terrible tiktok parents

[@WolfgangDoW]

Everyone worries about their daughters dating awful men, but they never consider how they raise their sons into those men

[@LeftieLoosie]

Men are worried about their daughters dating boys because they know on a personal level that men can be dangerous.

[@Abby-ll2vk]

This!!!

[@VideosForYou90]

👏🏻💯

[@Musical_Pigeon]

I dated one of those awful men. From seeing how his dad treated his mom and how his grandpa treated his grandma and his aunts, yeah he was raised to be a horrible man.

[@Joe-iq1bu]

@@WolfgangDoW the fake man telling other men how to act lmaooo

[@elialexandra730]

It's weird how fathers practically repel boys from their daughters but at the same time force girls onto their sons because a gay son is the worst thing in the world to them

[@q-fox2372]

It's that gross need of control in those " dads " and it's gross . And they wonder why their kids don't wanna talk to them .

[@daenerys02]

because they only view women as sexual objects and believe all men will see their partner that way

[@rinibunny4576]

I would love to see the dad's reaction if the daughter turned out lesbian... Like you still don't want your daughter to be with a boy then lmao?

[@bob.iscool3845]

@@rinibunny4576badlyyyy. there’s a trend of homophobic men watching lesbian porn and viewing lesbians as purely sexual entities.

[@LilChuunosuke]

​@rinibunny4576 as someone who had parents like this, my parents used to say I wasn't allowed date boys, wasn't allowed to look at them, wasnt allowed to be friends with them, etc. I was closeted, but by my late teens, they started to realize that avoiding male attraction was something I was *suspiciously* good at, so they started talking about marriage and trying to set me up with my brother's friends. So yes, they absolutely start trying to force men on these girls at the first sign of queerness.

[@roxassora2706]

Why do dads get so weird about daughters and dating? It's creepy and weird.

[@matty_hvrk]

They think the daughter is only theirs... 🤮

[@roxassora2706]

@@matty_hvrk Shouldn't they teach about abusive partners? Different forms of abuse? And they let their sons date and impregnate women.

[@CutiePatutie_SmookiePookieBear]

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[@roxassora2706]

@@sunnybunnyfunny As a bi gal, it's annoying

[@paulmaccaroni]

Shout out to the dads that instead teach their daughters about consent and how to recognize possible warning signs.

[@D0ll_923]

my whole life my dad said "no boyfriends" "no husband until I die" but then freak the fuck out when i bring home a girlfriend???

[@crazyratlady3115]

Power move.

[@emilyjohn2034]

Malicious compliance at its best 😂😂

[@EquestrianKatz]

RIGHT?!? Instructions were unclear! Sorry, not sorry dad! 😤

[@torimbfs]

My "boyfriend" in kindergarten was based solely on him having a cool electric wheelchair and we could both fit in it and zoom to the school cafeteria. I don't think either of us said boyfriend or girlfriend until all the adults around us said that's what we were.

[@KiboSanti]

I had a "boyfriend" in elementary school. I sat next to him during quiet reading time, and he gave me a digimon card. One time we almost held hands under the slide, but that was too icky for either of us 😂

[@daenerys02]

I had like 5 boyfriends at a time and now I'm poly so I was onto something

[@LilChuunosuke]

I had multiple "boyfriends" in elementary school and it was solely based on the fact that these were simply the boys in the class who were taught to respect women as equals and had similar interests as me. One of them was on my mixed gender soccer team and the other one was the boy in class that all the girls wanted to be boyfriend/girlfriend with and all the boys thought was a pansy. I was the only person who actually treated him as an equal. I was never attracted to any of these boys. It actually confused me quite a bit because I had a few small crushes on some of the girls I went to school with, but since I didn't have a real understanding of what attraction was, I thought I just wanted to be them/be their friend.

[@KiboSanti]

@@LilChuunosuke yep, my childhood "boyfriend" and my assorted childhood crushes were always just the person who was nicest to me. I didn't want to kiss them or anything, just spend time together. Once I got to high school is when I started figuring out a little more how feelings and relationships work.

[@h0ll0w.f3mur]

the cause of my elementary school "girlfriend" was caused by our mutual love of super mario and dragons lol, we just liked drawing together but our parents designated us as "dating" its wild

[@melodye14]

The weird thing is that boundaries, autonomy, and consent only seem go exist within the context of the father's control. When their daughters want to date, regardless of gender,suddenly their autonomy doesn't matter.

