GIRL CHAT VAULT: Is There Anything You Wish You Learned Sooner?

[@gaila.9852]

Jeannie will never know just how many people she helps each time she opens up about her experiences. I commend her.

[@jayyysworld9242]

Yessss!

[@Jj_86]

Yes! Love her

[@gabrielaferraz7401]

I just wish there was a segment only with her talking. I really love her way with words and experiences.

[@zarahshabs7936]

She has a youtube channel! :)

[@kaylenereyes7613]

She’s so strong! 🤍

[@sitatheyoutuber]

I wish I knew not to waste my time on certain people and to defend myself instead of letting them walk all over me

[@jemimajanvier4706]

I recently parted ways with my childhood best friends because of this. Extremely difficult but necessary❣️

[@sitatheyoutuber]

@@jemimajanvier4706 sorry to hear about that 😞 I did too with my ex best friend.

[@gaila.9852]

I’m going to miss seeing these four women together so much.

[@melaninpoppin8175]

Me too

[@shxxylophone8969]

Me 2 this show helped me a lot i’v been watching it for maybe 3 years they helped to find myself

[@hannashimelis9023]

Shx xqz honestly same ive been watching since I was 12 and now I’m 17. I’ve grown up with them and I love them so much

[@tropicalmk3519]

What's happening? Is the show gonna finish or...?

[@andreac.5596]

@@tropicalmk3519 Tamera left the show, she won't be coming back in future seasons...I'm sad...

[@Sorekneecap]

Wish the Tamera the best. I will miss her so much on the show.

[@touyatodoroki583]

What do you mean?

[@Sorekneecap]

Aisha Ahmad she’s leaving the real. Won’t be back next season

[@tumelogadinabokao3655]

@@Sorekneecap really? When did she say that? And why is she leaving?

[@annabel9010]

Tumelo Gadinabokao she said it on Instagram

[@debbiedewberry4718]

I feel for Jeannie! All those years of marriage and divorce but she is Married again in 2020 to a good man that l pray will stay together with her through good days and bad days.

[@gettintipsy101]

She’s not married. She’s engaged

[@ryanamari2233]

Sarah Bear true but then again Jeannie and Jeezy could have had or even have a civil ceremony that a press release hasn’t been granted yet and then have something bigger later .. who knows

[@gaila.9852]

@@ryanamari2233 People are quick. Someone would've already found out.

[@Daphneeoh]

They're divorced, and she tried to take him for a ride. So she became who she said her first ex-husband was.

[@magdalenakrauze9473]

It was my first contact with The Real. It was few days after I broke up with my fiance and canceled my wedding. Then I watched every movie on KZbin of The Real. You all helped me go though it. Suddenly I wasn't alone. Jeannie you gave me hope and you showed me it's ok to to feel what I felt. When someone shows you who they really are, believe them❤️❤️❤️

[@lk5393]

We're all going through something. It's how many times you dust yourself off, get up and keep on going that counts. Sending love and much blessings your way from snowy Moscow💕.

[@andreac.5596]

I love Tamera. What she said in this clip really touched me and I relate to it completely. I've always struggled with accepting myself for being different. I'm in my 30's now and I accept myself more than I used to but still have some stuff to work on. Tamera has especially had a great influence on me and I appreciate your thoughts and opinions on the show. I think you served your purpose on the show, you have inspired others like myself to love yourself and accept who you are. We'll miss you on the show Tam Tam...

[@kanwarghuman7720]

You can tell Adrienne wanted to cry while talking about how strong Jeannie is. I’m gonna miss Tam and Jeannies friendship and I hope they find another cohost that fits with the woman as well as Tam did.

[@katabrams5566]

Aw, this really spoke to my heart. This is a sweet moment between the girls. And I felt just like Jeannie did right here, so to know that now she’s engaged and happy, that really inspires me. Many women been through this, but we strong!

