What is Jada Pinkett Smith HIDING? Body Language Analyst Reacts. Marriage to Will, The Slap & More

[@thomasrios3913]

Wow!!!! The difference between the ways she told the apology story two different times is amazing! Great catch! This is why I love this channel, the amount of time you put in to watch not just one interview but all of them and catch such a big difference is amazing! Analyzing one interview is great but having that comparison to see her tell the same story two very different ways is gold! Question for you. Does this noticeable difference in tone and delivery mean that one or both of her stories are a lie? What can we deduce about the reality of what happened?

[@TheBehavioralArts]

Thanks Thomas! Glad you enjoyed it. I was happy to put in that time to find a piece of gold like that 😊 Great question. It’s the thing that’s been bugging me the most since I saw the interviews. I’ve really been reflecting on it. The thing that is bothering me is IF he sincerely apologized to her and she felt his heart in that moment why didn’t she come out and say that much much much sooner? At the very least it could have cleared things up instead of leaving that tension up there. Why would she wait for him to decimate her on Netflix to bring this up? And not just her, Will has spoken about the event since then, why didn’t HE bring it up? Like “Jada told me that Chris came up to her immediately after…” Also. Why would Chris apologize to her sincerely and then go on Netflix and shred her to bits? He either feels bad for the joke or he doesn’t. That Netflix special didn’t sound like it was coming from someone who “meant you no harm” I would love for someone to ask Chris Rock if he went up to her and said that. I think there’s a possibility that he said something just to alleviate tension but I don’t know that it was this big heartfelt moment. Would love to get the viewers opinions on this. Do we think he sincerely and deeply apologized?, do we think he “tried to apologize” or did he not apologize at all? Please remember nobody has the answer (unless Chris Rock is watching) so let’s remain objective and respectful.

[@bombimpressionsministries]

I thought so tooo. Im glad someone said it.. gi jane was awesome. How does she know they wouldnt consider her gi jane 2.. it wasnt ever a bad thing which was weird. Narcissist do not comprehend things well at times🙏🏽❤️✌🏽

[@Intrepid_Insomniac]

I wonder if he said it at a different time with a different incident. So maybe that’s why she seems “truthful” because technically it did happen… just not in reference to that incident. They have had many conflicts over the years.

[@tammyroach3286]

@@TheBehavioralArts I don't think he did go to her and apologize right afterward. And the reason I say that is because I don't think that he thought he done anything wrong. He didn't even know WHY Will slapped him at that time. But I loved his Joke. After all it is JUST a JOKE. And the whole alopecia thing is made up. Because if that were true, why wasn't that brought to the red table talk?

[@TheMinimalistTherapist]

This is all such great additional exploration Spidey! I wonder why we all love to speculate so much about this pair? For me personally it's because Jada has always seemed so inconsistent, I want to look for certainty. She always has me trying to nail jelly to the wall!

[@zhuzhiboo2771]

No, Jada. We won’t be buying your book.

[@Blooderfly17]

Agreed

[@wesleysimeonowolabi8069]

You. You won't. She will be fine. 🥴🥴

[@neva_nyx]

Nope. Not even going to request it at the library. She's told us everything in it already.

[@jessmarie148]

😂

[@tammyroach3286]

I've "heard" enough of her lies already (pun intended) I'm surely not going to pay money to her to read her lies.

[@renatarocha2524]

She is so full of it. I remember vividly in 2021 watching her red table talk show and her saying how she and will love each other so much that they don’t argue or fight. That when they feel like arguing they try to remember themselves how much they love each other and start speaking in a place of love. If they weren’t together since 2016 they were damn well playing a part so 100% she knew she was invited as Wills wife and she was used to being called that. She is so full of it.

[@wandamckinley1236]

She needs therapy her kids and her husband is so damaged she can't see that all this is attention seeking wow I use to respect her now I feel sorry for her she got money for therapy in private not in public and her mom is so wrong you support a healthy marriage with your kids you don't ever takes sides especially especially against the bread winner I feel sorry this woman need mental health

[@wandamckinley1236]

Jada needs help she is hurting for attention 😢

[@Fauntazee]

🤔With such a lovely head of hair, after yrs of marriage & still married, how can you forget you're his wife? Plus, I still don't understand what was so bad about the joke!

[@pierrelegendre2661]

I dont think she was invited in the sense of phone call “hi jada the awards show is sunday and if u available in wud like u to go with me as my wife”. I think it ws more like hey don’t forget we have the awards on sunday so dont make any plans. Sort of how it would be with any married couple. Both ppl know the event is near and one person reminds the other, not invites the other

[@prasad9002]

@@wandamckinley1236 What's wrong with her kids? They are fine young adults.

[@323azteca]

She is so calculating. The main thing that stands out to me and why she will never restore her image is that we never hear her defending Will nor speaking anything positive about him.

[@marycoleman4301]

Wills gay, it's a sham marriage

[@outernationalstudios]

That's true- I never hear her defend will at all- what a wife...

[@peekaboots01]

She's too busy talking about herself.

[@carriemitchell7010]

Well said 😊

[@carriemitchell7010]

​@@marycoleman4301really? I never thought that about him 🫤

[@SacredWaves]

My son has alopecia. It showed itself around the age of 8 or 9. It is terrible for kids, and even as an adult, it poses issues (socially) for him. It is definitely an insecurity for those who have it. However... her hair is so even and thick, it makes me wonder. It doesnt grow evenly when you have alopecia. It is patchy, thin in spots, and eyelashes/brows do the same thing. Some people have it allover and, like my son, have patchy hair on their legs or arms. I question everything Hollywood/political. Personally.. I dont believe her. Scandal is all I see.

[@vayoha02]

That sounds very judgmental!! Her hair is even bc she shaves her head completely bald. Her variation of Alecia is obviously different from your son's. I had (don't want it again!) Alopecia areata in 2021-22. I just had 2 spots. I am still recovering from it. The hair in those spots is thick but a little softer (I'm black). She has money, she will have access to treatments that we don't.

[@sarahwatson3192]

I have it. Mine is patchy and I’m very thankful that it doesn’t currently affect my head hair. My hair is just now growing back in spots that have been bald and highkeye thin for almost 12 years. My brows and eye lashes are patchy as all hell. I have a huge gap in my left eye brow and as of last week a small line of eye brow has started to grow back in the venter of the huge gap. I’m really excited about this, I have a stress related form of alopecia, as in it gets worse when I’m stressed. But my hair took 11 years to start coming back. My eyebrow has been disappearing for over 13 years, in the last two years it was at it worse. I had even started losing hair on my right brow which was never overly affected. But hair doesn’t grow back evenly with alopecia since it’s an auto immune disease, but one thing is for sure alopecia causes patches… not a single straight line on the scalp.

[@debraperkins4448]

Yep...'its' a LIAR‼️

[@debraperkins4448]

​@@sarahwatson3192-Try using : Cold Pressed, Hexane-free, Black Castor Oil, in a Glass Brown Bottle❤ Vaya con Dios

[@knightmare9622]

Jada had bald spots from too many hair weaves and using too much weave glue. She shaved her head and called it alopecia, for attention as usual. She lied, and real sufferers should call her out for it.

[@katfromthekong414]

The way she twists words to minimize and sometimes straight up redefine abusive behaviour as something positive and healthy doesn't sit well with me.

[@lastjob2011]

She talks quietly and slowly, to project wisdom. She uses new-age buzz words like healing, life partnership, and entanglement, to project a higher consciousness. Or, what my grandfather would call BS!

[@katfromthekong414]

@@lastjob2011 nailed it!

[@lolamar6064]

@@lastjob2011 she thinks she's some sort of guru, lol, soooo delusional.

[@bumblebee_ms]

@kathromthekong414 - It doesn't sit well with me either. I call her BS.

[@mazzid9973]

​@@lastjob2011Meaningless word salad 🥗 🤔😳🙄🐨💯🦘💯

[@ashleydavis1]

She’s giving Amber Heard level humiliation. I can’t with her 🤦‍♀️

[@krusher74]

such an evil witch

[@emilyvickery8081]

Heard, Markle and Jada are rowing a little row boat

[@lucycabral9069]

You read my mind

[@deantodd8103]

At least Amber hasn't been Heard from in a while. If only Jada could keep her mouth shut, too.

[@rebeccariehle2764]

🙌

[@carleenmc1]

I saw an interview where she said It’s nobody’s business. Ok you literally wrote a book about your business! I can’t with this woman!

[@prasad9002]

@@carleenmc1 It's her decision when she wants to open up.

[@jeanninelee8821]

My mother always tells me "A Liar needs a good memory" and this video is a prime example of that. It seems to me she's told so many little lies she can't keep her story straight.

[@Kewljean]

Exactly.

[@julieemery8963]

A liar is worse than a thief is what my mum would say, & yes one has to have a good memory to lie

[@pampietro8980]

My dad told me that when I was a little girl.

[@comejoin1764]

My grandma always used to say that, "you can sometimes trust a thief but you can never trust a liar"

[@prasad9002]

She doesn't even need to explain herself

[@elviragraydon4199]

I love how she tells what we she wanted us to see at the Oscar's but not what we all actually saw. This woman is a poster child for narcissism.

[@michaelwachendorf2096]

Thank you. The look was rage at the Oscars not shock or come on not this again. Please we ALL saw it shit they did 600 still frames of her face just before will went up there.