[@WolfgangDoW]

It's simple when you understand that these people believe women aren't people but property. He owns his daughter and her virginity, in his mind

[@Mila-Rosa]

I saw a video where the baby girl was not even 6 months old and the dad kept forcefully closing her legs when she would raise her knees to her chest and he'd say "im not raising my daughter to be a whore" Imagine sexualizing the developmentally appropriate movements of an infant and then shaming them for it.

[@naipsac_nomis]

damn

[@fernythorns]

That says so much about the dad. What a disgusting individual.

[@C3l3st14l_M4rk]

Wtf..

[@Falconifan]

That's so creepy.

[@twist6529]

This upload is perfect timing because today these boys in my class were literally talking about abusing their daughter if they caught her having sex, or having a boyfriend in general. This shit behavior is being taught early apparently. 😰

[@USSAnimeNCC-]

It's is so absurd they shouldn't care also add they have no problem try to date some guy daughter but when it them now it's a problem then how will the human race continue what wrong with these guys

[@twist6529]

@@USSAnimeNCC- exactly what I thought!

[@WolfgangDoW]

Everyone worries about their daughters dating awful men, but they never consider how they raise their sons into those men

[@destinyelise]

i pray that they're never given children.

[@DoofenshmirtzsInators]

I bet they were the same kind of boys to complain when girls reject them 🤦‍♂️

[@martiA113]

I have to admire their commitment. They have a total of 1 (ONE) bad joke and have managed to make tons of videos around it.

[@transsnack]

The "joke fighting" legit triggers my fight or flight. Kids don't separate the real from the fake that well, so that kid is screwed.

[@introusas]

Even now as an adult, the sound of people yelling, even in delight/excitement, is extremely triggering and terrifying for me.

[@AAAAAAA-dm5nk]

The worst part is that.. there’s two alternatives to the toy one.. he either did buy her those things and fuel her real life connection to doing things like that make her dad happy so he buys her things.. ORR he put it back which is insane becuase he just basically pretended to be buying her stuff just to then take it away cuz it was all for the views..

[@WolfgangDoW]

Training her for the sugar daddy later

[@Moon_Thief_420]

And I'd bet good money that it's the latter.

[@Celestichthysmargaritatus]

Shes around six and he tells her shes an actor. Old enough to understand that.

[@rinibunny4576]

​@@Celestichthysmargaritatusnah she is six and this "acting" is literally intertwined in her life.. it will mess with her no matter how many times she is told it isn't real

[@jordynniccole7434]

​@@Celestichthysmargaritatus the reason true acting is different is because you travel to a set with a load of producers with special microphones and cameras, which is a huge VISUAL cue to the child this isnt real. When you start mixing your home environment, your regular grocery stores etc into your content, it gets quite confusing for kids to completely separate the real from fiction for content. And in all reality, they are likely controlling individuals, but they play it up a lot for content. I imagine their content is things they've thought about for a second but decided its "too unhealthy" so they joke about it with each other "Oh you know what would make a good video, if we did this" and it's something that has truly crossed their mind but recognize its a step above what is considered appropriate. It feels like a mix of their real life as well as playing it up for the cameras, so if theres ANY controlling behavior demonstrated to the kid outside of these videos that only makes it that much harder for the kid to discern what's real.

[@polydactylblackcat2218]

If fathers as so afraid of their daughters dating, why not teach their sons how to be good men? Or is that not the point?

[@VideosForYou90]

Exactly!

[@eeee-et4vw]

i get what you mean but they’re not raising other men who aren’t their sons so like this is like implying you want their sons to date their sistsres

[@maruguida8056]

parents that think they can make these "jokes" or "skits" with their children make my blood boil. they say it's not real, but do you really think a 5 year old is going to be able to rationalize or separate it from reality, or not unintentionally internalize it? seriously how can you care so little about the development of your small, impressionable child. it's gross

[@maruguida8056]

also, unrelated, but I think you and I share the same birthday?? so happy birthday kiwi!!!

[@ckblackwoodmusic]

I can't tell which is worse; the fact that that greasebin wrote that first video and had two defenseless children REHEARSE and FILM IT or the fact that 635,000 people found it amusing.

