Use Dark Feminine Energy to Get What You Want

[@lajer7621]

Everything Margarita says it’s true. I’ve listened all the podcast episodes and got out of 4 years toxic relationship where I was a 'golden retriever'. Than met another man, implemented all her advices and now I can’t get rid of him even though I want to, because he’s still chasing. Plus I didn’t get attached. Try this, it simply works.

[@lillyfragnet9536]

May I ask, which advices you implemented?🤔

[@lajer7621]

@@lillyfragnet9536of course! the most important are: 1. being hard to get (busy) and easy to be with 2. letting him take action and make plans (lazy girl) 3. having boundaries 4. not nagging him, just saying what I want and like in general

[@ncf7]

@@lajer7621 i tried to set boundaries but he didn't take it the right way and instead shifted the blame on me. how do i deal with that?

[@lajer7621]

@@ncf7I don’t know your relationship status, but I’d just communicate what you will not put up with and that’s it. Do not try to convince or argue with him. If he does not respect it, you have an answer. You cannot be with someone who does not respect you.

[@Itswhitneyxxo]

well that’s good her advice worked but if you don’t want him, it’s probably just time to be blatantly honest at this point. And did you get any time to yourself after your toxic relationship? maybe you should take some time to yourself so when it’s time to take this advice again it’ll be for the right reasons.

[@user-ln4qe1sh8i]

Currently channeling it, I walked away from a guy I really wanted, but his efforts were minimal 😢 Setting my boundaries has been powerful for me, I know my worth and not willing to settle for anything less 💯

[@sarahbillard8860]

Same here 🙋🏻‍♀️

[@sarahbillard8860]

@KK23976 I was married to one of them 11 years. It doesn’t work 🤷🏻‍♀️you end up miserable. Get a guy who want you as you want him, or nothing. I préfèr being single than with someone who want me more than I want him.

[@estherharing7430]

I am sorry for you the guy you fancy wasn't enough in to you. I know how hard it can be. I am determining what to do with my situation. I have a great guy in full pursuit of me, but have a crush on a colleague, that is pulling on my heartstrings. I love to spent time with him and long for a deepening of the connection outside of the work space. This colleague and I work on a case together. He is a great guy and very charming, but I am afraid I read to much in to his behaviour towards me. He is certainly enjoying female attention and charming others too. It gets on my nerves. It messes me up he is on the forfront of my mind after a great date with this other guy. I am taking your example and am going to create distance, even question if I need to break of the collaboration. It is hard, but I feel like he doesn't deserve all this mental and emotional energy. He doesn't make it clear I am standing out of the crowd and he is not going after me. Recently he told a colleague he finds a lot of women attractive but doesn't fall in love easily and prefers a woman ask him for a date. (Although at work he portraits a lot of masculine qualitys) I said I like it traditional. The woman warm and inviting and the man making the move and leading. This other guy is doing everything right and gives me prinses treatment. I want to honor this. I do believe I can develop feelings for him, but right now this colleague is getting in the way. I want to take my power back, stop daydreaming, and being available for a guy that is fully invested. Much luck to you. The right guy will show up for you.❤

[@natinha14]

@user-ln4qe1sh8i you go girl 👌

[@bm5_5_5]

You have to want yourself more in a way. Choosing yourself will bring you all the abundance. You’ve done the right thing.

[@vbarberful]

I think it could be boiled down to "acceptance". And what Maya Angelou said "When someone shows you who they are, believe them."

[@ascott4502]

Y'all, Margarita is that girl. LISTEN to her! She makes the things really simple to understand and follow. I am in process of healing my anxious attachment and her videos on the subject are stellar. I'm rooting for all my girlies - Life is to be lived well. This generation of women is not bound by a lot of things our foremothers had to go through. I pray true freedom for us all.

[@elena-4797]

11:10-11:32 is solid gold!!! Thank you Margarita for all your work which helps so many individuals to discover their feminine energy 💗 your work is healing for this world - not only for women, but also for men who are raised by peaceful, relaxed and happy mothers.

