Body Language Analyst REACTS to Andrew Tate! Why Is he BANNED from Social Media?

[@AcuPunk]

Wow 😯 as both a woman who has given birth and a soldier who has gone to war (4 mos after giving birth), that first clip is laughable 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@TheBehavioralArts]

Legend! 🎖

[@AcuPunk]

@@TheBehavioralArts 💗🫡

[@TheSuzberry]

Maybe he was kicked in the head one time too many. Obviously there are no women in his life

[@shannonEGBOK]

Thank you for all you have sacrificed and have had to endure.

[@creepyrobsta5509]

@Nadja Profit No it's not laughable. Traditionally Men are supposed to provide and protect when Women are supposed to cook and clean. I think it glaringly obvious which tasks are easier and which are more difficult. Risk your life and earn millions of dollars over a lifetime (which is what Women are asking for nowadays) or prepare a meal and put clothes in the laundry. Yes it's laughable, but not how you meant it.

[@aerismahoney4850]

It's quite fascinating to me how people like this say "woman are so much more emotional than men" but my guy, anger and annoyance is ALSO an emotion.

[@rezzieggg]

Yes, very that!

[@asaolsson9649]

Also the fact that (at least in my area) some of the biggest police actions are around mens sports (football to be more exact). The police have to section of pathways for the opposing teams fans to make sure they don't attack each other or destroy property around the arena if their team loose. Some teams need to play with empty galleries when they play agents certain team because the fans have become so violent in the past. Not to mention the hate players who mess up get... to the point where they need police protection.. from their own teams fans... And women are supposed to be the only one who let our emotions get the better of us😂

[@christinelindberg-gilhus1590]

Yeah, gotta love the projection!

[@metaboomgurl]

I was coming here to say exactly this.

[@FilthyBitchGunClub]

Yes, anger and annoyance are emotions.

[@WynneL]

As the granddaughter of a man who stormed the beaches at Normandy, I don't know if he did so with tears streaming down his face. All I know is that I'd be just as proud of him whether he did or didn't release stress chemicals through his eyes. I'll tell you something else--he'd think a man who cheated on his lady was a weak-willed sad sack with no integrity or control over himself. My grandfather refused to even propose before he left for the war because he didn't think it would be fair to my grandmother. He wrote her letters as a "friend," but still stayed faithful out of his overpowering love for her. Devoted, he returned a hero, and married his high school sweetheart just like he'd dreamed of. Now *that* is a real man.

[@theKashConnoisseur]

Yep, that's a real man.

[@journeybeth4725]

Beautifully said 🤩

[@richardlynch5632]

I'm sure your grandfather is very proud of you😎👍❤🖖

[@Lililililili333]

@@SylvaHodracyrda a strong woman who acts with integrity, respect and compassion for others and herself.

[@theKashConnoisseur]

@@SylvaHodracyrda the same things Lili described for a strong woman are what OP described as a strong man. I think you might have missed that VERY important point.

[@LawLumber]

Did anyone else have a smile/smirk on their face when Spidey was getting triggered and had to take some deep breaths to calm himself back down??? No, just me??? Lol

[@TheBehavioralArts]

LOOOOLLLLLLLL YOU HAVE YOUR REVENGE!!!! 😂 😂 😂

[@vee_tinymoose]

Lol

[@LawLumber]

@@TheBehavioralArts oh, my friend, having worked with you both in front of the camera and behind the scenes, I know there was some good material left on the cutting room floor...and quite a few cursey words as well...

[@9babyblu]

@@LawLumber Rob and Spidey #CuttingRoomFloorSwitchChallenge haha. Thatd be a fun video collaboration! Rob picks Spideys edits on the floor and does an analysis on it and Spidey vice versa on Rob. Lol!

[@ShojoGirl900]

You mean Spidey pulled a Rob?! lol

[@denisetyree-montecino9809]

I have a quick comment about the smile of disagreement…as young girls we were taught to be pleasing and positive, soft and not abrasive. As grown women it can sometimes be difficult to overcome that early childhood training. It’s my opinion that the smile of disagreement is a mixture of disagreement, a bit of incredulous humor, a bit of disdain, and an attempt to keep silent rather than be impolitic or impolite in the face of clear aggression and stupidity. Thanks for the assessment, Spidey. I learn from every video you post.

[@bev9708]

Not to mention as a way of avoiding being target of his agression and belittling if they had shown open disagreement !! I know I sure as hell wouldn’t want to be a focus of it!!!

[@forrest1979]

I could relate to that smile of disagreement too. I tried it out in the mirror and it felt natural. When thinking 'wow this is some of the dumbest crap I've ever heard and this guy sure loves the sound of his own voice' kind of things. Also a bit of dark humor, if you don't laugh you'll cry kind of thing.

[@kristinehoya7396]

Yep. Well said. Somebody over there speaking, saying things I do not buy into but for the sake of not starting WW 3, I just keep my mouth shut and let them roll. Take the high road best you can.

[@abmrose]

Spot on.

[@MD-bl6gy]

Ditto!!! No need to engage stupidity and an intransigent bully.

[@elonever.2.071]

35 years ago I was like Tate. The only emotion I could connect with was anger. I remember going to a therapist and them asking me to name some emotions and I couldnt. I dont remember what my responses were but I remember being quite confused. I have done a 180 since then.

[@elonever.2.071]

@Lo Horrible parents. And a lot of hard work including hypnotherapy, reading and introspection.

[@k33k32]

I think our society is hard on men. Andrew Tate is accurate about the problem - he just has the totally wrong answer. A strong, flexible adult has access to his/her full range of emotions and knows how to deploy them appropriately. I'm sure there were many soldiers at D-day from every army who was in tears. It is an appropriate and useful way from some people to manage terror. I'm glad you've unlocked the power of your emotions. Best of luck to you.

[@elonever.2.071]

@@k33k32 I agree. If you address afronts and traumas instantly you can let them wash over your body and mind and they disappear. If you push them down, later you have to wrestle with them and re experience them, sort them out and let them and you move on. Andrew Tate is Andrew Tate. In his mind he is the caricature of a warlord...brutal decisive and uber alpha. He is going to attract the worst of women, what I call tigers, you can never let your guard down around them. And you see the political and civil problems that causes him. His ego craves that attention. I believe his attraction to men is he is the Rambo hero that everyone wants to know is on our side but doesn't want to be in his place. Most of his public appearances are photo shoots for him. Like the one where he is relaxing in an expensive house coat smoking what can be assumed to be an expensive cigar and having a pizza thrown down in front of him. That is his persona not his reality. And he got arrested after being geol ocated by the pizza box. Do you really want to live that drama filled lifestyle? I know I dont. When I was in my early twenties I was like him but on a much smaller scale. I was super fit from being a roofer, made a ton of money, always had at least a grand in my pocket while my friends were making $1.50 an hour at Micky D's'. I was inherently angry, that was my persona and I was a good bar pool player so I was constantly on the edge of excitement and trouble. For me that shit grew old. Pump and dumping one chick after another and not having someone I could connect with on a personal level. And I didnt learn any interpersonal communication skill living that lifestyle. I ended up marrying one of the pump and dumpers and had my life wrecked. Yeah Andrew is fun to watch and laugh with and at but I know I dont want to live like that anymore.

[@Portia620]

Andrew Tate’s probably gonna die of cancer some holding all that anger or anything else inside his body. We have too much research the show it’s unhealthy. I don’t know why Lynn would want to do that.??

