Advice to Young Men in Their 20s

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[@lg2different]

I see women that act like dudes git females like it’s nothing 😡 an I’m not a ugly dude I go to gym I do cool money wise I got my own place I got decent credit smh this is dum

[@arjhanesfahani8952]

PREACH HAFEEZ I REALLY NEEDED THIS!!

[@neilray2599]

I am in the same boat but some what different at the age of 28. Man life been so crappy beyond belief 😪 I hate my 20s bro. My plate is way overflowing. It's like I am raising two kids (my parents). On top of that not having any girl want me. Money is not there, I don't have my own place. Life is been hell and trash. I barely see a light at the end of the tunnel Hafeez. I see some light cuz of my therapist. Thanks to Kevin Samuels I even went to one after 8 years of dealing with mental health problems. Life is just beyond crappy. It's much more negatives than positives bro. But the therapy definitely helps and that's one of the key steps like Kevin the God father says. But ok bro I will listen to you and go with your advice. U been in the same shoes so I know ur not lying. Ur living proof of making it out of that part of life and becoming successful. I can't tell you how much I needed this bro. I really appreciate you bro, love u from the bottom of my heart. I am honesty crying and shaking writing this bro. 😢 it's hard to hold back emotions cuz finally I ran across someone who went through what I am going through since being 20 and who I look up to. I will play this video everytime I am down and in doubt and not happy. Thanks for the advise bro. It's really refreshing to hear this. From now on I will change my mindset. I never though of it that way even though I love God ask for his guidance, help, love, and forgiveness. U making me think know. 🤔. So this is where I am put by God ok gotcha bro I will start embracing it and enjoying it while continuing to improve myself everyday. Much love bro and may God bless you 🙏 ❤.

[@arjhanesfahani8952]

@@neilray2599 Hey man god bless you and your life man if you are looking for an accountability partner or just someone to talk to man i am currently 22 years of age. However accountability is accountability man keep your head up as Tupac would say man!! Definitely hit me up on Patreon man if you are on the platform.. God bless you brother take care of yourself and your loved ones!!!👍👍👍

[@neilray2599]

@@arjhanesfahani8952 thanks bro I appreciate you 🙏. God bless you and your life too bro. I will keep my head up like Tupac says! I will bro means alot bro. I am not on patreon for this channel but I will join now. Means alot that you reached out bro 🙏. God bless your soul. I will see u on patreon soon.

[@SafeTopps]

The frustrating thing about being a young man is no one really gives you a chance. You have to put in the work, ,and eventually profit from the results.

[@jashonbass8350]

I’m not exactly sure in what context you mean this but when it comes to money, get your foot in the door by taking the risk away from the person you want to give you an opportunity and show them that you can get great results and you’ll have no problem. The reality is that however old you are, there are younger men doing what you want to do. Don’t accept these stories you’re telling yourself (“because I’m young I can’t do XYZ”), you can. Take extreme ownership over the outcomes in your life and go do what you need to do to get what you want in life

[@SafeTopps]

@@jashonbass8350 Hm, gotcha.

[@truequotetheartist]

This is FACTS.

[@CHOPPASTRINGS]

@@jashonbass8350 facts bro

[@Northsmen]

You’re just as useless as a 35+ year old woman

[@refineme]

I agree with this advice. Stop worrying about what others are doing. I loved my 20s and I’m turning 40. Do what makes you happy, work hard, build yourself up, get and grow skills, have fun, be kind and generous, love your family, and all good things will come. I stayed single and it was a great decision and waited for my 30s to settle down. 19 - moved out and never moved back home 23 - graduated college, got my first Corp job making 47k 25 - promoted, 75k 28 - bought a 5br/3ba house and lived alone. Had a new truck and car. 29 - promoted, 100k. I renovated my house all on my own Looking back it was a lot of fun, being not married and tied down. It allowed me to grow the way I needed to before getting married and being a dad. The whole time I never tried to do what others were doing. Or rushing to find a wife. I did what made sense to me and made me happy. I still do what makes me happy, but I put my wife and kids first. And it’s nice that I’ve grown so much and have good earning where I can comfortably do that.