[@B-and-Bloom]

I especially love this video bc I’ve deeply resonated with being of light energy yet desiring the inherent mystery of dark feminine energy. For a while I struggled thinking that I’m “supposed” to grow & elevate from light energy to dark energy. This video has helped me see that it’s not about choosing either or, it’s about abiding in your own authentic balance of the two. They are not separate; they’re just different parts of us that we learn to love, employ, and rest in to attract & maintain what we deserve & desire. Thank you beautiful for sharing your wisdom for empowerment!💗

[@mmm2121]

To my understanding, you activate your dark feminine energy whenever you integrate your shadows and use it to become a fuller and a more efficient version of yourself. For instance, one of my shadows is violent anger. I used to suppress it due to shame and to maintain peace, but that led me to be unable to speak for myself at times and even engage in explosive episodes. Then I started embracing this side of me instead of being ashamed of it, and started controlling it and using it to serve myself and help others too. This would be me activating my dark feminine energy, as my old ‘timid’ self would’ve never imagined she could have the courage to ask for what she wants, etc.

[@mmm2121]

Other shadows that you could have and can cultivate to your advantage are jealousy, competitiveness, ambition, and even machiavellianism. Basically anything about you that is dark and you’d be ashamed of admitting in fear of being perceived as evil. All of your dark traits could 100% be to your advantage and could be used to achieve good to yourself and others when integrated. Dark femininity is such a wonderful concept to be honest.

[@mmm2121]

The thing is, it is totally subjective and depends solely on your unique dark traits. Otherwise it would feel fake and costume-y.

[@C0smicbeauty1990]

You made me tear up. You said something I had not heard of but it really felt good and resonated in my heart. “Maiden, mother and matriarch” . I had been talking to someone who is looking for a maiden and I was feeling less than a woman. I was a young mother and married. My children are teens and I am divorced. I am a matriarch and this felt so good.

[@subashsaroj-id2kn]

Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone

[@Yurri2343]

can i please buy the book from u for cheaper? i cant afford to buy a new one rn but id love to read it

[@inesmp8631]

Scam

[@Yurri2343]

@@inesmp8631 whyy?

[@sydneykoo4393]

Margarita, you are changing my life! I’ve applied your principles and in only a couple of days, my man is chasing me again. With a good man, it’s easy, you just have to play your cards right

[@alenavyazhevich2703]

What did you do?

[@Naimah0914]

I would love to know how a black cat handles her husband who is always on the phone. Not because it’s something important or some time to himself here and there, but for example, you are eating dinner together with your kids and he is on his phone watching a show while everyone else makes conversation. Or his child asks him to play and it’s always “I’m too tired” or “I have a headache/don’t feel good” while he is on his phone. My instinct now is just let him. Let him miss out on his real life if that’s what he wants. Let him not have a relationship with his kids if that’s what he wants. Let him miss out and regret it.

[@cedian3811]

Same here married 31 years, never time for family but always for friends

[@TrollynnWithTheHomies]

its a distraction..he sounds possibly depressed as well

[@Itswhitneyxxo]

I’m not married but the black cat energy only speaks on it one time. Exclude him like you said but dont bring misery make sure you’re happy. Do some journaling switch up your routine with the kids. As long as you’re happy he should match the energy!

[@miladydewinter8551]

Adult conversation about why he is emotionally neglecting his children and basically opting out of family life

[@Amanda-hq9of]

This is relatable. Something I’ve done is to say “I’d love it if we had this meal be device free so we could enjoy each others company more” or when he’s on it bring up a topic of conversation I think he’d like to talk about. Something to spark his interest in the moment instead of decompressing constantly.

[@Beepbeep_its_treasure]

THANK YOU for feeding us again mother Margarita!! Blessed be the fruit. You're my spirit animal

[@luizamc1]

I love this human being called MARGARITA!

