Never Do These 5 Things With a Man

[@savvysally6564]

The five things not to do: 1. Try to find a relationship when you're desperate. 2. Never be with a man who pushes you away or gives you the ick. 3. Never create a co-dependent relationship. 4. Never agree to a partner below you. 5. Never suffer in a relationship.

[@zarielxx]

amen

[@gpeximenez359]

3. Codependency is natural, the thing is to keep balance. This is more like complement each other but be aware of ur individuality and strengths. 5 you will always suffer in one way or the other, ask any happily married couple. It is totally natural it’s actually healthy. The thing is why are u suffering about and if it’s actually breaking u apart then it’s not. Again, it’s a balance bc it cannot all be peace and fun and love. Life and humans have dark sides and they will show up, at some point. Just choose wisely what u want to handle about him IMOOOO

[@AlfredBakovich-ms5dt]

Said the hookup masters

[@petter9078]

Never suffer? Are we living on the same planet?

[@pumpyourselfup7683]

​@@petter9078 social media relationship standards to keep everyone Single

[@prettyprincesslexi]

I died at "finance, trust fund, 6'5, blue eyes" 😂

[@ordinaryvalley]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@alexis_diachina_art]

Me too lol

[@BanraplangPangniang]

It’s kinda crazy how nobody’s talking about the book Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest.

[@mellowmorgan]

Spam eweeee

[@TheLuckystar15]

Ladies and Germs

[@HazelMornings]

I know! 😂 I’m absolutely using this term from now on.

[@foggy_brain8665]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@BashaerB-h2c]

💀💀😭😭😭

[@debopriyak7254]

😂😂😂

[@MelisJoy]

😂😆

[@iberbboo1016]

mother is mothering

[@MsOrganicBlack]

I love herrrrrr

[@sagenosnibor9173]

🫰🏾 🫰🏾

[@arykahleigh4570]

Word ❤

[@Trancymind]

As a man, if I don't see her mothering skills, she will never be the mother of our future kids. A happy woman will make a sandwich for her husband and he will be grateful, happy and value her as an important wife, person and teammate partner. Selfish women are better off being alone forever as well as selfish men. Kids are the ones who suffered the most by being taken advantage by both of their selfish parents.

[@ilariamasullo3353]

​@@Trancymindas a man, you can learn how to make your own sandwiches. You've got hands at the end of your arms

[@cedian3811]

I've been married 31 years and have my person but I still get something from your podcast. You are a natural, giving info that many women need

[@ASTROJJEN]

@@cedian3811 not married for 31 years but in a steady relationship and same. This is not an act to get a man. It's a lifestyle to get yourself

[@CiaraRubin]

same! married 10 yrs

[@akwhit3107]

She is the mother of 2 beautiful children…and then all of us

[@mind_palace]

Us, the spring chickens🙌❤️

[@sabat8068]

1:03 ladies and germs 😂😂😂

[@CeciledeLuire]

"hello my little gorgoeus spring chicken" is sth that i might copy- so lovely 😀

[@j.o.y_aliba]

I loved it as well🤣

[@CeciledeLuire]

@@j.o.y_aliba ☺

[@russianlitnerd5265]

I just love her she’s so funny with a straight face😂

[@danilaroche1156]

She's very witty. Beautiful. I pray she turns her heart to Christ.

[@remjen1734]

7 minutes in and I’m blown away. My ex, for 25 years, I constantly had UTI’s and he stunk unless fresh out of the shower. Every teenage girl needs to know this. Bless you for this.

[@JAYD1476]

Some ppl just smell nth wrong w it. It's human

[@DiamondsRexpensive]

​@@JAYD1476Normal body odour is fine. Everyone has that. But if you're not taking care of your hygiene and your negligence is throguh the roof, then do everyone a favour and stay single whether you're a man or a woman.