[@GodesXsports99]

What did u major in?

[@refineme]

@@GodesXsports99 Biochemistry, but most of my job skills are actually learned through experience and on the job. But I would have to say the most useful life skills I picked up was living and owning a home by myself in my 20s. Financial literacy, auto repair like changing a timing belt ore brake jobs, plumbing like replacing a water heater or replacing a grommet in a dishwasher, laying tile or hardwood floors, small engine repair… I’ve save so much money knowing how to do maintenance and diy repairs.

[@kaso1325]

@@refineme Where u learn how to repair things?

[@ImFredoJr]

Congrats! I’m turning 20 in February.

[@v9swhap160]

@ka so youtube g we really got the cheat code

[@DejiDigital]

"Don't compare yourself to who you see people being today, because you don't know who they were yesterday and you don't know what they'll be tomorrow" - Jordan B. Peterson

[@WhoTfIzKTManee]

💯

[@TheModernSamurai]

The superpower we have in our 20s is that nobody will fault you for driving a used car or living with your parents. Use this to your advantage. Resist the temptation to impress others!

[@flyingknee23]

I mean... y'all better take advantage of it.

[@ErnieF10]

Thanks

[@Osigah]

I feel the same way. When I was 21 I was down feeling bad for myself in my parents house, broke unaccomplished etc. 5 years later Im in my own home with a great business and purpose in life. I just made my first million last week!

[@benaugustt6862]

Any advice to a 16 yr old ?

[@BoomProductionsonthebeat]

@@benaugustt6862 keep going and don't stop for anyone or anything young nigga 💯

[@malexakoh5301]

I'm 22 any advice for me

[@DoyinVoice]

Congratulations 🎉

[@hakimyohannes5122]

Cool story bro

[@theforesightseen1769]

Life is a difficult exam. Many fail because they want to copy others... not realizing that everyone has different exam questions.

[@_teezy]

Not even lying . I’m 22 and this hit me hard.. I needed to hear this even if it was just for confirmation 💯

[@MamboSinclaire]

Same.. it’s 12:43am here, 22.. felt like this for a sec, glad I came.. sometimes you forget simple things like “do not compare yourself to anyone” when you’re so “caught up” in your “problems”.. enjoy life.. you can work as hard as you want, eat as healthy as you want, but everyone has a due date. Who’s to say you’ll live till you’re 60? Live a life worth living. Enjoy the simple things

[@livelikesong]

I’m glad y’all realize, peace be with you 🍃

[@davidaguirre9125]

U got 🕙 bro keep ur head up :)👍🙏

[@SuperTillys]

The best advice we should all give to men regardless of age is to simply move forward and never look back!

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

And don't live your life base off of fear

[@kxo1038]

“Deal with it”

[@blacklyfe5543]

Facts but not all the time

[@aleksandra7508]

Thank you for this message. It really uplifted me . I'm 22 and I can't stop comparing myself to my friends. All of them are in long-term relationships, are at college or have a decent jobs. It feels like there is nothing going on for me Edit: Thank you for all the comments and likes ♥️ I wasn't expecting anyone to see this

[@ashleeskhan]

Same girl.

[@jonathanromero-zn4xc]

I’m turning 22 next month and feel the same, so behind in life yet a senior in college and now double thinking/doubting my major (urban education)

[@youssefjawhari1441]

Just Marry a High Value Man Because You Are In You Prime Be feminine work in Any Job It doesn't matter as Long As You are in your twenties you're gonna find the right man don't lose hope

[@aleksandra7508]

@@youssefjawhari1441 It is easier to say than done. How am I supposed to find a high value man ? I don't drink and I don't go to the clubs. I also don't use dating apps ..

[@youssefjawhari1441]

@@aleksandra7508 i Respected you even more when you said that's You Are an angel Just Take care of your look's and body and add Value to a man who deserve like cooking and help him in his life and i promise you will change your life and have kids around you just go out a little bit and explore

[@jasminealexia]

Hafees! 😭 I’m so happy for you! You’re a real one for making this.. I remember when I was still living with my folks at 27 feeling like a scrub and my mentor/boss told me to take my time and don’t be in a rush to take on all these unnecessary bills just to be by myself. I had just bought myself a car and felt so behind in life but it’s really all a lie-the timeline of society! It will have you thinking you don’t measure up but greatness is already within you! You’re already successful! It’s a God-speed thing!

