The MIND Of A FILIPINA (From A to Z)

#TheFilipinaPea #GETTOKNOWYOURFILIPINA #HOWFILIPINASTHINK ‪@TheFilipinaPea‬
So why do Filipinas act the way they do? What makes us tick? Can you predict our behavior, and can you form a long term, loving, stable relationship with us? What are the core reasons that make a Filipina who she is?
I'll answer all these questions and more, as we delve into the inner recesses of the Mind Of A Filipina.
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[@TheFilipinaPea]

👉My videos and the effort I put into them are 100% free for everyone to enjoy, and all I ask is that you leave a thumbs-up on any videos that you like and subscribe to my channel - I have never, and will never, ask you for anything else. For those of you that still wish to support my channel further, however, I’ve posted my links below. Thanks! 👉 Support through PayPal: www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=GC9T7PMLZ3BDW&source=url 👉 Patreon: www.patreon.com/thefilipinapea

[@zushikatetomotoshift1575]

I think I found out something about something about your country that will shock you. But I don't want to tell you here. I want to talk to you but I don't know how to cause I will not say it on youtube.

[@clannagael499]

I try to send you a couple of bucks I wanted to use a credit card it wouldn't let me switch countries

[@kenjames6106]

I can send you my email address if you want it

[@dsrthrse7917]

Don't like the idea of not being able to text but I really appreciate your channel and the feelings that you have for other people. Please don't stop and thank you to your man for finding a wonderful person to spend their life with!. Nice going Pea!!! 🥳

[@robertgray937]

Hi pea, I totally agree with you, I love the way filipina women think it's really attractive, keep on keeping it real .

[@stevefoster5172]

Al Bundy said it best. "Never try to understand women. Women understand women and they hate each other" LOL

[@55018]

Ha ha ha 😀😀 and it really is true.. if they think another woman is a threat ... Then it's war 😆😆

[@weitlingD3P]

Al bundy man that was a time. :)

[@kennethboehnen271]

Al Bundy for president

[@roguetiger3163]

Great show...great comment

[@LaughtersHouse]

Was thinking of that same quote

[@danielgreer5222]

You remind me so very much of my first wife who was Vietnamese. We met in high school. She was born and raised in the United States but raised with many traditional beliefs. I was never loved so much in my life. Like you she was smart, wonderful personality, great sense of humor, and beautiful. She passed away several years ago and I think of her often. Thank you for your posts and being such a sweetheart! I wish you many blessings and happiness. Hugs from Danny

[@josephfernandez2485]

I am married to a Filipino for 5 years, and it’s the best thing that has happened to me. God Bless your programme.

[@carvercapitalequitypartner122]

Great to hear that Joseph. Use sound judgment and choose a good one and no regrets. The pinays are the best.

[@tiktoksquids9144]

As long as it's not a spoiled American women you did good

[@damienpalladino8797]

Great to hear. How long was your search til you found her? Congrats.

[@stevenblackwell4903]

@@damienpalladino8797 if you put yourself out there...She'll find You.

[@enverkudic8504]

@@simoncorser8083 it' s all a matter of convo, bro... Add a little humor, while explaining your point of view. Make a few jokes, on the expense of both, to break the ice and point at the sillyness of jealousy... 😜

[@SpikexSpeigel]

I'm 29 and my gf is 24, she has a batchelors in education. Even though we've been together a year, I'm kinda lost on certain cultural things, even to this day. The information about the family and the insights into their approach towards relationships was invaluable. Thank you so much, really!

[@Matthew-gz4oh]

So wise beyond her years, and a great communicator.

[@thaimaxcan]

I agree but she must also have a good crew to prepare her video. Almost like professional production. Real interesting.

[@johnsinclair8687]

Yes she has a very enjoyable way about her. Great information.

[@coiledsteel8344]

Mathew attribute that to her Experience as a Phone Bank operator. See her discuss her Experiences in her other Video 😂

[@coiledsteel8344]

@@thaimaxcan No Crew! She covers that in another video.

[@stephenday3417]

Ditto!

