HOW TO SPOT A FAKE RELATIONSHIP

#HowToSpotAFakeRelationshipOnline #LDRPhilippines ‪@TheFilipinaPea‬
With so many online relationships forming (and dissolving) everyday, there's an epidemic of heartbreak, with many people asking the question "how can I tell if she's real?" While there are no surefire answers, I can definitely suggest some methods to uncover the fakes! Follow these guidelines, and you'll minimize the chances of running into a scammer that will do more than break your heart!
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[@TheFilipinaPea]

👉My videos and the effort I put into them are 100% free for everyone to enjoy, and all I ask is that you leave a thumbs-up on any videos that you like and subscribe to my channel - I have never, and will never, ask you for anything else. For those of you that still wish to support my channel further, however, I’ve posted my links below. Thanks! 👉 Support through PayPal: www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=GC9T7PMLZ3BDW&source=url 👉 Patreon: www.patreon.com/thefilipinapea

[@sailairwingnut]

You are going places Pea! Some smart media executive is going to scoop you up off this KZbin and you will be big time, mark my words! I think you have a very bright future ahead of you in not only entertainment but also serious content in something much larger than your KZbin channel even as it is growing so fast.

[@semperfi-1918]

Great one fillipina pea. I will say that my situation is on the rare side of the sending funds. Which after a year proved to be the correct thing for us. I have explained it in one of my older videos. We have an agreement tho that on her end she has to provide recipts for everything that she can. And pictures of what its used for. There are many times when she is concerned for something like a friend or family member that i let her know that she has a big heart but we must fisrt take care of our stuff first. And later once we have better finances we can help out somewhat. Should add that fillipinas are good at finding good deals as well. Long one i know but keep up the great content.

[@jasonbourne1596]

I'll be honest, I talked to about 50 Pinay on the dating site I go too before I ended up settling in the one I choose. The trick is for us to talk to a lot of them and then figure out which one is the right one. I talked to a bunch just like I said, however I didn't lie about it. I told all of them as well I'm not rich. In the end the one I'm going with was ironically one of the first ones I talked too lol. We talked a little then stopped talking for awhile, but eventually I started talking to her again and turns out she was not only one of my top pics, but she actually turned out to be the right one. I told her twice to get a rich man and she still is talking with me almost every night.

[@semperfi-1918]

@@sailairwingnut i agree. She will make a great future wife mother and excellent content provider. Can you imagine her providing information like this to her kids 😂 itll be great.

[@timothycarter6539]

I love that scene you do coming out the pool, i can't remember the movie

[@dogbyte555]

If you think about it, Pea has a really good grasp of human nature, and of reality.

[@vanceb1]

And she looks really hot in that red bikini.

[@udontneedtoknow6816]

Agreed

[@aicy5020]

Have you ever wondered why?

[@aicy5020]

haha. That is so funny. Yeh, she went to The Bleeding Heart of Sister Mary Scurge, before checking into the convent!

[@eelenavarguss]

I've seen better...many many times.

[@robjulian2955]

So true Pea. The girls I met online, sooner or later, started with the "I need milk for my baby" after you established a good online relationship. First the milk, then some load, then a new phone, then grandma's operation... It never ends. The girls I met in person in the Philippines were genuine, and never asked me for anything. IF YOU ARE ONLINE DATING... NEVER SEND HER MONEY FOR ANYTHING, AND SEE IF SHE DISAPPEARS ON YOU TO THE NEXT GUY. If she is sincere to you, she will wait until you meet, and never ask for anything... That's the girl you want, she is a valuable asset, not an ongoing liability. She has lived without your money until now, and your probably not the only one sending her money as Pea states. Wait till you get there, don't drain your bank for any girl.

[@bigtyme988]

Yep 💯💯💯

[@scottkaskey6622]

Sage advice.

[@thebigmann81]

The good ones are to embarrassed to ask even if they needed money

[@pingpongengineer2061]

May I ask if you ever Video Chat?

[@carlcutts8535]

I've helped people here and usually 20 b bucks but always they pay back the next day.

[@markthompson4055]

I just figured out I was in a fake relationship with my first wife. Almost everything you said was our life together . I gave and she took.

[@danp6101]

You forgot the most important thing to do first. When trying to meet someone online for a relationship to check if they're a scammer is to ask to do a video chat. Most scammer will not do a video chat.