[@brianthornton8781]

Love this 🔥👌

[@Foerahrah82777]

Yes ma’am definitely right about that not in the rush for nothing patient and taking your time is always the best

[@jvmvrrashad]

Turned 29 back in June… last summer is when I moved out my parents house and literally you said everything that I was saying to myself then and now. This really hit me hard. I really needed to hear this. Thank you my brother🙏🏾 ✊🏾

[@Martindhoang]

Been following this channel for a long time. This is one of the best episode. Thanks for sharing your story Hafeez

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

You're welcome

[@limuelmunoz8865]

i can't thank you enough, podcast really is an eyeopener for a 25 year-old man like me, who's still in search for life purpose

[@theophilusopoku497]

You will be fine dude😊 trust the process

[@ccgg5124]

Takes a real man to admit these things. You deserve the success you’re getting brother all the best in the future

[@dxwxt]

God Bless You Guys !!

[@dayinthegrind688]

I'm 19 with this midset. Really needed to heat this!

[@ernestotoscano6916]

I needed to hear this. Im 20 right now lowkey depressed and frustrated with all these questions realizing that I’m just comparing myself to other successful people my age. God has a journey and a purpose for me. I just need to be in the present and focus on myself. I’ll check back on this vid in the future✌🏼 peace&love to anyone that reads this!

[@Anonymous-zu8qt]

@Ernesto toscano hey man how did it go? You said you’ll check back on us!

[@nuttybangerz]

Been a year brother, hope all is well!

[@brianthornton8781]

Hafeez I just want to say that I am a 26 year old man and this was much appreciated. I feel like most of the pressure from society is always on the man for the most part. I always feel like I need to grind harder and work and work because “I’m not where I need to be” but you just made me realize that I have to enjoy the journey. Life is a marathon not a sprint. Thank you brother for opening my eyes and changing so many lives.

[@TheLazyMom]

although your channel is geared towards creating better men, watching a lot of your videos makes me want to become a better woman

[@hoodrichfem2wavyy294]

That’s Wassup Shawty🤛🏾, keep Grinding & remember just work smarter not harder🎯Also get Mor Spiritual for Yourself❣️

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

Amen!! Love to hear this

[@jamaldee2355]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@mullena98]

Agreed 100% !! 😌

[@emilyyreyess]

this right here 🙌🏻

[@mohammedhussain8138]

I don’t comment on videos but your timing on this one is something else. Keep at it man

[@youngkingdj1932]

I needed this video desperately. I Just graduated college this past spring thinking that I would be on verge of being a professional athlete, to me now not sure of what I wanna do since being a athlete didn’t work the way I wanted it to. I came back home to little to no friends and I was instantly depressed cause I believed that I was a failure. I am now realizing that I compare my life to others too often. People I knew in high school who are in (NFL, big time Job, married etc.) I know God is by my side. I needed this video 🙏🏽

[@findmysoulgarden914]

Keeping up with Jones' mindset. The grass is always greener on the other side until you realize that it is not! Focus on being your best self. Remember when the game is over all the game pieces go back in the same box, but it is how you played the game that will determine where you will go after your journey here on earth.✌️

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

Great Advice Shelley

[@tamiressoares9303]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@findmysoulgarden914]

@@TheRoommatesPodcast Thank you. I have to remind myself daily of this because it is sooo easy to take the bait!!! Been there!!! Have a super day!! A study, if you are interested, - When the game is over..by John Ortberg. It is on KZbin.😁😁

[@sazahmed4225]

thank you, Hafez! I really needed that. I just moved out of my parents at 24 almost going 25 and within 3 months of living independent, I've been feeling horrible, constantly comparing myself.

