AVOID THE DANGERS OF DATING A MARRIED FILIPINA / The Disadvantages Of Dating A Married Woman

Avoid the dangers of dating a married Filipina and the disadvantages of dating a married woman by understanding legal separation and annulment in the Philippines. The risks of dating a married woman in the Philippines can include adultery charges for foreigners, so be careful my friends. Should you date a married woman in the Philippines? Watch this video, and decide for yourself! ‪@TheFilipinaPea‬
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[@TheFilipinaPea]

👉My videos and the effort I put into them are 100% free for everyone to enjoy, and all I ask is that you leave a thumbs-up on any videos that you like and subscribe to my channel - I have never, and will never, ask you for anything else. For those of you that still wish to support my channel further, however, I’ve posted my links below. Thanks! 👉 Support through Paypal: www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=GC9T7PMLZ3BDW&source=url 👉 Patreon: www.patreon.com/thefilipinapea

[@javieritomac]

Making waves is the best thing yet Shinning on bringing up a smile 😁 Laughing up trying to cheer The sad hearts

[@alvinwilker1126]

I like your content. Just one question. Are you married 😍

[@coda821]

Ppl who know what relationship they're getting into, and choose it knowingly, might be less likely to bail.

[@coda821]

Abandonment should be a legal argument for annulment.

[@christopherarce8773]

But I want to drive you crazy 🤪

[@johnmccafferty7139]

Pea loves her people n her country but honestly guys she's doing her best n looking out for us here in the west be grateful

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Yup, just like lawyers defend their clients, I defend you folks 😂

[@BP7BlackPearl]

@@TheFilipinaPea PEA, EDIT THAT, DONT EVER COMPARE YOURSELF TO A LAWYER. SERIOUSLY,,,,,,, SAY U R A CULTURAL ADVISOR

[@nghtwtchmn129]

The Pea is one of the most honest people on KZbin.

[@markirons2669]

@@TheFilipinaPea and a lot cheaper 🤣🤣

[@seandunn1128]

@@BP7BlackPearl Ron, what about Gracie?

[@philippineslens]

My testimony is that sometimes doing things the right way and processing an annulment turns out to be the best decision of your life! It took around 5 years and about 230k pesos but I have never been happier in my life after four years of marriage. When a Filipina is looking for a second chance in life, love devotion and loyalty are unquestionable if you are willing to take a chance sometimes. Good luck!

[@altoclef6688]

Could I dare a guess you settled in your country? I know others with the same success story. But no one where the coupled settled in the Philippines.

[@KutWrite]

@@altoclef6688: After the annulment, why is staying in the Pinas a problem?

[@dwightbarber3294]

I cannot believe you dropped a Captain "Sav-a-Wholesome"...You are so oldskool! Keep doing whatchu do.. ..Love it!!!!

[@billsmith981]

I spit my water all over the phone....

[@masterliontamer2452]

Pea is Gangsta as H*ll!I knew my Ears heard her say "Captain Save a H*esome! Pea is so Smart and Swaggerific! LOL

[@thomaslinzmeier7907]

You are so good Pea! If only everyone was as direct as you are.

[@gregorymcgeachey2103]

Good job miss you are very smart and very helpful I never been to the Philippines but I met someone and will be coming this year soon would love to meet you with her Arkansas USA 🇺🇸

[@paulpoe934]

To all the men the annulment cost between 3 to 4 thousand dollars U.S. And that is why so many are seperated. I was willing to pay for the annulment And after several years of being treated better than I could have ever dreamed of. She is happy here in the U.S. So to me it was worth every cent

[@muchasgraciastravelandtour8243]

Wow,i wish,i could meet my soulmate and give me a chance also to live and build happy fmily for the 2nd chance and not look my past,,

[@henrywallace5976]

Amen to you bro if she will move back to the states with you. If she wont run its just for money and family

[@varouja1797]

i have been talking to a married woman from the philippines for 4 years her husband got remarried with a canadian woman and has two cildren with her my friend has been separated for around 12 years and the government wont give her an annulment she spent at least $3000 us dollars and they denied it what a flock of bull. Any suggestions ? Thanks

[@FinstaDaMinsta]

@Big Tom's Fan how would you bring her here though?

[@stoneyislandranch9783]

How long did it take? And what attorney did you use?

[@glentegrity_166]

No hatin' here. Only love for you, "tellin' it like it is", Pea. Thank you for more invaluable information.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks so much - glad you enjoyed this one 👍❤️😊

[@bobm.5049]

Pea I feel so sorry for the married women who have no "partner" in life! The Philippines desperately needs to open up divorce for them.

