these mini docs are low key changing my life.. problem is I love them so much that I binge watch like 7 in one sitting and I don't allow myself enough time to sit and digest properly the lovely advice and content they provide :^(
@theschooloflifetv8 жыл бұрын
Thanks very much - and take them slowly...
@jenna85158 жыл бұрын
I try to do one a day during my study breaks as a treat :)))) love them
@o_deabanana43558 жыл бұрын
great idea! I love them too! Hope they keep churning them out, though I imagine it's quite a bit of work
@o_deabanana43558 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. I also sometimes re-watch a day or 2 later if I feel I haven't held on to enough information
@simpleforthesimple7 жыл бұрын
We are sharing daily vlogs of spiritual inspiration and adventures, check us out if you want more advice and content to digest!! :)
@TheBurg2298 жыл бұрын
I have to walk several miles to and from work. I use that time to sort out these questions which helps me from going crazy. Though sometimes I do it out loud and I'm sure people think I'm legitimately crazy.
@varganhell54388 жыл бұрын
You are not alone, I do exactly the same)
@TG47GRG8 жыл бұрын
Capt Char dude i talk to myself before a big presentation or an exam and it helps so much! definately you are not alone. appreciate it!!
@sleep34178 жыл бұрын
Capt Char when i'm not in a hurry i think about a lot of things. including some of these questions and alot of random, pointless but fulfilling things. i do talk to myself, but only when i'm alone, otherwise i just mumble.
@matthewsamuel10298 жыл бұрын
Capt Char, I go for my morning nature walks almost everyday! its my top priority :) and you are not crazy, it will actually keep from going crazy lol I sleep well, I have no stress, not as anxious anymore, and hey I am not fat anymore lol Walk 20 miles a week. So I am with you on this brother, and think aloud!! or sometimes use music.
@TheVic3318 жыл бұрын
Hey man, its been proven in many ways that walk (or any type of activity) helps us too! Socrates used to take walks during which he talked with others/was giving lectures, he believed that walking while talking helps to clear out the mind. I would say that connecting philosophical meditation and walk is the best option. Dont care about what people might think. Brb, I need to find a synonym to a word "walk".
@Joe-bn9fz8 жыл бұрын
To read the Meditations of Marcus Aurelius is another great way for self meditation.
@Wingedmagician8 жыл бұрын
Or create your own "Meditations" book. His book was meant for him, yours will be custom made. You could start though by adding the prompts you see in this video.
@أنوحمزهإسماعيلالحاج4 жыл бұрын
I usually listen to Qur'an recitation and it gives me lasting peace
@Joe-bn9fz4 жыл бұрын
As a Christian, I listen to the Bible. So I understand you. God bless you, brother. Alhamdulillah إسميل واشيره
@أنوحمزهإسماعيلالحاج4 жыл бұрын
@@Joe-bn9fz God's peace and blessings be upon you too brother
@dena1808 жыл бұрын
I always have unconsciously done this. But this last year, with the help of psychedelics and getting to altered states of consciousness with meditation, i changed drastically. I lost 60 lbs and i got better at school, i started working out, i clean my room regularly now, and i cook all my meals myself. But sadly, the extra time I always spared for rethinking everything in life, wasn't always there. And i lost a big portion of my enthusiasm and happiness. Though i still know for a fact that i am not the same person i used to be, i also believe i'm much better than the old me could ever hope to be. So if some philosophical meditation is what's missing, then i'd gladly make up room for it in my daily schedule. Dear everyone, you are strong and smart and unstoppable. Dont waste your life, take control now. Next year, you'll be happy you did this now.
@Hayatiiiiiiiiiii4 жыл бұрын
so psychedelics could really help? did u take it on your own?
@jamessteele71028 жыл бұрын
The basic point is to set aside some time for thinking and reflection. I disagree with the proposed questions because we should let our minds decide the issues but I know from experience that when I just sit for a half hour and let my mind go wherever it wants, I feel much better for the next day or so, and I sleep better, too. Modernly we move so fast mentally and have so many distractions that we forget to give ourselves a "mental massage."
@minhdinh48023 жыл бұрын
Very interesting. I shall try your method.
@MustafaKulle8 жыл бұрын
Very true. Writing down your thoughts is the ultimate catharsis. Keeping a record will help you understand yourself better. Thank you School of Life.
