"Babygirl" Is The New Nickname for Men?

[@MistahJayyyy]

I’ve hated the whole “daddy” thing. I hated the “mommy” thing and thanks cause now I hate the “calling men baby girl” thing.

[@Markus2E5I6]

Daddy and mommy being sexualised is so weird and always will be.

[@Mimi-74]

My adult sons and I were just talking about that a few nights ago. It is creepy and sick. This "baby girl" thing is even nastier.

[@littleluxia]

I legit don't understand why and how mommy and daddy became sexualized. What I do know is that it makes me very uncomfortable when its said in that way.

[@melindamercier6811]

@@Markus2E5I6 it stems from Hispanic culture. “Mama and papi are terms of endearment to someone you are close to, and not necessarily sexual. I say it to my children, they’re more like nicknames like “honey” and “sweetie” or “cutie”. They do not hold the same meaning of mom and dad in that way. But it can become more than that with two people who are in a relationship. The vibe is completely different from what the Americanized “daddy” and “mommy” thing has become bc the English versions also bring in the connotations of “sugar daddies” and “sugar babies”, submission and authority. It’s basically a bastardization of what was very specifically Hispanic and understood perfectly in its intended context. In English, and especially to see non-Spanish speaking ppl try to adopt it is just weird and creepy lol.

[@mrlolmaster1019]

the mommy thing was a satirical meme reaction to the daddy thing

[@elyssacorbaley8133]

This reminds me of the Harvard study done on groups of rats when they had full, unfettered access to food and water.... Their society collapsed, males became overly feminine and subservient, and the females became aggressive and attacked others at random. When society has nothing to strive for as a collective, everything begins to decay.

[@Moriahg]

I remember that study. Gives me the creeps.

[@RedStreak29]

You left the best part out. Homosexuality started occurring in the society

[@mr.mediocregamer9653]

I think about that study more often than I do the Roman Empire. And yet the two are connected.

[@elyssacorbaley8133]

@@RedStreak29 Ah, I had forgotten that part! Thank you! ^^

[@arsondarksea]

Yup! God bless you in the name of Jesus Christ, who is the name above all names & the only way to Heaven❤

[@amy_hughes_coaching]

I don’t care how much they try to convince us that this is what we want….. that’s a HARD NO. I cannot be more disgusted with this whole idea. 😒👎🏻

[@Moriahg]

Exactly 💯

[@Mimi-74]

It's just...gross!

[@amandaisnotmyrealname3518]

That’s you boo. Women aren’t a monolith. And no one is forcing you to like them

[@amy_hughes_coaching]

@@amandaisnotmyrealname3518yep, we’re all entitled to our own opinions.

[@namantherockstar]

Brett inspires me.. My parents said if i get 70K followers They'd buy me a professional camera for recording..begging u guys , literally Begging.

[@butternuts14]

My wife is extremely uninterested in the way these dudes look lol. She said “if I wanted a girlfriend I’d go get a girlfriend” 😂😂🤣😂

[@thereallazygirl]

sure give her a chance to meet harry styles and get back to us

[@Fairydivas974]

I agree with your wife and that’s why I married my husband. Being masculine doesn’t mean you don’t express your feelings and listen to your partner. It does mean that he will lift things for me, get stuff from the top shelf, treat me to dinner, open doors… And I don’t even have to ask. In return, I’m very much in a traditional woman role and I love that. To each their own

[@TheBaumcm]

@@thereallazygirlewww, no thanks.

[@natalieneighbors7028]

​@@thereallazygirlas a woman, I have literally never felt anything for Harry Styles except repulsion. Masculine men are where it's at.

[@thereallazygirl]

girl u dont speak for all women . the man has millions swooning for him no offense but he doesnt need u to validate his sexiness lmao @@natalieneighbors7028

[@joshuastrawser9160]

I've become convinced that TikTok is nothing more than an online insane asylum.

[@coonhound_pharoah]

It's more like a homeless tent community. It would be much better if it were an asylum people weren't allowed to leave.

[@lynnhall8720]

Modern version of Barnum and Bailey.

[@m_winewood]

Except they aren’t confined so it’s more like a park

[@patprop74]

Who would have thought China would easily find a way to destabilize under developed minds within lol

[@noxplay4906]

They all belong with Joker and Scarecrow

[@lieslwenger6181]

Society scares me

[@Greekgal101]

Why are we calling grown men baby girls 🤦‍♀️

[@houseofhas9355]

Because the F word is banned. 😂

[@Moriahg]

Because they're men for immature women who act like babies.

[@kennycraven2648]

To further emasculate men.

[@darthtempest84]

Why are men allowing this to be a thing?

[@Mimi-74]

"We" aren't 😂

[@big_t1277]

And the emasculation of men continues, what’s new 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@Mimi-74]

Exactly!

[@tobiasburrell6055]

Here we go... 😂

[@fast1nakus]

eh... I mean, Pedro and Co did it to themselves they got caught in hollywood's androgenless bubble

[@thereallazygirl]

go cry about it to ur momma . harry and timothy are both hot

[@albertchurchill4845]

Neo-Marxists want to destroy gender. They believe capitalism created gender to socially reproduce itself through the nuclear family.