[@eastsidehustle7622]

Still even after moving out ? (A big achievement)

[@theaccountable]

Coming up on 4 years being in LA, and I've been having moments of feeling like maybe I need to go back to the east coast especially as of lately. I know my purpose I know what my god mission is but the loneliness of this journey of self growth can be overbearing at times especially when you live in a place like LA that is so based on comparison and masks. I can say genuine authentic relationships is what I truly desire but I also know that to find those people YOU HAVE to stay on this journey you have to keep pushing because even though it'll be hard and lonely you'll make it through and that tribe will come!

[@traevon.m.]

I am 24 years old and and I really needed to see this. I am always working on myself and my goals but I because of comparison and I don’t want to waste my twenties and I felt like I wasn’t where I thought I should be. God definitely needed me to see this video. Thank you so so much for this. 💯🙏🏾😪

[@DeadshotGunner]

It’s tough having love for a girl when I’m trying to focus on my self. I know theirs things I want to accomplish and the balance of trying to achieve my goals and emotionally investing in this special person is such a battle mentally. I just started a new a career job, I’ve been investing pretty well and working out. Idk what to do with her but I have love for her.

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

The right one will come

[@anabolicchicken4115]

bro same lol. I'm doing good but those strong emotions just take you out of everything. Forward, always.

[@ThatGuy-mf9ye]

I struggle sometimes with a general negativity despite the fact that, like you said, my life is objectively good and I've been blessed with more than I realize. Hearing somebody like you speak with so much passion and gratitutde for what you have been given really brings me back.

[@livixdrawsframes]

I'm in my late 20's and even I needed to hear this! Thank you Hafeez! God bless! :D :D And another thing! You are NOT any less of a human being if you don't have the wealth, fame and status of someone else!

[@mcc5295]

hafeez please do more & longer videos at night with this city view background . its awesome and makes me enjoy the video even more , i like the vibes

[@MarcRose96]

Thank you man! I’m about to turn 26 and I am still living with my parents. I’m working two jobs 7 days a week, saving and building my wealth while slowly paying off my student debt. This was a pick me up!

[@drof1462]

turning 20 this week so perfect timing

[@SnoozeTheRecluse]

Happy Birthday, brother

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

Happy Birthday!!!

[@drof1462]

@@TheRoommatesPodcast thanks, guys!

[@drof1462]

@@SnoozeTheRecluse thanks, king

[@SaynTrades]

I was about to say bro bro as. 29 year old African American man and parents still supported…. Wow bro you were blessed. As we all are in ways! Absolutely amazing video new sub

[@christianchestnut1598]

I needed this, I have an overachieving mindset and it’s been detrimental. I just turned 20 but feel like I’ve failed, I constantly think about moving out of my parents section 8 home and starting over and getting away from the toxicity but that’s all they are, thoughts. I keep on thinking and forget to be in the moment and really count my blessings

[@Mr.PercocetP]

Dude I cannot explain to you how much I needed to hear this! 💯 I’m currently 20 on the verge of 21 in a couple of months And I’m about to get into trade school as an electrician and just leveling up isn’t easy, a very lonely path indeed but I see light at the end of the tunnel and Yah has me💯. Blessings to everyone feeling like they aren’t good enough or happy be you

[@lifesjustfine]

Thank you Hafeez. Im in my early 20s and feeling extremely behind my peers. Constantly worrying. I just found Christ and a lot of that worry is melting away and I’m beginning to transform. Your message really resonated with me. Needed that.

[@bruce7244]

I need to relax and be grateful more

[@tristanrollins417]

“Comparison is the thief of joy”. Best thing I’ve heard in a while

[@josh-cb4ng]

crazy I turned 20 last month and been pursuing something for about a year and im still not were I felt I should be.Legit cried like 3 hours ago and this comes up.

[@flyingknee23]

Bro, you're 20

[@duobv7597]

Keep going man, I'll turn 20 in a minth.. I'm getting ready

[@gabrielnewberry3329]

I really needed to hear this! I recently graduated college and I’m trying to figure out the hardest question: “what is my purpose in life?” I continuously ask myself this and never fail to get fearful that I’ll make the wrong decisions and harbor regret for missed opportunities. Sufficed to say, I haven’t really come up with an answer yet, but there have always been times where I compare my choices in life to other people and wonder if I’m doing the right thing. This is very toxic and dangerous, because this mindset either made me depressed or urged me to beat myself up and self-isolate. The reality is you never know what the other person’s life is like, and you close yourself off to the possibilities and new ideas that only you can bring to this world… I hate ranting so I’ll stop here, but either way thanks again for the video. This is great advice!