@radhagupta5770 Жыл бұрын
this is so great, i practice this every week. School of life is a movement towards better well being, not just a company. I love the app too!!
@atypical_moto8 жыл бұрын
I try to dissolve stressful thoughts by remembering how insignificant it is. I ask, "will this kill me?" and so far the answer has always been "No". Then I hear Eric Thomas' voice in my head saying "You ain't gonna die cus you feel a little pain". And then I get on with my life. Philosophy helps a lot too. "For fate the willing leads, the unwilling drags along." -Cleanthes
@ocamtille91148 жыл бұрын
Kenny Rodger that's the noah elkrief method
@atypical_moto8 жыл бұрын
bamischijfje123 No, I'm correcting irrational feelings. We get caught up in things and stepping back and seeing how silly it is to get emotional about most things, dissolves negative feelings.
@atypical_moto8 жыл бұрын
Ocam Tille I've never read him and I know about it so I don't think it is originally his idea. Most of this stuff was written about in Ancient philosophy. I highly recommend reading from the Stoics. Marcus Aurelius and Seneca covered these ideas quite a bit. Nothing wrong with a fresh explanation though. I might check him out.
@user-dr6rt1ji3l3 жыл бұрын
Fate leads the willing; the unwilling it drags. You might have also seen some variation of it, such as Fate leads the willing and drags along the reluctant. Originally this was written by the Roman poet Seneca - ducunt volentem fata, nolentem trahunt, if you want the Latin version.
@gabrieltavares84068 жыл бұрын
I cannot begin to express how grateful I am that this video was release on this moment of my life.
@sallykirkstephens84152 жыл бұрын
The gentle clear soothing voice of Alain helps too
@GreenredProductions8 жыл бұрын
Our thoughts control us... always thinking about money and success... but science already proved that happiness is in communication with others, spending time together and so on. Sadly, today we live with tools that create perfect space to be alone almost all the time. We communicate using technology instead face to face. Sometimes I think that the best meditation is being with someone you enjoy being or simply doing some activity that you like.
@highwaytothesun7 жыл бұрын
no doubt a lovely thought, I'm all for face to face communication but perhaps a bit too broad of a definition of what meditation is.
@giantsquid25 жыл бұрын
I agree with you totally. We need other people more than we care to admit.
@nikolaimaharaj23195 жыл бұрын
That's exactly what I want to do but I can't find people to communicate with or they eventually end up leaving me, I just end up lonely often and it's out of my control
@unicronprimus74503 жыл бұрын
And then pandemic says hello.
@MarioDGDG8 жыл бұрын
Unthought thoughts.
@Wingedmagician8 жыл бұрын
Johnson Sepp it makes sense.
@danielr35228 жыл бұрын
+Leonard Ney The phrase *does* make sense, I think, though I can also see how it might appear to be a contradiction in terms, so I'm just trying to explain it for people who might be struggling to make sense of it.
@botondszilagyi69998 жыл бұрын
It makes sense as such (if you open yourself to the poetry in it), though thoughts not thought through would be a clearer way to say this.
@ThePsychothearapyExperiance6 жыл бұрын
@@danielr3522 no
@feli62775 жыл бұрын
Un-Ford Ford's.
@PrincessLinhLayla8 жыл бұрын
This is what I have been doing instinctively my whole life. I was the kind of child who would constantly ask adults the question "WHY" , and when I was met with an answer I would ask even more questions because I could not stand unknowing . When I grew up I couldnt rely on "adults" to answer my questions anymore this habit stayed, so I always did this meditation in my head, to question and seek answers to every problems I have. However in the recent years I have been too caught up in everyday stress and issues that somehow I lost this habit, thus losing my will to learn, my ability to understand myself and even if I do understand something, I could no longer express them in words. Until I found this channel, and since then it has become my daily reminder to never let the pressures from outside mess up your internal peace and intellect. :) Thank you for your great work :)
@SibleySteve4 жыл бұрын
School of Life is best thing on youtube for anyone who strives to live the words of Epicurus or Marcus Aurelius. Our struggle for Truth, Beauty & Wisdom is real. Reading Camus, SK, or Balzac is so medicinal. All I need is my garden, some cheese and this youtube channel.
@eleanorscott98558 жыл бұрын
God, I love this channel.