[@brightonbacall992]

Hi Brett! Long time Lefty lurker, first time commenter. I genuinely thought ‘babygirl’ meant a desirable masculine man showing his softer side?? I have just learnt I have been using it WRONG. Anyway, thank you for your thought-provoking and interesting discussions. We don’t agree on a lot of things, but we share more opinions than I thought when I decided to expand the range of viewpoints I’m exposed to. Appreciate you, and respect your opinions. 😊

[@d3rpwolf785]

I wish more people were as kind as you 🙏 I think more political compromise would be possible if we were all more respectful like this to each other

[@Cationna]

YES, so many people actually DO use it this way! I think these articles might be more of an attempt from woke gender specialists at trying to hijack the phenomenon than a reliable study.

[@adamas5925]

Bro babygirl is just term of endearment. It has been around for more than a decade.

[@taylor3950]

That’s the way I’ve heard it used too, not sure what’s happening here

[@djarinriduur]

I think you’re greatly underestimating how many people use this term ironically, or just because it’s popular. I have seen men across the entire spectrum of manliness, called ‘babygirl’. I’ve seen Pablo Schreiber called that, and if you don’t know him, look him up. He’s a 6’5” muscled beast of a man. No one thinks he’s effeminate, they just think it’s funny to say he’s ‘babygirl’. This trend will be over in a month whenever the new term comes around.

[@matrasia]

if people miss the irony then we are doomed, looks like it’s taken more seriously by the majority and unfortunately that’s how we get social changes.

[@matrasia]

Also, the trend of men wearing dresses is not dying down - we became indifferent to it, so now let’s call them bbygrls, because why not.

[@GrabEmByThePlushie]

This makes me even more thankful to be married and off the market.

[@dudeitswillis]

That’d be nice.

[@Read..Matthew-11..28]

Oh my word your username 😂

[@katjones4840]

Sameeeeee!

[@ControversyCupcake]

@@Read..Matthew-11..28username?! Look at that profile

[@danmancino22]

Lucky bastard

[@_Gilles_]

This emasculation trend is pure psyops

[@trevorking2820]

💯

[@meghancomo96]

You’re absolutely right

[@jurassicthunder]

I'm a man. these are not.

[@bloodspartan300]

No its jooooish

[@JuniperGal-ek2pu]

It’s not emasculation. You just have toxic masculinity.

[@assass7012]

In Thailand and China, the term "Baby Girl Boys" is shortened to "ladyboy"

[@muaythaiballerina6463]

I'm Thai and can confirm this 👍🏻

[@sjm9876]

😂

[@leto8017]

That's not the same term, and also I'm pretty sure its just in Thailand

[@assass7012]

@@leto8017 'twas a joke

[@Angelina6518]

It’s a whole nother animal. The ladyboy is a known pretty gay boy.

[@ThatOneLadyOverHere]

Yes! Men expressing themselves is NOT feminine! That is the one thing that is actually undoing toxic masculinity. Truly masculine men can open up and be vulnerable and still be confident in their manhood. It's okay and good to cry. It's okay and good to be frustrated and angry. What matters is whether or not you handle those emotions in a manner that is healthy for you and others.

[@Mushroom321-]

Exactly!!😮🎉🎉😊

[@trash3042]

Nice try, Men that are masculine are stoic.

[@DanteBrian]

One of the greatest lines on dating I’ve ever heard: There’s what women say they want. And then there’s what women respond to.

[@thereallazygirl]

harry styles gets laid left and right even before getting rich.explain that genius

[@sirshrooma]

@@thereallazygirl Not the femcel teen using AI text-to-speech in their videos trolling the comment section?! Get a more fulfilling hobby, being perpetually angry online can't be that fun.

[@Rp89053]

​@@thereallazygirlhe atractive, that's it

[@DanteBrian]

@@thereallazygirl, It’s still a good observation. Women may say they want these pansies, but who do they go for? A-holes and/or more masculine men. And thank you for the compliment 😜.

[@Pidatha]

​@@thereallazygirl Money, fame, looks. You dont have to be a genius to figure that out, but I guess you wouldn't know 😂

[@Mr.Morningstar-ov4xi]

At this point people are so confused that they dont know what they want. Every opinion is generalised nowadays and is confusing people on what to become. These generalised "trends" influence the beauty standards and to be honest are creating a toxic environment

[@alocatt]

@BollywoodNewzz your parents did not say that bot

[@mancyank564]

Nice try, @BollywoodNewzz. But it's not working. Give it up.

[@Read..Matthew-11..28]

One hundred percent!

[@alyzak.8997]

deep

[@PiratePrincessYuki]

I’ll stick with my “Toxic Masculine” husband… I like feeling protected, l like knowing my husband will hold me up when I’m weak and that I will always have his back because of this.

[@Mimi-74]

Nothing is more attractive than the traits that make a man a "man". Being a protector and provider are natural instincts to most men. We need more testosterone in the world. I'm glad you cherish your husband. Too many men, these days, are demoralized and criticized.