[@tamerilee]

“Sometimes you find yourself when you get lost” 🤍🕊

[@88Musicgirl]

Oh I’m gonna miss seeing those 4 together. The chemistry they have won’t be happening with anyone else.

[@llehsir]

Lmaoo, Loni said "Can we just fast forward" I'm crying

[@gaila.9852]

She always plays timekeeper.

[@Scoutbq1l]

i can't with loni sometimes lol

[@deewani5847]

I went through the same thing as Adrienne! I ended a 6 year relationship 2 weeks before the wedding and I didnt regret it all! One year later i met my now husband and it felt soooo right, right in the beginning and I am so happy ❣️Girls out there, listen to your inner voice not what society wants from you!!!

[@cwytchsparks]

What I wished I learned sooner in life is to validate & accept myself instead waiting for it to come from other people

[@angescobedo]

I like how Adrienne called them out on how they used to pressure her to marry Lenny.

[@gaila.9852]

Jeannie has been through so much.

[@tamerilee]

I love that Tamera held Jeans hand as long as she did 🥺🥺🥺 Jeans is my new nickname for Jeannie lol, this sisterhood bond was wonderful I’m so glad we had it as long as we did all things considered

[@amykimnguyen1728]

Now that I think of it, whenever I come across this clip, EVERY TIME- I never ever ever skip it. I always end up clicking it. It hits me everytime, and I literally can't imagine myself scrolling past this one. Thank you ladies.

[@gaila.9852]

I wish I had learned sooner than you can only count on yourself.

[@cee060]

If Tamera ever sees this, I would like to encourage her to continue being herself. Her kindness and love for God and her family is so beautiful and inspiring. It’s the positivity we need to see. Such a beautiful character to have and we need more virtuous women like her who can be a good example of godly women 🙌🏾❤️ I’m sure that God is so proud of you

[@cjohnson7490]

To Tamara, thank you for putting my biggest question in life into words. I've always been bullied and talked about my entire life. The word of God has helped me to block the bullies' words of judgement and kept me fighting forward but the question always resonated in the back of my head. Thank you to the real for sharing this question. To Jeannie Mai, stay strong and remember that God never gives us more than we can handle. Keep on fishing girl! Much love to all of your beautiful spirits.

[@oluwatomikecomfort6510]

Me seeing Jeanie cry ..I'm so touched

[@francesmask78]

I was a Tamera girl growing up... tooo.. old soul.. kind person I would get picked on being different. I'll come home n ask God why he made me this way... maybe I'll try to being like the other kids to fit in.. but my mommy always said to embrace me. . N that she was proud of the person I've before. I'm made to help n that's y I have a big heart.n I still get she think she all that to this day..in the hood as I walk pass the fellows on the corner.. oh she think shes better but I never judged anyone either... I was always shy n was in my own bubble minding my own business .. playin safe... to myself.. I love Tamera n I'm sad shes leaving. Shes who I've always vibe with the most of the ladies. Thanku ladies for having this talk

[@lolarhodes3235]

I’m surprised Tamera is leaving tbh, I thought the show was good for her as it gave her something outside of her husband and kids. I hope whatever she’s doing gives her that same level of independence or just something she can enjoy for herself.

[@aprilbennett1209]

I am going to miss Tamera on the show! But I think her leaving the show is probably best for her. She is and was a very accomplished actress before the real and she is a very well put together woman and I feel that this show put her in some unnecessary drama. ESPECIALLY AFTER Tamar was fired people tried to make everything on the show into drama weather it be someone’s facial expression or if they have a disagreement then an explosion would happen and people would say so and so are feuding (when it’s just a disagreement). I wish Tamera the very best in the future.