[@jennayuart]

Girlll not only do I love your content, I love your personality 😂❤️ you’re hilarious

[@n0426]

Yes she is so special i love her.

[@Snowflake949]

The way I understand light and dark within: the dark feminine is called dark because the aspects of us that are needed to stand up for ourselves (which sometimes can be an angry version of us), those aspects are hidden deep within, in the darkness. We hide them away cause people often like, hence accept, only the light feminine energy, the ‘good girl’ vibes. So I find that in energy terms the ultimate goal is to be balanced, have your light and dark parts of you shine according to the situation. We’ve been just very discouraged to set boundaries, many of us don’t even know how to, it’s hard to do it. So letting your ‘dark’ feminine take control when you need her without feeling shame or guilt about standing up for yourself, about doing and saying things others disapprove of. It takes courage, and it’s not easy. But once you welcome that side of you in your life, it WILL turn towards better because you will choose your company based on what you’re truly deserving of! All the love ❤️

[@adriamcfarland6032]

Your voice is so perfect for you, we need a voice and speech video from you. Just to explain how to change our way of speaking to match the archetype we like.

[@tumbleina49]

Femininity is multi-faceted ❤ Why be defined by one type? Love this

[@milicastanojevic7960]

When I think of light feminine I instantly picture Sabrina Carpenter & when I think of dark feminine it's always either Dakota Johnson or Alexa Demie.

[@msmiami212]

Dakota???

[@milicastanojevic7960]

@@msmiami212Haha yes! She’s softly spoken, but something about her gives me dark feminine. 😅 Especially compared to Sabrina.

[@amychristine2776]

This woman knows stuff you guys

[@kangeyKangey]

Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone

[@shreychaks]

This is the ultimate video on dark femininity I have watched till date. Makes so much sense. The fact that putting a boundary is neither light nor dark. This needs to be nailed somewhere, engraved on a rock I swear. Thank you so much Margarita! :D

[@ginathedove7879]

For me its a balance of both. You have to have a sense for which to be in which situation.

[@chaz7604]

Thank you for this!! Exactly what I feel. I’m so many different aspects rolled into one. I’m a WHOLE person, not a trope. If that makes me have multiple aspects of myself that confuses people then so be it. I’m not to be put in a box ❤

[@Yikkoofficial]

Amazing. Love how you explained the dichotomy being ridiculous because women are a combination of all. Awesome.

[@1708A]

Let me make a cup of coffee and take notes, because Dr.Margarita is about to lecture me!

[@Stafford-h]

the 'trick' as it were... is to use dark energy for GOOD, then... there is an upward spiral. all the best :)

[@TheJayJay26102]

Oooo, I like thiiiis!!

[@Gpeidav]

I love this women’s personality, you are the best ❤❤

[@Shanieceflordi]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him

[@AmarNika-q3p]

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.

[@Shanieceflordi]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?

[@AmarNika-q3p]

His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@AmarNika-q3p]

he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.

[@Shanieceflordi]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤

[@Katrica670]

@17:41 what he does is much more important than what he says!" ⭐️

[@Wiseone21]

I've been on a self improvement journey for a few months now, and I'm forever grateful for you Margarita. I have a better understanding of femininity after subscribing to your channel. Being a blended mom of 5, and coming into my prime, I finally stopped making excuses for not taking time for myself. Thank you gain 🙏

[@reah76]

As a mother there is nothing stronger than maternal instincts

[@JAYD1476]

Maragrita you are so right. I used to believe in fairytales and all that bullshit😢😂lol. Truth is people will drain your "good"energy...and also expect you to give it for free and resent you for doing whats best for yourself. I see ppl calling me selfish for puting my time first as a way to manipulate me to feel badd and resort to their ways. Happened alot. Not from now on lol. Its crazy how evil this world is. Gheez. I wish women could be more open and not so much on boundaries but hey,thats life apparently 🎉🎉🎉Love this video so far

[@nina_summers]

I love this dark feminine energy. And just to add " If Scarlett Johnson have a sister "

[@natinha14]

What if a man is ALWAYS a black cat? My ex has always been with every girl he's been with. He never chases, he doesn't even know what chasing is or conquering a woman.