[@mattstakeontheancients7594]

Think this is the thought most women have. Maybe a small percentage who are vocal like this babygirl thing in men but imagine the majority of women are like yourself and want a man.

[@RmonK2000]

Cool you do that and I can have my babygirls

[@jojoatthedisco]

@@RmonK2000fr ill keep gerard way and yall can have andrew tate or whatever 😍😍

[@YahwehisGodandYeshuaisKingiamr]

Same! Feminine men are such a turn off....I like men not chicks!

[@blazingarrows6117]

That is strange thing to say. Why not call good looking men handsome? Why call them a feminine/child description?

[@chaltrs]

ITS A JOKE

[@Whysoserious648]

Ikr? 💀They love to link beauty with femininity

[@lavenderbambi3501]

@@Whysoserious648 bc that's the whole reason why they find them pretty

[@Whysoserious648]

@@lavenderbambi3501 umm no

[@lavenderbambi3501]

@@Whysoserious648 can u speak for them? no. babygirls woudln't be attractive if they didn't look like......babygirls

[@SL33P_D3PR1V3D.]

I like my men masculine, thank you.

[@lavenderbambi3501]

not all@@AetheriusComics

[@Bumblexo]

@@AetheriusComicsnot all, straight girl here who thinks slightly feminine men are cute :) it’s just a preference

[@noxplay4906]

@@Bumblexo Yeah, probably because we don't live in nature anymore, and the world isn't as much dog-eat-dog as it was before. If we were still in those times it'd probably be different. Just interesting to think about

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

As do many (probably most) women, though many have been conditioned to believe otherwise.

[@SL33P_D3PR1V3D.]

@@Musicienne-DAB1995 which is slightly sickening

[@lellyt2372]

Give me my "toxic" masculine, provider, protector, father and lover of a husband ANY DAY

[@lavenderbambi3501]

this is exactly why they say women want toxicity, n it's their fault if they get abused cuz they should have picked better

[@lellyt2372]

@@lavenderbambi3501 you obviously are not great at comprehension of what you read. Well done

[@raregem84]

Me too. I'll take my so called toxic masculine man any day over a "babygirl" man.

[@noaharthur9041]

​@@lavenderbambi3501read her message again.

[@jurassicthunder]

​@@lavenderbambi3501you're so lost you don't even know what masculinity is. well actually you don't even know what a woman is to begin with.

[@alisahail9607]

I think the issue with TikTok is everyone on it is crazy. I’m leaning more toward believing your average person and their thoughts aren’t well represented on social media.

[@Langley_Ackerman19]

True. It's the rabid woketards that infest that app.

[@sterlingarcher74]

Yeah. Very vocal minority. I realized too during Trump’s administration that a lot of people who are voicing their opinions on twitter’s endless echo chamber are probably just teenagers who don’t know any better or have any real world experience. The problem is people let these things influence them.

[@kirschakos]

TikTok should be erased.

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

Correct.

[@natescorner]

I would have thought “baby girl” was an endearing term to a woman. Whether it be your girlfriend, wife, daughter or what have you. Who would have thought that it actually meant men starting 5 seconds ago. I guess I was wrong on everything.

[@shanekeenaNYC]

Ladies are from venus, Men are from mars.

[@teresai7314]

We live in a world where everything is upside down and reversed. Good is called evil and evil is called good

[@-Gax-]

​@@shanekeenaNYC I'm pretty sure that's backwards, venus rhymes with penis.

[@natescorner]

@@teresai7314 Where men are allowed into women’s sports and women are allowed in the Boy Scouts

[@natescorner]

@@-Gax- lol

[@Alois_from_Vienna_in_Austria]

That is an old thing. Teenage girls always liked harmless soft men and there where always bands arranged of them: boybands. New is only that older men try to fit into this and grown up women pretend to like it. But that is because people do not grow up fully today.

[@GhoulsGold]

Not entirely true, or just not a good comparison. The majority of hormonal young ladies in times past, say the past 200 years, were drawn most to confidant and often athletic, masculine boys and men. It’s a very modern and let’s not pretend entertainment and social media isn’t in part responsible, trend that effeminate boys have been promoted as such an attractive quantity. You can hardly compare good looking but still quite macho Elvis or the Beatles to what we are seeing only more and more of in pop culture with de-masculization of men being marketed as a healthy attraction for youth. (I do wish there were more broadly available “nonwoke” peer reviewed studies out here on the subject, because I do find it fascinating anthropologically. But, you have to trust our academic institutions which are themselves playing a very active role in these matters and in my humble opinion, fully compromised, not to be trusted.) So, for me, as a former student of archaeology, anthropology, but rather a nurse of 20 years… I have to say it’s all flowing from the same place, or people, and those people are purposely aiming at EU- genics. (Sorry, KZbin likes to censor posts with words like this one, especially if a post contains multiple “buzz” words/phrases. It’s worth thinking about… either way.

[@sup9542]

I think you're both right. Girls always liked "cute" guys but still masculine, just on the younger side of masculine. Now masculinity is so threatening and evil they are doing away with it. Meanwhile, secretly a lot of these feminists want to be manhandled in bed. They are nuts.