[@muchasgraciastravelandtour8243]

Exactly sir,and im one of this situation

[@TheWallReports]

The need for more divorces or easier divorces is a sign that the West is firmly seated in the Philippines. Granted, outlawing divorces just hides and covers up the fact of all the failed marriages. But suing for easier divorce just mean the Philippines is not an Eastern culture [anymore], but in fact just another Western culture.

[@zyankaly]

@@TheWallReports you do know, that there is only one country in the world, besides the philippines, with no divorce law? That country is in Europe... It's the vatican! So I call bullshit on your eastern culture thingy.

[@stuartmcgowne2274]

Not all individuals do their homework. When you put your opinion out to the general public, be prepared for those who have selective hearing. You make it a point to try and inform and inform what life, dating, your legal rights, and living conditions are with your filipina. Keep up the good work. There are those of us who appreciate and expect the honesty you give on your pod cast. Keep it up as those nasty remarks are from those who will get caught up in what you are trying to help them avoid. Only when they learn the hard way, will they open their eyes.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Selective hearing indeed! It’s incredible sometimes, with the ridiculous comments I get 😂

[@user-ob7yc8ee7f]

I wish she was just making these up but unfortunately, she's just dropping straight facts. Kudos, Ms. Pea! A Filipina here supporting you!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Wow thanks! I can’t believe a sister backed me up 👍❤️😂

[@user-ob7yc8ee7f]

@@TheFilipinaPea You're welcome. I've been binge watching your videos nowadays. You're so witty and honest it's super refreshing! I've seen these situations far too many times and I'm happy there's a Filipina sister like you who talks about these topics without sugarcoating and no BS. Keep doing what you do! Subscribed! xx

[@animeasia7059]

Im a Filipina and I agree pea is telling the truth

[@davidplatter7671]

Hope all you unsuspecting would be travelers to the Philippines listened closely to what Pea had to say. As a foreigner, you are automatically seen as rich. Don't be surprised if the husband that hasn't been seen for five years suddenly shows up wanting you to pay him off. There is something called the "bamboo telegraph" in the Philippines. News travels fast there. Filipinos are one of the most connected cultures I have experienced. Word of a foreigner dating his estranged wife will reach the husband very quickly. The Embassy will not be able to get you out of jail if charges are pressed for adultery. You have been warned.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Well thanks, David - I couldn’t have said it better myself 😂

[@JoseGarcia-vx4bd]

Phillipines means crisis waiting to happen at any moment, why even go there let alone foolhardy idea of living there?

[@nonenone4461]

Seen as? Lol, I AM rich. And not particularly law abiding. Also, twice the size of the other man. Where did you get the idea that a foreign embassy does a damn thing. Being friends with the police, judges, mayor etc. You think these people will lift a finger because some piece of garbage strung out on Meth complains I am poking the wife he abandoned? Let me tell you how that ends. The REALITY of it. It ends with him being found dead in an ally with duct tape around his head. Just like thousands and thousands of others who make trouble. Phils is NOT the United States. It's not corrupt exactly (its not Thailand) but justice is not blind either. Sides are taken based on how important you are to specific people. In other words, the right friends keep you out of jail. Which is why if you travel there you should either 1) stay in the resort areas and never leave or 2) make it a point become tight with business leaders, those in power, police, judges and yes, local gangs. And for good measure a few Magnakulem.

[@CAM846]

do the woman go to jail also?

[@davidplatter7671]

@@JoseGarcia-vx4bd Literally millions of people live there without any problems save normal life issues that happen everywhere. I guess if you can't adapt or venture outside of your first world comfort zone then maybe you should stay home.

[@ronalddeitch3872]

Pea, you are an intelligent, professional looking, beautiful down to earth woman. I have been to the PI many, many times while in the military. I always had a good time and enjoyed the Filipino people and their culture, especially the women. I watch your videos regularly and find them enlightening, they bring back many wonderful memories of the PI. Please keep up your wonderful work.

[@JayB-JayB]

Your vids are super helpful Pea! You're honest!... this is an admirable virtue! And while millions of us admire that honesty, some people get offended by it and would rather be fed lies.

[@ronhughes4851]

Pea you are dropping some serious Truth Bombs.👏👏👏👏👏🇺🇸

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Ron! Bombs away 💣 😂

[@yoyojoe9240]

Yeah...."Sweet Pea"....We've got your back..!!