[@MareaRayneOleander]

They gonna do this now, then they better not be begging for grandkids later in this child's life.

[@venusgin7779]

Or crying if the kid brings home a girl/enby as their partner

[@itchild5803]

Plot twist, she hears so often don't get a bf, so she ends up getting a gf or enbyfriend lol

[@PGOuma]

Enbyfriend!! That's so cute!!

[@itchild5803]

@@PGOuma thnx but I just assumed dats what 1 would call an enby partner

[@nuclearcupcakes]

@@itchild5803Um, I think most people would just call their nby parner, well, their partner lol~

[@MoonlitBookworm73]

@@itchild5803I think most of the time people just use terms like partner, soulmate, significant other, etc, but enbyfriend is *adorable*

[@ShmaylaRay]

This is exactly what my younger sibling did lol

[@mooneverfi]

Another thing that these parents forget is what are the priorities of these kids in this point in their life? Finding new friends to have fun on the playground? Sharing snacks? The application of adult topics onto children is the first mistake, because anything in this point in their life is ignored or overlooked for what the parents think is a threat in their own adult perception. Treat your kids as people in the appropriate setting and stage of their life. Like its been said before, the more you shelter your kids from situations that they'll face in that time frame of their lives is going to make them better at hiding that shit from you, not prevent it from happening. Or do they think that kids are too stupid to have discussions about how they need to handle situations on their own or to get help when its needed? By that point the out come is 1000% the parents responsibility for not raising their kids right. Give kids more room to actually learn the skills needed to be an adult and solve these issues accordingly, kids aren't stupid and you dont have to do the thinking for them when its creepy and overbearing and EMBARRASSING for these poor kids. Your kids shouldn't have to apologize for your embarrassing behavior and you need to go back to school to learn some manners

[@katphish30]

So yesterday I talked to my ex husband. I messaged him out of the blue to tell him I named one of my new foster kittens Challah, and every time I say it I hear Angelica from Rugrats saying "Hhhhhanukkah." And he thought that was hilarious, which is why I told him, we chatted for a minute and continued about our business. Then I told my husband and he also thought it was hilarious. My ex probably told his wife. Normalize that.

[@mintytrash]

It's kinda sad seeing the girl so excited to play along with her parents because she definitely has no idea what she's taking part in...

[@beed2587]

my little sister is entering 2nd grade and has had a boyfriend since near the start of 1st grade as in like the same boy 😭 they haven't spoken all summer but they're so similar and sweet so I always just think "let them be happy" because it's not going to hurt anybody and can you imagine they end up together in the end? "how long have you two been together?" "since 1st grade"

[@claratalbot7613]

I feel so bad for the kids in these videos. It's clear that the little girl just thinks it is a funny game now, but how much of that is going to stick with her when she's older? She may end up fearing that her dad is going to try to intimate her date or feel like any time someone looks at her that they objectifying her. Or if she does end up dating someone having trust issues & being scared that they're going to cheat on her & think it's okay to be possessive of her partner. It's okay for kids to learn boundaries, but it's not okay to teach them toxic & possessive behavior like these parents are doing to their daughter

[@Mila-Rosa]

A childs brain cannot distinguish reality from pretend. Even adult brains can trip up with the concept. But actual neural pathways are being formed and reinforced in that little girls brain and thats terrifying because who is she going to grow up to be now?

[@elizabethrentko7938]

I’m just realistically thinking, could you actually imagine if every time your parents is approved of your partner, they got to rob them???

[@Killianthegreat]

Mmm. The yelling made me panic, that poor girl probably doesn't understand why they're yelling either.

[@laulau194]

For real all that shouting was super stressful, setting aside the gross content why do y'all gotta be so damn loud?

[@introusas]

And now she’s learning that that’s how you handle conflict 🙄Just what we need, a whole new generation with no emotional regulation or communication skills.

[@twitchyteeth]

hearing people argue, especially if it escalates to yelling, still makes me feel like i need to hide. my parents fought in front of me routinely, and it still affects me even though they rarely ever involved me. she's too young to subconsiously distinguish reality from fiction, and this is going to mess her up. i hope she gets the help she needs and deserves when she finally gets away from these freaks she has as parents.