@BeaFaubryOlivera8 жыл бұрын
Lovely ideas, I might actually use this myself. I feel that a good addition to this might be "What went well today?" To get a sense of how direction in one's life isn't strictly something to aim for in the future, but to hone our senses to detect signs of it coming into fruition in each day.
@Ostsee898 жыл бұрын
- What am I currently anxious about? What is this anxiety really about? Tell the story in detail. Confront everything that could go wrong. Tease out, why you would still be okay, even if the worst case happened. - Who am I currently upset about and with whom? Why? How might a nice person have ended up doing what this person did to you? If this had happened to a friend how would you have advised them? - What am I currently excited and ambitious about? Or: What recently made me feel excited, envious or desiring? Describe feelings as if to a sympathetic friend. Reflecting on this, what might be missing in your life?
@arhabersham8 жыл бұрын
The three large questions: What I am currently anxious about? What I am upset about (and with whom)? What I am currently excited, and ambitious about? Wonderful exercise
@jackmiller99265 жыл бұрын
Pause and do the audit as the video goes along, it feels amazing! Really feels like clearing the wardrobe of thoughts and sorting them accordingly before placing them back for you to deal with. Creating order out of chaos is called magic, but make sure you have enough balance and control so you are not consumed by the very chaos you set out to create order from.
@satnamo8 жыл бұрын
Everything is in the mind, with our minds we create the world. So everything can be change with our mind. With earnest effort, discipline and self control, let the wise man build for himself an island which no flood can overwhelm. Tathagata
@RiverDogRun8 жыл бұрын
Surprisingly, my mind is quite clear and my conscientious is clean. I can't really think of anything anxious or upsetting at the moment. It does help that I have a pretty open personality, and I share what's on my mind with almost everyone. I am also naturally introspective. I sort out my inner closet regularly since I was young.
@nathanmacdonnell97965 жыл бұрын
I've internalised this long ago when I first saw this video. It has been a guiding force for me. Thank you.
@rroseselaklee68448 жыл бұрын
I started doing something very similar over 10 years ago - writing questions to myself and then contemplating possible answers. I numbered each one and i'm up to 2000+ now. It has, without doubt, been the most useful mind tool to apply to the problem of 'trying hard to remember all the useful/useless stuff' that was making thinking such hard work for me back then. I now say that i don't really know what i think about something until i've written it down. Great video - i hope it helps lots of people.
@nucleartest5307 жыл бұрын
Stoicism is the philosophy that keeps me going. This is just that and I love it!
@JimmyDThing8 жыл бұрын
Meditation is absolutely a useful tool, but I would say that you're better off trying to release your hold on the mind. Let go of the mind. A great tool for that is to focus on the breath until you let it go. "Notice your mind working. How it plans for the future and visits the past. Notice those thoughts and set them aside. Turn your attention to the white light that is your breath."
@JimmyDThing8 жыл бұрын
Fighting strengthens it. Fight through being an example.
@pocketfullofshellz8 жыл бұрын
I practice Buddhist and Vedic meditation daily and while this is essential, it is a very different tool compared to philosophical meditation. Mindfulness and zazen can empty our mind, but it can't intellectually solve a problem or anxiety through logic - it achieves a similar result, but it lacks the rational thinking that philosophical meditation holds dear. The two are very different but equally important.
@marcpelletier13668 жыл бұрын
No self, no problem!
@simpleforthesimple7 жыл бұрын
Alexandros what Vedic meditation do you do? We practise chanting! :)
@marcpelletier13667 жыл бұрын
If you're going to abuse an organ, choose wisely (:
@love_exegence8 жыл бұрын
Philosophical meditation is only temporary relief from our suffering. Eastern meditation is an antidote.
@AskTorin8 жыл бұрын
This came at a rather perfect point in my life. I thank you, SoL, as I have done many times before :)
@GamiCross8 жыл бұрын
I did this to myself a few years ago and it was the absolute pin-point moment my life became better.
@bielasp3 жыл бұрын
Hey mate, i know it's a 4 year old comment, but if u still have this account, how it was for you? What did change?
@GamiCross3 жыл бұрын
@@bielasp It let me organize my thoughts better and to realize I needed to train myself to think several steps ahead about the consequences of any actions before acting
@bielasp3 жыл бұрын
@@GamiCross that's deep, i really need to try this style of meditation, u still doing it till nowadays ?