[@paulbrown6338]

There is a tremendous difference in the mind of a Filipina who has been Westernized and those who have not had that exposure. My fiancee is so fragile when it comes to any type of criticism, she need to be reassured all the time, and I understand why. I don't want to change how the mind of my Filipina works that's why I love her.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Yes, Filipinas can be very sensitive to any perceived criticism! I glad you let her be who she is 😊

[@wilsonespinosa1150]

Congratulations Paul you must feel so proud for your fiance how I wish they all be like that never change who they're and never forget where they come from and don't be like an American woman here the culture is totally different, this's only my personal opinion base on my observation from I see and experience not all but most are to wild Not oriental family and very materialistic wich I hate that. Stay safe both of you and God bless you 👍🏼

[@robertblanks9602]

@@TheFilipinaPea oh so true!!!

[@nolicantrell9483]

Great..

[@smithvenzandron4ever2]

not all pilipina are scammer on my part its better to work hard and earned money my husband is a foreigner im married and happy , i love my husband very much i respect him as the head of our family

[@bobbechtel8377]

I love your honesty Pea. It's refreshing. I wish more people were as honest as you. God bless you and your family in Jesus name!🐑💖

[@StanHasselback]

This should be required viewing for any western man visiting the Philippines. You are quite a perceptive young women and your analogies are spot on. An older better educated more financially secure western man bares more of the responsibility in making the relationship work. These advantages are one of the main reason's we visit or live in the Philippines so we shouldn't complain about the environment that actually gives us the advantage, namely poverty. Communication and knowing what you really want is the key to making a long term relationship possible especially when cultural differences can cause a lost in translations situations. I think FP could start teaching a Master Class on this.

[@pauls4742]

True - but only among a certain element of society. Not everyone in the Philippines is poor.

[@schneider9615]

Right on bro 👍🏾

[@paulgraumann2774]

The majority are poor unfortunately.

[@kaywat40]

Remember this from an old Air Force vet, Pea; bombers get the most flak when they're over the target! And that includes truth-bombers.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahahaha Yeah, I guess that’s true! 😁

[@edwinvega6128]

Philippinena Pea, you are a great communicator thanks for your invaluable information.God bless you always.

[@coiledsteel8344]

@@TheFilipinaPea. It's called AAA(Anti Aircraft Artillery) NO "GUESSING" about it as ANY Combat Air Veterans Bombing Nazi Germany, Korea, OR North Vietnam will Tell YOU! Best place to start is Watch the Original, and Remake of - WW2 Germany THE MEMPHIS BELLE! Then, go to 1954 movie, with William Holden, BRIDGES OF TOKO-RI (May need a tissue for this one!) 🤔

[@mikec4815]

Most all our challenges in our marriage have come from fear of something. I really did not realize that my wife growing up in such poverty and going from one crisis to the next left a long lasting impression. This took me a long time to understand. After many years I have learned when I hear certain tones in her words she is afraid of something. When I can calmly ask what is it that you are afraid of instead of reacting badly we can talk about the situation. Usually we are able to just talk it out. Sometimes I still react poorly but there has been much progress in trusting and understanding each other.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Exactly, Mike, that’s just what I’m talking about - good job!!!!

[@timlinamen]

Wow! I love her honestly and insight. Oh, and those eyes!!!! 😉

[@mr.lifemark]

The president of the clever girl club has served up another intoxicating video of truth, knowledge and perception of the Pea 😎

[@franklyszkiewicz8904]

what video is that

[@mujcinasmir]

Person who makes everyone happy was neither born nor ever will be born. You are doing great, keep it up.

[@michaeljohnbailey9719]

Well said.....never give your honesty and truth bombs up young lady , you are highly unusual.......thats a compliment.

[@Michael-gg5sq]

sad that you have to justify your videos, i love them all, you put lights in a lot of dark room in my head about filipino culture and you're helping me making my story better with my loved one, haters gonna hate, just keep going, you're doing an excellent work mixing the cultures, thank you again.

[@brianwilliamson2459]

Boy I wish I had known all of this about Philippines before I got married to one. Mind you there is so much to know that there would be no time left to marry. I admit I do not fully understand why we are now separated because she never complained about anything. But I have to say the time I spent with my princess was so so fantastic.

