Getting Over Guilt: Part 2

“The Real” hosts open up about something everyone can relate to… dealing with guilt and overcoming regret. Check it out and share your stories below in the comments.

[@Empressive]

This was probably the realest segment they have ever done. I couldn't help but feel bad for Adrienne 😞

[@oliviadavis3307]

Empressive Yes!

[@loyaltyiseverything9965]

Empressive Yes so true.

[@KikeAJ]

Jeannie is a pastor at heart!

[@thatrenaissancechic]

100%

[@sarahbhattan-pomeroy8762]

Lol no

[@dzdb3010]

@@sarahbhattan-pomeroy8762 yes .

[@LeoniJoyceOfficial]

I love Loni and tamera's relationship and Loni in general she is truly such a momma bear to these ladies such a beautiful loving woman!

[@unlistedg2922]

Leoni Joyce Yea but sometimes momma bear needs to share to her Cubs about what is on her mind!!

[@boricualife847]

I love loni

[@ashleyr984]

Since the negative comments get to them i think we should start posting more positive comments so they dont think the fans watch to shade them

[@MajesticMyronn]

cinnamon x most of us do , but like they always say , we tend to pay more attention to the negative and address those comments and those negative comments make us sometimes build up a wall and not try to show people who we are subconsciously...ya know

[@feyiplus4500]

cinnamon x there are more positive than negative comments.

[@martydoritos]

speak fo yoself...I only come here for the shade

[@christianbrown237]

cinnamon x I agree but sometimes we gotta call out the bs when we see it 😁😁

[@Shashayaway]

cinnamon x sometimes when the tone is set it's hard to detour from it! meaning in the beginning when Tamar was still on the show it was very shady versus real which a lot of people get confused with, to be real which was very much so today's show you do not have to be Shady,and dismissive, just about anything can be said, an opinion or a disagreement or whatever without being disrespectful because I am very opinionated but I do not like to be disrespectful to others,

[@HewanYitagesu]

These four keep hitting at my soul.

[@brittinyfarrier1449]

you mean those three, cause loni didn't share

[@HewanYitagesu]

Brittiny Farrier I meant exactly what I said 😜

[@sarahsahar5622]

Brittiny Farrier loni is the moderator so maybe that's why, she is basically hosting the other 3 and giving them the chance to let it all out, make sure there are no misconceptions etc

[@latoyaharvey1853]

YES without that 5th bad seed 😒

[@lilmakori]

What Adrianne said really made me think about how demonized women are for things that aren't even their fault. When Kanye was going to through it recently people were saying how Kim corrupted him and how it's her fault. How are you gonna blame her for a grown man's actions? Kanye can think ans act for himself; and we don't know what goes in behind closed doors. I've just noticed that blaming the women seems to be the default.

[@Simplykiebby]

lilian makori *catches Holy Ghost and throws it* KEYSHONDA ROBOTUSSION!!!

[@britbritnicole]

lilian makori I agree it's not always women's fault lol he's a man he needs to own up to his actions

[@DeeeCheree]

i literally HOOLLLLERRRREEEDDDDD!!!!!!!!!!!

[@lilmakori]

Dee Cheree I'm right. 😋

[@lilmakori]

#MakeupByBrit I know. It's sad and ridiculous women expected to 'fix' men and blamed for their actions. 😒

[@jessicat2304]

Loni the woman you cry on her chest when you sad

[@denisedenisehuxtable4183]

Jessica T she the mama

[@ericaslife2144]

Denise DeniseHuxtable people say she try to hard to show that she cares

[@Heroofwinds100]

Erica's Life Stop listening to what other people say.

[@msgirly6827]

Anisha Renee Haha 😂😂 good one

[@thatraspyshxt]

this is true.

[@MajesticMyronn]

I have to say this was a very important Girl Chat that everybody needed to hear , This was one of those times where the girls connected on a whole different level and were trying to make each other feel better about their guilts and understand each other and asking questions !!! Good Job on today's show Ladies!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@muralmica]

wow, never realized how much guilt is attached to family issues.

[@mandys1038]

FINALLY Adrienne is addressing the negative comments about her relationship and husband, it was time to stop acting like they did not exist. I felt bad for Adrienne here especially when she spoke about the impact this has on the children. Loved this segment, this is how you keep it real!