[@gem9535]

My father acted like this and everyone thought that was okay, but never said anything about this same man calling his child-daughter (me) his 'little wifey' and forcing me to care for him from the age of 7-8. Yes, he was fully abled-body. He was just lazy and openly admitted that he only 'kept' us for free labor around the house. They don't care about young girls. They care about controlling them. That's it. The children's safety and physical and mental health are at the bottom of the list of priorities.

[@kenziethemom]

I started watching this, then had to grab something upstairs, paused, went upstairs, and saw my teen watching the same video 😂

[@Wonderoddity]

I thought for the longest time my dad was like this. Every man I brought home, he’d interrogate, never liking any of them. In hindsight, I just had really bad luck with dating men. Every single one of those relationships ended in tears. When I started dating women, he made a full 180 and stopped the papa bear act. He adores my girlfriend and even bought a Christmas gift for her (he never did that for any of my past boyfriends). TLDR: My dad wasn’t a toxic girl dad; he just hated men (Slay)

[@pockifox]

Honestly slay

[@introusas]

It’s easier to spot the red flags as an adult. I’m in a place now where I can spot them immediately and will dump someone if I see even one thing that’s suspicious.

[@mumenRhyder]

I give a slay to that

[@sammelgar7239]

This shit is just reminding me of how my ND little sister would copy my father’s abusive punishments. Like she could not see anything wrong with stomping on me when I had a triggered panic attack from my father, because she was thinking “oh, dad’s angry? So am I too, I guess” because she looked up to him Kids are sponges and they’re gonna take what they see as the right thing to do.

[@smilingindenver]

I think the reason why they are so into this is because a child is easy to control. They get a weird ego high out of being like, "I am such a good dad/man, look at me, I'm protecting my daughter!" A 5 year old is much easier to protect/control than an adult woman.

[@ErutaniaRose]

6:06 Definitely like this take you have on what just happened. Because YES boundaries are important, but the overcaring about her having a "bf" is weird AF. I know for me I would definitely be protected, since when I was 8 I was abused by a kid who was mimicking his abusive parents and we were "dating" as kids--but I don't wanna make it weird like this at all. And life update--I think I turned out fine I got therapy, that boy from what I have heard got into some bad socials, still lives through poverty and abuse, and has also been abusing women constantly. I honestly hope he gets help and stops continuing the cycle. He's an adult now.

[@liamodonovan6610]

Happy 24th birthday sweetheart you are such a sweetheart it's disgusting how terrible how toxic youtubers get millions of followers misery loves colmpany love you're videos

[@victoriaskully]

They have had a channel for years. I used to watch them before they had kids. Its always been possessive content between both of them even prior to kids. Pitiful

[@Mila-Rosa]

You mean to tell me it's been 5+ years and they still only have the one 'joke'??

[@victoriaskully]

@@Mila-Rosa yep. They started on Facebook. Then KZbin. They been around for 5 years for sure.

[@WalkingNeonCarpet]

my dad would often tell me “as long as you don’t get pregnant/a boyfriend!” and i’d just sit there, awkwardly laughing in transmasc lesbian

[@amandasaysplease]

i know the people in that target are sick of them 😭

[@annalong9741]

As always I appricuate you covering this topic. But I wish that this didn’t even exist as a thing to talk about. At the end of the day these adults talking about their kids not being able to date are teaching their kids that they are sec objects essentially. It’s teaching them that what THEY want doesn’t matter.

[@justjade256]

After the whole 8 Passengers thing, Im surprised family channels are still allowed or supported

[@ChilliZ0]

ur pathetic

[@nerouo]

thank god my dad was mostly absent and at work, that's better than whatever this disgusting thing is

[@PokhrajRoy.]

2:40 Wow that’s…contributing to some…interesting stereotypes.

[@Meyley885]

I know a lot of people in relationships like this. The kind of people that have "buscando novia toxica" decals on their cars...

[@Isa.esthetics]

If you don’t trust ur partner to talk to other people while in a relationship. Break up.