[@Mottleydude1]

I never try to figure out my Filipina. Like women everywhere they’re more complicated than Chinese arithmetic. At least to us men. My first year of marriage to my Filipina was quite the adventure. Not only did she have all the insecurity and jealousy issues Pea mentioned she also was a stranger in a strang land as America, not surprisingly, is nothing like what most Filipino perceive. But understanding her insecurities and communicating about them is key to a strong relationship. #1. By word and by deed let them know you only have eyes for them. Be romantic, buy her flowers and little gifts. Be circumspect around other women. #2. Let her know that you will always take care of her. Be strong, make the decisions but gain credibility by always making decisions in the best interests of family. #3. Be a mentor. Teach her about the real world. How to succeed at work. How to do financial planning like budgeting and bill paying. #4. Be patient. #5. Don’t be naive. Hold them accountable. They won’t like it but will respect you for being strong. #6. This is most important. Tell her these three things every day. Yes dear, I love you and did I tell you today you’re beautiful.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Yup, you pretty much can’t go wrong with that advice! 😊

[@nawtsurprised]

As Charles Bukowski once said "You can either love women, or you can understand them." For once you understand them, you will never love them again. Choose wisely what is best for you as once you understand them, you can never go back.

[@Mottleydude1]

The Filipina Pea Sure you can. I hear about that pretty much every day. ;)

[@philipcooper3330]

Great advice Mott Dude

[@aw-zz5yo]

you're confusing complexity with lack of mental stability

[@carlschleicher5516]

All talent and insight. Truly informative. Cook, clean, and feminine, I'll take that any day over what I'm offered here in the USA.

[@themanftheworld8439]

Same in UK.

[@michaeljohnbailey9719]

No no no. Western women make great house keepers as wife's..... When they kick you out the " Keep the house"

[@edsmith5848]

I’ve been married to one for over 27 years & I’m still trying to figure that out 😉

[@stevemayo8748]

I cannot believe people that criticize you Pea. Good grief! I detect ZERO bias in your describing experiences or knowledge with both cultures. I actually find most of it quite amusing with your wonderful wit and character, so I keep coming back for more. Don’t change anything Pea! Ignore the haters!!! 👍👍👍💯

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks so much, Steve - I try to just call it like I see it 😊

[@DV8Trade]

It's amazing how I live on the other side of the globe (Costa Rica) and not only is the climate very similar, almost everything you say about the Philippines and people there does apply here, too. As for "avoiding conflict", I don't think it's necessarily a good thing. Conflicts don't disappear by "avoiding" them. In my opinion they have to be resolved by discussing them. Otherwise they continue to smolder and can destroy a relationship from within. Hey, congrats to another 10K subscribers! You must be doing something right 😉

[@n7357]

wow ... this is easily the best video you have produced to date .. you are smart enough to know that the best defense against those who would complain about your topics or content is to go on offense and explain in the most intelligent way WHY WHY WHY .. people act a certain why ... and he perspective that must accompany that persons behavior or that persons reaction . You have made a case that is soooo rock solid that if you had been a lawyer, your client ( the truth ) would have been set free .... on the spot . We foreigners are the rock that love to follow you here on youtube , and enjoy your content and support you in your growth here , and your family and your pinoy audience is the hard place where you are loved and where you were born and educated ....i and other like myself are so impressed with you because we have not seen anyone here in the philippines who sit SO COMFORTABLY between a rock and a hard place .

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Wow, Leon, now THAT was a compliment - thanks!

[@rauldempaire5330]

@The Filipina Pea You "nailed this one down, too!!"... (God help us if you ever decide to become a Lawyer!!)...

[@patrickholdeman8197]

I am glad now that I tell my GF's children that I love them. Their father left them 11 years ago.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

How does your girlfriend feel about you telling them that you love them?

[@supercruise-6814]

Hmmmm.....this is VERY considerate of you. BUT NEVER FORGET - and is a Big Reason so many knowledgeable men say, NEVER date or marry women with children at home. You will never be more than a guest in her home. You may give her and her children your heart and soul but beneath the surface you will never be more than a glorified guest and outsider. At the sign of the slightest trouble, you will blamed and quickly disposed of. . . . . "IF" the act adds greater unity for the group. In situations like this, I have seen things come up and invariably, the bf or step father is belittled and treated without regard or common courtesy.

[@pauls4742]

@@TheFilipinaPea and further - do you follow up your words with actions? And will you stay and be reliable and dependable unlike their father who apparently left 11 years ago. And what are you doing to repair that relationship - the kids need to know their dad on some level at least.