[@switterbeet]

i still believe one day Andrew Tate will change too. I give everone a chance to be a better person regardless of what they'd done

[@tamiibarra3027]

This guy has no idea what he's talking about! My great uncle was one of those teenagers that stormed the beach of Normandy, in fact he was the first one to step on the beach. He told me that all of the soldiers were terrified! And many of them were so terrified they were crying, shaking and praying and saying "I love you. Goodbye Mama". Some were so scared and crying so hard that they were vomiting. My great Uncle said, "If you weren't already crying, you would be after hearing the prayers and Goodbyes of my fellow soldiers. I was so scared that I got on the boat and went to the very back of the boat. When the boat started moving, I realized I made a real dumb mistake, and I was actually in the very front of that damn boat. I was in the first boat to reach the beach and the first soldier to step onto the beach but it was not because I was brave, like some people said I was, it was because I was so scared that I really tried to be the last guy out of that boat but I was so green, I didn't know which end of the boat was the front." He survived to tell his family about it. He was a good man. He was a "real" man and he cried whenever he talked about that day and how he watched his best friend die right in front of him on the beach and all of the incredible kids and men that died on that beach and what a tremendous loss it was. My great uncle would have been very disgusted and offended by what this guy said about the teenagers that stormed Normandy beach and I know him, he would have said something like, "Who is this loud mouth? Where the hell does he get off talking about me and my fellow soldiers like that? What?? What the hell?? I was there you dumbass! You are a real arrogant idiot! You are not a "real" man! You don't have a clue what a real man is! A real man doesn't have to act and pretend to be all tough and macho like he's got to prove something. Real men don't need to talk about how macho and tough they are and a real man would have enough integrity and respect for the soldiers who stormed Normandy Beach, that he wouldn't make up lies about them like you did. All that nonsense talk talk talk outta your mouth, and you didn't say a damn thing that's true or that's worth saying. Real men got something true and real to say when they talk."

[@TheBehavioralArts]

Thank you for sharing the story of your great uncle. Amazing story! ❤️

[@jr.smiththehennessygod2249]

Tate never said anything bad about the teens that stormed the beach or tried to hide, anyone in that situation would try to get away from what’s happening. He said that those men were brave and charged at the gunfire even they didn’t want to and them even willing to get on the boats are brave. He used The Invasion of Omaha beach and the men that wanted to cry and did cry, but still fought as a example of a man’s sense of duty. Please explain to me why that is so wrong.

[@ttherexy1469]

i think Andrew Tate meant before they stormed the beaches they put on a poker-face and acted like they wern't scared and instead of pussying out they still stormed the beaches

[@skwerl81]

@@jr.smiththehennessygod2249 He says (after talking about the importance of controlling emotions): "Do you think that the teenagers storming the beaches of Normandy felt like crying? Of course they did. But they also knew that that wasn't the correct thing for them to do"... So, it sounds to me like he's not saying that they 'cried but still fought', but rather that they didn't cry because they were 'good' men who were able to control themselves and their emotions. That directly contradicts the real-life story above

[@imibee5184]

@@jr.smiththehennessygod2249 No, he said that even if they wanted to cry, they didn't because they knew "it was the right thing to do" (not crying). Listen again.

[@irish2772]

As someone who has studied WW2 most of my life, we have accounts of these "teens" on Juno, Sword, Utah and Omaha beaches crying, calling for God, calling for their mothers and fathers etc, but by all means we should just go by what someone who wasn't there and hasn't experienced anything similar says.

[@MamaMia....]

I have a great uncle who died at Gallipoli in World War one when he was only 17. There's just no way, and no expectation, that that boy didn't cry at the horror of his circumstances before he died.

[@catherineflores7106]

The most concerning thing about his content isn’t the fallacies and stupid stuff he says. It’s the influence he has on young men. He promotes control and violence against women. There is enough of that happening without encouraging millions more to act and think that way. I would be devastated if my boys started following anyone like him.

[@cariadbach]

I absolutely have heard that too. My partner is very very interested in WW2 and I've watched many many programmes/documentaries with him. I have seen documentaries from years ago where interviews with old soldiers have been recorded and the old man cries himself while remembering friends and young soldiers crying and calling out for their mothers. So sad. 😔 This guy is dangerous. Can you imagine a young male teenager watching his ridiculous video, telling these teenage boys that it's pathetic to cry, that you are NOT real men and never will be if you cry!!!! Oh my god! How dangerous is that!! Personally I think he's got some deep seated issues. Someone at some point in his life told him these ridiculously dangerous views, directed it towards him. He needs help. I don't mean that in a cruel manner, I genuinely think he has demons in his head and could do with some good psychological help.

[@cariadbach]

@@catherineflores7106 Absolutely agree. My point exactly. This won't affect grown adult men, it will affect young impressionable men.

[@Phillylove100]

You also don’t compare what’s necessary for the horrors of war to daily life. They’re completely different. In war you’re supposed to be cold, hard, and detached so that you don’t break down from the insanity of it all. That’s so different from impressing some chick

[@AHarp]

Oh. My god. I LOVE this version of Spidey. So raw and outspoken. The filter almost gone, tension in the air, fuse ALMOST lit. Brilliant. This guy grinds your gears UNDERSTANDABLY so. I really enjoyed this upload.

[@heartlightintuition]

yeah it felt to me like Spidey cranked it up to a new gear here. It's great stuff.

[@amaniahmed5481]

I hope he watches the story of how this guys rose to infamy and lives in a pool of depravity and scamming. It explains soooo much about his views. He is actually a pimp and views women and money from that lens. kzbin.info/www/bejne/fnuXqaKujqasl5Y

[@summerjeffries2434]

Spidey!! You were visibly a little upset by this man. I couldn't help but smile and be thankful for your integrity. Thank you as always for your knowledge.

[@frummel403]

This Andrew guy thinks he's being tough and masculine but he actually comes across as very insecure and angry. If you look at someone like Dwayne Johnson, that's actually someone who is an example of positive masculine. He is actually kind and confident and he uses his strength and leadership to lift others up. That's the way you do it!

[@kawehionalani]

The Rock? He’s a sellout

[@MasculineIdeal]

I like the Rock but to pretend that he doesn't push consumerism on people and wants to get rich is crazy. That's all he does. He also takes a bunch of steroids and tries very hard to be hypermasculine. So he's actually much more like Tate than you understand. He just feeds it to people in a palatable way. You must recognize this?

[@jr.smiththehennessygod2249]

People have only paid attention to all the negative deeds of Tate, they never talk about about the good cause that doesn’t get views, he is very respectful, patient, and has done many great things for the world, but does’t share it because he thinks boasting about the good to get positive attention is cheap. Those skits are him exaggerating his character to get views and not the real him, people need understand that and dig deeper before they make conclusions and people that actually think he’s being serious is kind of foolish.

[@robinronin]

@@jr.smiththehennessygod2249 If this is true, why did you not include specific examples? Do you have any evidence of charity donations or other good actions? Also, you mention these are skits. Can you explain the jokes to me? What was funny about waving the machete and pretending to choke a woman out? What was funny about tearing down that young woman’s dream? Why wasn’t that young woman laughing if it was a funny joke? Can you explain to me what the joke was?

[@Amanda-uc5jq]

@@jr.smiththehennessygod2249 whether this is what he’s really like or not doesn’t matter, this is what he’s portraying to others and there is a least a portion (probably a large one) that will take him at his word and behave like he does on social media in real life. I for one don’t want to see men behaving like this it’s ignorant, arrogant, aggressive and demeaning to women. I won’t bother going through what this attitude towards women can lead to as I’m sure you’re smart enough to figure that out on your own.

[@cocodel99]

As much as he puts on a tough exterior, he comes across as someone who's fearful of rejection, he has to keep proving his masculinity as if someone's going to take it away from him.

[@bloodywabbit644]

Clearly shows his mom is the only woman who has been able to tolerate his bullshit😂

[@mandyinseattle]

That probably makes him dangerous to women and other people he thinks he can bully.

[@jaewest1378]

I got the same feeling. Like he questions his own masculinity because he knows his own truth but doesn’t think it’s right and is overcompensating.

[@hugrunj]

Exactly!