[@sebsebseb1905]

100%, exactly, she is narc, a pathological, because you have a personality style and a personality disorder, she has a disorder, that is not a style.

[@marisagoodman5817]

Oh my gosh , I agree completely ❤️

[@pinkyjudithngxulelo5055]

Totally agree

[@terrikrucina2023]

You hit the nail on the head.

[@auroram1718]

Jada possesses the remarkable ability to discern people's expectations, adapting her responses accordingly. However, her deliberate speech is not merely for the sake of effective communication; it's a tool she uses to carefully construct her explanations, tailoring them to gain approval and manipulate situations to her favor. This tendency to bend reality shields her from acknowledging her own shortcomings, as she constantly strives to justify her actions, making self-reflection and accountability challenging for her.

[@TheBehavioralArts]

Wow! What an amazingly articulated and brilliant comment! Love it 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻.

[@auroram1718]

O wow. I wrote my comment before you delivered the final analysis and I surprised myself of how I was able to decipher her ❤🎉 I’m learning from your analyses

[@TheBehavioralArts]

@@auroram1718 I think you absolutely nailed that and expressed it flawlessly. I can’t take credit for this. This is all you

[@jlebo001]

Spidey - you are a truly humble and generous human. Nice observation, Auroram.@@TheBehavioralArts

[@Positivityallthetime]

Well said👍🏾

[@Solitude54]

Jada is a liar. Liars forget their own lies and often have a hard time keeping their stories straight.

[@PJ-Sparkles]

She’s a narcissistic psychopath who tells the story that asserts control at the moment in whatever way they need to. She’s not tracking the details she’s told in past moments of asserting control - her narcissism tells her to believe the one she’s telling in the present moment.

[@angelartistic3056]

Amen to that! So true!

[@prasad9002]

@@Solitude54 lies about what?

[@shrileiok2303]

It was very interesting to me when she mentioned the alopecia and she said “my alopecia is not as extreme as most people who are dealing with THAT condition”. My question is, if she really has alopecia, wouldn’t she had said “THIS condition” instead of “THAT condition”? The wording to me sounded like she was putting some distance between herself and alopecia. To me, alopecia is alopecia whether you have an extreme case or not it is still alopecia. It makes me wonder if she really has that condition or she’s just using it to get attention. It’s just some food for thought.

[@caseyhauenschild6064]

I have thought the exact same thing

[@dianavillarreal-reid1418]

Yes!!! I have asthma but not as bad as others and I never say it the way she did, because I still do have it! Good catch!

[@jessicathompson5362]

I’m thinking she let a relaxer stay in too long and it temporally took her hair out. I could be wrong. Just guessing.

[@samanthakaya1623]

I thought alopecia caused bald patches. I never see bald patches on her head. Just a shaved hairstyle.

[@klevans01061973]

I say anything she does is for attention

[@CobraXXVI]

The most dramatic unlikeable narcissist in modern times. Now she's monetizing the controversy right out of the gate.

[@BlessedBeByHisGrace]

Spot on!!!

[@thecougarexperience]

It’s a close race with Amber Heard.

[@deantodd8103]

​@@thecougarexperience I think Jada, Amber, and Meghan Markle are all in the running. I'm not sure who takes home the good medal, the silver, or the bronze between them, though.

[@thecougarexperience]

@@deantodd8103 agreed! They are the narcissistic trilogy!

[@nidh1109]

​@@thecougarexperience Amber wins, tried to destroy,and I believe would have seen Johnny dead.

[@RealRickCox]

The only thing Jada is worthy of is being forgotten about. Forever. Any woman who disrespects her husband by sleeping with her son's best friend isn't worthy of a moment of our time or attention.

[@jeremiahbullfrog9288]

Not to mention disrespecting her son, yikes

[@bienvenidamercado8579]

She's a terrible wife absolutely..😢

[@gaiagem2012]

She has already explained that although married they were not together and they were both free to see whoever they wanted. Will had several women he was seeing as well. So did Will also disrespect the marriage?

[@joanna0988]

Will has had many girlfriends but I guess he's able to keep them quiet 😅

[@jeremiahbullfrog9288]

@@gaiagem2012 They're both extremely toxic, but fortunately it's not a contest. Will is facing come-uppance for bad behavior, whereas Jada is profiting financially. I think that's part of the directed responses -- not "because she's the woman and held to a different standard"

[@yayakelley7771]

I’m so glad you called out the alopecia lie. I’m a hairstylist. I have had clients who actually had alopecia. It’s so heartbreaking for the people who actually suffer from that medical disorder. I’ve actually cried with clients. She had no bald spots. I looked at pictures of her from every angle. If it was just freeing for her to shave her head own it! I get it. But to try to garner sympathy for having a disease is as low as it gets.

[@MsJoce1234]

Can a person with it bleach their hair?

[@JaneSmith0709]

Yep!

[@natashalands2144]

Thank You! I have alopecia she is a lying. She did not like Chris from previous Oscar jokes here and Will must have talked about this many times before. When Chris made more Jokes this year it set Will off. This women hates to be made fun of and cant take a joke a true narcissist through and through. And the way she explains Alopecia is a lie! You form new bald spots and some will go away but your hair overall does not ever grow back entirely all over. She is unimportant and a mouth breather

[@claudiabothma]

I agree. Her hair is plush. I buzz cut my hair on clipper length 2 and bleach it as well- because it's easier to manage and it suits me. There is no hair loss on Jada, it looks like my hair. She is an attention seeker and manipulative on so many levels, why she must manipulate general public is bizarre. To order a slap for a load of hooey is def up there on sociopathic scale. She knew there would be a prob with Chris because she was planning a problem!

[@Dominique_99]

Yes, I actually googled this and thought… I am pretty sure she is lying about the alopecia. I looked at people who actually have it and it’s completely different. She would have to have her head bald no hair coming through at all. And in some cases of alopecia people lose all of their hair including eyebrows and eyelashes not just patches. So she is lying. Someone else already worked out the timeline she gave about Tupac asking her to marry him in jail didn’t work because he had another girlfriend and was engaged to her. He then married her and she married Will. So this whole Tupac was my one true love garbage she’s got hanging over Wills head is just another way to manipulate and deceive him. She’s a serial abuser and liar in my book. I do feel sorry for Will because when your in a toxic abusive relationship it’s very difficult to get out of it. Especially with someone like Jada who realistically just tried to gaslight the entire planet. Listening to her for five minutes leaves me feeling confused and like I’m in some sort of weird cult.

[@PatricaKing]

The question you ask many times(about the differences in her responses) can easily be answered in the "intentions" of her heart. She wasn't, isn't married. But if you ask Will, (my guess) is he would say he is married. He acts like he is and he calls her his wife. Jada can't even remember she is married, for her it ended a long time ago. But the trouble with a narcissist is that they will torture you until someone does die and it HAS to end.😮 I sincerely hope that Will moves on and truly heals. This is sad to watch and my heart hurts for their family.😢

[@ria-e]

I think they haven't divorced because Will is so obsessed with keeping a cookie cutter image that he doesn't want to. Hence why she said he came to be with her and wasn't ready to tell the world they were actually separated. I also think Will was having the exact same "affairs" during their separation and that's why she said in their red table interview that he's already got her back for it... insinuating that he's done his fair share. I just think they both understand that Will is the money maker and they don't want to tarnish his image. However, I don't believe the Will that is presented to fhe public is the real Will Smith.

[@1purplekw]

I don't believe she was the only one to cheat.

[@klevans01061973]

100%, it's sad,he's pitiful looking now. She has even took that spark outta his eyes. He just looks wore out

[@OneMillionSpenders]

Jada is his beard. It’s well known in the industry and it’s all coming out now with the Diddy drama. They’ve been separated because it’s only a marriage of appearances. Unfortunately.

[@prasad9002]

@@ria-e Divorce won't make them broke. They are together because they want to be.

[@ninastanek3388]

I always liked the GI Jane joke. It was a compliment. No way Chris apologized to her. And she’s literally making her story up based on your analysis 😂

[@MandyBurner-xv4zo]

That's exactly what I thought! If someone compared me to GI chain I would be highly complemented. It made absolutely no sense other than maybe she just always had contempt for Chris and she's not going to reveal that.

[@DawnDavidson]

Yeah, that was something I wondered too. Did she say what she said BECAUSE OF Spidey’s video? I think it’s possible. As he said, many of us are here (*raises hand*) because of the video about The Slap. Is it so surprising that SHE might have seen that video, and “tuned” her answers to specifically reflect that interpretation? I think it’s likely, whether it’s conscious or unconscious. Great video as always, Spidey. The section on “leading questions” is so spot on and topical for me personally, as someone studying to become a therapist. Highly illuminating!

[@paulan7218]

exactly. I don’t understand why she took it as a bad thing Demi Moore was friggin ripped in that movie. She looked amazing, and to be compared to that Jada should have seen it as a compliment

[@rebeccagarrett7111]

@@paulan7218. She doesn’t have anywhere near the acting talent as the woman who played GI Jane. She obviously doesn’t like Chris Rock.

[@TrishDigginsDesign]

And she’s still wearing extremely short hair. If anyone has money for wigs this woman does. So… why the big fuss over the GI Jane joke? I’d LOVE to look like Demi Moore - especially when she was THAT ripped!