[@kenamaro]

One of the best vids on the subject!! Keep those truth. Bombs comin’. !!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Awww thanks Dave! 😊

[@tomgentry6409]

You're a smart lady I'm married to a Filipina and I brought her to America and I can vouch for your opinions as truths

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Tom! Then you understand how we tick - congratulations, that’s not easy to do 😆

[@GUITARTIME2024]

how long as she been in america

[@tomgentry6409]

@@GUITARTIME2024 3 years

[@gregorymacaleese6372]

You are an outstanding communicator. As a former television producer, I am amazed by your clarity and your ability to deliver your thoughts with precision. Bravo!

[@KINSEY1956]

Again, you have outdone yourself with this blog. In just a couple of minutes you have compared and contrasted the psyche of the adverage Filipina. It has been difficult for me to describe the Filipino culture to my friends. I will share this episode with them and they will have a working knowledge of the subject matter.

[@EMTwombly]

You are phenomenal in you knowledge and presentation, with tremendous attention to your audience. Those skills alone are missing from other KZbin channels. I hope other ladies realize what you are doing and follow your lead to educate us on their culture, beliefs and how they see the world!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Eric! And don’t worry, they copy me all the time, so I’m sure they’ll copy my content too 😆

[@Didewro]

She is awesome.

[@profiskipinternational4402]

Saying this as cultural journalist (for radio) ... sharp, very sharp your analysis, being on the point. Its all what makes an excellent investigative journalism. Every big intern. broadcaster would happy to have you. Keep it straight forward. Tks.

[@marilyncoish9117]

Looks like someone feels guilty....keep it real your one of the most honest people on u tube

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks so much, Marilyn!

[@philipcooper3330]

I’ve spent so much time over the years listening and learning in regards to the topics you touched on today. I want to tell you what a wonderful job you did with today’s topic. Hats off to you Pea, you really did a great job breaking each topic down using your insight and honesty. I wanted to apologize to you now for the heat you take from your prescribers on both sides of the fence. I truly understand you and appreciate you sharing your thoughts and beliefs. Don’t let anyone get you down, just keep doing your thing. Your nailing it!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks for the encouragement, Philip! 😊

[@carrizajosephverano3940]

I'm glad I found your channel! I see in my filipina wife the qualities you describe. And yes, filipinas do make for terrific wives!

[@trueking6279]

Love the video because I've been struggling with frustration abt my gf's jealousy over any & every woman I come into contact with irl or digitally. I understand more

[@TheFilipinaPea]

It can be VERY frustrating and annoying, King - I do understand 😊

[@carvercapitalequitypartner122]

@@TheFilipinaPea - I hope to gently reduce the jealousy over the years by generally keeping in close contact so there should be no worrying over what I might be doing. It will not come easy.

[@carvercapitalequitypartner122]

PS I still would love to meet the PI Pea one day.

[@usarocks2732]

Wow, you just keep on getting better with every video. I started watching you when you had less then 3000 viewers. There is the reason you are growing so fast..... NO ONE else on KZbin covers these type of topics!! Keep up the great work, and stay safe little Pea

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks so much, Vern! 😊

[@jeffdeasey5699]

Thank you Pea for everything you do! You’re awesome!!

[@tvbox6955]

Wow, concise, logical, reasonable and you speak better than 99% of professional journalists on TV! You make more sense in 1 minute than any of the rambling expatriate videos on KZbin. 😁

[@olyman63]

Bam 💥 Pea you tell it like it is. I really enjoy your show. Keep up the great job. Thank you 🙏

[@MrRed-tf7bv]

My 👩🏻Filipina Asawa🇵🇭 is my entire universe, l love her so much.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Awwww that’s so sweet, Mr Blue! (But I thought I was your entire universe?!!?) 😆

[@MrRed-tf7bv]

@@TheFilipinaPea You also are Pea, because you're my favorite Filipina on you tube po.🇵🇭👩❤😊

[@scottk84]

@@TheFilipinaPea the Pea is getting jealous lol

[@greybeard2324]

@@TheFilipinaPea boom Filipino mind hahaha 🤣

[@CraigRodmellMusic]

I can relate to that. That is the case with my own Asawa.