[@haroppert9562]

This is so true

[@karabadasski2521]

I was with my ex-husband for 11 years. He had two emotions, angry and happy. The man I have been in a relationship with for the past 7 years is not afraid to talk about his feelings. To me that is a REAL man. To me Andrew Tate is an insecure little boy in a grownups body.

[@Mario-gg5wx]

Is that an insult for others saying this Is a real man?

[@karabadasski2521]

@@Mario-gg5wx It's just my opinion. I look at someone like Andrew Tate and all I see is an insecure little boy. I feel very bad for those women who look at Tate and think that is what a real man is.

[@pavansampath1605]

@@karabadasski2521 and an insecure little man conquered so much of modern media that u can't escape him and built a network and network of millions eh?

[@karabadasski2521]

@@pavansampath1605 Just giving my opinion of what I see.

[@Portia620]

Yep! Were you married to my narcissistic ex? Happy or mad with a side of humor?

[@Dee_1133]

In every video I have ever watched of Spidey , he always so so respectfully refrains from sharing judgement and opinion of the persons character , even Amber heard . It is so so impressive and humble. But this was so beautiful and refreshing him sharing with us his feeling about Andrew's words , felt kind of comforting that he chose to share his perspective , vulnerably sharing frustration and emotion , but truly in the name of respecting women , and humanity and basic kindness. He is just so lovely , such fantastic character

[@jenniferbutler7116]

I concur ❤

[@saratonnan]

Never heard of this guy. Seems to be overflowing with internal pain, insecurities and anger. I hope he finds peace & healing.

[@pamelac.3241]

I agree. All I could think about is what happened to him in his childhood. Anger = pain, hurt, and frustration.

[@stephjovi]

Love your comment. Because I think exactly the same. He seems like he was seriously hurt. Maybe bullied. Now he's over compensating. Men like that make men's life harder

[@mikebrown3790]

Even after you overcome everything there’s always going to be another hurdle maybe he thinks his hurdling days are over but talking out your ass won’t help shit.

[@PifchoBG]

he won in life, thats what happened to him. keep wondering

[@barrymaxwell3487]

Tate was excellent at chess as a child, his father taught him, took him to tournaments etc. Then his Mum left his Dad so that stopped. Could be when he started hating women and references chess so much.

[@theultimatesteelshooter8610]

I’m 63, have never had any childern, been retired for a while, have a portfolio this baboon could only dream about, live on a barrier island only 400 yds from the beach and have had as many as 7 cats at once - i only have 3 now -one of which is sitting in my lap as i type this. It’s so sad we live in a world where people actually listen and take this “person” seriously. How messed up does your life have to be to take advise from this guy?

[@heartlightintuition]

I'm hoping that will be me in a couple of decades.

[@stephaniemoon8913]

Me too, retired, 68yrs, 5 cats and loads of semi tame wildlife that I feed. Oh yes, happy too but I must say this guy made me laugh all day. II always find the wrong things funny.

[@theultimatesteelshooter8610]

@@stephaniemoon8913 i find a lot of this stuff “funny” as I’m laughing at him but I find it mostly pathetic and the really sad part is all of his “followers”

[@okiedokieartichokie772]

When people ask what I aspire to I tell them "I'm an aspiring cat lady" I dont want kids. None of my friends have any and most don't want any. But we all have cats lol and we are all in our 30s already. Pretty sure we are fairly happy with our choices.

[@crescendo2441]

Like attracts like. This toxic narcissist attracts the attention and sympathies of other toxic narcissists. Anyone who isn't like that can easily see through this guy's veneer and see the toxic personality disorders underneath.

[@phaIIicaIIyimpaired]

This guy is so afraid of anyone calling him a beta male, that he has turned himself into the most toxic example of both misogyny, and ironically, misandry. He perpetuates stereotypes that are harmful to men and women both, and he's preying on insecure men's emotions to enrich himself. This is not a guy who is invested in empowering men, but in proving himself superior and the ultimate authority on what makes a 'real' man. My own armchair diagnosis is toxic narcissism 😏

[@lukrecja2102]

Well said 👏 👌

[@NiaPgn]

💯

[@ryanelliott6706]

What is a woman?

[@1NerdMa]

...and how about gay? I think he may be homosexual but, is doing everything he can to deny this part of himself, and beat it out of himself with ultra toxic alpha male behavior. I think he's trying to convince himself, and the world..."I'm not gay, I'm not gay, I'm not gay!" He just won't accept it. He probably had a very toxic father who would probably beat the sh!te out of him if he came out of the closet. I think he needs serious therapy.

[@ryanelliott6706]

@@1NerdMa triggered much?

[@joymclaurin7167]

So, I’d never heard of this guy, but what he says sounds like a little boy who grew up being abused for having an emotion until he adopted his abuser’s views. I could be wrong and hope I am, because that’s a horrific way to have to grow up. But when he speaks, I just keep hearing an older man shouting “boys don’t cry.”

[@ColieBear18]

I absolutely agree. I look at him and all I see is a very insecure damaged person. I feel empathy for him but hes vile.

[@sarutucigash]

Well, guess what, if you look up videos on the internet where he talks about his father, this is exactly how he raised him. He would make him play chess until early in the morning even if he was extremely tired. He was a tough man, but he praises him, I guess in an attempt to negate the damage he did. As children develop coping mechanisms that try to keep them safe from what is being done to them. So denial is one of them

[@Minnieninja]

His father wasn't abusive to him but he wasn't a great example either. He taught him that when someone's hurting you you don't go to a teacher or parent, you deal with it yourself as a man. He was raised this way, to think that men are superior and because they're "superior" they can't show "negative" emotion, aka crying.

[@crescendo2441]

You pretty much defined the creation of a narcissist in your first sentence👍That's what toxic/narc parents do, give you hell to pay if you have an emotion or opinion that opposes or triggers them. So some of their kids will adapt to this by taking on this behaviour and becoming a narc just like them.

[@crescendo2441]

@@sarutucigash Narc children of narc parents die appeasing them, forever in denial of the abuse. It's only the non-narc children who recognise the abuse and can go on a healing journey which by the way gets hindered by the narc siblings who act as flying monkeys of the narc parent/s.

[@Balance_Reiki_SpiritualCoach]

Fascinating stuff, thanks so much. Tate's energy is so disturbing. He spits so much hate when he talks, I need to get up and take a walk to brush it off whenever I catch a clip of him. His nervous system must be working very hard - he seems to be constantly in the 'fight' state.

[@lisaalexander1824]

Hope he's had his fuxinations...

[@mominator7274]

This was actually a great breakdown of someone's behavior/words/feelings to watch and I thought you did an excellent and FAIR job with it. You were careful to point out what was personal feeling vs analysis and gave credit where (surprisingly) credit was due. Quite well done. MUCH RESPECT! Thank you.

[@hurpdurp3669]

I thought it was interesting that he said, "I have always wanted people to SEE me as successful and intelligent." Not "I want to BE successful and intelligent," but "I want to be SEEN as successful and intelligent." It shows that he prioritizes having an audience that sees him as this smart, strong, no-nonsense alpha-male kind of guy, which certainly lines up with everything else he's done.

[@Cochinealisthenewwoad]

Great catch! It sounds like an unintentional slip to me; whatever he believes about himself (and maybe he does believe he's everything he says he is, all contradictions aside), the point is that he's still looking for /eyebrow flash/ validation.

[@Johan-vk5yd]

@@danielmclellan7762 It does! Give it another try! There’s an important difference between the faculty, and the aspiration.

[@irenethomson2033]

He won't get that unless he completely changes his attitude.

[@irenethomson2033]

Does this mean that he is unsuccessful and unintelligent, because that's how I see him?

[@crescendo2441]

It's all about appearances and image for a narcissist. He basically admitted his insecurities, that he thinks he's not successful or intelligent, but wants to give the impression that he is.