@arete78848 жыл бұрын
I use to meditate everyday for a year but i found it wasn't enought , practising zen meditation troughout the day is far superior core confidence,great focus ,performance in everything increased ,great energy , mostly minimal anxiety and i have a pretty severe anxiety disorders and many more benefits, i found say one of the best benefits would be clarity of what to do in life in the next few months or years.
@azanyahyisrael1014 жыл бұрын
The best thing about this meditation is that it gets rid of all the head noise
@nikokaapa8 жыл бұрын
I prefer your first version of this video, but for the record: You philosophical meditation approach has really helped me in anxious situations.
@kiamberblake52128 жыл бұрын
It's funny how I just got done writing in my journal and I come on youtube to see this new video. I really love these videos. Thanks for sharing :)
@suhailasabah4254 жыл бұрын
I loved how Arabic translation is so precise! thanks a lot
@licandres015 жыл бұрын
There is so much background on each section of the propessed meditation, it process a lot of material I've been consuming on anxiety management, power of thoughts and mindfulness
@dzanegulles3 жыл бұрын
The flashing lights low reception perfectly describes what it feels in my head when I've got lots of thoughts running in my head every second.
@mayankimmortal8 жыл бұрын
Fuck yeah. Do "intellectual loneliness" next.
@antonk63598 жыл бұрын
Just read Dostoevsky.
@mayankimmortal8 жыл бұрын
Anton K currently reading notes from underground
@mayankimmortal8 жыл бұрын
Charles Dickens ok
@mayankimmortal8 жыл бұрын
***** I know
@mayankimmortal8 жыл бұрын
***** no need, man they'll do it when the time is right.
@danielr35228 жыл бұрын
I think one of the most profound realisations you can have is that thoughts have no inherent reality. They're illusory, but we have a tendency to take them *so* seriously.
@YaraelgerzawY8 жыл бұрын
I always do this, it has been my life savior but I do it for far longer than 20 minutes and it takes years to untangle some thoughts, but the outcomes are very fruitful.
@feralquietude8 жыл бұрын
I use both "types" of meditation. They really do complement each other quite well, in my opinion. It's just a matter of trusting yourself to know when you need to empty the mind and when you need to unwind and understand the tangles that have formed there.
@LazyVoidzTV7 жыл бұрын
I did this everyday and night since i was 16. I felt as though I knew more than I had before I started noticing undertones following my life but at the same time I knew nothing atall and felt a longing for all available knowledge. I set myself out and I was commonly following what i seen as adaptive truth but the outter world still never gave any direct answers. Iv actually answered these huge questions in my reality! was a dangerous road :)
@xyttra7 жыл бұрын
I discovered this by myself one time when I was smoking weed. That time made my severe depression go away for a whole week!
@cinnamonthecat96616 жыл бұрын
for me personally, i think this can be beneficial to me and even my significant other. sometimes i have a hard time with figuring out what i actually want, so sorting it out and acting as if someone were giving me advice really really helps. i've also recently wanted to be more compassionate with people, and i think one thing that will help me is reflecting on why people do the things they do. this helps me be more empathetic and understanding with people, and i think that's really helpful.
@williammelich78036 жыл бұрын
The way you interact with others is a reflection of how you feel about yourself. So figure out who you really are at the core, stay true to yourself, and you will be well on your way to finding inner contentment and true happiness...
@vaibhavjain32346 жыл бұрын
just did it. helped me connect with my feelings more strongly. felt like bliss.
@SovereignHumanBeingX4 жыл бұрын
This is how I practice Mindfulness
@jennifergrado72965 жыл бұрын
It all boils down to knowing ourselves properly first
@Nitephall6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. My journaling has been stifled, robotic, and arid, resulting in my simply not doing it anymore. But on the evening after watching this video, a vertitable fountain poured forth from my pen, or rather my fingers. Its like before I didn't have the right or the proper skill to put my real thoughts on paper, but since your video gave me "permission" to do this, the thoughts and impressions just flowed. I was quite surprised actually. Psychologists always talk about the problem with our thinking, but I've never thought that what I do most of the time could be called thinking. Thinking is something philosophers and theoretical physicists do. What I do is exactly what you describe: get lost in a cloud of undefined gloom, in a static of unthought thoughts that short circuit my brain and cause my limbic system to work overtime. I'm at the mercy of what I haven't clarified for myself. Of course it's not always easy to tease out exaclty what I am thinking or feeling, because my subconscious is a hell of a lot smarter than I am. That's why I'm also doing dream analysis.