[@michaelfirestone7440]

you are a BRIGHT WOMAN PEA. PAT YOURSELF ON YOUR BACK, IT IS WELL DESERVED ♥

[@Bluztaken]

Great session Filipina Pea ...Wow! My late Wife, she had the qualities you spoke of, the jealously, the emotional insecurity ... But I loved her because she challenged me to be a "real" Man. She would ask me to do something and I taught myself to be able to respond truthfully ...done that already honey, next? When she got sick, the feeling of me leaving her hit hard. But I did what I always did, just be there, day in, day out. For her part ...she made me feel as if I were the Emperor of Planet Earth. She inspired and council-ed me. Guys ...just be real with yourself first and that way you can be real with any woman, Filipina or not. Do not say what you will do ...just do it and then say you have done it, move to the next project. Have a plan, share your plan with her and if her vision of the future and your vision are compatible ... Enjoy the love of Filipina woman, they are awesome.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

That’s so sad but inspiring at the same time, Bluz ........

[@Bluztaken]

@@TheFilipinaPea Thank you Filipina Pea, that is very considerate of you. I hope men of all ages can learn from my experience and your teaching.

[@mrmiketman]

P I love your Channel. Your words and your humor has been so enlightening in my relationship to my Pinay

[@kevinjohnson-tm1if]

Pea, welcome to the idiot society especially in the US. I appreciate the honesty that you seem to present and the only advice I can give you is keep doing the work you enjoy and the truth shall be your guide. People tend to hate one side or the other depending on where they stand on that issue. There are more of us out there that appreciate your insight and truths that you bring to light. Thanks for being our eyes into a country that most of us don’t know that well. Good job and keep rolling you are doing a great job!

[@joeking4471]

Gotta’ say that this is by far my favorite KZbin channel. The topics are spot on for getting to know the Filipino culture and challenges. A great resource for anyone thinking about visiting or living there, even if it’s just a visit to a beach resort.

[@erwinbogner7855]

I like the way Pea explains everything, it’s nice

[@DJBSharpMusic]

"In this scenario, YOU are the Gucci" I've never felt so special as when I dated a Filipina. I'll just lay that out there. She was a lot of things you described, and I messed things up with her, but I still cherished it, and look back on what I lost with fondness, as I've never felt such honest kindness and love as when I was with her. I hope that I'll find something special like that in the future again, but for now, I'm just enjoying learning what you have to teach.

[@chrisedwards1235]

The entire content of this video is spot on

[@davefoster7619]

Look at you, 2000 views in the first hour and over 500 likes! You’re doing great!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Dave - I sure couldn’t do it without you!! 😊

[@carvercapitalequitypartner122]

The Filipina Pea is our princess.

[@allendismuke7607]

Peach girl… never let anyone deter you from telling it like it is. For everyone that may read this…I absolutely love this girl. I think you need the change the name of your channel to “ The Perfect Filipina”… beautiful, smart and bold

[@lexflow2319]

Generalization is the pursuit of a intelligent mind. It counteracts chaos

[@Aubatron]

Some people just can't handle an objective view on things, they don't like hearing the truth. Just ignore the haters, they're simple minded.

[@nawtsurprised]

A few weeks ago I heard a different way of referring to simple minded ones, they are one dimensional thinkers. LOL Most people are.

[@Bands4theright1]

I think the Philippines and definitely the Filipino women should feel super grateful for hving someone like u doing what u do, even if it hurts to hear. Your heart is with the Philippines they shld notice that first. Your honestly are like a parent, guide, leader to them in my opinion, deep down if not all already they will in time. U are great to and for expats and Filipinos. Btw u also report things that are not so great about us foreigners but they are truths. Keep up the good work. I hv plans to visit the Philippines after this pandemic, and was also considering moving to some asian country from the us, and you are helping me so much. I chat many Filipino women from 20 to 35 yrs old and I am learning alot just from chatting and your channel, I am also armed and better equipped to be good to them but also to protect myself. Again keep up the good work💪

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Exactly, Andrew! Be kind and protect yourself from those that will only take advantage of you - well said 😁

[@williammoore4380]

Guys, Jealousy is a learned trait. It is an insecurity bred of lack of trust. When I first met my wife, an instance arose that she needed to call home and had lobatt. I handed her my phone and told her the pin to log in so she could use it whenever she wanted. Another time, we were shopping and I handed her my wallet as she new the currency and exchange better than I did. Little did I know, these were things Filipino men did not do. My later to be Asawa quickly found that I had no secrets and no subject was off limits. Therefore, her previous sense of jealousy melted and in the 11 years since, has never been a problem. One last quick statement- Filipinas become distrustful of their men, coupled with many men going OFW to support families, it is hard for them to find a good responsible man. Be that man, show respect and appreciation for her culture and people. Your bank account is less important than the emotional security they need.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

THANKS William! You understand exactly what I was trying to say in my video called “I Spy” 😊

[@martinfarrelly5196]

I in Ireland and have seen a lot of countries and cultures. I have to say the more I listen to this intelligent woman, the more I have to see this country and its culture.

