The Warning Signs We Almost Missed! Body Language Analyst EXPOSES Diddy's MAJOR Red Flags!

[@TheBehavioralArts]

Hey all! Thanks for tuning in! I wanted to clarify 2 quick things that some commenters here have helped me realize 😊. 1) I read a bad source and was not aware that Rihanna had hit CB as well. I thought it was one sided. Now of course this doesn’t change the gravity of what he did, nor does it change any of Diddy’s behaviors or making excuses. The one thing it does effect is when he says “it’s not right for her to hit him, it’s not right for him to hit her” it’s less of a misdirect than it would have been if the situation was one sided. 2) some viewers have commented that “pause” is slang for “no homo” to clarify that something was intended in a platonic sense. The beauty of this one is that even if I wasn’t aware of that meaning for it, it changes 0% of the analysis, in fact it might add to it 😆. Exactly as I said, it’s the imagine in his head causing him to say that, not the actual sentence, nobody would have thought anything of it if he just kept talking. It also doesn’t change the fact that he absolutely falls apart verbally and non verbally in that moment and his brain literally “pauses.” ❤️ 🤗

[@carlforpresidentanthony4574]

I hate to admit it in the BLK community we've known since 1993 we just had no snitches or tangible proof like R kelly.. so we just sat quietly.

[@mmeyerr7867]

Fun fact. I was the ct reporter for the Rihanna/CB criminal case which was labeled under their respective representatives’ names and handled almost civilly like an insurance matter (because it ultimately was). Both sides uber professional, over in ten minutes.

[@HarmonyandHope7]

Can you also do the interview that Diddy did on Wendy Williams show when they discussed the days before Biggie’s death

[@Shanshu72]

"The beauty of this one is that even if I wasn’t aware of that meaning for it, it changes 0% of the analysis, in fact it might add to it" It really isn't that it could have insinuated something, but that he caught himself saying something that could have insinuated it. If I am talking about doing something like on a teeter-totter that involves me "going up and down on it", that is a "pause" moment. Nowhere did I say I was with someone, or more importantly, doing an act with said non-imagined person. It is a hyper-vigilant response because usually the audience would catch the speaker and use the response "pause" as a way to jokingly say "hey that's homosexual". You could say you ate a hot-dog and that would warrant "pause". I just want to clarify that it could really be the fact that he said "We woke up together" and nothing more.

[@tikendrickhallshe-her-hers4911]

I’m not a fan of these guys at all but I do have to state that “pause” would have absolutely been something that he said rather than keep taking innocently. They’d be hyper aware of how someone else would interpret and insert the statement. Especially, at that time in history. It was hard to get through any conversation without hearing “pause” at least once. It was almost like the “that’s what she said” of the time.

[@the5xdropout720]

This is what all abusers must sound like. My narc abusive ex used to talk about how it's never ok to get in between a couple no matter what, even if you know someone is being physically abused. Because obviously, it means that whenever he physically abused me, we had to sort it out between the two of us. I even brought up the question of what would happen if some guy was doing the same to his daughters. He said he would look at what his daughters did to deserve it and would judge whether it was justified or not. Narcs will find any way possible to justified their actions. Absolutely craaaaazy!

[@theliterarytarot]

Their flying monkeys say this too.

[@the1law500]

I agree. I feel totally disgusted all over again, 6 years later - seeing Sean Combs being exposed for the monster he is. He reminds me so much of my ex except my ex didn't have the money, status or resources to become as horrific as Sean. These kinds of people are terrifying.

[@mkb7013]

You’re absolutely correct! 💯. ALL ABUSERS DEFLECT RESPONSIBILITY AND MAKE EXCUSES!!

[@delaneyb6171]

They don't want to stand in the way of their friends that they overly identify with - they will absolutely stand in the way of someone being abused. The rules don't apply to everyone. That's always a key indicator for abuse/enabling.

[@monicamagalhaes4242]

I'm glad it is now the EX

[@nicolea6601]

I would LOVE to see you analyze the clips that include Justin Bieber and Diddy because I SWEAR, Justin looked so nervous and scared!

[@tiffanymichaels2429]

Didn't he buy him a car? That was strange.

[@kimwalsh]

@@tiffanymichaels2429 Yes it was a 'hush' car

[@nicolea6601]

@@tiffanymichaels2429 Yea, he said this is what you get when you turn 16... In the CREEPIEST way!! He also was saying how Justin never hangs out anymore, etc.

[@Midlifesimmer]

Good idea!

[@auderelli]

Please cover their interviews!

[@MCharlerySmith]

As a Black Christian I must say that my community has injured itself by not demanding enough accountability from our men (and women). So many pastors and ministers have known about all kinds of craziness with these celebs and dont have enough fear of God in them to call it out. Instead buddying up to them like TD Jakes who has been AWOL since everything with Diddy came to the surface.

[@fractal1133]

And so many abusive and degrading lyrics get a pass and even plays in public spaces. It is so harmful. I lived in Sub Sahara Africa for 15 years. These rap stars style of degrading women is contagious globally. So much global harm done to women. Not all, but so many of the rap musicians are grossly misogynistic. How did they make it past the me too movement?

[@butameremortal9424]

I was so disappointed. I actually really believed and admired TD Jakes. Something changed alittle before COVID for me and stopped supporting/watching. I was even planning a trip from MD where I'm at all the way to Texas! Glad I didn't go that far 🤦‍♀️

[@goodgracious6364]

Fact is, so many "Christian pastors" (and yes, particularly in the Black community) are equivocally caught up in being seen and regarded like "celebrities" themselves, rather than being accountable and responsible in their roles as "religious leaders".

[@tinkhix]

@@butameremortal9424it has been know for over a decade that TD Jakes was closeted! People just seem to put the clergy on a pedestal when they are just regular humans like us! He’s gay!! He needs to live his truth and stop perpetuating this false facade that he’s been walking around being in his day to day life!

[@jasonhood3833]

Here is what’s not told/understood. Hip Hop brought back “black” pride in the late 80’s. The embracing of the natural look. We had “many” artist who did great music. “They” saw the impact and by 96 they switched the paradigm. EXECUTIVES NOT LIKE US promoted the STREET artist opposed to those like PE, A Tribe Called Quest, Digable Planets, De La Soul, Pharcyde etc. Diddy is an agent for the higher ups who make billions off of the degradation of our people!

[@XaaraSJilani]

Where there's a narcissist, there's a group of other narcissists enabling and defending him.

[@lindaVp23019]

Flying monkeys.

[@meredith2803]

That's what I've found.

[@ryry7886]

I think you meant to say defending them/they/they're

[@HeyTripleJ]

THIS IS COMPLETELY TRUE

[@sandraabrahamsson6677]

That's called flying monkeys 🐒

[@Marle_xvx]

As someone who has a mother who suffered DV, it makes me really sick to see how long people will defend violent individuals. It’s really sad.