[@lenore_evermore]

save your energy lol he sounds insufferable

[@natinha14]

@@lenore_evermore i did hun I dumped his ass!

[@zainajenkins]

Her last video about black cats (added within the last week) addresses your question.

[@natinha14]

@KK23976 so none of us were his dream girl 🤣🤣🤣

[@natinha14]

@KK23976 he won't. He's too lazy for that 🤣🤣🤣

[@Averylione]

Please please please can you make a video about descision making......like how to make a decision correctly and stick to it without feeling extremely anxious

[@Selin14.03]

@KK23976Wow that’s so helpful! Thank you so much✨

[@bikashrabha7349]

The lack of buzz around Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest is baffling. This book holds the key to amazing secrets, but no one seems to care. Don’t stay in the dark - find out what everyone’s missing!

[@mitz1919]

I enjoy this video, I appreciate your honesty in the end reference to your anxious attachment. I can relate.

[@gabrieladiaz4199]

My favorite teacher ✍️

[@alikemalkuru5095]

Türkiye'den Hayranınız var .Ses tonuna aşığım, Margarita.

[@nathmodell1]

I love this woman, thank you, I felt I couldn’t fit in just one, a hole person is not just light or dark lol. This is fantastic thank you.

[@kithdiana]

hi margarita! i’ve subscribed recently and your videos really inspired me to start my own channel and explore my inner self. thank you so so much for your advice, i’ve been taking it and implementing it in my real life daily recently. stay slay

[@kelly.nicole]

Margarita I know you don’t talk about cheating much but can you please talk about it and being cheated on and what goes through the persons mind ETC

[@Babyashlyy]

Yay I’ve been waiting for a new upload love your content

[@AllisonSherman7]

love video!, My five year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don’t know why I’m sharing this, but I really miss him.,

[@BonnieSetliff]

It's tough to let go of someone you care about. I can relate, my 12year relationship also ended, and I struggled to move on. I tried everything to get him back, even seeking help from a spiritual counselor who ultimately helped me reconnect with him.

[@AllisonSherman7]

That's incredible! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I contact one?

[@BonnieSetliff]

His name is Owen Abiola, and he’s an amazing spiritual counselor who specializes in bringing back lost loves.

[@BonnieSetliff]

Owen Abiola has incredible powers, and he can assist you.

[@AllisonSherman7]

Thank you for sharing this valuable information! I just looked him up online, and I'm impressed.

[@shamzsaj4175]

Hello Margarita! Thank you for everything you talk about! I hear you loud and clear ma’am and im absolutely grateful. Would you mind giving us some hacks and tips on managing female friendships? Would love some content on that! Thank you and may God bless you!

[@reneefrancesca]

More dark feminine black cat energy series please !

[@Beepbeep_its_treasure]

Have just bought your book. Can't wait to read ❤ congratulations, what an achievement

[@AnarghyaAngiras-tq9ei]

Hey Margarita I love these videos so much and always rewatch them. What are creators you look up to and spend time watching? Please let me know!!

[@ShopgirlNY182]

Margarita is black cat energy goals 🐈‍⬛

[@Loveandpeace20]

Thank you for keeping it REAL. Esp as a content creator 💗

[@Creating2413]

What does a black cat energy woman respond when a man brings something up that you do not agree with? Do you remain silent? Change the subject? My issue is not major subjects like relationship status or marriage but it is more a topic he is not being clear on. Lets say something going on with his work or politics or gardening or food. My inclination is that I should just get busy. I have tons of projects i am working on 😅 so i have plenty of stuff i can turn my attention towards. Maybe i am expecting to much ? 85% of the time things flow well but every once in awhile we hit a snag and i feel pulled back into an anxiety mode

[@TrollynnWithTheHomies]

I love you but you said a whole lot of nothing in this video...just repeated the same things over and over

[@TrollynnWithTheHomies]

without ever getting a real point across

[@sandysan177]

Basically she wanted to sell her product at 11.46

[@ladybee1909]

I've beeeeeeen waiting to get the point. Disappointed

[@TrollynnWithTheHomies]

@@Moonlove55 exactly..I had to skip through parts in an attempt to find something useful...and nothing.