[@scottkaskey6622]

Yes. The person I am talking to says her phone won't work for video chat. Takes perfect pictures though. Now she hit me up for money.

[@schmidtcyclingandoutdoors6364]

So true

[@michaelmcneal3793]

That is a very good point I do that with everyone I chat with online if they're not willing to do a video chat then you know it's a scam but then you also have to be careful too because if it's a woman doing a scam on you she would do a video chat with you as it has been done with me with a woman on video chat so you have to look at it from both sides of the situation.

[@Jake-by9ly]

Actually, They do!

[@Jake-by9ly]

@@scottkaskey6622 Those pictures aren't HER. FACEBOOK MESSENGER is FREE

[@AkweliParker]

Pea, you dropped more bombs than a B-52 in this one! Many scammers will soon find their careers to be casualties of this video, no doubt 😂

[@erniebell1858]

Sorry, but I disagree. Remember the words of George Carlin: “Think of how stupid the average person is, and realize half of them are stupider than that.”

[@anthonybroomfield5162]

Just about everything is common sense but common sense is not too common for some people

[@anthonybroomfield5162]

None sense they have a common practice among themselves

[@secretagent86]

@@erniebell1858 hahaha love that

[@ssvgroup2563]

@@erniebell1858 One of my favorite quotes from him. God I miss that man.

[@jeffcalhoon3412]

I like the ones that tell you that they love you after about 30 minutes of chatting. I heard it all before I finally found a good one that I have met in person and am returning to marry as soon as they open up again.

[@samwalker1691]

Wish I had seen this video a month ago. Could have saved me some heart aches and cash.

[@toumbryth7862]

I'm so glad I find my future filipina wife the way I did. This was 20 years ago when online dating was not quite as popular. I would write girls by mail and the ones I wrote didn't seem to be asking for money so much. Something about the process that seemed to flush these kind of girls out better. It was more fun that too. My wife is especially awesome. She never ever asked for money. We've been married 16 years and counting.

[@bethbolodo5423]

Filipina scammers really hate this😂! Peace everyone✌🏽 Goodluck to all singles like me😘😅😂

[@TheFilipinaPea]

The scammers REALLY hate me, yes! And good luck to you, Beth - you might just get a few replies from the viewers here 👍❤️😉

[@andrewtucker7437]

Beautiful profile Beth 😊

[@paulmclean2374]

@@TheFilipinaPea have you ever had any issues with scammers giving you grief Pea.xx

[@mikemcquinn6738]

And so it begins!! Beth be prepared for the avalanche of incoming requests!!! Good Luck and be safe.

[@donquixote1502]

Peace to you pretty Beth 😘😁

[@Kurt54321]

I've been talking to my girl for over a year. When we 1st met, she told me if I send her any money or anything, she will send it back and block me. She said she didn't want me thinking she's a scammer. Even a year later, she won't take my help. She's very independent. She's from the province but works as a caregiver in Paco Manila. Will meet her when covid situation is better

[@TheFilipinaPea]

She sounds like a KEEPER (or a very clever con artist). Best of luck to you! 👍❤️

[@mateor7302]

Long game

[@Hairyskinback]

She is working the long game (lol)

[@phillipharding6610]

Long Game !

[@sugarnads]

Ahhh the long con

[@billfletcher7077]

Damn Pea! I think I owe you big time. Of course I did not identify with everything but the things I did were profound. Thank you for the wake up call. I kind of knew it but needed to hear it. She did ask for anything but as you said, to me it was money I would not miss if I helped her and her kids out. She is 35 and I am not convinced that she does not have an husband floating around somewhere either. She has caused me to have doubts 3 times with her disappearing acts as well. I have also noticed a particular reaction when I mention your video's and this is not the 1st time I have found truths in them that I needed to know. You are doing a great job and I am proud to be one of your member supporters. ("if one person throw a piece of trash down on the street")...damn Pea!

[@JH-wg2lo]

Great analogies...hopefully that makes your on-point messages sink in.