[@JAYD1476]

@DiamondsRexpensive yeah there is a reason ppl stay away from ppl like you. Like I mentioned body odour is fine. If you have. High metabolism and sweat ALOT,you can take 3 showers a day and still smell bc you sweat. I have a very high metabolism and I take care of myself very well but I sweat as soon as I leave my shower. Do I care ab anth person finding that odd?not that much. Ppl like you w zero self awareness 🙄 🤣🤣have 2 brain cells and that's why you respond like that

[@ayumisae6864]

“You need to have options in your life, with or without him. If you have options in your life of where you can go, people you can be with, things you can do…” This is number 1 rule in life. 👏 Always have the option to walk away. Always make sure that you have the financial security, savings, education, your own job/career, friends, family or whatever you need to always, at any time, have options and be able to just walk away from an unsuitable relationship. This way you are always able to reinvent yourself and keep moving forward instead of being trapped in a codependent relationship. With options, anything is possible.

[@Thomassina1]

Truer words were never spoken, it gives you a sense of confidence too; same goes for your job.

[@Eddyeden11]

Smell is important because it signals biocompatibility.

[@ZeinebBoujeh]

i thought he just didn't wear deodorant

[@DiamondsRexpensive]

​@@ZeinebBoujehNo, it is deeper than that.

[@bambina011]

Yes but also doesnt mean that person in good for you. Its just a good biological sign.

[@Widget96]

Love this. In a relationship, you should never be in a position where you feel you need to point out the value of your effort, time, and care, to your partner for them to see it. If they make you feel like these things aren't valued and/or reciprocated in their own meaningful ways, then your partner doesn't actually value you. When they make this mistake once, it's a mistake. When they make it again after you expressed your needs, it is then a conscious choice. They are telling you they don't find meeting your needs valuable. I just set boundaries this morning with this. I know my value. I will only engage with men who are capable of meeting me on the depth of emotional intimacy and security I bring, which is significant.

[@wbmrqugx]

All men I have dated gave me urinary tract infection... And I was thinking about my body knowing when we are not compatible... Interesting that you mentioned that

[@danilaroche1156]

Maybe that's God's way of saying not to have sex with men you are dating. I know it's challenging but wait till you at least have a commitment. Sex bonds people. The woman usually gets anxious and the man begins to run OR he will use her. God loves you & doesn't want you harmed.

[@72SOLDVEGAS]

Either they were having anal ( with someone) or somehow your own fecal bacteria was making it’s way to your vagina.

[@not-a-russianbot8845]

I wonder if it is the same with developing vaginismus... The sex gets more painful for me towards the end of the relationship... It's like the body is rejecting it.

[@wbmrqugx]

@@not-a-russianbot8845 I guess body always knows....

[@s.stevens4520]

Make sure you’re going pee right after doing the deed. That literally should stop this issue for you.

[@luxvumedia212]

Spring chickens, kingfishers, parrots, a broken hoofed deer, frolicking otters, guilt inducing shrews. This was more than entertaining lol. Honestly as a man, I really like the advice you speak to women, and I find value in it for myself :)

[@pritha12345]

I find men with good personality and communication skills attractive.

[@Sozybae4286]

Margarita pls talk about how to raise our standards and how to attract desired partner into our lives

[@danilaroche1156]

For me it was turning my life over to Jesus Christ & that's the truth. I learned self love, purpose and more.

[@estrellalapute83]

She has a couple videos on these subjects ❤️ I binge watch her when I feel down

[@Sozybae4286]

@@danilaroche1156 Could you recommend a YT vid or any source about this?

[@pandora9814]

​@danilaroche1156 did you end up attracting a man you wanted ?

[@foggy_brain8665]

Same ​@@danilaroche1156

[@melindal.9189]

A man’s scent is vital in my decision on whether or not I stay. If I love my man, I am also attracted to his scent even after he has been mowing the lawn or working out. Actually, I am more attracted to his scent when he’s a little bit sweaty. My ex-husband; after realizing he was having an affair, I could not bear the scent of his skin.