[@MrDhollaballa]

@@GhoulsGold Don't forget BC

[@Kat-zx1pj]

For a teen a grown boyish man is masculine enough. Not best analogy. There is a huge age gap afterall. Teens fancy the most masculine boys at school, with best muscles etc. There is just a difference in what is masculine when you practically a kid.

[@thereallazygirl]

bwahaha u know how many grown fans justin timberlake and nsync had? yall are jealous coz u're not hot or smooth enough .stop trying to make it a women's issue

[@Yorfallon21]

Brett, my brother had gone into depression for a long while and has now come out a lot of shell. And I see he follows you on ig. He’s not Christian or anything. But I’m pretty sure it’s ppl like you who influence them. He’s becoming more masculine. More of a what a woman wants in a men. I would say he was just a boy boy. He’s a 97’s baby and I am so proud of him 😊 thx Brett!

[@Pecan_John]

I had a girl who used to work at my work call myself and another guy babygirl. She couldn’t explain what it meant in any meaningful way. I was so confused and annoyed. I was so happy when she quit abruptly because she just couldn’t handle it anymore.

[@DaviS.Pereira]

Man, i never thought that one day I would rather stay in Brazil than trying to go live in the US, but here we are!

[@crazychase98]

Right now Brazil an the us are probobly about the same

[@IlustraLilian]

Totally agree! 🇧🇷😅

[@s3ntin3l60]

This is such a disheartening comment.....

[@hydrofrolicwildflower3393]

What

[@muaythaiballerina6463]

I've been called babygirl by creeps for most of my life. I didn't think I could hate the term more than I do but I was wrong. This is even worse...

[@ЕвгенийПершин-е1ь]

Heeey, sweetie, is your mom looking for baby girls son-in-law eeh? You can be my queen, I'm your babygirl These nuts are definitely bsbygirls... Is there more cringey variants?

[@Cocreatewithus]

I am 45. My husband is 51. We are both tiny. My husband affectionately calls me "baby girl", because 1) i am female and 2) i really am little, there's hardly anything to me. Like a 98 lb. Feather that my oldest daughter was able to pick up easily when she was 10. Would i ever, ever call him baby girl? Heck no! He's masculine, protective, loving, etc. and if anyone ever tried to hurt me or our children he'd blast them to hell lol.

[@dantasticmania8728]

I personal very really used the term baby girl when with a female but I did remembered it being used back in the 90s referring to petite ,fine ,females.

[@JuniperGal-ek2pu]

But we call women tomboy even though they’re girls. And we call grown women baby girl/little girl even though they’re adults. So, double standards much? Also, no one’s forcing you to call ur partner “baby girl”

[@cookiestrong8757]

I don’t see an issue with men being into fashion. If guys like fashion great! If they want to serve in the military great! Same goes for women. In my country men are very feminine looking and society hasn’t collapsed. lol So I don’t see any issues

[@r.marie08]

I absolutely cannot imagine calling a grown man that I am actually attracted to in any way, "baby girl". ... Unless it's strictly ironically in jest to tease him in good fun. To call a man that, and actually mean it unironically would be a pretty good indicator that I see myself as the more masculine between the two of us. To which I Say, "no thank you, Sir(Mam?)".

[@nicolasandresmartinez-cond126]

Wait, being called a "babygirl guy" is a good thing now? Stop this world, cuz I wanna get off of it!

[@Moriahg]

Same

[@RCCrawlerz209]

I want off this rock! 🤦🏼‍♂️

[@tobiasburrell6055]

Because of a word. Relax babygirl. 😂

[@nicolasandresmartinez-cond126]

@@tobiasburrell6055 Sure, I worry about the word just as much as you should worry about the word smart: You don't care because you ain't it 🤓

[@leddie0662]

You can talk about “emotions” without being gay

[@maxgriffin696]

You also can't talk about emotions as a man and be taken seriously, either.

[@alocatt]

@@maxgriffin696 yikes to the people you surround yourself with

[@maxgriffin696]

@alocatt that's just life. I'm a dude. If I'm soft, then I won't survive. It's why men aren't allowed the luxury of being emotional. Noone trusts a soft man. And if you do, then you have only yourself to blame when he let's you down.

[@alocatt]

@@maxgriffin696 your rhetoric is exactly the reason why men feel like they can't talk about their emotions without being taken seriously, because you won't let them. why complain if you are pushing this message forward?

[@maxgriffin696]

@alocatt not complaining just pointing out what everyone today seems so keen on ignoring. At least until they are faced with it anyway.

[@RCCrawlerz209]

If a female used that term on me, I'd be turned off from it! That term should only be used on women, not men! 🤦🏼‍♂️

[@RmonK2000]

But you are babygirl

[@-Gax-]

Then you need to grow a thicker skin because there isn't a single insult or word on earth that somebody could tell me that would upset me. Isn't a right-wing ideal that people should be able to say whatever they want too? And that other people need to deal with it and not be so sensitive? Then why are you being so sensitive? People only want free speech when it it's something they agree with. Right. Left. These are useless terms. You're all the same. You are all a bunch of sensitive, softies who get offended at words

[@celeste4118]

this is kind of babygirl

[@RCCrawlerz209]

The both of you right now.....🤦🏼‍♂️🙄

[@jojoatthedisco]

tbh this is so babygirl

[@CombativeMedic]

I don't care how hard they try to push this, that is a *NO* for me. Bring in the "toxic masculinity" if it's the opposite of this!!

