How To Talk To Your Crush If You Never See Them Around

[@angelinabellarocchio]

I have a crush I only see in the hallways we always smile at eachother & make eye contact but we are both farley shy but I'm going to try & say hey & smile idk haha.

[@annaskywalker2585]

Angelina Bella how did it go?

[@chunglebung8988]

Be bold

[@chichioko1446]

I have the same problem

[@snowconeception6538]

Me too- we both like each other but are too shy- good luck👍

[@christofu3111]

Same here, I’ve tried to approach mine to ask her out and I just couldn’t, I hope tomorrow I can

[@Fairygelic]

i hate my classes simply because he's not in any of them😒

[@peachystark]

Jamera I agree except he's in 8th grade and I'm in 7th grade

[@achameleo6097]

Jamera same except I'm a dude and she's not a dude

[@RetroSonicfan]

Agreed even though it hasn't happened yet and it's summer school because I'll be in sixth grade and show be in eighth grade

[@emmagaylesmith4795]

Lizeth's life my Cush is in 8 th and I’m in 7th. Last year, we had one class together, but we don’t this year. I like him but idk if he likes me

[@TDK316]

My gameplan: Have a conversation before leaving class... Tap her on the shoulder on the way out of class and say "Hey, do you mind if I get your number?" And if she asks why say "Maybe we can hang out sometime!" Then if she agrees, have her put her number in your contacts. Then say "Awesome thanks, hey ill see you later okay?"

[@TDK316]

boom

[@joshwalshoakesy583]

+Trey Green Did it work?

[@TDK316]

+JWO 789 im doing it today, lil nrrrrvous

[@nikomurtomaki3504]

+Trey Green GL bro. IK its hard.

[@joshwalshoakesy583]

+Trey Green Sounds like a good plan, i could never do something like that i would pussy out at the final minute. Good luck👍

[@Xxmellyzxx]

Liked this guy senior year of high school. Even tho i had him on instagram, we never talked cuz it wuldve been random. For 2 years,Didnt talk to him until we matched on tinder LOL

[@user-qs2uf1hs3o]

Josh you read my mind everything I need help with you make a video on it thanks.

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

+Jason Williams haha so what is your next step?

[@user-qs2uf1hs3o]

+The Josh Speaks getting her friends to mention me to her.

[@KESABIANSLUMPEDUP]

+The Josh Speaks Hey dude ! I said to my crush:Hey, don't I go to school with you or something ?...and she hasn't awnsered for 6 days...WHAT DO I DO ???

[@chronicfever6250]

+Sikia she probably doesn't know u and ignored u idk I idk girls

[@user-qs2uf1hs3o]

+Sikia you should find someone else because if they did that they are not in to you.

[@ceviche4life951]

damn, this guy knows us so well, and at the same time, HE DOESN'T!!! *mind blown*

[@ethanworkman8828]

I've only got one class to talk to this girl in and I don't know what we have in common

[@educatedgamers7237]

talk about homework or something. Make shit tonnes of small talk and hopefully it will lead to longer convo's, and eventually you'll be in. Dunno whether it'll work cuz im shit at doing anything like this with girls, but good luck my g

[@chikakumask4693]

Ethan Workman if u don't know her than what reason do u have to like her? -_- kids these days

[@staticshotaop561]

Kaijurin pussy

[@chunglebung8988]

Just be funny

[@chunglebung8988]

And sweet

[@bosschanceforoncelarpon5051]

I always see my crush in the morning. I haven't talked to her yet but I plan on soon. Your videos really help me stay confident.

[@nemer8303]

Update brothern

[@BlazeNet]

Josh I don't know how you can pull 4,078 views with only 2 dislikes... You're a legend Josh :p

[@sadcottonballdog]

my crush said that he barely even knows me lmao, we only had one class together. i'm sad.

[@Dwash6124]

Thank you so much Josh, how do I make myself charismatic enough to not be shy and talk to people in general!!