[@Marle_xvx]

Yes we should want them to do better but people have to remember, behavior is not something that’s changes overnight. And their actions need to reflect real change.

[@Marle_xvx]

The difference here with Diddy is he will always be a sick individual. This seems to be his true nature. There is no saving.

[@lotusphoenix8]

No one is defending anyone here. We're just analysing an abuser minimising another abuser's behaviour and accidentally telling on himself. This will surely help someone identify the situation they're in so that they can make healthy choices for themselves. Best wishes to you and your mom ❤

[@Marle_xvx]

@@lotusphoenix8 I’m know no one is defending. I’m just speaking generally.

[@lotusphoenix8]

@@Marle_xvx Alright, I misunderstood 🙏

[@kaitospin3944]

Also notice that when he says "back when he was 10 and I was a little bit older..." he immediately realizes that he was a lot older than him and people will obviously find it very disturbing so he smooths it up quickly by adding "his older brother" to make it sound like nothing questionable was going on and it was just a brotherly bond. Now back to the phrase "we used to wake up and fight for..." doesn't that imply that they were sleeping on the same bed?!

[@wioi]

Exactly what I thought as well. Why was he sleeping with a 10 year old boy?

[@YayRaven]

Yes, that immediately came to mind! Kevin picked up on it too!

[@justMsBruss]

@@YayRaven and called it out making it obvious

[@sons_of_god1306]

@@justMsBrusswhich was strange Kevin calling out diddy when Kevin attended all the after parties and is on video being there

[@KimFuller-fh5bw]

Diddy’s lyrics “At first we were friends, we became lovers. All night we would play fight undercovers. You was more than my girl we was like brothers.” And After every line, Usher goes “Unh”

[@tanyabeautycoach]

When you mention that diddy says “we all have to reflect on the dark times” My ex who was abusive used to believe that everyone physically and emotionally hurts their partners. He was convinced that some people just hide it better. I think some abusers project their actions believing everyone acts or feels like them.

[@TheBehavioralArts]

Wow wtf?! So sorry you had to experience that, that sounds like there was some gaslighting mixed in with bad behavior. But I think you drew a good parralel here. I think Diddy minimizes these things with his actions because he thinks they’re much more normal than they actually are

[@Joy-Marie369]

100%

[@Mehki227]

Your experience and comment remind me of a serial killer he was being interrogated and he literally believed that everyone thought and felt like he did. When he was a kid he was out with a friend and he brutally killed some animal and was laughing about it and the friend was disgusted and he believed that the friend was excited about it like he was but was just pretending to be disgusted, he really thought that everyone was a sociopath like himself. And like you said, just hiding it. It's the same with children being abused in the home and they think that everyone is living the way that they are being forced to live and are surprised if they go to their friend's house and it's a loving warm home.

[@nathanielgathing659]

As far as the case with Rihanna, she gave Chris Brown herpes! She knew she had it and never told him. I'm not making an excuse for Chris, but I understand him losing it.

[@Rev5511]

Gaslighting and there’s no good excuse to hurt in these ways. God bless you ❤

[@mandeanraje2300]

Abusers and narcs always tell on themselves. The only magic is in not knowing who they are. As soon as you do, you can't stop seeing their patterns because they're right there.

[@lotusphoenix8]

It gets more and more predictable and pathetic once you know

[@vodkavuitton]

They can't help but tell on themselves because their sense of power comes from being boldly manipulative & getting away with playing in people's face. The more you tolerate the disrespect the bigger their ego gets because they are the true epitome of "taking one's kindness for weakness" when they're the ones who are truly WEAK.

[@janetangelezyii4574]

What is sad is that we are witnessing TWO narcissistic people speaking on things that they themselves are doing or done. Knowing what we know now about these two and many, many others, it is sad to watch..

[@lowlowseesee]

i just said the same thing lol. exactly. Lundy Bancrofts book...in the very beginning of the book puts every single thing in there. should be in schools

[@sonja7halcyon]

@@vodkavuitton yup! This was my take. Diddy's psyche split in that moment between the one who didn't want to get caught out and the one who wanted to covertly brag about what he was getting away with. They're so funny narcissists they do end up revealing themselves and are always the cause of their own demise. Pride comes before the fall.

[@amandagermany5933]

Predator eyes. Unmistakable. When he straightens up and goes for Kevin you can clearly see that psychopathic stare.

[@ajliea3445]

Definitely and it lasts for minutes

[@brittanyhoneycutt4293]

It’s so odd ….. Keven is clearly so uncomfortable Diddy is in his own world Own rules Prayers for everyone affected

[@1995marixsa]

He had shades on so you cant see it, but you can certently feel the " I'm going to kill you " aura so creepy

[@priscilladanley8722]

Devil Ditty

[@LadyVenVen]

Lmao people love to believe they are experts after they know what someone did. How did you see his stare through the sunglasses? You have x-ray vision too?

[@aniadziedzic6177]

I’ve been binge watching Spidey’s videos for a couple of days now and I need to address one thing: this channel has some of the smartest commenters I’ve seen on the Internet. The amount of knowledge I’m gaining just by reading about people’s observations and their input. The videos themselves and those comments, it’s like Harvard of content making.

[@ruckusrevolution9475]

Nah. Harvard is American. We are taking credit for Spidey 🇨🇦

[@aniadziedzic6177]

@@ruckusrevolution9475Just a figure of speech. To us in Europe, Harvard means top game. I did not know the nationality of the author and frankly, it shouldn’t matter.

[@laura-sandy1492]

My thoughts exactly: I’m genuinely blown away by all these comments.

[@denisekinzle1672]

CUFF Diddy

[@denisekinzle1672]

He contributed to breaking law

[@beautifulbutterfly7612]

He really saying, hey I don't judge,I do the same thing!

[@sandraabrahamsson6677]

Facts

[@kristy137]

💯

[@hj9738]

So true

[@rainbow9987]

Yep

[@vl82155]

Even if they abuse of your child?

[@harryevans1111]

My opinion is that the long duration of him holding an eyebrow flash is the sign of a serial abuser. I’ve said this on other videos: instead of “request for approval” (shoutout to Greg Hartley and TBP), I call this “demand for approval”. These guys will hold that look and eye contact as a challenge and not release it until you give them the validation they are demanding. This means, “give me that approval, or see what happens.” It lasts so long because Ellen is a baller and doesn’t even flinch, much less give him what he wants. He’s trying to take the dominant role right out of the gate, and he fails.

[@lotusphoenix8]

‼️‼️‼️

[@Denise225-w9k]

Yes. My brother does this. It's an aggressive bullying gesture as well.