[@Jay.Armani]

When Tam & Adrienne cry something just hits you

[@oluwakemioyedokun8669]

Truu aughh💔

[@khadijapemba5113]

It’s the Disney childhood

[@MySweetAriane]

All of them girl

[@ceceangel4561]

Damn they even got Adrienne shedding a tear or two! Btw, I hope you all feel terrible for what you said about Adrienne. I don't care about anyone's past, you typewriters took what was supposed to be the best moment of her life and just ripped it with every comment you made on her husband, her new children. Just because you have an alias and the distance doesn't mean that words don't hurt. I hate to be that person that lectures and I'm sorry if people feel targeted, but I hope now some people think twice before submitting a "joke".

[@ramonajavier5938]

yup and besides all the types writers need to mind their business it between Adrienne and her man what happens in their life.

[@jemstone0006]

GIRL BYEEEEEE.

[@alexandranjeri6477]

Chelsea Lucien well said 👌

[@karenfairman1046]

Tamera I hope you read this. I have a husband, two kids, 5 years old and 3 years old and a professional as well, not an entertainer but an educator who has duties outside of work if I want to be an effective teacher which I am, so I understand and I cry with you but for both of us God will bless our marriage and our children because we are faithful and loving, HE knows our heart!!!

[@MajesticMyronn]

Karen Fairman amen...

[@jeanclayton7242]

Tamara your a good mom. and your a role model for all young mothers, keep your head up, stop letting people get to you. by the way your makeup today was so beautiful.

[@summerlyric6071]

Nice to see Tamera's transparency.

[@clarke4400]

Summer Lyric she cries a lot and says the same things over and over. Is this first time your seeing this 🤔🙄

[@flymoon1044]

Summer Lyric go to part 1 this is part 2 PART 2 🙄

[@ineedya123]

lol!

[@missovercomer2488]

Michie Oo Crying doesnt mean a person is being transparent or genuine. I felt Tamera was pretty genuine for once as well

[@01peaceprincess]

Jokes aside Tamera you are a amazing mom and so passionate about it!!❤️❤️

[@emilyparr2747]

I love how they lift each other up. It's so nice to see women be there for each other.

[@LeoniJoyceOfficial]

The real may be different because of obvious changes but one thing I love that is still the same is women can relate these women represent a beautiful sisterhood and I love seeing women uplift eachother 💕🙌

[@chosenonekay]

But Israel had his own dirt before dating Adrienne it wasn't till he got with Adrienne that it came to light..

[@TiffanyRayneOfficial]

+krisha capellan That's true, but the bloodthirsty public doesn't see it that way. The social media and blog addicts only care about getting gossip on these folks to mud sling and be negative and mean.

[@carmellabrown3335]

krisha capellan That was her point.

[@1641shawnbizzle]

It's sad but a lot of people get energy from negativity and tearing others down

[@waaywavyme]

krisha capellan that part🗣💯

[@obibraxton2232]

Adrienne giving me J-lo realness with her hair and look today beautiful and beautiful story from all of them!

[@danioh460]

Watching this balling my eyes out for Adrienne. I did wonder how she was doing with all the backlash etc. I'm glad she has a strong support system.

[@hellotinashe]

This was a beautiful segment. I'm so glad you ladies are back!!!! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

[@yahainHotPink]

Ti. Sonders Me too. 😊 This was a good segment. While they were gone, I checked my youtube feed everyday, not realizing they were going to be gone for 2-3 weeks. I missed them.

[@LalomanuGirl]

Jeannie should be a Pastor. I am sure thats her calling. #PREACH

[@briethompson439]

Jeannie has so much depth and is so well-spoken!

[@mikamiks2475]

Tamera I actually LOVE when you talk about your family. It makes me smile and all mushy inside. When I had an argument with my husband i stormed to the sitting room and started watching the real on KZbin and then you talked about your husband. My heart melted and so did all the anger I had inside. We talked and made up with 1 minute

[@britbritnicole]

I'm so glad that Adrienne brought this up and they're so right it's not about everybody's opinions as long as she's happy who cares

[@gracehun9773]

So many damn emotions. This was a REAL conversation.