@Wingedmagician8 жыл бұрын
You don't know how much this video helped me. Thank you.
@BrandonSchleifer8 жыл бұрын
I do this all the time. I look at the worst case scenario so that I know that failure isn't that bad, and that takes a lot of the pressure off.
@PeterMuskMusic8 жыл бұрын
im practizing this particular meditation.. also aother kinds... but this one too... its great ...
@oberstul19418 жыл бұрын
There were so many good ideas in this video that my mind came.
@tmalonso8 жыл бұрын
the meditation that can be completely explained or expressed in words is not the constant, eternally unchanging and true meditation ;)
@amirehosseyni8 жыл бұрын
OH MY GOD ! Recently I had this experience of having a head full of cement ! I couldn't pin point it and couldn't find a way out of it ! This is very very helpful to me , thank you a lot for these practical videos school of life .Thank you !
@Cristobels-Green-Boots7 жыл бұрын
Alain -- you are my heart's delight!🙏
@ricardobejeraste35698 жыл бұрын
I finally found someone explaining exactly what I do and what I suggest people to do in their lives. Although I think the creation of topics (the 3 topics you mentioned) might be counterproductive. This might sounds like I disagree with the video, but in fact I totally agree. I just think that the creation of topics is for slightly organised minds, and this isn't the usual setting. Once you start all you can do is free association. Just drop on the paper everything that it is on your mind. I realised that once you have enough pieces of a puzzle you will be naturally draw to it, being that your main topic for your, as you call, meditation. I also realised that once you put up on a paper enough pieces of a puzzle, it will magically disappear from your mind (it doesn't really, but it work almost as if it did) clearing up space for the other thoughts. The more things you organised, the easier will be to organise the rest (like a messy desk that you slowly clean by making piles of the same topic, and eventually the desk is so clean that you can use it to organise a pile or two). This was the reason why I started a blog (because I think faster than I type and type faster than my handwriting, and also because I tend to lose things in the lack of organisation of my computer, and I would like to have my puzzles in an organised, safe place where I can go to if I need).
@Survivethejive8 жыл бұрын
There is an eastern equivalent. A text from the Pali canon described how unwanted thoughts can be likened to the rotting carcass of a beast, that, when draped around the neck of a young person, would naturally evoke disgust or even horror. From a position of lofty disdain, one then dismisses the unwanted thought as unworthy of oneself. One method described to achieve this is likened to the way a skilled craftsman will use a thin wedge to create room for a larger one, so too must each component of the thought be broken down, similar to the method in this video, until its entirety is revealed as contingent, temporary and therefore from the perspective of the noble man, disgusting and unworthy of him.
@Wingedmagician8 жыл бұрын
Survive the Jive nice
@simpleforthesimple7 жыл бұрын
We are not our mind... we can recognise these thoughts but understand that they are temporary and separate from our true self
@MondoJon17 жыл бұрын
Completely agree and will go further to point out that the techniques described in this video have parity with pratyahara -- crudely translated as "sense withdrawal" -- the 5th limb in Patanjali's treatise on yoga. This is an important bridge to meditation, not meditation itself. Indeed, it's hard to imagine prolonged, effective and consistent meditative absorption without this ability to analyse and put distance between the senses and their mental and emotional disturbances. In that context it's a great video and I will definitely bookmark for friends who are comfortable with self exploration in a secular context. I'm also compelled to mention a pratyahara technique whereby conscious thoughts are used as bait to fish for the unconscious thoughts underlying them. Brilliant!