[@FriendshipIsMagic1998]

I wouldn't call a Disney and Lifetime movie actress "accomplished" lol

[@janejustin1788]

i hope she will go back to acting esp TV shows

[@mykeiladumas6397]

I'll miss her too

[@sunnyside1419]

Accomplished actress? 😂

[@graceomole7863]

@@FriendshipIsMagic1998 maybe a sister sister reboot

[@angieohmerroche6952]

Jeannie, thank you so VERY much for sharing your realness with us. I am in the same boat as you, so I get it. I've always felt bad that I made the wrong decision. But, thank you sooo much Loni, for pointing it that it's not my fault that here was different or that hee changed. I/we trusted and the he's (in this case) are the ones who bailed, gave up, didn't work as they promised that they would to stay a team through it ALL. Thank you ladies for being real. You make me feel not so alone.

[@tamerilee]

Another great quote I heard was to pay attention to your intuition and trust it, if you keep ignoring it it’ll stop speaking to you

[@lisaosbourne-eden4576]

Adrienne I am so glad you were so open and transparent💓

[@ssrb9406]

Seeking professional help for sexual & mental abuse from my childhood so that I didn’t gravitate towards substance abuse.

[@karowzeytafash]

I pray that you find healing!--

[@CelleSleuths]

This absolutely helps ... im 27. Thank you jeannie. There is someone new in my life I've been making excuses for , bc I just got out of an abusive relationship in june.... i kept saying each thing wasn't that bad.... kept pushing some red flags under the rug bc like you said I kept saying "they're just going through something"... 🤦‍♀️ but seeing this I feel like I was supposed to rewatch this as a sign bc i literally have been going thru some stuff in my head and JUST posted that Maya Angelou quote on my snapchat story and then this video came in my queue .... i def am a firm.believer that nothing is coincidence and everything happens for a reason & you sharing this helped so much more than just me..but I feel like you may have saved me several years of wasting my time.

[@thailanddegraffenreid775]

I love all u ladies and how vulnerable y’all are! I miss y’all being on this show. ❤

[@andreina9469]

this by far might be my favorite 'girl chat vault,' ...hands down.

[@__M7_]

Tamera is sharing my testimony...oh, wait that's hers, but it sounds like mine...except, I was 15. A blessing to hear her share-does feel better when realize not the only one. Wish her story wasn't interrupted early on, would like to hear the rest. Glad it all worked out for you Tamera! Look at you and look at your lovely family! :)

[@jessicaadan6561]

I love this one! Going through a lot in my life.

[@daphnebailey6223]

wow Tamer’s like me. im 15 and gave my life to Christ when i was 8 yrs old n have always felt like i think so much older n feel like ppl my age never get me. it has made me feel like i couldn’t fit in 🥺 I she’s so incredible 😭

[@courtney5800]

I'm going to encourage you to keep doing God's work you never too young to be an example or set example for God's work in your life and do not let nobody encourage you or mislead you to give up I started serving God at a young age too and at the same age and me and my family we never miss a Sunday in church unless something was wrong with either one of our family members but keep doing God's work I am 23 years old and still doing my walk with Christ

[@MrAllysonn]

stand your ground and follow Christ with all, your heart!

[@sumayachannel6966]

N Your acting like our world is small. I mean there are many things we can’t see, and hear.

[@victoryjessey]

@N Do not put somebody down for what she believes in. If you don't believe in it go on with your life. If you think she's foolish for that let her be foolish. I don't see how it affects you.

[@victoryjessey]

Sweetheart, do not let your spirit waver, God bless you ❤

[@alexxachloe]

I’m going to miss Tamera so much! This show will not be the same without her💕I wish her the very best❤️

[@jesseking2475]

Your differences are going to stand out and one day those are the things that's going to be inspirational to people> Tamera

[@andrezavalaTV]

i love tamera, but as long as those other three are there im here for them. (keke would be good doe)

[@yodi7778]

i literally only watched the show mainly cause of tamera

[@Chronically.sarahdayton]

Rebecca Hope she just announced she’s leaving, guys. Check her IG

[@sen-cher]

@Rebecca Hope people said the same when Tamar left. All the girls have loyal fans and all the girls have haters. Considering how many fans dislike Tamera, there's a chance they'll be fine too. And this is coming from a fan of Tam

[@Shanibrook]

Love ain't enough, you deserve some much inviting someone in to your life, if your gut is telling you something follow it 💕

[@lifeisbeautiful9455]

I relocated to another state I feel you Adrienne,….all of you!

