The Top 5 CRAZIEST Gender TikToks I’ve Seen This Month

[@stargazerkawaii]

My sister played with boy toys. Was obsessed with cement trucks. Hated the color pink and hated dresses. Wore boys clothes. She is a tomboy and a mother of three. I'm glad we grew up in the 90s.

[@WhatTheWHAT524]

I often think about how grateful I am to have been born in the late 80s. I have always been a tomboy. Riding motocross since 3 years old on my own bike. Enjoy working on stuff and welding, wood work, construction ect. Got in trouble as a younger kid because my ninja turtle kicked the neighbor kids barbies butt😂🤦🤷🤣 silly things like that. Never wore much makeup if any at all. Yet I have never once thought to myself hmmm maybe I was born in the wrong body. But I do believe if I had been born these days I could have so easily been confused at a very young age and it's a terrifying thought in my opinion. Like Amala said, I think everyone has a time in their lives especially during puberty where they are so uncomfortable in their own skin. They're unsure about the changes happening then add the hormones and things in the mix and of course things can get extremely emotional. What breaks my heart is the thought that people actually thinking it's acceptable to tell children this bs. That they can just switch things up on a whim. Instead of encouraging everyone to look inside themselves and find happiness. Not worry about what anyone else thinks or whatever else. True happiness comes from within. And everyone is so beautifully uniquely them. Kids have it hard enough. Lets not make it even worse for them. If an adult wants to change themselves permanently then that's their right and choice. But children are so easily swayed and should be celebrated for their uniqueness. They are the only one of themselves on earth. No one should ever be told to conform to anything. Especially this new woke nonsense. It's beyond hypocritical AND it literally contradicts itself more often than not anyway. There is such a serious mental health crisis right now and this is only going to continue making things worse. I absolutely agree with EVERYTHING Amala said. Truly heartbreaking to me that people feel they are unable to be happy in their own skin. And force themselves to fit inside a little box with labels. It really does basically cancel itself out with almost ALL their arguments and talking points for lack of a better way to put it. It scares me raising my daughter in this insane world. I encourage her to just be her and stand strong in herself and her beliefs. I want a world where facts rule not emotions. Where it is truly equal for everyone. This whole ideology is just insane in my opinion. I have always believed do what makes you happy. Once again as an adult though. Such a big part of growing up is learning who you are and what you believe and finding a place for yourself as well. Sorry for novel size the rant I didn't intend to write such a long comment but it really does make me so frustrated. Wishing everyone the best! ❤

[@BWilderChannel]

Seriously!! I was a Tomboy too. Nothing wrong with that at all.

[@Spencerianism]

​@aleciak524 Absolutely perfect what you said. I read it all and it's so refreshing to hear some sanity spoken. 👏

[@stargazerkawaii]

@aleciak524 you're 100% right. Though I get to an extent why kids are putting themselves in these boxes. They treat gender identities like horoscopes or personality quizzes. Something i did all the time as a child. Except these gender identities take things too far by denying actual reality and their own bodies.

[@goofyahhhhhhh6131]

Luckily I was born 13 years later and in a Christian family or I would be screwed. I dressed like a Tomboy and acted like a boy at times.

[@Ghostalking]

Regardless of your stance on abortion, I think we can all agree that willingly getting pregnant for the sole purpose of getting an abortion is plain cold premeditated infant murder. This guy is a psycho..

[@dman7773]

A serial killer could use this idea to take as many lives as he could conceive, without fear of prosecution.

[@renevil2105]

A political news anchor woman nbc said she aim to get knock up just to kill the baby.

[@samanthageach3146]

Luciferian Satanists have been known to intentionally get pregnant for the purpose of having an abortion as a sacrifice. It's not something they all do but I have seen a video of some practitioners talking about it. Horrifying stuff.

[@clogs4956]

Even if some crazy new Mengele did manage to implant a womb, Fallopian tubes and ovaries into a male body, the cocktail of hormones needed would quite likely send the recipient's endocrine system into meltdown. Heck, doctors don't even understand how much of the endocrine system actually works!

[@kjwkrwklwjaw]

I’m thinking most people don’t do that

[@awsome182]

I love how the word "breastfeeding" can be dysphoric to trans and nb people (according to the person in the second clip), yet being pregnant, the single most female thing ever on this planet, is not.

[@rpmgrlca]

Mysogeny comes in many forms.

[@visionhawk4403]

It's because people who get pregnant and have babies are now called "birthing people." Everything is upside down now. Nothing is real and nothing matters except feelings. It's pathetic.

[@jneasy77]

This is an excellent point that I have never thought of.

[@ciciriddick]

Not to mention that men have breasts too. And can get breast cancer so IDK how it's not and inclusive word.

[@treefish008]

Yeah as someone who’s actually trans and goes out of his way to live as normally as possible, I can’t help but raise my eyebrows at so called trans men who willingly get pregnant and give birth.

[@someone-338]

“It is not hurting cis women to say chest feeding” Then why does it make me feel so dehumanized and uncomfortable

[@trcsunny2187]

I agree

[@brokenandcraked]

I find it ironic that they see us getting upset over breastfeeding being called chest feeding and are telling us that chest feeding is just a term and won't hurt us. Yet they don't see breastfeeding as just a term that shouldn't hurt them.

[@LarsOestreicher]

Who are they to say what a woman feels?

[@ruth4089]

She's a female tik tok creator with 3 children

[@anastasiahubbard8880]

i dont see the issue with breast feeding....because its breast tissue on a male or female its correct terminology

[@terrygreen4125]

I really like the concept of: "If genitals don't define a person's gender, then how does surgically removing them affirm them?"

[@nikkihoskins4607]

Yes 👏👏👏

[@HeyAHappyHuman]

I don't know who first said that, but I've been thinking of it the second I learned about sex change surgeries

[@meghanc8887]

Right...if gender doesn't matter and is " anything" then how do you know what gender you want to be ?

[@HeyAHappyHuman]

@@meghanc8887Exactly, if they're so for gender being a social construct, rendering it not real, why are they trying to make it real

[@meghanc8887]

@@HeyAHappyHuman if everything can means anything...then everything pretty much means NOTHING. Their answer is always something like " it's whatever you want it to be " " it's whatever you feel inside." ' what a good question!" When you try to ask something like " what other genders are there ?" "Why do you think ___" they go to: "Your questions are pressing me " " your questions feel a little hurtful right now, I'm feeling scared in this space. " " I don't need to prove anything to you. " " are you saying I don't know my identity ?"

[@LudmilaT.]

I am not a ciswoman. I am a woman. I did not chestfeed. I breastfed. They want to control how they are referred to down to the pronoun yet they refuse to refer to us the way we want to be referred to.

[@NiaLaLa_V]

and what we want has been the way since forever.

[@chaebu9812]

@@NiaLaLa_Vhasn’t been forever been it’s been a few hundred years.

[@chaebu9812]

But**

[@shyrose720]

Exactly my point. You demand I call you "insert choice". But you refuse to not call me a CIS because my feelings don't matter, only yours.. They are insane.

[@denisesfancifulfunction]

THIS!!!

[@hayleymyron9381]

As a pregnant woman, it makes me sad to hear that man wanting to be the first trans woman to have an abortion. There are women out there who cannot get pregnant and this person wants to just get pregnant to abort a baby... very sad and delusional state of mind

[@emmahowells8334]

Indeed I agree it's messed up.

[@rebeccaspratling2865]

When you're pregnant and you become stressed those stress hormones can turn on/off your baby's genes for disease. If you're so gullible to take the bait of this sick troll in the video please continue the rest of your pregnancy away from the internet. Look into epigenetics so you can understand how important it is for you to avoid feeling negative emotions while you're pregnant. I pray your baby is born healthy and happy. 🙏💛 These disgusting trolls are not worth the stress especially since a trans identifying male can never get pregnant, uterus implanted or not.

[@FreefallSC]

A murderous monster that should be locked away. Clearly not fit for society.

[@Gitn2it]

It's all about themselves and their hatred of and need to destroy traditional and Christian values. The heathens are at the gate.

[@SibusisoHlophe-dp5lq]

It should be charged for something. If there's nothing then it should be killed by paying somebody who has nothing to assassinate it. Set a precedent.

[@barbatanas7679]

15 years ago we were like "dont put yourself in a box", now people say "lets have 10 billion boxes so everyone can be placed in on of their own" 😐😒

[@sunnyshieldmaiden420]

That's probably why they only have ONE "human" pronoun in Finland because about 90% of the time the context Says who you're talking about.. so they got like I/me, you, us/we, and then just one to refer to "that person"... problem solved

[@jennaeveliina313]

As someone who has struggled though multiple miscarriages, to listen how a biological man wants to have a uterus, only that they can "experience a abortion".. it truly leaves me speachless. I did eventually manage to carry full term and now i finally have a little baby boy, it just baffels me how disconnected these people are from reality. I truly hope that no doctor agrees to help him to complete this madness..

[@nazaninsoltanpour6254]

Congrats on your baby boy❤

[@cindylilies]

as someone who is pro choice, it sickened even me to my stomach. his expression was almost, feverishly excited? I don't believe that person is mentally stable.

