At least own it.

[@Irishczech]

She's addressing comments already received. If everyone is working, who pays for childcare? The bf and gf should contribute financially. Do these 2 live there?

[@dawnm5612]

This is what happens when you splash your life on the internet for $$$. So many people turning on the camera so they can empty bags and show what they have and expose themselves in ways that I doubt they realized they would......it can be ugly

[@xtinkerbellax3]

Such a lack of self awareness to think anyone would want to watch this kind of content in a positive light in the first place. Zero observational skills in regards to what actually makes people money online.

[@maryannanderson2213]

Am I the only one who thinks what she is feeding her children is NOT the most damaging thing she is doing to them? I think modeling her thruple relationship for her children is far more damaging. Maybe I'm just too old for this foolishness but I think if we are allowed to call her out for feeding her children's bodies trash, then we also are allowed to call her out for feeding her children's MINDS trash!

[@sidzybopper33]

Agree 100%

[@loiracitr]

The background sound of the partners playing video games is very annoying. If that's her job, she should demand better filming conditions

[@dancerocker815]

There's nothing more ridiculous than people that voluntarily broadcast their lives telling people to mind their business. Girl, you've chosen to make it their business.

[@MamaSwole]

I remember growing up my 3 meals of the day were all cereal😭

[@BloofehBaby]

I just get the ick from the unhealthy meals and money incentive to keep perpetuating this behavior. I was a fat child, even in preschool, and that was the direct result of my parent's eating habits being pushed on me. It took me a lifetime to unlearn these habits, and I hate seeing similar behavior broadcasted online as content. Also don't take this as me saying children should never have unhealthy meals ever. I completely disagree with that too, and think that causes its own issues. Balance is key, but if Alex depends on this income to sustain herself then I don't think that's possible to achieve.

[@averysspookshowspectacular6205]

"I feel like you move in slow motion" This! This is actually the reason I hate watching her. I don't know why it bothers me so much, but I'm glad someone else said something!

[@CandyFlossFluff]

She's on medications for mental health issues, some of them can cause that "slow motion, no facial expression" effect.

[@urgh9822]

People will always criticize anything that differs greatly from " the norm " . She's the polar opposite of Nara Smith for exemple, who is getting just as much criticism and they look nothing alike so... no. It's not because she's fat.

[@amartin130]

What i always find interesting is when creators say "you don't like me then you don't need to watch or comment you, are free to not see my life." And many more of the stereotypical things they say. But it is a double edged sword: being free to post or say whatever you want the people can do the same in return. It does not always seem ethically right or nice but the reality is: if you post it the world can say and watch as they please. Some of my favorite creators always mention it comes with the territory and to expect it becauae it is the truth. Hence why i personally never tried to be a creator. It will always be a double edged sword.

[@taylorpatterson8845]

As a recovering addict, she displays a LOT of characteristics of an addict. Food, attention, money, sex, video games, etc. can ALL be addictions

[@Quirkyloverosee]

Great take on content related to children’. Thank you.

[@Chewtubehuskyhouse]

Luscious locks be flowin today! 😂😁

[@vkpskulls]

Go to a public school and observe the “food” they serve and you’ll see she’s not feeding her kids any worse than the state does.

[@Irishczech]

Agree don't use your kids. HOWEVER, a pb&J, fruit, and veg is a fine lunch. It's a 2 year old! The pickiest people on the planet! The breakfast was a bad choice. The savior for 2yr Olds is Cherrios, fruit, milk.

[@moneystrb22]

I think for her it’s a “the lights are on but no one’s home” - unfortunately that’s a lot of people who are goaded into having kids when they’re not equipped to do so. America is excellent at creating this problem.

[@lisajackson9431]

She always looks so miserable.

[@JimiSparx-yw3gb]

She reminds me of Eeyore from Winnie the Pooh. Always looking miserable.

[@camichiBichi]

When I'm focused cooking I look like that too, not a TradWife tiktoker smiling and singing while baking...

[@myshadowstalksme]

@@JimiSparx-yw3gbEeyore is misunderstood and has a big heart.

[@cristianasaras6898]

@@JimiSparx-yw3gbdon’t insult Eeyore

[@Sheepy007]

@@camichiBichi would you record that for tiktok?

[@michellemartinov6267]

And she looks so happy caring for her baby!