[@Yupyupyup32]

i think imma pass on the wife beaters. what you want is healthy masculinity

[@katelynandersen5689]

The baby back rib transition to the sponsor message was The Best One Yet!!!! 👏🏻👏🏻😂😂

[@JuanCarlos-np7vo]

the advice about handling our feelings in a way that does not take it out on our family, is so valuable & coming from a woman who cares just means everything. Everything. Thank you Brett I needed a reminder that I need to do better & I can do better. Gracias amiga.

[@TheOnlyRabidChipmunk]

“Just stop it’s weird.” Should be the motto of the next generation.

[@hydrofrolicwildflower3393]

*gen alpha

[@dantasticmania8728]

Funny thing is the old school streets term for baby girl was referring to a sexy, fine petite female? No woman would of dared called their boyfriend a baby girl!

[@Megumi.-.]

From wet cigarette men to babygirl men... Girls we are stooping lower and lower we need to step up 😭

[@kennymichaelalanya7134]

A guy can't even be nice in peace nowadays. Lol

[@angelicaamora11]

😂😂😭😭😭😭

[@balitangkamatis]

the fowgouth era is here, bruv.

[@namantherockstar]

Brett inspires me.. My parents said if i get 70K followers They'd buy me a professional camera for recording..begging u guys , literally Begging.

[@baylee_baby_]

Yes they can. Y'all just have awful taste. There's amazing men and women out there they're just always told bs like you just stated. @@kennymichaelalanya7134

[@vanesa6112]

These promotions (ads) into the video are the best. Props to you and your team

[@chocortez23]

Thank you Brett! You are my #1 favorite news source where I know I will get the truth and comments and the full side.

[@willarose796]

that transition to good ranchers was totally unexpected! Brett's true superpower 😂

[@setapartforHim]

It was perfect! 😂

[@sjm9876]

Her transitions are always on point. I’ve come to look forward to her ad breaks lol

[@emilyzubanov8729]

Baby Back ribs.... I can't that is such a transition ✋😭

[@weswolever7477]

With a side of baked beans and a really cold lager 👍

[@jex_zv8049]

She the queen of transitions

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

That was a funny segueway!

[@thedarkwolf9423]

Note: long-term use of hormone-based contraception apparently alters women's selection prefernces according to some studies. Since The Pill makes women's hormonal system think it's pregnant already, attraction to "safe, supportive" males (physical and behavioral) notably increases, whereas once the same people go off the meds, their perceptions and attraction preferences apparently shift to more traditionally masculine phenotypes and behaviour. Considering that more women are being provided oral contraception at earlier ages (to control their cycle), this may have a noticable effect.

[@hansmemling2311]

I have 3 exes that were pretty masculine and they never took birth control in their life. We always used a condom. It’s not just birth control it might be micro plastics and perhaps birth control remnants in the water we drink. But it also seems to be a societal thing. If you look at the waves of feminism this stage just seems logical.

[@PuddilyOops]

The other side of that coin is when women are fertile male testosterone goes up. Women on the pill do not read as fertile and T levels have been dropping exponentially since 1964.

[@davidcox3076]

It will be very intriguing some years down the road when all the science is known. Just doesn't seem like the best idea to flood the female body with all the chemicals that alter their hormones.

[@sirshrooma]

@@hansmemling2311 Oh definitely no one is denying the social trendiness of it all, the politics of the people who engage in these "asthetics" etc, there are definitely more factors than the hormones. However it's still an interesting and relevant addition to the discussion.

[@TheBaumcm]

I could see this being true, just based on the possible mechanisms. Hormones drive everything else.

[@izzieluv]

Okay. The second urban dictionary definition makes it seem like it started in the online fandom communities. As someone who used to be pretty deep into those communities, I am not surprised. Those girls are unhinged, and most of them need serious help.

[@joanjaeger8943]

My husband buys his clothes from Rural King, makes deer sausage every morning, and looks forward to mowing our lawn every week. He is not a “babygirl.” He’s a “grown-ass man” and he’s the man of my dreams.

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

Glad to hear it.

[@marie-kateblanchette3007]

We should be hearing more of that, and less of the baby girl nonesense

[@luisangel-hr6xz]

How are these things masculine? Anyone can do that lol, what makes you think the "fem" guys can't do what he does?

[@spittinvenom9843]

@@luisangel-hr6xzcause fem fruitcups don’t

[@labradortea7873]

Kind of unrelated, but how do you make deer sausage, and what does it taste like?

[@nettietrees7238]

This could also coincide with the long term effect they have found in women on the pill - it dulls receptors to masculine cues, and so they find weak ‘baby girl’ men attractive.

[@CARow2487]

Yes!!! Was thinking the same exact thing. We screwed up womens hormones and now look what they're attracted to 😮

[@sjm9876]

This is so true!