[@Ushabwna]

Congrats for your little guy

[@margaretgallagher392]

Open all the mental hospitals again, someone who wants to experience an abortion should be locked up forever. Does the baby have no choice,

[@RickMakely]

They want to have a body part implanted so that they are able to legally murder a human

[@TryFir3]

If my doctor ever refers to me as “ciswoman”, chestfeeder, or pregnant person, I’m leaving. You’re in a field of Science!

[@clem2023]

I'm really glad those terms don't even exist in French ahaha

[@brooklynnhankins6699]

Coming from a woman who is a mother and is breastfeeding i could not agree with this statement more.

[@heavenlywells3818]

​@@clem2023your so lucky 🍀

[@callinlikeIseeitbs]

​@@brooklynnhankins6699🎉

[@awordindueseason]

@@maxc1366 Saying "ciswoman" to describe a biological female is neither exercising "University level" intelligence nor common sense. A biological female is merely a WOMAN. Only something outside of normalcy requires a qualifier to identify it. I have a master's level education and am a former preschooler teacher. I never met a 3 or 4 year old who didn't immediately recognize the difference between girls and boys and identified each properly without adding a biological qualifier. If my doctor cannot describe me using the common sense of an average preschooler, while presenting as a highly educated professional in a field specializing in biology, then yes, I will be finding a more reliable doctor.

[@mbanerjee5889]

I'm pro choice but to think someone wants actively get pregnant just to have an abortion is sickening. That is so disrespectful to every woman who faced fertility issues.

[@Gaukilicious]

THIS. I am pro choice too but people who abort for fun are absoloutly disgusting.

[@bluehydrangea5506]

Pro choice as well and that legit sounds like a mental illness. Absolutley sickening.

[@goochjuice3250]

Agreed!

[@ruthhorowitz7625]

And to every woman who had to make the incredibly difficult decision to have am abortion.

[@stephaniemiddleton3740]

It’s disgusting to want to create a life, just to destroy it. I cannot morally condone a uterus transplant into a man. Humans are getting far too comfortable playing god/ creator.

[@user-hv4dg9wn6e]

I could not agree more with this video. I am a 17 year old girl who has personally struggled quite a bit with this subject and it felt so good to hear someone say that you can dress masculine while still accepting the fact that you are a woman. I think it's so great that there is someone out there who is sending out messages like this❤.

[@Notmyname979]

proof that gender is not a social construct.

[@mooksschmooks]

"the most patriarchal thing i can think of is a man thinking that they can breastfeed, that they can get pregnant, that they can menstruate, that they can compete in female sports simply by saying that they are a woman" I KISS YOUR VIRTUAL FACE AMALA! you said it so perfectly!

[@randomtanjnt9441]

Who'd have thought that in 2023, the world would decide that men make as good as or even better women than women 🤡

[@TheRuddster95]

Wish I could kiss her actual face but a guy can dream 😂

[@DojoofGain]

Men who breastfeed are sick perverts they should be locked in a psych ward

[@dj4vasconcelos]

Thats a fact but what's also a fact is that men are the ones mostly oposing this bullshit.

[@YourFoodIsBland]

​@@TheRuddster95lol I am a female but she's so pretty. Her face looks sculpted. Plus her side profile 🤌🏻

[@solarche]

The term chestfeeding or pregnant person makes me feel dehumanize as a woman. Women came so far to get the basic respect in society just to be dehumanized again by this new ideology :)

[@KayDelli]

If someone ever calls me a birth giver, I might turn feral. Or reply “blessed be the fruit” [Handmaids tale]

[@SomeonesGhost]

I agree! Besides, historically breast has been used for both men and women (interchangeably with chest for men). It's relatively new that breast has solely been used for women. (Yes, the usage was different- but the point is the same. Women= breast/breasts/bousum, Men= Chest/Breast)

[@johnmadsen37]

Lol. Feminism is as much of a joke as this. And feminism is the reason why this exists.

[@RynMayhem]

Do you need everything to center around your boobs to not feel " dehumanized"?

[@icegobrr527]

@@RynMayhemdon’t act dense.

[@lesleelamp3970]

It's like high school,why does everyone have to have a label? I don't want to be called a cis woman, I am a woman hear me roar.

[@LiamColeman-Halla-yq2jl]

Because it's classification of subgroups of the human species.

[@dustinmartin2369]

Because clearly these people never had to grow up

[@SibusisoHlophe-dp5lq]

@@LiamColeman-Halla-yq2jl new subgroups

[@m_d1905]

​@@LiamColeman-Halla-yq2jl It's a classification coined by John Money who was and his views still are 100% wrong. His gender theory nonsense caused his initial subjects to unalive themselves. It's a catagorisation based on complete lies. Sorry I'm a woman end of. You don't use woman for me you're straight phobic and a bigoted bully.

[@myplaylist7007]

i agree with you i am not a cis man.

[@winters3772]

When did “trans” stop being about transitioning into another sex? How can you call yourself trans if you aren’t transitioning?

[@ali-jn1gq]

you can be trans if you simply say you are these days

[@Notmyname979]

yup & when you say that they say you're gatekeeping the term. Well yeah, words have criteria that differentiate them from other words, that's how language works.

[@paulsmith5725]

I have asked this very question and have been told it is all about how you “feel” inside and that’s good enough. Hogwash

[@beyond-samsara]

Because they are lunatics who hijack even their own words now

[@scrapbabys]

LITERALLY

[@Sleuthette]

How dare this teacher make threats to other students. Can they please not use children to boost their own self-esteem? You are there for the students not vice versa.

[@Reddy2Sleep]

Oh but if Religion by the teacher was brought up all heck would break loosen. Yet the Educational system is catering to them.

[@Sleuthette]

We took our youngest out of pre-school, and host a French Au Pair now. It really is insane out there. @@Reddy2Sleep

[@fordshojoe8080]

​@@Reddy2Sleepyea God forbid someone be religious even in the slightest. They would be ostracized to the ends of the earth saying they are pushing it and brainwashing kids. I'm sorry but talking about that is way worse than any religion you can get out of that you can't get out of making a mistake and wanting to be on puberty blockers. One has physical ramifications one doesn't.

[@themadpandahatterress1751]

​@@Reddy2Sleepreligion is meant to be the parental guide for those who basically don't have parents

[@JohnDoe-xm1ir]

These activist teachers are really just there to gain sympathy, acceptance and validation from minors who haven't even formed their own opinions about the world yet. Not to mention they have 0 power over their teacher and essentially cannot talk back. It's seriously predatory.

[@m.danonbains3423]

I absolutely hate, loath, despise being called a cis-anything! I am a Human, Female, Woman, the Opposite Sex of a Man.

[@faridwiser5441]

Same here girl! It's truly ridiculous what society has come to.🤦‍♀️

[@nexxusty]

So you let them win by having emotions about it? Why?

[@tommievanderdrift841]

It's just to normalise trans identity, because they don't want to call us "normal'. Except "cis" people are literally the definition of what is normal.

[@butterflyace91]

I was gonna say the same thing I hate it and since they decided to be so disrespectful I have become a lot less supportive of the illness they are supporting

[@TrippieHippie33]

Agreed. I’m not CIS anything. The MAN who came up with that…believes that peeeeedddddoooo is a sexuality so I will NEVER GO BY CIS just for that reason alone! And it makes no sense

[@Evilfairy188]

As a woman who breastfed two babies. No. I'm not using "chestfeeding". Breastfeeding is so hard. It's tiring. It *hurts*. It's from our flesh- our *breasts*. Not the whole damn chest.

[@Ad_Inferno]

I'm in early pregnancy (11 weeks) and can say that my first pregnancy symptom was changes in my breasts. I assume this isn't an uncommon experience, and so I can't imagine being so disconnected from the experience of those bodily changes that they're just like, nope, chest feeding, even though my breasts have undergone this change like I've never experienced before. I find it really sad that someone would let their combination of ideology and mental illness interfere with fully experiencing one of the most amazing things the female body can do. And the gender-neutral language just prevents people from having to confront the reality that they've just done the single most feminine thing they will ever do.

[@missemotional8710]

At least you provided your kids with necessary nutritents during their young age. Tbh I think its absolutely heartwarming for a mother to endure pain during birth and breastfeeding just for her babies to get everything they need. Dont get me wrong, I am not saying that being is pain is heartwarming, rather the self sacrifice from the mother is.

[@primmoore6232]

@@Ad_Inferno- welcome to the ranks of mothers. One of the most obvious symptoms of pregnancy is needing a bigger bra! A girl I'd known from childhood had always been a stick of a child. Once the hormones of being pregnant hit her, she joked that from the side, she looked like the letter *P!* La Leche League was a big help for me.

[@moralityisnotsubjective5]

I'm very concerned about what they might be passing on to the poor babies by trying to artificially feed them in such a way. Who knows what chemicals are being passed through their bodies to a fragile newborn life.

[@bornstndnupntalknbak]

@@moralityisnotsubjective5yes!

[@azabujuban-hito8085]

As a European who lives in Asia ( Singapore, Shanghai and now Tokyo ) I'm just glad that none of this gender insanity happen in Asian countries. And probably, hopefully, never will be!

[@HUX_international]

You lucky lucky duck.

[@WildArtistsl]

Careful ypu could jinx it

[@uranus3950]

it does happen in asia lmaoo 💀

[@Someoneelse1994]

Ma’am. What are you talking about? Ever heard of Thai lady boys? The third gender in India? It’s very common in Asia, more so than the rest of the world. Look around you.