[@robinronin]

That young woman talking about her passions and goals was so beautiful. She had the most amazing smile and bright eyes as she talked about something she loved. It just genuinely disgusts me that Tate just straight up started to shit all over it. Incredibly dehumanizing and gross. Imagine someone sharing something harmless and good with you that is close to their heart, and you’re just an asshole about it. He does not respect women to any extent at all. Also, side note: my grandmother told the story of how, while fleeing to a bunker, her sister was hit by some kind of shard of a bomb/genade in her neck (idk how that stuf works, maybe it made some glass explode or maybe there are bomb type things that create sharp edges upon impact?) Her sister bled out in her arms and died. She told me this story without crying. I guess Tate would think she’s a real man for not crying. Glad to know that my grandmother is a real man 😂

[@iamthe80s49]

Her having the most amazing smile and bright eyes is because she is an elite female. So what? Don't be fooled by that shallow charisma. I'm sure she's going to go off and make virtual reality systems for the army in between her successful acting career. Give me a break. I'm sure she's just around the corner from achieving that dream. Tate wasn't having any of her bs, and then he expressed his view on what makes women happy when they are older in life, saying that women who have families are happier than women who didn't and were married to their corporate jobs. Is he wrong? He's entitled to his opinion, and he expressed it. It's not dehumanising, it's a conversation. Whether you find it gross or not is on you. He respected those women enough to look them in the face and disagree with them. Being a yes man and just telling women what they want to hear isn't respect, it's treating them like they are children. And your response to a person having an opinion you don't like invites that behaviour.

[@Lexi_Con]

@@iamthe80s49 Facts: He did NOT "look her in the face" and actually sat there expressionless while she spoke about her career goals. He didn't care. The only reason he asked the question is to set the stage for his own egotistical BS. It's a show, it's all about him no matter how ridiculous. He's a total narcissist who craves attention whether positive or negative. *Don't be fooled by his shallow (& ignorant) "charisma."

[@tazylab6233]

@@iamthe80s49 he wasn't looking in their faces, as the behavioral analyst said , watch the video again please. He can express what he thinks, but the problem is that he can't respect or acknowledge that inspite of his truth, that others truths can exist, I'm childless because of the trauma I lived as a child, and that didn't allow me to develop as an adult should, I mean I like men but I don't know if I want a partner, I don't know if want all that trouble, I know what I would like to find in one, because I'm willing to try to give the same , but I'm trying to heal ,that right now I don't even think in getting involved in a relationship, I'm in my 40 so no children for me my biological clock is out of time, except that somehow I start to earn loads of money to get me through fertility treatments, and I far away of that position,money wise, maybe if I met a man that I want to have a family with, and had the money ,maybe I would go through it or maybe adopt a child,but that is not easy task and is not easy to do in my country, but in this time of my life I don't see anything of that happening, and I'm not depressed, sad if I end up not having children,I have nieces I love them like they were my own ,but I don't know if I could have them 24/7 . Yes when I'll be older I would be alone but that isn't something new in my life

[@sofieaudiffret2439]

😂

[@craftingemily]

I am so sorry your grandmother had to go through that. I will tell you that as someone who as also who as gone through trauma. The more time has gone by as well as the more times you tell the story the easier it is to say without so much emotion. It’s like a type of exposure therapy. Do I still get teary eye once in a while telling my story, of course I do. But I also use “dark humor” as defense mechanism to cover emotions. But I have also said my story with my normal happy voice. Trauma is weird like that and everyone deals with it in different ways. I agree. I loved the way the women shared what pulled on her heart strings and her hopes and dreams. Who says she can’t have this world and a family. It was heartbreaking to someone crush the dreams of someone else. AT said its my way or the highway. I had someone do this to me with Religion shooting down my belief and saying her interpretation of a bible verse was the right way. For me I listen to everyone’s beliefs as long as you will listen to my beliefs, who knows I may be able to take some of your beliefs and adapted them to mine. But when this person told me I had the devil inside me because I had a medical problem, I shut down and stoped listening to her.

[@samatiesse]

To me the smile of disagreement is 1) heavily disagreeing 2) finding the position/attitude so ridiculous it's actually comical.

[@robyn2628]

i love what a humanistic approach you take with your analyses, spidey. you dont just try to shut people down and write them off entirely because you disagree wtih them. you try to understand what they're saying and why they might be saying it, even if they themselves dont. the world needs more people with your approach.

[@TheBehavioralArts]

🤗 ❤️ this one was a tough one. Glad you enjoyed it

[@Kudeshka]

@@TheBehavioralArts I still disagree with you on that he should not be banned denying him a platform is not equal to freedom of speech. To let him use platforms he gets revenue from platforms if he is violating the rules of the platform then they have all the rights to get banned. If he was someone racist saying there would be more outrage

[@Mac10943]

@@Kudeshka Well right, of course the platforms have the right to do so, legally, and I don't think anybody is against that or disagrees with that, however, what people do disagree with is the morality of it, the morality of banning people for their opinions and censoring peoples' voices/influence. It's not whether they should *be able* to do it, it's whether they should do it. Morally speaking

[@matiasfalcone2821]

@@Mac10943 The thing is, his opinion includes hateful retoric that promotes violent behaviour, so allowing him to keep using their platform to spread that kind of violent approach is an indirect statement that the platform is ok with that moral value he is expressing and sharing, so the morality point is not that simple and straightforward (what I mean by that is that you could argue there is a morality issue if the platform decides to go for both options, banning him from their platform or not).

[@Tyty_Tyler]

I'd never heard of Andrew tate before this and I kinda wish I could go back to that. He seems like an absolute monster

[@Portia620]

You have no idea! Scary rich monster!

[@user-bs8tn9lm8q]

Fucjin neeks

[@Phoenix_flying]

This man is toxic on so many levels. Angry, insecure, and irrational. You nailed this Spidey. Thank you for the applied logic and analysis.

[@jenn8179]

I agree...insecure....over-correcting. He was bullied in high school. In my opinion.

[@ania5038]

It's so crazy how this psycho talks so similarly to Amber lol they both speak out of the side of their mouths, not looking at who they're talking to, blank stares, putting on an accent, word salad, bragging through faux humility, etc.

[@barrymaxwell3487]

Absolutely and this was very mild on how he really is. Tates going to jail I imagine for quite a while

[@scattyfi]

@@jenn8179 he talked about being picked on as a kid in his final message video he released on GETTR last night.

[@MrChartab]

I don’t know who that guy is, but even if he was what you say he is, angry, toxic,….!!!! Even if that’s true! He has become that way because of the things he went through. He wasn’t born that way. As I said I don’t know him but I saw small clips from him on KZbin a few times and he was talking about this h.oo.k..up culture and he was right about everything. He is completely right that’s why what he says angers these third wave of femenism so easily. He exposes them easily. At the end of the day, believe it or not, what ever you do to people. It will be done to you/for you.

[@TamarDart]

I do want to say, regardless of his ridiculousness and ignorance, Let's not underestimate the power of CTE (Chronic traumatic encephalopathy), esp in increasing aggression in people... he was a kickboxer. I personally know how multiple concussions can change a person's personality. It's real. Either way he needs help... he's not making too much sense and seems quite angry. Love the analysis, Spidey, you're amazing !

[@Johan-vk5yd]

Some frontal lobe dysfunction certinly comes to mind. Repeated concussions, childhood severe encephalitis, covid infection in adulthood are just a few possible causes. Interwiewing his mum about her pregnancy, the birth and early years would be so interesting.

[@moonchild6307]

The most delusional thing is him thinking he is intelligent😆

[@Yungddhandle]

He is incredibly intelligent man, what are you on about?

[@Philly1979]

IQ of 146. Not intelligent??

[@kathy1001]

Very Well Said 😉

[@jagilo9677]

@@yawns2170 it depends on how you are measuring intelligence. He’s street smart but his speech doesn’t show higher order thinking.