[@laurenm3148]

This is an interesting take!

[@sonja7halcyon]

100%

[@TM-np5lq]

Good observation. This is why it's tricky to interpret body language- and how WRONG it is to spread myths like ," liars avoid eye contact"( some hold eye contact to see if they're being belived.) And With narcissists, sociopaths, psychopaths, and the Delusional, Their mental process is so different than most average people, the normal motivations and reactions aren't at play, so blanket pronouncements like" looking That direction means This," and similar nonsense.

[@yasminhabibti721]

Diddy immediately said, "it's my house," rather than admitting that perhaps he made a bad decision. Entitlement sucks.

[@kellburgess654]

I think we all know now that Diddy must have recorded EVERYTHING in that house when Chris and Rihanna were there.

[@leannabedore]

That's what Diddy is about, POWER. His first response was "first of all, it's MY house and I can invite whoever I want to MY house" we all got the point, it's HIS house. Now his new house for the rest of his life is 4 concrete walls!!

[@ClarenceSteward-x7f]

But when someone comes to you with the thought pressuring you to think like them you have to say things like that two this is my house yes to push back on the fact that you're not going to take sides.

[@fl4minratbag]

@@leannabedore YUP ! Thought the same thing. He did NOT like Ellen questioning his decisions. Why else would he feel the need to mention “it’s my house. I can no whatever I want with it” kind of attitude. That wasn’t the question diddler. 🙄

[@Lisa-r6u1w]

When he said and I was a little bit older I thought he was mocking himself being a lot older not really likely to be a sibling just kinda mocking himself being an old man to someone like Usher

[@earlgreyt123]

How sad that someone should think there's anything 'normal' about domestic violence 😢

[@lotusphoenix8]

I think the raised eyebrows in the Ellen clip had some self-righteousness and condescension to them. He was putting himself on a pedestal for being 'non-judgmental' and implying that Ellen was judgmental for even questioning him about it. Of course we know that narcissism comes with self-aggrandizement and this is a clear demonstration of that. Thank you for covering the Kevin Hart clip, proof that you do pay attention to the comments section 😊

[@reneeg4817]

Ellen is gone. Hasn't been around a while

[@lotusphoenix8]

@@reneeg4817 Gone where?

[@CLToke]

Ellen has recently popped up in a commercial with her wife Porsha selling skin care products. I know I'm late in the comments, I saw this commercial for the first time on Sept 23 2024 on Me TV.​@@lotusphoenix8

[@bbb-1-2-3]

​@@reneeg4817 irrelevant to this topic

[@nicholebryant7359]

Meanwhile he was hitting people too smh

[@powerpuff7241]

Being a survivor of domestic violence, it’s been oddly satisfying to see an abuser being called out for the way they are minimising the abuse they perpetuated. My ex was great at charming others and minimising the situation into getting people to relate to him and believe him

[@virtuoussoulhealer3644]

If he hit you once you should have left pressed charges and not went back period

[@powerpuff7241]

@@virtuoussoulhealer3644 Unfortunately, I did and had no proof. It was his word against mine, and he’s better than me in getting people to believe him. Thankfully after I got proof (in the form of a black eye and bruises all down my back and neck!) I was able to get a restraining order and now been free from him for 2 years 😊

[@AskDarlingNikki]

Yup. My ex abuser was my husband and a damn cop and my entire family is still cool with him - I literally ran across country so he couldn’t stalk me and bother me whenever TF he wanted to and they all are still connected to him on social media - that’s why they go for certain girls that they know they can do anything they want to her and no ones going to check him for it

[@powerpuff7241]

@@AskDarlingNikki sorry to hear that. Hope you’re doing much better now though?

[@AskDarlingNikki]

@@powerpuff7241 doing ok but always having to stay a few steps ahead so he doesn’t know where we live and try to keep our socials off his radars. These people are wicked and they never leave you alone.

[@Brun0s_chikenLeG]

"Pause" is a slang term used for when someone accidentally says something that sounded "gay". Someone would usually use it as reassurance to others (of whatever they said) that they didn't mean it in that way. Its usually used in joking way. But in Diddy's case, we all know that was no accident or a joke.

[@wewemcrhyne]

Thanks, I never heard that before. It definitely gives more context

[@adryeanathaboe7700]

I was looking for this comment hopefully he sees it and it adds a bit more context for him

[@falexisjr]

I appreciate your breakdown. I was interested in what the word was entailing there in that clip. I never knew its meaning.

[@LeaRNing2b1]

Im so happy ur analyzing Diddy. Its been right in front of us for 20+ yrs. Ive been saying it & nobody believed me.

[@daanestad]

Diddy said..."I don't cast stones" Umm...as in 'people who live in glass houses....."??

[@RSawR]

Classic Freudian slip of sorts here, good catch

[@DawnDavidson]

@Kittyscraftcorner-ud6ijthat’s what I heard. Either way, it implies that he has his own “sin” of which to be aware.

[@jojoone1099]

Who knows what he meant --- for a song writer / producer he uses language in an odd way.

[@jojoone1099]

I will add that I believe he said that he doesn't cast stones to suggest that the people who judge Chris and him are wrong. The subtext is that he doesn't cast stones, but others wrongly do.

[@FionaC1]

Or as in ‘let he who is without sin cast the first stone’… 🤔

[@ShanikaWSings]

I was focused on Usher’s body language and face during that whole moment. He looked mad uncomfortable. 😢

[@blueviolets52]

Similar to the way Justin Bieber appeared around him. Very creepy and sad.

[@laneneal3510]

Usher so uncomfortable. Why doesn’t Kevin get it? Or does he?

[@tambourine36]

I found he looked like he wanted to crawl under a rock. And that he was looking like he was hanging off the both of them and thanking God he had sunglasses on

[@Mehki227]

​@@laneneal3510Kevin actually already knows what was going and he actually said that it was stupid to say it live on TV.

[@orangepets]

Kevin covers his face in disbelief!!! 😅🫠😶‍🌫️

[@missysmuses]

What he was saying was that they used to wake up in bed together. Diddy was much. older. H.e almost admitted to child rape.

[@yolenda_loves_to_sing]

Yeah right? What kind of 19 year old would sleep with a 10 year old???

[@LindaC616]

People have been talking about this interview forever

[@AGAM1911]

@@yolenda_loves_to_singyou have a lot of ugly learning you need to do 😢.

[@cygnusrays]

Usher has talked about it, he was given to Combs. Usher then groomed Justin Beiber and Combs 'took' him too. The truth is coming out, which is why they are trying to put Beiber into a conservatorship.

[@angie-tq4ew]

I'm not surprised Ellen knew Diddy was sidetracking. She made a whole career of it. Especially in her earlier career, she was known for her ability to start a story, sidetrack herself on it, then come back to it flawlessly.