[@TrollynnWithTheHomies]

@@ladybee1909 same. Im glad I am not alone on this..

[@kikaduende77]

Amazing clarity on this thank you❤

[@ArtemisDeer444]

Walking through a manuka forest in New Zealand as I listen to this 🐝🌞 Dark triad = *macheviallism, narcissism and psychopathy... 🙏

[@hansaniwanniarachchi8791]

Much needed discussion ❤

[@bundle_of_chaos]

can we make an analogy between a "black cat" and an avoidant attachment style and a "golden retriever" and anxious attachment?

[@beccavry]

fantastic insights!!!

[@nastarankhoshgou]

This was very helpful Margarita. thank you so much 💜🙏🏻

[@falloutbun4156]

Hi Margarita I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL! It has helped me sooooo much since I've found it 🎉❤

[@francesm597]

I'd love to hear your personal experience

[@qu33nchacha]

I thank God for you🙌🏾

[@Aatif_king01]

It's crazy how no one is talking about Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest. This book has secrets that could change everything, but people seem blind to it. Wake up and see for yourself!

[@mfisher2800]

I just ❤ your style and honesty.

[@nat7577]

Hi margarita, what are your thoughts on the colour theory. Like wearing pink on 1st date, wear white to appear innocent etc

[@Magenta-maya93]

Can u talk about manifestation if u haven’t?

[@melisalercari4334]

You rock!

[@schadenfreudeegoism7485]

Can we have a video on situationships??

[@crisuj1465]

i miss your mothers way of living.. for example the one spoon which was not silver but ivory but she also we knew her life and yours... i miss that.. its simple with a touch of hermes.. but still down to life.. thats what i want

[@laurenawinfrey]

Been listening for a while and just got your book!! 19:47 got me bc I just moved from Dallas to NY 😂😂

[@svilenaninetta9838]

margarita what do you think if I knew all your rules 15 years ago and I implement on my object/man I like back then what do you think did he would become my golden Retriever? and I don't mean on a long run I just mean for fun just to have him around for fun or maybe for life partner?

[@GS-ef5ht]

Dark tetrad: narcissism, machiavellian, psychopathy, and sadism

[@staceysargison]

This 👏 this 👏 this 👏. Love from the other side of the harbour (Manly) ✌️❤️

[@maritamaltezaki8588]

I like what you say and how you say it so much…!❤

[@irmalanaro1261]

Thank you..... Question : Any advice on your partner having friends who have been disrespectful or do not acknowledge you as your partners other half.... and your partner continues to not acknowledge your feelings on their behavior... Thank you. Any advice would be appreciated..

[@Averylione]

I think U should start by communicating that to ur partner 1st n like she also keeps saying in her videos - put extreme value in urself n most importantly stand up for urself in that moment

[@irmalanaro1261]

​@@Averylione Thank you...

[@geminachen5317]

Ha ha ha, I'm all good and super happy because of you lol! Thank you so so so so so much! Infinite thank you's!!!!

[@Jordanjuicy-zf5dt]

Feels like I’ve been breadcrumbed and problem is it’s been going on for too long

[@s1996g]

I am both.