[@markwalton300]

Face to face has always been the best way

[@blackmanuk2530]

Yeah but still no guarantee you could be still get betrayed or conned. I know what I am talking about. I am NOT a newbie about The Philippines and dating and having a relationship with a Filipina. I have seen the good, the baad and the ugly about them. However I still find them irressistable, they are very friendly, fun, charming and caring but can be equally cunning and mischevious however I cant go back to dating western women am hooked, am hooked Bro once you go Pina you stay Pina Bro Lol Hahaha Facts are facts. 😂😂😂😂😂

[@markplimsoll]

@@blackmanuk2530 Thought it was "pinay"

[@urwifesboyfriend1713]

@@blackmanuk2530 that's true FOR ALL GIRLS bro but yes I feel you filipinas even over here in america seem to stand out so yea I'm done with WESTERN FRMALES LOL

[@martinharvey9039]

Don't you like doggies.😀

[@lorenzovillegas2457]

The 80’s movie references are classic👏🏽

[@robertclark2923]

You’re awesome Pea thanks for all your videos .... please keep them coming... when travel is back to normal I want to visit your country and hopefully find that special someone. You take care and have a great day.

[@branfieldward4308]

Filipina Pea is so smart for her age, but I love the way she speak truth bombs! God bless you sis, please don’t stop, just help the men and women who needs your help.

[@toddf9321]

Hi Pea! You once again dispense sage advice. I started years ago, in the early 1980's, having Pinay penpals. Most were honest ladies with jobs. A few asked for money. I felt bad for the few who asked because it seemed like they were struggling. I might have sent money too if it wasn't such as hassle back in the day. However, one of my penpals, who was an OFW, told me this: "Finding a good Filipina is easy. First, make sure she has a job. Second, a good one will never ask you for money...ever. If she does, move on. Third, find out about her family. If there all have jobs and are professional, such as teachers, nurse, lawyers, etc, then your chances of a good one is much greater. Finally, a good Filipina will have a demure attitude and dress modestly...always". I think my old penpal is correct and I think it still applies today. Meeting your love interest in person is a must before moving further...her and her family. Wow, you just had a Phoebe Cates moment! You are stunning and full of humor Pea. Thanks.

[@maestrafaith6307]

Yeah . That's true. Just be wise in choosing.

[@iliepetcan1736]

@@maestrafaith6307 hi dear

[@schneider9615]

Follow your pen pal’s advice sir. You’ll be glad you did.

[@user-ig2ev2fu1e]

I wonder how.many didn't get the Phoebe Cates reference

[@jerometan4102]

Very good insights, love your analogies, easy and simple to understand, well done!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@STEVENSCOTTFERGUSON]

The ending for this was great. You come up with a lot of clever and funny ideas. I love a good sense of humor. Thanks for keeping us informed and entertained!

[@seanrichter5611]

Pea, you are so intelligent and have a sense of how to say things. I have met several Filipinas, both when I was stationed there and here. I see all of these guys with faithful Filipinas- the kind I wanted- faithful, treat each other like royalty and all about family. I know they are out there. I have dated one who just wanted money. She was here actually. After I bought her a car she stopped coming over as much. Then started wanting $200 a week. All of the sweetness and "Mahal Kita" disappeared. She eventually told me that she just said those things and was just that way (sweetness, etc) in order to keep her papers to stay in the states. I have experience both in seeing how Filipinas truly are and also the scammers. I come from a family where your word is your bond and are genuine. That is not the case with a lot of society nowadays. :)

[@craigsphilippines466]

I have lived in the Philippines for over 9 years and dated many Filipina both online and from just meeting in a mall and there are many who are honest, its just that they are not the ones looking for a boyfriend as much as the bad ones, so we come across them a lot more, you really have to live in the Philippines to find a good girl for life but once you do, like I have, they are the most amazing females in the world absolutely incredible and loyal. My hard work has paid off and I am 5 years married now and the happiest man alive.

[@schneider9615]

Learn how to test these Filipinas that you’re interested in. Test their honesty, their integrity, by letting them know your standards and expectations early on, even if said in a joking way. Tell her right off the bat that you don’t loan money out, or give seed money to start a business to a woman you barely know. And never ever show desperation at all. Act like you have options. And for Pete’s sake, go to the gym regularly. Upgrade your casual wardrobe, and always smell nice. Barber shops charge P250 ($5) for a great haircut. And don’t fall for her compliments. If she starts calling you handsome or pogi, that’s a red flag.