[@RayfieldA]

We would also later find out that Elen herself is Also quite an abuser. 😏

[@feelthejoy]

@@RayfieldAcreating a toxic workplace is not on the same level as beating your partner

[@DawnDavidson]

@@feelthejoy why? Why is it different? I am genuinely curious what you see as the differences.

[@Uriahsgrandma]

Ellen is dirty. She’s one of Didi’s closest friends and allies. Guaranteed a whole Lotta stuff about her is going to come to light.

[@tambourine36]

Interesting she was part of Diddy stuff then. Very strange

[@SwedBaben]

What he's saying is that if a man hits a woman, it's a combined fault by the both of them. We shouldn't judge Rihanna for whatever she did to make Chris hit her, we shouldn't judge Chris for hitting her, it's a private problem that no one should question. He definitely thinks a man can have legit reasons to abuse a woman.

[@cristineconnell7803]

Abusers always rationalize their actions so they have no accountability!

[@doseofdesi926]

I believe Rhianna hit Chris Brown 1st

[@Blueberryyymuffin]

@@doseofdesi926so he should retaliate? What?

[@indigomoon777]

@@doseofdesi926So he walks away and calls the cops to turn her in.

[@peterwallis4288]

​@@Blueberryyymuffinno, but it is more forgiveable if he does.

[@user-de9rx7om9v]

When he says, “we woke up together”--. That gives it away, they were in the same bed. 😮

[@KewanaNedd]

Honestly I believe Usher mother knew wut was going on. Puffy been had these mean allegations going in and she been in the game so she heard that stuff. She made it seem like she found out when they had to rush Usher to the emergency room when he was raped by Diddy and caught herpes. She knew. Y tf she didn’t sue and file charges. Usher was a kid.

[@papimurffmang]

Who was the top that's the question I heard puffy have usher herpes

[@ChloeCostas-rm2tg]

Agreed.

[@tambourine36]

That's why Kevin Hart was saying that he can't believe the words that were comi g out of his mouth

[@user-de9rx7om9v]

@@tambourine36 research Kevin Hart- he was one of Diddy’s bed 🛌 partners too!

[@ministryofhealingfarm]

But wait what about USHER he's literally frozen just smiling & slowly fading backwards. Analyze Ushers response too!

[@rockyfrederick681]

I agree. Usher's behavior said a lot.

[@AdrienneA-i5c]

Usher lived with Diddy as a 13 year old. Imagine all the trauma he must be hiding.

[@BeckyE84]

Yes! Ushers whole demeanor goes iron straight and frozen. He's pissed.

[@whatoncewas8480]

Right????!!!!!

[@celestestinejohnson1382]

Yup he even looked around

[@ThatsBoujee]

Im so happy you explained the Kevin Hart interview clip because it was always so awkward to watch (why rich folks have to fight over cereal never made sense) and even with understanding "pause" is slang for like "not to sound gay" or like "at the risk of sounding gay" but it was crazy being used right there bcuz like you said it wasn't a big deal but it was his guilty thoughts 🤯that makes perfect sense!

[@TheBehavioralArts]

Yeah. The words may not mean “pause” as in “stop” but his whole body language and words literally pause like he’s freezing. Something concerning was in his head even if we wouldn’t have noticed if he had just kept talking

[@Zinozad]

@@TheBehavioralArts The serious look he gave Kevin Hart is really scary, too. You see for a split second how he's not kidding at all. Damn.

[@StephanieGPN4790]

Yes it’s scary how Kevin Hart seems to realize something was going on and Diddy caught on to him. I hope for the good of Hart that he kept away from him.

[@ace1007]

What made bad was also Usher was underaged at the time diddy was speaking on

[@DeborahEaston-h2z]

As a woman of color, I don’t feel Ditty situation is NOT about color. What we’ve witnessed on that video was wrong! Plain and simple! My message to him is “what goes around comes around!👿

[@lowlowseesee]

im black as well and I have women friends of every color from black white to asian who have all let someone like diddy get away with rape or beatings all because he was black. then these same men go on to harm someone else. you add in the religiosity of kelly price types who want to bring up things like deities instead of actually addressing the issue.

[@bobbicatt]

You’re right, it’s more about money fame and privilege thinking you can get away with it.

[@cristineconnell7803]

I don't think the shade of the wrapper has anything to do with the perversions & evils l he has chosen! Content of Character, & his is being revealed as sorely lacking! It in no way reflects on anyone who may have a similar shade of wrapper! 🌹👍

[@thekeysman6760]

​@@bobbicattYou misread what the OP said and you're saying the opposite! Read it again...

[@thekeysman6760]

​@@cristineconnell7803The OP implies she does think colour is related. She said "I DON'T feel Diddy situation is NOT about colour."

[@Livingrentfreeinyomind77]

if you look at the alleged "blind items" about these celebrities mentioned here, you will see that this is much much bigger and worse than we even think. i think it's fair to say we need to turn away from these celebrities and celebrity culture.

[@Gloria00082]

💯 I was just thinking that the other day. Imagine the downfall of so many celebrities if everyone simply unsubscribed 😮❤

[@peterphan227]

"I don't cast stones"...n, he just casts fists and feet and vases at his girlfriends.

[@WillH-uu3iv]

It can be used as a reference to other things . But it does sound like self dry snitching

[@mkb7013]

You notice how Usher didn’t even pull away or speak up for himself.

[@LindaC616]

He just moved back and got real quiet

[@woomeebly]

He's absolutely terrified . Remember that monster tore him open like a Christmas present. He went hospital for it. Poor guy. And he was a teenager too.

[@mkb7013]

@@woomeebly I had not heard about that! Omg that’s awful! 😢

[@littlemonster2483]

I have sympathy for what Usher went through as kid but not for what he let happen to Justin Bieber. He sold Justin to the slaughter house when Justin was only 15!!!

[@AskDarlingNikki]

@@woomeeblyWTF I’ve never heard of this omg

[@shelbyday5522]

The term “pause” also has the meaning of being the word (for example) a group of friends are having a conversation and someone says something that can be interpreted in a sexual way, they acknowledge it by saying “pause” so the group knows that the person who said it knows it sounds wrong. It’s mostly a joke- but the way Diddy said it definitely has guilty conscience in the tone for sure

[@kayyb]

It also means… stop with out telling the person to stop. It expresses your disagreement with what’s being said

[@kayyb]

It also means… stop with out telling the person to stop. It expresses your disagreement with what’s being said

[@PureNapture]

⁠@@kayybit doesn’t in the way he meant it. Pause in urban terms is akin to homosexual implication.