[@EzrealSama]

He’s a world class chess player when he was just 6 year old

[@myosotis5071]

This “man” needs therapy so bad. I’ve disgusted and in completely shocked. Thank you for your work! 🙏

[@queensurvivor]

It is so damaging to put out there that if you can just change your thinking, depression will go away, as a mother that has suffered with depression and a daughter that has been admitted 3 times for suicidal ideology....This is so reckless!

[@Sauczi]

It's the hard truth. If you identifiy as a depressed person that will just make it worse

[@keivahummel]

@@Sauczibe mindful of what you state as a “hard truth” … depression is complex and how it impacts people (and identity) may vary outside of your “hard truth”

[@Sauczi]

@@keivahummel People will always defend their excuses in life. Depression is one of them

[@keivahummel]

@@Saucziyou clearly don’t know what you’re talking about and using absolutes weakens what you’re saying. Glad you don’t have that experience of navigating depression. Stay blessed.

[@TheNaijaGosiper]

@@keivahummelyou chooses to be depressed, good for you, there are people like us who don’t believe in that bvllsh!t, I can never be depressed no matter what I go through in life.

[@stephjovi]

I'm 40 and very happy to pay my own bills and live with cats. That was actually always my dream since I was little.

[@Repomidnight]

I recently witnessed a clearly socially anxious guy trying to talk tough by yelling aggressively in a crowded street. Like a nerdy guy auditioning for the role of a hardened criminal. Looked really weird. Everyone just walked past. Days later, I hear about Andrew Tate’s philosophy on Australian TV, and just know that guy on the street was trying his act. I imagine his followers aren’t too intelligent. This will backfire greatly for many.

[@hectortoledo8416]

Sounds like neighbor.

[@thorhilda]

Everything about Tate points to deep-seated insecurities that he tries to mask by appearing intimidating all the time. He is the little dog who barks all the time because he is afraid of everything.

[@amb5403]

Absolutely agree

[@realg7849]

How can a former fighter who won 4 championships be insecure? This never make any sense to me

[@crescendo2441]

@@realg7849 There is no correlation between a physical skill and emotional security. Maybe it was his insecurities that propelled him to become a fighter, because deep down he feels like a weak, stupid, powerless little boy (Probably how his father made him feel). He needs therapy to heal, no amount of sport trophies will fix a broken mind.

[@realg7849]

@Talki2themoon I never understood why people use these conversation stoppers when their opinions are challenged or when someone has different opinion from their own. Most leftists, feminists and democrats use shaming, insulting and dismissive tactics such as "you're insecure", "you're misogynist", etc. You just called me dumb to invalidate my argument.

[@FIDIOT-cringe]

Why is it that people who say "Men aren't emotional", "Facts don't care about your feelings", "Showing feelings is weak", etc always forget ANGER IS AN EMOTION!!

[@pixiedust548]

The scary thing about this guy is the amount of young boys following him! My 14 year old daughter tells me many of the boys in her grade became obsessed with him over the summer. So sad and all the more reason parents need to stay on top of what their kids are looking at on social media!

[@sarthakmishra2825]

More boys and men need to listen to what Andrew has to say.

[@pixiedust548]

@@sarthakmishra2825 Ok Sarthak, I'll bite. Why should more boys and men listen to him? Be real now; I'm a mom with kids so I'm down to have a serious conversation.

[@sarthakmishra2825]

@@pixiedust548 So the thing is, How many masculine role models you can see these days for boys? (and the matter of fact a girl should have a masculine role model in her life too) Testosterone level has been decreased over past few years now, People talking about Andrew being aggressive (which is an emotion) Fyi, aggression is a masculine trait, you cannot push the boundary without aggression. A man should be aggressive in these competitive world in order to grow and achieve success and then to maintain a successful life. Andrew wants todays men to be accountable, be responsible, be powerful, Then what is wrong with a successful Man encouraging other men to be MEN?

[@jabbs6659]

your so right

[@ShockwaveDawn]

As someone with years of depression I couldn't help but laugh at his take on depression. As is rightfully said in the video, depression is a (or causes a) physiological change in the brain. My depression stems not from sadness or emotional experiences as much as from the fact that I got medicine over a long time that crippled my brain. My neurons have literally shrunk which affects the brain function in certain areas. Which means that you also can't break your arm if you don't believe in broken bones? Since that is also caused by a physiological traumatic event.

[@jennasorscia9044]

Study just came out that the happiest women are single and childless.

[@Kknightstar]

How does he know what life is like as a woman?!? He really doesn’t deserve my attention whatsoever but I love your channel so I’ll watch. Love you Spidey!🕸💕 Edit - after watching nearly the entire video, I just can’t with this guy. He’s what’s wrong with men, people in general. The idea women are incomplete without kids is infuriating!

[@susanswan6278]

He wouldn't last a day - or certainly not one cycle!!

[@laurieglass1533]

Also I am 51 and have two daughters, I won't be a grandma for quite a few years!! Who is knitting on the front porch at 54 as he implied?

[@AnnelisR]

When the loser said “life as a man is harder than life as a woman” I rolled my eyes SO hard I somehow felt it in my head. I have never consumed any content with this and I’m just forwarding past the parts where he’s speaking and only watching when Spidey’s talking. I probably won’t be able to stomach the next video.

[@pakenhamin]

@@AnnelisR I suppose that the idea that the electricity that powers your computer was brought to you by a man has never occurred to you.

[@randomizer1666]

@@AnnelisR I was thinking something similar.. I know what it is like to be a man, I have NO idea what it is like to be a woman.. Some things in my life are hard, some things in other people's lives are hard, some things in my life are easy, some things in other people's lives are easy.. I have no context from anyone else's life to compare difficulties, life is tough for everyone in very different ways... The guy comes off as an idiot, and makes me wonder how many people judge me as a man based on people like this guy...

[@kingsway731]

It's ironic that he's ragging on men for being emotional while being angry and crass about everything he says

[@nopewmopan]

Good call. Denies all other emotions, accesses the one remaining emotion super hard because he doesn't realize it's an emotion.

[@claybutler]

I have to applaud you for your valiant effort in trying to find some shred of humanity in Tate. I can't though. And that's because he really is a dangerous man. His message is soaked in pure hatred of women. He provides justification for all of these broken, resentful, entitled men who harbor deep violent fantasies towards women and would love to act upon their hatred.

[@meghan2353]

i agree! there are a few things he's said which, to me, make sense (the ones in this video which Spidey also agrees with - and i have to make clear, ONLY them) but i cannot look past the vile person he is as a whole

[@EternalKnot]

@@meghan2353 Right? I mean Stalin said a few things that made sense too.

[@mosesg5223]

What makes him dangerous?

[@f.b.jeffers0n]

Spreading ignorance to malleable minds@@mosesg5223... Thanks for coming to my Ted Talk.

[@claybutler]

@@mosesg5223 His has extreme contempt for women. He views them as subhuman, an enemy to be conquered and he promotes the idea that women are by nature supposed to be subservient to men. And women who aren't submissive to men are sluts and whores. He says any woman who goes out for a girl's night out is cheating on you because the only reason a woman would go out in public, without her boyfriend, is to cheat. He says your girlfriend should delete her social media accounts to demonstrate her loyalty to her boyfriend. Because the only reason a woman has a social media account is to pursue men. He promotes using violence against women who are noncompliant. He's basically a date rape/toxic masculinity cliche in human form. And INCELS listen to him. That makes him dangerous.

[@HexisVonSpade]

i just noticed that around 29min in, when he said the women without kids would be depressed... KEYWORD DEPRESSED.... but he said depression isnt real, so by HIS logic, as long as they didnt believe in depression, they'd be fine!