@priestofaphroditecosmetolo62746 жыл бұрын
Western philosophy is more practical and in my opinion preferable because it helps us reach ataraxia through the practice of stoic exercises: To imagine the worst possible scenario, being conscious of our death daily, and plato’s view that we may see how little our problems are. I find eastern philosophy to be vague, it uses examples and stories which are open to many interpretations. It also does teach much forced suppression of negative emotions, western thought teaches us to purge it through catharsis. My recomendations would be Marcus Aurelius which I consider the Buddha of the West, except he had a far greater impact on my life and admire him far more, for Buddha abandoned his position, Marcus embraced his emerorship selflessly to become the first and only philosopher king to have ever lived and an example to all. I recommend Seneca, Epictetus, Cicero, and Epicurus. As well as of course other classics of the West such as Plato and Aristotle’s works and Pythagoras and his golden verses and mathematics for the soul and daily keeping of a journal to self scrutinize oneself. Also our equivalent of yoga is the discipline of the Kalos Stenos ( you know it as calisthenics) or beautiful strength, a practice which emphasizes the western thought of patience, perseverance, and stoic practice of indifference to pain, the beautiful strife, an art form believed to come from Herakles himself.
@williamchamberlain22636 жыл бұрын
Think you missed the point: this is about exploring and integrating and accepting, not rejecting.
@ЗакатРассвет-ы2ж4 жыл бұрын
this voice cures my anxiety.
@ocamtille91148 жыл бұрын
it's amazing how you express in words what i know on an experiencial level.
@palcsoke8 жыл бұрын
This was so blissful. I've noticed the beneficial effects immediately after the practice.
@milk4you12008 жыл бұрын
These videos are so helpful. Thank you for everything you folks post.
@bb11111168 жыл бұрын
- This proposal seems more like contemplation rather than meditation. Contemplation is certainly useful. It can be part of journaling which can help with clarifying thoughts which can reduce anxiety. Psychologists can recommend this practice. - Meditation I see as a desire to simplify thought and to find gaps with there is no active thinking. Various techniques can be helpful to do this; focusing on breathing, progressively relaxing different parts of the body, staring at an object (a burning candle or an image like a mandala), repeating a phrase (mantra). Eventually with daily practice, breathing becomes slower, thoughts become less busy and the mind takes a break. - For over active thoughts, regular exercise can also be helpful to bring about more mental clarity.
@genn.6236 жыл бұрын
Stoicism is strong here I love this channel so much
@jackdawmystery94088 жыл бұрын
I've been doing something very much like this since I was 12, I'm still working on being completely honest with myself, but I've made huge progress since I started, not just because I grew up. (I'm 18)
@Promatheos8 жыл бұрын
I agree with many other comments that this is not meditation. It's introspection. Meditation is a practice to not identify with your thoughts. However, as a guide to introspection, it's a well made video with good ideas.
@Wingedmagician8 жыл бұрын
Promatheos have you ever heard of the book Meditations by Marcus Aurelius (the Roman emperor)?
@reinettesylfgreinar3658 жыл бұрын
Eastern philosophy has a wide variety of meditations. So many that I won't bother trying to list them all, however some of them actually focus exactly on this. I find it interesting because you have reached the same conclusion for meditation as Eastern philosophers, but by following the Western path. One reason why that is interesting to me is that you've basically reversed the progress that led to the form of meditation you described at first since that is, for the most part, the Westernized (and simplified) version of the Eastern meditations more comparable to what you describe as Philosophical Meditation. It's a good vid and great advice, thank you for it.
@jaykhandwala55338 жыл бұрын
Captain Ithinari can confirm
@chrispecta8 жыл бұрын
although the origin of this so called western philosophy is the east
@arunkrishrockzz7 жыл бұрын
Some things in life means a lot me and I lack the vocabulary to put them in words. So I compare it to equally important things that had happened to me. Your videos mean to me as much as the laughter of my most favorite woman and the conversations that I've had with my best friend. You are my Savior Alain! :) ♥♥
@armartin00038 жыл бұрын
I like this a lot better than Eastern meditation and the mysticism which surrounds it.
@ashitasehgal4538 жыл бұрын
one of the most beneficial and substantial youtube channels i have ever come across- thank you for this :)
@MackTheTemp18 жыл бұрын
I do like the metaphor of the cupboard of the mind.I usually love these videos, but I'm not terribly impressed with the three questions in this one because it's so narrow. I like the idea of rationally formulating the right set of questions and meditating on then recording them. The mental audit is another great metaphor! Know yourself by walking round the tree one step at a time.
@flaviu70648 жыл бұрын
School of Life, I must thank you deeply for your lessons. You clearly have the gift of teaching. Could you make a video about family or parents? Misconceptions, the lack of communication, in what way we should strive for a functional family. I would gladly watch the video if you create it. Thank you very much. Keep making a difference!