[@CHRISTChrysalisInManhaim]

That last part is intense lol..I've always loved the sound/tone/pitch of my partner's voice(s), like men I've had strong attraction for. I also get this intoxicating rush from smelling their armpits. It's like catnip or something Ha!! My last partner, rarely had any smell there.. the rare occasions he did...I loved it. It was always peak when they were clean & then sweat afterward+ whatever nice scented deodorant they wore.mixed w/ Their natural pheromones. I swear my eyes roll back & I feel all frisky..or just enamored with them, hence the catnip reference. If I could only find a French speaking man to cuddle & sniff..I'd probably bite him alil bit LOL😅

[@indiemads95]

This is my first healthy relationship after an extremely toxic and abusive one, and I hate feeling so dependent on a man, instead of myself. I lost so much confidence in myself, and my anxious attachment style had been pushing away my boyfriend and I feel so bad, and not secure with myself. I've been binging your channel, because I wanna unlock my potential and become a powerful and confident woman, who can regulate her emotions and raise strong kind children.

[@danilaroche1156]

You should take a break. Sleeping with him will harm the relationship if there's no commitment. Women need emotional security. If he loves you he'd be talking marriage. Ever hear of soul ties? Your answer is a friendship with Christ. Get saved.

[@BeenyKay]

That's happened with me 😢 after a toxic relationship I found a guy I liked. then I became so needy and pathetic, so anxious all the time and acted like a doormat so he treated me like one, I had to walk away as an act of self-love

[@rarebird_82]

I could listen to Margaritas monologues all day I love her train of thought/humour 🔥

[@valeriebielinski4242]

Hi Margarita! You have helped me so much!!! I ❤ your content and your book!I bumped into your you tube channel when I was researching my anxious attatchement, what a Godsend you were to me!! I am 41 years old...and started to loose myself. My husband is an avoidant, and we have been married 17 years and have 3 amazing kids together. Once we hit the 10 year mark in our marriage... both of our attatchment styles really started manifesting....it got pretty bad,I am not gonna lie! But you helped me turn the page,set boundaries, work on myself and step into my queen energy....Amazing how things started to turn around for us and my husband started chasing me again!❤❤❤❤❤God bless you... you incredible woman! Just so you know,when I was crying,hurt, and eaten up with anxiety I would put on one of your detachment/feminine energy videos to calm myself and keep myself steer clear of desperate energy!!! Thanks again! Love you lots like jelly tots!❤

[@CeciledeLuire]

awwww ☺

[@N3dita]

This is SO inspiring to read!! Thanks for sharing your story with us 🥹🙏🏼✨

[@marymets1938]

She is SOOOO RIGHT!! My last ex I honestly believed he was below me. I would take advantage of him and honestly being with him made me a lame and dull version of myself. My new man makes me want to be the BEST version of myself, he is truly incredible.

[@katiamaximova]

I’m obsessed with your content. I just wanna watch it morning and night, detox my husband, build a life I love, and manifest a great man into that life.

[@amandagalindo1050]

OMG THE URINARY INFECTION INFO IS SO ON POINT

[@alego8072]

That's sooo true us women must stay in tune to our body/ph cues. Follow the *soul* ick is surreal~

[@viviantejada]

Wow that piece of advice about a man giving you the ick and not liking his smell is gold. I never heard of that before. Excellent podcast as always M!

[@jamjam0409]

The thing with the smell. This might sound strange but it proves your point. When I'm around ovulation I feel like I become very sensitive to smell. And there are guys towards whom I feel more attracted. The one smell that I hate the most during that time is my father's.

[@palak8742]

I'm still quite young. But I love watching your videos because I want to be prepared for when the right person comes along. I resonate so deeply with "don't date a guy below you." I was with someone for 2 years. From the very beginning his lack of discipine towards academics took a strain on our relationship. Academic performance is very important to me. Given we are still in a stage of our life where competitive exams will decide our fate. I did not respect him. I did berate him. I became someone so intolerable. He didn't have any standards for himself, he would have stayed regardless. But I did. I couldn't bear to be this person who was always naggy and negative. My inability to respect him because of his tendency to be a complete slob made me leave after 2 years. It is not worth it.

