The perfect response when she says 'I'll let you know'

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[@HunkMine]

I'm 30 and cant believe I'm still dealing with this shit

[@yogeshtokas8481]

😂

[@brandonl0094]

I’m also 30 bro. 😂 .. shits terrible.

[@Bs-cl3qz]

same bro

[@jherictiaba4333]

Same. Haha!

[@hsamzsd]

dude it actually gets worse at this age because women are carrying emotional baggage from their past experiences of getting pumped and dumped

[@oscargonza2748]

She's indirectly telling you she's not interested, but wants you to keep chasing to boost her ego with free attention and validation

[@evelic]

Correct

[@antonboludo8886]

Plus in some cases free meals, drinks and gifts.

[@HayleyQuinn]

For some people maybe but not for all 👍

[@HayleyQuinn]

For some people maybe but not for all 👍

[@oscargonza2748]

Not for some women but for most women

[@searklarak]

It's best to move on. A woman that's genuinely interested in you won't feel the need to play games or waste time. Unless she's naturally flakey and immature to everyone (including her friends and family), we all know most women can be indecisive and unsure of themselves. However, if she really likes you, she'll make time for you and will even adjust her schedule accordingly if needed.

[@stonepaintertim]

"maybe" mean that you aren't a priority- find some one else when fed this line

[@Swwatter]

​@@stonepaintertim I was fed that line the first time. The second time I was fed "I'll let you know." The third time I was told yes. She cancelled twice because family things and work, but I also took her out on an awesome date last night. Patience and understanding is highly desirable. But circumstances with us is we've established a friendship before actually going out with each other, with hours of phone conversations. If it's a woman from an online dating app, or a woman you only just met and got her number, it is probably wise to move on. But even then, I've gotten dates in the past on online dating apps when they say "I'll let you know" then they actually let me know. All depends on the circumstances.

[@polycrase]

The proverbial unicorn...I have yet to encounter one and I'm 55.

[@Swwatter]

@@polycrase why do you think that might be?

[@stonepaintertim]

@@Swwatter glad it worked out for you that way.

[@t-lo3707]

I just got the “I’ll let you know” text from the girl that I like after two dates. I’m pulling back from her because I’m tired

[@kristiannoel4866]

I would just walk away and find someone else who is going to be willing to be serious.

[@HayleyQuinn]

Well said!

[@dongmingling4052]

You can just ask her why you didn't give me clearly answer,but through the previous chatting,you can sense her hint. Just notice women hint,they aren't straightforward as dudes,if you can't accept this,then you won't be good with ladies

[@benrobinson375]

I look at it like this: If someone is giving you vague, non-committal answers like this, then they either aren't interested, or they don't respect your time (or just completely flakey). Attraction and effort has to be a two way street. If they won't commit to plans, then you do absolutely nothing. You could try to play it cool if you wanted, but you don't owe them anything.

[@TenMallak]

Anything outside of a clear-cut Yes means no. Don't waste your time, move on.

[@nas8027]

It takes confidence and guts to ask someone out, so give yourself a pat on the back when you ask someone to spend time with you. I have had "ill let you know" response. I say "ok thanks, let me know" ... then I just take it as a "no", and never reach out to her again. I don't understand why people can't just say yes or no thanks. That would be better all round...

[@polycrase]

Never learn to fish from a fish.

[@Axman2024]

When women say to me "I'll let you know". I quickly respond with, "FORGET IT" The reason why I respond like that is because #1- they clearly are NOT interested and #2-it makes no sense to waste each other's times and energy. #MoveOn

[@HayleyQuinn]

Consider a more neutral response- even negative energy from you is still your (limited) time and energy 🙏🏻

[@NoName-zb1gm]

Say ok and get out your phone and act like you're going to call another woman.

[@FrankBoone-ux8xg]

I think it's warm test man that the first thing you should do is leave never talk to her again be done with it

[@_Trakman]

i can't have standards when i'm in extreme scarcity how do you work on self esteem when everything you tried failed

[@1nnu3ndo]

Whenever I tried setting up a specific date and she's vague and says she'll let me know I say "ok" and I leave it at that. If she then comes back to me the day before I tell her I've already made other plans (often true) and to not wait so long next time. If she's vague, I consider the date not set until she commits, so I have no trouble making plans with other people. She'll just have to wait.

[@HayleyQuinn]

Good attitude - there’s no point being a “maybe” for someone when there are MANY more people out there who will give you a “HELL YES”

[@chiluditospro2]

Not confusing at all. It's simple.... There's no one busier than someone who's not interested. Move on. Done.

[@HayleyQuinn]

Yup !

[@_Trakman]

no because it could be her "playing hard to get" - so she could be interested but bluffing or scared of rejection too

[@chiluditospro2]

​@@_Trakmanplaying hard to get went out of the window with the sexual revolution. Before that, women had some leverage with withholding sex because most women weren't giving it away easy. (they could still play the role of "I'm not interested" or "seduce/invest on me") Contrary to today's dynamic, if she doesn't have sex with you rather soon or doesn't show higher interest then there'll be one who will because most women are pretty promiscuous nowadays. They shot themselves in the foot. The girls who are actually decent and truly need to get to know a guy before having sex have the hardest time because guys won't want to wait because their sisters are giving it easy.