[@Darkghost-y9w]

Thank u brother for this message, I needed to hear this

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

Now Go Thrive

[@_Swill_]

This was all for me! Mad love from Nigeria! 🇳🇬

[@israelh.2259]

I’m 24 and been thru so much. I thank you for this video because i never stopped and soaked in what i have now. A mother that would give the world, a roof over my head, a bed that i can come back home to, a little savings account, a car that can get me from a to b with no issues. Comparing is the most toxic thing to do to your mental. Social media is a big influence in it as well. I thank you for this video and I’m happy i came across by it because I’ve been so worried and comparing myself to others that i haven’t stopped and soak in what i have now and the blessings i have now. Great video brutha. Thanks again!

[@harlanwilkinson3142]

As a 29 year old, I needed this.

[@jamaldee2355]

Good luck out there 💯

[@activelifeg5237]

Good luck

[@marcus4646]

16 years old here. Though this video wouldn't apply to me because I'm not in my 20s yet, I think the piece of advice you shared in this video will still help and benefit me for my future. The earlier the better.

[@antonelimgenco5716]

Same my 17 here it is better to start early👍

[@dennisbergkamp640]

same good to start early

[@Eric.D.]

Thanks man , I am about to turn 20 and this is the best message I could ask for , literally a game changer. Thanks for the early birthday gift, I am grateful 🙏

[@dontatme3844]

I’m literally in the same spot you were when you were 29 bro except I’m 23. I’ve failed almost every endeavour I’ve set out upon but I’m not giving up (although many times I want to). I’m starting therapy soon which I’m hoping will help. I’m desperate to find my calling and discover what Gods plans for my life are. I’m also dealing with heartache from a women, similar situation to yours. I just want to be happy and find my purpose.

[@thepeacemakerangel1239]

I’m the same age as you. In the same position. Was smart academically but didn’t go that route. Not sure what life holds for me.

[@PwnSomeNoobs32]

Same her lads, 24. Gotta KeepGoing. Gotta push thru… not wish to ✊🏾💯

[@nahomaberra9192]

I hope it all goes well for you brother. I was at a similar situation in my life where my soul was empty and I was depressed. It was until I developed a relationship with God that I found all that I needed. He is a loving Father that wants to lead His children and God is my everything honestly. When the world cast me out for nothing God was the one who wiped the tears off my face and welcomed me with loving arms. God is truly the greatest and I don’t even deserve to have Him as my Father. Attach yourself to God and it will be the greatest decision you will ever make in your life brother. Trust me because I was at the lowest of lowest and only God was there for me. Glory be to the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and to the end of ages.

[@bg23allday1]

You gone get there bro keep pushing ✊🏾

[@seanseedharie668]

Trade stocks

[@Xzon39]

Am 24, Hafeez just told me what nobody ever told me. and thank you Hafeez i wish you can see this, because you just changed somebodies life

[@james271993]

Hafeez is so real and transparent. Thank you for sharing.

[@cringelad3765]

17 years old and absorbing this knowledge. Appreciated big time guys. :)

[@brendontshumagolide]

Also 17 here

[@truenorthaffirmations7049]

WE GREAT MEN|| THE FUTURE

[@Temzzo]

17yr old here as well ✌🏾

[@nothumanff5900]

18

[@topboyzombie]

14

[@Nadroj97]

Seemed like this was straight from the heart, much love and respect sir

[@locafam0063]

24 ain’t got time to lose✍🏾❤️

[@SjonnyBB]

Best advice there is! I’m 19 and stopped with social media 1 year ago

[@shootingbricks8554]

I limited social media exposure and it helped a lot. I don't waste time looking at others as much.