[@azabujuban-hito8085]

​@@Someoneelse1994 huh? did they do all those stupid things those cringey, idiotic tiktokers did? NOPE .

[@JG-il3gp]

The whole chest feeding nonsense really bothers me because it’s dangerous. Both men and women have breast tissue and can both get breast cancer. By claiming that breast is not “inclusive” it’s further stigmatizing or gives the wrong impression that both sexes don’t need watch for breast cancer risk.

[@erato_90]

that's actually a really good point

[@wild62meg47]

good point

[@kaoryakasaka6835]

Yeah, it's crazy! "Breast" is literally a biological term. Biology is not supposed to be "inclusive" of anyone's personal feelings.

[@stevenwallacebaker9169]

Male breast tissue is simply made up of fatty and fibrous tissue,its completely and utterly different from female breast tissue,rather like a childs toy car is very very different from the actual car sitting out on your drive,male breast tissue can sadly develop cancer but its rather unlike female breast cancers in its cause and treatments,last year in the US 240,000 women got diagnosed with breast cancer and 2,100 men,or 42,000 women died of breast cancer and 500 men,male breast cancer is a rare cancer but you are correct men should still be aware of the small risk and thats why we all need to learn the actual "science" of our bodies and not dangerous ideologies masquerading as science

[@VictoryHardy]

Plus if a biological man starts lactating, I don’t think it’s safe to drink that “milk “

[@cassiellis9365]

As a pregnant woman, I prefer to be called exactly that. If my obgyn called me a pregnant person, I would immediately request someone different

[@Mandy87Marie]

I’m sure you could ask the obgyn to refer to you as a pregnant woman if you wish. If they still refuse to abide by your wishes, then see someone else.

[@widexawake_]

Way to miss the point, MANdy

[@Mandy87Marie]

@@widexawake_ very mature /s

[@widexawake_]

@@Mandy87Marie Again, you've missed the point and are focusing on the wrong part of the statement. I wouldn't be calling out the immaturity in others if I were you 🖖

[@CJ-fs9gt]

Could be worse, my obgyn file had a big red stripe/sticker on it that proclaimed I was an Elderly Pregnant Mother 😂 The 1st nurse at the hospital, thought she had the wrong room/wrong mother-patient for almost 20minutes while my baby was crowning 😜 I was 48yrs old, it was funny. I'd laugh at my doctor if he ever used gender neutral terms in my visits, if he apologized and never did it again I'd stay with him. Otherwise.. good-bye we aren't talking about biological delusions here.

[@ytrando12312]

This topic of “gender is literally anything you want it to be” is so interesting to me….because it’s not. That is called a personality, you can be and have ANY kind of personality you want. And that can include not feeling like wearing dresses, or liking colors or whatever their argument is. They are literally confusing the terms “gender” and “personality”, which is why when people make fun of them, the usual talking point is they make their gender identity their whole personality. Because they use the terms interchangeably when that is just not the case.

[@dustinmartin2369]

Personality traits are gendered or associated with a sex. These people are taking that association and using it as a determinant for their gender. They are literally doing it backwards

[@stormstar2546]

You’ve explained it perfectly! When I’m looking at artworks on Pinterest, and someone OC drawing has a cool personality or outfit, there’d be people in the comments saying “I want this gender! This image has so much gender”. Etc.

[@dannydarkense5500]

That is a really good point. I'd not thought of it that way before. Thank you.

[@stobbi38]

I’d like to hear from the creator of the first clip: if that is the definition of gender, then how is one trans?

[@Snvilkitty]

My friend group at school is really, REALLY liberal. The stereotypical radical type of liberal. I'm honestly really scared to say my mind around them, because i've seen them go off this poor guy like a pack of rabid dogs after he said "I don't support the lgbtq community." It's why I like these kind of videos, because I feel like I can actually say what I want.

[@Abolitionist_Maranda]

You should tell your parents about this, and when it comes down to it you should speak the truth and defend it. If you get bullied make sure your parents will have your back if it gets bad. ❤

[@entropy5590]

literally same here. I've always been scared to voice my real opinions around most of my friends, because most of them are really liberal. Every time I'm around them, the conversations always circle back to race and gender related things. I think everyone is equal, and I support gay and legitimately trans people who have dysphoria to live their lives, but apparently that's not enough. I don't support neopronouns, being "non-binary", minors transitioning, biological men in women's sports, etc etc. But if they knew that, they'd freak out at me. They always complain about America and how oppressive it is, but I think that the trend of hating America is super dumb and that they don't realize how good they have it living here. But I have to keep that to myself bc the backlash just isn't worth it.

[@Hippie_Chick_11]

​@entropy5590 Bless you for just being You 💗 I'm glad you took advantage of the opportunity to express your opinions! Stay real

[@CapucineAbadie]

This really sucks, but at the same time, if you're experiencing this you're definitely not the only one! There are loads of people in the same situation who just don't dare to say anything. Hang in there, friend!

[@PabloCounago9]

You always have the right to self-expression. I think a good indication of the people you should surround yourself with are those that don't shout down your opinion and allow you to be you, express yourself and your opinion and allow reasoned, calm, measured debate, even if the topics discussed are emotive. Those kind of people who can do that are reasonable. That quality is so valuable!

[@Richiko06]

It’s sick that that trans woman just wants to get pregnant 🤰🏼 to have an abortion just to be “the first” 🤬 does that poor child’s life not matter??!!

[@Jayalen]

All the drugs they took are probably overtaking their head

[@acemarvel1564]

Its not about being "the first" Its about power

[@Reddy2Sleep]

They don’t care. They only care about themselves they think it’s all fun and games. I just pray for that one day there eyes are opened before it’s to late for them

[@xXDarkflowerXx]

That trans woman wants to basically commit murder.

[@pandora9814]

Let's be real its never going to happen. That THING is not a woman. Putting a donor uterus won't make it magically able to conceive since the donated uterus will probably be rejected by its body before it can count to 10. All that it will achieve by the whole exercise is turning into Frankensteins monster

[@fern05]

That man who wants to get pregnant just to abort a baby should go to jail if he ever does that. That is premeditated murder. He is a psychopath. I cannot believe that. It breaks my heart.

[@TedEhioghae]

Women do abortions all the time. What's the difference? They have sex knowing they may get pregnant, then when they do, they abort the baby, yet it's acceptable? Seriously?

[@maudefindlay3949]

Do you hear yourself? How would a man void of all femal reproductive organs ever accomplish this 😂

[@jorma8785]

I wouldn’t say it’s premeditated murder that’s a bit reached, but definetly sick and twisted

[@hoodoobymocha]

Abortion is not murder. But also, the technology that actually exists for genital reassignment surgeries is not even close to looking like, smelling like, tasting like or feeling like a biological cis female vagina. The procedures currently in existence are still so dangerous and experimental, the absolute best case scenario end result is having an open wound that has to be maintained with dilating every day forever using a stainless surgical steel d!7d⁰-like object and feeling zero nerve endings. Worst case scenario is having ßh🤫t come out of BOTH holes below the waist, the 🍑 and the 🦁, or a life of neverending excruciating chronic pain on the pelvic floor. No biological male is going to having an abortion anytime in this century or even this millennium, regardless of the fact that abortion is not murder.

[@lanayashina]

100%

[@aleena840]

we live in a world where someone publicly states their wanting to get pregnant just to have an abortion so that they can say they were the first man to do it 😬

[@annabellee8459]

It just reminds me of that South Park episode where Mr. Garrison gets a sex change just so he can get pregnant and get an abortion. Of course, he can't though 'cause he's still a man even if he did transition to a "woman".

[@Heyjennydee]

@@annabellee8459 lmao yessss! Mr garrison was always my lowkey fave character 😂 love southpark, theyre always on point w the craziness that’s about to occur in real life

[@andresbernal9813]

And in a world where hw get´s praised for it.🤮

[@GeorgieB1965]

Welp, they can meet up with the woman who actually intentionally blinded herself because she felt, in her mind, that she was destined to be blind, so she sped the process along.

[@ankavoskuilen1725]

It is very masculine to be competitive. Does he know that?

[@raizel-cadis]

09:48 Purposefully getting pregnant with the intention of aborting the baby is DISGUSTING

[@Theblondebass1]

My ultrasound appointment they called my a pregnant person and I was so upset because I felt generic instead of celebrated because my body is doing this incredible thing

[@ladycaticorn2950]

You should twist the gender ideology back on them. Say, "Excuse me, I identify as a woman and use she/her pronouns. I would like to be called a pregnant woman and not a pregnant person. Thanks for respecting my identity." If they think it's okay to speak in gender-neutral terms or use preferred pronouns, then they should also accommodate your gender identity and preferences.

[@abigailsanderson5943]

Watching commercials where doctors say chest feeding pisses me off

[@BonnieBlue1861]

I’ll never go to an ob/gyn that uses terms like that.

[@phurskool]

I am sorry that happened. I would request another doctor, one that isn't delusional.

