These 3 Attractive Things Drive Men CRAZY!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@nicolebrooks6512]

1- Balance 2-Confidence (Have to believe that you are confident in yourself. Confidence is an action and a mindset. Secure in/with myself . Knowing my value.) 3-Ability to think logically. (Leaning to control my emotions and process before moving/speaking. Listen!) 4-Learn how to laugh. 5-Natural beauty. 6-Intelligence (book smart/street smart 🎓 7- Smile/positive energy 8-A willingness/desire to cater to each other. (Have to want to) 9-Feminine energy (power) 10- personal self care

[@shonteljones2420]

Well I got that one right I’m always nurturing and catering to my man

[@florawilliams2421]

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[@tgrant1981]

@@nicolebrooks6512 Thanks, good for following along. Still have to listen to him speak though, hits different.

[@rachelsutton3563]

I've learned that walking in my confidence, weeds out the insecure men.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're absolutely right!

[@kathyfindlay9468]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks yes stephen but ive supportredbhim5 yesrs ive been doing 5 years we are long distance he broke off with me over rthe money i couldnt send him

[@kathyfindlay9468]

He acusepppim hurt right now hes not calling me hesmoved on with other woman on his facebook to huturt me the past 2 weeks ive nrver hesrd him ever speak to me and habve womenin his condo

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[@zenobia3414]

Ladies never let your emotions RULE you. It's like letting a clown drive your car down a busy highway at a 120 mph with you in the passenger seat. Don't do it! Calm the hell down. Process the situation and conduct yourself as the queen that you are. Remember value yourself. If he doesn't value you, then it's time to leave and that's ok. Its really hard to explain to that lady in the mirror why you stayed in a situation where you weren't loved. Sending love to you all. Love your mind @StephenSpeaks!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

[@catalinatorres9526]

I needed to read this 🙏🏽

[@jwilson1270]

& that is that!

[@kaysbaby88]

“it’s really hard to explain to the lady in the mirror why you stayed in a situation where you weren’t loved.” 💣

[@patriciahandy2901]

Amen

[@beautifulblessedandbeloved659]

Stephan doesn't just talk he explains, that's why his videos are such a blessing.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

[@YvetteD9]

Yes!!! I agree!! Stephan is a blessing!🙏✨✨✨😊

[@taneciadavis6970]

Thank You, this is awesome preaching

[@Royalkayyofficial]

Love yourself girl or nobody will 🥰

[@Realness4sho]

💯✅🌺

[@ChristianaSenibo]

"I'm I walking in my femininity". Absolutely 💯. You have to let your beauty shine through. You won't be for everyone and that's OK. Ladies, here's what you should know. You're beautiful, you’re worthy and you matter. Stay true to yourself, let your true self shine through and you will attract the right person for you. I believe in you ❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're absolutely right, thank you for sharing 🙂

[@gracetiapmati9725]

Awesome. I should have come across this b4 my 30.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@feliciap.2297]

Beautiful!! Thank you so much for this.🙏🏽 You're absolutely correct 👏🏽👌🏽

[@ShereSagi]

I absolutely agree. I have a positive naturally sunny attitude that highly attracts men. But I know I need to work on being less emotional and calm my nerves. My fiance and I constantly have open communication and accountability when it comes to "our flaws".

[@sandragreen5146]

Humor!! I have found that couples that can laugh together stay together! I love a man that can make me laugh.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@chanelquintana460]

I agree!!!!

[@jazminguzman21jg]

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[@ka8155]

Same here. I love a guy who constantly makes me laugh.

[@daralee3186]

So true. My husband and I went to a bar just to drink listen to music. This woman found my husband attractive but he didn't give her any attention. She started dancing behind him as we walked to the bar and I just laughed so hard because it was just funny. I guess she thought I would get mad but no because I know what I bring to him and I know where his heart is.

[@livefromtheground7274]

And you knew who he was going home with!

[@elleelle7741]

What if she danced on his front? Would u still laugh?

[@beefaye6861]

The fact that you take the time to educate us so that we can make smart decisions....priceless 💯❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@audreypieters9074]

❤💢

[@shonteljones2420]

I love this I need to work on my confidence NOW

[@akataakor8192]

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[@roz1092]

Yes indeed … Thank you

[@thecopyconvert5881]

Being vulnerable is terrifying. But when you do it with the right man it can be a powerful thing. This is a powerful video. Thank you.