[@sylwiab8946]

Yes! I Iwas thinking the same! 😮 Chris Williamson and Dr Peterson I think talked about it 🤔

[@thereallazygirl]

lol calling harry styles weak is hilarious

[@HopeRush]

@@thereallazygirl the guy wears dresses and prances around stage with a gay pride flag, he's definitely not masculine in the slightest.

[@lucidjamesofficial]

They literally complain that men are too soft and won't do enough. And now they say they want it again? Make up your mind, which one do you want?

[@-Gax-]

American men are incredibly soft and it doesn't matter if they are right-wing or left-wing. all you have to do is scroll through this comment section and see the amount of right-wing people that are saying babygirl offends them or they wouldn't like to be called that or blah blah blah words are wrong. It reads the exact same as a Hasan or TYT comment section. Bunches of whining right or left wing people complaining about the other side, simultaneously having double standards that alternate depending on the situation, not one of you has consistent morals😂

[@Alaska_Mac]

Asking a woman to make up her mind? Good luck with that 😂

[@artawhirler]

It no longer matters what they want. They're not getting it. 😅

[@thereallazygirl]

not u . hope that's clear enough

[@JuniperGal-ek2pu]

Women aren’t a hivemind 😂 I think you forget that different opinions to a topic exist.

[@joshstorch3315]

These Ad transitions are complete GOLD!!!

[@jack247811]

The only time of my life that ever felt like one of those anime skits where everyone just falls on the ground after someone says something stupid. I don't even like those cartoons that much but that's exactly to a t what that felt like when she brought up good ranchers

[@dylanschrom1230]

No matter how nice it's said "babygirl" sounds like a damn insult whenever it's said to a guy

[@kristinasurratt168]

I’m so happy to be older and married. I’m very thankful that I raised 2 boys that are masculine. I’m very very thankful that I have a husband who is very masculine but also very kind and thoughtful.

[@Bowinwj]

Why did I click on a video cuz I saw the words “Babygirl men” 😅😂

[@Mimi-74]

I know.

[@Grizzly_6623]

I came up in the Bieber era this is somehow both nothing new and incredibly depressing at the same time… turns out I’m the opposite of whatever that is… 😂

[@jennachampion3590]

Damn, here I was thinking being “baby girl” meant they seductively refer to their girlfriends as “baby girl” which I’d be so into, but this is giving cinnamon roll 😂

[@someoneovertheinternet4417]

Agree, its giving "smol bean" 😂

[@BlackJester0X]

Weaken the men, weaken the security of the country. Why can't they see that?

[@pp-bb6jj]

They see. This is why they do it.

[@kittyKatfish]

One of my friends has been with a babygirl boy for 3 years and she isn't happy. I've been with a real masculine man for 2 years and very happy.

[@roj499]

I’m 7 years divorced from a babygirl boy and just got married to a masculine man, and I’m far far far happier.

[@noxplay4906]

Nature at work. Happy for both of you. Not saying this is for everyone but people are trying to force a complete reversal of the natural order which is dangerous and leads to imbalance and disharmony

[@JuniperGal-ek2pu]

Okay?? 💀 What was the point of this? Does this make you feel better?

[@GeneralGrievous-nr5zo]

Good for You. But there are definetly counter examples.

[@r25m38]

my roommate LOVES Pedro Pascal and it's because he's a baby girl...as in the line in The Last of US where he say's "I've got you baby girl" but what makes him so hot....the fact that he's protecting Elle, that he goes crazy and kills a bunch of people to protect her... you know a MAN, he cares about her and he wants to protect her! a MAN, not a baby girl, a MAN !

[@wil404]

Men need to start calling women, "Big Fella." Brett Cooper has big fella vibes.

[@missyfitch4004]

I dont want a man to carry his own purse. 😂 he's supposed to be embarrassed to carry mine

[@anjalisartistry870]

Purses or makeup has no gender

[@illyaedwards7188]

​@@anjalisartistry870men who wear makeup and have a purse are wimpy little soyboys, no woman is in to that nonsense.

[@MrSaxobeat020]

You conservatives are insecure about a purse now? literally an object?

[@davidlegge8303]

That transition to the Good Ranchers ad needs to go in a Hall of Fame. The queen of the transition strikes again!

[@pinkytaylor5845]

I've heard it asked, if you found yourself in a potentially violent situation, do you want your man to jump in front of you, or hide behind d you?

[@gunsgalore7571]

As a guy, even if all women did want this (which is not true), I would not try to be it.

[@kendrascorner]

Ewww the entire concept of a "babygirl" man sounds disgusting. This actually grosses me out. Why can't society just let men be men. Thank GOD I am married to a MAN. Like, an actual, masculine man. I wonder if this ridiculously strange desire comes from women's hormones being changed by birth control. Allie Beth Stuckey recently had a podcast discussing how birth control can cause women to desire more feminine men, or even other women. Maybe that's the explanation? I mean, I don't know, but there has to be some kind of an explanation because this is so ridiculous and gross.