[@ItZxNoTxMe]

I would never go back there

[@Scorviusanimations744]

At my school in the surveys they started putting mandatory pronoun boxes so this is what I answer in them: I am an ambulance. I go by wee/woo. If you ask me this again, I will answer this way. If you actually call me this, I will find it hilarious. Edit- someone liked the comment and I came back a month later and reread the replies, *PLEASE keep liking this so I come back to this, the reply section. HILARIOUS*

[@acemarvel1564]

I am a ceratosaurs My home is " the jurrasic period" And i eat a steady diet of fish small lizards and sometimes stego steaks

[@Scorviusanimations744]

@@acemarvel1564lmao

[@acemarvel1564]

@@Scorviusanimations744 My pronouns are AAAAAH/ LOOKOUT DINOSAUR

[@kosherjew4223]

HAHAHAHAHA!!!! I LOVE THAT!!!! HAHAHA! BRILLIANT!

[@acemarvel1564]

@@kosherjew4223 Do you identify as a hyena?

[@yoname1887]

You have patience Girl, cuz most of us are sooo over this. I give you props for calmly explaining facts to these people.

[@SibusisoHlophe-dp5lq]

You're right. If it was me I wouldn't even bother. This is really frustrating. It's too much man. It's unbelievable. Chest feeding 😲

[@thenonexistinghero]

When you earn your bread with it, you'd be patient too.

[@pjfan6310]

Chestfeeding and these doctors providing the chemicals to MEN so they can breastfeed need to be sent to a psychiatric unit and the key thrown away. Our world truly is turning into a psychotic dumpster fire.

[@chazzitz-wh4ly]

Even if men could breastfeed, they’d never be able to produce what women produce to properly nourish or care for the child. Doctors supporting this are fucking dumb and just want the check.

[@Konker606]

My wife was saying to me that because she was a tomboy during her school years, (skateboarding, wearing flannel and having guy friends,) if she were to be born during these dark times she would have been wrongfully manipulated, and bullied, and harangued, into believing she is a trans man because of these traits. Damn and she's also bisexual. Yeah she wouldn't of stood a chance. Count your blessings I guess

[@cordoesart]

Exactly my story and more than 10 years later I am SOOO happy that I am a woman and never had anyone back then telling me that I probably was trans or whatever because I’m actually not and as a 12 year old I wouldn’t hv understood anything anyways and just accepted that I’m probably trans. But I never was, am just a lil bit of a tomboy that really is proud of being a woman.

[@Jaykayelemen]

I knew a lass at school who was the very definition of a tomboy. And honestly I admired her so much for how she acted in such a non-feministic way whilst still being a girl (cos at that age we weren't women). Ultimately Im all for choice and what makes you happy as it's your life, but I can't help but hope that she didn't change genders and remained happy as a women who just had "masculine" lifestyle choices. It's kind of sad now that people feel the need to be a certain gender to be able to act a certain way, gender shouldn't define you (I'm not talking about creeps who want weird stuff like the ability to breastfeed). I miss the times when a tomboy was something to be mischievously proud of.

[@whatismyadjectiveiconfused]

I am straight woman and was like your wife back when I was teenager. I loathe someone would call me trans man because I like boyish things. Glad I was born in 90's

[@samanthawhatshername2939]

Isn't it crazy that you don't hear the term tomboy anymore? It's outrageous.

[@cs4887]

I said the same to my husband!! 😬😬

[@ajv2670]

when I was a kid probably around 7, I told my mom that "when I grow up I will become a boy." almost 2 decades later, here I am. A grown woman who enjoys both my masculine and feminine side. My mother let me be and did not dictate anything as to who or what I am. Godbless my mother

[@gilgameshofuruk4060]

I recentl read a book calked "Weird things people say in bookshoos". One tale is about the mother of a 4 year old girl who wanted career books to inspire the child to be a doctor or lawyer. When the mother was out of earshot, the assustant asked tge chikd what she wanted to be when she grew up. The child replied "A bumblebee". I daren't think how one of these modern parents would respond to that.

[@YourFoodIsBland]

​@@gilgameshofuruk4060it is funny and sad at the same time.

[@acemarvel1564]

Can anyone else tell me if they ever been called "cis" Cuz i cannot be the only one who knows its a dehumanizing slur

[@leonalchemist]

definitely, we all know this here

[@acemarvel1564]

@@leonalchemist Thank you

[@yoname1887]

Yes it really is. Ever since the first time I heard it I think of a disgusting cyst. I know it's not the same word but it's stuck in my head.

[@GardenCity101]

It insulting

[@acemarvel1564]

@@yoname1887 Actually that makes sense coming from these Stego brained bums

[@juliek966]

It hurts me as a WOMAN to say chestfeeding, or call me a cis woman, or to be referred to as a pregnant person.

[@maudefindlay3949]

😂 what?

[@maudefindlay3949]

Ignore the fools then.

[@chazzitz-wh4ly]

You don’t feel like being invalidated and replaced? That’s some transphobia type behavior. /s

[@jjmack9581]

So your breasts define you as a woman? Thats tragic.

[@Kautschkartoffel-bw8oi]

Why is pregnant person degrading? Are you as a woman not a person? I think person is the least dehumanizing thing one can call a person

[@Jagged-Dust-Jacket]

God I love Amala. She’s so classy and honestly saved me during these crazy times. I was 12/13 when the pandemic started and on TikTok constantly because there was nothing else to do. I slowly found myself being more and more radical in political beliefs, yes at 13. Whenever my parents expressed concern or an alternate opinion I’d lash out and be so angry. Then early last year, I found pages like Amala’s. She helped me see logic. I’m now turning seventeen in December and can say I’m a lot more open minded now. So thanks Amala! 🎉

[@Scorviusanimations744]

I’m so glad that you were able to have an okay journey though life! 😁 Also, don’t we all love her? 😊

[@acemarvel1564]

We need more stories like this

[@_aoe]

I’m also really happy I got out of the brainwashing spiral of TikTok. I was only 14 during covid when I was defending someone for using they/them pronouns with my freshly dyed pink hair that I just had cut short from being very long. Glad to be back, I don’t regret it because now I know what I don’t want to be 💪💪

[@suzycanfly]

Im so happy for all you guys! Im so happy her message is reaching the young and helping you guys critically think thru the beliefs you simply inherited thru peers and people online. I was the type of person who was easily swayed and sort of "manipulated" with by people's emotional opinions. I was young, i was niave. I cared alot about not hurting other peoples feelings. Im glad i found Amalas channel in helping me think about these things in a more concrete and realistic manner. People try to redefine reality. But reality is always there staring at you in the face. It can be uncomfortable to sit with , but Amala makes it easier and more understandable for us (digestable), which i really appreciate her for that. ❤

[@wig.snatcher]

this comment made me realise that pandemic was not a year ago

[@deebee8418]

I took myself and my daughters off of the organ donation list (after the NHS made it opt out) after I heard that this (womb donation alone) is a thing. I believe that you can specify certain organs that you want / don’t want to donate now, so I will reassess at least some of it, but I refuse to be a part of some sick pervert’s pregnancy fetish. The worst thing is, is that them having an abortion would probably be the lesser evil here… can you imagine the life that child would have if it survived this Frankenstein sh!t??

[@ShannyShan20]

The trans-person wanting to do 'get pregnant, to have the first trans abortion' is mentally gone, no doubt and evil. And altho I don't think it can ever happen for a man, because it takes more than just a uterus to carry and be pregnant with a baby. A woman's everything is calculated within that. What I think would be worse than a delusional person wanting to do that is..the doctor or doctors who would be willing to even attempt! That says more to me than anything on how far we've fallen! We already know most trans who act like a lot if them do, from what we see, are mentally off, but a doctor or doctors willing to try, is just evil and greedy and probably more self-serving than the trans requesting it!

[@dannydarkense5500]

If you're in the UK (I assume you are, because you mentioned the NHS) you can DEFINITELY choose which organs etc you wish to donate, and those you don't. You also don't have to explain your choices if you don't want to. I'm a guy, so I don't have to decide on where my womb goes (obviously, because I don't have one! LOL) but if I did have to? I'd be right there beside you, making sure that none of my 'donated parts' were going to be used in such a sick, twisted way.

[@damenwalker5260]

I've actually never been so happy to be British!

[@sarahtar]

That's sad. My son received a kidney transplant at 20 months and it's sad to think that misunderstandings like this make it harder for kids like him. When you agree to be an organ donor, that's great. Ultimately, the decision is that of your family, and/or your legal documents. When you are dying, or brain dead, the hospital will ask your family about EVERYTHING. Heart? Lungs? Skin? Eyes? They can say no to anything. Talk to your family about what you want.

[@elaineklein2385]

That sort of surgery is beyond our medical capabilities and will be for a long long time. If they do eventually figure it out, I guarantee it’ll be all over the news and still be extremely rare. No reason to impact your organ donation decisions

[@lukemitchell5471]

I’m so glad people like you exist. You’re never hateful, always respectful, and refuse to accept anybody’s nonsense. You can believe in human rights for all and acknowledge reality at the same time :)

[@Loakley1998]

Absolutely agree, Amala is incredible. We need more women like her. Never hateful or inflammatory.

[@Gaystradamus]

Those are polar opposites, humans are inherently irrational, illogical beings. there are no rights for humans if you adhere solely to "reality", humans have invented our own reality since the dawn of our creation and who are you or her to say what is nonsense or not?