[@shootingstar999]

Always love your straightforwardness. Keep up the good work!!!!!!! Nice new touch at the end.....changing things up.

[@jerrymcghee6788]

I am amazed at how simple minded and one dimensional the thought process of the average American I meet is these days...Its obvious what you are doing, and its GREAT! Interesting, and while maybe not full blown revolutionary, definitely progressive in a good way. You are filling a unique and needed niche in a good way. Glad I came across you on Paul's (Old Dog) channel (I also enjoy his insight). Keep it up!

[@jerrymcghee6788]

And Filipinos are DEFINITELY not the only scammers on the planet - there are MANY here in the states...P.T. Barnum said over 130 years ago, that "A fool and his money are soon parted. He was NOT talking about people from the Philippines!! :)

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks for finding (and liking) me, Jerry! 😊

[@ericburd]

Every man that is not from the philippines and wants to date/marry a filipina, needs to see this video!!! GREAT GREAT video!!!!...Way to go!!!

[@collinbeveridge317]

You are so refreshing - thank you for being yourself.

[@jettech81]

Outstanding advice, commentary, and presentation!

[@jhonfredrick794]

I'm glad you tell it like it is. Ever since I started watching your channel certain things made more sense with my girlfriend from the Philippines. When you tell the good and the bad it helps me be more patient and understanding

[@robertt6327]

Another fantastic blog, please keep them coming.

[@yogi4319]

This girl is obviously very smart, probably smarter than most of us foreign men watching her video. The way she articulates her points across - Fantastic!

[@floydventures]

I believe that both partners in a Western / Filipino relationship have the opportunity to learn from each other and evolve into a new level of cultural happiness and understanding together. Communication is key! Another great video Pea.... tellin' it like it is :-)

[@rickmurray3859]

I love your open in this video. Having been married to a Filipina for more then 30 years you have always been spot on. You are both intelligent and beautiful. Keep the videos coming please. Keep being you I love it

[@VegasLoungeAct]

Don't let your wife see your comment. 🤣

[@schneider9615]

@@VegasLoungeAct his wife and his side.😝

[@daleeustice9108]

I have been married too for 30 wonderful years

[@darryltarr7905]

I have the greatest respect for you Pea. Your videos have well thought out, delivered flawlessly and without dramatic inflection. You are an extraordinary person capable of doing pretty anything you set your mind to. Thank you.

[@pedrogonzalesgonzales5097]

It’s not her fault but the Pea is unlike any other Filipina. Her logical dissection of a subject , her broad understanding of societal and cultural norms sets her apart If you like her , desire her, then don’t expect to find anything remotely like her in Philippines

[@dennisb7930]

Another great one Pea excellent thank you ❤️

[@clydeseaside345]

Chismis is rife---you dont need a telephone, just tell a Filipina I understand the concept of saving face and avoiding conflict but honesty always works better I understand that Filipinas are products of their own environment and that their families are expecting them to support them My wife quickly understood that the idea of a rich foreigner with a big income also came with bills to pay in the same economy---her mother however cannot grasp the fact that we are paying bills that she could not imagine----luckily the rest of the family understands and are greatful for any support

[@Its-Just-Si-Reacts]

Haha yes you need to explain how much rent costs and how much to run a car then food ect... Did you learn any filipino? She might understand better if you tell her mother in her own language

[@fleeble04]

HOLY MOSES Pea, that's a lot of information, most men don't think that deeply about the woman they are in love with, getting below the surface or into the mindset of the woman we western men are with is not our strongest suit, we tend to be too much more like the "Shallow Hal" of movie fame. I'm not sure I've enough years left to get to know a good Filipina woman that deeply. Not to mention that at my age, given all the health issues that accompany advancing years I could make the promise not to leave as after a certain point in time one realizes his own mortality and comes to grip with the simple fact he's literally just a heart beat away from the grave. Loads to think about and consider, have this video set in it's own file now in my favorites to view again. As always you did a fantastic job expressing the subject of the video, thanks.