[@alinaigrad]

I came here to say the same. 😅

[@ValerieBognar]

It could be "wake up" often refers to doing meth to "wake up" and people who use that phrase may assume everyone else knows what that means as it is quite obvious that is what you meant. So he realized he said something stupid he said pause and redirects the conversation to something that might make more sense to people who don't know what he meant. It appears to be him trying to explain away the phrase Woke Up. Rewatch with the idea he just said "we did meth" and it all fits. Just my opinion, I absolutely love your videos, you are very perceptive and your attention to all the detail is amazing

[@standuser9696]

Yall remember this lyric "You was more than my girl, we was like brothers, All night we would play fight under covers". From the song "I need a girl"

[@twentyyears_later]

True 😅😅 good point...

[@tiffanymichaels2429]

What?!!

[@veliceligt02]

@@tiffanymichaels2429 Biggie lyrics I think.

[@CARLACADENAS81]

Oh snap

[@mkb7013]

I just threw up in my mouth a little bit with that realization.

[@mellparis8354]

I think Kevin actually made the cereal the main point to take away from the stutter… to deviate from the when we used to wake up part.

[@tambourine36]

I actually think Kevin made a huge deal of it all by saying that he shouldn't be talking about this

[@fl4minratbag]

YES !! Cause when Hart was going on about “omg I can’t believe Puff just admitted to fighting over cereal with Usher, is no one else going to say something about that” like Boy pls 🤣 u think THAT’S the part that had us like. 😮 we don’t give no fucks about that damn cereal 😂

[@alohawhy]

​@@fl4minratbagtrue. Kevin is professional, he knows Diddy diddled Usher. Usher was just 10 years old.

[@Fluvienne]

Kevin WAS trying to diffuse it. He recognized the slip but then jumped on the cover-up with his playful sarcasm. “Oh no! Not wrestling over Frosted Flakes! You can’t let people hear THAT!” Kevin wanted the audience to focus on the Frosted Flakes wrestling (which he knew was bullshit), and not on the “no, pause” moment.

[@flintforever711]

I don't believe the "Usher slip-up," was really a slip-up. I feel like Diddy was intentionally trying to put Ushers business out there. Perhaps, trying to keep control of Usher, for some reason...you know, keep him "in line," so to speak.

[@donatapowell8143]

Bingo! 🎯 I saw an even worse video a year ago where Diddy went to Usher's Las Vegas residency, and they were backstage, and he totally humiliated him. He referenced the "wrestling for the Frosted flakes" and was swearing and cursing while the people backstage watched on in confusion. That's when I realised that he really did abuse Usher when he was a kid.

[@travis5772]

I think he was too high and slipped up live.

[@terrylarrabee3807]

Did it seem that Kevin knew about what really happened and could not believe Diddy went there and outed himself?

[@laneneal3510]

I wondered if he was in the dark or knew.

[@ChloeCostas-rm2tg]

@@laneneal3510 I think Kevin Hart knew.

[@JodiBlu]

In the great words of Biggie, if you don't know now you know

[@killergma]

I was always told that it was bcuz of my abusive childhood that I display ‘inappropriate’ behavior in certain situations (like cry when I’m happy or laugh or smile when I’m angry) yet I see this same behavior in my son. It’s good to learn it’s our brain trying to balance itself and not that I’m broken and somehow passed it on, I don’t know, like genetically or something and broke my son. Sounds like a weird belief but it’s what I thought 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@lotusphoenix8]

I'm glad you're free from that belief

[@earlgreyt123]

Always called it 'nervous tension'. Like the time my friend got a fit of the giggles while lowering their father's casket!😬

[@ChatWithAUnicorn]

Our kids pick up our behaviors by proxy. You're not broken and neither is your son. I'm so glad seeing this helped you know that. ❤

[@heathersmith5680]

This also helped me understand my sometimes bad timing humor as a coping mechanism. Good to know.

[@angelicanavarro5311]

I am pausing to say that hearing you, at the 14:46 mark, say that people don’t go through those types of extremes is a validating thing to hear. When my mom remarried I watched her get yelled at by her husband and there were times where I was genuinely scared of how far it would escalate. And when I tried to (in my eyes) save my mom, he would often tell me that it’s normal for married couples to fight, but I was always in doubt that their fights were normal. It never escalated to anything beyond the yelling, thank goodness, but something about him saying “all couples go through this” rubbed me the wrong way. So I had to take a moment in this video to thank you, Spidey.

[@BawonSamdi1]

Yelling at each other in a relationship is normal. My wife & me are yelling at each other at least twice a weak. And most of the times that yelling didn't make any sense at all, from both sides :D But there was never any violence involved, there were like 3 times when I got angry and pushed her a bit towards the bed so she would be a bit shocked but fall soft and I'm not proud of that but I would never do something to harm her, since that's usually what you wanna prevent at all cost if you love someone. That's btw the creepiest thing of them all to me personally, is that Diddy is talking about being loved by everyone and named his last album the love album. That so freaking creepy that a sexual assaulter, pimp and sex trafficker even DARES to think or speak about real love when in fact, he has to pay people big money so they would have sex with him or he needs to force them violently into Sex with him or he drugs them to weaken them so he can sexually abuse them, I swear this 50+ yr old child molester doesn't know what actual Love is about or has a completely contrary idea of that term.

[@southernzen365]

Ugh and you can tell within first seconds when he takes off his sunglasses with the sound that he's sooooo use to being center of all attention and it's such a big deal he took them off😂😂😂

[@TirraOmilade]

I thought the same thing!

[@mkb7013]

Omg I caught that too. Like he has such a God complex!!!

[@andrewkratz226]

Thought the same thing

[@Melinamiu007]

Scary how fame can make you believe your own hype

[@airkami]

I hate celebrity, but because it is so influential on society it is my duty to watch your videos about the collapse of it, one case at a time! God bless you, brother!

[@FrankieAlisha]

It seems like Kevin was trying to divert from the ‘wake up’ comment, as in waking up in the same bed by bringing up the cornflakes.

[@OmaAlkebulan-grace]

I hate the statement 😒 that I don't believe in judgment!!! What the F is that 😳????????? It's all we do as humans judge what's good for us what's not good for us; what to wear 😕 what not to wear etc. Smh

[@BeckyE84]

He was literally judging for the Tweeting. "I wouldn't Tweet about that. " like I'm better than that, I look down on that behavior. So many statements like "I don't judge other people" is a huge red flag, overcompensation or trying to soften up behaviors. Yes you do judge. You trying to convince us you don't is telling.

[@tambourine36]

He doesn't believe in judgement because he does the same thing

[@mayfalltribe4747]

The fact you said "what to wear" reveals a little bout you. Ur judging people based on what they wear lol. Thats just shallow and sad.