[@sabrinastratton1991]

Her demenor makes it look like she doesnt like her children

[@SoCalJellybean]

This makes me so angry! She’s doing this, thinking she’s cute, wanting to trigger people on the internet with her disgusting, sloppy lifestyle, and that’s fine; you do you, be gross, happy trails! But as soon as innocent kids are involved, I’m done. She’s setting them up for a lifetime of poor habits and laziness, that they will just continue to pass down, unless they get help and therapy as adults. People like this make me sick. 🤬

[@melteddarkchocolate000]

It’s the money. That’s why she on there It’s pathetic but there’s people like that.

[@xtinkerbellax3]

How much money can someone who puts out that kind of content realistically even make? Not everyone can be Amberlynn Reid.@@melteddarkchocolate000

[@toreason8146]

I stg I have had to watch the clip of her dividing those god damn doughnuts in half about 25 times too many now 😩 no more

[@kivamcknight]

I wish more people would touch on the polyamory thing because this statistic is alarming: “Young children who live in households with one or more unrelated adults are nearly 50 times as likely to die from an inflicted injury, usually being shaken or struck, as children living with two biologic parents” I just think when it involves kids you gotta be careful about who you’re letting in. And nobody mentions the fact that her boyfriend essentially seemed to make it a requirement for them to bring in this other woman just for them to get back together. Just generally gives me a very bad feeling for those kids.

[@lainiwakura1776]

A comment above heavily implies her preference not to have a man in her life and more important than the health and safety of her children.

[@Rhamburgers_420]

This isn’t just about polyamory, this would also include step parents. Do you condemn step parenting as well?

[@sallytodd2636]

This is why I actually choose to not have kids, because I can barely take care of myself so how can I take care of a whole other person? I get some people don’t have the choice however if you can’t provide at the very least a healthy diet, then what are you even doing? The kids didn’t ask to be filmed or even be here, you as a parent chose that so if working an extra couple shifts provides healthier food choices then get at it. Sorry if this offends some ppl but I have very little empathy for someone who chose to be a parent not once, not twice but thrice and clearly isn’t doing what needs to be done. End rant.

[@lisahannah3175]

I have actually never been on TicToc 😂. Unless they come to KZbin as shorts, but then I’m much older than everyone else here🤣

[@autumnh5027]

I’m 23 and absolutely refuse to download the app. Lol

[@AJ-kv7zr]

You are right John. Anyone that has ever gone viral will tell you. It's like a drug and the only way to chase that original high is to keep doing what you went viral for. It's terrible feeding her kids junk food is how she makes money.

[@Supersonicnoise]

It's so rough watching creators become trapped by engagement. I was heartbroken watching Candy (Hungry Fatchick, I think) talk about how her content doesn't get the views if she's making healthy choices. I would hate to see this mom go down that road, especially with her kids depending on her.

[@MoonGoddessTarot16]

And candy was doing so good for a minute. I had to not watch anymore when she went back to feeder content.

[@asho345]

Can’t she just pretend to serve her kids junk food?

[@jacqueline6135]

I don't have sympathy for people who would rather destroy their health and bodies than get a real job.

[@charismaticdaughter]

I dont think the kids are given a poor diet because of money. I think it's just laziness and skewed priorities because she and her girlfriend just spent $900 at barnes and noble, but went to the food bank for food?

[@noah1502]

cucumbers, strawberries, and pbj is a great meal for a toddler

[@Cjai8518]

At the end of the day she chose to film herself, that means she signed up for opinions being thrown at her. Even fitness, MUA, reaction content creators get criticized; no one is safe once you start posting on the internet, especially when it involves children. Is this her first time on the internet?

[@TheDeadlyTikka]

its sad watching someone who just walking, talking and even breathing is difficult. Then add onto that she is potentially inflicting the same fate onto her children.

[@galesalinas964]

My issue with her, besides the food choices, is her "throuple" relationship. That is not a healthy atmosphere for kids to be brought up in. Do better for your lids or don't have kids. It is the hardest thing to raise kids and also the most rewarding. You chose to have these children and they come first!