[@renseal475]

I think you completely nailed it at the 42:00 min mark where you mention that he is possibly over-correcting and trying to prove himself to **someone** in his life whom may or may not be around anymore, but the impact of whatever he has gone through lives on.

[@Zenoandturtle]

Texting your girlfriend at 1 am that you’re going to bed, when you are ACTUALLY going to bed is ...... emasculating???? Even Hal 9000 would be at loss for words with this one.

[@kristiern9281]

As a nurse my head goes immediately to the long term effects from medication, diet, lifestyle as well as the nurture effects of upbringing and young adulthood, and genetics and physiology. I see someone who speaks rapidly, might have some underlying aggression that he’s trying to suppress, and possibly the latent effects of steroids (not necessarily illegal steroid use) possibly steroids needed to treat illness or growth hormones given to correct or treat growth and development that is behind the expected growth curve.

[@SilverRAM777]

In regards to the cherry picking argument and the soldiers of Normandy, Tate was also picking a very specific moment in their lives. Just because they weren’t crying at that time (which, by the way, he can’t prove) doesn’t mean that they didn’t cry when all the fighting was done.

[@lola_kola2007]

I think a big part as to why he got banned is that he said women are to be blamed for getting raped. (something along those lines)

[@teletubbiestunetwister9570]

The funny thing about the moms regretting having children is that they won't tell their children but they will tell others - especially young women without children. I met a lot of women in their 50s and 60s when I was in my 20s who told me they loved their children and wouldn't give them up but that they don't recommend it. Two women I met actually said they regret it. Yes, they love their kids and would die for them now, but they wish they had taken a different path.

[@trentsoto6852]

If I ever talk to someone who truly genuinely believes and follows what Tate says and his point, I’ll simply just have to point and laugh at them. I cannot fathom how someone would be fooled by this grown up toddler ranting about stupid shit with awful points. Thank you spidey for doing the internet a service and explaining why he’s a dingus

[@bit3thytongu3]

My brother is turning into this guy-not completely there yet, but yeah. I don’t know if he’s been specifically watching this guy, but he’s definitely been watching the FreshnFit videos. I just want you to know they’re exactly as ridiculous as they seem, and 10000% as frustrating in person.

[@jovana_kocic]

Grown up toddler. Yup

[@krizula1117]

Stupid points when they are infact logical

[@pepperstep]

The most ironic thing about Mr. Tate is that he preaches emotional control while barely containing the seething anger he has at anyone who disagrees with him. Anger is a secondary emotion, and it usually comes from something more base like being hurt or fearful. He doesn't have the courage to be vulnerable and he hides behind the anger that he justifies. He's unevolved.

[@MsSilverTulip]

Anger is sometimes secondary but it is also a basic human reaction (via the FIGHT or flight response) to a perceived threat to ourselves or those we care about.

[@ja711rich8]

On many occasions when people disagree with him he jeeps his calm and isn't angry

[@pepperstep]

@@MsSilverTulip fight or flight is typically triggered by fear/self preservation. I'm not saying anger is bad, it certainly has it's place. I'm saying it's ironic that Tate is saying men are in better control of their emotions, but anger is an emotion too. I suspect he thinks it's the only acceptable emotion for men to display.

[@tonibremonansen9183]

How can he say that not having children will cause you depression. I thought he didn't believe in depression. ???

[@KellieEatsCrayons]

Spidey, I LOVE that you address some of the logical fallacies here. It's one of my pet peeves when dealing with difficult people (like inmates, or administrators). And I think it's so pervasive in MANY aspects of our external environments -- like politics and marketing. Some people, like Tate, are simply unaware of their flawed logic ... but others take advantage of the collective blinds spots. One of the most common logical fallacies I see people fall prey to is "if it makes sense, it must be true." All you have to do is show a seemingly loose connection between two points, get that first agreement, and then move them over to your side of the board. Grrrrrrr!!

[@kristinahammer2757]

I could be way off base, but everything about that man, to me, SCREAMS insecurity. 💯 Somebody hurt that man. According to him he is the picture of success. But I have never seen the tiniest glimmer of happiness or peace in his face. It's honestly kind of sad.

[@susanhoumller2937]

Okay 1: I think this is the first time I've heard you "beep yourself". And I totally understand - and agree with - why you did it!! 2: his "I don't make mistakes". There's a very simple answer to why he thinks that he doesn't: he's a narcissist. (And mysogenist and possibly also psychopath). To him, making a mistake equals knowing what you do and deliberately do it wrong. That doesn't make it a mistake - that just makes it lack of moral/ethics and/or lack of respect. 3: when he shoots down the woman in red's dream ... Almost all the women in the left side of the screen looks down - shame. Shame for wanting more for themselves than "just" man, family and financial security. Shame for having dreams. 3b: the woman with the "weird" smile ... It's an "anger & contempt but I have to smile"-smile. 4: the way he talks about people, especially women, ... To me, those are signs, that he has been faulted for being emotional, maybe crying, not having dreams for the future. Most likely by a woman. He might also have been cheated on, told that he hasn't got big enough b*lls and/or knows someone depressed - or has battled depression himself. (And been told that he just have to "pick himself up by the roots" and/or "just see the positive in life" [which I personally find disrespectful and proves some degree of stupidity: you don't CHOOSE to be depressed!!). Overall impression? * I love your analysis, find you knowledge and eye for details amazing and love the way you share it with us. Thank you ❤ * I really cannot stand that guy. Won't be choosing to watch any of his stuff willingly

[@Zenoandturtle]

Tate does exhibit resentment towards women. His insecurities are palpable.

[@spill1t]

I agree with literally everything you've said in this one.

[@6hostii]

Andrew Tate: Preaches Self accountability. Andrew Tate: Says women are not self accountable. Also, Andrew Tate: I never make mistakes.

[@ninniank9650]

Never heard of this “angry man”. I would never allow anyone like this into my life. He’s emotionally and verbally abusive especially toward women.

[@korosuke1788]

25:30 I used to work as a salesman, and with certain clients you gotta act like that to close the deal faster. You know why they open the mouth? It's because they're so focused on how theylook and behave that they forget how to breathe. In other words, it's evidence they're just faking being above everyone else. Deep down, they KNOW it's just a facade.

[@beanburrito8903]

This guy was hilarious. If I was young and dumb, I could see how I would fall for all of this. I'm glad we have people like you that actually have some logic.

[@EllenCPickle]

Ive seen him on several channels, and this man is torn between what he thinks he is, and what he want to be...he has tried to talk about several religions, and was called out on it because he didnt understand the foundation is equality, kindness, and mutual respect.... I think it all about branding for him and he still has no idea what he wants to be when he grows up. He is chasing the $ and will never find peace that way, he actually said it himself. Time will tell!

[@quesara7869]

This is so well done. You unpacked it perfectly. Honestly, you also had me laughing A LOT. 🤣

[@observant6953]

22:59 This guy is a goldmine 😂 I'm crying 🙈 His stare when she's talking is priceless. When I was a teenager we had a guy hanging out with us who had exactly the same pattern of speech like this dude and I always thought that he is an extremely insecure guy behind all his talk. I feel the same way about this dude.

[@pakenhamin]

Any fool can judge someone else insecure - but consider this. What if he is not insecure?

[@stacyr3743]

Definitely a double standard. Those woman who speak disrespectfully to him are doing nothing wrong because they chose to do it, right?