[@faithlifeinmoscow8204]

There are lots of scammers and there are also lots of fake men who gave false hope

[@daviedood2503]

@@faithlifeinmoscow8204 the men KNOW they're trying to be scammed so they scam the scamers 😂

[@kitsmcgee5463]

Never ignore the wise words of our Sage.. the Pea!

[@danielmatthews1522]

Great advice, very detailed and structured. Much better than someone just wandering about their thoughts they just came up with...

[@seanoneillsongs]

Yet another excellent, balanced and non-judgemental video, Pea. I love the lifeguard funny ending too. I met my Filipina online and, she is separated - has an annulment in process - so I'm patient and I believe she is genuinely the lady for me. I didn't go looking for a Filipina. She already has a good life, a nice house and more. While I send flowers occasionally, she doesn't ask anything of me and shares much of her life and extended family with me, calls me at random times - often while folding the mountain of dry laundry. We are connected on a couple of platforms - even Facebook, which she formerly used just for family and friends. I consider myself to be in a committed relationship and I'm prepared to wait until her situation changes. Thanks for all your videos - you are wise beyond your years and your insight into two very different cultures is something you teach many with. I know, lots of people say, 'But mine is different....' . I believe mine is.

[@reviewswithdouglas]

I met my Filipina on Facebook. But I have met a lot of scammers on the online dating 80% of them weren't Filipinas they were posing as American women. so there's scammers all over the place.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Scammers scammers everywhere! 😂

[@anthonybroomfield5162]

If you can’t tell American woman from a Filipino your just blind in one eye and can’t see from the other eye

[@rorybellamy2533]

Miss Pea has a Good reputation , intelligent , and informative

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks so much, Rory! 👍❤️

[@secretagent86]

if Pea were a rocket scientist we would have colonies on Mars already

[@robertgibson1029]

Pea, you & your truth bombs are always spot on, each & every time! Keep it coming girl, I like you for your real talk 💯 👍🏽

[@deraldjaystransition]

Pea, you are a pure gem 💎 A diamond in the rough (ruff) rollin world of greed versus needs. From personal experience in real life relationships and the brave new world of online experiences I would say the odds on truth versus fiction are very similar. Meeting Ms Right takes the patience of Biblical Job.

[@michaelpettit9706]

Thanks Pea for watching out for the newbies!

[@ThirstyTunaTaco]

Aww.. At least our virtual relationship is REAL :)

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I suppose that much is virtually true 😂

[@clydekimsey7503]

@@TheFilipinaPea clyde raises his hand here too!😅😉

[@patrickwentzell4638]

@@TheFilipinaPea dating where I'm at is tough many are so uncertain what is going on or what to do all the time how can we tell for sure about things?

[@chrishopf9190]

Love your work pea your very professional I've watched all of your clips

[@asjka67]

Hello Pea, nice and logical video. For me it's logicial, but for a newbee, i thing it can be helpful. Between the dream, the expectations and the reality, there are often big differences. Time teaches us that. Thank you for this nice videos. Looking forward to seeing the next one

[@johnroos2338]

I think it's wonderful how you promote and defend the virtuous and moral women of the Phillipines and expose the scammers that take advantage of the so many lonely men looking for love. This happens in all race's and all countries, but it's rare to be warned and informed so completely by a woman of her own people. You are also very wise in explaining how some women with good intentions end up becoming decievers. Love your channel, God bless

[@Flymike53]

That’s my experience too - most I’ve met online turned out to be fake to the extent I stopped using them. Well said Pea and I love the colourful analogies 😂👍

[@TheFilipinaPea]

You gave it up? Good for you, Mike! 👍

[@daviedood2503]

@@TheFilipinaPea LOL!!! 😂

[@vcg2134]

You had me going at the end. Your information is valuable, thanks,

[@BrokerBasil]

More awesomeness from the Pea. Totally on point. I did use the "don't waste our time if you plan to ask for money before meeting" introduction when dabbling in online dating a year ago. It largely achieved its aim and saved time but of course I broke my own rules 😁 In the end I met my GF online during lockdown when not exactly looking and hope to meet her in person (again) soon - we have a good story with which we will go public soon-ish ❤

[@erikgeorge3770]

🤗❤🤗 bringing a whole bunch of truth bombs .... **boom!** I'd never ignore your advice Pea 😁

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Erik! You’ll be happy you listened to this advice 👍😊

[@spurlworld]

Good morning from Connecticut. Your interviews are priceless! I would like you to do one, interviewing people who bought their dog from the states to the Philippines... thank you very much...