[@TattooedPink]

Cheers! Thank you for posting this, he deserves everything he's going to get 🤬

[@killergma]

18:25 he said wrestle “off” the Frosted Flakes like what is THAT? When inebriated the defenses are lowered and truth slips out. 18:38 the look on Diddy’s face when Kevin starts talking about what he said was even more telling than the MULTIPLE slips in that speech “when he was 10 and I was umm older” 😒

[@twirlingparasol_]

Right? I definitely took issue with the "wrestle off of the Frosted Flakes," which is what I hear. It gives me a different mental picture than the one I have with siblings fighting "over" the Frosted Flakes... 😬

[@swfern777]

​@twirlingparasol_ Right. For some reason, drugs came to mind...Cocaine?

[@killergma]

@@twirlingparasol_ exactly, that was a Freudian slip there

[@twirlingparasol_]

@@killergma YES and to your second point, YES!! That look is predatory and terrifying! The Internet and everything being easily recorded has become very inconvenient for people like Diddy, they're running out of shadows to scatter to... But yeah oh man... Spidey said it, it's like he realizes all of a sudden "oh wait I can't actually intimidate and muscle this dude out of here right now cause cameras". Freaky AF and I feel nauseous thinking about his victims and what they must have gone through at his hands. He will pay for it, I do believe that. One way or another.

[@janephillips6031]

Yes i think they had a little play fight/wrestleing when they woke up.. and the loser had to go get the creal perhaps? Also, I can imagjne an abuser telling a child that it's "just a bit of play fighting".. or "having a bit of a wrestle or pillow fight" to confuse the child, in turn that normal harmless tussle turns into sexual abuse. ​@@twirlingparasol_

[@nonilove017]

Sean and Ellen are good friends lol. (He was on her show 19-20 times!) She ran recently when paparazzi asked her about Diddy 😮

[@reneeg4817]

Ellen is under house arrest.

[@DawnDavidson]

@@reneeg4817 that appears to be a claim from 4 years ago, and false. There are multiple articles debunking it.

[@reneeg4817]

@@DawnDavidson no I saw pictures.

[@nonilove017]

👀

[@aprildegregory4251]

@@reneeg4817 conspiracy theory

[@kimberlylaughner5067]

You’re absolutely right the look he gave Kevin was scary! We got a glimpse of the control and fear he used on others.

[@heidirobinson6432]

He wanted to wring Kevin’s neck. I bet Kevin paid dearly for this mistake

[@zacharysherry2910]

He doesn't move his eyebrows because he's a sociopath

[@FindYourFree]

psychopath. they are very icy. they literally don't care and are very good at masking. sociopaths are less controlled

[@privatepo5876]

It’s psychopaths, hence the phrase “psychopath stare”.

[@MGT2060]

It’s botox

[@KTD1988]

His eyebrows are shaped like little horns 👹

[@bernadetteflynn5005]

Just found your channel. Boy have you the “gift of the gab” . Well done, so succinct, so on point. I could listen to you all day. 👏👏❤️🇮🇪. Goes without saying I’ve subscribed.

[@specialK312]

whenever people say "I don't judge people for ......" I have to assume that the person making this statement has a particular reason for claiming that they don't judge people for whatever it is that person is being judged for specifically because they themselves are also guilty for that or something of equality in their own lives as well. I judge everyone for everything at all times. Including myself.

[@vodkavuitton]

🎯🎯🎯

[@LaDimplez91]

Exactly. Guilt is such a strong emotion that it will make you do or say things involuntarily.

[@laneneal3510]

I think Diddy was trying to change some history to public in case something got leaked. Grabbing Kevin was to stop his redderick.

[@yourfutureisnow6480]

Right? As human beings, we are always judging, and we need to in order to be discerning.

[@penelopepalm]

These comments are filled with land mines. I have to stop reading them. In the spirit of your community Spidey, i am not trying to fight with anyone. But there are so many people here that need to spend some time with themselves and figure out why they think there’s any justification for the beating that Rihanna got.

[@charm59]

It’s simply because we all share cultural differences. With all respect.

[@penelopepalm]

@@charm59 cultural differences may explain WHY Rihanna was beaten. But it shouldn’t justify it. Are you saying it’s common in some cultures to express anger physically in a relationship? Maybe because they were disciplined by being beaten? It may explain why he hit Rihanna. Or why she may have hit him or provoked an argument. It doesn’t mean it’s ok. That’s not ok. Her face was swollen up, lip broken. No.

[@kentjohnson2243]

No justification. But Rihanna did not curl in ball and get stomped out . She was fighting, too . She actually hit him first. But who cares right? . She is a woman so she is allowed to do that. So much so . . The narrative gets twisted like she didn't hit him at all.

[@penelopepalm]

@@kentjohnson2243 your first line and last line contradict each other.

[@kentjohnson2243]

@penelopepalm the second part was clearly sarcasm. It sounds so absurd it couldn't be anything but so

[@katfromthekong414]

Cuteness aggression is one of the most fascinating psychological processes 😆 human behaviour is never going to not be entertaining

[@MrFreeze29]

When he was talking about his house that's when you have to be sharp in realizing he's a narcissist. People like that live to talk high and mighty about themselves.

[@mademsoisellerhapsody]

And every room in the house was bugged and had cameras.

[@natalieclark5819]

Great video! I do have to say, though, the cash theft test - if my employer asked me that question with that slight smile, I think I would be alarmed, concerned they were suggesting they thought I did it or had knowledge.

[@pzh3334]

Because I would NEVER steal cash from my job, I would probably naturally be a little shocked or angry that someone could do such a terrible thing. Now I know to treat it like gossip to not accidentally incriminate myself 😂

[@247Sarah]

I might be feeling suspicious that they weren't more upset and serious about it and maybe even wonder if the manager took it. It would depend on how long I'd worked with the person and how much trust there was between us.

[@KimmyPJammin]

That man is guilty of things that are better off staying out of the media. I feel for his victims and appreciate that good intended people like you are making him known. Too many ppl sat around and let him become a monster for too long because of money and power and social status. Thx Spidey

[@ntokozo..]

I somehow feel like Kevin’s laughter has nothing to do with the cereal story they choose to focus on.

[@BebeNow]

Agreed, Kevin was laughing before the cereal story. He laughed right after “we used to wake up damn pause” … and as Diddy sounded more ridiculous, and stupid he just kept on laughing. If you look at Diddy, he’s trying to figure out what Kevin is laughing about. Hmmm 🤔 does he know what’s going on in my head. So disgusting

[@mjgsuperincredible382]

22:00 everything you said was extremely on point. I just wanted to let you know something about the word "pause" - When someone says "pause", it's actually another way of saying "no homo" meaning, "no homosexual" So this crazily works out for both reasonings you're reasoning and the urban dictionary reasoning- I'm not trying to be rude to anybody or anything. I'm just explaining something.

