FULL GIRL CHAT: February 26, 2020

We share what we would say to our younger selves

[@tamerilee]

Everyone needs someone like Jeannie, she brings light wherever she goes 🤍🤍🤍

[@rakiyaabdi9111]

Jenneie has an emotional effect on me, that's how much of a beautiful human she is. She made me teary

[@shaunacampbell8715]

I love adrienne's look...less looks better on her.

[@gaila.9852]

The word Amanda used was verklempt. It means overcome with emotion.

[@MichelleRom]

Thank you! I kept rewinding like “what did she say? Lol.

[@jessycaone4276]

Lol in german it's the total opposite

[@gaila.9852]

@@jessycaone4276 Language is so interesting.

[@iacobus4227]

Linda Richman (Mike Myers) taught me that word.

[@gudrunmoe]

Hearing Tamera saying that about being beat down by critics is just hartbreaking. I remember that confident girl, and honestly fifteen year old me was so jealous of that confidence because I didn't have it. To think that it was taken away from you, Tamera, makes me feel so sad for us both. I really hope that the girls growing up now will benefit from all this me too times up wokness.

[@mspalmer5781]

I'm about to be 43 yrs old , and i have to remind myself I'm an adult. I need to speak up and speak out. I'm a grown as woman damn it! That's what happens when you keep telling your child to shut up all the time. I'm working on being productively assertive, without losing control, being self conscious and insecure.

[@tagaway6173]

Exactly.... It could be about anything in life and I still need to remind myself to speak up because in some areas I still haven't evolve yet. For example, my mom took me to the beauty salon after I was 14 and she always told them what to do and left, them came back to pick me up. As an adult I don't go much to a beuty salon and most of the time I let them do what they think is good because besides them being the professionals, I didn't have a voice. Listening to other women tell me on.. let's say a Wednesday; "On Saturday in going to the salon and I'm going to cut my ends, do a color but this time I don't want to do a roller set and tell them to just blowdry me and flat iron it" I'm thinking to myself "you get to order them? I like my eyebrows thick, how do I communicate that?" Or going to the bank 🏦 "Can I have 600$ in hundreds bills?" "Oh I only have one, the rest will be in 20s." "If I wanted 20s I would use the atm. 🏧 I know there's hundreds in the back. If you want, you can take the next customers and I'll sit over there and when u have the opportunity to go to the back then u do my request. I'm not in a rush" Also Is hard to speak up without sounding rude, And since English is not my first language, I need time to think my responses. Most times I drive away crying cuz I didn't speak up and I play all the scenarios of what I could have said.

[@tamerilee]

I’m glad that Tamera said it was an “agreement” with negative criticisms because it truly is a choice to believe them which also means we can disagree with them and keep on going 👏🏿👏🏿

[@cwchris_]

This girl chat really opened me up. I always told myself the things I’d do when I finally lost weight. I did it and I’m still self conscious. I need to start living through my younger selfs eyes.

[@Joycelyn]

Journaling is so therapeutic!

[@alexandrean6657]

What do you write about?

[@msa.4499]

for real, my journal app is my best friend 😂

[@tomcruisemiddleteeth]

it's so true. i never think about 15 year old me who was scared and insecure and never told nice things. and as a woman now who is headstrong, ambitious, and (trying my best to be) generous. i think i'd tell my child self that she is strong, kind, and brilliant and if someone just told ME those 3 things! my god i would have saved the world by now. so important to hype kids up (within reason).

[@zinokato9397]

I love that I get to learn from the ladies on a few topics. The will conversation was very interesting & informative

[@checkitout3948]

They finna put the date after we rallied them to do it lmao

[@tomcruisemiddleteeth]

LMAOOO HONESTLY

[@gaila.9852]

Seriously! We've been asking for so long.

[@tamerilee]

The Will conversation was responsible to have on your platform!!!! It’s almost guaranteed drama and family wrath if there’s no will in place, you don’t want that for your fam or for your legacy! And as we can see, growing old is a LUXURY!! So many young people are losing their lives every single day. I’m 22 and plan to get life insurance when I start working again

[@Msshashad]

Jeannie in this video ❤❤❤

[@gaila.9852]

Loni was preaching about generational wealth!

[@saradigota7201]

This episode totally needs more likes!!!!!!! I loved how they talked about continuing the life of this Girl/Lady Team and still heading to healing that girl in us and make her better in any kind of way!!! I looovveee this team of sincere, cozy, fun, and uplifting each other of girls (becoming ladies now)!!!!!!♡♡♡♡♡♡!!!!♡♡♡♡♡♡!!!!!

[@michellegarcia7543]

EVERYONE'S HAIR LOOKS SOOOO FREAKING GOOD!!!!!1

[@MJ-vb7un]

Maybe Adrienne should start talking to her younger self.. because she’s definitely got some views about men that are a bit odd

[@cynthiaolmos12]

I'm with Jeannie. My mom always having discussions with my siblings about what happens when she's gone.

[@Moomoo0013]

Wow this is one of their best girl chats, especially that segment on thinking about your younger self 💖

[@SSBMA1994]

Loni "did you leave me anything?" Tamera "no.." Adrienne "see, now its gonna create a problem. Why did you have to tell her, you shouldn't tell her anything." 🤣🤣💀

[@tamerilee]

I don’t think it’s a bad thing to answer to your younger self. It’s healthier than the alternative, like keeping up w the joneses or comparing yourself to others. You are your only competition 🙏🏿

[@nadiakamutati9529]

You are right ... I journal and it's the same life but with more wisdom and advanced reaction to things I'm 29 and wiser ...Thanks Lani

[@anna98_ck]

I love what Tam said about your younger self

[@shamimkagere]

All these women look so beautiful! Truly beautiful!!!