[@justalittleturtle5600]

Aside from the video, I just wanted to say how pretty the fade color look is too. It’s like a pastel rainbow, and the completely faded bangs almost seem purposeful. It’s very pretty :)

[@PGOuma]

I'm gonna throw up 🤢🤮 These are five year olds like what do you think five year olds are gonna do with each other?! Hold hands and play with each other on the playground???? 😭😭😭😭

[@KiboSanti]

God forbid they *gasp* sit next to each other!! How obscene!

[@august6760]

Premarital hand-holding?!?!?😱

[@lilhedgehog8576]

Yeah I know someone who abuse was normalized for them and now they find some things people do in healthy relationships cringe and they are trying to get over that feeling.

[@jk-jl2lo]

i always find this possessive stuff so weird, especially w kids. when i was that daughter's age, i used to call my dad and most of the male family friends i was around my "boyfriends" bc i think my toddler brain broke it down to just mean male friend and they were all always sweet to me and i liked spending time w them. everyone just laughed it off bc i was a kid using words in a funny way and that's normal. my parents never made me feel like i couldn't actually have a boyfriend at any age. they didn't try to own me just bc i was their kid and they wanted to protect me. that's just an objectively weird thing to do to anybody, but especially a child who doesn't even know what the word "date" really means.

[@Mariethechaotic]

I grew up with a dad with anger issues and lots of yelling so this kind of content literally triggers my fight or flight. I hate confrontation so much. Their content, obviously, not yours. Your commentary is spot on. I agree that it's not funny at all.

[@Dapper_Raptor79]

It's so weird that parents look at a young girl and a young boy that are friends and say "Ooooooooooooo is that your boyfriend/girlfriend?" And then the dads get all weird when their daughters say they have a boyfriend when they're in elementary school. Like bro, YOUR the one that caused this to happen, YOUR the one that gave her the idea that any boy she's friends with is a "boyfriend". It's mind boggling.

[@akumamatata777]

I wonder how many people had babies JUST for tiktok

[@lalasarchive1]

A lot of people have children for attention. Social media attention or real life attention. It's sad.

[@wooderlyn2224]

I’m just waiting on the documentary on influencer children to come out in a couple of years. Another sad thing is that influencer children don’t have the same type of rights and protections as child actors. All the money child actors make 100% goes to them when they turn 18, but these families make a lot of money often by their children’s suffering, and they don’t have to owe their kids a damn dime according to the law

[@kaydenk4111]

the one at 11:30 is so terrible. that poor daughter is gonna grow up with mental problems and serious trust issues

[@Darealcyclic]

That's like my dad, I heard him saying while I was with him, to a family friend I know and RESPECT, that he would essentially watch me whenever I would get a date and go on a date, that he would have someone go and watch me. And I'm just like, "haha so funny dad" while internally I'm just like- "dad why."

[@demoncatboo]

Oh my goodness, my severe fear of getting my wisdom teeth removed is even following me onto youtubers I watch now. (I hope you start feeling better!)

[@thepalindromeemordnilapeht1267]

I started seeing everyone getting their wisdom teeth out when I was due. That was over a year ago now. I was super stressed but then it all worked out. You got it, bestie

[@shadowstar5818]

Happy Birthday!!!!!🥳🎉🎊🎂🎈✨️ (Hope you feel better soon) These two are perfectly toxic for eachother. I just wish they didn't have a kid in the mix.

[@Apostate_Alexei]

I've had open and honest discussions with both of my girls about sex and relationships while keeping an open line of communication. What I did NOT do is threaten bodily harm or intimidation upon anyone they've begun relationships with. It's the only way your kids are going to feel comfortable talking to you.

[@ttintagel]

That "I'm your only friend" bit is chilling.

[@ArtificialSuicid]

As a kid I felt extremely uncomfortable when adults would try to put me in this position of having an imaginary romantic partner, I didn't want anyone to think of me in that way. Because I didn't wanna be sexualised I would numb myself to all feelings, so even when I thought I had a crush as older I would just dismiss it because I didn't want people to think none of it. It's disgusting how these parents care so much, leave the kids alone, they're not thinking about romance, just you creep

[@venusgin7779]

Because of it and the fact my mom liked to wash my hair (and made me sit in the shower so she can do that until I was in like 6th grade) I literally can’t see sex as sexual. Like if I reframe the act of sex as sexual that would mean I was sexually abused by my mom/relatives and I’d genuinely rather not deal with that. It’s easier to dissociate myself from any sexual feelings whatsoever and to see sex as just an activity than to even entertain the alternative.