[@ReaL-KEAS]

I wish he debated with Jordon Paterson. That would be a good show. Hahaha

[@mandyinseattle]

You're fascinating. Not many people can keep me listening for hours. I appreciate your thoughts and your experience. I think you'll be a good father

[@sunnithrasher-lewis5768]

I’ve never heard of Andrew Tate before, but my first impression is that he had something happen to him, that made him feel emasculated, and never healthily dealt with the weight he carried inside of him, due to it. Maybe he also didn’t have very strong role models around him, at that time, to help him develop past the traumatic event, so he developed his post-event mentality/lifestyle from cherry-picked, Hollywood shows. Just an opinion, though. What I also picked-up, is that he speaks very cultish, and that was confirmed, in my mind, when you said he speaks to a very specific type of people. By the way, I also believe that not everyone that comes across as “cultish”, is malignant. There is A LOT of benign, cultish mentality/activity, that will never end up destroying people. It’s a sliding scale. BUT his demeanor still comes across as cultish, imo. Essentially, he’s just an angry man, with unresolved issues.

[@barrymaxwell3487]

Tate was excellent at chess as a child, his father taught him, took him to tournaments etc. Then his Mum left his Dad so that stopped Maybe that's where it began but he is involved with Romanian gangs, fraud etc. This video shows very little of how horrible he is.

[@sunnithrasher-lewis5768]

@@barrymaxwell3487 Yeah, you may be on to something there (chess/parents divorcing/gangs). If a timeline were written out of his life, I would put a circle around that time period, as being something to look at further.

[@GamingWife42]

The buzz phrase, “my truth” has to die lol There used to be something called an opinion. “This is my opinion”

[@machellesamuels5872]

Great analysis Spidey! I learn such a lot from you and it is eye opening 👀 I have a lot of aha moments! I feel that the ban is warranted. The things he said are so offensive! He can voice his opinions on his own media platform. I suppose one can say that those of us who are against his viewpoints, can switch off or not follow him but giving him a platform on social media is giving him an opportunity to offend and insult. His views can lead to abuse across-the-board! All the best! Great content as always!

[@Kudeshka]

A big part of his audience is children and a lot of teachers saw students who mimicked him and banning him is making him less accessible to children. If you say things that go against the rules of the platform then there is no reason to grant him the platform you get revenue from this platforms so they are your employer

[@aleece4]

Spidey, i love what you shared here! I was just reading about depression this morning, so it’s funny you discussed it in this video! Interestingly, the latest research actually shows that depression is NOT caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain. 🤯 There’s a lot of contributing factors, and they don’t fully understand a lot about it. I recommend the book Lost Connections by Johann Hari is you want to learn more about it! It’s a great read!

[@TheBehavioralArts]

Damn lol. Seems Things have changed since I got my degree 12 years ago haha. But the fact remains there are physiological considerations there… … right? 🤔 😆

[@barrymaxwell3487]

@@TheBehavioralArts you're right🤜

[@aleece4]

@@TheBehavioralArts yes! The main contributors seem to be childhood trauma, loneliness/isolation, and a lack purpose, but there does seem to be a genetic component as well. Regardless, the impact of brain chemistry on depression doesn’t negate the rest of your video, which was so educational and entertaining (as always)!

[@TamarDart]

@@aleece4 thank you for bringing this up. This has been well known in the natural health world for many years. Emotional and physical health both play a part. A huge contributing factor is gut microbiome dysbiosis. There's plenty of research, it just hasn't made it into the mainstream (there's also a financial incentive there).

[@barrymaxwell3487]

@@TamarDart As the brain develops with trauma as a child it creates new pathways which lead to these imbalances. Learning new ways can make changes though like anything.

[@jessicaharrington980]

At around 16:45, Tate is being asked "how do you know that?" in response to Tate's statement that everything he does is conscious and Tate demonstrates an anchor point movement and then a lot of verbal fluff follows. I think that Tate probably knows that what he's saying doesn't hold up and he's getting uncomfortable being questioned.

[@jeunese]

Also, the woman doesn't OWN the boat in that metaphor. It's not the same outcome.

[@astrophysicistguy]

Watching him talk about anything is the poster child of what happens to uneducated humans when they become adults.

[@jasonwolfe2991]

Uneducated? He's obviously a chess master.

[@daryarama]

@@jasonwolfe2991 he can continue playing/teaching chess.. not a life coach to younger generation on hot to treat women. (As an example)

[@jasonwolfe2991]

@@daryarama I wonder if even plays chess.

[@iconc1402]

For someone contemptuous of emotional men, my sense is his are barely controlled. It wouldnt take much to tip him. In some ways he seems infantile. And that he's overcompensating. I am concerned also as women (and Men) are questioning social engineering and the emasculation of men, that there will be an "overcorrection". Some people will be drawn to that, I guess that's their choice. Theres many lost women and resentful men out there. Amazing how just the loudest most obnoxious person in any room can seem to be dropping wisdom (and hes audacious enough that he's shameless, and its refreshing when someone's like that, especially when theres nuggets of truth). Must be evolutionary, because it so often works. Loud= power. Id be interested in looking at his upbringing.

[@ShockwaveDawn]

@26:30 I think the "disagreement smile" is considered a smile because of the dimples. I also think it propagates to the eyes. I was having a similar reaction through this video, literally laughing at the absurdity at some points. Not because it made me happy, but because I found it absurd. Although I'm not sure why we react in such a manner to absurdity.

[@thesingerintheshower]

But, Spidey, the ban makes sense because he has shown that he is unpredictable in his posts and to leave him on the platforms would require constant monitoring of his posts to be sure of which ones are suitable for keeping up and which ones are so dangerous and harmful because they promote violence towards women, for instance.

[@nica8791]

If I would ask my mom if she is regretting having me one answer could be "well, I asked the devil to take you back but she didn't want to." So...

[@anonymousaccount8941]

You kind of get the sense that he had a rough upbringing. He strikes me as someone who witnessed and experienced DV from an abusive, aggressive dad so that is normal to him. I wondered if this was a character he was playing so was interested to watch this.

[@pathsoflife2327]

"If we are watching the movie in the Andrew Tate language of just obnoxious arrogance, I can make subtitles of like what that means in *human terms* " - killed me 😂😂😂

[@GeorgeRoumpos]

Spidey, you are great at teaching me! I even noticed several signs of contempt while you were talking about this man.

[@kevindaniel1337]

Thanks Spidey, he clearly has issues and seems to be appealing to people experiencing similar issues with self esteem and feelings of worth.

[@reidann70]

Sooooo.....he doesn't realize that the sheer reason he is spewing these rants is because of his emotions???

[@ianmartin1840]

Well structured breakdown of the actual communication and message behind the "noise". Thank you. Insightful.

[@lawbyreece]

I appreciate the video, and understand disagreement. I do not agree with deplatforming, persona non-gratafying people with whom we disagree, even vehmently. I understand that this is not a common opinion anymore.

[@M.J.R.]

Talking about emotions, he himself is full of emotions so over dramatic, sounds so angry

[@noemitedeschi9884]

Living in Europe, this is the first time I hear about this guy. I'll only say: I'm happy he's been banned, we don't need people like that because they are dangerous for women AND for men. What we need are nice, caring, intelligent people like you, Spidey. I really appreciate your passion and even your anger when talking about disrespect, misogyny and violence. This content made me unconfortable and mad because I heard those unacceptable statements from that guy, but at the same time I thank you for the service you are doing by exposing him. It seems like it wasn't easy for you as well.

[@SadAss.]

Bet you never watched a full video of him

[@Chris95J0]

I absolutely love your content! Please never stop making great videos

[@Flayed221]

Regardless of what you think of him the way he's been censored and removed from platforms is so frustrating. Because people are only happy when it's someone they disagree with. As if it won't happen to someone they like or agree with or someone who really doesn't "deserve" it eventually.

[@anastasiapohl.]

You wouldn’t say the same thing about the KKK…. Taint is straight up calling for violence towards women, if that’s not a violent hate group against an entire group of people that should be deplatformed, idk what is. Facebook, Instagram, KZbin etc are not beholden to the laws of free speech, they’re private companies who can dictate who they let onto their platform.