[@dscjmc6513]

I wish I believed in myself sooner. It’d have saved me so much heartache

[@longlivekingjames806]

I wish I'd known to follow my dream of being an actor instead of wasting 4 years of my life in the military smh

[@andrewangelucci8857]

Yea when I was growing up I wanted to be an actor too

[@gaila.9852]

Do you act now?

[@longlivekingjames806]

@@gaila.9852no i don't

[@taracorcoran8192]

Long Live King James That’s one of my biggest fears,that I will never be able to pursue my dream career which is acting and singing.

[@girkingrightnow]

@@taracorcoran8192 well then sing and act

[@Janeg4929]

The lady in red in the audience from 13:38 is me at the moment. I feel your pain

[@beth1188]

and look at her now , she is the happest she ever been with the love of her life and prego with a child she never thought she was gonna have. real true love changes things so happy for her

[@mimimiox]

Jeannie ist absolutely fantastic and inspiring!

[@fliskography9378]

I WISH FOR KNOWING MENTAL HEALTH AND MONEY MANAGEMENT! I could have prevented so much hurt, pain, abuse and i could have changed that. I could have invested my money better to thrive into the career i wanted. I did donate a lot of money but i do regret not cycling that back to me because now i can't work. I am awaiting S.S. and trying to figure out what the hell i'm suppose to do. I guess keep educating about autoimmune diseases and keep selling my art.

[@shamimkagere]

I'm like Tamera and people will pick on me that I think I am better than then when really I am just doing this for me and I am proud to have turned out to be who I am today! Thanks Tam

[@millymissc2685]

Amen 🙏 we should not give excuses to the red signs shouting at us in our heads! Coz those signs are always right. Amen to these strong women, hope we can all be as strong as you are! No excuses time to raise them and sort them or just keep on moving 💃💃💃 xx

[@TL-yc1nl]

Never know a person until theyre faced with what they want and who they have to betray or lie on to get it. Red flags...warnings from him and his own family. If you believe it...you believe it because you want to. Take responsibility for yourself. This is an old clip. If you believe it then believe it and move forward.

[@officialogantaylor]

Adrienne looks absolutely stunning right here

[@azhiaaquiel6444]

I'm really going to miss Tamera, please make a youtube channel just with you speaking to us. We love you

[@ranitagadling4312]

As a 41 yr old physically challenged woman the one thing that I know now that I wish I knew back then is that no man will ever consider you as girlfriend/ fiancee or wife material solely because of how God created you if I'd known that back then then I wouldn't have wasted so much of my & my friends time back in high school asking them to set me up on potential dates.

[@amykendall211]

Adriennss eyes are beautiful they are so sparkly and pretty I can't stop staring at them.xxxx

[@ashleyreece8564]

Jeannie was reaaally sad bcz tears came out her eyes..... usually its an honest dry cry even tho shes sad she wud hold back tears. But she cudnt this time.

[@krissentiacharlery8154]

Wow… watching this now after just watching the episode where Tamar told Ade to “say yes now and think about it later”… when I saw this live, I didn’t know which girlfriend told her that and now I do.

[@Lcastillo1800]

this video helped a lot One thing I learned takes a situation to reveal someone’s character and true personality

[@Abi-rk5ce]

Tamera and I are kindred spirits. I watched TWITCHES the other day to see her. Same genuine person she is today as she was then. I will miss her very much. God bless you on your new path Tamera.❤

[@Zahraegeh]

This is what I love about The Real. I’m really going miss Tamera on the show.