[@ArtificialSuicid]

@venusgin7779 I'm so sorry you had to go through that, what we women have to deal with in life is just horrific. I hope you get to a place where you're able to heal this pain and resignify sex in your head. Take one day at a time, healing that's time ❤️

[@venusgin7779]

@@ArtificialSuicid not a woman here, just an afab person, but yah it is horrific how normalized it all is.

[@FIRXFLY]

I'm greyromantic so growing up anytime someone would put me in the position of having an imaginary romantic partner I'd get so nauseated. Not only did it make me feel like an outcast for not understanding it but their views of romance further pushed me away from ever wanting something romantic. These people forcing their beliefs onto their child will make it so hard for her to figure herself out and what she wants in life. She's gonna have a terrible idea of what romantic relationships are supposed to be like.

[@ArtificialSuicid]

@@venusgin7779 Sorry bout that! Hope one day we stop normalising that

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Happy Birthday! Here’s to more tangents, Stray Kids refresher courses and learning.

[@satellite.gl0w]

stray boys??

[@PokhrajRoy.]

@@satellite.gl0w Edited it

[@satellite.gl0w]

@@PokhrajRoy. yayy stray kids 🤭🤭

[@ErutaniaRose]

11:05 I hate this one so much especially. It's teaching the kid to do abuse, and fighting in front of the kid in a weird way. Bleh! Edit: Had to add the exclamation point.

[@b3ar134]

before my parents divorced, i wasn’t allowed to touch, talk, or be friends with boys.(i’m a woman). it was so bad that i couldn’t play games with the rest of the class bc it involved touching my male classmates. i was even bullied for it too(like i was the one who made the rule🤨). i hated it. i wasn’t even allowed to wear skirts either. this “family” channel reminds me of those times. i feel so bad for that little girl. i hope the kids at her school aren’t picking on her for things that are out of her control.☹️☹️

[@melodye14]

That poor girl. Imagine if her parents actually do fight and have issues and they put her in between them off camera. That's not healthy.

[@whitneym.9358]

Another issue with the one where the dad is rewarding his daughter for telling the boys to back off is... by having their daughter act out this skit they're normalizing in her head that mom is going to react differently than dad, that mom isn't going to support her when she sets boundaries with the boys at school or listen to her explain her side of the story if the teacher calls. A gender role thing that a lot of married women (rightfully) complain about is how dads tend to fall into the role of fun parent while mom is stuck doing the harder work of parenting, but these two are intentionally framing themselves in that way. It's so bizarre that the mom would go along with that. Edit: also these are so exhausting to watch. WHY does everything have to escalate so quickly? I know it's because it's tiktok and being dramatic gets views but it's so frustrating to listen to like. In all of these hypothetical scenarios in which men and boys are waiting in every target aisle to hit on them specifically, there's never an option to say "no thanks I'm not interested" it's immediately "back off my bf/dad is crazy and he's already on his way to this target, sprinting at top speed, getting ready to pick you up by your ankles and shake the money out of your pockets!"

[@OdinRN_47]

Happy birthday🎉 🥳 and sorry about your teeth🦷😬

[@abysstheanimus]

my mom and dad when i was 9 and "had a crush on a boy": no boyfriends till you're 25! i'm going to have to talk to him... my mom and dad with i'm 13 and come out as a lesbian: *confused Pikachu face*

[@steviearielle5249]

ew that dad gives major austin mcbroom vibes. I always thought it was weird. Catherine put their like 4 month old daughter in a two piece and he acted all mad and said she needs to cover up… why? she’s 4 months old.. (even tho a 4 month old being in a two piece is unnecessary and not safe bc they need a rash guard swimsuit to prevent sunburn) but his reaction was weird & gross.

[@triciad4100]

Happy birthday! 🥳 You have received the priceless gift of being finished with this video so you don't have to watch any more of their gross content! 😬

[@OverlyPositiveFanboy]

Mum: "THAT'S A LONG TIME TO BE IN THE BATHROOM. WHERE'S YOUR PHONE?!!" Dad: "I'm using the bathroom." (Mum notices the smell)

[@isabellaakl6794]

Love your channel!! You’ve teaching me so much over the last year I’ve been watching your channel, so 5hank you! Happy Birthday 🎉

[@headmelter]

“not all men” but dads will behave this way about their daughters from birth... then *who’s the issue?*

[@PenneyLan]

Most TikTok parents are bad :/ Happy birthday as well!!!