[@johnsavage3994]

Josh looks super baked

[@jaydenmelendez4215]

this helps a lot Josh I see my crush in one class only thank you

[@graciebelin5908]

hey josh, could you make a video on how to get confident too speak to them and what too say to them?

[@lethallion4672]

Thank you Josh you completely read my mind.

[@neonnwave1]

Good video as always. I've mentioned numerous times about the girl I've had a crush on for quite sometime now, and this can be added to the count. She and I both have busy lives (her with school, work, lessons and friends; me with work, hobbies and getting my act together), but we're in contact with each other via text and FB. There have been quite a number of times I message her to see if she's got free time the same time as I do, but it tends to not go how I hoped. However, there have been a couple times I messaged her for random things, like asking how her trips were, or helping me with a decision I couldn't make, or info on something. She doesn't seem to mind, and even came to visit me at work during a convention and told me to text her if I ever get some free time and hang out. We did, although it was brief since I was exhausted from working 3 days straight with 12 hour shifts (with no food or even bathroom breaks due to the nature of the con) and had to work the next day too for even longer. According to my sister, I'm on the right track by keeping it not so frequent and being interesting. Even though the girl isn't the one making the first contact, me showing interest is a good thing and she always responds (even if it isn't always right away). Even my co-workers, who saw her when she stopped by my store's booth at the con, said she seemed like she was into me (although I couldn't tell since I have a hard time reading people). I hope this was interesting and may help others. If anyone (including you Josh) has any tips, feel free to share.

[@SquidCena]

How did you get her number?

[@neonnwave1]

@@SquidCena I asked her in person. Duh :P

[@reachova2times162]

Thank you Josh I was waiting for this video because I really like this girl and I have no classes with her

[@knight2712]

yes I've been waiting for this one

[@bisexualrandomness4731]

Josh always got the good advice

[@dabossd4744]

Dude you help soooooo much thank you!😃

[@yasminedarrehmane2844]

Im a 7th grader and my crush is an 8th grader and we have no classes together and his going to highschool next year!😢😭😭😭

[@TheJoekingGamer]

This video came at the perfect time. Thank you

[@U.F.0z]

Josh I'm new at school and I'm having some trouble with making friends and starting a good conversation

[@xddDracian]

wait what? IS MY PRAYER FINALLY ANSWERED (cause i think i commented this in one of his videos)

[@laurenslater9923]

Hi, I've never actually talked to my crush and we're both quite shy, so how do I start a Conversation with him face to face or by text?

[@user-zl8bu3pk6p]

From a guy who is shy, texting allows for better connection. This makes talking a lot easier

[@davincompton1439]

I need help, I'm homeschooled and I like this girl and the only time I see her is on game days (we both play basketball at the school)

[@hp2546]

You being homeschooled won't effect your relationship. Think about this. There is no rules stating that you have to be a student at that school to play basketball. That school already let you use their facility. That girl you saw also had no requirement to be a student to use a gym. Even if she is a student or not, you both can still meet during that basketball game. So far, you are not restricted to see her at school. There are no rules saying you have to be classmates going to school for academics. You only study at home but you use the school facility for basketball which means you are not homeschooled in sports.

[@jerry7743]

Mmmmm weird this vid came out on my birthday

[@pepsiaddictgaming]

Hey Josh! I actually unsubbed a couple months ago so I can binge all your videos when I've run out of things to watch and I've missed your videos so much. I'm only 4 seconds on but it's so great to hear you talk again :)

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

+CEC HANGOUTS haha thats an interesting way to do things but im glad you're back watching :)

[@umarkhalid1088]

The Josh Speaks.. hey I want to ask you something??