[@craymay4766]

The real got real again! I love this .. also the two part 7 minute clips #thereal2017

[@Leah-yb7ly]

What tamera doesn't recognize is that so many other moms are in a worse position then other mothers, who have no money work their butts off and have no man to help them out and no money to pay a nanny, I'm not discounting what she feels because I know it's real, believe me, but maybe recognizing that will help her deal with the guilt because she is so blessed

[@beamerbenz546]

Leah K F

[@DnewNancy]

You are discounting what she feels... Everyone has their own problems from their own reality. Taking comfort in the fact someone is worse off than you does not ease the blow of being away from your kids

[@Leah-yb7ly]

Also I didn't mention this, but based on what I've seen on the show Tamara is a great mom! I don't meant for my comment to be negative

[@LegendaryVogueX]

Leah K I truly understand where you are coming from, but I feel that just because many people are in a worse position than she is shouldn't validate or take away from the fact that she feels the way she feels.

[@erronellan]

Maybe Leah wasn't trying to invalidate or discredit Tamera's feelings but to offer another way of looking at her situation like Loni did in the clip. Tamera doesn't have to "take comfort" in someone having it worse off than her but sometimes recognizing others have it worse than you can make you count your blessings. Peace and love.

[@menat8100]

I love the relationship that Tamera and Loni have! so beautiful..they truly care and love each other

[@ShoroukA]

Damn it! ya'll got me crying.. now I can't stop..

[@MsLsteph]

This episode is why I appreciate The Real. They exposed the guilt, regret and insecurities that so many people feel everyday. I love this show because these wonderful ladies allow us to connect with them on a personal level in a public forum about so many unspoken topics. They use their platform to bring dark subjects to light and best of all they understand that their purpose for this show is bigger than their own personal gain. God Bless!

[@SMAnthonyW]

Tamera you are such a beautiful person and a wonderful mother! Don't let anybody tell you otherwise!

[@brandibigelow3937]

No one better mess with Tam Tam! She's such an inspiration, and I love hearing and seeing pictures of her beautiful family. I love all these ladies!

[@Jesuslovesyou12344]

This girl chat was so amazing and it's something we all go through. GUILT

[@itsjaybabes]

im getting jlo vibes from adrienne

[@aniela4434]

Momto Jaylee Me too!

[@whatsgood1574]

Momto Jaylee i was thinking that the whole time

[@jenniesmythe8188]

Momto Jaylee it's the cheeks. I noticed it too. I feel like maybe she got filler for her wedding. Gorgeous but def jlo vibes

[@itsjaybabes]

Jennie Smythe and the bangs! ive seen jlo with that hairstyle.

[@96NikkiBOO]

Momto Jaylee Yea especially the hairstyle she looking like she bout to go judge American Idol!

[@vicaa927]

The absolute best Girl Chat since this show started. This was amazing. Well done Women of The Real

[@PhoenixRayne88]

Adrienne was FLAWLESS in this video. Stunning.

[@dr.dermixgirlmd7479]

As a modern Christian woman, I love the fact that the REAL hosts celebrate being sassy AND saved and talk about their faith openly on the show. ❤️ 🙏🏽

[@reaunasims]

I love Adrienne. She's such a beautiful woman inside and out. Adrienne is happily married with her husband. People need to stop with the negative comments about her husband.

[@NellyChristelle]

The way they uplift each other is one of the best things I've seen.

[@ayan6903]

i really love Jennie i hope she never leaves the show

[@krazykool18]

Loni is my fav. Because she sees that correlation of being so public and open means getting dragged on social media. Trolls don't know enough about her to have substance to the trash they talk about her. She's smart. I honestly think Loni is the least likely to be dragged, because she keeps private. Everyone else puts their life out so openly and get mad when the internet gets a hold of everything.

[@hellelima6458]

I love it when these girls open their hearts and share deep stuff.. It's almost like we get to know who they really are.. You guys are awesome.

[@LIZZyNIqUZZ10]

Funny how people are quick to point fingers at someone 😂 Adrienne God bless your marriage.

[@lillianlila9985]

This segment really hit me! For real, i sat with tears in my eyes! I salute them for being so honest, so true and open about something so deep and hidden inside them. The whole world is watching and judging them. I really really care for the real women. They are the perfect example of religious, hard working, loving, caring and honest women. 🦋

[@Doctordiva51]

The Real youtube channel has some very negative viewers. Not sure why they consistently come here to be negative but my prayer for the ladies is to just not let the negativity affect them. There are so many fans that love the ladies and the show and they probably have lives and positivity and don't have the time to be negative in comment sections.