[@richardleach1706]

Be safe Ms,Pea, angry women can get crazy no matter were you're from. PEACE and Success

[@TheFilipinaPea]

They really can, can’t they? 😂

[@richardleach1706]

Be safe

[@nonenone4461]

@@TheFilipinaPea Angry and crazy are not related. That very much is the point of marrying a girl from Phils. If a woman is angry, that is easily handled with honesty, trust and respect. If a woman is crazy, she does bad things at random and the faster you get rid of her the better. If someone is on the roof of your car going at it with an axe, a pause might be necessary. Is she right to do that? Did you do something unacceptable as a man.

[@brianduvall9917]

I met a separated Filipina and did not know the cost and hassle of an annulment until I was involved. It is not as easy as a western divorce., as I assumed it would be. It is NOT worth the hassle even if the lady is good and upfront saying she needs an annulment. Bribes can be involved, psychiatric fees to justify the annulment, etc. Stick to single women!

[@ma.lernievergara9960]

Are in love

[@ma.lernievergara9960]

I like your vlog Ms. Pea but I don't agree with all that has been said and it's so unfair for some married woman who are just victims of irresponsible husbands..You're being unfair to married woman who wants to have second chances..I've seen a lot of married women who are caught up with irresponsible husband or left them for another woman.. There are a lot of married woman who've been living singly for years and rhey were not able to work out for annulment for some are working abroad and didn't get the time to go Phil's and file in court..And not all who have a relationship with foreigners will be in jail coz most likely it's the husband who are leaving their wives for another woman..Its so unfair if you're just giving the singles the right to have relationships because you don't know there are also singles who have multiple boyfriends have many mobiles and they bring the mobile where their other boyfriend have no number amd here comes married woman who are left by their husbands for another woman are faithful and true to their new relationships you will not give them the chance to be happy..Even if it involves money what is money afterall if both people

[@BillyTimes-dw7vs]

I wish alot of men thinks 🤔 like you thanks man.

[@asams8467]

Pea please don't let the haters change you and your advice/truth bombs for those of us that are doing their best to understand life in the Philippines. I have learned so much from your videos and you have made me more informed and a better position with my GF.

[@freedommgtow4996]

This is a life saver. Thank You Pea, you saved a lot of single men that want a Filipina as a wife/life partner.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

You’re very welcome, Freedom! That would mean a lot to me, if I could save just a few people from disaster 👍

[@FinstaDaMinsta]

@@TheFilipinaPea well what about someone like myself who is involved with a Filipina who’s husband took off 12 years ago and has never done anything. What do we do? How can she come here?

[@maxodixson3544]

This is hands down one of your best and most informative videos yet for Someone who chose the wrong Filipina woman that’s in a impossible relationship…to be continued. you put so so much time and energy into your videos

[@patrickfreeman8257]

Oh you long ago talked me out of dating a Filipina. But I was already pretty sure I wasn't going to date anymore anyway. But your upfront honesty is always refreshing. No one can ever say that you didn't warn them. I was 33 when I got married and still too young to have a clue what relationships are all about. In fact I'm still 100% clear. All I know for certain is that they require a lot of work. And usually aren't worth the effort.

[@ronalde.wilson7406]

Hi Pea. As usual your video was great! The current subject is excellent and the information is extremely helpful/useful!

[@brittfox775]

Thank you for your amazing videos. As someone who is seriously considering my expat options, it is a true help. I can't help but feel bad for these women, and honestly,even though they often create this mess, it has to be pretty bad for the husbands as well, since they are unlikely to ever meet a woman who will pay to marry them. Hopefully any new law can help these people while not damaging your culture and devaluing marriage.

[@larrylangdon3664]

My now wife was married when we met and it took 5 years and a big investment to get her annulment. All done now though and I could not be happier, she is the best thing to happen in my life. Sometimes things can work out if the relationship is strong. Love your channel.

[@BillyTimes-dw7vs]

Could of saved alot of money of just marrying a single woman in the first place crazy things we do in the name of Love

[@thetallestdwarf7041]

@@BillyTimes-dw7vs You can save even more money by staying single. It's not always about money.

[@glenproctor1999]

You are our oracle! I’ve always said just no to someone in a relationship. Not fair to anyone and a time bomb for troubles. Thank you lovely Pea ❤️

[@legbreaker2762]

Something I found out last year is that a Filipina can file for divorce in another country (as long as they're a resident) and usually it will be granted (here in Australia specifically), BUT it won't be recognised in the Philippines. From the other side of the coin, a foreigner can get a divorce in their home country (or anywhere except the Philippines or the Vatican) and it will be recognised in the Philippines.