[@sheritzy]

I love Adriennes confidence, and how she celebrates her achievements, something women do not do enough of !!

[@meekaeelbooley]

This reminds me of the episode with TayTay what would you tell your younger self? did amanda show feelings ? everyone needs a Jeanine because she truly is amazing and she cares for everyone I wish some people were more caring like her especially now during this pandemic.

[@kimpatterson1318]

I never really thought about the little girl inside, but when I think about her, all I see is literally flashbacks of all the molestation and physical abuse that I went through. I'm 22 and obviously there is some things I need to address inside me.

[@ollyokoye2258]

I'm so sorry

[@peaceness888]

I can relate to Tamera - I used to believe that the sky is the limit, but as I have grown, I have become both more timid and more realistic.

[@queeneli1191]

5:43 *adds sad violin music* Now it is really emotional to listen to..

[@janessaganuelas4323]

I’m 25 years old, I don’t really talk to my younger self, but I do think about that shy, insecure, scared little girl who was always bullied and put down, so she was scared to take risks. But today, I start conversations more, defend myself, and I do take risks for myself and my daughter.

[@ereneyer470]

I hope you always stay ambitious and never feel the way same you did in the past whilst also forgiving your past self🥺

[@janessaganuelas4323]

Dbs vnrt Thank you so much! I’m doing a lot better now. 😄 I even decided to go back to college and pursue my associate’s degree in Business Administration.

[@sunkissgirl818]

1:30 jeannie was so concerned for Amanda 💜

[@MajesticMyronn]

I think the selfishness that’s involved when wills are written... people feel so entitled to have... because “ I think I deserve it more than you “ obviously the one who wrote the will before they passed can agree or disagree depending on if they wrote what you can have... I think the drama ruins the love and bonds family have... because money is a monster... whether rich or poor... don’t let it get to you... you not about to let something that was written down once change your life in two seconds just because you don’t have something designated to you

[@micahaunderwood6983]

Loved this. Wish I could sit at the table

[@AlwaysSpiritGuided]

, I have to ask myself that more often ! “ am I verklempt right now ? “

[@loveableXessss]

This got deep ♥️

[@j4de934]

the dates are great to have now because before no one knew when it was filmed unless there was something big and we all knew when it happened, point is it’s taking away the views so maybe take that extra step and put the dates in the description and make titles again, if you put somethings like “GIRL CHAT VAULT: What would YOU say to your younger self” and you’d get at least 100k views rather than 40k, just a tip love this show and wouldn’t want to see it get cancelled over bad marketing (: ❤️

[@MajesticMyronn]

I think the one thing we should do is always make sure to have that inner child within us at all times... I think what the climate were in , we all take ourselves too seriously and end up saying crazy things and doing crazy things to each other... instead of trying to be so hard and stone cold...just sit back , chillax ! Enjoy life and not be so stuck up regarding every little thing...explore , live , love , and learn

[@_KINGACH_]

I love the relationship between Jeannie and Amanda ❤

[@ManiB_4]

I love girl chat so much it's so great #girlchat

[@boitumelomagwaza7380]

i thought Amanda was going to say "Jeannie Mai, won't lie" lol

[@kennyray4458]

Man I really miss Tamara and Amanda from this Topic Table.........I have so much respect for Tamara for knowing Her Self Worth

[@joy844]

I’m waiting on Jeannie’s book ❤️

[@Tracy_sarpei]

Jeannie Mai wills😂..love this episode ♥️

[@shamimkagere]

I am exactly like Tamera, she has described me

[@beedee7405]

My grandparents always talk about it and plan for it I come from Hispanic backgrounds The worst thing facility could do is not leave a will because it creates more issues between family

[@gaila.9852]

Does anyone else not find it creepy to think about death?

[@ereneyer470]

Yeah me lol

[@imakecakes10]

Have you ever written to your 17 year old self? - you'd be amazed at what you'd tell her x

[@hannahwootton6491]

My grandad has a box with everything we need to know with his will and what and where he wants his funeral its pretty morbid to me but i get it and it stops in fighting in the family

[@nenonxo1951]

Love Amanda seales 🥰🥰🥰😍😍🙌🙌

[@meekaeelbooley]

Ooh I just want someone to throw my phone and my charger in my grave and everyone else can figure the rest out because im gone.

[@quailbanks4483]

Hilarious😎

[@misshglady4lyfe]

It's not that people are afraid of writing a Will it's that 40percent of people in America don't have nothing..nothing to leave behind. We poor dammit

[@ALINAA]

Wow a therapist that tells you what to do is a pretty bad therapist

[@214InnocentGirl20]

Y’all still posting old ass videos

[@MajesticMyronn]

erica simone they’re airing these videos based on the reruns that air during the day... chill.. they’re only doing this cuz they’re on hiatus

[@mspalmer5781]

Yup

[@mussyhassan1402]

First❤️

[@charlieaveryjr1763]

I LL Be Looking For You Ms Mama Dee NO Trouble Now Ms Lady ok.

[@shadowthecute]

10 more views for 1k views

[@treyvonboyd1260]

Hey 👋

[@Emilia-eq5nn]

I lurrveee Tamera but I rly am not feeling her shirt. I don’t think it compliments her no offense

[@ayaan8877]

Laughs in islam. We have wills all in order already

[@tls_nlechoppa786]

Idk why but I'm not feeling Amanda's whole vibe. Uugghh🙄🤔 idk what it is.im sure she likable

[@user-pq2nv7lt8n]

she was cute and vulnerable in this episode

[@harvinderkhaneja1914]

Am Sorry Not Like Lonnei Looni Out