[@livefromtheground7274]

Agreed

[@SoldBySharone]

My husband and I met and got Married on the exact day 1 year later… we’ve been Married now 25 years. I’m very logical and I’m just learning how to be more feminine. Thank you for your wonderful insight. Your content is spot on💯

[@airbullet9331]

Proverbs 17:22 A cheerful heart does good like medicine.But a crushed spirit dries up the bones.Women love men who has sense of humor too! So let’s all smile and LOL! 😁😂

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing I appreciate your feedback!

[@TheeAntwanette]

I like your approach to coaching. Not making women feel like they can literally change a man who is not for them but helping us to focus on ourselves to attract the right one. I’ve learned so much about myself by listening to your videos.

[@akataakor8192]

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[@rosamadrid557]

Same here ❤️

[@karlee5887]

Absolutely!! It’s so helpful

[@judithfloyd6693]

I have also learned from his video,s. And it's NOT all good what I have learned about myself I have to be honest. There was a time that really liked ME,not so anymore. The time that I am talking about was right after my divorce after having been married for 32 years. I have been divorced 23 years now. I thought I was good with the 23 years but not so much now. I just may be having a lost feeling right now. But I will be ok. I truly enjoy Stephan,s video,s and I thank him so much for taking his time out of his life to reach and help so many of us. Blessings to him always.

[@Yarnover_PullThrough]

You summed it up perfectly.

[@UnaffordableTiff]

The ability to master my emotions has improved the quality of my life. Good Advice Stephen!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 ❤ Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

[@ShereSagi]

Girl give me the recipe. 🙏🏾❤❤

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[@amerokeewiya1320]

@@ShereSagi 🤣🤣🤣🤣 start by briefly walking away to gather your thoughts

[@ShereSagi]

@@amerokeewiya1320 along with deep breathing

[@sunshinelomasi5401]

Emotions under control! Balance is important! Beauty comes within! Shine! Natual Beauty! Intelligence..smiling Logic over emotions! Peace and love! Men are simple!! I'm a nurturer for sure! Thanks Stephen 💕

[@FleurRebelle]

Men are not simple…. U can do and be all that and he will still not be satisfied

[@sunshinelomasi5401]

@@FleurRebelle again most men are simple, men that act out means they are not into you or he's a grown boy! I mean men don't require alot..food, sex, peace and love! My man can be complicated but I had to learn him and his needs.

[@aleayh]

Thank you !! Because he talk too much ! Just get to the point 🙄

[@akataakor8192]

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[@patriciawhite9509]

@@FleurRebelle some men

[@winkbyme8480]

I am 60 and these videos are extremely helpful at my maturity level.

[@allisonmontano1345]

Wow you are goals if anything you don’t look over 40 in your picture

[@winkbyme8480]

@@allisonmontano1345 Thank you...I'll be 61 this year 2022

[@jp0316]

Are you double counting any number ma'am???? 😆 You are beautiful and youthful. Please let us know your secrets! Wish you the best for the next 40 yrs!!!!

[@sabreenwilson7276]

60? Maybe in 20 years...you look great!

[@akataakor8192]

Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......

[@skinnydee1886]

Women who're self-sufficient, confident, happy and really LOVE themselves, will NOT let ANYONE disrespect or treat them badly because they care about themselves! Men will know exactly how to treat those type of women because they'll realize that they're strong and not pushovers! I do agree with you totally and thanks for a wonderful video. God bless you sir 🙏🌹

[@theanikiforovich]

If he is a sick man he will try to tire the woman down at his level. Some men can't resist in offending an self-sufficient women they want to dominate her and made her worthlessness. But a self-sufficient women will walk away.

[@babou5694]

Preach 💯💯

[@coolcat3452]

You are totally right!..some women fail to appreciate their self worth which is why the men tap into their insecurities & take advantage!!

[@akataakor8192]

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[@myspanisheyes7]

I thought there was supposed to be just 3??? 1Balance, 2 confidence, 3ability to think logically, 4 sense of humor, 5 natural beauty, 6 intelligence. IMO he's a little off with the natural beauty & intelligence. 7 Smile to look positive.8 Cater & nourish.

[@keishajoseph9432]

Feminine energy as well

[@Tropicalbliss45]

The others are bonuses so he is being generous.

[@ravendorsey9662]

I so appreciate the disclaimer about insecurity when a woman’s intuition is telling them their partner is not fully there. Super helpful!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@shawright9273]

I truly understand you that is deep

[@akataakor8192]

Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......

[@abigalestoll]

I agree 💯. Balance, confidence, mastering your emotions, having a pleasant personality, natural beauty, intelligence, nurturing, lightening up in daily activities, feminine energy and living a healthy lifestyle. I love this video because this is who I am and what I believe in 💯❤️.