[@williamjones4483]

I began my Philippines adventure in 2007 and found a very nice older, married yet separated Filipina with four positively kids. We stayed in the relationship for about seven years while I tried every conceivable method both within Philippine law and outside of Philippine law to get her free of her husband. I finally realized I was beating my head against a wall in trying to get around Philippines family code and ended up having to terminate the relationship as I knew it was going nowhere. A lot of people were heartbroken, including myself.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’m SO sorry, William! This video was made to warn people just like you. Do you ever wish you’d never met her?

[@williamjones4483]

@@TheFilipinaPea Oh, she never once tried to hide the fact that she was married. It was naive me that thought I could change things there. As I stated before, she was and is a wonderful person.

[@thomasthumim7630]

You shouldn't have been in that relationship each marriage is an office. She had her office you should seek your own. If you loved the family then toss them $100 a month ($25 per week) for important purchases

[@007NateNasty]

William was annulment out of the picture because she had been married so long?

[@williamjones4483]

@@007NateNasty No, but as Filipina Pea pointed out, it is quite expensive, can take a very long time and is not guaranteed. If the other spouse opposes the annulment then there is another monkey wrench in the works. Typically only the rich and powerful are able to secure annulments in the Philippines. Another item to mention there is government lawyer vs. private lawyer. While a government lawyer will be less expensive it will take much longer. If you can afford a private lawyer then the process is faster but still not guaranteed. If you ever get a chance I highly recommend you read The Family Code of the Philippines.

[@jeremywheeler8417]

This makes me really glad that a married but separated Filipina I was talking to disappeared on me. I don't know what happened to her but I'm glad I didn't have to deal with those complicated issues. She was a wonderful lady, but I really hate drama. Thanks for dropping some good advice for us.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

No drama! Glad you dodged the bullet 👍😊

[@Primevals33]

She disappeared because she was not really separated and she went onto the next dude or sucker depending on how u look at it 😜

[@dannelson2470]

Thanks for your advise as always Pea! Really am hooked on your informative videos.

[@edein607]

Thank you for this video. Much better to be the forewarned guy than to become a "learn from my mistakes" guy. I'm seeing a lot on this topic from some other youtubers lately (opinions have been mixed) and it helps to hear solutions. Looking forward to the next video.

[@dixiekayaker805]

Yet another insightful episode! Thank you Pea, for sharing your wisdom and knowledge. You appear even more poised and lovely than ever! All hail Queen Pea! Long live the Pea!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Dixie!!! How’s the kayaking? 👍😂

[@alansullins3024]

Your videos are the best! Most vloggers tell the story of life in the Philippines thru rainbow glasses. Thank you for being truthful.

[@letsgobrandon5334]

Thank you Pea. I always appreciate your videos and perspective you provide.

[@ricardosmith6261]

Good information Pea. Truth heals far more than it hurts. So keep it real. Blessings.

[@nickanderson55]

Thank you for warning us :) I appreciate the kindness you display honestly is simply genuine kindness

[@robloxgamersjz3247]

Your show is very enlightening!!

[@todd7756]

Pea, thanks for the info. Always appreciated. Good material and well presented as always.

[@grahamw56]

Excellent video. People need to know.

[@Ron-oe7hg]

This is some of the greatest info youve done my friend. I think the emotional and financial heartache youve saved some one is well worth the hate comments. Appreciate your always looking out.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

THANK YOU, Ron! Yup, it’s necessary info 😊👍

[@Ron-oe7hg]

@@TheFilipinaPea true that. Being a mistress husband isnt for the faint of heart hahahaha

[@billhornsberger5116]

Thank you Pea, you are truly the voice of wisdom when planning on retirement in your beautiful country. I appreciate your info, and advice on how to stay out of trouble there! I’ve started the application process for the SRRV.

[@bernieosler7552]

The best Pea,love the intro,love the content and i love the conclusion! Keep it up please!

[@GaryAa56]

It never ceases to amaze me how intelligent you. Like you always say you're about to drop some truth bombs!

[@steveholt6517]

Thanks pea even more valuable information. You really are the best.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

You’re so welcome, Steve 👍😊

[@shoreangler3383]

Ultrasounds from fake pregnancies can be examined to give a good idea if the unborn baby is pinoy or mixed. I've personally known over 12 men who've dealt with relationship scams. The Navy has good advice about the Philippines.

[@bernardlock2728]

Whoa! I never thought about that one... "fake pregnancies and ultrasounds". Everyone here is full of advice and with Ms. Pea is looking out for us at the same time.

[@marviljohnson1023]

You are a God sent woman, be encouraged and keep up the good work, thank you 👍🏾

[@matthewq7631]

I'm am glad I watched this episode to learn about avoiding pitfalls. Thank you kindly, you are a terrific lady and you don't mince words.