[@debbiehaney2467]

Has anyone other than Jada shared that Chris Rock came to her on stage to say he meant no harm? If that happened, you’d think a huge number of people would have shared this account almost immediately following the incident. Cameras were rolling, whether professional ones or phones, and no one released it? This just seems suspicious to me, but maybe it happened. I certainly haven’t followed her or Will Smith since then. Jada just comes off smarmy to me pre- and post- Oscar slap.

[@thecougarexperience]

I was thinking the same thing!

[@ileanahernandez1709]

We all know she's lying!

[@Kiefsti]

Oh yea, it absolutely never happened 😂

[@JoniDiMaggio]

If smarmy means fake or phony than I agree 🤔

[@debbiehaney2467]

@@JoniDiMaggio oily, greasy, slick, insincere…so yes, phony and fake.

[@ordykamolane4455]

"What does that mean? Were you there as his great Aunt? " 😂😂I fell

[@k2skipper]

😂😂😂😂

[@AvecPoesie]

"Twice removed." Lol

[@prasad9002]

@@ordykamolane4455 You losers

[@kimberlywolcott8117]

I just wanted to comment on the video she turned on and was filming Will. He clearly made his boundary of not being filmed without asking clear and she repeatedly tried to get him to answer her question on film, blatantly ignoring his boundary that he was vocalizing. Good for him for holding firm and that one clip was so so so telling about their relationship and how she behaves in it. Obviously we can’t diagnose but I get incredibly strong narcissistic vibes from her.

[@SuZ4242]

Same. She rode Tupac and Will for fame and fortune. She is now trying to rationalize her stupid decisions that only BENEFITTED HER.

[@fartnloud7411]

just Amber 2.0.

[@garlicgalore]

That video really bothered me, too. He was saying stop and she didn't stop! And to top it off, she posted it?!

[@louloubell6586]

I agree. This probably explains why Will hasn't gone on her book tour, not one interview. He doesn't want to be associated with what she's written because he knows the truth. Give him some privacy and respect jada.

[@rheeryder2524]

Nope. He's been on a book tour stop or two with her. It's online & even went viral.

[@sallyreid151]

I love your non-judgmental, empathetic analysis. You're not bashing Jada but at the same time you're not trying to defend her for the moments where it looks like she's being deceptive.

[@prasad9002]

@@sallyreid151 Actually he is bashing Jada. I'm glad it won't age well. How pathetic everyone looks seeing Will and Jada are still together

[@jessicamarydubois4370]

My parents met in their 20s...in fact my Mum was 17. They were married for 54 years and they passed within 9 months of each other. They were deeply in love. They went through tough times financially in the 80s. The one thing I will always take from their marriage is that they always respected one another. When Jada implied that getting married in your 20s meant that 'eyes were going stray', I felt very angry because in a world were the true meaning of marriage is being lost, people with influence should be showing the younger generation by example. I saw what happened at the Oscars and she (in my opinion) 100% incited Will to do something because Will was laughing until Jada gave him this weird look and he suddenly jumped up and made a beeline for the stage. She's definitely the boss in that relationship and I just feel she's got a manipulative personality....but that's just my feeling and I could be totally wrong. To all you young people out there.... Marriage is a beautiful union between 2 people who promise to support one another in becoming their best Version of themselves. Marry someone who builds you up, not someone who tears you down...

[@meganmalicki9857]

I agree 💯 with everything you said ❤️💕❤️

[@onlooker4564]

If I was a 'beard' I would want to portray myself as a woman in charge too. And that book ain't gonna say the truth either...

[@LisaBowers]

My husband and I just celebrated our 33rd anniversary. After all these years, I _still_ get giddy when he comes home from work. I can't imagine treating my husband the way Jada treats Will. It's heartbreaking.

[@sharronjones1017]

Well said👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💯💯💯💯🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@cindyvanderhouven7917]

I’m sorry for your loss but what a beautiful Iove story! ❤

[@ldcallaghan3836]

😂 what you did with the whole keep my wife's, ex wife not divorced..etc name outta your ***mouth was golden!! Lololol good point

[@jeanniepetrov9934]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 ❤

[@ashleydavis1]

I’m dying to know. Why won’t this woman just stop?

[@caroljames6371]

If she does stop, then no one will pay any attention to her. She wants and loves all the attention - good or bad.

[@jeremiahbullfrog9288]

I guess you'll have to read the answer in her book, lol hard pass

[@Terry-lh8cn]

Because all attention is good attention to a narcissist.

[@Mary-1s2fly]

@@Terry-lh8cn Exactly.

[@mariya.2101]

If she stops, so does the attention, and if the the attentions stops, so does the money flow💸💸💸💸💸

[@susie2366]

To those of us who were abused by narcissist family members growing up, she sends chills down our spines and fills us with dread. She’s emphasizing Chris’ apology now to set herself up as the queen he had to bow to and to negate what he said in the Netflix show.

[@fifilafleur5555]

@@RainboopI still don’t feel sorry for her or make excuses for her behavior.

[@justjosie8963]

@@Rainboop once? Some old lady? Or someone of importance in your life on a regular basis?

[@LyraDavis]

@@justjosie8963ok, those are personal questions, and your motivation for asking them seems to stem from a desire to either validate or minimise and invalidate their experience.

[@LyraDavis]

@@RainboopI agree. I think she developed NPD as a trauma response and has now become the thing that created her. She has also weaponised therapy speak to sound enlightened and just, when it’s just another tool for controlling her image and the narrative she wants to sell. If the cycle isn’t broken, child victims of abuse become either adult victims of other narcissists, or become narcissists themselves . Only those who break the cycle get to call themselves survivors. I feel sorry for the child she was. I can’t abide the adult she has become.

[@sharronjones1017]

💯💯💯💯💯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@Jammn126]

This is all about selling her book. Why should I believe anything she says? Poor Will. For her to have an affair with her son’s best friend and think it’s okay makes me sick.🤮

[@ileanahernandez1709]

He knew about it and why is no one asking for Will Smith to be arrested he committed assault and battery!

[@virtuous8685]

I agree..She didn't tell him to slap Chris..he made that decision on his own. I don't know why she is being blamed?@@ileanahernandez1709

[@deantodd8103]

​@@ileanahernandez1709 The people in charge at the Academy asked Chris Rock backstage if he wanted to press charges and have Will Smith arrested. Rock said no because in spite of the horrendous act, he wanted Smith to be able to accept his Oscar. I'm going to give him credit for taking the high road in that moment.

[@CT-mw8lm]

I used to think "poor Will" too until i realized he's too grown to be acting the way he is lol

[@liselotteljungquist4568]

Not affair, 'entanglement'. Whatever the heck that is. Sounds like something one would say to try to downplay and distance oneself from one's actions to me, but what do I know.

[@gavinp214]

I love the touch of the “entanglement dog” appearing on your shelf behind you after 18:37 when it wasn’t there before. Don’t know if that was intentional or not but that made me smile and go back to check.

[@Trinigmatic]

I DID TOO 😂😂😂

[@pzh3334]

I think it's SO GROSS that she wanted to spontaneously film Will and want him to lie, clearly, that their therapist has been "so helpful". She knows where they're at as a couple (bad) and she knew she was not respecting his boundaries by filming him, and then STILL not cutting it off once he asked her not to. Why even share that video besides to try to get sympathy for "how he is towards her" ? He was clearly not on board with being filmed or answering that question, yet she tries to point the finger at him and "the foolishness" she has to put up with, Ugh i can't take "poor me" crap from the perpetrator!!!

[@KerryHopkins]

Right, he was in his own home so had a right to privacy

[@JoniDiMaggio]

@@KerryHopkins And she's completely clueless as to how she looks acting this way. She just keeps digging her hole deeper and deeper. Her book will spell disaster for the image she's trying to achieve. I hope Will dumps her soon

[@MissLovelyLiberal]

Jada is a textbook gas lighting, narcissist.

[@TrishDigginsDesign]

Yes, yes… we ALL saw the foolishness HE had to put with. I’d be mad - FURIOUS if it was my livelihood - if my spouse filmed me for the internet without my permission and I’m not famous. That’s so so so wrong. Such a lack of respect - no therapist worth their salt would say that her behavior there was acceptable.

[@julig2219]

Yes!! She also kind of reminds me of amber heard.. The way they both try to convince others that they’re the victim 🤢🤢

[@curtcoeurdelion]

For a woman with an alleged hair disease she has plenty of hair again and can even bleach it. Amazing recovery!

[@racheldueck8100]

There is another possibility. There are treatments for alopecia that can restore the hair growth, but it turns the hair white.

[@sinta5756]

My son has alopecia but is in treatment so he has hair right now. As long as he takes the medicine the hair stays but if he stops...

[@truthbetold6942]

It takes months and months for medicine to take affect - if you are lucky and your system responds. Many have no response. Regardless, the response is slow and comes in patchy at first. It does not come in completely full weeks later after being completely bald.

[@KookieDough]

Alopecia hair loss isn’t always permanent, a full head of hair can grow back like it did for my sister.

[@kathyb5246]

Jada’s hair loss is due to what she’s doing to her hair. A plastic surgeon said that she has had a face lift (allegedly) and the cut is at the location of the alopecia line. We will never know the truth.

[@mjd959725]

She wants us to believe that they were separated when we all saw the raw pain in Will's eyes on Table Talk when she exposed him publicly for the world to see. That was not the emotion or reaction from a "separated or basically divorced " man. That was a hurt Husband.

[@megaloschemos9113]

So true. If they mutually separated why did he look so anguished and hurt in his eyes?