[@ludat1156]

This is very useful for someone like me whose confidence been dented from past relationships

[@Herbs-4-life]

This is one of my favorite videos of yours! ❤it! So true. I had a few awful relationships and my partner I am with now I have often felt this respect for him. It hasn't always been easy and nothing like I imagined but everyday I am grateful 🙏. I first had to decide I was going to be the best version of myself before I found him.

[@firaauliaaa]

I'm addicted to your voice

[@danilaroche1156]

She's very attractive.

[@bbydoll999]

you're so iconic I love your personality, wisdom, EVERYTHING!

[@paketa7736]

Margarita, your videos have inspired me wake up and leave a toxic relationship that wasn´t going anywhere. THANK YOU.

[@sxnskritiii]

i love the energy she has the way she speaks the knowledge she shares to us ladies . thank you margarita !!!! ❤️

[@LittleBahnhof]

This Woman safes my life! I think you so much, From the bottom of my heart

[@bossmom3902]

You’re talking about birds at your window just as I’m watching the hummingbirds at my feeder 🥰

[@NavvyH]

When he makes you sick.. facts! I developed all kinds of freaky conditions in the last painful years of our relationship. It's as if my body was physically rejecting him. I eventually walked away not because my heart was on board but because my body wouldn't allow it anymore.

[@ashleykuzmicki]

I noticed once I had a hormone IUD placed…. Men all started to have an unpleasant odor. When before I had it placed the smell was so much better. I feel like I need to remove it to fully trust my biological instincts

[@MakeUpTraffic]

Those things are messing with your body.

[@mariazakharchenko3703]

absolutely in love with your content!!! ❤️ Margarita, can you make a video on how to be happy single after a tough breakup and how NOT to start immediately desperately searching for a man? it would be sooo helpful!

[@paulaalbarnful]

I do not agree with the first one. Being happy and proud of the person that you are can become another unachievable standard to add to the list. That is counterproductive. You don't have to be in perfect emotional shape in order to give and accept love; that's a lifelong journey and there's no need to spend it alone. Don't lie to yourself or your partner: 90% of us need approval, feel insecure or look for shelter sometimes. Healthy people don't avoid signs of "weakness"; they face them and work to empower each other and grow together everyday. I wouldn't date someone who only accepts my bright parts and runs away from that team work, nor would I ran.

[@LC-wt5mt]

Margarita I've just finished reading your book! I've recommended it to my sisters and friends. You are incredible and I've taken the New Rules very seriously!!! Already helping me in my everyday life ❤

[@MoloSaidu]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.

[@Jose-lz6cw]

I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.

[@MoloSaidu]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach one?

[@Jose-lz6cw]

Her name is Maurice Gleti, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@MoloSaidu]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@drmichellefacaros8097]

Go inward. Inward. Inward. Love self. Fall madly in love with yourself.

[@carlys_lit]

You’re speaking facts! Lmfao at “he smells like shit”

[@hopeinhumanity.]

I truly believe if you’re with the wrong person you morph physically (as well as energetically) into a less than ideal version of yourself. Possibly many factors at play - dna, cells, lifestyle, etc. I always thought odd for this observation so thank you for this podcast!