[@alexlovesusagreecephilippi7599]

Your videos are getting better by the day!!!

[@bharris968]

Love your vids Pea "telling it like it is" 😁. Keep um coming.

[@navytexan]

Great job ! I love the city of gentle people and my friends there .

[@rayhouse-cz8fb]

People need to lighten up and enjoy the show but also need to appreciate the honest truth. I really appreciate your videos. Thank you😊

[@thomasbachofer]

Hi Pea. I am from Germany and my Wife from Philippines. And i so glad that i found your Canal. You tell me the Truth about the Philippines and the Relationship between a Foreigner and a Filipina. And that's not bad. You make a great Job! Thanks for that.

[@Gmantrini]

I hope everyone really listen and does not judge too early. One of your best 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Cheers

[@MrJoe1199]

Wow, you say it as you see it -- more power to you, Pea!

[@Robert-bm2xi]

I have a long-distance relationship with a Phillipina woman. We have been talking every day for 4 years. I learned more from you in a few weeks Then from her in 4 years. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. And I bless you every day. Thank you Thank you Thank you. Catman Bob.

[@ShiroiTora2EChild]

I love your well balanced and well presented views. It is perfectly obvious how much forethought you employ in your productions. They are highly informative, entertaining, and professionally delivered.

[@enjay9521]

Pea, good video! Very interesting. We need to keep in mind that Filipino people are very , very diverse. In my opinion. the Philippines is not a melting pot of cultures, but more like a cultural buffet. You have Indonesian, Spanish, Chinese, American, Arab influences. These communities are spread across an archipelago of 7000 plus islands. Then there are urban/rural, education, Christian/Muslim uniquenesses, etc. So when we attempt to discuss "the" mind of "the" Filipina, we are going to stir up a lot of controversy. A lot of Filipinas won't match our generalizations Case in point, I have been to the Philippines a few times and dated Filipinas from Luzon, Cebu and Mindinao. . Each of them was very beautiful and very, very different, not just in terms of physical appearances, but also in terms of personalities and values. I now have a Filipina fiancee and am very grateful for her. She is a special woman. ❤

[@jd1811]

Enjoy, very very insightful, can you please describe the differences between those from the three Islands you mentioned?

[@enjay9521]

@@jd1811 I could write a book about this topic. Maybe one day I will.... suffice it to say that the Philippines is an island nation with a very complex history and this is reflected in Filipino people today. Even within one island, you will find a lot of ethnic and cultural diversity. My fiancee is from a very rural area in Mindinao. She grew up in a community with a relatively strong Spanish influence. You can see evidence of this in the people's faces, in their customs, etc. Not far from where she lives are Filipinos with more indigenous cultural influences. Then, Mindinao has Muslim regions, and they have their own complexities. My fiancee's village life in Mindanao is very different from life in other places, say, Manila. The complexities are grand. I love the Philippines. God bless the Philippines and all Filipinos.

[@eveolszak5736]

I agreed on everything you said EnJay. Philippine Island fall into three geographical divisions. Luzon, Mindanao and the Visayas. Each Filipina women are different. Physical appearances, personalities and values. Just depends on what Islands they come from. The island of Luzon has many claims to fame. Many Filipina won’t match someone generalization thats for sure.

[@plantworks100]

Hey pea, no man will ever figure out the mind of a filipina, or any other woman. But it's fun trying to figure them out. Much love to you my beautiful friend. 😊 😊 😊 😊

[@TheFilipinaPea]

We are complicated creatures, yes!

[@clydekimsey7503]

@@TheFilipinaPea True, but many American women say men are more complicated. I, of course, disagree, but what do you say?

[@wmjohns881]

Fun to figure out?? Sometimes very expensive to figure out. Several years ago my Mexicana GF wanted an 8,000 USD liposuction procedure and a 20,000 USD trip to Spain and Italy. She said she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me. After the liposuction procedure and the expensive trip she ended our relationship. When I asked her about wanting to spend the rest of her life with me she angrily responded: “what are you complaining about, you had great sex with a beautiful woman for 3 weeks in Europe. 😕

[@deanshort9011]

Hello again Pea, yes these are all true things that I have experienced with my Filipina. I know she is a product of her environment. I also know that she is all of the great things that you say Filipinas are. She makes me very happy and I do the same for her. We are a true team for over five and a half years.