[@thecozyconstellation]

oh yes. the pain on his face makes me want to cry and give him a hug. he looks totally destroyed. and she's relishing inflicting so much pain and humiliation on him. classic narcissist!

[@prasad9002]

@@mjd959725 Will Smith admitted to seeing other women on Oprah Winfrey show. So stop this nonsense

[@prasad9002]

@@mjd959725 Even divorced people still feel hurt when partners move on. We are humans. Will Smith admitted to seeing other women on Oprah Winfrey show. At least they are putting the 8 year old dirty laundry behind them

[@prasad9002]

@@mjd959725 Will Smith admitted to seeing other women on Oprah Winfrey show. And even separated or divorced. It's not easy imaging your partner with another. At least they are together now.

[@carriemyers7209]

In one interview she said that she thought it was a skit!! But now she's saying "oh boy told you" she definitely told him..if he says anything you better do something or else!!

[@kimberly8164]

I think her shock that her legal husband, would refer to her as a wife....how vile

[@tiredofitall9213]

Yes, because regardless of whether they were man & wife behind closed doors, they're at the Oscars together as a couple🤯 They're also still legally married as you said. Jada is trying to distance herself from the situation, meanwhile, she is one of the main protagonists.😮

[@JW-vd4il]

Why is their story always changing about their marriage???? Together... separated... committed to forever... open relationship... (? I've heard rumors of that but never in those words from either of them). WTH? AND I do not give a care about the state of your marriage or the status! But y'all keep DRAGGING OUT dirty laundry in public. Just STOP, please! 😂 I do think Jada is worse than Will but they are both clearly messed up and together a hot mess. They have enough money for therapists, please leave us alone. Yeah I know I'm watching this, too. But more for Spidey's take about what this nutso is up to, NOW. I hate it and I can't look away! 😂

[@prasad9002]

@@kimberly8164 So? Many relationships are like that

[@ForgetTheHouse]

From someone who suffered years of narcissistic abuse, I’m calling it. Jada is the biggest narcissist in the book. Will is so absorbed into her manipulation- his willingness to “prove” his loyalty and dedication to her to the point he snapped and then! Jada said “don’t worry baby I got you, the nuances and complexities - say it like this and ‘you’ll be good’” newsflash Jada, since your last round of bullshit society has made themselves more aware of people like you. We see right through you and I pray Will can push through this to the other side. I see exactly what he is going through.. narcissistic abuse makes you someone you don’t even know, don’t even recognize. You become so absorbed and isolated into the manipulation and then everyone turns against you and it’s like “yes… I really do have to push through with this narrative now…” it’s something you don’t know until you’ve lived it.. I stand with Will and I pray for his peace….😔😮‍💨🙏🏻

[@jeanmarie3258]

I'm glad you survived 💜

[@ForgetTheHouse]

@@jeanmarie3258 🙏🏻😌❤️

[@barefooterin2817]

1000% agree with you

[@lgsalem]

You are so right, You loose your natural personality when living with a narcissist. It becomes suppressed. You live fearfully.

[@JustDawn]

I'm with you on this. Many people see it but someone who's been through it, REALLY SEE'S it and it pisses me off just to listen to her bs.

[@lanaladenhauser]

Man, you have so many talents, it blows my mind! I love it how you always do your homework about the topic you are covering, and always present the options of your interpretations, remain objective and fair, but the comedy you just put in this video is pure brilliance! I love everything about this video and I hope the "Entanglement" stays on that shelf in every video. I laughed from my heart. Thank you for being you!

[@thomasrios3913]

I completely agree. I mean what other creator say through hours of footage of this woman to be able to spot the massive difference in the two ways she told the Chris Rock apology story. And it’s one of the best ways anyone has shown her ability to adapt. Great job! And yeah. The “what was he supposed to say” part had me rolling 😂. He’s hilarious

[@prasad9002]

@@lanaladenhauser 8 years old dirty laundry Bravo 👏👏👏👏 😂

[@MzCoffee123]

This man must be protected at all costs. I am on a binge of your videos right now and I am loving each and every one of them!!!

[@TheBehavioralArts]

Thanks 🤗 glad you’re enjoying them

[@paulabeecham1276]

I’m surprised she said how she told Will that she knew Chris was going to say/do something because of they’re past interactions. She previously said how she thought the slap was a prank. She planted the seed , then watched Will walk up and Slap Chris. How and why did she think it was a skit that Will didn’t tell her about when Will didn’t tell her about. Will laughed at the joke , she rolled her eyes and Will was prompted to take action. My mother’s and everyone else I know that has Alopecia and there is no even hair coverage. It’s barely even hair . It’s patches. Then she has dyed her fragile Alopecia hair with Harsh Platinum Blonde hair dye. She’s such a Manipulating Narcissist ! !

[@Victoria-gq8gt]

Yeah, she really cares about taking care of her 'alopecia' doesn't she, by not doing the things that cause it or stress the body. Liar liar pants on 🔥 fire. Shes got so many lies playing out, she's juggling them all up in the air and they're dropping all around her.

[@nextdoor2u]

My guess is she is dying it to hide a lot of gray hair.

[@africansister]

Ohh let's say her alopecia has been cured 😊.

[@paulabeecham1276]

@@africansister there isn’t a cure that I know of. If so let me know so I can tell my mother about it.

[@sharronjones1017]

ABSOLUTELY 💯💯💯💯💯🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@pnwlady]

Jada is insufferable. This is what happens when you don’t have to work and everything is given to you. You become navel gazing & self-absorbed. If she was appreciative towards the man who’s supported her I would respect her more.

[@Kathryn-zo5hl]

She is nothing in comparison to him. She knew the only way to keep him interested was to show that she wasn't interested. He could've been with much nicer sweeter and more intelligent women but only keeps her bc she manipulates her

[@kate2create738]

Jada's level of "healing" is to divert any accountability how she hurts others more directly than she wants us to believe. From how she sidestepped addressing that she had an affair, cheating on Will, with her son's friend! That is at least 3 men she hurt in that sentence alone. And she's done it again with Chris, acting like she didn't encourage Will to lose his cool and take it out on Chris. Her excuse is to pin the blame back on Chris and 'crazy' Will, but not on her. It's not working cause she is the source of the tension and the drama as refuses to admit it!

[@DeCurtaRican]

I also find it funny that she waited until Afeni Shakur was no longer around to refute her claims of this romantic affection Tupac supposedly had for her.

[@deevanlife4049]

Deep down this woman is very insecure and she is looking for validation in all the wrong places. Bless her heart 💜

[@prasad9002]

@@kate2create738 Jada only rolled her eyes. She has the right not to like something. And Chris Rock started it. Chris takes dig at Jada every opportunity he gets. Taj Jackson wants to hit Chris for punching his dead uncle Michael Jackson as a punching bag. Dose Taj Jackson have martial issues. Many husband's would have hit Chris. If they upset his wife. No dirty laundry please

[@prasad9002]

@@deevanlife4049 insecure of what? Her family loves her.

[@kate2create738]

@@prasad9002 People were willing to leave the Smith laundry until things got so bad that Will thought it was okay to smack someone on a live stage for the most harmless joke in Hollywood history. Chris didn't start it, he got dragged into it. Keep yourself in check before you make false presumptions, it was Jada who put it out there that she walks all over her husband while Will is coming across as a simp boy losing his respect by taking it out on another person who is not involved. Get a reality check, you have issues if you think this was brought on to Chris while we the public were forced to see the laundry Jada aired when no one wanted to know in the first place!

[@DelieceBrooks]

I'd love to see someone interview her with receipts of her changing her story, and stay on her to actually answer a question with no beating around the bush; tryna sound deep; talking you in circles

[@prasad9002]

@@DelieceBrooks She dosent need to answer to anyone.

[@kupcakesugar817]

I know this is a bit of a reach, and maybe I’m reading too much into it. But when she explains how alopecia manifests, she said something interesting. She says, 9:51 “My alopecia is not as extreme as other people dealing with that condition.”. Usually when people describe symptoms that they experience, they take a bit of ownership of the condition by gesturing towards themselves and referring to it as ‘this condition’. This would indicate the acceptance and emotional connection that they have towards the condition. Or maybe she is separating the differences between other people’s experiences and her own. Maybe she does have it, maybe she doesn’t. Jada has proven that she is slippery, I don’t trust much of what she says.

[@kathleenhurd205]

My thoughts exactly

[@DawnDavidson]

Excellent point! A tiny hint of that distancing language Spidey talks about. She doesn’t say “THIS condition.” She says “THAT condition”. Well spotted!

[@traneawilson6024]

ABSOLUTELY. I have fibromyalgia, and some people don't struggle as badly with the widespread pain. When I'm asked why my pain is worse than another sufferer. I always say dealing with this condition is horrible, yet the symptoms and pain levels are different per individual. Her hair loss mimics traction alopecia, not alopecia areata.

[@sidlerm1]

Utter BS analysis , I have an auto immune condition and that's the way I talk about it, I don't even understand what you may mean by taking ownership. Everyone reacts and deals differently with that kind of issue.

[@quentonjames3222]

I really want to thank you because my 11 yr old daughter has extreme retention issues which causes her to be disinterested in day to day learning when it comes to school ...but i showed her your video on manipulation and gaslighting and i for the first time saw the light come on... she's not only engaged but hungry to learn more...and as a psych major who admittedly has struggled to find ways to get her more engaged....i am so thankful... You have no idea how you have changed my daughter's life and inturn my own.... From the bottom of my heart.... thank you!!!!!