[@jackiepoole5422]

I may have dodged the bullet a few years ago when a Filipina told me she told her husband and he understood, as she said they were nothing more than parents to the children and he has a girlfriend. I didn't feel right about the husband accepting it all, so I bowed out. Thanks for all the hard work you put into saving our asses. Ps..... I still love you, just don't tell my Filipina wife. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Wow, Jackie, you might’ve dodged a bullet indeed (or a train) 😂

[@altoclef6688]

The husband could very well have accepted it and hoped you would pay for the annulment process - so he could marry his new gf. And the lady could have been into you, or she could have been into anyone with a wallet to provide for her children. Gut feeling is always good, at least when it isn't silenced by other body parts.

[@YTC518]

Another great informative honest take on the pitfalls of dating. married Filipinas. You can't get better advise for free🙏🙏 And BTW you are absolutely correct 👍👍 keep it up Pea and you are providing a valuable service 👍 God bless

[@mrggszeromoneydownrealesta5788]

Great Video. I'm So glad she Adresses the Red Flags in General prior to us Men coming to the Philippines

[@kevincantwell245]

Have recently started watching Pea’s insightful videos. I’ve been on and off a popular dating website where the vast majority of women are Filipina. It’s certainly been a learning experience separating the legitimate single ladies from the scammers looking for a ATM. Hoping at some point to meet the right one but certainly will continue to watch Pea’s videos before I make any sensible decision. Keep up the excellent and honest videos coming Pea!

[@quaggg]

My ex advertised she was a widow on the date site. I went to the Phills to meet her after six months of chatting. I asked her what happened to her husband, and she told he died from alcoholism. I was very naïve at that time and totally trusted her so I didn't ask any more questions. I actually went there to see her twice. Not one person in her family ever told me the truth. They All held her secret. I found about him being very much alive after he contacted me threating to kill me if I ever went back there again to be with her. They had been separated for years but that didn't matter to him. She really is a good woman, just not wise enough to be open with me from the start and that really hurt. I have a new filipina woman now. Single, and can prove it. No kids as well. Live and learn.

[@nandorblue]

She is not a good women if she repeatedly lied to you. Knowing her violent husband she is also responsible for putting you into danger. Get real and don't call a women like her really good.

[@mackcarlo]

A good woman? Repeatedly lying and putting your life and freedom in danger ? Okkkkk then, you’ve been ruined by western women then !

[@joeblow3939]

❤ Pea, only 8,000 more and you're there. I hope you have something big for 100,000 👍👍

[@donh5794]

You speak more wisdom that would have helped me in the past. I almost fell into a similar trap some years ago, not in the Philippines, but in the U.S. She acted single until I accidentally saw her with a guy she admitted to be her husband. Apparently married in the Philippines. She lied to him too. Good thing it was not too late to get away.

[@GettinReal]

This is one of the most important videos, ever. You should bring up annulment asap in chat. I also ask if they can prove it. Good liar filter. If they block you, you are lucky. Watched this video three times now. Helped me find wonderful and sincere Filipinas. Thank you Little Pea and God be with you!

[@davidestela2328]

Hi pea I am currently involved with a married Filipina so I know exactly what it is that you are saying but she has been honest all the way she also has children and I know of them as well I set her free from an abusive relationship and I have been in the process of an annulment for the last 3 years hopefully this year it will finish we plan to get married if I can ever get back to the Philippines considering this pandemic as the Philippines still closed hoping for the best I just want to say thank you p for all your advice that you give all of your subscribers and the honesty which you bring to the table up front don't let anyone discourage you you were doing the right thing continue doing what you're doing as for me I will continue with my quest to be with the woman that I love someday hopefully have a great day

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Wow, David, thanks so much! I knew that a lot of my audience had dated or married women who needed annulments, and I certainly admire you guys who found honest women, and made their dreams come true. I was worried that some of you folks might misinterpret what I was trying to say, so I’m so relieved that you understood 👍😊 Kudos to you, and best wishes to you both ❤️

[@MichaelWilson-hp2xg]

DUDE.....????? REALLY!... Let me ask you something. " have you ever heard the question What do you get when you put lipstick on a pig? A PIG WITH LIPSTICK... WALK AWAY FROM THIS ONE BRO.....if you don't believe what I say in the comment section i posted to affect

[@philippineslens]

Some married Filipina desperately want a second chance. They were used and abused and left behind often with children many times through no fault of their own. If you find the right one you can be their knight in shining armor who rescues them and they will never forget that. I personally think that there is a much greater risk to your happiness if you date a young single Filipina who doesn’t yet know what she wants in life. After she is attached to you (and your money), she may seek happiness elsewhere.