[@sershmoff2278]

i wholeheartedly believe that that whole “because i know how boys think” excuse is such a admission of guilt bcs like no you don’t you’re just admitting that you think gross things about women and assume all men do

[@DataRae-AIEngineer]

When people act like the families on your street from when you were a kid, and commentary channels call it toxic. Ouch my childhood. But you're right.

[@crazycorgi2184]

sometimes i think, fathers dont like their daughters dating because they know men can be awful, or they themselves were one of those men

[@thunderstorms501]

As a pan person… am I supposed to just not have friends??

[@MikeHawk-c5t]

@@thunderstorms501 your kind doesn’t actually have friends. Just enablers

[@antonymph-of-the-internet]

their blaccent is killing me ngl

[@ajwilliams8561]

I always get so excited when I see a new video from you. Happy 24 th!!

[@Loutron3030]

I feel like we need to normalise clinical terms like "covert incest" to describe this kind of behaviour. Heteros get away with sexualising children way too much and have the absolute gall to project their own bizarre and disturbing issues onto the LGBTQ+ community. There's enough discussion about parenting online that anyone who would act this way is doing so despite knowing better. They've heard every intellectual argument for why they shouldn't do this to their children and since they won't stop, I think it's time to succinctly summarise their behaviour with a stigmatising label like "incestuous." Maybe I'm just burned out and jaded, but I feel like that's an effective strategy that's been under-utilised.

[@emilyjohn2034]

I hate how they can only support woman’s autonomy and setting her own base when it’s in the service of her father. Like just teach your kids that they have autonomy regardless of gender because they deserve to be treated like an equal human being

[@xXL4v3nder_L48T4MYTXx]

Happy birthday!! Your a Big inspiration to me, also I'm recommending you to my BFF bc yall both love stray kids

[@Gin_isnotmyname]

Happy birthday Kiwi, congrats on being 24. its cool that your birthday is so close to me birthday. mines on the 19 of january lol

[@shadywolf6042]

Happy early birthday!

[@Gin_isnotmyname]

@@shadywolf6042 thank you sm 🥰❤️

[@sambartlett1435]

My daughter had a boyfriend when she was six. They walked around the field together at recess. That was it.

[@courtneymccullough3881]

As someone who was, unfortunately, put into a sort of dynamic like this (and not for views or giggles because this was before social media was so big and before the phones were smart), like, a REAL one... It really is traumatizing. And scary because sometimes things get physical and it's... It's not jokes, people.

[@chocolateleftisttanuki3690]

Me robbing a small child because he talked to my small child of a daughter😐

[@allisonr715]

Just as a note, I (and I suspect a lot of other people) would appreciate a warning before showing clips like the one where they’re arguing about the Apple Watch (at around 13:00). It almost triggered a literal panic attack and shutdown before I could get back to where I could skip ahead in the video. I enjoy your content a lot, and you can make it however you like, but I thought you might appreciate the suggestion if you happen to see this 😊

[@damhskippy]

happy birthday kiwi!! youve been such a big inspiration to me for the few years ive been watching you for now, thank you for being such a kind and wonderful person

[@FIRXFLY]

18.6 million people enjoy this content. And there goes my non-existent hope in humanity plummeting even further.

[@itchild5803]

I don't know how old da dad is, but I have heard an alarmin # of older men dat were molested as children being told "u need to know how 2 plz a woman wen u get older" n sum children dat have dat happen 2 dem will den do it 2 other children der age, cause like she said, kids mimic what dey c, hear, n experience. So I wonder what he experiencd as a kid, cause alot of girl dads like dis r basin der worry on der own behavior. So I'm worried what he was doin 2 girls wen he was dat age, which makes me worried what happend 2 him I have a hand disability dat makes typin painful n usually my partner is asleep wen I'm usin Reddit so I can't scream at da talk to text which is required cause of my speech impediment so I use phonetic shorthand dis is a copied message to

[@WolfgangDoW]

Everyone worries about their daughters dating awful men, but they never consider how they raise their sons into those men

[@itchild5803]

@@WolfgangDoW very true n like I said, very often der so worried, cause dey r awful men or have friends dat r awful so dey know awful dey can b I have a hand disability dat makes typin painful n usually my partner is asleep wen I'm usin Reddit so I can't scream at da talk to text which is required cause of my speech impediment so I use phonetic shorthand dis is a copied message to

[@thesims3girlie]

I feel so bad for children, I feel so bad.. that's why I'll never have them. I don't want this content and these mindsets anywhere near my children. I love my kids so I'll never have bring them here.