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

sure thing, you can shoot me a message over on: www.thejoshspeaks.com/ask

[@umarkhalid1088]

I already sent you an email

[@alfonsoreyes3893]

Hey josh ok me and my crush don't talk a lot but to weeks a ago we saw each other we talked for a little bit what do I text her if I found her on Facebook but don't know is me who friend request her

[@parkermiddleton1028]

thanks Josh I've been wondering about that the good thing is I'm in chior with her and friends with some of hers right now its just smiling and eye contact hopefully I can move forward

[@abdullahbashir9778]

Say something nice about her like about choir

[@theorangeberry3372]

I NEEDED this 😂

[@JonChenTS13]

Damn you've read my mind. Thanks

[@thejebdude3241]

Hey, this was my question and you made a video about it! Thanks dude!

[@omararif8890]

I asked my friend to ask my crush if she wants to have lunch with me, she will but I need to talk to her more.

[@yysfgsbsbx]

How the hell do I even pass ways with him he's one grade older than me and I don't talk to him anymore

[@marioelburro1492]

I have same situation I'm a grade higher any help? I'm going to high school in a few months and she wont

[@brandoncruz7047]

Josh can you make a video that can help me boost my confidence because every time I'm thinking about talking to my crush I'm all hype and ready but when I see them I shutdown and end up not doing anything and this has been for 4 months, please help 😩

[@shiyangvevo7539]

Thank you so much Josh! I really needed this. #JoshTheSavior

[@ceviche4life951]

so, my crush, after taking tests and seeing different videos, have led me to believe that they MIGHT like me. but we don't have classes together anymore and we never really talked in the 6th grade, and because of that, i can't really go up to them and be like "hey what's up?" or "how's it going?". i mean i never really had a reason for talking to them, especially now, because if i was close friends with her, it wouldn't be awkward to say hi and talk to her

[@Frank-st7ku]

I have a crush but I only have one class with them. I can't figure out her social media or anything. I'm kind of too scared to ask though...

[@morgancarter5788]

Did u ever ask them out?

[@hp2546]

Can't expect everybody to have social media. Just because you have a crush that person does not mean you can expect them to have youtube, facebook, linkedin or google image. Even crushes can be non-existent in social media. Just because we live in a social media world does not mean you depend on social media. If you want to see her, you do it the old fashioned way. If she have social media, then great. If not. Don't depend on it.

[@nightprowler6336]

Wow, u have a Cyclops Blue Team action figure.

[@nicholasfreund8362]

How do I explain to an old crush that I no longer like her? At the time it was a really big deal when my friend yelled out that I liked her, but now that it hasn't been mentioned for six months, I feel like it would be awkward if I just said hey, I don't like you anymore, because she didn't like me. I changed a lot over the summer, but that might make it even more awkward. I want it to just be normalized again, because she is in a lot of my classes and our friend groups sit nearby at lunch.

[@elizabeth7879]

i want to talk to him so badddddd :(

[@gummirwl]

I hardly see him, but every now and then I pass him in the hall, sometimes he's with others so it can be awkward. He's friends with a filipino girl I'm friends with, and the exchange student I live with, and I think he knows most of the exchange students who I know... so I know people who know him. The exchange student I live with knows me, and she's trying to get us together a little more lmao. He follows me on socials. We've interacted at the school dance. I tried to have lunch with him, but the table is full of international students. :( It's hard to sit by him.

[@unitedunity174]

Because it's almost winter break, I'm thinking of asking for her number on the last day so that we can have time to hang out.

[@brethrenofthesquarepantsso7700]

Josh I got a question for you. So this girl that I've had a crush on for a while sits right next to me in my English class. Sounds pretty simple, just do what you said and start up a conversation. BUT there's this whole weird thing going on with her and another guy (who also happens to be in the same class). I have no idea if they're dating or not. Any suggestions?

[@seemajoshi9548]

Hey josh! I know my crush likes me but he is shy.He does not have guts to say directly to me. Should I go and talk to him or just wait.?