[@amefuraggamuffin]

It takes a village to raise a child, there are plenty of thruples out there who are more than fine to raise a child. You're acting like this is the 1950s

[@galesalinas964]

@@amefuraggamuffinNope. Millions have been raised without "the village". Not healthy for a child to see a mom or dad-mom in this situation-having a relationship with another. And believe it or not, the 50's weren't horrible. Look where we are now in terms of families and lifestyles and homelife.

[@blondbraid7986]

​@@galesalinas964"the 50s weren't horrible", well, I'm sure it was nice as long you weren't african-american, gay, a mental health patient or a domestic abuse victim.

[@jacqueline6135]

@@amefuraggamuffinExcept they do nothing but play video games all day.

[@sauceissilly]

She posted the first video because she knew it was going to get a reaction and attention, and she couldn’t handle the backlash 😦

[@rush1er]

FIX YER GLASSES!!

[@Jake-y4s]

It's not about what she feeds them for me, it's the fact that she looks completely out of it 24/7, there are THREE adults in the house and they're still using food banks, which means she's probably the only one somewhat working and the others are taking advantage of government services. Also, you're using your CHILDREN to make money from strangers. Your KIDS. "You can mind your own business", and you can not make videos for ppl to watch and comment on, but here we are. And WHY ARE HER GLASSES ALWAYS SO CROOKED.

[@Maieveryday2]

Maybe her ears are different sizes...?

[@alreturnslol]

She's just Amberlynn 2.0 with kids addition. Marketing genius imo.

[@Mkaythen]

Them: “Peanut Butter and Jelly on a hamburger bun?” Me: “….its bread my dude.” 🙄

[@B33nan]

I lived off that stuff

[@ImEverlove]

EVERYTHING that has to do with your kids should be private when it comes to social media. The internet and the world in general is an unfair ruthless place. You should know this and you shouldn't put your kids in a position where they could be in the firing line. It doesn't matter if you show them or not, your content is about your kids, therefor, they will be a topic of discussion in the mentioned firing line.

[@mariecherrytree]

My mom grew up poor so always fed us so much. It wasn't sugary processed stuff but just huge huge home cooked meals everyday. Donuts and snacks were a treat still. I was fat because of the volume of food. Now my husband grew up poor also and now that he can buy what ever he wants, he is a snack monster but he also is extremely fit.

[@bbcakez]

she’s like ALR

[@viewandchew]

You are always so good at basically having no opinion at all, and making content out of it😂😂

[@katesicle]

Oof

[@Chuckakhan]

Mummy Vloggers are a grey area in the child labor laws, this is especially bad because it’s unhealthy food in addition to making your kids a public figure

[@cassiepasifull3934]

I understand it can look strange to give a baby/toddler large pieces of food but it is so much safer that way. Cutting the food into little chunks is actually more likely to lead to choking that that large piece of steak. My boy has eaten full "adult" foods from 6 months his first meal was a full roast dinner, we did so much research before we decided baby led weaning was right for us, if done correctly they are no more likely to choke than traditional weaning methods.

[@veronicaveeroni]

Lol I've watched you off and on for like a year and had zero idea what your name was. Nice to meet you John! Love you're content 💕

[@emilyc245]

As a mom myself I can’t imagine feeding my son nothing but junk food and not being worried sick that he wasn’t meeting his nutritional needs. The occasional processed meal or sweets is fine but that shouldn’t make up a large portion of anyone’s diet; especially a child. It’s not a money thing either. You can eat healthy with not a lot of money. A bag of chicken legs at Walmart is cheaper than a bag of chicken nuggets. Frozen veggies goes for lower than a dollar depending on the type. Add some rice (which is also cheap) and you have a balanced meal. I don’t know how you can look at your child and not want to give them the best start of life and set them up for healthy habits

[@BloodSweatandFears]

Right?! I’m weaning my baby off the bottle and I’m so terrified she won’t eat enough to get her nutrients. I’ve been googling all week 😅 I don’t understand how some people just don’t care.

[@GabriellaHartman]

The sideways glasses are the cherry on top

[@KhyrstyneMcLenaghan]

Obviously, yes the donut isn't great however, there are ways to make these types of things healthy for kids. My 3 year old's favorite lunch is a chocolate muffin (made with carrots, spinach and unsweetened applesauce) with cheese and crackers. It's not a difficult lunch, I did have to learn how to cook the muffins with veggies and gluten free for her (celiac) and that was a lot of work but it has paid off. Anything she wants that isn't the healthiest, I just make healthier for her. I also do "Monster Mac n Cheese" made with spinach which you cannot taste but it does turn green thus why we call it monster lol and I put red lentils in it as well.