[@lisamaiden1892]

The ick part is really speaking to me 😩🤦🏻‍♀️😆

[@CRISTINAGABRIELA-ck2td]

Margarita you are such a young woman but so wise.i am 68 yo and im listening to you and i wonder how you got so much knowledge!!! I really love your channel ❤️if someone doesn't add to my life i don't don't need him. True true true. I know for some may sound crazy but i desire a life partner(was in a very toxic marriage that almost rendered me useless health wise ) but i worked very hard trained my 2 children and now i want to LIVE my life.is never too late.Thank you once again Margarita.You are such a gem 💎

[@fluffymooncake]

your videos helped me so much with perspective. i gave a man a chance before this because he seemed to put a lot of effort pursuing me but i kept getting icks.. i didn’t find him that attractive but he is a provider. also it felt weird hugging them. thankfully i’m out of that now. i told myself i wouldn’t have felt thar way to my future husband haha

[@elenasunshine]

Everything adds to your life because it’s meant to give you an experience and a lesson learned

[@jeannejones5449]

Excellent content Margarita 💐

[@redpearlss]

Literally liked the video even before it loaded lol. I knew it would be the bomb! Like always

[@dayzeeornelas]

Margarita, I’ve read your book 2 times already, of course audio. It’s such an amazing well thought out piece of art. You turned my life around from anxious to securely attached I saved my relationship, Thank you so much!! 💗 Love you lots like jelly tots ✨

[@morganed1749]

oh my god, those advices are just... ON POINT!

[@G6KGaijin]

It makes me remember that I was dating a guy and was very attracted to him - even if looking at his picture did not get me attracted, but when we would be physically together, there was the attraction and a "vibe".. he later told me that my natural odor was very much appealing to him and that he liked how I smelled. there was another one I was interested in and even though through pictures I did not feel that attracted to him, when we would be in the same room, I'd feel like i'd be drawn to him and constantly have to look at him... and PS : YESS you better be faithful to Jessica(me) !!! xD

[@sehamburger]

my first time here and the “little gorgeous spring chicken” intro made giggle & caught me off guard 🤣… subscribed ! 🤍💗

[@nora4642]

My man’s sweat smells GREAT to me. Can’t get enough of it.

[@rebeccastarns1072]

Oh my gosh I KNOW!!

[@linnlundholm9627]

Nr 2 is very interesting, I always struggled with my ex’s body scent, and men in the past that I have had a problem with their scent. Then I met my boyfriend and future husband and I want to smell him all the time and he says my scent is like his drug. I truly believe this is the proof we need 😍

[@ninasky8975]

My god . This woman only speaks facts !!!!!!

[@vanessaprincesssa]

Thank you, Margarita, that was a very good one ❤❤

[@KCruz7]

I love this lady ❤❤😂😂😂 her sense of humor is so smooth and on point . 😊😊😊

[@GuiltyBears]

Ugh giiiiirl you are my little inside spirit coming out and being amazing and I thank you for the reminder and opening my eyeballs again 😊

[@drzarkeshhassan8029]

Agh You Look Absolutely Gorgeous! Need A Series On Narscisstic Behaviour & How To Deal With People Like Them, Grey Rock Method Etc. Ty. ♥️♥️

[@lammabunzz2994]

Following the ick seriously makes so much sense. Like my ex now i was always feeling that and feeling really ugly. Like my skin has been so glowy and bright since i left him. Like wow i dont even look or feel like how i used to with him. Im so hapoy i took the 'risk' to break up with him. Tbh wasnt even a risk in the first place.

[@n0tfr0mth1sw0rld]

Never found any KZbinr before, where i thought literally every single one of their videos is the most important one. Will order your book❤

[@barbiesullivan8196]

You always pop up right when I need it most!

[@soniakim9089]

Every point is spot oooon. Thank you so much Margarita!

[@iknowthatiknownot]

Beautiful, I wish parents or someone explained this to all teenagers 😭

[@jmakeupxbeauty]

I never comment on videos but the way you've helped me in my situation is remarkable. Your words and wisdom have given me so much clarity. I love you lots like jelly tots Margarita! ♥️♥️🥺

[@SaraZ1239]

Perfection every. single. time.

[@LittlecatJ]

Really appreciate what you do, your videos always help me to clarify my thoughts ❤

[@roxy7255]

Loving your videos you have an amazing voice and way of speaking. Laughing at the ‘7.5 children and need a provider’ 😂😂😂

[@PhuongDo12]

I wish I knew these sooner, I've been wasting my time with the wrong ones omg

[@JJann111]

Oooo this was a realllly good one! Loved it, thank you!