[@shafeemahmood3734]

She is in 1 of my classes and sits at the table a few feet across so I can’t really talk so I only say hi on the way in and bye sometimes. It appears as though she went off social media for a bit as she is busy with school so in person is really the only way to talk

[@ow96751]

No offense josh but could you maybe make a vid on how to talk to your crush if you see them all the time and feel awkward because you always look at them when they look back at you?! Sorry if it is complicated!!! Keep up with the AMAZING work!!!!!!! 😉

[@buttercupthetortoise7806]

my crush is my cousins best friend and I almost never see her. Theres a slight chance I might see her tomorrow so fingers crossed

[@maxinemireles92]

Im in 8th grade and my gf is in 7th grade and we sometimes get to see each other. and sometimes we dont what should i do ?

[@loganspivey9784]

Thank you for addressing my problem

[@CalebCraft10]

I can't believe I'm so much of a wreck that I'm searching for dating advice on KZbin. See if you can help me with this crappy situation: In the 7th grade, I had a crush on a girl who I thought CLEARLY liked me, considering she would often smile at me or point out that I'm blushing. However, after the class I had with her, I didn't see her for a long time, so I developed a crush on a girl in the 8th grade who seemed to like a lot of the things I did, and would probably help make me a better person if I stayed around her. However, she was INCREDIBLY smart, leading to me often trying to subtly impress her in Advanced LA, only to embarrass myself by not being able to properly speak my mind, or generally being misinformed. Heck, she would often correct my mistakes and point out flaws in my logic, which always felt AWFUL. However, she did often sit near me (although I was never able to muster up the courage to talk to her), and when I left a Jolly Rancher on her desk the last day of school (freaking pathetic), she did smile at me, so I have absolutely no idea if she actually liked me. Then, this year, the girl from 7th grade is in one of my classes while the girl from 8th grade is in none of them, so I decided "hey, I'll give her (the 7th grade girl) my email." I barely managed to give it to her out of pure panic, but she accepted it, and I thought she liked me again. We talked for a bit, but over a four day weekend, she stopped talking to me. I left quite a few messages, including one that said I had planned on asking her out on a date that weekend, which was probably a mistake, because on Wednesday, she messaged me back saying that she was already dating and wasn't into guys. However, she said she would help me get a date, and is supposedly currently trying to figure out who she should pair me with. However, yet again, she stopped messaging me over this weekend, which I feel is my fault because I had learned that she KNEW I liked her, and I accused her of leading me on, which means she's probably mad at me. At the same time, I want to try my chances with the girl I liked in the 8th grade again, but she has a lot of similar qualities to the girl I liked in 7th grade, meaning she probably isn't into guys too (that and she has a lot of guy friends), and if she isn't mad at me, I don't want to ask the girl I liked in 7th grade to try and talk to the girl I liked in 8th grade because I want to try and approach her myself to ask her out, which I obviously can't because, well, she isn't in any of my classes or anything. What the heck am I supposed to do!?

[@loganfisher8263]

Josh, there was a girl on my baseball team, and her mom and my mom are best friends and I'm too shy to tell her. And I watched many of your videos and picked up some tips to ask her out, but she doesn't like to date (kinda like a tomboy). Any advice?

[@jasontruong9752]

I need help How do i ask her from prom even tho i barely talk to her

[@midnight.blue42]

Getting to know his friends is a good idea but the problem is that I'm not good at making friends I don't even know how to star a converstation so it's time to find a new crush huh?

[@chagoelfeo5388]

You smart as hell monica

[@euroclips4101]

dude read my mind perfect timing

[@saucegod6944]

For me I kinda bumped into her before class and then I just said OH sorry

[@MrAmoss]

My crush was in my school before. She left almost one year ago and her best friend is still in my school. I talk to her on snapchat pretty often. Do I have a change?

[@cobrachaos6282]

What if she has no social media. Thanks. I think I'll use the simple "hi" with a smile and become friends with her friends although I'd prefer dm's or sc's

[@landonedmondson4156]

How do I ask my crush out to date

[@grytt1974]

this was actully what i just needed, Thanks

[@grytt1974]

in my opinion this is pretty creepy...