[@cthulawha]

Its kinda funny how content creators pretend to not understand how the algorithm on tik tok and KZbin shorts works. No one controls what shows up in our feeds until we block a channel. The AI throws a video out randomly and then amolifies or depresses it depending on the views and interaction counts. In other words the more comments you get on a video the more shotgun blasts to random feeds occurs with the video or the more hate you get the more chances for hate to happen lol

[@triciaasay8066]

Idk why I laughed so hard when he said “..by the way my name is Jon.”

[@melanieb_4]

I literally did NOT know your name until this video, so you are right on point. 😆

[@katieclifford1300]

Love that you’re not showing the picture that has the child and helping to protect their privacy ❤

[@squeece]

Also she once did a $900 barnes and noble haul lol. How are you going to claim you’re low income and spend $900 at barnes and noble when you could have just gone to a library lmao

[@ydoicare2000]

That’s horrible. You are right about kids for content .

[@b.r.v.8609]

She doesn’t actually want the trolls to leave her alone, they’re her primary viewers and the reason for her income. She wouldn’t have a “job” if you can call it that if not for the people leaving negative comments. It’s uncomfortable to get hate but she probably loves making videos like this one because it’ll just bring in more online traffic which equals more money. It won’t last forever for content creators like her because people will get bored and move on, or it’ll get 10x worse and her life as it is will fall apart either due to health issues, possibly custody issues if her kids are actually being neglected, or issues with this couple who is living with her because that relationship with the 3 of them cannot last long term. It’s sad for the kids and that’s about all I have sympathy for, certainly not the adults who have brought this upon themselves.

[@kirausamaria5409]

If you feed little children with some food full of colorants and additives too early in life, their risk of getting food allergies increases, I heard. I will look it up.

[@TheSaltRose]

So her girlfriend and boyfriend don’t have jobs right? What are they “unwinding” from then?

[@lorrieoiler1878]

I think the lunch with peanut butter and jelly, veggies and fruit was pretty good. It's hard to feed a toddler sometimes; they can be really picky. Not a bad compromise to include fruit and veggies. Yeah, she could maybe lay off feeding her kid donuts and such, but nobody's perfect. Kids don't have the most developed palate and just because we put healthy foods in front of them doesn't mean they will eat them. It's not like she doesn't give them anything healthy. Much of the time she's feeding them fruits and veggies, but not all the time. I think she shows a realistic representation of what it's like to try to feeding kids healthy foods when they can often be very picky eaters.

[@ctobolsk]

True. I was literally talking about this with my niece yesterday. Her toddler will love blueberries at breakfast and hate them at lunch

[@JohnNathanShopper]

Yay, it’s John!

[@tallyk2848]

Ur so well spoken, regardless if I agree or disagree I love listening to ur commentary. Ur also very handsome!

[@CherrrrBear]

6:23 I totally agree with you!!!

[@michelleashleigh]

@19:12 Me : *panicking* Oh hi John 😂 swear I knew that, but put on the spot!? You right

[@Basedsyd]

what?

[@LEANINGONALAMPOST1]

It's the kids you've got to feel sorry for, I don't have any particular sympathy for the mum. She's choosing to put videos of herself feeding her kids junk food to gain a following and make money. It's only ever going to have a negative impact on her children both physically and mentally. People who do this sort of thing obviously don't have their kids best interests at heart. Poor people claiming they can't afford to feed their kids a proper diet is usually BS. A lot of junk food is more expensive than vegetables, fruit and meat.

[@LuxeMindsetVibes]

She knew EXACTLY what she was doing posting these unhealthy meals for her kids. If she didn’t she found out by the feedback from her 1st video. If she was caught off guard, she would try to learn more nutritious meals. However, she leaned into posting sugary and fatty meals because it got clicks & views.

[@internetperson9121]

You seem like a very thoughtful, balanced person. I like to see that.

[@b.r.v.8609]

Her poor kids

[@moodymaranda]

Peanut butter and jelly on hamburger buns is awesome

[@coldfire22]

Not related to the video, but John's hair looking awesome! I'm jealous of that hairline!!