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@DoADipset2 жыл бұрын
At the end, it would have been funny if he added, "you dummy." I kind of felt it anyway
@ThanksYep2 жыл бұрын
Thought the exact same thing 🤣
@alexanderlyon2 жыл бұрын
Ha! it would have been funny but . . .
@oioio-yb9dw7 ай бұрын
@alexanderlyon too late, or maybe you can make a new one because 2024 just started😊
@Mae-th4wf5 ай бұрын
Omg. I have heard the phrase “it’s not what you said, it’s HOW you said it” in my relationships for most of my life. And I have never understood what that means (or how to fix it) until now. THANK YOU.
@kenetinuade96572 жыл бұрын
Tone of voice is one area i am glad i can confidently say i have made some progress in over time but i really appreciate the technique you shared as it will help me further. Thanks Alex
@alexanderlyon2 жыл бұрын
Great job!
@richarddebono70922 жыл бұрын
This is priceless! I think I use the "you dummy" tone too much 😂😂😂
@alexanderlyon2 жыл бұрын
Hi, Richard. Well, at least now you know what to listen for? And thank you for the compliment on the video.
@karlatyson1211 ай бұрын
I’m here because I’m a current clinical intern ,during mock therapy sessions my supervisor keeps saying I come off defensive. I think I’m calm professional with a even tone but he thinks otherwise 🥴😂
@caseyd366410 ай бұрын
Same with me. I’m told “it’s the way you say it”, but I don’t know how else to say it 🤷🏻♀️ it’s just how I talk.
@iamme54172 жыл бұрын
Thank you, it sounds like a simple technique to implement.
@cherylecooper9062 жыл бұрын
This is great advice!! We've got to "tone" our tone!! 🤣🤣🤣 Thanks, Alex. 🥰
@alexanderlyon2 жыл бұрын
Ha. Nice!
@richarddebono70922 жыл бұрын
I think you mean "tune" "you dummy" 😂😂😂
@paolagch29772 жыл бұрын
Thanks so easy!!! And so personal.
@willrobbins61152 жыл бұрын
What a great piece of advice. Thanks Alex!
@alexanderlyon2 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Will.
@JustAnotherFallenAngel8 ай бұрын
Thank you! Very helpful 👌
@maina25378 ай бұрын
Thank you that works for me
@jenna3362 Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU! This was super helpful
@sarameiragootblatt18192 жыл бұрын
wow this is a great tip
@Ricocase Жыл бұрын
Great points! Best ways to start and stop STAR interview responses?
@chooseaname14233 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this. I have autism and I do not understand how I can learn tone and I can’t hear myself, but I know it’s something I have to learn to have better communication with others. Other than your two videos which I will be watching, do you have any more resources or exercises to recommend for this?
@wessean62882 жыл бұрын
wow, loved this! 🥰❤
@paulstejskal Жыл бұрын
Wow this is a brilliant tip. Thank you!
@alexanderlyon Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@SagRising192 жыл бұрын
Awesome tip!
@kristnalaehan5972 Жыл бұрын
This is great
@GermaineMills Жыл бұрын
ok maybe this has a good point
@TheCCress Жыл бұрын
To me this isn't tone of voice it is just phrasing
@thatrandomblackwoman17017 ай бұрын
Would you make a video of examples where "you dummy" does not fit please?
@bococlacko938010 ай бұрын
Can you expand on this? I could use a whole video on the topic, I'm trying to come across as less pedantic, despite being knowledgeable, but people hate being corrected!
@alexanderlyon10 ай бұрын
I have two full length videos on tone of voice. If you search for "tone of voice" and Alex Lyon on KZbin, those two videos will show up.
@StudyabroadWithAbhilasha11 ай бұрын
My tone sounds very authoritative which gives them wrong impression that I am angry and bossing them around. How to improve!
@alexanderlyon11 ай бұрын
I have another long video on _how to change your tone of voice_ . Take a look.
@ritahiggins13910 ай бұрын
Why would I want to build a positive relationship with a dummy?!
@jwell3336 Жыл бұрын
So you can still degrade someone in a good tone and it still be disgraceful to them. The tone is only one part.
@JolinHard24 күн бұрын
Huh??
@ElevatorWasher50009 ай бұрын
I’m autistic this still didn’t really help
@sarameiragootblatt18192 жыл бұрын
my tone is anxious and childlike! help!
@prestonik2 жыл бұрын
I hate my voice!
@alexanderlyon2 жыл бұрын
I'm not crazy about my voice either. I think that's pretty common. When we hear our own voices on a video or audio recording, most people I know don't like it.
@sandrasandiford4346 Жыл бұрын
Me too, it’s harsh to begin with.
@nancyzehr36792 жыл бұрын
My old boss!
@alexanderlyon2 жыл бұрын
Oof! Sorry to hear that, Nancy. I'm glad it's your old boss and not your current boss.
@nancyzehr36792 жыл бұрын
@@alexanderlyon Me too! She was a bit (a lot) narcissistic (managing partner for a successful law firm), so I guess...? It was a hard descision to leave, but my gut told me it was going to get much worse before it got better. Thanks for putting out this content. I find it very helpful and useful. Stay well!
@ernie84018 ай бұрын
I can’t. I’m a rude dude
@conniegreco8409 Жыл бұрын
❤️
@adrienss_188810 ай бұрын
Say “You Dummy” Respectfully. He disrespecting respectfully
@SacredOm369 Жыл бұрын
So what about guys like Dr. Jordan Peterson who just let it rip and then get a million followers?
@ryana29525 ай бұрын
wut
@Kyle._.5053 ай бұрын
Wut the wut in the wut
@lolidva3807 Жыл бұрын
What BS
@sandrasandiford4346 Жыл бұрын
Whatever it takes to make relationships and life better, is not BS.