[@lovesstorms]

That's so amazing! I'm so glad for you and your daughter. I hope she continues to find new and interesting ways to learn about her passion.

[@quentonjames3222]

@lovesstorms....ty so much!!

[@melaniegenuinely]

I hope he sees your comment because that’s truly awesome!!!!!

[@percival-hz5zj]

That's great, I'm happy for you. I home educate my 9 year old daughter, and it's tough! I hear you 🙏

[@phoenixkali]

Ont be frustrated by your daughter not engaging in schoolwork, she is obviously a very bright girl and elementary education can hold some pupils back in the wrong kind of mental stimulation, if any. Be glad that you have found a subject that you can bond over and will increase her understanding of her potential despite the grades she may receive in lessons.

[@nutanlohiya]

Her need to look good, be blameless is hard wired in. The trauma response, you mentioned from her childhood plus being a celebrity is probably the cause. Fabulous analysis, superb efforts at the back end Spidey!!

[@Mara_143]

💯💯💯💯

[@mawmawlisa]

Agreed totally

[@debsbrown8128]

Great job, Behavioral Arts! Thank you for this very informative, objective, and gracious analysis. This was my first time viewing your channel; I’ll Be Back!😊

[@noblestrength]

Wow! I like how you pointed out the contrasting references in her response about Chris Rock’s apology. The inconsistency…🤔

[@alicas_]

I feel like Jadas whole identity have been being Will’s wife( or being Tupacs ex, which she talks about A LOT). That is why she doesn't want to get a divorce . And for Will, he have said several times in the past how much his first divorce hurt him, because he saw it as a failure, so I think this is why it’s so hard for him to let go. Because it would be yet another failure.

[@calvinwilson3617]

I feel like she doesnt want to address the fact that she doesnt want to be with will anymore, but she still wants the perks of being married to will

[@TheKim369]

On top of it all, I get the feeling she has some kind of hold on him, like does she know stuff he'd rather wasn't shared? Not necessarily anything criminal, but maybe some kind of vulnerability or something otherwise private?

[@EclipseXIV]

@@TheKim369Pretty likely… We‘re seeing again and again that she‘s willing to throw very private matters out to the public just for attention, even when it makes her own family very uncomfortable and vulnerable. They‘ve been together for what, over 20 years? She definitely knows lots of private things about him after all this time and has zero problems airing them ALL out under the guise of „healing“ or „honesty“ as soon as they break it off, given how much she‘s already humiliated him WHILE they were still married and officially a couple. She has no emotional empathy and thus no remorse for how her actions affect other people. Narcissism, no empathy, no remorse, no problem twisting facts to her advantage and 20 years worth of personal information to sell to the tabloids. That‘s an incredibly scary position for Will.

[@DawnDavidson]

@@TheKim369This is where I start wondering about the Scientology connection. Scientology has dirt on EVERYONE. They’ve tried to say they weren’t in Scientology, but in a very equivocal way. I think they both were, to some degree, in the past. Because of the Scientology practice of disconnection from people they Declare to be a Suppressive Person (anyone who might speak badly about Scientology), he may want to divorce Jada, but fears that doing so might trigger her to do something that would result in HIM getting Declared, and end up with him being completely cut off from his kids. This is all speculation based on what I’ve seen and listened to over on Aaron Smith-Levin’s Growing Up In Scientology channel. It could explain some things, though.

[@paulan7218]

@@calvinwilson3617 she’s desperately trying to hold onto Will because she knows she’s irrelevant without him. no one likes Jada. The only reason why people tolerate her is because they like Will.

[@madeleinemehta]

It's disheartening to witness such manipulation and hypocrisy. This woman's behavior is deeply troubling, and it's crucial to address these issues with understanding and send her to good psychologist for obvious help.

[@danascheffer5658]

She has to see a problem w her behavior before it can be addressed…. I don’t see that ever happening… narcissists rarely acknowledge that they r the problem

[@Antonija0802]

She will even manipulate the psychologist because covered narcissists like her have a talent to shapeshift into a version that they think will put them in a "good" light in front of a specific person or audience. People like her can only be exposed by their contradicting behaviour. At the end I don't feel sorry nor for her nor for Will, they both deserve each other and their sick "relationship". She is operating in the Jezebel Spirit and he is under the influence of the Ahab spirit.

[@seangildersleeve1270]

However, it is not surprising.

[@amystrickland6876]

Narcissist don’t normally seek help as they see no faults within themselves. It’s on her. . .

[@vinceinhouston4338]

This reminds me of a TV series I watched where a known liar and manipulator is having conversation with another character who has just experienced the web of lies and deceit. Trying to wrap his head around the audacity of the liar, he asks about all the fabrications and the response is that it was ALL true. The first character incredulously asks, "Even the lies?" The response is, "Especially the lies." I thought that answer really said so much about the nature of the liar. Spidey, you called it. Jada's adaptability is in her capacity to try and change the paradigm that people view her actions through. The American public seems to have a short attention span and are therefore prone to being influenced by the way something is characterized. (as you said, she is trying to control the narrative) Perhaps life is happening so fast, people are too busy or just not they only pay attention in the periphery of their consciousness - they are aware of something going on but forget the details. Perhaps just throwing out her brand of "Jedi mind trick" in the hopes of selling her book. It used to be that you couldn't out spin the truth. These days it almost seems that it CAN happen IF it is done effectively enough, long enough to fade in people's memories. Thanks for pointing out the tell tale signs that things may not always be what they seem to be.

[@chrisreynoldsartwork]

I think it's more that she really is basically not that interesting so people don't really pay that much attention to what she is selling, they are more of a fan of Will and when she isn't referring to him, they start losing interest. I'm not a fan of any "celebrity" and only watched this for the analysis. I really can't stand either of them, the lives of wealthy people who play make believe for an obnoxious amount of money is more for the sheep out there who for some reason find these narcissistic creatures interesting...

[@verilyheld]

Star Trek DS9, Emil Garak. Garak was somebody trained to lie, deceive, the end justifies the means, somebody to never be trusted . . . and yet, he was also . . . sigh. Not decent, no, but strangely, he was a friend to Dr. Bashir. Which for Garak means that if he ever had to kill his friend, it would be instant, painless, from behind, necessary, no other option available, and it truly would be for the greater good of DS9, Bajor, Cardassia, and the Federation.

[@vinceinhouston4338]

@@verilyheld Getting further into the DS9 geekishness, Garrak's response to Bashir's moral "Never tell a lie" being a mistake and the real lesson to be learned was to never tall the same lie twice was also very telling. Garrak's character was necessity as a former spy master. Unfortunately, JPS just comes off as selfish and manipulative. Just my opinion.

[@verilyheld]

@@vinceinhouston4338 That's also my opinion of JPS. What a sitthy person, she had it all thanks to who she married, but instead of being like the guy who got into Heaven (he didn't go around asking why, he Kept Quiet!) she ruined Will's life and hers because only she matters!

[@vinceinhouston4338]

@@verilyheld True that

[@sharonwilson8208]

To be clear, Chris never approached Jada, before or after the slap. Not only that, she told Will "we came to the Oscars apart, but we're leaving as husband and wife". She totally enjoyed the violence! This constant emasculating Will is sadistic. She was totally smitten with Tupac, yet the feelings were unrequited. Every rapper on KZbin or podcasts say timelines in her book don't line up, specifically when he was in Rikers Island. She purchased a farmhouse, Tupac went to jail, within 5 days, she never moved into her new home, instead, flew to Los Angeles to be with Will...he gave in and divorced his first wife. I think this book is going to backfire. Is Will waiting for the right time to divorce Jada, and not be subject to the community property laws? He's got the receipts in her "book". We can only hope he's gotten a good team of Attorneys and biding his time. 😊😂

[@stephenlamley541]

Will needs to run and not stop ino. My ex was emasculaing and worse violent. Its a illness being attracted to certain types of person it really is. I crave normality today.

[@reneeg4817]

She is Jezebel and his handler..

[@yesitislikethat]

@@stephenlamley541 glad you’re out of that situation. I had a girlfriend back in the 90s, who would always belittle her boyfriend but played it off as “I’m just playing” and “don’t be so sensitive” whenever she did it. I now realize that she was a narcissist and I am no longer in contact with her. Looking back, I remember episodes of them arguing around our friend group and him saying to her how she broke this or that , and pushed or slapped him but she always would say, “boy, stop lying” or “what are you taking about” so we kind of wrote it off. Man, were we naive and I feel ashamed for not realizing what was actually happening. 🤦🏾‍♀️ Thank goodness for growth, unpacking and realizing my own traumas and upbringing, and unlearning behaviors and mentalities that I grew up with. Nowadays, there’s a lot more information available about toxic people and it opened my eyes.

[@eveliinaniilivuo7329]

⁠​⁠@@stephenlamley541I know what you mean, I’ve been trough several really toxic relationships, until I noticed that all those years it was me who was searching always the same and wrong type of a man, though I knew the relationship will be full of chaos and end in a catastrophy and me getting hurt really bad. I had a really bad selfesteem and always thought I wasn’t worth more, and I deserved all the toxicity and violence I received in those relationships. And I came to realization that i’ve always been sickly codependent, and finally took several years to only be by myself and heal myself and find my self worth.