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

+Hero Playz i see all, i know all 😀

[@grytt1974]

🤐😯😯☺🤔🍔🍕🍟🐖

[@_dhfilms]

I needed this omg

[@yourirrelevant3316]

Can u make a video on how to get your crush to like you if they go to a different school pls?

[@spenceruwakwe4395]

thanks joshspeaks this is exactly what i asked

[@liamarmstrong2527]

I'm a 150 lbs 13 year old who spends 20+ hours a week playing video games, is socially awkward, and is polar opposite of the guys girls like, and likes heavy metal, how do I get a girlfriend??

[@banditmain874]

Liam Armstrong I'm like 120 I'm 12 I spend like 6 hours a day, more on weekends on electronics but I work out so I should get better soon I hope :/

[@MerryThiccmas]

You wait until you're older

[@chikakumask4693]

what if you know ur crush already?

[@kaylaaa8222]

what if your shy

[@Lol-zu7pq]

Kayla just talk to them anyway. I thought I could never but then I heard a false rumor the were moving away and went up and talked and it actually turns out they weren’t moving away and we are good friends

[@atreussonofhippodamia9182]

He gave me one good sentence for her he told me to say "hey since we have free time do you wanna play badminton cause i last saw you and you were good and i wanna see if your up for the challenge?" idk help.

[@manuelignaciocaceres2369]

I needed this today

[@punk86]

My crush is my neighbor. She works the same time I work in the morning (different jobs). When she is at home, it's a lottery if I run into her. She's hardly at home due to job, and I don't know where she goes after coming home. I don't know if I'm falling out of interest.

[@hp2546]

That is exactly how I experienced this from 2020 to 2022. As soon as everybody was forced to stay home in quarantine, I developed feelings towards my next door neighbor. Watching her taking her package is what attracted me. I mean I stayed home to play video games and she stayed home to order many things from Amazon and did many online order including her restaurant foods and groceries. If I see her at home opening up a door to pick up her package, that is a lottery for me. As soon as lockdown have been lifted, she was hardly at home. On June 2022, she moved out of that apartment. So you might not know where she is because your mind is attach to her so your mind is focusing her attention on where she is at. I know. I have been there. So I would say to you, just cherish this moment to fantasize while she still have a home. At least she did not move out.

[@ghostjamaine190]

Well one of her friends are my sister so umm should I tell my sister to say good things about me so she likes me

[@dannyboy410]

Josh! Help. So there's this girl. We don't really know each other it's our first year of high school and we came from different middle schools. She's in my geometry class. I'm going to have small talk with her tomorrow. On Friday we have a football tailgate party. Should I pop up in her dms and ask her if she has her homework for geometry. Then I will somehow ask if she's going to the party. But if she goes and we see each other, what do I even say to her. How do I actually have a conversation

[@hadyncurran2947]

hey Josh can you please make a video, or if you had advice on how to talk to your ex in school, like if your working with them or something thanks

[@youtubegirl7722]

I've never said hi to my crush... we've only said excuse me and sorry and stuff.. he is not in any of my classes.. he is shy, very much like me. He sits by himself during lunch and I sometimes do to. Our lockers are right next to each other.. and he sometimes waits a while for his car like me.. but we've never really talked.. so I guess it's just me being so shy... any advise?

[@ayyebruuh6272]

KZbin Girl77 talk to him during lunch

[@youtubegirl7722]

A random Hentai God but I'm like super shy... just waiting for him to come to me maybe....

[@edwinjrm1637]

I have a crush in elementary but we are in different middle school and we only can make contact by texting

[@randomguy3322]

What should I do if I like somebody form different grades

[@ItsAlice1]

What if I see him once in awhile ,but never talk to him and he lives next door to me. Im scared to attempt anything because he seems serious sometimes

[@LandonNicholson]

hey...josh...make a vid on how to ask a girl out on social media

[@eduardo10guti53]

idk if u made this video but what if you or your crush are shy

[@umarkhalid1088]

how do I talk to this guy?