@smilingontime8 жыл бұрын
YOU MAKE ME FEEL WONDERFUL.. you should know that
@Lord_Arn8 жыл бұрын
I was distracted from part of the video while trying to clean a smudge off my screen, only to find the smudge in the center top was part of the video. These have been helpful to me and I share them with people who I feel have the outward signs described, hoping that they will understand that I'm trying to help them.
@juliusfinkas8 жыл бұрын
This helps immensely!! I usually only do the first part in the mornings when I am most down because I don't have time for the others, but still, it's really reassuring and comforting. Thanks for the content, it's outstanding 👍
@coreycox23458 жыл бұрын
This seems like a smart idea and good supplement to the kind of meditation that is a release from the self. There is always real life to deal with before and after one's meditation practice. This could transform the waking parts of life in ways that I can only imagine. I will give it a try. Thank you, School of Life.
@gordonrbarnes8 жыл бұрын
What a great tool to help us understand our own minds. - Thank You
@Mezilesialan8 жыл бұрын
I recommend a few days of Buddhist meditation , at a centre. Try it, and you will experience the natural process of mental purification.
@noelpratt52688 жыл бұрын
What we have here is a mental catharsis, which is helpful. I do it occasionally, but instead of writing the notes I brainstorm everything by talking it out loud to myself. Any catharsis can help pave the way for what is actually meditation in the Eastern sense...or the Thomas Merton way too, perhaps. I would properly call this an exercise. Real meditation, when it is evoked, goes beyond "mentation" by direct observation & acceptance of whatever arises -- thought, feeling, moods, noises, etc. Eyes open or closed or alternating. The allusion in the beginning of the video to traditional meditators focusing on sounds, etc., that's not really an active focus or concentration they're doing, it's letting go. You're creating the space to allow anything, pleasant or unpleasant, to bring you out of your shelled-in self. Birds or jackhammers equally effective, though of course we might well prefer birds.
@homeline12348 жыл бұрын
thanks for posting this and every other video on this channel. All of them tries to make a point, boldly and unashamedly backed up by good research. It is a breath of fresh air to watch school of life videos. In the last three years, I have undergone this style of introspection seriously. Since I lean more on the analytical side, it was easy to get into it. What I have noticed over time, however, is that as you go deeper into the process, the process demands more of your energy. In order to have more energy available, I have to forego other activities for the short term. It yields good results because it forces to re-visit things you think you have resolved or accepted as "status quo". That being said, if a person leans more on the sentimental side, it could be counter productive
@alexdiaz14927 жыл бұрын
This is already reassuring. best video of knowledge by far in my day.
@felixlarssonrudfeldt15238 жыл бұрын
Wow, personally this has been the most practical video you have uploaded so far. I have been needing something like this for dome time now without know how to make it into a physical action and what kind of questions I should be asking myself. Truly great work. (I do not know why, but I am a bit jealous of you for coming up with this, I guess that is just one of many things I have to work with.)
@TheNeilDarby8 жыл бұрын
Zen meditation is to simply abide as the imageless knowingness that illuminates all thoughts.
@mariagarza12694 жыл бұрын
I loved you for this video. This is exactly what I need right now. You are heaven sent. ❤
@regianecostadahora54637 жыл бұрын
Thank you school of life
@blujoker54008 жыл бұрын
is thinking that clearly really a good thing. as far as i know we never really know what we want, all we look for ends up being unsatisfied.. why not just stop thinking? why not forget your ambitions and act only on your instinct. isn't that more pure.
@GizaRockPemaNyingje6 жыл бұрын
This is one kind of vypassana (logic, an reason founded) meditation according to Tibetan Buddhism :) The focusing on something it's the shamata meditation, used in Buddhism, Hinduism and new age movements
@teresaramos13772 жыл бұрын
Muchas gracias. En éste mundo tan saturado de estímulos, siempre viene bien encontrarse un momento para sí mismo.