[@Anal_Flute]

@@yesitislikethat I really hope that man is far away from that psycho, I wish him nothing but the best. He didn't deserve that at all :/

[@TammyD123]

I’m personally no longer interested in anything Jada has to say in a book or otherwise. I find her to be manipulative and dishonest. It seems she is the type of person who gas lights, gives non-answers, and puts Will in situations where he is forced in to a corner. It’s all about her. I suspect he went on the show to support her with no knowledge of where she was going to take the conversation. He was left with the choice of facing it or walking off and looking like a jerk. It’s always all about her. She never talks about his feelings or how her actions have affected him. I’m done with her. I’m only here for Spidey! 😊

[@Pebbles688]

Thank you for such an informative discussion. 1) The video that she made of them in the kitchen... the fact that she posted it and didn't see anything wrong with it, is so telling. It's really weird to see someone keep pushing when the other person is so clearly uncomfortable. 2) Ironically, I think they are in a 'comfortable' situation, because the trauma bond is so strong it feels scary to break away.

[@BayBaeAngel]

This is the truest comment I’ve read so far. I’m not saying Will doesn’t have his own demons, but he deserves so much better than this manipulative, narcissistic hanger-on.

[@natalieclark5819]

Exactly!! The way she turns the camera back to herself and gives an expression like he's being inappropriate, as though her audience will agree. Disgusting.

[@AndyT81]

I heard that this was a live stream, not confirmed but it may be that it occurred like that rather than her uploading it after. Not defending but giving a little context to what is possibly why it was online. Not defending her but just what I heard.

[@23kensie]

This woman has ruined the phrase “deep healing” for me. It makes me si k when she says that because she is the celebrity that speaks the most about healing and has the most toxic relationships and messed up husband and children.

[@thomasrios3913]

Great point about comfort. She knocks down comfort but that’s mostly what’s keeping them together

[@cosacita]

Love your videos! This one was no exception🎉 So many treats in this one 😂 18:17 it even ended up on the shelf 😂

[@katieg271]

Any psychology students....study this individual to learn narcissism, gas lighting and manipulation.

[@Notorious_Grey]

Every woman's ex is a narcissist lol

[@RlRdHd]

​@MegaMegaJayX12 and yet millions of people who have never even met this person see these traits in her.

[@Notorious_Grey]

@@RlRdHd your point being?

[@323azteca]

The triplet. Meghan Markle, Amber Heard and Jada Pinkett.

[@shellipayne-patterson5314]

Thank you!

[@swilson463]

The way she treated him in the clip where Will makes it very clear he don't want to have the camera in his face, says it all. IMO, she cares for one thing, herself.

[@Gchili]

28:07 You are SO FREAKING ARTICULATE and sooo thoughtful in the way that you explain things. I don't think people realize what a talent it is to be able to do what you're about to do here

[@SterlingQDavis]

This video was very well done & the topic was very well discussed 👍🏾

[@aimeek1540]

Thank you for breaking this down. This woman scares me and I dont know why. She makes me uncomfortable and for the most part I've ignored this whole saga whenever it comes up. I see a tragedy brewing and it scares me to think about it. I hope I am wrong it just seems something is sinister, underlying and sinister.

[@susanzumback7711]

Yep.demonic.

[@Legendofthemall]

Insidious is the word. Underlying evil. Slowly creeping up, until * boom * it's gotcha. The reason for many jump scares. You sense the tension and nastiness, just not the reason for it.

[@yvie914]

i'm marking this comment to view in the near future because I think you're absolutely right. She is obviously progressing in her me me me world and everyone should stay out of her way, and in the line of her fire, especially her children and stepson.

[@luvslyfe1]

@@susanzumback7711You posted the exact word that popped into my head.

[@Kitunae]

Thank you for putting a word to the feeling I get when I see and hear her.

[@deekayvixen]

You either nailed “here we go again” or she watched the video and ripped it off to build herself a little story, lol.

[@jeremiahbullfrog9288]

That was my thought.. either way, a win for spidey lol

[@GiulianaEscotto]

I thought the same thing! Lol

[@carolineben-ari2798]

I immediately thought that, especially since Spidey's video went viral.

[@kat-92]

My thought exactly. Also win either way for 🕷🕸

[@thomasrios3913]

Hahaha either way: Spidey wins! 😂

[@grayson2788]

I never considered her an actress until now. She is performing for the crowd.

[@MoDavI-sl7iy]

😂😅😭🤣😂 Stop it‼️ She's a great actress. She always has been.

[@Spont89]

I Just stumbled onto your channel in the last couple days and boy, I am so glad I did. Thank you so much for your time, effort and hardwork. You are very good at what you do. I love how articulate and thoughful you are. It is very refreshing, at the same time so informative. You dont come off judgmental or arrogant. You seem humble and down to earth. Which is challenging, especially considering your line of work and accomplishments. Not to mention, being highly intelligent and educated, Im assuming, must be difficult sometimes communicating with us mere mortals. I joke, but to touch back on your articulation compounded with everything else I just mentioned really allows your Genuineness to shine. And for that sir, I admire and applaud you. Now, that I have said all that, I wanted to mention something about Jada that I havent heard anyone else mention. Granted I havent spent alot of time following her or this bizarre relationship with Will. However, I did catch a few quotes and clips. Please, correct me if I am wrong, but she did recently say that Tupac was the actual "Love of her life." Well, here is the kicker , and how coincidental, that Tupac suffered from the same disease that she now claims to suffer from. That being Alopecia. I mean that, everything else she has said, coupled with all the other different indicators you and others have pointed out, For some strange reason, this woman is completely lying about having a disease that her murdered, "love of her life", suffered from. I find myself judging her to harshly and leaning way to far on the "really manipulative/evil mastermind." But maybe she is just a victim of a brokenheart. So I know I am months late on this video, however I hope this reaches you and would love to hear your feedback on that , if any at all. Or, just tell me if none of this makes any sense.? Knowing how bad I am at articulating.! Anyway, thank you again , please keep up the hard work.! I came for the Katt Willams interview breakdown, and immediately started binging your content . So glad I did. !

[@martharamirezdelacruz5106]

It is all about her. Her healing, her image, her book, her entanglement. She was ready to talk but Will was not ready. He was in pain, but she doesn't have a lot of empathy for him.

[@prasad9002]

@@martharamirezdelacruz5106 Will Smith loves Jada

[@sogo5976]

The most interesting part for me was the clip at 33:09, where Jada films Will at his office (?) without asking him first. He is trying to set boundaries, by saying: “Don't just start filming me without asking me”. Her response sounds annoyed: “Oh my goodness”. Calling his reaction “foolishness”. I would expect that kind of conversation between a mother and her child, Jada being the mother. I am not even sure they like each other. She seems bossy and disrespectful, talking about healing bs, that he does not want to hear. I wonder if she has leverage over Will that she is using against him, and he feels like he can't escape it.

[@sharihunt8216]

Just my opinion. I thought the same. Could it be that she knows the rumors are maybe not rumors between Will & Duane Martin, and that's why they agreed never to divorce.

[@prasad9002]

@@sogo5976 They have been together for 30 years. Can't judge things based on one event

[@pgray5223]

I noticed that when the interviewer mentioned that there was a lot of compassion for Chris that she shifts her body. She doesn't seem to do that a lot with the other questions. It seemed to me that she was feeling irritated that there was compassion for Chris, but she was reassessing how she was going to present what he said to her. I enjoyed seeing the "entanglement " on your shelf for the rest of your video. It made me chuckle.

[@nikkinolen1091]

This video is legitimately the best analysis I’ve seen so far. I think you did a great job not being bias and presenting a well balanced view and when we understand that people can be simple yet complex beings we are slow to insert an objective opinion. I see a lot of people using the new fad psychology term Narcissist to describe her and I think it’s interesting to see so many people jump to that conclusion with very little inside information. I actually probably will read her book because I like to gather as much information as possible before making a judgement call. Anyway great video.

[@1purplekw]

I watched one of her videos with her daughter, mom, and herself in the kitchen, and she says.. That any actors, actresses, has some form of Narcissism. That they have to, to be able to work in this line of field. Including herself.

[@thewat668]

​@@1purplekw Kanye is a narcissist but he is forgiven because anything he does moves the culture, there's a reason for a huge ego But her lmao 🤣, she lives in Will's shadow and this just makes it worst

[@megwood6954]

Imagine if she were a man publicly doing the things she’s doing to a woman, calling his affair with a kid ( I don’t care about his actual age) the fact still remains he was their sons friend. A husband calling it an “entanglement” bringing his wife on his show and publicly minimizing the affair and watching her get triggered and still airing the episode. Her behavior is insane, she would drag his ass publicly if he did even 1 of those things to her.

[@zondracarter3022]

So true she did him so wrong and you could see it in his eyes. But know one would've known about the affair is she didn't say anything. So things that go on in your life needs to stay in your house and she's telling everything

[@melsafken764]

​@@zondracarter3022 She is hurting him again & again... She is toxic. I hope Will knows we see through her.

[@zondracarter3022]

@@melsafken764 I agree! I don't see how there kids don't see it

[@1purplekw]

Do you think he is innocent? Do you think he never cheated on her?