[@PaigeIrene15]

Here’s why I’m mad: my mother wasn’t producing enough milk- but thought she was so when she took my brother for a check in she learned she was accidentally not feeding him enough and he was malnourished. She was horrified and felt terrible and switched to a bottle. A man breast feeding a child is impossible even with chemical cocktails because they don’t have milk ducts and can’t produce milk. So even if you’re producing A SUBSTANCE from your nipples, doesn’t mean it’s healthy for a child let alone enough to feed them!

[@penny4279]

I heard this somewhere recently “This is straight out an appropriation of womanhood” yet no one bats an eye

[@fabiakarma495]

absolutely

[@JohnnyScribe]

That teacher talking about getting "misgendered" really pissed me off. Not just because she was backhandedly threatening her students with volence (Though that too of course) But because I'm sick and tired of this idea that being "misgendered" is this OH MY GOD worse thing that can happen to a person. I'm a man. When I was 8 years old, I had long hair, hair that was about halfway down my back. I would often wear it in a ponytail and because I was only 8-9 years old, that meant that I looked like a girl. And the fact of the matter was I used to get mistaken for a girl fairly often by strangers. So I can speak from experience when I talk about being misgendered. And you know what? Not once did I feel the need to get pissy about it. Not once did I feel like someone was being "violent" towards me. Not once did I even get mad about it. I understood *even at the age of eight years old* that by having long hair *like a girl* that sometimes people would mistake me for one, and that it really wasnt that big of a deal. In fact I usually didnt even bother to correct people. So can we stop acting like people "misgendering" is such a fucking war crime??

[@adris4009]

I agree with you. I am a cis woman who has been called a boy countless of times and I didn't care at all. But if I were to say to that person who misgendered me "I'm a girl by the way" and they still countinued to call me a boy, that would've been wierd. Now take people who have body dysphoria into consideration. Trans man does not want to be called a woman, trans woman doesn't want to be called a man, etc. It's understandable that they get mad when a person keeps on misgendering them after being corrected.

[@shoutingfactory3694]

I have an 11 year old boy with long hair, occasionally he is mistaken for a girl and he laughs it off and doesn't give it a second thought.

[@awordindueseason]

@@adris4009 You miss the point. For many, labeling another outside of one's true biology is lying. We cannot compel others to lie to affirm how we feel. No one has the "right" to be affirmed by everyone they interact with. Every adult with emotional maturity understands this. If one lacks that maturity and common sense then its up to them to figure out how to acquire it; its not up to everyone else to appease them. There are those who are never going to like me or deal with me the way I desire or feel I deserve solely because I am a Christian and a black woman. Some have even outright called me names or mocked my deeply held beliefs. However, I do not navigate life in a constant state of offense, screaming into the faces of such people, having public or social media melt downs, become violent, or attempt to have them lose their livelihoods, reputations, or freedom simply because I've been offended. I am actually able to go on with my life. I know who I am so someone's ignorance or refusal to affirm me isn't tied to my identity. No one should be enabled in the delusional expectation that they can navigate life being affirmed or even liked by everyone else. It's something that's NEVER going to happen, even if you try to use every tactic available to have everyone who offends you publicly shamed, physically harmed, fired or even locked up. Others live by their personal morals, values and mindset, not ours. They have the right to disagree with us or not like our choices in life. They have the right to dislike us and not submit to our desires. When you don't respect that others also have rights to their thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and language while the government and culture begins to support that warped mindset, then you will inevitably morph into an emotionally volatile and entitled monster who routinely destroys lives out of offense. Just an aside - by calling yourself a "ciswoman", you are part of the problem not someone moving toward our society toward restored peace and sanity. A biological female is merely a woman. Only something outside of normalcy requires a qualifier.

[@adris4009]

@@awordindueseason I get where you're coming from, but its important to understand why misgendering can be a big deal for some people, especially trans people. It's not about compelling others to lie or forcing them to affirm something but more about being respectful and inclusive. It's not about forcing agreement or liking, but about creating a more accepting and caring society where individuals can live out their authentic selves without worrying about being discriminated or harmed. You mentioned that you, as a Christian and a black woman, have encountered people who do not agree with your beliefs or identity. I'm not denying anything, it's admiring how you can navigate through these situations. However, everyone's experience is unique and not everyone feels the same way and has this emotional resilience. What may be less significant for one person can be deeply distressing for another. To what you said about the use of the term "ciswoman" it is a term used to distinguish between individuals whose gender identity aligns with their sex assigned at birth (cisgender) and those whose gender identity differs from their sex assigned at birth (transgender). It is a way of acknowledging and understanding the experiences of both groups. Differentiating between "woman" and "ciswoman" is not problematic. It's about acknowledging the diversity of women as a group. The use of this term is intended to create clarity in conversations where gender takes a big part. Its not used in conversations where gender is irrelevant. The goal is to create a society where people of all gender identities can coexist peacefully and with respect for each other's experiences and identities.

[@tink7092]

This ❤ because my son has hair to his mid-back and gets this all the time. It makes him laugh, it's decidedly not a crime. Besides when you're calling yourself something incongruent with your appearance you're gonna have to let people know

[@alyross3081]

How can someone resent stereotypes while “feeling like a man or woman”?

[@Cardinal_claw]

Or saying a kid playing with toys or wearing clothes means they're trans lol

[@marylacken4016]

So, how does A WOMAN feel? I'm a woman, do I feel exactly the same as my mom, my sister, my friend, any other woman?

[@softangelwife6433]

Fr..

[@ieetrgun2620]

i’m so sick of this. i was trying to read up on autism and hormonal disorders. all the recent studies say “menstrator” like that isn’t even a word. apparently using the word “woman” and saying it means an adult human female is “reducing women to their biology” but calling me a menstrator or birth giver or chestfeeder isn’t!!!???

[@BakerLishw-2v]

I am a women a mother who grew a human female. I breast fed and earned my stretch marks and cellulite. I had a radical hysterectomy but I am still a woman 100%. How dare these individuals try to mansplain being a woman when they don’t have a clue.

[@gargoyled_drake]

I am a transwoman a parent who raised 3 wonderful human beings. And on a daily basis i have cis women mansplaining what it is to be a transwoman to me. So i fully understand your frustration.

[@shifukoala5543]

​@@gargoyled_drakeborn men doesn't get rid of their mindset easily, men feel entitled for people to listen to them, and to focus on them. As a person who became a woman, experienced being a woman in less time than us, you cannot possibly expect us to bow to you and let you do what you want

[@imthecoolest50]

@@gargoyled_drake”mansplaining what it is to be a transwoman”. What you are is a transwoman, but what you’re doing is trying to mimic women. Those women are born and raised as women, they definitely do know what they’re talking about when it comes to being a woman. But you, a transwoman, would never know or come to be a woman, that is why you are a transwoman. You can’t remove the trans part of yourself, that’s life. And you can’t evade getting “mansplained” about what it’s like to be a woman because the whole point of transgenderism is to mimic the sex, physiology and social roles that you weren’t born with. If you want to mimic successfully, you’re gonna need to learn from women. Women is your goal.

[@manderly109]

@@gargoyled_drake if anyone is mansplaining, it’s the man. Not the woman 😂

[@BakerLishw-2v]

@@gargoyled_drake we are on the same page. That’s wonderful that your children grew up right. Nice job lots of people screw up their kids and I know it’s hard. God Bless.

[@nunubrkc]

When I was little, I had unlimited excess to social media.(I'm 26) My parents were working hard and they just handed me electronics without supervision and thought I'll be fine. I first thought I was a lesbian for a few years. Because I was watching bunch of gay youtubers and coming out videos and my favorite characters in shows were gay. It was different and cool in my 11-12 year mind. Then I thought I was transgender for the same reasons. Then I grew up a bit more and I thought there is no way I'm monogamous I'm polygamous. And I wasn't the only one going through this. Anyone who had unsupervised social media in my friend group was trying to one up each other when it came to being different and oppressed. The thing is, I have changed and grew up as a person and came to terms with myself being just another straight women. But some of my friends got stuck. See one friend I had really was a gay person. And through support and guidance he is now living as himself. A feminine gay dude. But my other friend just got more and more and more confused. She just couldn't fit herself anywhere and kept trying to be THE different one in the room, THE MOST oppressed persen in the room. And she is unhappy, alone and more importantly still very confused as a 26 year old. What I'm trying to say is children needs guidance and love but more importantly responsible parents who knows what they're dealing with when it comes to content their children consume because it's so easy to influence and riun childrens minds.

[@awordindueseason]

You've nailed the root of the problem. It's the unrestrained exposure to every sort of perversion, delusion, falsehood, and alternate lifestyle through media that has destroyed this younger generation.

[@mastersnet18]

⁠exactly, I just don’t understand why, when we already knew it was dangerous to give kids unlimited TV time, that people would think giving unlimited internet access (which is 1,000,000X more dangerous) is ok?!!

[@hildalex]

This! You nailed it. Sending you the best of wishes from Sweden.

[@xoree-qg4oc]

Yup I came out of the confusion. when I wasn’t as social or serious about my life, I loved the queer tumblrs. The trans idea came to my mind before but eventually I grew up to reality. My reality is I like masculinity a lot, in men and women. So idk if I’m jus straight w girl crushes. I love my body too too much. Even my period, I worry every cycle hoping it comes not for pregnancy, but bc im supposed to have it 😅 but yeah the labelling is too much and I prefer logic, everyone fits into logic

[@gymdilettante8407]

You have a great amount of self awareness

[@ambercarter9746]

Can we call them delusional? Or is that frowned upon.