[@potatoqueen2228]

Hello Margarita, thank you for the great video. I found your channel a couple of month ago and find the content you create very helpful an inspiring. If you don't mind sharing, can I ask you about the dress/blouse/shirt you are wearing in this video? It's absolutely gorgeous :)

[@iismeen]

girlies listen to her! i wish I've seen this video when i needed that advice

[@aes9639]

I soooo needed to hear this cuz i dont have healthy relationship experience. Thanks so much ❤

[@Bythesea449]

I think the smell thing is very real, but as someone who has had UTIs since childhood (before puberty) I get UTIs from new partners, trigger behaviour, all men give me the occasional UTI 😢

[@morijafee8015]

... Maybe you shouldn't date men...? 👀

[@faithshimoomba7261]

The smell thing i relate. Like my current partner , i don't get his smell 😊.. my pH is never affected. No UTI. . I have to work on my anxious attachment

[@MaureenToews]

I absolutely 🩵🦋🩵love this SO much.

[@CiaraRubin]

your vibe is LIT girl I love your videos!

[@babyguinguin]

Immediately clicked upon seeing the title. Clicked Subscribed when she called us "My Spring Chickens" .

[@king_ashish_123]

The fact that nobody talks about the book Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance.

[@sandrazade]

Thank you, thank you, thank you! That was even better than I expected. You're wise beyond your years!

[@mariat2465]

And just bought your book! 💕

[@amberp5207]

This talk was excellent!

[@alishasaeedd]

reading your book currently

[@HaileysHealth]

My boyfriend of a year n a half is my favorite person to be with, but sometimes he’s so high energy, he still annoys me lol I think it’s normal to not wanna be with the person all the time.

[@Scorpiomajesty777]

The second one is something I’ve been experiencing he’s a great provider and very sweet and kind man but his natural smell smells off to me 😅

[@SuperWisernow]

I died at “there’s a parakeet on my ledge. I’m Snow White in this bitch.”😂

[@canal1123]

Ok, dear Margarita, I need to ask you something important, and if I’m doing this, it’s because you should know how much your videos have helped me improve my relationship with my husband. In fact, I think I’m leveling up… step by step haha. My question is: how do you deal with a man losing his attractiveness? He’s an amazing father and a great guy. He loves me and treats me like the queen I am. But in the past few years, he’s let himself go… physically…quite a lot.He doesn’t take care of his appearance anymore and because of this he had some serious health issues because of his weight gain. He just can’t get motivated, and when he has free time to exercise, he’s glued to his phone or playing video games… I’ve learned that I can’t and shouldn’t control what he does or eats.. but im so tempted to act like his mother…. I know people will call me superficial, but hey, that’s my situation. I don’t need him to be a model, but I do want him to take care of himself a bit. I love him a lot, but it’s hard for me to admit that I’m losing desire…what can I do? How can I motivate him? If he doesn’t want to look better it’s ok, but his health can’t be ignored anymore

[@ro2929]

This is excellent! A + I’m a sigma female but I still need a reminder from time to time. ❤

[@shelly6176]

Thank you so much for your wisdom.

[@noorz5113]

You are incredible 🥹

[@clarisegerst6031]

Wow this is so true if ph does not match run

[@k.nicoleelmore6345]

I needed to hear this. The ick is a sign🤌🏾

[@mild7250]

Your face looks more toned and gorgeous! Have you had anything done? I love your look today😍

[@viviennerosh]

Oh my! Margarita, you look stunning ❤️‍🔥

[@scarlettthebrave5854]

New sub and PREACH! I feel like I’m home ❤

[@maryremke5215]

You are amazing ...thank you ❤❤❤

[@Parodyqueenveri]

Omg so important what you are saying about smell. I met a nice man but he doesn't smell good.