[@alexahawkins6519]

Hadn’t thought of that but if she was a man and he was a women I would be more appalled. Thanks for pointing that out

[@MiaMcKim1]

No no no, she wasn’t even ABLE to call HERSELF the “adulteress wife”. She was saying she was AWARE that “the adulteress-wife” is how SHE IS SEEN by “the audience”/aka us/society. Which is unfortunate because it means that she isn’t self-aware enough to call herself or the act it actually was she’s using society and the audience as the accuser/persecutor. Really she’s using societal norms as the “accuser” too, which is why she tries so hard to redefine things like adultery.

[@zetharerey3761]

Right! 😂 like sis you’re not “seen” as the adulteress-wife, you “ARE” the adulteress-wife.

[@jacquelinecountryman2976]

Exactly! 💯

[@1purplekw]

Perhaps because she wasn't the only one to cheat through the years.

[@MiaMcKim1]

Ur statement is merely an attempt at justification. There is no justification. As adults it isn’t “Well HE cheated TOO!/first” - it doesn’t matter. In the sense that it isn’t an excuse for one to go do the same thing @1purplekw. It’s possible, but if true, is just even more pathetic.

[@aprilbriscoe4086]

I have watched several videos of yours and I have to say I am very impressed with how you break things down. I am very interested in body language behaviors and have always wanted to get a degree in psychology. I have ADD and it is hard for me to concentrate on lectures. I’m working with meds to find the best one for me but the whole point in me saying this is I can listen to you and stay focused more than anyone else iv listened to! Thank you for the videos you post! Never stop doing this PLEASE!!! ❤

[@leilani_808]

Alopecia literally changed my life! I had thick, beautiful “Moana” like hair. When my hair started falling out it was bc of a medicine I was taking. Also, I had/have psoriasis on my scalp. Soon after I gave birth to my last two babies in a four year time span. All of that in itself wrecked havoc on my hair!! Once everything settled, my hair started growing back - in patches. That’s when I learned I have alopecia. Now I wear wigs. I used to be ashamed - so shame to wear wigs!! Now I absolutely love it!! But for her to say she has Alopecia - well, I wish I had Jada’s alopecia bc she got thick, full hair!

[@Bigvirgoenergy]

i am so happy you said it because i was thinking the same thing...her hair grows back full never a patch its odd...this lady is full of it

[@hairpro1353]

@@Bigvirgoenergy BET IT HURT HER HOW ROCK MADE FUN OF JADA SHAVED HEAD ...IT HURT MANY ...YOU THINK NOT? JADA REPRESENTED FOR THEM....SHE HELD HER HEAD HIGH AND THAT HAD TO ENCOURAGE MANY PEOPLE WHO HAVE THE CONDITION WORST THAN HER. WELL ANY HAIR LOSS CREATES THE SAME FEELINGS OF DESPAIR ACTUALLY.

[@Bigvirgoenergy]

@@hairpro1353 whet???

[@Kym-KO]

If you have Alopecia you should know it comes in different degrees. It is an auto immune disease, and you have it weather youve got a full head of hair or not. I do; I have long hair currently, not so thick but get patches time to time..So Im fortunate. All of my hair fell out previous to this- no reason at all, generally speaking theres no real trigger (I believe it comes down to stress) and theres no way to prevent it from occurring. Ive been fully bald for years because of this condition. A decade. For you to insinuate because she has a full head of thick full hair (subjective) she probs doesnt have the condition.. is laughable and invaildates those with Areata. FU. This is literally mis information, I genuinely dont think you know what youre actually talking about.

[@TheBerkeleyBeauty]

I have it too. I also have acquaintances with it (support group). It’s patchy unless it’s totalis. I’ve never seen her type of alopecia either. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Whitlyn]

Him saying,"I meant no harm" is not an apology but a statement of fact! Her inconsistencies are glaring and makes her look like she's making things up as she goes. Chris joked with others; Harvier and Penelope; they laughed, with the Smith's everything escalated and was blown out of control. The Smith's went on to celebrate that evening they didn't anticipate the massive backlash or should I say whiplash that followed. One year later the apology tour rolls on. Miss me with this!

[@danielleblanc4660]

She never called herself an adulteress, she was just saying what people were saying about her. Then says she understand, but disagrees 😶

[@BayBaeAngel]

Yep. 💯

[@DeanKingston]

Your shout out to your buddy Joe Navarro by tapping his book made me laugh out loud. You are brilliant in so many ways.

[@Leigh53-k6h]

"Like I said in my book", "as I said in the book", "you'll understand after you read the book". I think her trapping him with that phone video was extremely controlling and he seems to be constantly on guard. The first part of the video was getting my sympathy and it gradually began to recede. I have no idea why she has publicly talked so much about these very intimate details of their lives. I would feel so exposed and exploited by my partner if this happened to me.

[@jkmotorcyclegloryroads532]

I think that whole thing about “forgetting she’s the wife” is a distancing trick that she’s “not responsible” for Will’s slap…. She is justifying that she isn’t the reason for the problems.

[@jkmotorcyclegloryroads532]

And the justifying statement, “I’m in deep confusion.”

[@Mary-1s2fly]

@jkmotorcyclegloryroads532 Distancing- perfect word for it

[@WhiskeyTangoFoxtrotaWtf]

I'm dead!! ☠️. Your impression of Will 'Keep my ex-wifes still live with, it's complicated....'. 😂😂😂

[@dogmamaortiz9046]

That was hysterical. 😂

[@caitlyncunningham3441]

Spidey - I sincerely love what you do and how you present your information. If more of us were able to observe ourselves and each other as you do I believe there would be far less anger, hurt and MISUNDERSTANDING in the human world. I appreciate you!!🎉

[@BayBaeAngel]

I always enjoy your insightful analysis. I want to point out that she DID NOT call herself an adulteress…she specifically said that the public saw her as an adulteress. There was no admission or guilt expressed there and I think you gave her way too much credit on that point.

[@robinscirica3871]

She actually did refer to herself as an “adulterous wife”.

[@davadoff]

Absolutely correct. I’m surprised Spidy fell for it. Jada was saying it from the point of view of the public: this is how I must look… the adulterous wife… “I get it”, she said. But in her mind she’s thinking that is not who I am. Mental gymnastics. And she appears to have no empathy for Will whatsoever. She’s definitely a narcissist.

[@debblouin]

@@robinscirica3871only in terms of how the public perceived her

[@saraicarranza1244]

She's the type of person who puts things out there to see the response. If people respond negatively, then she retracts and tries to change it. She annoys me.

[@michaelmcgee335]

Why are you so nice about her?

[@prasad9002]

@@michaelmcgee335 Because these comments won't age well. Will and Jada 💕

[@deantodd8103]

I'm not trained in behavioral analysis or reading body language, but I am pretty certain that we can tell when Jada Pinkett-Smith is lying by one vital clue: her lips are moving.

[@megaloschemos9113]

Yeah, sound comes out of her mouth

[@MTech07]

I just need my gut, it has not failed me so far. The level of disrespect is more than I can handle. My parents divorced and were separated 5 years (with other partners even) and then they remarried. Never they were disrespectful, even in their worst moments. They had issues and fought a lot. Never my mother would have wished my father being publicly disrespected like this. Never my father did something that got to this level. Unforgivable.

[@Mrs.L.44]

I wish someone would ask her what she means by “healing”. She also said her affair had made her feel better than she had in a long time and was really healing to her. On another subject, She didn’t make Will come to the table? He didn’t want her to go through it alone? If that was true, it at least means she decided to tell it the story with or without him and he felt he had to be there to have some control of the narrative. She didn’t “have to go through it” publicly. So really, she forced the issue. Uggh! That woman!

[@prasad9002]

@@Mrs.L.44 She spoke because August opened his big mouth. Anyways Will Smith admitted to seeing other women on Oprah Winfrey show. That was 8 years ago. Why do people keep bringing August up. ?

[@Mrs.L.44]

@@prasad9002 people probably bring it up because she slept with her child’s friend. They said he was in an emotional state and they invited ex him to stay in their home to help him. It is inappropriate at the least and possibly predatory at a worse level.

[@prasad9002]

@@Mrs.L.44 Jaden was 15 and August was a 24 year old man. Who is the predator? You actually sound like a hater that would pick and make up things. It was 8 years ago. His children are fine young adults. It's just a Jada hating trend. Like Megan Markle and Amber Heard that is been going on. When men date women 20 years younger. Who are they? Definitely not collage friends. They date their friends daughters. Children friends. Employees. I don't see people pointing a finger at them. People are just sexist.

[@goldenshadow872]

Lets all not forget that Jada is an actress. She knows how to look the part in ways to give out certain cues to the audience, and make people believe what she wants them to believe. She knows how to look defensive, honest, persuasive, and other emotions you can learn being an actor/actress.

[@Ali-7676]

Yet she fails as we all can see right through the dishonesty and inauthenticity.

[@PhantomFilmAustralia]

People are smart. They will dig and delve through old magazines, newspaper articles, the internet, and find inconsistencies and disingenuousness. A few people will buy her book not that it would be a fascinating read, but to prove her disingenuousness and deception. This book will be her unravelling.

[@fartnloud7411]

Yeah, I don't think that's working anymore. Her and Amber, 2 sides of the same.

[@mariee.5912]

​@fartnloud7411 my thoughts. Some actors /actresses think that their acting can persuade people.