[@stevenpentz5188]

I heard that the jail time was 8 to 12 years, when the ex finds out,, He will find out by the way

[@spezis]

@@philippineslens I fully agree.

[@CArchivist]

Let’s not hold one’s breath the Philippines legislators will do the right thing here. I was flying to Cebu in 2011 and the big news story on the Philippine newspaper provided for us to read on the Manila to Lapu Lapu was that Malta make divorce legal leaving the Philippines the only nation outside of Vatican City where divorce was still not legal. And all the talk was the need to pass a similar law in the Philippines. In the ten years since? A big fat nothing has happened. And anyone hoping for it to happen consider these two sad facts. Divorce being illegal isn’t just a law to be changed, but an amendment to the Philippine Constitution where the law is enshrined. One thinks passing an amendment in the U.S. was hard, try getting the Philippine legislature to do it. Secondly the Catholic Church in the Philippines has fought this tooth and nail. They have even ignored Pope Francis’ call for an easement of the rules for annulments. As long as politicians in the Philippines legislature suck up to the Church for votes, they won’t give women in broken and abusive marriages the freedom they need.

[@kytziaf]

While I do feel empathy for people in abusive relationships ( very much including men being the abused). Divorce is not the answer. It ruined the west an will ruin any country that allows it, especially when the cancer of feminism takes root. I could go on but shall I refrain.

[@SN1P3R808]

Wow thanks for the heads up!

[@TheSeeking2know]

This is a great channel. Very informative. Hope you get lots of channel growth.

[@WiscoFisherman93]

There are tons of younger hotter Filipinas that aren't married. Just go for them and save yourself the money and headache.

[@theuergGermain]

But many that are married don't tell you they are married until you get them pregnant or even marry them.

[@ssj3vegett0]

@@theuergGermain why its a good reason to get this Certificate

[@shepardabraham2574]

​@@theuergGermain OK easy solution, talk to their family. Up until age 23 they need permission from the mother and father to get married. So they should know the truth. OR you get a CENOMAR from the government to verify their status. If you don't know how, you can get any lawyer to get a Cenomar for you. Lawyers here also act like private investigators.

[@flickinggamer]

I wish I had listened to the "if she lies about the little things, what else is she lying about" line before I married my ex-wife (western). So many lies were uncovered during the divorce proceedings. It was amazing.

[@shandong699]

Thank you for another video that answers most questions that serious suitors need answers to!

[@malikvon4582]

Keep up your dropping of knowledge and awesome delivery!

[@leadlearner6391]

you're just telling it like it is Pea, and we appreciate that. let others misinterpret and misunderstand your words!

[@markm4623]

Is she telling it like it is or just generalizing people?

[@Releasethekrakken]

Even though I have no desire to get married, and I stick to dating the women I’ve known for almost 20 years, I still admire your well thought out advice for those who are looking for a wife in the Philippines.

[@nonenone4461]

So, in other words, women keep you as an emergency fall back, even 20 years later. Might I suggest you can do better. Have a woman who is dedicated to you, not the scumbag ex who impregnated her, then beat her.

[@Omar_Facio]

so you are interested in dating but not in marriage? sounds like a recipe for dying cold and alone.

[@soundslight7754]

Very good point, well done on your foresight

[@rogandbingofbingalahtravel3680]

Great, essential information, Pea! This is one of your most important videos! Salamat!

[@TWills-oe7hn]

I feel sorry for women who have been left married but without a life partner and perhaps a kid or two. The life struggles there must then be overwhelming.

[@whynot2734]

Fair and balanced as all ways. Thank you for keeping us bit more level headed and looking out for us I hope your man knows what he has because we do.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

He probably has no clue …… 😂

[@kellymoyes2517]

Another great video.... Thanks Pea for keeping telling it like it is.

[@sdavis-59]

Very touchy subject Pea! I have been through this whole scenario, thought I was doing the right thing. I dealt with the attorney myself, but it still took over 6K USD and 3 years! It's a long story...

[@bananaram7611]

I highly recommend an unmarried virgin. Less baggage and more devotion. There's plenty of all ages too.

[@49525Bob]

There may be a few. I've never met one.

[@bobbruce4135]

The brochure seems nice but that's not how nature works. How likely is a hot young lady to fall passionately in love with a middle aged foreign man? Nature is that which selects. No female anywhere in the world will have the hots (a necessity for romantic love - see Sternberg's triangle) for a low SMV male. Numerous studies have proven this. She is only pretending to love (a scam) so she can get something. Typically, it's to save her family from poverty. Peace.