[@adrianarnold1239]

Jenny crying over a man that show her who he was. She divorced him. Now she's married and got a baby Monaco Monaco Monaco..... Adrienne crying over a ring that she gave back because she called off her engagement. Smart girl and now Adrienne is married and has a beautiful baby and all is well in the land of the Real🎉🎉🎉

[@lifeisbeautiful9455]

Just like Tam…I made different choices and I’m just me and I grew up in the most horrid conditions but people always picked on me, and everything and said mean things just because I had the strength to be myself.

[@francesmask78]

Yes jeanie... sometimes u found urself when u get lost..... 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@ManiB_4]

I love you guys you guys are so great

[@qicle]

No more Tamera omg... I wonder if they're gonna go for Keke Palmer since her ensemble show was cancelled.

[@ashtonv1730]

Keke would be amazing!

[@TheSunshinefee]

i hope not, she is too young for this audience

[@glostzom]

You Tried It! I agree with you, I’m only 25. And have been watching the show since season 1 (not the test season) but I do agree that getting a younger mind will be fun. They could learn from each other maybe keke would be able to share with the others what a younger person is feeling with everything going on.

[@Samirahsworld1]

I feel like Keke jokes too much , we already have Loni who’s the comedian at the table we don’t need another one

[@shantell4847]

Keke already have a show

[@LiahB]

Now she’s happy with Jeezy ❤️❤️❤️

[@lisaosbourne-eden4576]

Tamara you are a beautiful person and so well spoken And transparent

[@maryjohnson9285]

Jeannie you are a wonderful person. If I knew now what I knew then I was smart enough to walk away

[@svideos5754]

Financial literacy for me

[@cecej88]

Ahhh now with Jeannie second marriage gone after two years and a baby,😭 worser now for her to be left with a baby.😭 oh jeannie😢

[@nthandambewe-mbao8939]

The Real really felt like a sisterhood I miss the girl chat segments

[@muhammadanwar1698]

I wish I leanrt sooner that there are some people with hidden intentions but I was too naive to see that

[@theom1442]

I feel Tam Tam I can relate to her♥️🙏. Devoted Christians we get judged alot ..as if it's a crime to do what feels right to you😭🙏

[@Kadericka]

I’ve been avoiding this video for the longest because i knew that it would make me emotional... I’ve finally brought myself to watch it and I’m so happy because i actually didn’t get emotional😩🤍! #growth

[@Kimmbxly]

Same here i watched it around 5 times and cried with them every time

[@peresampson]

I love this topic...thanks guys

[@lyndakhisa9184]

Jeannie just wedded Jeezy!!!!!!!!!!

[@Michelle-xi9ju]

Now she’s married and had a baby. Love you Jeannie you have a pure beautiful heart

[@cecej88]

😭now divorced and a baby😢...very sad. But she'll bounce back!

[@axxib5985]

Tamera left, a queen. The show is going down y’all-

[@mealenka]

I have been married to man for 10 years, we have 2 boys, we are from different countries and we met in a country that wasn't his or mine, we got married there, then we had our first son, i moved to my country to give birth(in Europe), so i have support of my parents with the baby, then he said he'd move to us, he'd find a job there, and we'd be together but since then we basically been living apart, we moved back together briefly for 9 months in his country, but then there was civil unrest, riots, lots of crime in the middle of the day(thats in Africa ) and i got pregnant with the second child and felt it was unsafe anymore for my children and i didn't want them to grow up with fear for their life and didnt want them to think it was a normal life. So now, I'm back in my country, he is now working in another country in Africa ,we haven't seen each other for over a year, we barely communicate because of his working hours and mine. I have a 6 year old and a 2 year old, and i work, and he is there. We have drifted apart and the only thing that is keeping me married to him is that i say its just unfortunate circumstances, its not that we weren't food together, but he cant find a job here and doesn't want to learn the language and doesn't want to change his sphere of work, and cant make us a good and safe life there where he is, and also i stay in this because of kids, they need him, the father. But if we put together all the time he's actually been here for them its like 2 years out of 6... I am scared to break things of because of kids. But also he keeps saying “i will find a job in a better country and we will be together ...” but how many more year should i spend waiting? Im 34 and miserable And unhappy here and all he can say to it is “sorry but it is what it is” And then hit me with a quote from bible... Love is patient love bares all things dotgives all things ... Right ...