[@songcovers-27yearsago6]

Lol 💀

[@Gaukilicious]

It should be

[@colinsushiboy745]

They are just childish looking for attention. Being a regular male or female is boring to them

[@V8-vantage]

They are stunning and brave

[@azul6930]

They are delusional, idc if it is frowned upon. Stand up for what’s right.

[@YouLousyKids]

I know so many Gen-X tomboys who are SO glad they grew up when they did, and their not wanting anything to do with make-up and dresses didn't automatically make their parents start talking about surgically making them a man.

[@marissabulso6439]

“And when everyone is super…then no one is.” The Incredibles script writer put that in the mouth of their villain. It was his whole motivation.

[@stutteringcris468]

Amala seemed confident when at PragerU, now she seems even MORE confident amd i am here for it!

[@tennesseefever615]

I've noticed that too. Even just her voice sounds different. I'm loving it!

[@kevinskinner431]

Why is everyone saying “I’m here for it” these days? People use it for everything, it’s very annoying

[@deepakmenon6720]

​@@kevinskinner431sucks to be you then

[@tennesseefever615]

@kevinskinner431 it's just slang. Every generation has their own. You'll be ok lol

[@ahmedalmagrahi2239]

She’s at home that’s why

[@timelapsega]

I'd love to see a study on the prevalence of cluster B personality disorders amongst these people. I mean seriously, narcissistic, perpetual victimhood, emotionally manipulative, the list goes on.

[@dlk2188]

Exactly. These people are mentally ILL its really creepy and it’s so sad that nobody is seeing the signs and it will be too late by the time something goes horribly wrong. Too much has already gone horribly wrong.

[@Loakley1998]

There are people that have noticed this connection. I would like to see a reputable study too.

[@fabiakarma495]

if anybody finds a study, please leave it in this thread. i’m very interested too

[@cs4849]

I’d hazard a guess that the prevalence would be 100%. The personality pathology displayed by these folks is breath-taking.

[@sageisnotaplant99]

I’m a biological female who was pressured into medical transition as a teenager because I expressed discomfort with my body. I’m an adult now and pretty much wish the transition never happened. I’m in a weird place now where I appear very androgynous and don’t care how people refer to me as long as it’s respectful. If I had to choose a way to identify, I would just say I’m a female with gender dysphoria. However, I’ve pretty much decided that I don’t and can’t fit into any boxes and that’s okay. People will see me how they want to and that’s their prerogative. Trans ideology is dangerous and I’m a prime example of why. If I was given time to learn to accept myself the way I was born, I would be a lot happier with myself now. Though, I can’t change the past and I’m doing my best to accept myself the way I am currently

[@cmarie8846]

Praying for you, thanks for sharing your story, lovely lady! I’m sorry for what you went through 🥺

[@armymarshal13]

And people will never stop insisting there are zero kids being shoehorned into being trans

[@bettyg96]

You are doing to much good by sharing your story! These people need to know that pushing ‘transitioning’ onto people that have not yet found their true self or are still in a stage of their lives where they have yet to discover who they are and what they like, is just sick and it is ruining so many lives. It would be interesting to know if half of this would happen or even be a thing if the internet didn’t exist x

[@rumblzs]

I hope ur ok

[@Notmyname979]

thank you for speaking out & I'm sorry you went through that. Sadly there will be many more like you in the years to come once this whole gender ideology fad is over.

[@SuspiciousTumbleweed]

Id like to see a video that covers ACTUAL instances of racism or homophobia. That way people can see what it actually looks like rather than just point and misrepresent situations.

[@annem9195]

“The demand for racism vastly outstrips the supply”. Seems we can use this for transphobia too😉

[@SuspiciousTumbleweed]

@@annem9195 a b s o l u t e l y

[@next_door_rigil3270]

It just has to do with the side of the internet you are on. You would be surprised by the things you can find. Obviously not easy since monetization prevents any algorithm of suggesting it to you.

[@SuspiciousTumbleweed]

@@next_door_rigil3270 you're right about that, I guess I forgot about the whole censored words thing on YT. I guess it's hard to get a clear picture of what's going on if a platform cuts things out. And tbh a lot of what is curated for me by the algorithm makes my head spin as it is haha. I gotta balance it out with some cat videos or something.

[@next_door_rigil3270]

@@SuspiciousTumbleweed If you want an idea, I can see many places where news about some African country pushing death penalty to gay people is replied with Bring it to the US, we need it... Unfortunately, climate change denial is scary high as well. I follow lots of science channels and read through some papers every week but I fear for the average folk... Dont forget social media is only trying to buy your time. It wont sell you things to make you uncomfortable, it will sell you things that make you angry comfortably. By this I mean they wont show you things that make you feel attacked on your views because they will lose engagement. They will only recommend things that make you angry or frustrated because they confirm your view. You should try to actively look for uncomfortable content. Don't look for it on the left, it will only confirm biases, look for it on the side you agree with

[@justatech552]

I rejected my #1 med school choice (I won't single it out, so let's just call it Indiana University) because they released a statement saying sex isn't a dichotomy. I am now attending a much more apolitical school that places patients above appearances. Disregarding science, even on a miniscule scale, causes death and worse patient outcomes i.e. acetaminophen was discovered as a racemic mixture; one chiral center is a nonopoid analgesic, and the other does nothing besides cause birth defects and miscarriages.

[@nicimarie]

How does she know it doesn't hurt me when she calls me chest feeder! How are my emotions and mental state less important than those of a biological man's? Who is she to say one person's feelings are more valid than another's 😡

[@dustinmartin2369]

The progressive stack. Minority is more oppressed than a majority and therefore cannot be offended but are permitted to offend

[@charityhostetter8123]

Agreed! And Seriously, these guys say they are growing "breasts", Why do they insist on calling a woman nursing her child a "chest feeder" Milk comes out of a breast, not a chest! Again, they ignore biology and feelings when it suits them!

[@Viragomp]

Exactly what I was thinking. "Cis" women have no rights or considerations.

[@SibusisoHlophe-dp5lq]

What's a chest feeder. There's no such thing. Do not accept that nonsense. Who's supporting these people in the first place.

[@MommaOsoIrish67]

Right? How is it that how a man feels about being a woman has become more important than how a woman feels about being a woman?

[@Mia_FbaMyWay]

Those poor babies! How can anyone think it's ok to feed those babies chemicals from a fake boob just to make a grown man feel better!

[@aleena840]

hi Amala , before i found your channel a few months ago i was deep into the political left but was slowly starting to drift from it. your videos were like a splash of water to wake me up from that trance and realize that i didn’t actually agree with what i supported, so thank you and please continue what you do :)

[@jakeroper1096]

She’s easy to listen to!

[@lauradacunto]

"Its not hurting cis women to call it chest feeding".....I'm a WOMAN who BREASTFED my kids. Stop speaking on our behalf and invalidating us and our feelings 😠

[@americanajooma4457]

The upspeak used by so many of these young people is killing me. It is a sign of brain damage. It is almost as abysmal as the overuse of LIKE. Almost. Thank you, Amala, for your refreshingly beautiful style of elocution.

[@EricRedbear]

You should avoid Australia then as "upspeak" is an inherent part of their speech pattern!

[@Jen-eo1fh]

@@EricRedbearI’m Australian and there is a minority of people, usually younger generation who do use LIKE, not all Australians.

[@eddu4361]

Around 9:20. That guy doesn’t need a uterus transplant, he needs a psychiatrist.

[@Maria-hr9oo]

I was a real tomboy growing up, actually as long as I can remember I was drawn to “boy stuff”. Loved playing with dinosaurs, I was wearing a lot of blue clothes, hated pink and dresses and so on. I really wanted to be a boy and I used to dream about it a lot and sometimes actually wished I never existed as a girl. Now iam 30 years old, i’am still quite masculine in how I dress but i have accepted i’am a women and I can honestly say i’am very happy the way i’am ❤Thank god I found myself way before all this craziness, I would probably been one of them who now regretted something they did to their body otherwise 😢hopefully many of those who struggles today will grow out of it just as I did and learn to love themselves as they are❤

[@chefdeadpool8481]

Unfortunately they won't grow out of it... If you don't allow them to transition, not even socially, there's like a 99% chance that they grow out of it. However if you let them transition, even socially, there's a 99% chance that they don't grow out of it and they gain a 50% chance of self deletion...

[@taki7546]

Same, except I didn’t understand the concept of boys and girls back then. I just wanted to play with kids that had the same interests as me and that happened to be boys. When I told my mom that I must have that one dinosaur backpack for primary school, she gave me a weird look and asked „you sure?“ I didn’t understand why she asked that and in the end I was the only girl at our primary school with a boyish backpack. Years later and I‘m still a woman. Why would I need cringe labels to define my personality when I can just do whatever I want regardless of my gender

[@tavrel4628]

​@taki7546 so much agree!

[@brianallen3705]

“They tell me to accept them when they can’t even accept themselves how they were born.” I wish I could remember who I heard say this. And I may be writing it incorrectly.