[@CitySoulMusicDK]

@@_TrakmanThat makes her even less worth wasting time on. Those kind of games show immaturity, potential insecurity and possibly a red flag that they’ll be hot and cold should a relationship result. You don’t want any of that, I promise you.

[@FrankBoone-ux8xg]

Why is it the vice-chairman when a woman is wishy-washy is just give her a chance but women if a if a man is wishy-washy with a woman she doesn't give him a chance

[@kc270352]

walk away 🙄

[@wanderer5200]

Perfect response? Next!

[@HayleyQuinn]

Yes much better to invest your time in meeting new women than pursuing someone who isn’t interested

[@oscargonza2748]

Better yet, focus more on persuing your path and purpose than wasting time, energy and resources on women who don't like you, bruh

[@KristnaSaikiaBillFortuneEagle]

I block such cheap clients . Work with high net worth clients . They will say yes or no .

[@NoName-zb1gm]

I've learned to ask her out as soon as possible to get her on the record so I don't have to keep wondering and playing her flirt bombing games. I know most of the time the answer will not be a yea either a no or maybe so it's good to get it out of the way.

[@jarradhurley4866]

Ill let you know = no. Maybe = no.

[@NoName-zb1gm]

Maybe means no. A great response would be to not care and say "ok I still have time to do x". Or make it sound like you're going to call another woman. Yes I think asking puts her on the record so you know to stop giving her attention.

[@user-em2tl7gc4z]

What if it’s your ex girlfriend who dumped you but she’s not reaching out to you a year and half ago . I hurt her a lot when we were together , I dumped her 3 times & said some hurtful things, she said she was tired of getting hurt by me and tired of me putting no effort into the relationship. She was a great girl who was obsessed with me. Now she said she’s down to hang out but she said “she’ll let me know when she’s free”… is she just playing games or is she confused & has her guard up since I hurt her so much when we were together & was not the boyfriend she deserved when we were together ? What should I do ?

[@andrewcruz7595]

Bro are you fuckinf kidding me . With that many problems I'd move on . Even if yalk get back together the same issues will arise again . Doesn't matter what you do next cus from what I'm reading is you were the huurting her

[@axiosw0774]

You messaged her back after she dumped you or she did?

[@sarvesh714]

what does it mean when she says 'we will talk later'? later is such an ambiguous term. What does it imply?

[@oscargonza2748]

It means she will talk to you as soon as one of her better options is not available, move on from her unless you want to be used to inflate her ego when her better options are not available for her, bruh

[@WhiteMouse77]

Guys! Never let woman take control over you and your life. IF she plays game of letting you wait your response MUST be like "Finally! You aren't the only important target I focus on..."

[@carlcounts1]

It’s a clear 100% no. I’ll let you know means he’s the back up man

[@bkstandard882]

It means no. Full stop

[@Jonesracing82]

Had this happen to me a week ago, so i didn't contact her & let her get back to me, she didn't so now i move on. I agree with the bonus option, have standards & if they can't meet those they are not what you are looking for anyway.

[@HayleyQuinn]

Well said.. if not her there will be someone better for you who can give you a clear yes to a date

[@Jonesracing82]

@@HayleyQuinn Definitely not her! She had her chance & more or less stuffed me around by not getting back to me so she's not what i am looking for. Onto the next...

[@shinydmike8490]

Can I combine 2 of them and say something like, “I get you’re busy, but I’m not going to ask again so let me know when you’re free”

[@SkylerDouglas]

No thats basically telling her you're bothered by it and that you're too nice of a guy to respond like a man. Just don't say sht move on or say ok just let me know and let her reach out if she doesn't she's not interested.

[@WhiteMouse77]

She: I'LL let U know..." Me: OK. CooL ...I take that time for getting back to my opened projects I'm eager to continue with... No rush...bye...

[@FrankBoone-ux8xg]

Why is that women can be wishy-washy in a man doesn't handle it right he's the problem but if a man is Richard wershe he's the problem women never take responsibility for anything they do

[@walterwhitesr.210]

I just had a woman like me and start a convo with me by herself (on a dating app), be flirty, respond super fast and invest 6 continuous hours into texting, only to drop the "ill let you know" in the end. You are weird creatures.

[@agnikaineverdies7646]

The perfect response is blocking her phone number

[@user-xz9qv9lr3v]

women dating coaches are the absolute worst lmao this one is no different... why would you want to wait for someone who doesnt know what she wants or can not verbally explain she does or doesnt want you lol... NEXT!!

[@dongmingling4052]

If you are charming enough,even a girl who aren't interested in relationship rn,she can change for you. Just you need to have games and move first forward

[@TCBBB22]

Just ghost and never respond again lmao why would anyone even bother wow

[@BL-N3xus]

Just move on. Do NOT be the last option to any women.

[@goaro2007]

Value yourself, move on.

[@user-xz9qv9lr3v]

i bet she is still single herself despite her being a "relationship coach" 🤣