[@devonferguson3065]

It's going to be okay jeannie

[@OneLoveRSR]

The "It's been 10 years" part made me have to stop. That pain was too raw for me to handle. Like this felt like a private Girl Chat that I shouldn't have been listening to as entertainment. I'm just glad she's in a better place in life.

[@kamalabouchaaban]

I just realized the person who gave Adrienne that advice was Tamar. She said it on the show.

[@Saffire1990]

Do you have a link to the video?

[@kamalabouchaaban]

@@Saffire1990 kzbin.info/www/bejne/b6SZiIB8nLijgc0

[@ItsKendraBitches]

the minute she said it, i was like wow, that was so natural. "i had a girlfriend at the time" she didn't even think about how to not say her name

[@eeb9177]

I wish I'd known to save my money sooner and to never lend anyone my money that led to myself failing my own dreams and only letting myself down.

[@Maria_M2010]

and look how happy she is now, this aged well

[@cecej88]

No it aged badly... for Jeanie now....Jeezy divorced her and left her single mama 😭 gosh only two years marriage he quit😳

[@sophiawishes3208]

If Tamera leaves, I’m not watching. I’m sorry I love the ladies but Tamera MADE THE SHOW WHAT IT IS TODAY!

[@gaila.9852]

What do you mean "if" Tamera leaves? She already left.

[@jessicas177]

Adri: I’m upset so I’m going to Paris 😂😂😂 my wallet said I can go to my local Walmart at most lmao

[@kimberlina7234]

I love Jeannie so much 🥺

[@courtney5800]

Let no person waste your time in relationships

[@courtney5800]

I been there too but thank God for giving me the strength to get through that tough time in my past

[@Sorekneecap]

I can’t express how important this is. I spent almost a decade not realizing this.

[@Toreyjae14]

Tam is me and I am she … Accepting Christ at a young age and being picked on for that !!! Still today being persecuted for having Christ the head of my life and living according to his Holy Word .I’m so glad she did not change herself and I’m glad that I didn’t either. The devil is a liar and he will never have me doubt what Christ created because I am fearfully and wonderfully made.

[@drtwitch6409]

I also wish I knew if I made more of an effort. I could’ve accomplished certain things.

[@lisaosbourne-eden4576]

Very nice opening up jeannie

[@mariad4183]

'The unexamined life is not worth living' ...examine your life (and fruit) people

[@mysilverscreendiary]

Wow I relate to Tamera so much!🥲

[@Lovel665.]

I love Jeannie she so real

[@drtwitch6409]

I had a mole on the center right of my forehead. I wish I would’ve owned my face back then instead of doing home remedies to get rid of it. I feel so strongly about it now. That whenever I decide to have a relationship with someone I’ll show them a pic of it to see if they would still like me with it. And if they don’t want to be with me because of that then I’m fine with that.

[@lilyli891]

Form me its that the world will not treat you better just because you are a good person! Its a sad and harsh truth 😢

[@vperkin69]

Now that Tamara is leaving also this show is going to hell in a hand basket

[@athnibisri2038]

Loni is a cool friend men

[@arishmasingh7963]

Jeannie!!!!!! #YouDaBest

[@maryware3915]

I love Adrienne and agree with her alot but i I gotta say rude or not sometimes when your hurt because the person you love doesn't want to be with you anymore, you will most definitely say & do things that are out character for you & hurtful things out of pain because the person they love has decided to dump them and tell them they no longer want to be with them sometimes all you can do feel hurt & helpless & that can cause people to lash out...not saying it justifies how some act just saying how I feel .

[@jayyysworld9242]

Jeannie it’s ok I love u ❤️❤️❤️