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

This is good!! A lot of people need to do this

[@ashleeskhan]

I know that this channel and advice is geared for men but honestly, this is solid advice. I myself struggled with this. Thank you for the reminder. 👌

[@chadrayon]

Working my warehouse job at 27 trying to figure it out. Thanks for this touch on reality brother.

[@khwezimvuyana4092]

I'm so happy I have these conversations with myself.

[@majesticsentinel2482]

I feel blessed 🙏🏾 to have found this video because it has put how I've been feeling into words and reminded me to appreciate myself and my journey.

[@BlackSmithSundays]

Today is my 28th birthday & I needed to hear this. Thank you

[@activelifeg5237]

Happy birthday

[@tenwest6269]

Man I’m 29 right now and in the same boat. I started looking for my calling and started my flight training to be a pilot. I’m not at my destination yet, but success is all about the journey.

[@activelifeg5237]

Keep grinding

[@DoyinVoice]

You will succeed

[@realestatemotivated]

Love it. Not worrying about others and living for yourself is hard to do especially in today’s social media age but it’s so rewarding.

[@Hallowpoet]

Soon to be 22 and im completely broke, no car, no credit established yet, but i have dreams and im not giving up, im doing this for me

[@BigDripBoi]

Big facts watched it twice 2 days in a row

[@IronSightPapi]

Good video brother, not what I thought it would be about.

[@enriquet4083]

I had this in my watchlist for months thank you for this amazing video

[@Rsharif22]

I just turned 22 and i have excellent credit ,decent savings, a job and am looking into school for electrical work and i feel like I'm lagging behind my peers.

[@Rsharif22]

@ i have to keep telling myself that but socail media is the devil

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

You're doing just fine! Keep leveling up

[@lmao3767]

I'm turning 22 and don't have anything. You are good my guy, delete social media, you don't need that distraction.

[@sour3000]

@@lmao3767 same. Turning 22 next month

[@anthonywilliams855]

Your not though.......

[@kennymlogisticsconsultancy6863]

My life was a whole mess, I was depressed, tired, comparing myself to my friends, it took me a whole different diversion to be where I am, only to be here and I have no more friends since they are afraid I moved too fast, just afraid out here of being alone

[@malcolmabdilla933]

I don't usually write a comment on videos that I watch but I have to for this one!! Great video Hafeez! Really needed this since I am 23 years old and have been suffering from comparing myself with others for many years. Whether it be that I am not good enough and everyone around me is better than me along with many, many other people around the world that feel the same way as I do for sure sadly enough! But, one quote that I love and would like to share is this: "Life is meant to be experienced, not figured out."

[@nateg4343]

So grateful to have you here in this community to help young men and women like us thank you for relating to what we feel, it's encouraging!

[@GwapoT]

I’m glad my journey brought me to this video. Very motivational and needed!

[@jacdaniels3057]

Turning 22 in a month,and this is just what I needed.

[@theofficialkamikaze]

I thank platforms like these because it helped in some many ways that I could’ve never imagined. I am 21 right now and going into my last year in college. I started this self development journey when I was 20 because I was tired of living a life with no found purpose. I’ve always felt as my life is different from everyone else but I was wasting my talents staying up late, doing nothing throughout the day, just wasting time. Once quarantine hit, I knew change had to happen. Now, im on this journey of becoming a basketball coach once I finish school, creating a performance coaching business, creating a brotherhood/sisterhood program for my high school, and dabbling in a bunch of other hobbies. Again, without channels like these mentoring us, I wouldn’t fully be where I’m at today. So I thank you and will continue to be grateful for people like this

[@ddada00]

Thank you for sharing on this topic. It was a great reminder not to compare myself with other people. I needed to hear this today. Keep up the good work!

[@Woodfitness00]

I just turned 20 few months ago I really needed this bra seriously 💯

[@sweatyhomophobe7329]

Really needed to hear this brother.

[@northendtony]

I’m 17 and I feel lost. I’m not going to college this year because I have no idea what to study. I haven’t found my passion. I just don’t know. I’m going to get a job to start saving some money and go from there. Thank you for this video

[@marlontrevon22]

Because no one told me most men don’t flourish until mid 20s / 30s point is you have time

[@angelkundananjimulenga1370]

Pierced through my heart and opened my eyes more❤️👌🏿

[@RY_2023_]

I am a women and I just turned 29 and relate to this !