[@chuckraynal5575]

@@bobbruce4135 Yes in some cases but if your old man enjoy them young girls while you can. Life is not perfect My experience as an old man, if you treat them well Pop that Viagra and almost 2 hours of hot sex They are always coming back for more The same age group dating does not guaranteed happiness for young people, they have problems too The media is trying to destroy old and young relationship but promote gay marriage They give us their youth and old man give them opportunity It's mother nature

[@kashsingh5268]

Great content with good information keep up the good work 🍺🍺🍺🏖🇬🇧

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks so much, Kash 👍😊❤️

[@billgale2264]

You are quite the public speaker. Well done!

[@americanmuscle72]

Excellent Video! Thanks for the insight.

[@davidwicklin9943]

I’ve long ago red-pilled myself to avoid anyone in a relationship, let alone anyone married who perhaps flirts with me to “start going down that road”. It’s better not to get sucked into an emotional relationship to begin with. Not only Filipinas but with ANY women in which obvious detriments and end game destructiveness override any “benefits”. As you said Pea, using our “big head” rather than pandering to the groin head has a far better outcome. No need for my life to be destroyed, nor do I desire to enmesh myself to unwittingly bring harm to someone else. Glad that I’m single and not “dating” around at 49. Good riddance!

[@DHud0726]

Lol! Great skit at the end! I met my Filipina online in Feb. 2020 just before the pandemic happened and we have been talking pretty much every day since that day. I was hoping to visit and meet in person at some point this year by now, but this craziness with the lockdowns is putting us much further behind with finally meeting in person instead of voice, video, and texts. I am in no rush what so ever to be sure things are right with us and she has fully understood it all as well and with me not being able to travel as of yet too. From the things that she always shares from pictures and videos from her days and what she has ensured me of not being married before and everything else, she is definitely the more rare type and committed. Believe me, I had already asked some of those questions and been so upfront with her from the beginning to be so sure myself and we are on the same page. She does have a young daughter as most in their early 30s probably do have at least one kid. She had her when she was 20 and her boyfriend at that time was one of those who ran off and she has never seen him again and her daughter knows nothing of him or has had that father figure in her life yet. So so sad! I love my future beautiful little family. I am 37, also unmarried with no baggage and she is 32.

[@BV9429]

Kind of sounds like my situation exactly...but I'm 27 and she's 24

[@o.fortuna657]

One of the most informative and useful videos yet. Awesome job Pea. Love the dress 👗

[@robinborkowski5598]

Like usual Pea well done , good content and multiple points of view.

[@AnnLaustsen87]

Hi Pea, I'm a woman from Washington state in the US. What you had to say is actually shocking. If I were a man, I would steer clear of these situations until that divorce law get passed. I have a professional degree and assets, so I'm afraid to get married in the US because the guy could take half. I don't want children, so not being officially married is no problem.

[@amateurgamer8456]

Life starts to get really lonely at 45..

[@drbatpi]

Don't let those bloody haters change your advice and telling the truth as it is. For those haters never listen to your entire message in the first place, because if they did they would know that you are not attacking all Filipinos. Also, it appears that only the haters get angry at the truth and nobody else. Only hurts a person when it applies to them.

[@cdaxfiles6435]

Thank you Pea. Great advice. Nice bling and outfits too. Look forward to seeing your next video :)

[@rutgersmarine2065]

Thanks for another outstanding video Ms Pea.

[@randydreese348]

The crime of passion defense sounds like the best option to me. Saves a lot of legal issues about Divorce, how long after catching them can you take action?

[@Dirty__Dan]

Exactly, just setup your lady’s deadbeat husband and have her go in and end it. Problem solved.

[@economywatch]

Your always a class act PEA. You are as real as they come, respect and congratulations on hitting 90k plus. Been subscribed since 12k. Loved seeing the video with your family Mom and Dad, your awesome.

[@bryanarmstrong545]

Love the way you deliver your videos. I am a real fan of your humor and appreciate how you get the information in there! I hope I heard that right that you are getting the girls together to tackle another topic! Looking forward to it, tell Frichy hi for me ;). Love you Pea!

[@jimparton1]

awesome finally! sooo funny! keep them coming

[@PassportBrosBusinessClass]

I would say that the most important thing for a foreign man visiting a Filipina girlfriend is for him to make sure that he knows as much about her as possible. There are some Filipinas who will hide their children in their province with their parents while they visit the foreign man in the city. A foreign man may not know that she has a family secretly and if he starts a relationship with her then he opens himself up to the possibility of problems and issues with her secret boyfriend/husband.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Ohhhhh yesssss ……

[@leonpaul9443]

If she says "lets meet in manila and spend our whole time together in a hotel" run for the hills. My filipina fiance said from the start that we would be staying at her family home in the province and meeting her dad to ask for his approval. As soon as she said and did that i knew she was genuine.