[@AngiefromOZ]

Yeah, I saw that somewhere too, you've worded it much as I remember it, can't remember who said it either

[@riverspirit7]

Most everyone isn't afraid of their pronouns nor crazytalk. Most everyone is afraid of jailtime.

[@hardinmichael1981]

If our side refuses to defend ourselves on juries the same way that they defend themselves on juries without a single hesitation, then we deserve what we get.

[@Rocpacci]

If you devalue my identity as a woman you are harming me.

[@xienela]

They are devaluing the meaning of men and women so it fits them

[@arthurdutra1919]

Hi Amala! I'm impressed by how precise and bold, yet still empathetic, you are when discussing these topics. You approach them from a constructive perspective rather than attacking them. I completely agree with your viewpoint and believe that it's the best way to combat woke culture: using logic and empathy. Congrats on the channel!

[@curtbennett5321]

I think you nailed it when you said something like "the ultimate form of the patriarchy is a man claiming to be a woman" That may not be exactly word for word, but it's close.

[@rachelk4366]

The timing of this video could literlly not be better. Got done with gender class at my very libral school and then went on youtube and immediately saw this video. Just what I needed, right when I needed it so thank you!

[@hardinmichael1981]

Dafuq is a “gender class”? You should be recording everything. Make those teachers famous

[@brittanyberry4614]

I AM A WOMAN AND I BREASTFEED! THAT WILL NEVER CHANGE!!

[@StripesZB]

What a bleak outlook when you wish to become the first trans woman with a uterus, not because you want to have a child, but because you want to abort one. That's just gross.

[@cz1754]

Hey Amala! I’m an 18 year old female and I agree 100% with your end message. Men and women can have any number of traits and it only enforces stereotypes more to insist we’re something else because we don’t fit into these cleanly cut boxes. I myself really relate to this, as I used to think I was a number of things before I realised I’m just a woman who is somewhat masculine. However, I do believe that trans people exist; I mean this in the sense that some people are born with gender dysphoria, a mental disorder - in need of a better word - which causes an extreme sense of distress at the characteristics of one’s biological sex. Studies show that the only way to alleviate this in most cases is to socially and medically transition so you can live your life as the opposite sex. You’ll never BE the opposite sex, but you’ll live your life as though you were. It’s more of a medical identity than a political one. So even if gendered stereotypes didn’t exist, a trans man would still want to have their breasts removed, for example, not for the validation of others, but for themselves. For me, the issue is not these genuine trans people who likely just want to transition and move on with their lives. The issue is these extremists whose logic goes in circles, has no basis in science, and want language and society to be restructured around them. I’m curious to hear your thoughts on the difference between dysphoric trans people, and the non-dysphoric people you usually see on tik tok. The channel “The Offensive Tranny” does really good breakdowns of this, so it’d be cool if you could do a video if it interests you. Wishing you all the best!

[@alexjohnson3509]

I 100% agree with everything that you said! I love Marcus‘s channel, I also love Blaire white too. I am really curious to hear Amala’s opinions on the people above. She may have covered it already but i’m a bit new to the channel! So far I adore Amala‘s videos.

[@mezjean5966]

Isn't it mostly a fetish instead of it being a dysphoria disorder?

[@Ninjanimegamer]

Why does gender dysmorphia exist? You claim people are born with it, but I'll also add in people are raised to have an identity crisis. From parents not wanting to raise their kids to be acknowledge by male or female when society has those boundaries in place; to the added hormones in food, which messes around with our body's chemistry. These factors can also be attributed to body dysmorphia. Then, if things weren't bad enough, autism causes body dysmorphia as do other mental health issues. Please, be aware of the full spectrum of problems before jumping on the surgery band wagon. If the underlining issues aren't looked at, there's no way surgery should be the first solution. Many trans who have had the surgery are now regretting it, because their other problems weren't dealt with and now it's too late to switch back. When a child has a double mastectomy at 17, but at 25 realizes she was not really meant to live life as a man. Then what happens?

[@Ninjanimegamer]

​​@@Yanyanwizardhave you been tested for autism? Ados2 is the test that is accepted for autism. Trans people are 6 times more likely to be autistic. Why? Because with autism comes body dysmorphia, a confusion of self and how they fit into society. It's common knowledge that other factors are at play. Btw, only boys have been. Studied and it's hard for girls to get a proper diagnosis. Look into it, before you regret anything you can't change.

[@august_420_]

I am from switzerland and have been following the woke politics in the usa for about a year now. we here in switzerland are also feeling the influence that the usa has on us. But it is never as extreme as with you in america. amala, you can articulate so well and put things in just the right words. i really see you in politics! you are impressive, keep it up! love from switzerland

[@chazzitz-wh4ly]

It’s not strictly the US. Items the entire West that is going to be plagued with this garbage. It’s all by design.

[@chrisbaker7583]

If gender is anything you want it to be, what is the utility of gender? What’s the point of calling yourself a man, if being man has no specific definition or meaning? Generally we use labels to define and better understand something. If the label doesn’t describe or define the thing we are applying it to, then it has no purpose.

[@neredaarmstrong3920]

I was born in 1979, and things have changed so much in that time. There was never any question as to whether wanting to play with my barbies or joining the boys running around the street climbing trees and getting messy. Kids were kids. I think that any form of trying to name and box a child into something before they have the knowledge and experience to decide their path for themselves is wrong.

[@xXDarkflowerXx]

The transplant womb one was the most disturbing

[@Gaukilicious]

literally

[@acemarvel1564]

Like frankenstines monster all over again

[@dman7773]

Not to mention that it's merely a (self-professed) means to be the first trans woman to get an abortion! This person desires to become pregnant just to do that. How is that not an obviously mentally ill state of mind?

[@Gaukilicious]

@@dman7773 Exactly!

[@LiamColeman-Halla-yq2jl]

Stem cells can beade into a womb, so donors aren't necessary.

[@fractal_3]

This whole thing reminds me of a bad dream I had as a child, where everyone was stuffed onto an airplane like sardines with no seating ...everyone was the same skin tone, same hair cut, wore the same bland off-white cotton tunic, and spoke the same language. Completely homogenized so that no one was unique. Yet it was accepted because it meant no one was dominant. If we keep trying to demolish differences between the sexes, between the races, between religions... reducing everyone down to their most base form of humanity in order to not assert "privilege" or "binary" characteristics... this is what we're headed for, people. The complete destruction of everything that makes us unique... Done in the name of celebrating uniqueness.

[@ryantarpy1408]

This was the premise of the book “The Giver.” If you haven’t read it I highly recommend checking it out.

[@LiamColeman-Halla-yq2jl]

Homogeny is strength.

[@fractal_3]

@@ryantarpy1408 thank you, I will check it out!

[@glerp10000000000]

That appears to be the globalist plan.

[@thegrimharvest]

Now now, don't be a dinophobe Luigi! Everyone knows that War is Peace, Freedom is Slavery, Ignorance is Strength. 2 + 2 = 3 2 + 2 = 5 2 + 2 = Potato 2 + 2 = Math is a social construct tool of oppression We have always been at war with Eurasia.

[@Naomi-yq1sk]

One time I BRIEFLY thought that "we can be anything we want to be, i am infinite etc" bc i was trying to understand why ppl go trans. And it was such a sign because I was at a very depressive, negative stage of life that was not helpful to me, aside from the fact that I learned that we are. what. we. are. and we need to change our mindset over changing our entire identity and "gender". Never actually thought of being trans/lgb etc, but it quickly shows us whats needed to be done. Working on our mental health comes way before transitioning our bodies into unnatural states.

[@SquirtlePower809]

I actually cant handle any of this anymore. And you nailed it!! None of this means anything!! If these new terms and identities can be ANYTHING then they literally mean nothing!

[@chazzitz-wh4ly]

If anyone can be anything, then everything is nothing.

[@courtneycoleman5990]

I've recently had a baby and thank God no one ever used these stupid terms during my pregnancy, the usual terms "pregnant women" and "breastfeeding" were used as they've always been.

[@6re881]

I used to be annoyed by all the woke videos on the web but now I decided to switch completely my view on this matter and everytime I see a video on this subject I embrace my masculinity and be thankfull for not questioning it.

[@teelesynclair5902]

I laugh, I'm always dying to know what wild 💩 they're saying now. As they're narcissists who cannot refrain from spouting off their idiotic views on social media, they are an endless source of entertainment 😂

[@KittyKat8946]

It’s refreshing and re-assuring to see someone in your age group seeing reality as it truly is from such a grounded perspective. You give me hope for the future. Your powers of critical thinking are so rarely seen anymore. You think for yourself, are grounded in reality and speak it so articulately and eloquently. Please tell me there are more people your age than I realize. Thank you for your work. The world needs it and you.

[@Gillozz]

Respect for amala!!! What a brave woman keep on going girl.

[@user-fn8dh7ks4x]

I absolutely laughed at the beginning of this video because as a person working within “social work” as an advocate-many meetings have started exactly like that. The “stolen land” piece took me out. 😂🤣😂🤣😂 This is not a dramatization!

[@Ihatepeople7491]

This is so scary. I have a 2 year old son and I am fearful of what kind of world he will have to grow up in.