[@yourxfroggy]

Another great video Kiwi Happy birthday! ❤️❤️

[@magnetronmaaltijden]

Bro deadass stole some kids money 💀

[@jammies721]

The only good thing for that girl is that she legit will warn everyone around her that her parents are crazy since that's what they're teaching her

[@chamaeleons]

can we also talk about how in the second video, the mon says the daughter was being "mean" for saying no... this teaches the daughter that setting boundaries is mean. but also both parents are saying contradictory things, which will also make things even more confusing for the child

[@kaciek6893]

I mean, the Mom is definitely in on it because if this was real, I would hope that she would be asking. What did the boys ask to be your boyfriend? And then she should get pissed at the husband

[@gunnasintern]

happy birthday! glad i discovered the channel a couple months ago, latest videos so far have also been great

[@naishinno]

I can’t relate to this with my dad, he was protective but not obsessively. He wanted to meet anyone I was seeing in high school and warned me about how shit guys were, but he wasn’t like this. I think my dad was reasonable about it, these people are craaaazy

[@jordynniccole7434]

What if the young girl turns out to be a lesbian? Would he be okay with that? My crazy "father" was okay with me dating girls and actually tried to convince me to so id never get pregnant as a teen. So this is interesting its all pin pointed at having a "boyfriend" Also it doesn't matter when your about 11 and below, 12+ is puberty age and middle school which is where the concern and talks should occur depending on your location if that is common or not. When they're 4?! All they know is "this boy is nice, he looks cute" and thats about as far as the brain can process information, i assume its the same thought process for little boys. They have no understanding or knowledge of toxic relationship behaviors, or sex or anything that would be of concern.

[@KayDazzle90]

Happy Birthday! If you're this cool at such a young age I look forward to what the future holds

[@kiku-goldenflower7731]

Just going to say, unfortunately not all children that age are ignorant about sex and as a consequence can take things to disturbing places when "playing grown up". Telling a kid they can't have a boyfriend or girlfriend till they are in, say highschool, while not preventing from being friends with the opposite gender could help prevent them from being taken advantage of before they can even understand what is happening.

[@LenaTate]

Maybe just teach kids sex ed so they can create boundaries and not be taken advantage of. Banning kids from dating won’t protect them from predatory people.

[@kiku-goldenflower7731]

@@LenaTate In kindergarten?

[@LenaTate]

@@kiku-goldenflower7731 well, age appropriate learning. You can’t expect a toddler to understand the same explanation a 12 year old would. (I’m not a doctor or teacher, though. There’s probably some kind of guidelines for how to explain things depending on age group, written by professionals that parents can follow.) It’s just my opinion that this is a better option to protect children than simply banning dating. After all, some kids will try to date regardless, simply to oppose the rules.

[@kiku-goldenflower7731]

@LenaTate And that "age appropriate learning" could very well include telling say a six year old "You're too young for that kind of relationship and don't listen to anyone who tries to tell you otherwise so you don't get hurt" because it can cut off an avenue of manipulation by older kids, adults ect who try to tell them that "this is normal" and take advantage of the child's inability to understand concepts like informed consent.

[@LenaTate]

@@kiku-goldenflower7731 definitely, that sounds like a good idea.

[@Moon_Thief_420]

Happy happy birthday, and hope you feel better soon. 💗

[@dissorial7694]

imagen walking past them while they're filming in public

[@wewaitandwatch]

Yeah nah that's absolutely fcked up man. Family channels need to be demonitized on grounds of so many cases of psychological and physical abuse, the repercussions are unfathomable for these poor kids. Daddy O Five, that Seven Passenger crapstorn, god countless others. But yeah. Moral integrity's the line for KZbin I guess. 😂