[@kathymiller1842]

Dearest Stephan, being emotional vs having intuition... when men gaslight us aka lie to us about what our gut is telling us, makes us EMOTIONAL. I think a part of self awareness for women is knowing when to walk away even after you fall in love with that man. We gotta stop accepting toxic treatment just to be with someone. Good people do good things and make good relationships. GL fam.

[@akataakor8192]

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[@MelvaCFelix]

I'm guilty of being emotional because I am really sensitive but I have been learning to control it because I am super intuitive as well. I have to keep talking to myself to balance it.

[@deborarichelle2705]

We appreciate you Stephan! You are clearly a gentleman who has love and adoration for women in general. I’m sure that your mother, as well as other women in your life, love and adore you as well! I know they’re proud. Thank you, for who you are as a therapist and how well you communicate!♥️

[@adayah6772]

Totally agree, he says hard truths but with a non judgmental approach. I can really feel that his intention is really to increase our emotional intelligence. He speaks with love for humanity. 🙏🏿❤️

[@ReginaLynae]

Being fit boost my confidence tremendously

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Most definitely!

[@shironeedwards3467]

Me too🙃

[@originalgoldengoddess]

I totally understand the whole thing about a man needing to feel peace. Because for me I need to feel safe, loved and understood in a relationship... when I feel I have those 3 things then I'm at peace and when I'm at peace I have absolutely nothing to be mad about and the peace I have within me also becomes part of the world around me (my environment)

[@jackievaughn1771]

I am very positive, I smile all the time, I treat my husband with respect, I let him lead the family, the right way. And I catered to my man all the time, when he’s sick I take care of him and he loves that - I show I really care about his health. We are friends, we talk about everything we can think of, and I am very confident in myself & my husband, that I am in good hands with him. We both, love ours selves and ours children’s, we both buy each other special gifts to show how much we care.

[@badlilbrawd0602]

What you're saying about make up is how i felt with fake lashes. Like insecure without them so I stopped wearing them. I didn't want to be dependent on something so silly

[@Babyduzzit]

Me too, i still struggle, i feel like i dont need makeup but its hard to leave my lashes alone 😢

[@elizabethc9843]

Amen to that deadline🙋🏾‍♀️ the men are draining when they’ve overstayed and can’t commit or make up his mind. It’s just unhealthy.

[@craftsentic1899]

I think healthy men know very early on if they see a future with you or not

[@elizabethc9843]

@@craftsentic1899 thanks for distinguishing the healthy ones out. I’ve never come across them, they must be very few as the ones I’ve met start off well but their true colours start to show soon and I know it’s time to say good bye. No need to hang around for games.

[@akataakor8192]

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[@nellysrapyan]

Stephan, you are such an honorable man. You are the epitomy of classic manhood and you should be the men who other man look up to. Thank you so much for all you do from the buttom of my heart

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

[@nellysrapyan]

Every human being can relate to your content regardless of what culture they are from. That's the beauty of your channel, and thanks for helping women to raise their standards and operate from the place of self respect and healthy level of confidence:)

[@Realness4sho]

I agree 💯

[@shonteljones2420]

I agree with you whole heartedly @Nelly Srapya

[@mildacha8050]

Thanks for considerate clarifications about not going to extremes, and not betraying your own wellbeing. It's a great talk to listen to. Thank you. ❤️

[@jeannietervol2266]

Loved listening to your ideas and suggestions on my 2 hour drive home! Thank You! I Appreciate You! ✨👍💛🙌

[@positivevibesonly9536]

I agree, when you meet someone there is an instant connection. Your heart will definitely tell you! You won’t be able to run from no matter the circumstances. Preach Stephan. Your hitting the mark all the time!

[@lynnette8754]

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[@hienienguyen6766]

i am so proud of myself for allowing myself to heal before jumping into another relationship. Just getting myself to a casual relationship again. I love your advice. the spirit will tell you everything you need to know.

[@akataakor8192]

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[@bettydiggs2563]

This guy makes you take a deep thought of yourself. He makes you ask yourself many questions. He has made me take a deeper thought of how I had stopped living the way that would attract men to see the true and loving person God had made me to be. Just because of the bad relationships in had been through. I had given up on being in love or a relationship with someone. Butttt, never think life is over or you are done with that type of life. But I was sooooo surprised at a man saw in me more than I saw. So you are never too old especially if you take care of yourself.

[@barbaracanterbury8533]

All women are beautiful, it depends on a man's concept of what beauty is. I don't know how to apply makeup well. So, I use some foundation and mascara. I wear lip gloss, because I eat off the lipstick. I am always biting my lips. I love wearing head wraps often. You go ladies!