[@rhinoholic]

Just another great video you tell it like it 👍 it is. Keep up all the Good work

[@keithgeorge5355]

Thank you for your honest views and fact driven videos. It’s so refreshing thank you

[@bxmilessimms6216]

the force is strong with this one. salamat jedi master Pea. making sure we don't give into fear, anger, hate and online scammers. hilarious ending. may the force be with you, always.

[@BruceCinader]

Another great and informative video with a large dash of humor. Love the swimsuit ending, I remember that scene from the movie from years ago, good remake of it. I don't remember the second bikini top though. I also remember the candy bar in the pool movie, ha ha great editing and laughs.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I had to add the double top so my video would stay monetized, but maybe someday I’ll just shock everyone for fun 😂

[@bharris968]

It's like having exactly who I want to talk to sitting right here in my living room. Thanks P. Great vid

[@alial-karkhy3956]

Well done Pea. Good subject and good presentation.

[@andrewford4259]

You seem to have a great understanding of human psychology, male-female relations, emotional intelligence and you're very good at communicating it all, well done!

[@tamozen367]

Love your short skits after your videos play. ☺🤭

[@AzerPaul]

You are so intelligent, and thorough in your research and presentation. Really impressive. Thanks for all the thought that went into this.

[@donwoolley1811]

I subscribed not long ago and have been binge watching. You are very wise and HILARIOUS!

[@gregrodrigues5453]

Pea I am really amazed at how you are able to come up with such informative videos. You truly are amazing 😍😍😍♥️♥️♥️😘😘😘💋💋💋🌹🌹🌹

[@philstevens7873]

Pea , if hes impressed now wait till he see's your street deposit trick

[@tomspriggs9478]

I actually already know at least one Filipina I would love to visit in person, and I am finishing up my preparations to be ready to travel as soon as possible - I have to get my 2nd Covid vaccine next month and then the others needed to travel. The difference is we have been chatting and getting to know each other for over 4 1/2 years. And I did offer to send her a VERY small amount of money for a couple of months so I could share my books and music with her - which she promptly refused. If we could ever meet and it is as good in person as it has been all this time I will definitely want to keep her. There are good Filipinas out there. I know first hand.

[@jimtehrani3648]

You made some great points regarding online dating! A lot of guys make some really dumb moves and then want to blame others for their poor decision making. Scammers are everywhere! Most are so obvious and still people fall for their tricks! Thanks for your videos and keep making them!

[@LaughtersHouse]

I love your skits...you're such a dork. Keep going with the great content. It's been great watching your channel grow.

[@lynzsyntax2681]

Wow Pea. This was a thermonuclear truth bomb. The part about " you are going to ignore me anyway" and I am like "must resist, Pea is right, must resist ignoring...". So no money until we have met, that must be the part I don't ignore. Thank you Pea. Also, sorry about the Oh Henry bar in the pool. It was funny in my head.

[@raymoosegaming7860]

Thanks for another great video. Very informative and some solid advice to take onboard. Keep up the great work Pea 😊

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks s😊 much, Raymoose! 😊👍

[@BuzzSargent]

That ending was pure genius, Pea. When you reached around to the front of your suit I expected a quick fade but, the double top was even better. OM Goodness! Then one of my favorite golf movies. I never want to miss The End! Happy Trails

[@fordguy61mi]

Very keen observations and realistic remedies. Great video!

[@stanleybriones518]

💯🎯😉✔️ Another bullseye Pea. Thank you for your videos and all your hard work to put together relevant material (if I only knew sooner😓). Better late than never ✌🏽🇵🇭🇺🇸🥰

[@secretagent86]

same here

[@rayrunn9441]

Love your work Pea. Some of the best from the Philippines

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thank you as always for your support, Ray !! 👍❤️

[@freemanlove6741]

Another great video from the Pea! Thank you!

[@spencerificus]

The Fast Times at Ridgemont High skit was awesome Pea! You have an incredible channel and I cannot wait to watch the next one, every time.