[@thunt1565]

Well said, again, Pea. You write very well. I love your phrasing and your sense of humor. Keep up the amazingly great content!

[@bsraeder]

Some of these traits you mentioned are in narcissistic personality disorder but because you have them does not mean you are NPD. It's hard for me to show my filipina friend who has NPD this video because it would just give her an excuse that this is just the ways filipinas are and to justify that she does not have NPD. Thanks for sharing the info. You are 100% on.

[@lesball1754]

I (American) have been with my Filipina wife for 4 years now being married for 2 of them. I live in the Philippines. I can tell you first hand that everything she is saying is 100% on point. I have been blessed with a great wife and a great family that comes with it. Something you have to understand is when you marry a Filipina you marry the family too lol. Also holy cow do they love chismosa. Even my lola still does lol!!! Once your woman trusts you here all the horror stories you hear about jealousy are a thing of the past. For example my wife will joke around trying to find pretty girls to be my mistress!!! Granted she knows full well I would never want that, but my point is trust is vital. Through that you will have the most loyal, loving, and amazing wife you can ever hope for!! Did I also mention they are beautiful and down to earth. Try finding that in western women!!

[@CYMRUKID69]

I love filipina pea she is beautiful inside & outside. She is also smart, very wise & has a caring nature. I wish I could meet someone like her.

[@sn0wolf]

Don’t worry about the haters, they are unhappy about everything and your an easy target because you speak your truth. Please never stop….;)

[@Goodflight1]

REALLY GOOD VIDEO!! YOU DO A GREAT JOB!!! YOUR ON SCREEN PERSONALITY IS AWESOME.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks David!!

[@mikeydoo3860]

There's no way I'll undestand my love,i only know i truly love her with all my ❤ I've not yet met mine in person but know alot since we started talking. From watching blogs from foriegners there and Filipinos there.. Trust and lies is a main concern for sure with a Filipina. Mine told me straight up no lies or good bye.. Im not like other foriegners,im tired of these western women who don't know a good man when they have one. There like a open door if they see someone better looking there gone.. Thks. Pea. Your a great person and always special to us.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Mikey - and good luck!!

[@knewwhon]

Wow!! I am sooo glad that i found you my friend!! Thanks for your openness and willingness to share your knowledge and perspectives!! Blessings!! Hahaha!

[@ralphkehrer6136]

so true, girl. Just keep posting exactly what you do. Don't bother about some people who don't know how to look at a fact from all the sides. I go through a labyrinth of moods and behavior with my Filipina friend myself. And I think it's all about listening and adjusting, both of us, both ways.

[@georgephillips3625]

From my experience, no matter what you say or do you're going too have a percentage of the people who will find fault with it. Many just take things too serious.

[@kaii829]

I went from a happy single guy too meeting a philippina and i was thinking if the life would be the same with someone you love then it would be great, and if my life became better that would be a dream. But the jealousy, drama, arguing and constantly lies was to much to handle for a normal guy who thought he found love of his life

[@tjking1909]

Amen brother. All you hear are lovie dovie stories from guys who have been married for a year or two. Ask one that’s been there for 20.

[@lutzbassin9321]

Your introduction about honesty and sincerity is great!! I agree to you completely!

[@almamaglinte7073]

i loved...great vlog...kabayan...

[@jeffreyallen557]

Keep doing your thing sista, it's all good!

[@jeffreyallen557]

I married a Filipina from Apalit Pampanga in Jan 2019. We met online 5 years ago when she was a contract worker in Dubai and became close friends. When her contract expires in March 2017 I took a leap of faith and took my first overseas flight to meet her in the Philippines. Fell in love with the country and people. Was already in love with her lol. And the rest is still a love story in the works. I live for her smile and look forward to retire in 2 years. We are discussing daily the pros and cons of retirement in the Philippines. Very excited planning a future with her. 🙂

[@gordo7877]

I think the positives outweigh the negatives with filipinas.

[@arieldelaguila760]

Pea, love your channel and in particular I love how you explain cultural things in your truth bombs. True admiration comes after discovering all the truths (good, bad, and ugly) about something or somebody. Your channel is making me trully admire Filipinas.

[@pb_1954]

Excellent descriptions and explanations for each sides thoughts and actions. I can relate to everything you said and totally agree!