[@maryjones3437]

Men doesn't like Lip gloss

[@barbaracanterbury8533]

@@maryjones3437 It is okay, I am single

[@Heyu7her3]

@Vanessa Louis that's a lie from Hell

[@tunjimontana7597]

I love your videos so much ❤️ . I’m 19 and just broke up with my older bf to become the woman that I desire to be , to find peace with myself so that when I’m actually ready for a committed relationship I would attract positive energy. And I’m also here to say that Being alone (Single) and finding building yourself is such a great feeling ☺️

[@jocelynf8963]

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[@denisedepass2592]

I agree with you because I love when I'm dress up and smell good I feel that Confidence In myself and I love it makes me feel good about myself.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@shaniscott8569]

He literally says everything that im always thinking. Ive seen both sexes have faux-confidence. And some people clothe their insecurities in other things. And at some point that unravels when a person is triggered and you begin to peel back layers and you see it surface when introduced to certain situations. And instead of being able to address conflict and communicate effectively or appropriately that person becomes confrontational and acts out

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@satoyaspencer2215]

Spot on

[@akataakor8192]

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[@tiffineyena7001]

Shading & contouring lol...makeup is like a whole other beast these days. Natural is good thing, plus it allows ur skin to breathe. I feel u Stephan. 😊

[@shawnfahy2420]

"Catering and nurturing." I do this. I have also been told I give too much.

[@Jamilah1117]

Learn how to balance your masculine and feminine energies.

[@Nika-je6zd]

Give less. Learn to receive - then give. Then give only after receiving again!

[@kapital.q9754]

YOU ARE A WELL SPOKEN TRUTH BEARING SPIRITUAL BEING!! ITS SEEMS YOU ARE IN YOUR HUMAN EXPERIENCE PURPOSE!!! ABUNDANT MESSENGER FOR THE UNDERSTANDING... 💯

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you!

[@nadinebotha7448]

I sometimes watch some of these stuff over and over. I realised that you change the way that a person look at certain things and that is a very important thing in relationships as we sometimes have selfish thoughts and cant see the story from a different perspective. I am so grateful to have found you on youtube.

[@elizabethbabilonia7046]

Natural beauty is right, because I hear it from men all the time. But we as women need to keep ourselves right. Do it for yourself first.

[@akataakor8192]

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[@bybyana26]

This happened to me when it came to the physical attraction part. The guy thought I was physically attractive but not enough to make me his girlfriend. I came to that realization on my own it was harsh but it is what it is. Moving on!

[@livefromtheground7274]

Who told him he was choosing YOU? Lol😂. We choose THEM!

[@Nika-je6zd]

Perfect - we choose, not men!

[@ShereSagi]

You are such a well spoken and amazing coach. 🙏🏾❤

[@sacampbr1]

Wow wow wow, Amazing videos!!!! You can’t go wrong getting or attracting the right man after watching these videos. May every woman find the right man ( the man God has for them) after embracing these qualities!!! Thank you for your amazing insight and unique manner in relating them to us. Thanks again!!! 💯💯💯

[@AB_1211]

Awesome message!! Do it for yourselves ladies and not just to get a man. 💯

[@craftsentic1899]

This is how it happened for me ... I spent about 3 years healing, exercising, eating better, loving on my children and traveling ... I was at the point where I was completely content and happy in my singleness, when I met the current guy that I’m dating and now we’re discussing marriage! And He’s a great guy, so I’m thankful!

[@akataakor8192]

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[@erinedwards6970]

Good afternoon Stephan. I am really thankful to God for finding this channel. It's been almost a month since I've been listening to you. YES God has really called you to do your works. I have really learned allot. Thank You So Very Much! God Bless You. ❤️✨

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hesr that 🙌❤

[@akataakor8192]

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[@moniquebrooks6109]

OMG. I’m dying over here with the makeup comments. 🤣🤣🤣 But it’s true if your makeup makes you two different people then you are not being honest with yourself or to men. I can’t imagine a man looking at my makeup transformation then when it’s off and asking who I am. 🤣🤣🤣

[@Nika-je6zd]

Haha. Asking "who are you?"🤣 true - make up should be subtle.

[@lorrainebazydola816]

Phenomenal video ! Ty Stephan You're a blessing to many!!!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@cynthiabrown9085]

Being a woman is a beautiful thing and I love who I am and who God created me to be, I am old school and I know exactly who I am and what I need.