[@Shizzle700]

From now on anyone I meet online will be required to view this video, like , and share then there will be a question and answer session 😊

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahahaha What a great idea! Seriously ...... 😂

[@johnv5156]

I know you are joking, but I LOVE it. If I was single, I would do that. "Hey! I need your advice, what do you think about this video with online dating?". hahaha

[@matthewstevens2274]

brilliant!

[@anneabano8714]

Hahaha!, Dare!

[@johnboynton7227]

Just tell the woman you are broke and that will week out 99% of them immediately, laugh

[@bobbygindenver7208]

Lol your so good Pea I love it ☺️👍

[@sonorasedentario1471]

Very well said Pea🙂😊.. thank you for Nice vedio you made Pea.

[@mattofox8650]

Great video my Beautiful Filipina Pea, thanks for the great advice, please keep it coming

[@tman5634]

The rule to live by is very simple. 'NEVER EVER give or send money to anyone you don't know/have never met. If you don't live by the simple rule, then you WILL be abused for your money & only have yourself to blame. Well said Miss Pea, lets hope they listen.

[@jamesblankenship5439]

You have a wonderful ability to keep the attention of your audience with a little humor and a touch of sexiness. I know it's a lot more work than people realize. You'll go far. Hopefully some day we will meet. In the meantime, GO GIRL!!!!!!!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks for recognizing my secret formula, James - and telling everyone about it! Hahahahaha (And yes, it’s a lot of work) 😂👍

[@kranzonguam]

Well said Pea! The analogy of poor western men was great, and I hope, will help lots of people! Stay safe and keep up the good work!!

[@martindolan8554]

Another great video!! I had no idea about the form of no marriage! Now I HAVE TO watch every video!!!

[@mikescratchingtexas5983]

You are so right with that video. I would never offer money nor do I ever offer to marry any woman online. Actually I don't even go online. Mainly because of the scams.

[@kaos1353]

Good video Pea . I must be lucky I found a good One LOL we talk on SKYP twice a day for 9 mo now she never once ask for $ I just cant wait to get there to meet her in person

[@TheFilipinaPea]

That’s a VERY good sign, Soi!! 👍❤️❤️

[@rickz9468]

Pea, your knowledge, insight, guidance and professionalism are beyond your years. Keep up the great work.

[@JohnSmith-bz9be]

Well done, Pea, some guys really do need to hear this and to try and listen to your advice. At least you tried to help. Take care out there :)

[@stevefoster5172]

I've never seen that movie before Pea, fast times at the caddyshack! LOL

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahahaha I made a hybrid 😂

[@fatherwolfs1]

Great video! I mirrored something similar in my video, but geared for the ladies. I told them to focus on their maturity level, and to recognize that the chemistry is always great in the beginning. However after 3 to 6 months, that will wane. Then he realizes that he got stuck into something he doesn't really want. And there goes the heartbreak! 😜. The honest and good ladies get scammed emotionally, as much as the men do financially! 🤔🙄🥺😜🙏🐺

[@shesacupoftea]

This too! I have this similar experience haha I have never tried online dating but in 2018 someone just appear on my fb and that was the first time I have entertained a foreigner probably because I was kinda stressed out back then with my current course I am attending and I needed something/someone out of the scope aside from sleeping late from studying. We hit it off! |And for 8 months I have been so invested in him until things changes and I started to investigate and found that he's currently dating someone new in his country. Woaah! And considering that I have never been in a relationship before, that was my first high fall ever, it destroyed my sanity that I almost failed in my major subjects LOL I even went dangerous hiking at night in the mountain just to relieve the emotional distress I have been into. I started to question my worth and my confidence just shattered into pieces. I told myself over and over again that I need to earn my title (CPA) one day as a compensation for the heartbreak I have put myself into, hopefully and never to get involved with a foreigner guy ever online! geeeez but as I have cleared my mind, I realized that half of the heartbreak, it was my lack of dating experience that put me into it, not being able to identify red flags sooner.

[@birkinlaw3830]

@@shesacupoftea how are you today miss?