[@candy30chat45]

Joy A I think it's jealousy a lot of these trolls wish they have the life these women do so you're going to find anything negative to say women we cry I cried a puppy falling down

[@ugochiifunaya2436]

Joy A ,that's fact

[@HelenMcNizzle]

Tamera's is an exceptional mother and person... Along with her top knot

[@madisonbevell206]

Yes you are a Prov: 31 woman! I work full time and im a mother of 2 as well.. I look up to you and I listen to you while Im at work because of how encouraging you are!

[@idawilcox5275]

The more clips I see of this show, the more I love. It is truely what title of the show is "Real" this is the best segment I have seen so far. Keep up the good work ladies. you are truely keeping it real and I truely believe through that you are helping others in their lives. Why, because you are helping me with each segment. Thank you

[@destinyhodge7781]

Jeanine spoke a word on tamera my mom felt guilt as well but that made us so strong tamera you rock don't let these joy snatchers bring you down!

[@jameslogan3134]

I love how they're patting each other on the backs like don't feel bad girl your doing a great job and you're a good person....I'm here for that

[@Nadirqm]

Adrienne looks amazing! and is that a new makeup artist, makeup is more bomb than usual!

[@samonetv6747]

they make me CRY when they cry

[@saintofgod9070]

All of them are Great, positive women. Love you all!

[@heavensentg.9982]

All that I can say is:"AMEN, AMEN, AMEN& GOD BLESS YOU/THEM ALL!"😆😁😙🤗🤗🤗

[@ObedienceOrSacrifice]

One of the best segments ever, very heartfelt prayers for all of you!

[@tranvo1846]

I love how these four lift each other up

[@ninakf]

This was a powerful, heartfelt, important and real segment! Not only does it teach us more about the women, their strong personalities and relationships, but we are also able to learn more about ourselves! I hope that everyone (the girls, me and you reading this) are able to forgive ourselves for what make us feel guilty, and learn from it and become stronger for the new year! You are enough! You do not need to be perfect! This is something we always need to remind ourselves of, but take one day at a time.

[@brittanied.9509]

These girls are awesome together!!

[@liyaha5173]

My 2017 resolution is to be more positive. This show really just showed me my words have a big impact on the people. So we really need to watch what we say. Minimize the negativity increase the positivity

[@RsbrryBeret]

Oh my goodness! Y'all got me in here crying! This is like group counseling. Thank y'all for being SO transparent!

[@HerDangLife]

I love you Adrienne. You are the definition of unconditional love no much women could have put up with that...

[@sydneyhopes]

Omg I love Tamera so much!!! I never questioned how good of a mother/ person she is 💖

[@Shadamz]

Am I the only one who thinks Adrienne look a hella lot like JLo in this clip?

[@taylorwalker7417]

I said the same thing!

[@IsabelleMN11]

the one thing I'm getting from this segment is that none of the ladies focus enough on the positive comments. they get plenty of kind things said to them, but they bad obviously tears them much more. but this is a reflection of all of us I think, in that it's hard to hold to positivity because we're more likely to remember the bad. that's how we collectively agreed that 2016 was an awful year, even if amazing things happened as well

[@zuiilaa]

Ironic...people say they are fans but throw nothing but shady comments up on every lady on the show. Well I love these ladies for being honest and taking the high road with these raggedy behind comments.

[@imakeepitreal2214]

Loni tried it. She didnt tell a lil story of her own but she still went back to Jeannie and asked if she apologized.

[@MajesticMyronn]

Christian Gil she wanted to check in with Jeannie because as a friend she wants to know if her friend fixed the relationship with her family member , that's not really trying it...

[@unlistedg2922]

Christian Gil True

[@kathryn5614]

Jeanie's little "except God" is so important.

[@Audnz]

It's nice to see the ladies open up and share their lives because many people can relate. I do miss the fun topics for girl chat tho...

[@timiliawilliams9939]

I love how lovingly they show up for each other!

[@ImDirtyDani]

I'm glad Adrienne spoke on this. I'm glad she was real about it! and as far as Tamera is concerned, there's nothing wrong with talking about your family. absolutely nothing!

[@dejadrayton303]

This show ALWAYS has me in tears!!! I love them 😘😘

[@hlengymoyo1931]

Loving Jeannie. She's shining more and more! Slowly becoming my favourite co host...