[@elusivedanny2880]

Thank You A LOT

[@Peanut_oil99]

What if I regularly see them but I want to try righting a note

[@reecelowery2478]

Josh u helped sooo much thanks

[@0513-u4e]

I literally never see were dating tho

[@GeneralJazz1011]

O my gosh! I have that same captain America poster

[@jamesjennings6260]

JOSH you inspire me man I'm in the 8th grade... and I may or may not uplode vidz

[@thedarkfox9914]

Awesome vid like always 😎

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

+GREATNESS TO LEGENDARY thanks, glad it was helpful

[@parkermckee5706]

+The Josh Speaks hey josh I wrestle for my school and my crush might b cheering how should I act about it this year I'm a team captain so??

[@sleepingbag7856]

Josh what if my crush is always with and talking to her friends then what do I do?

[@tansoklengagain]

Josh how to stop someone from provoking and bullying me? I'm really struggling. Plz help.

[@charliebarajas14]

Josh Speaks I need help there is this girl that like me and her friends told me and I told them I liked her the next day someone at school said that we were dating she said we weren't so the few days went by and every time I'm around her its awkward and embarrassing what should I do please reply

[@briancalifornia1]

My crush added me on snap chat but i don't really talk to her because i don't want to scare her off i don't see her anymore in person since she quit her job and moved. I've asked a question to her on where she took the pictures she posted since i was really interested in them and she answered my question.I've sent her a few snaps thats it.

[@iblameabel]

Post interesting (but real) snapchats and hopefully she'll message you. When she posts something interesting, start a conversation about it and then gradually talk about other things.

[@joshwalshoakesy583]

If she added you on snapchat surely thats a good sign that she MAY be in to you?

[@joshwalshoakesy583]

I say MAY in big letters because you can never be sure when it comes to girls because they are so god dam confusing at times

[@briancalifornia1]

Exactly people add each other all the time and they never communicate or do anything outside social media. Social media is weird.She is basically just an acquaintance.

[@kaiflamingo1637]

What if they are older and you are hated by everyone they know.

[@bossotronio2004]

thx mate

[@brandonmontoya9892]

How do I talk to her if doesn't have any social media and she's really shy?

[@timosokolov5053]

in real life

[@charlesstrasser2378]

welcome to the club

[@jasminelloyd4558]

well is she mostly alone at school?

[@redwaytheeyeofsweet2188]

same here he doen't have any social media plus he is so shy and often goes with his friends! omg i have plan to talk tomorrow. but i dont know the respone which will be come out

[@daltonbutler8240]

what if you dont have your crushes social media

[@glossyglosses1200]

My crush views my story on snap but he goes to a different school and i never talk to him... im so shy and scared

[@damonkeygaming1700]

Hey Josh great vid! I have a question. I can talk to my crush on Snapchat all the time! I really want to talk to her in school but I never see her in the halls, and if I do see her she is always with her friends. I also feel like I have no reason to talk to her. What should I do?

[@ZachBreeze]

Can you make a video about losing a crush as in apart to go to different schools or leaving country's and stuff

[@carlamendoza9302]

I don't know what to do with my crush I'm scared to hung out with him I'm scared i like him soooooooooo much more than enough what do I do

[@jasminelloyd4558]

well me and my crush are in one class together I've known him for 3 years and I think he kinda likes. last year or in sixth grade we were in the same class he talked to me a bit and constantly stared at me in class. does he like me?

[@alexmajocha6127]

Hey Josh. How should I talk to a girl that I like but not sure if she fully likes me back?

[@SpeedySwimmerGaming]

I would text her friends. MAKE SURE NOT TO SAY YOU LIKE THEIR FRIEND UNTIL A FEW DAYS/WEEKS. I started out like this and now I have a pretty strong relationship.

[@alexmajocha6127]

Thanks a lot. I'll do that.