[@enajfrayre3665]

That’s really sad

[@hanksweeting4117]

Very nice true to the core I love this one it.s always great to watch your.vlogs miss gwapa pea you look really well in that out fit I hope that all is well with your family at home have an awesome day until next time Sa Dios Love lots

[@svajunasmk]

Straight to the point excellence. A cold shower before diving into ANY online dating adventure. Thumbs up, shame have just 2 :))

[@mader348]

The incredible Pea strikes again. Your always right on time, dropping those bomb's! Rock on !✌️❤️🙏

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Thomas! I only drop ‘em when it’s really necessary (and it was really necessary) 😂

[@davymoose3815]

PEA YOU'RE STILL THE BEST LOVED THE SLOW -MOTION BIKINI PART !! You'rea BEAUTIFUL Lady!!

[@louisshort6225]

I have learned so much since I subscribed to your channel. I really wish I had seen the video about online dating before I created a profile. What a wealth of knowledge and clarity about things I've encountered already and didn't understand. I really feel prepared as it pertain to Filipina culture, dating etc.

[@mikesilva6858]

so well spoken, very good presentation, you covered all bases...,, patent the video,, make it a required viewing before arriving..

[@0bob0cya]

Common sense goes a long way. Nice vlog Pea.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

It really does, if people will just use it! 😂

[@erniebell1858]

Online dating is like gambling. Never gamble any of your money that you are not willing to lose. Never send a person (especially online) any money that you are not willing to lose.

[@teddymller1656]

As always, a great video. With your sharp tongue and mind (meant as a compliment) you would be a fierce lawyer.

[@billanderson8837]

You are doing a great job on this site, I love your honesty about all the good and bad with regards the dating of filipina's. I find it very educational due to my recent bad experience. Keep up the good work.

[@jeffnelson2197]

Thank you, Pea! ❤️

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Anytime, Jeff! 😊👍

[@E_Stew]

Time + Patience + Observation + Communication = Fake or Real Relationship. 😉 Pea, you masterfully articulate all the important points with every video. 💖👍🏾

[@user-ig2ev2fu1e]

I agree! She is brilliant!

[@jimmyv1961]

The Fast Times thing is hilarious, as are many of the little skits you do at the end of your videos. You give great advice and your wit is priceless.

[@wcole1385]

Thanks for the contents and truth gems F Pea! Sounds like it is better to wait until the visit to see her in person!

[@BIGMAN7917]

BEAUTIFUL GOLDEN BROWN WOMAN!!!😍😍😍

[@kenkoski7713]

“You know and I know it. Lol hilarious!

[@petergapsis5526]

great video. You know how to tell it as it is. I am sure all your subscribers really appreciate your efforts.

[@peterabild1123]

Very informative and plenty of good advice

[@clayramsey8051]

Pea I found the woman I want coz she has never asked me for any money. I’m not into the dating sites either. How ever if things were reversed I know I wouldn’t be scamming her even if I didn’t have money for foods coz I’m just not that way. I don’t depend on others. Great video again and very educational too.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Clay, and let’s hope this woman works out for you! If not, you know whose shoulder you can cry on 😂❤️

[@clayramsey8051]

@@TheFilipinaPea Yeah Pea I sure do coz I know you’ll be there for me as I’m here for you

[@clydesmith3437]

Ahhh you hit it right on the head Pea so true.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Clyde! I thought my logic was sound, yes 🤞😊

[@clydekimsey7503]

So, we have 2 Clydes here?😁

[@scamdemicpoliticalvirus1123]

As always great info! Thanks

[@albertyoung4518]

Another great video Pea! Keep up the good work!

[@gingscookingadventure1749]

Greetings from Kuwait 🇱🇷❤🇵🇭Hi pea more power to you and your family.Happy to see you again and watching your funny videos.You make my day happy today😘😘😘🥰🥰🥰me and my bf cant wait to meet you 🥰🥰he wants to meet you soon 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks so much for watching, Star!! I’d love to interview you when you come back 👍😊

[@kenmichielsen1642]

I'm so lucky I never had to do the dating site thing (domestic or abroad). I really feel sorry for the people that get scammed though. I can imagine how tough it is to get emotionally involved only to realize it's a dead end street. I think this is one of your most informative episodes yet Pea. Not so much for myself but for all the people out there looking for love. Great job again Pea! 👊😘

[@yoyojoe9240]

Great Video "Pea"....You are ""the Bomb""..!!!!

[@jessiesmith7007]

Great video, Pea. Love your site!