[@YouLoseSir]

not necessarily homosexual but anything sexual, i.e. something said with a non-sexual connotation but could be said in regards to a sexual situation

[@TheBehavioralArts]

Thanks for the clarification and respectful tone I really appreciate the way you communicated this. 😊 I made a pinned comment about it. Oddly it doesn’t change the analysis at all, none of us would have noted anything wrong with the sentence if he didn’t get all weird about it.

[@MariaCosta-qe4wm]

I can't wait to see this but I'm going to wait until later because I have major insomnia and I need something good to watch while I'm laying in bed tossing and turning. Just feel like saying, thank you Spidey for your very humane and unbiased analysis. Your ethics are commendable and I hope you become huge. Just please, please don't ever let it get to your head. The fact that you are humble and relatable, while also an expert, is what we love about you!

[@unmagicalmushroom]

The scariest part is at absolutely no point in this interview does he show an understanding of the difference between men hitting women and women hitting men. It’s like a mini justification within itself.

[@elle_sanchez]

It is about time for these rich and entitled people be held accountable for their actions. R Kelly ✅ Harvey Weinstein ✅ Jeffrey Epstein ✅ DJT ✅ Now it’s Diddy’s turn face the consequences of his inexcusable behavior.

[@tiffanymichaels2429]

Unfortunately Weinstein has been released. I believe it was overturned. That was something I just heard about last night. Was watching a clip of a stand up comedian telling women to take to administering justice themselves because the system fails them.

[@majaklaic7964]

AND YOU FORGOT THE 1 THAT WAS DOING IT FOR THE LONGEST TIME: HUGH HEFNER!!!!!!!!!!

[@SharronDenice]

Dont put Trump in that group of people, ma’am come on now.

[@kiwikimmy]

@@SharronDeniceWhy wouldn't she, DJT has literally been found guilty of sexual assault (which is only one case out of at least 30 for which he has been accused). She's simply stating the truth, not intentionally making the topic political. Facts are facts, period.

[@SharronDenice]

@@kiwikimmy what you just said is not fact, he was not found liable for rape in the case. The jurors rejected claims she was raped, as for anything else only Trump and the accuser know.

[@luisafernandadeleon7906]

That is so true! “If he can’t judge, ha can’t forgive” 👏👏👏 love that!

[@OmaAlkebulan-grace]

He tries to normalize and standardized bad behavior and misbehavior 😮

[@kassaArt]

We pay more attention since "me two" but beforehand, we were too in love with celebrities and often considered them to be mentors.. I'm sure many eyebrows would be raised now but back then, no one thought anything of a boy having a "sleepover" at his mentors house! 👀 👁 🥴

[@meglyn2383]

The thing with Rihanna ALLEGEDLY happened at a freak off where Chris walked in on her doing something intimate to someone else as what had always been expected by Diddy and Jayz who trafficked her from her father in Barbados at the age of 16. Chris made a comment that she is always doing this particular intimate thing to other men and walked out. Then she followed him and started hitting him in the car. This information came from an insider.

[@jaydenyarborough8682]

Jaguar wright told the entire story. Chris continues to get crucified while she gets off free. He caught her with a CEO while about to confront her for giving him herpes. She attacked him. Why is this never brought up?

[@carladavis1473]

And you believe the earth is flat too

[@SarahSodaPop]

You're totally right when you explained what is happening in Diddy's head after mentioning he lived with Usher. I wouldn't have been able to see that if I hadn't known what I know now.

[@mkb7013]

26:10 and then Usher looks extremely uncomfortable.

[@mademsoisellerhapsody]

Even with sunglasses 😎

[@goodvibrations6]

This is 25:52

[@KristaHolden]

The concept of fighting over the good cereal like brothers is ridiculous. Diddy was a millionaire even at that time. If there was a favourite cereal, he would have had multiple boxes. He just found a heart warming thought that most people have experienced

[@kellycurry1177]

Thanks for the insights. I have seen that Usher/Hart video at least half a doz.times and never caught the zero in "shut up man" stone face attack that followed....however brief...it's pretty horrifying =(

[@TheBehavioralArts]

Yep. He goes into alpha mode big time

[@KTD1988]

And the look on his face 😠

[@ehendriks100]

In the last clip I was actually waiting that you also commented on Usher and how he was standing there with his face expressions. Especially when Diddy right away was whispering something to him before he perked up to Heart.

[@shellybarnes5429]

I'm sorry but he is threatening her not to push too far. His face and tone of voice says intimidation and a desire to dominate. Growing up with abusers, this is how they would respond as well.

[@kieronimo1]

Diddy was high. He started talking without processing in time. He used to sleep with Usher, obviously, and checked himself as (even though what he was saying was initially innocent) he realised how it could be taken. Usher remained quiet, but was probably dying inside. Kevin knew the score and thought it was funny. He was also high and couldn't control his response, which further exposed Diddy. Diddy became angry with Kevin and turned to aggression (as we know he often does) to silence him, but managed to control himself. If they weren't drunk and high, this wouldn't have happened.

[@phylis3917]

“Sleep with”. 😅

[@kieronimo1]

@@phylis3917 well, yeah. In the context of "we used to wake up". Obvs, he used to bum him too.

[@enlighteningstar]

The way he's getting defensive when the audience was showing support from Ellen saying women shouldn't go back to abusive relationships. He constantly tries to minimize abuse and turn attention away from the victim into empathy for the abuser. But I feel if it was the other way around, a woman hitting a man, he would do a 180° and try to empathize with the man. Because the real truth is Diddy doesn't see women as people, he sees them as property and pawns in his game. Which you can see in the silent the power struggle he's having with Ellen and trying to get her to agree with him to get the audience (pretty much all women) to agree. Something about the way he said "I don't think anyone should hit anyone, at the end of the day". To me "at the end of the day" can be a qualifier in some contexts, similar to when people say "trust me". He's trying to make it seem like that's his overall belief, but implying that there could be some situations where he does believe that's okay (which most people would assume is self-defense) or possibly that he's suggesting he doesn't always follow it even if he says he believes it (which we now know to be the likely reason). Usually when I hear people use the phrase "at the end of the day" there's usually a "but" or "however" or some sort of contradicting statement after, if not before. It can also be a transitional statement to try to change the subject or as a final stance to avoid further questions or conflict.

[@JacquelineLeubin]

Can you please analyze Clive Davis talking about the night Whtiney Houston was murdered? Thanks.

[@SaintDiosa]

His stare and Jay-Z stare always scared the shit out of me

[@jagilo9677]

Yeah! Nope. Regarding the “cash been missing, do you know anything about it?” Smile… and the boss asks me, the only Hispanic, I would be offended and want to know if they asked someone else first or maybe they stole the money and wants to blame the scapegoat.