[@mikaela1833]

Great segment.. I truly loved the way they approached this topic.

[@biancafeliciano4917]

Jeanie is literally so inspiring I mean they all are but she is literally my goal she’s such an amazing person and wise. And Tamera is an amazing mom and Loni is just wonderful and wise and strong and Adrienne is so smart open and I love it these women are absolutely powerful and goals

[@adellem5356]

thank god for this show, more moments like these please

[@angie23621]

I love that the ladies love each other, and I hope that they read all of the positive comments too because they're amazing women of God. I've been coming to the tapings since Season 1, and I always have a great time. I've gotten to meet them once, and they're some of the sweetest people ever. They interact with the audience, and will sometimes dance and sing if they have time. Keep doing what you're doing, ladies. I love y'all so much.

[@BeeLia2]

best heart to heart episode. love this ladies!!!

[@JoyChristos]

Even though this is not a “Christian Show”, the mentions of God & these women’s testimonies have brought me closer to God. #ThankYouTheReal

[@SimranKaur1]

First step of correcting your mistakes or working on yourself is forgiving yourself. You cannot live in guilt.

[@anaissanchez5901]

I know women that leave their kids at home not only for work but every night they go out partying but the one hour she is with them she says is the best mom so Tamara your amazing & hardworking

[@marykeo2970]

It’s a great thing that she has the ladies of The Real Day-Time as her friends. They help her think positive and not negative things about her.😘😘😀😀😍❤️😀😍😘

[@thecurlywarrior]

Ladies, you're all phenomenal!!!!

[@wendybendy9454]

Loni was speaking the truth all y'all keep doing what y'all do

[@aubriellerobinson5491]

There friendship is EVERYTHING😻😻😻😭

[@user-si6gs3ne8l]

love this show so much omg ❤

[@joannaherodotou1491]

Loni is a very intelligent woman, you can tell by the way she speaks and guides the others with her informative advice.

[@user15673]

Love jeanie. Love the support and closeness of these 4. Appears so genuine

[@MzVocalist91]

I love this show...

[@krismalone578]

Adrienne's love(s) Is Real! See what I did there hahahaha I know, it's a lame pun, but I hope this lightens up the mood. This was a very vulnerable segment and this is what makes The Real, real; and it's this vulnerability that allows us viewers to resonate with these ladies and understand one another. Keep it up ladies!

[@MajesticMyronn]

Kris Malone I laughed lol thx for trying to release the tension

[@kaicherisealexander7979]

I love you ladies, continue to be the women you're! Such an inspiration

[@1641shawnbizzle]

Let me tell you: I LOVE THESE LADIES AND THEIR HEARTS! I had my doubts after Tamar left, but it's so beautiful to see them expose their nakedness, and tell their stories not only for their healing, but for ours! Like, listening to them is giving me inner healing and deliverance. And it may not seem good in the moment, but what they go through helps us out! So, thank you for being so brave and allowing God to use you. Thank you for being graceful. Thank you for being 4 women who show me that heart of God

[@shaneekcarey7395]

Real knows real.......good will always overcome evil.....it may not be easy but good will always overcome. Tamera you are an example I watch everyday and get encouraged by - Truly Proverbs 31. Jeannie is as real as real gets and open like a book...that comes from a level of comfort with oneself that is so admirable. Ohhhhhh Loni love, you may not be a biological mother but you cover these ladies under your wings, a true mama bear. Adrienne....I grew up with you and admire the woman you have become...so funny how persons seem to forget where they came from and that they too make mistakes, continue glowing mamacita and loving your new family. LOVE YOU LADIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@brandonsings9514]

There’s something about seeing wonderful women just be wonderful to each other, it’s wonderful, thank you the women of the real, you guys are all amazing

[@gideonharuna6675]

This is the realest show ever! I have learnt so much from your stories and intelligent conversations. Keeping it real is the real deal. 🙌🙌

[@marloyates2223]

I love these women... They are so REAL

[@BigMuffinStudio]

I love this show so much, you can tell that these women love each other, lift each other up and constantly encourage one another!! This is the kind of thing that everyone needs to see and reflect on. They are all strong women who are supporting one another no matter what which is so refreshing and real

[@SnowTails]

These 4 are friend goals :) beautiful women inside and out.

[@sweetsarahwatson3926]

i feel like loni is your mom of the group she truly loves them and uplift them