[@allthingsnu4673]

After watching this, I am oddly reminded of one or two non-committal guys I dated briefly in the past. They had a way of trying to blur the lines of what our relationship was so they could hide their intentions to do whatever they wanted. Once I saw what they were doing, I ended the relationship. Jada talks a lot about how she and Will are healing and defining what their marriage is to them. I've never heard anyone who married the person they love and want to spend the rest of their life with talk this way. The only type of person who talks this way is someone who wants to have other options. That's why the marriage is in a perpetual state of being "defined"... they (or she) have to leave room for whatever "entanglement" might come next. I don't condone divorce except in the case of unfaithfulness but that has already happened in their marriage anyway, hasn't it? I think Jada and Will should stop holding on to their promise to never divorce and just let each other go free. They can continue to be friends and love each other that way but this sham of a marriage must be draining the life out of both of them. I pray for both of them and their children be made whole in the love of Christ.

[@staceyogier6154]

They could have had a Bruce and demi foundation.

[@1purplekw]

I feel like Jeda was not the only one who stepped out of their relationship.

[@allthingsnu4673]

@@1purplekw Maybe he has too. That's why I said "they" as far as them "redefining" their marriage.

[@rplayer360]

This comment deserves more likes.

[@djsupreme22]

I really like what you said " They should stop holding on to their promise not to get divorced. What is funny is the forgot their Promis to God and each other to Love, Honor, and , Cherish one another till death do them part. Because ridiculing and belittling your spouse in public is not an example of Love, or Honoring your mate or Spouse. No matter what my Lady and I go through I would never disrespect or make fun of her in public. And I wouldn't allow anyone else to do so. We are a Union and to bring her down is to bring myself down because she is a reflection and completion of me.

[@SLC9274]

lol!! Spidey .. had to come to comments when you set the red balloon dog on the shelf behind you 😂😂😂 I almost spit my food out when the edit shifted frames and the dog was sitting there!!!

[@Universe1626]

This is what bothers me. Jada says she really knows Chris and he is a sweet guy. She also says here we go again, he won’t be able to help himself. She pre-judged him before he told any jokes and this let’s me know she still had animosity in her heart towards Chris from the year she wanted support to boycott the Oscars.

[@boldnotbald3705]

Your editing is getting even better! I love that you’re including short clips in your analysis that show exactly which behavior you’re referencing. It’s so helpful!

[@kimberly8164]

I think it would be accurate to say everything she does is strictly for her

[@icecol22]

Will's take on everything that's transpired in their marriage has to be acknowledged as well. If everything is fine as Jada is stating in interviews,then why isn't he present to speak his truth?? Great video. You're absolutely right about everything you talk about here.Thank you.❤

[@kellyfalletta1949]

The red table talk was brutal and she showed no empathy or respect for Will. Laughing when she referred to her infidelity as an entanglement 😠. Married 38+ years, so it’s hard not to go off on a tangent about how self-centered, disrespectful and cruel she is. When a marriage struggles, seek counseling. You don’t cheat and you don’t exploit your relationship and pain for tv ratings, attention or profit. Jada, not buying your book, watching your interviews or reading articles with whatever you got to say.

[@lindah5011]

Her natural hair should be gray anyway. She is in her 50s.

[@natashasullivan4559]

To me that was 100% a trauma response from will. As someone who's been in bad relationships.. he found that joke funny. But the moment she gave him a look. I could almost feel the adrenaline rush into his system. Like.. she's mad, and it's my job to do something about it. Or I'll be the one in trouble later. If she hadnt rolled her eyes and looked annoyed. Honestly dont think any of that would have happened. And in that clip of her wuddenly fimling Will. And him asking her not to sufdenly start filming him.. i cant remember the last time I truly saw someone looking that uncomfortable. Jada obviously has some sort of emotional power over him (obviously). And its not healthy in any way. And I hope nobody buys her book

[@yogagirlvioletsky2703]

AGREE!!!

[@ArielWilliams]

It's like he still trying his hardest to please her in some sort of way but no matter what she makes him feel like he's not good enough. She has mentally abused that man.

[@1purplekw]

Do you really believe she was the only one to cheat??? I don't.

[@thecommentlounge]

​@@1purplekwDefinitely not. Will, has worked to keep his affairs low key. I believe he has his flings or whoever, sign NDAs. I remember them going to the Play Boy Mansion back in the day also....

[@rplayer360]

What look? There is no video that ever showed she looked at Will Smith and if she did that Will notice a look.

[@DeborahOlander]

I can see what made you a good therapist. You are so good at giving space.and openness. As an emotional abuse survivor, I recognize so many of her behaviors as appeasing and connecting with the person she's with. I think she shades the truth to make herself look good to herself in someone else's eyes. I think external validation is of supreme importance to her.

[@apricotcookie4850]

Some people have a straight-up commitment to the truth, and they can 'tell on' themselves, warts and all. It feels so good to be honest: you don't have to remember all your lies, you don't have to be on guard at all times when being questioned, it's relaxing and freeing. It's such a relief to just tell the freakin' truth. And then there's the type of person that has to look good, be right, be smarter, more enlightened, just better in every way, understanding and existing on a level that the average person can't grasp. Which type of person would we rather have as a friend? Spouse? Parent? Teacher? Employer (or employee)? Will, dude, please wake up. Edited to correct typos

[@prasad9002]

@@apricotcookie4850 🤣🤣🤣 So touching. As if a man would pick wife over gossips

[@cleverersmile]

How can you fake being someone’s wife for years then act like you did not understand why he called you wife? Lol!

[@prasad9002]

@@cleverersmile Because they were separated

[@DrPatriceBerry]

Love your coverage of this! It is so balanced! I personally don’t plan to watch the full interviews or buy the book, so your coverage has been very helpful!

[@DrPatriceBerry]

Wow at the portion where you talk about childhood trauma and the mask. I think Will is also really good at that too. It is interesting that he chose to conceal the info about the marriage in his book and she exposed it.

[@sissi3638]

We have to remember something very important. People like her learn with time to appear honest and genuine. All the comments and videos about her analyzing every single detail. It's like a recipe book to her. She became better in the last few years. And you will see her get better in the future.

[@TeKeyaKrystal]

this was one of my first thoughts when this video appeared in my suggestions.. "welp.. she won't make these mistakes again"

[@jasongaudreau2075]

Love your analysis!! And to solidify your statement about subconscious facial movements is this, the ONLY time I realize my face vs my thoughts….is when I over emphasize my expressions to relay my mindset nonverbally.

[@amapolaoxytocin1432]

Lmao "She wasnt there as 'hIs WiFe', she was there as 'fAmILy'...Were you there as his great Aunt twice removed?!" I lost it 🤣🤣 Spidey you're freakin hilarious 🤭😆

[@OFFICIALLUSH]

About the alopecia: I did notice that she distanced herself from owning the condition by saying “I don’t have it as severe as others that have ‘that’ condition”. Instead of saying “my” or “this” condition, she said “THAT” condition, which separates herself from it.

[@Cedawood]

I don't believe she has it. My half brother has it & although everyone is different to my mind she messed about with her hair too much & she really needs to garner some sort of attention no matter what

[@user-dt3rj8qm3k]

Well spotted. That's a great point. Realistically she should have said "this condition".

[@kupcakesugar817]

I said the same thing. It’s possible that she has a type of hair loss which is due to over processing or tight braiding, called traction alopecia. The type of alopecia that people might be more familiar with is an autoimmune disorder where the body attacks the hair follicles. This one you would have much less control over, I would think. Hair loss is distressing, no matter how it is caused. But, seeing as she does not appear to take accountability for her actions, it does not surprise me that she would not clarify the cause of her alopecia. Ultimately, she was probably the cause. By not clarifying, she can catch the train of sympathy for people with more severe forms of alopecia which were not caused by the way they styled their hair. She could have easily worn wigs. Some people embrace the condition with grace and choose to not hide it. But she seems to enjoy putting herself on a pedestal for sympathy and personal gain.

[@PatienceLove]

Or at least, “the” condition

[@Keef_DGAF]

She does not and never has had alopecia none, none at all.

[@tinatrott6824]

I believe in my heart that Will is putting up with this behavior because she holds some type of secret he doesn’t want to get out. It feels like some sort of scheme. If i’m him, I would just deal with the secret being exposed because this is way to much.

[@roxanneharradan5898]

I actually think it's because she's a narcissist. Will is displaying red flags of being in a relationship with a narcissistic individual. He would do anything to make her happy and would take the blame even when it's her fault.

[@IAmMaruG7]

I think its a bit of everything. What you say and what @roxanneharradan5898 says. Also... people who make it REALLY big in Hollywood got a whoooole lotta skeletons in their closet... even the ones who seem nice... thats just my opinion tho

[@flutterby8462]

I actually think they are as bad as each other. Will is more tactful (in general) about the image he portrays but the slap revealed what he is capable of. They both care about their image and don’t take accountability for their actions. They both talk in riddles.

[@keekers]

I will never buy this selfish witch's book. Will puts too much care into how his wife feels and is affected. His wife has no regard for him.

[@prasad9002]

@@keekers Their personal matter.

[@keekers]

@@prasad9002 Would be, if they would stop putting it all out in the public.

[@prasad9002]

@@keekers For her fans (me) to know. And you to troll. At least we know they are together.

[@msarihubbard1477]

I like you not taking sides and not demeaning anyone. You just speak the facts and let everyone form their opinions. I wish the world were more like you. You are a great example of himanity.

[@elenacartagena1224]

“We’re going through some deep healing” = she wrote this book and she is torturing and bullying him into staying together as public image damage control 😡

[@sharieannpryce9127]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