Affair Love vs Authentic Love

[@ofs3216]

And what if the affair is longer than a few weeks as you mentioned? My husband says it's been about 2 years yet his "affair partner" bragged to me that it was 4 years. I gave the phone to my husband when I called his " AP" after another discovery and he refused to believe that she told me she said it was 4 yrs ... when I could hear her speaking to him she was now back peddling about the length and said " well maybe 3". I'm having a hard time at this point ... so so so much deceit. The discoveries have drained me. 😥

[@ofs3216]

Maylene Martinez thank you for your kindness and compassion. ❤️

[@janetbrown7620]

I pray for your strength

[@akstylez_ak5037]

I love that book The Five Love Languages. Is it possible for a man to not love himself and can be the reason why he’d cheat.

[@MrTrevorjc1]

You saved me! You saved my marriage! God bless you!

[@joe.combatsports]

Emotional is worse

[@akstylez_ak5037]

I knew it. “The Infatuation feeling”

[@harrytorian5994]

What if it wasn't love at all? Maybe it was paid back for years of neglect or something I couldn't tell my wife she hurt me by having an affair years ago?

[@CitiesOfAsh]

Never take back a cheating woman, she lost respect for you and she lost even more respect when you took her back after her infidelity.

[@EadsB7002]

great info here. thank you! my concern is what if you never experienced that "eros"/in love feeling with your spouse in the beginning or at all in the relationship marriage? Does the marriage still have a chance? I have been married for ten years to a WONDERFUL man, i can say without doubt that I love him unconditionally (we most definitely have the phileo/Godly love) and he is a very stable, trustworthy companion. However, i have never felt real passion/physical attraction/that in love feeling with him. I married him because he was/is a truly exceptional person. W've had a beautiful life together in many ways, but I always sensed something was missing deep down in terms of connection....but shrugged it off and told myself it wasn't important. Sadly, i began a relationship with another about six months ago (one in whom i am very, very attracted to/feel passion/in love/deeply connected to)....but I am very disappointed in myself. I never, ever saw this coming. I have wanted to end it numerous times, but just can't seem to bring myself to pull the plug. I care for this man also and our connection is difficult to deny. I am very torn.....because I don't know if i necessarily want to end my marriage either......but am fearful that if i never had the eros love to begin with....that it may be impossible to cultivate it at this point. Any advice/input is welcome....

[@darcin405]

Best explanation I've heard in years!

[@foxybella2233]

This helped me so much! Thank you!

None of this applies to my experience at all.

[@shannonkeenan0808]

The cheater can have the trials and responsibilities and real love with the affair partner when they go and have an entire different secret life with someone a whole relationship and even have a child so in that case it’s not just the infatuation and fun it’s another life and can indeed be real love not just affair fog especially when it’s going on for 7 years 😳 it’s not just about hooking up at that point

[@chestrockwell7306]

Wow he saved me a little pain

[@akstylez_ak5037]

😍😍😍yes brother yessssssss speak it.

[@uraeldvinciboy2789]

Limerence

[@msladypmodel]

u have great advice. i just learned about ur channel

[@annewalker9221]

What he says is so true and uplifting!

[@sheilamontoya5546]

I thought he was man of God until i found out he was using "bible studies with brothers " to spend time with affair partner

[@queenofhearts1138]

Our affair has lasted off and on for 15years. Any woman he's dealt with came after me. The feelings the passion is so so strong. But I KNOW it's wrong as he has given COMITMENT to other women and not to me... I have to walk away and stay away. Why havent I learned that I could never ever trust him.....

[@tsexywynn]

I feel like I'm fighting a losing battle.

[@akstylez_ak5037]

tsexywynn So sorry girl 😢😢😢. I understand

[@EadsB7002]

right there with ya!

[@anthonyo2645]

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[@ritajea57]

Wonderful information.

[@Dubblesteel]

Great info

[@chrispieper7777]

So true!