[@Mimi-74]

That is very interesting. I have never heard that. If true it would certainly explain a lot. I have never been on birth control. I also find masculine men extremely attractive. I appreciate their provider and protector traits. I appreciate our differences, making men and women a compliment to each other, not a competition. And I find nothing remotely attractive with these "baby girl" men. It is nauseating to see.

[@The_1995_]

Seems like a reach to me I’ve been on birth control and I’ve never found feminine men attractive

[@ibnFarook]

Very true, women on and off birthday control are essentially to different beings.

[@lilicrane5955]

I was thinking the same thing ! I heard how some women will actually find their partner unattractive once they get off birth control . I actually encounter this in my own life , My best friend dated totally different people while she was on and off birth control. I noticed when she was off birth control she would date masculine man , who were fit, treated her great and had a good future ahead of them. But when she was was taking birth control she dated fat man, who belittle her, and have little to no desire to better their future. She sadly ended up marrying a guy who basically loves her friend ( send her flowers , fantasize about her sexuality and always going to her for advice when it comes to Their relationship) . Wish she never got onto birth control totally destroyed all her healthy relationships with good people

[@teresai7314]

We live in the days where good is called evil and evil is called good

[@MegaTeeruk]

Its time to consider the possibility that women now may just be broken.

[@kp4911]

They are pining for a bunch of closeted gay celebrities, I'm afraid.

[@SubtleStair]

If women are broken, men are broken. We stand together and fall together.

[@jillhamster246]

We are. .

[@MrSaxobeat020]

Typical 24 hours being chronically online conservative 🤡

[@redscorpion9411]

8:48 Love it how you call out the toxic society that makes fun of men who cry.

[@Bk01180]

I am so glad you are covering this. It’s disgusting to see this. They are the complete opposite of “baby girl” there is no way these men can be okay with this. One example is with Dream, I have seen everywhere everyone saying “cutie patootie” and “baby girl” he finally said something about it on tiktok and I understand his frustration. I would be furious. It’s the weirdest thing ever can people please stop making silly names for everything. It’s WEIRD! what ever happened to calling people “hot” “attractive” or “cute”

[@lavenderbambi3501]

dreams spoke against the parasocial relationships ppl had w him, he doesn't want to be called sexy either 💀 it's weird

[@emilyg.8155]

My husband expresses his emotions freely. I wanted our marriage to be a safe place for him to be able to “feel” but to also be masculine. It’s done wonders in building his self confidence by helping him see his strengths while learning to work through his weaknesses too. Men NEED to be allowed to feel and process, and not be called “baby girl” because of that!

[@cristianna_jasmyn]

I'm a gen z girl, and you are reading too much into this. when I call someone baby girl, it's more to say they are acting cute in a way that I wouldnt expect them to act, especially if if they are a pretty "manly" guy. it's not a term that's categorizing them as fundamentally feminine, though I'm sure some use it that way. even if it is "effeminizing", I don't think you realize a lot of the times people are using this term as a JOKE. 😭

[@EvanPedersen-p1u]

The only people I would call "Baby Girls", are baby girls!

[@Jurrien2003]

This makes me think of a podcast episode I listened to somewhat recently about "your brain on birthcontrol". One of the conclusions was that, when on birthcontrol, masculine characteristics are less desirable and when she got off of the pill the interest in those masucline traits returned.

[@kurtisdelonge3372]

I used to call my friends this when I was in a funny mood or joking. Never thought would people would actually start calling men this

[@zacharyo3824]

I wonder if people in the past found the destruction of society as funny as we find it. because I'm still in the laughing phase before crying sets in.

[@pinkroses135]

I feel this

[@alison5009]

I feel like all of the end times people are starting to sound a little more sane right about now. 😢

[@salazar556]

I don't care if a man is into more feminine things, but I don't think we should put down masculinity either. There's nothing wrong with a man being masculine. It's in their nature and many women, including myself, find it attractive.

[@jeromechibamba514]

In the 90's we had Bruce Willis and Arnold Schwarzenegger, now we have this.

[@ravenglebsky9404]

And at some point we had guys with huge pastel wigs and full face of makeup. Who cares

[@lavenderbambi3501]

arnold boasted ab preying on underaged girls

[@chauhanmridula850]

Ok but I literally would love to hear Brett's review on the movie Poor Things. That would be so much fun and enlightening as well.

[@alexhaynes7220]

You r right and spot on and speaking facts again

[@DerpyDude777]

Oh hell no! Screw that BS lol.

[@kennymichaelalanya7134]

"Hey you! Baby girl you want some baby back ribs?" Such a hilarious segment into that ad

[@UnDonnaiolo]

Hollywood went from Cary Grant, Sean Connery to these "babygurls"

[@explosivediarrhea4671]

Lmao

[@TheGeneralMod]

I noticed how women online will pretend dudes like this are attractive but when you look at who they go after… It’s the complete opposite 😂

[@noxplay4906]

This is what happens when people base their worldview off of social media, their behavior and their words and beliefs don't line up with reality

[@SoulAtParadise]

ding ding. it’s all for attention.

[@JuniperGal-ek2pu]

Who is they? Why are you treating women like a monolith?

[@AVRGWIBWTHACN]

3:59 nah these transitions are god level, whoever is writing them deserves a raise.