@shk90027 жыл бұрын
this is a good part two to the episode on what our minds look like
@kanameitsuki81308 жыл бұрын
So a lot of the commenters here completely missed the point. This is simply a method, perhaps more effective, of clearing out your thoughts and truly understanding them. As opposed to relaxing in meditation and not trying to unpack why you are feeling the way you are
@gustavoh.schulmann93906 жыл бұрын
but the purpose of meditation is to detach from thoughts(the mind), only then you can know who you really are and go beyond suffering caused by the mind
@SjorsHoukes6 жыл бұрын
There is a clear misunderstanding in a lot of people that meditation is meant to be, as you say, relaxing. It can be, but that’s not the purpose. In eastern meditation you have to sit upright and be alert to your body, breath, and any thoughts that pop up. That is why many bring it up here as a better option, because it encompasses much more. The exercise in this video is more pragmatic and less concerned with the ‘true self’.
@bingoberra188 жыл бұрын
Very good breakdown of three simple yet effective steps to calm down. You should make a "calendar" type note book with enough space for each question.
@leonvvd7 жыл бұрын
Being aware of thoughts and feelings during meditation on itself increases the grey matter in the prefrontal cortex of the brain. This on its own makes it able to silence the default chatterbox of the mind and regulate and control impulses (increases willpower to do what you really want without feeling bad or nervous) Mantra which has scientific basis: Non reaction to emotions Non judgement to thoughts (acceptance of yourself) Have no wants (trust the future will architect itself properly for you, do what you can in the now only) Use the mind to describe the above briefly and objectivly without reaction or trying to push something away Key in this is: feeling happy is not the goal, being aware is. Just be aware. Awareness above all
@zax1998LU8 жыл бұрын
I feel that knowing ones self properly id a large problem in today's world.
@ThePyrosirys8 жыл бұрын
I was crying in joy at the end of the video lol
@ZombieDragQueen8 жыл бұрын
So, are you trying to rebrand introspection as "(Western) philosophical meditation"? The point of meditation is detachment from the self, not immersion in it.
@ZombieDragQueen8 жыл бұрын
***** An admirable but difficult task. You should do a follow-up on what to do after you've articulated your anxieties on paper. It could otherwise just spiral further down into anxiety, lying sleepless over these revelations, like "So I wrote that X was mean to me not because he's a bad person, but that he might be controlled by alien brain parasites. Does that say something about me? If so, what? And is it a bad or good thing? I used to like dill crisps, but now I don't. Am I being controlled by alien brain parasites who wage war on dill, their mortal enemy?" Questions leading to answers which raise even more questions.
@JS-zh6pw8 жыл бұрын
+Stefan B. you really missed the idea of all this and I don't think you understood what they were asking/saying
@ZombieDragQueen8 жыл бұрын
a very bored person It's possible. How did you interpret it?
@TheNeilDarby8 жыл бұрын
"The point of meditation is detachment from the self, not immersion in it." That is only true if your definition of self is the mind, aka the "forms" of mental experience. Opposed to the awareness aka the "space" in which the forms are seen. In Vedantic traditions, this aware "light" that illuminates thoughts and the rest of the dynamic mind, is considered to be the Self. In meditation the goal is to simply abide as this Self. This is often confusing to westerners because this awareness isn't an "entity" so much as it is a kind of "knowing emptiness."
@ZombieDragQueen8 жыл бұрын
The deathless face of the unborn mind. Yes, that is what I meant by the "self" since, as you pointed out, in Western culture that's what we perceive to be the "self"; a collection of our conscious cognitive activities.
@franciscoalfonso48248 жыл бұрын
Thank you..... this video puts me back into clearing and putting order with the thoughts coming in out of my mind.
@TheMrIndividualist8 жыл бұрын
This almost reminds me of Lacan's thought that symptoms are words trapped in the body.
@MrChaluliss8 жыл бұрын
Ey ive been doing this for a while now, though its basically just how i journal. I just write how I'm feeling and try to dig to the roots of it so i can set those feelings at ease and move forward with a clear mind.
@ruba20744 жыл бұрын
The voice actor ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
@mmv35478 жыл бұрын
I needed this.
@empathylessons22678 жыл бұрын
Interesting idea. What would you suggest for individuals who have figured out what the root of their stress is and still experience the symptoms? Personally, I believe learning and thinking about OTHERS' suffering is key to reducing ones own stress. We can accept our problems and allow ourselves to suffer, but when recognizing how much everyone suffers, we can feel better about having an imperfect life.
@JKK7828 жыл бұрын
Thats is great and practical advice- should be taught at school as a kind of lifelong mental- emotional hygiene! Thank you!