[@RibsBjj]

You are right, let me tell a quick story about me. I'm 26 yrs old, at 24 I got my IT degree but wasnt sure if that was what I wanted at the time. So I took a yr to prepare to pass the series of tests that you have to pass to engage on the police of my country and I did great on the majority but on the last test (psychological one) I wasnt qualified. The most important thing I realized on this whole yr that I took to prepare was how capable I am and that I really should pursuit an IT career, but if I was focused on other people grind I wouldnt have learned that we walk diferent paths one may go point A to B and other A to C and then B, but in the end we should stay true to our self.

[@bluutv1632]

Yo bro I’m already on the path you’re talking about I’m 22 and I understand my path is my own but the hard part is consistency when you know what you’re doing is right but you don’t feel the greatest even if things are going in the right direction that’s my personal hurdle right now. I appreciate you for putting this out because the comments show there are people out there on the same frequency as me and it’s just given me w little boost thank you.

[@ddLoading]

felt this video word from word 🙏🏾 thankful

[@wayy2much311]

Appreciate the video, Im in a point in my life where this hit me hard. Its still difficult to beat that feeling of not being successful in life, deleting social media may delete 95% of that😂. Too many standards out here for a world filled with billions of people. Definitely subscribing👌🏾

[@DoyinVoice]

Sooo true 😢

[@lifewithjulz5809]

It was meant for me to see this video you spoke directly to my heart and soul bro thank you and continue to be great God bless!

[@antoniobrasse7157]

Amen brotha 🙏 we need to stop comparing ourselves to others. I've been out of my 20s for a while now and I'm thankful for not playing that comparison game as I look back on life. I'm on the cusp of some great things with my startup that might not be possible had I followed the crowd. I also know a lot of people that know me and often would express feeling envious of my life they saw on social because I did get to travel the world and I'd tell them don't feel envious, that I had my struggles like we all do and pointed to the great things in their lives that I'd like to have also. It was very enlightening conversations for those people.

[@SethKuroWilson]

the best pep talk of my life :,)

[@antoniodenny1715]

Yo this video helped me out a lot bro 😎 thankyou

[@alexisagginie4574]

Hafeez, you are so right! Comparisons are not things to do. Begin to build what you desire. Have a PLAN!

[@user-dr6mb9cz6b]

You’re delivery is insane, had to subscribe after this vid

[@djefardeur7958]

Happyness is a state of mind, it's not a car, a house, a job nor a girl. Once u understand that, your perspective change, u start appreciating life for what it is and u become grateful. True freedom starts in the mind !

[@DoyinVoice]

Soo good

[@Tjordzzz]

well explained!

[@sheanthesheep8816]

I’m glad I’m able to watch this as an 18 yr old, learned so much life lessons

[@dominikadomis7430]

Remember time is worth much more than money. Stop blindlly chasing the money because when you reach your 60s and then you will think 'what I did for all this years.'This is why it is important to enjoy your life because you never know when your life will end. Do what makes you happy.

[@markpinkneyjr9991]

I'm only 20 and didn't realize how much I needed to hear this rn. Thanks man.

[@deioncato244]

First time watching your content and I love it !

[@BennJamez]

Thanks bro. Needed to hear this. Keep up the good work! 💯

[@THEGAMERS-ro3yr]

Good message

[@joelcervantes2208]

Frustrating thing is there’s so many advice I feel like I gotta go thru it all and live a life with no mistakes just tryna avoid the big ones I guess

[@jamoywillis6127]

I needed to hear this i swear 🔐

[@jonathancallanan3343]

Exactly what I needed to hear

[@anioganesyan8034]

This put tears in my eyes.. in 2021 a man tlking like this is so refreshing.. i needed this today i was sitting al day thinking man im not were i need to be everyone having babies i am here newly single..

[@DoyinVoice]

Your beautiful and your path will work out accordingly don’t worry. Babies are a huge responsibility