[@paulmazzone8758]

It's not worth it, there are so many single girls with no children in the Philippines. That want to get married, so don't take a chance on getting blackmail , riped off and ending up in jail.

[@LatinSoul007]

Hello Pea!! I wanna give you a Big Shoutout and Thanks for sharing and taking head on the tough subjects in dating Filipinas. I find you and your content to be unbias and totally helpful for many men who are involved and or are looking to visit the Philippines. I've been watching you for under a year, your channel and a couple of others that I view for information have been very helpful. For every negative or harsh comment you get, know that you've 10 others that appreciate you and what you do. Stay classy and beautiful.

[@vincentpatton26]

I’ve been Philippine five times and plan to going back on February. Watched your vlog, showed it to my friends so I’m huge fan of yours. I would love to meet you in person and all of your knowledge is what I need the most ! Good work ! Keep it up

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Well thanks Vincent 👍😊

[@homebasebelgium359]

You are head on again, Pea! I have a Belgian friend, quite a bit older than me, who went through the process op getting an annulment for the Filipina he wanted to marry. Not only did the law case cost a lot of money, he also had to pay off the pinoy husband. As soon as her marriage was annulled, he threw a big wedding party which I attended with my ex. In the years that followed, this highly salaried Belgian spoiled his wife rotten. Everything she wanted, he gave her, including a whole collection of LV bags. He was 30 years her senior and when he started ageing (and maybe some of his body parts too - who will tell?) she found herself a German who is still a lot richer, but also much younger. Conclusion: It's OK to start a relationship with a Filipina, but do it with both eyes open (and even then, nothing is sure)!

[@grantblakely906]

Yer my ex played up on me with a guy 10 years her jnr

[@Kenny-bj2zq]

Yeah, it doesn't matter if your a lot older and your bringing them into your country she will probably leave you for a younger man

[@nellatl]

@@Kenny-bj2zq women will always be women. Hypergamy trumps everything. But come on, what do you expect dating a woman 30 years younger..

[@xox0xx]

A married woman can be a widow easily. life is cheap there.

[@waynewes9466]

Your videos are the best, thank you for being honest and doing it in an entertaining way!

[@johncutrupi9864]

Great vid and great advice as always Pea. Anyone who reacts badly to this video has a few secrets they themselves are trying to hide perhaps. Keep it up Pea. As long as you continue to piss some people off, you can be assured you are right on target 💖💖

[@joekr9424]

Divorces cost WAY more than 10k. If the Philippines legalizes divorce they will realize this. Annulment sounds way better than divorce.

[@lennygemar1021]

Are you basing this on US prices? It likely could be far less because lawyer fees are much less expensive here, and most Filipinos have far less in assets than what we typically fight over in the US.

[@terrylorrah6725]

Hi Pea, love that dress. 👗

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks, and you’re first, Terry! 👍😊

[@mrjohnklake]

@Terry Lorrah head of the table for you! Drinks are on ur tab! 😆

[@Dragon_rls]

Great video Pea. Thanks for your efforts.

[@JoelThePrince]

Good Job, the thrust will set you free 🙏🏾🙌🏾👍🏾

[@119jle]

Hmmm Well I chatted well over 1600 pinays online in a year and decided the best was a single mom with a 7yr old daughter. So you know she has to be something special on the inside and outside to win me over, with so many choices. No one should give up on the single moms, could be your soulmate for life.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

1600? I know I was number 1281, and I wondered what happened when you just stopped texting. Now I know …… 💔 😂

[@thomasthumim7630]

1601 pinays per year rounded up to 4 different pinays a day for 365 days. You are the least racist person i have met.

[@mateaukalua4426]

Wow dude you have a hard-core fetish but happy for you.

[@119jle]

I was bored and went online dating sites and these are the ones that contacted me sometimes I talk to 10 to 15 a day but only a few month by month lasted

[@dmsdad6866]

"Twice as fast as it was gonna take!" LOL

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahahaha

[@buellrichardson5222]

I like how the pinned comment proves what you said at the beginning of the video. You try to give good advice to help people and then have haters comment. I'm glad you are able to deal with them in a constructive manner

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I like to shame them in the public square, yes Hahahahaha 😂

[@buellrichardson5222]

@@TheFilipinaPea I know and I like when you do 😁😁😁

[@rickycapps2073]

You are spot on!! Dont stop!!