[@aprasharma1]

I have my ex coming to meet me after 2 years. well, it was a best friend that never really committed to me... things happened-I was wrong, he was wrong. I have told him I want to do nothing romantically with you yet he still will reach out to me- what would a black cat do here? the thing is I am into self-development a lot and I read and see people's actions and behaviours along with how I was wrong in the dynamic. Because of this reason, I reach a neutral state where I cant be a bubbly girl to him or be a total bi*ch. I am used to being in my light feminine and have a hard time setting g boundaries-- I know if he reaches out and connects despite me telling him not to, he will access mylight feminine just like our past. Because I am in a neutral state, I cant even bring up how he was wrong etc. any advice?

[@zuzanavalovska4704]

I recommend her video about being a black cat. It will be perfect for you... 🐈‍⬛

[@iloveloveu]

aussie princess my second muva happy early birthday ♍️!❤️❤️❤️🩷

[@daryaqadernejad1231]

Margarita you just said whats in our heart Can you please explain about attachment after sex Is that somthing serious?

[@jeansimp4389]

Yes, sometimes its called a soul tie, you could search it up

[@daryaqadernejad1231]

@@jeansimp4389 thank u

[@Itswhitneyxxo]

That’s a good conversation but she’s probably just going to say why have sex with someone you’re not in a relationship with. Most times the attachment is because that’s all you’re getting out of it but if it’s a committed relationship you wouldn’t be so attached after sex that’ll just be a plus. Your mind would pinpoint to other things that are actually benefiting you and the relationship and its purpose etc..

[@DreamLife-bd7rz]

Love this💞💞💞💞💞💞

[@Jordanjuicy-zf5dt]

And I have developed feelings 😢

[@missmisty7985]

I was missing youuuuu

[@Munchkinbaby777]

Ladies, do you know what to do when your man- usually checking in few times a day- now only writing in the morning once and talking sex talk each time we speak. I accidentally rewarded this behavior yesterday. I missed him and our talks so I send him a photo (not naked). He said thank you and no reply. Should I pull away even more than him? A part of me thinks he got into those toxic, manipulation videos

[@palmbalm]

he is addicted to pornography.

[@crisuj1465]

with every hermes plate your mother used to educate us. she was full of you joy and lively telling us a story.. every plate she ever presented was real and had a story. i loved your stories. but lets not do the thing where we forget your heritage...

[@crisuj1465]

your outlook was light and free and easy.. i miss it !

[@kendabradford4280]

You lost me at the commercial. I pay for prime to avoid them.

[@TrinhQuynhBong]

I can't believe the ebook Magnetic Aura from Borlest isn't a hot topic. It's an incredible read

[@Juuung9]

My favorite

[@TzarinaNina]

6:40

[@ceceb9082]

❤Hiiiii Margarita❤Sending love love love your way from SoCal❤Thank you!❤

[@pawandamoh7252]

It’s shocking how Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest isn’t being discussed. The book is full of life-changing insights, yet no one seems to notice. Time to break the trance and read it yourself!

[@MsDamjana]

Imposing rules on every couple - it does not work. Cause context is everything. And it's not true that 'chasing' is wrong. I am sure that wanting to have a conversation is the only way, cause that is a thing that emotional mature people do. Conversation is everything, without it, you do not get any information about your own stuff, let's say how to resolve your own not so good behaviours in relationships. We are mirrors to each other. I like your videos a lot, but here I do not agree, cause I smell games, and games do not bring or crate a healthy relationships.

[@kc17131]

Whatever age women become disposable 😂

[@ElDonDanny88]

does that help you to get pregnant? has that helped you get the relationship you wanted?

[@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes]

❤

[@quantaVastitude2021]

Any alien 👽 here?

[@TC-cb2mq]

I don't like the hand holding microphone. I think you can get a stand.

[@amandakate5233]

I like it. She does what she wants

[@crisuj1465]

lets talk about it.. how about a woman who abandoned her child ? how about someone who doesnt think women are assholes? how about people who care? how about people who care but dont have the means to ? how about men who are scared. how about men who have feelings? You used to be so open-minded about everything.. where is that girl at?

[@crisuj1465]

you're not even adding anything to yourself.. you said everything even before you had your first born..