[@amaniahmed5481]

He might have been removed for legal reasons too. He is still under investigation for quite a few things , including human trafficking. Watch this summary about his life, his morals ( or lack there of) and his basic criminal actions: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fnuXqaKujqasl5Y

[@aug8478]

It's not frustrating at all, it is what he deserves.

[@renseal475]

Two things I wanna share: 1) I need to pitch in something regarding the depression at the 15 min mark. Lack of dopamine is not a causation for depression, it is one of the many symptoms. The reason why I say that is because whenever a client does a scan, they have a client that is probably already depressed, and they factually see the dopamine levels are below average. It is just fact from the data, but how or why did the dopamine drop? A myth is rolling about stating that "if you just fix the dopamine, then you fix your depression", which is incredibly harmful for individuals that most likely have had an incredibly traumatic event somewhere in their life or live in toxic relationships, which is why they are anxious/hypervigilant which is why they eventually become depressed (there are more ways to get depressed, but this is one of them) To bring a crash course for context on depression. Depression itself is oftentimes the outcome after a scenario of "hypervigilance" (the cortisol as you mentioned), and the period of how long hypervigilance has been can express itself in different period of depression. As Jim Carrey describes it, is a state of "deep rest". The body is, to a degree, poisoned by its own cortisol, hence why a lot of people that are depressed or frequently anxious are incredibly tired and don't get the sleep they need (even if you sleep!), due to the cortisol in the blood. Remember that depression is an incredibly natural bodily reaction, and it is partially shutting down to rest and repair. And it takes a loooong while. I highly recommend reading Johann Hari's book - Lost Connections, that really deep dives and debunks a lot about depression, how and why it happens, and they provide inputs from a lot of scientists on the hunt to define depression and what causes it. 2) Im not fully bouncing off your or Tate's phrase of "If I believe in it, therefore I have/am it", but I do wanna say that there is something semi-close to it that I've noticed that we as humans do, is what I wanna call "sub-conscious embodiment". Or as a life-coach called Kjell Enhager (Recommended to see his video called "The difference that makes the difference) calls it "chosen truths", but I wanna consider them more sub-conscious. Is when we use a lot of the "I am" statement. At least for people that try to sell themselves for being a certain way, which as you know can be both consciously or sub-consciously. "Oh I am so clumsy, you know how I am." (or in Tate's case.. trying to embody an "alpha male") We put titles on ourselves based on things we do/act/have, and the more we say them the more we might actually embody them (but there is a catch). I personally try to avoid using "I am", and instead use "I have" or "I feel". And I am not saying for people to stop using the "I am", but maybe see if there is a change in you by altering how much it is used. Excessive use of slapping on the "Oh I am this way.. you know how it is" whenever you do something you are not proud of, might keep you in the track. Some people when they get diagnosed with something, also do sub-conscious embodiment (i've done this at multiple occasions), or people that are extreme with Zodiac signs. "Oh.. you are a Pisces, they can't be with Leo.." "Omg I am a gemini, you know they are craaaaazaaayyyy". Knowing the internet and how people can be with certain content, It wouldn't surprise me that they would believe in what Andrew Tate is saying, cus he is straight up saying that he doesn't believe in ghosts or depression, and is encouraging others to not believe in it either. It becomes an awkward "these puzzle pieces are way too different, but with some force and.. tadaaa, now my gang let's apply the same method and mindset to both of these.", "I am an alpha now, and alphas deal with depression like this, rurururrurgh!" And to tie together this long post of mine to my "conclusion" that I am trying to do, is my speculation on Tate is that he is trying to embody "not weak, not weak, not weak" (or "alpha", like he wants to call it) all the time. And he is preaching it to his viewers. But the thing is, the subconscious mind cannot remove "not/do not/don't" (in an activity sense). Examples: "Don't miss, don't eat the cookies, don't fall asleep, don't think of a red tomato, dont think of a blue tie, dont think of a white van, dont think of a giraffe with comically short legs. At best, you probably thought of all those things, and THEN maybe thought about something else. Bottom line, and what I wanna encourage.. Is to be more aware of how and what we feed the subconscious. Small seeds become big stubborn weeds.

[@mydayismyday]

leave comments super rarely, but OMG "i've always wanted people to view me as honorable and intelligent and I'm at that point where now it's undeniable" cracked me up big time!! :D :D :D I don't know anything about this guy, but just few seconds of watching any of his clips is showing all you need to know - and there's not much to know...

[@farkleberry867]

He's right that not allowing your emotions to control your actions is a good thing. What he doesn't seem to understand is that complete suppression of emotions actually indicates a lack of control.

[@winxclubstellamusa]

The best decisions are made with logic and weighting pros and cons PLUS morals and emotions together, not either or. I 100% agree that a complete suppression of emotions and self emotional abandonment is a sign of lack of control.

[@oryctolaguspumpkin]

I really enjoyed the extra info you gave with pointing out and explaining the fallacies. I do disagree with you about deplatforming him. I think it was necessary to stop him from causing more harm, to any men who follow him, but more importantly any women in the lives of those men. Hopefully in the absence of his content those men will find their way to healthier and more balanced content on life and relationships and as a result 'de-programme' themselves. I think the biggest danger of his content was that much of it gave an easy reason for any life struggles men watching him might be facing. It was all the fault of women. By scapegoating women it stops the men from taking a look at themselves and taking accountability for improving their own situation. It's much easier to blame someone else for your problems than do the work needed to fix them.

[@heartlightintuition]

I agree with you, I was over the moon about his deplatforming. If this kind of content is permitted on mainstream social media and the creators are able to profit from it, more of them will do it. I think it's a pretty important line in the sand for humanity to draw regarding the internet, and I'm relieved that companies with questionable morals have been willing to draw the line there.

[@amaniahmed5481]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/fnuXqaKujqasl5Y

[@michelleboard3846]

Love to watch your subconscious body language when you get angry/frustrated and then to transition to teaching us the body lanuage... proves to me that you are real. I would almost expect someone with your knowledge of body language would try to hide it more but I like that you don't.

[@roselynn263]

Oh, so a man isn't allowed to cry for their lost child or a family member? Smh.

[@loriclinchard5206]

I wish more people would recognize that ANGER is also an emotion, so that they would more easily see that women are not more emotional than men. What people like Tate are criticizing (when he says women are more emotional) is EMPATHY. Would Tate say that “a good man” can also control his anger??? An angry, aggressive person is fully in an emotional state!

[@larky368]

Hate is also a prevalent emotion of his.

[@carladavis1473]

The saddest thing is that this man has a ton of make followers that live him and his views and behavior.

[@CassKit]

„WHY is shocking women into compliance always the goooooaaaal?“ 🤣😂😂😂

[@TSte18]

39:32 but even in this sentence when he says that "Some Men are born with a Fire inside of them" implying that Men with that "Fire" are Better...

[@miss_c_83]

I've been binging your videos all week and last night I watched the Prince Andrew interview when he was talking about his involvement with Epstein. I actually learned alot from you! I saw clusters of deception, I noticed so much more about his facial expressions than I would have before. The same can be said for a few interviews I've watched today, I see all these things I never picked up on before, so I wanted to say thank you Spidey 😊 would you consider doing more on the royals? I would love to get your opinions on the Princess Diana interview where she talked about Charles and Camilla. I would love to see how you read Prince Andrews interview with the BBC aswell. Thanks again 🤗

[@queensurvivor]

Nope....me too Rob...But I have to agree with his points! Obviously this guy has led a privileged life. Life as a "woman" has been Hell for me and my family. We are Survivors ad No one and no One Man will take that away from me/us!!! You go Spidey!!!!

[@barbaraabramovitz9987]

I agree with your analysis. But I don’t really understand why he was banned. People say all kinds of offensive stuff on social media all the time. Do you think that women who believe that women have it harder than men and say it in an offensive way would ever be banned?

[@jasonwolfe2991]

Of course they wouldn't, and it seems to me he's very much like a male version of a radical feminist.