[@daisymickey9330]

As a mom "chest feeding" and "birthing person" and disgusting and very offensive and misogynistic

[@amygibson8216]

The man with the star glasses is a psychopath and yet some dr out there is validating him. I’m literally shocked.

[@jmarrocco]

Sigh. Just when I think there is no hope, that the whole world has gone permanently nuts, you restore my confidence that there are still rational people around who will speak out with logic and kindness both. Thank you.

[@lisabelle7553]

That creature who wants to get a uterus to get pregnant so they can abort it, needs to be locked up. 🤮 😡

[@CBz6033]

When that person referred to their beard as an accessory , shows us that this is just a game to them !!!!

[@jesusraves1]

Hello, I'm from Serbia, Europe, and I've been following this channel for a while now, as all these topics are quite foreign to me :D I hope that these examples are extremes, and that most people don't identify with them because I believe it's essential for everyone to have their place in society, and mixing our biological "roles" isn't good for either men or women. I don't want to become pregnant, and I feel a strong need to provide all the care to my wife and children, to let my wife be a mother who will have all my support in fulfilling her role as a mother, which will make me a very happy father and husband :D Playing with words won't bring happiness or a healthy attitude towards other people to anyone. If you see a pregnant "man" on the street, YOU KNOW IT'S A WOMAN... not a single word will ever change that.

[@FionaSelkie]

Unfortunately it's a social contagion and growing rapidly in the states with the help of mainstream media 😕 and the left. It's the lefts goal to destroy all that is good and natural in this world by saying it's bad. Hopefully the contagion doesn't spread to Serbia anytime soon. 20 Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter! Isaiah 5:20 KJV

[@morganederbe]

I am French… and I feel the same 😅. Those examples/issues are so so extremes and I am really wondering if those discussions or their depth are just specific to the US. It´s really interesting to see how extreme and triggering this topic is in the US 😅

[@saral3013]

I'm almost jealous of you- to live in a place where these are foreign concepts? I wish! Instead I have to fight back against this sort of ideology with my students and friends and try to teach them that God doesn't make mistakes when He creates people.

[@rael.5967]

What a refreshingly positive perspective on gender roles 😊

[@nina-ls4wc]

Hvala dragom bogu da ovo nismo doživjeli u našu kulturu. Da se sutra okrenem Tati i da mu kažem da sam mu sine ne čerka on bi se nasmijio.

[@HappyTobeHere89]

This reminds me of Peter Griffin trying to breastfeed Stewie. Straight up cruel and sick to do that to a child. Anyway...Their so called inclusive terms is excluding women as well as devaluing and excluding our own experiences. If anything can be anything then why are they trying so hard to transition with the gender they identify as let alone be recognized/associated and treated as said gender. Their xy chromosome is showing thinking they can be women and some are so delusional they've even said they think they can be a better woman.

[@LiamColeman-Halla-yq2jl]

XY can become XX just through chromosome cloning.

[@manderly109]

That guy is an absolute sicko and predator

[@kerryb751]

I've been identifying as a tall thin raven haired, 24 year old Greek woman. But everyone still recognizes me 😒

[@lovely_lielie]

I've been identifying as Batman for years now, but I still keep getting misgendered. Just because I'm a broke woman of colour, doesn't mean I can't identify as a rich white male fictional superhero.

[@kerryb751]

@@lovely_lielie I'll affirm you Batman 🙂🥰

[@deborahblanquie4998]

I agree with you completely. There have always been feminine men and masculine women, but they were just that. They didn’t say they were now a woman or a man. Our society has taken a wrong turn and needs to get back on course. I will never allow a man in a women’s rest room, gym locker room or other place with me!

[@hoodoobymocha]

With all due respect, I can assure you that you have shared a public restroom with trans women without even realizing it, because those of us who are actually diagnosed with gender dysphoria, and chemically castrate ourselves growing breast tissue from hormone replacement therapy rather than just cheap breast implants, getting excruciating electrolysis from heart to toe, we pass because we are able to assimilate into cisheteronormative society behaving like and dressing and speaking like cis women. The woke activists on social media are not actual medical transsexuals. They are autogynophiles which is completely separate from who we are and how we navigate society. I promise you, we're not merely 0.01% of the population, we don't stand upright to urinate, not even in the privacy of our own homes. We don't fetishize menstruation pregnancy abortion menopause etc, and we're actually grateful that we don't have to endure those additional hardships when we are already the victims of systemic genocide as defined by UN criteria. Also, there has never been and there never will be, a practical way to enforce gender based bathroom legislation, because plenty of cisgender women develop facial hair, and biologically intersex people physically exist on this earth. Born out the womb with genitalia and chromosomes that do not match the XX AFAB/XY AMAB binary system. Their biological existence is not a debate or question, and it's unconstitutional to deny any and/or all intersex people from using public restrooms. Bathroom laws are never going to actually happen. The sooner cis people accept that reality, the sooner they can be happy in life and develop a hobby.

[@hoodoobymocha]

*head to toe electrolysis, not "heart to toe" ,and by head I mean facial hair, not the scalp

[@MedalionDS9]

This is sheer insanity, and the fact we are allowing this to take over... is chaos

[@rileycallmeriley]

"ive had the absolute worst day of my life at achool today, but once i saw that youve posted, i finally smiled. your amazing amala!" -a little girl

[@TheRuddster95]

🥰

[@ameliastone6274]

Thank you for being a voice of reason in the midst of all the madness 🙏🏼

[@SpiritKitten]

It's like saying everyone is special. if everyone is special, then really no one is special. No one is different and unique

[@joygarrett8397]

I am an older gal; I was quite the tomboy growing up. I DID NOT want to be a boy, but I liked a lot of boyish things & sports (& I my day & age, there were hardly any women’s sports in middle & HS & what did exist were predominantly intramural only). I’m so glad I didn’t grow up now where folks would try & convince me I am a boy!! No no no!! I eventually matured, started liking looking like a girl etc . . But for my entire life I am still an outdoorsy, get my hands dirty in the yard, target practicing, rough & tumble kind of gal. For many years I was “one of the guys” . . The lone female in a group of guys! Just saying. I wouldn’t have had it any other way. They were my friends & protectors . . But I never wanted to be a guy . . .

[@taki7546]

Literally same

[@derikbradford3836]

If gender is literally anything you want it to be, then can we please go back to just 2 genders where a man is a man and a woman is a woman. Without people constantly telling me their sexual Orientation or what they identify as. Because that's what I want!

[@LiamColeman-Halla-yq2jl]

It's more complex, since gender is defined by chromosomes. You must change the chromosomes to change gender.

[@taki7546]

Nah, if you tell them what you (we) want, then they‘d start yelling tRanSphObE! again. As always when someone doesn’t agree with them

[@angelaharris53]

To me this gender nonsense just feels like a different way to make little Johnny conform to what we feel he should be. We used to force him to play football and do other "manly" things to make him act "manly"; now we chemically castrate him and them give him catastrophic plastic surgery so we can attempt to physically realize the little girl he always must have been inside. We aren't any kinder to the little tomboy Suzy. And it's really sad how sick society is becoming over this.

[@thegrimharvest]

That is the most laughably confusing part of all of this. On the one hand, we're told that both little Johnny and little Susie are entirely subjective, and by definition they have to essentially be reduced down to something like an aesthetic or an external cosmetic so they can switch places. Little Johhny and little Susie, to become each other, have to be reduced down to a "skin" that can be changed or replaced with literally anything. Except once little Johnny and little Susie have been convinced and conditioned to believe that they can completely switch places, suddenly Susie-who-was-Johnny and Johnny-who-was-Susie are supposed to be considered as if they actually are now by definition new Johnny and new Susie. And the other little Johnnies and Susies are then told that new John and new Susie are exactly the same as they are, if not even better, more moral, because they "chose" to be Johnny and Susie, the rest were just "birthed" that way by their "birthing unit and life partners". For the sake of translation of one to the other, they have to both entirely be subjective concepts, but once they complete the process, suddenly they are solid objective concepts that must be referred and treated as the solid objective concepts they just proved aren't solid objective concepts. That they themselves didn't believe were solid objective concepts, or else they wouldn't have undergone the transition of one to the other. But the rest of us "birthed" Johnnies and Susies are the ones who don't understand. We understand perfectly well, it's just we disagree, as a matter of principle, if not on the basis of factual definition. A = A B = B A cannot be B B cannot be A At most they can resemble each other to the point we don't notice, but they never actually become each other. By definition. And to be entirely honest, it's usually more often that the A wanting to be B is the more talked about and obvious problem, because A can be suffering from a sexual dysfunction, call itself B, and then demand special pleadings for itself to be granted access to B and exclusionary exclusive rights and privileges reserved to protect and ensure justice and equality for B.

[@gilgameshofuruk4060]

It's a radical reboot of gay conversion therapy. "Can't turn them straight? Pump them full of hormones and chop bits off them to make them acceptable some other way. Heck, they might even kill themselves if we mess them up enough." As a gay man who believes childhood is a precious time in a person's life, to be protected and nurtured, I find all this horrifying.

[@leviacronym6770]

Being called Cis and chest feeder, birthing person, and etc hurts women actually. Having bio men in bathrooms, locker rooms, and prison has HURT WOMEN IN VARIOUS WAYS physically, mentally, and emotionally! Not all trans people are criminals but some are, and some men use the trans thing to prey on women.