[@lolsaXx]

I watched him for the first time ever on Graham Norton, 6 months ago. He was talking about is new name being "Love." His whole demeanour just crept me out. Not somebody I'd want to be around.

[@chrissylee325]

He is really creepy! My uncle owned a magazine in the 90s early 2000s and diddy was the the rudest self centered person he ever interviewed. He even showed up 3 hours late. No care in the world for anyone but himself.

[@pzh3334]

The whole love thing has been WEIRD AF!! None of it has ever sat well with me. It's always felt like he was trying to hard to force ab idea about himself on us.

[@firstnamelastname4427]

​@@pzh3334 For me it felt like watching a cult leader in action.

[@toniwilliams3469]

I cant really explain why but Diddy's eyes (in general) tells alot for me. All i see is guilt...does anyone else see it??

[@alchemicalsoul]

He's a malignant narcissist. He can't hide it. We have known since the beginning of Bad Boy.

[@moonlitpearl700]

@@cnitevedi4832 yes, his eyes are dead. No life in them

[@hellooogirlss]

his eyes look like he is constantly gauging how others react to the bullshit that comes out of his mouth.. evil

[@4theFaith]

If you have a history of being in physically abusive relationships you start to believe that all relationships are abusive. I’m talking about Diddy here. It’s obvious, from this interview, that he thinks this is common and that “everyone has dark moments”. When he says that he’s specifically referring to physical abuse. He doesn’t seem to understand or believe that this is not the norm. This is NOT right, but maybe HE is right, that it happens much more often than we talk about. Here, Ellen is saying oh I don’t judge, but clearly she is and he’s actually calling her on it. Diddy thinks he is acting as a good friend to both of them by allowing them the space to talk about it and resolve the issue. He believes this is a little spat; that little spat’s often result in physical abuse (by one or both parties) and therefore we should all move on and forgive. It really brings the most current apology to more clarity. He just really doesn’t know what a healthy relationship looks like. Sad for him (and his exs which include Jenifer Lopez who I have always thought has been standoffish from him).

[@mademsoisellerhapsody]

Nope. Diddy was offering his cameras-and-audio in every room house to settle their spat in. With what we know now the offer is not about safety and privacy.

[@kenyahogan2399]

My question is what happened at the house. I remember when this happened, I thought it was so random that they would be at his house for anything.

[@daliciously]

They made up and got back together !

[@daliciously]

Then broke up again

[@edo-j1784]

I love this video as I myself am very interested in reading body language...I watch everything I come across regarding this issue. Cool channel, wish I discovered it sooner! Thanks!

[@Alwayzblessed36]

Notice how he is referring to the abuse as "a dark time" when he won that award he shouted out Cassie and said "for holding me down during the dark times"

[@VendieSolde]

I knew exactly where he was going when he said it's my house....he has too big of an ego.

[@IngerThomas]

Of all the relationships I’ve had, personal or family I have wanted to heal not hurt. The fights begin when someone wants to hurt. All the time or some of the time is inexcusable not “the darkest time”. Not taking responsibility simply means no wrong doing in his mind.

[@Em_Powell_KC]

It’s ok to discern when someone is committing a crime and then distance yourself. That doesn’t mean you think that person is garbage and is unredeemable! Those are separate issues! There is no excuse to abuse someone, ever!

[@OmaAlkebulan-grace]

Uhser looks so embarrassed 😳 and disgusted

[@mycameo12]

He's subconsciously telling on himself without consciously being aware he's telling on himself. 🙄

[@phillyphill1985]

Just look at Usher's face right after Diddy says, "we used to wake up" (17:06) it's the face of someone who is thinking back to some not so good times. You can just feel it.

[@ChloeCostas-rm2tg]

So very sad.

[@ColdHawk]

I like the point about eyebrow raising in social communication. There is a subset of eyebrow raising expressions that seem to do with a challenge. As I observe it, it can be an aggressive signal. It’s warning a person they are on dangerous ground and approaching significant conflict. When incorporated in some expressions which include more prominent elements of questioning and anger, particularly with the head noticeably tilted back or forward with chin jutting out or the chin tucked so the eyes are looking out from under the brow ridge, it reads to me as, “I’m surprised by your boldness. Are you sure you want to do this? Because I might have to mess you up if you press me.” I think many of the people with whom Combs normally surrounds himself would have backed off in a hurry but Ellen is not operating out of a context where the possibility of violence is at least given constant lip service if not an imminent reality. She just charges on, and given the audience reaction he has to stay with it. Disengaging at that point would send a message that he did want to send.

[@Opera1sLife]

Do the Usher, Snoop Dogg, Martha Stewart and Diddy meal! It was crazy how nervous Usher became talking to Diddy. To the point he started sweating

[@KC-ut8bu]

That Ellen interview was so cringe n hard to watch 🫣

[@louloubell6586]

There is another interview I've seen recently where he says a woman he's with should accept she won't like how he treats her 25% of the time because he'll be great to her 75%. That he'll mess around on the side and she has to accept it. He says it in front of his son.

[@tanikataylor5617]

I notice that Usher seems to be very uncomfortable as well, he doesn't find it as hilarious as Kevin nor Diddy does. He's just standing there smiling awarkedly, as if there is some underlying secret

[@airkami]

After reading comments, I would also say that he wasn’t saying “eating Frosted Flakes” he said wrestling over Frosted Flakes “a masculine behavior” which is very “straight” but it also could be a double entendres for bed play which could have triggered further panic.

[@simonebaker4915]

I don’t understand when he refers to the darkest times… of the abuser??

[@airkami]

Yeah he was “a friend going through something” like getting caught abusing someone

[@susanlisson7066]

Something else I noticed when Diddy was trying to minimise the abuse being discussed with Ellen was the shifty way he keeps looking from side to side as he’s talking. I generally don’t trust what people say when they keep moving their eyes and head around like that. He was so squirrelly which makes him appear nervous and apprehensive like he has something to hide.

[@It.Is.I]

Waking up with minors and doing drugs with them ain’t cool.

[@semolinasemolina8327]

Wow, if we dont have the power to judge, we dont have the power to forgive. That is a really powerful address of forgiveness in itself.

[@user-go1px9kt1v]

3:37 except what yall seem to forget is THAT RIHANNA wasnt only cheating on Chris she was abusive verbally and physical. She also had gave him an STD and while driving was beating on him then she threw away the keys to the car

[@SCIFIVAMPIRE]

I'd love to see a video of you analyzing the best interviewers.

[@daniellebrucks2776]

To me it seems like he’s speaking in an aggressive tone with Ellen. Like he’s mad about her bringing it up.

[@juanita-Var7]

No one should feel an obligation to forgive or support ANYONE who abuses others. Abusers have an obligation to fix themselves. Period.