[@heybrowhatup]

This is only an internet thing with celebrities. It doesn’t apply in the real world.

[@Pookiesty]

Babygirl is actually a word many men used for women.

[@JuniperGal-ek2pu]

Fr it’s just double standards 😢

[@anjalisartistry870]

I ❤ kpop idols and men who express themselves.

[@SuperCilis]

"babygirl" is derogatory unless you are talking about your 2 year old daughter. Anything else is inappropriate

[@JuniperGal-ek2pu]

Then we shouldn’t call grown women baby girls either

[@beowulf1563]

Those are fightin words.

[@croquemitaine5923]

"baby back ribs"... yep definitely Brett knows how to talk to us!

[@meganvincent5381]

Why are you angry about other women having preferences...

[@Akira.-]

FR AND SOME COMMENTS IVE SEEN UNDER THIS VID ARE SO PRESSED ABT IT😭

[@meganvincent5381]

@@Akira.- someone thinks its a psyop, that some women are expressing their interest in fem men 😭 get a fucking grip ya'll!

[@JuniperGal-ek2pu]

Frrrr

[@meganvincent5381]

@@Akira.- conservatives don't be weird challenge. Difficulty - IMPOSSIBLE

[@TheBinny]

If someone calls you bby girl, you're cooked 😭

[@hydrofrolicwildflower3393]

LMAO fr

[@lavenderbambi3501]

hi bbygirl

[@hannahnoyes]

I know of this term used for fictional men and the actors who play them because of tumblr

[@hannahnoyes]

@Nicegram_YT_TheCommentsSection yes what do you want to tell me???

[@professorpsoop]

Fantastic commentary as always

[@usersssssssssssl]

I do not understand what is it so wrong that different people like different people. Yes some woman really loves huge tough guys with beard, gigantic muscles. But some women has always been attracted to more femine men. Just now it got a word to describe it. This is it.

[@angelskiis4179]

i’m so sorry but you could not pry calling a middle aged man babygirl from my cold dead hands!! 😭

[@MichaelNVADE]

that shits beyond gross and suspect.

[@angelskiis4179]

@@MichaelNVADE it’s for shits and giggles, i promise you it’s not that serious

[@alison5009]

@@angelskiis4179are you a teenager? Because that’s what my teenager says way too much. Sometimes, most of the time, it IS that serious.

[@JuniperGal-ek2pu]

@@alison5009 it really isn’t tho. If you think calling men “baby girl” is demeaning, then that’s honestly double standards.

[@allanknox8216]

Why would you worry about how "masculine"" or "feminine" you are? Be what you are, and don't accept disrespect from anyone, nor offer it to others. Your life will be so much happier just accepting who you are.

[@luisangel-hr6xz]

Thank you, people here are so over exaggerating

[@stars6531]

No just no don’t call me a babygirl

[@thereallazygirl]

u're not cute enough

[@Sharkman42]

Or they're just extremely good-hearted, kind, sensitive old souls

[@albertchurchill4845]

Great video, Brett.

[@chloechaffin6888]

Girl bye it's not that deep. Why do you take everything so seriously, it's not affecting you

[@Akira.-]

🚶🏻‍♀️anything that’s probably not normal for her is affecting her one way or another

[@MrSaxobeat020]

Right wing people tend to be lower in IQ and common sense

[@MC_cyjh]

Fr, idk why the comments are taking the preferences of other people so seriously..it’s not affecting you And manly men are not going extinct or anything, pls just go outside

[@smololoml]

Right?? Like why is everyone so offended and acting like girls have some sick ulterior motive for this? It’s LITERALLY just harmless fun and a silly term of endearment for celebrity/fictional crushes and stuff lol

[@-Zperco]

​@@smololomlwhat abt the fact its annoying girls have called me that before its grim and disgusting girl is for female not male ntm im taken and funnily enough my girlfriend doesnt call me babygirl because even she knows its weird

[@MarekzAnglii]

👍👍👍 💯 If someone were to call me a baby girl... they'd very quickly - and possibly painfully - discover, that I'm neither one, nor the other.

[@luisangel-hr6xz]

I disagree, i do think the name is stupid but men like this have always existed and always had women liking them, just like theres women who like more "masculine" men. Theres different tastes and i dont think you should just say "this is the correct way of doing things" or "this is what other women should like". It may be wierd to you because thats not your taste. Also theres different ways of protecting your loved ones, you can still be strong and protect without having to fit your narrative of whats "masculine" a piece of clothing isn't gonna change that fact. The majority of women here agree with you because thats what they like. The majority of women in another channel that advocates the contrary will agree with that person instead of you Its relative! No side is wrong for liking what they like. Im not saying which one is better than the other, im just saying we should respect others taste instead of thinking something is wrong with them or that something needs to be "fixed" because they like ehat you don't.

[@smololoml]

Exactly!!

[@JuniperGal-ek2pu]

Finally, a mature wise person.

[@natha9412]

Straight to the point, as always. Big Facts what you're talking here Brett. Amazing, as always. I loved it ❤

[@LibraAllWoman]

Brava, Brett. Well said.