[@akataakor8192]

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[@shirleysmith8565]

❤️🙏🏼❤️

[@rutuja.more02]

The way you explain everything is just amazing and easy to understand... Thankyou so much !😊💫

[@Philjoe]

Intuitiveness/ intuitions is a culmination of skills, experience over the years. We are all emotional beings some more than others... And if you able to handle yourself, you are determined as difficult person...

[@deet340]

I believe what he says about a man can see a woman attractive enough to sleep with, but not commit to her.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Absolutely!

[@CEETHEMUA]

Lmaoooo u was killing me with the makeup topic. But honestly it’s true though I definitely still go days where I’m makeup free to have my skin breathe

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

It really helps when you embrace that, thank you for sharing ❤

[@lajuanajohnson5293]

I am very confident about who I am as a woman. And I'm very confident is what I look like. I love who I am and what I look like so it shines all the way. All the time. Very respectfully. Everything you saying is right. Thank you so much for sharing I love it. 👍♥️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 love that! Thank you for sharing!

[@akataakor8192]

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[@ChristianMotivationMedia]

“For the message of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God.”1 Corint 1:18

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤

[@janetferguson1864]

I appreciate your comment. Scripture first and always. Bless you for that.

[@Charlotte-Willow]

Stephan, How do you know when you are getting answers from God or your intuition or emotion? I wasn’t raised with religion and am trying to make good decisions now. I want the man God has for me.

[@ciara98208]

Steven speaks truths ! When im just being myself, happy, funny enjoying my day...i get flirted with often but when im not feeling my best and am closed off/guarded and probably frowning or look serious...im invisible to men.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@risawilliams6694]

I am so happy I came across this page, you open up my eyes to a lot of things I was lacking in my relationship. My boyfriend is the only guy I have ever been with and I want to keep it that way, he always says my attitude will break this relationship and keep us from moving forward now I know why. He has always been an amazing man so I want to change for us. May God continue blessing you so you can keep on sharing this powerful advice ❤❤

[@adriennea8309]

I appreciate you Stephan and your videos have made a major impact in the way I date and the way I view men in general. Please continue to give us information we might not have had the opportunity to have otherwise. ❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy my videos have been helpful to you I appreciate your feedback and be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing!

[@adriennea8309]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks most definitely!

[@annekajordan6952]

Stephan I’m hoping & praying all is well. Thank you for this video, I do like the way you break things down. Thank you for all that you do 🙏❤️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙏 Thank you for your feedback I appreciate hearing from you!

[@annekajordan6952]

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[@truelifelessons5872]

Yes thanks for that advice King, balance is so important lol I’m currently working on improving my health in the physical to become the best me I can be. I believe two whole individuals coming together can remain themselves while enjoying a peaceful loving relationship building an empire to the fullest ❤️😊🙏🏽 Thanks

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙏 I'm happy the video has been helpful to you, thank you for your feedback and don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing!

[@akataakor8192]

Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......

[@sandramoore1391]

Facts truth be told it always good to feel confident in your own skin.. enough said.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

[@TheAmariieXperience]

You are speaking truths upon truths!!! Come through Stephan!!♥️♥️♥️🗣🙏🏽 I love the way you break it down right now to the last detail. Sweet Lord I was all men were like you lol. Happy Friday King have a great day.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you very much and may you have a great day as well!

[@TheAmariieXperience]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks You’re welcome! Thank you so much!😊

[@womenwhodate7643]

I never regret watching a video from you. You are one of a kind ❤️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

[@vyndettaharrington5728]

Good tips confidence, balance! And ladies we must know our worth we are strong human beings with man or without!

[@tiatianaajournee]

You’re very careful with your words🤍 But be on point literally, Well said as usual lol .💖🥰 Can we just get a MILLION male versions of you to go around for the few millions of Good Women out HERE !🥺👑😩😂

[@ginafromdabronx9333]

I laugh a lot sometimes at things i shouldn't. I'm just a happy person. Stephan...u crack me up!!! 😂😂😂😂 Tell them boiiii....being offended is over rated. Just laugh!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@debbyshark1596]

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[@dena5558]

Confidence about position in the relationship - solid advice! Thank you for always letting God speak through you!

[@akataakor8192]

Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together.......

[@akataakor8192]

十18185143510🪴🪴❄️❄️抄送，你會很高興..

[@akataakor8192]

Contact him👆👆.

[@AllThingsTiffanyTV]

This video is very good. So many gems ! Thank you for taking the time to deliver such great long lasting advice and direction.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

[@nevergiveyouupbjcaldwell2454]

I'm so glad you addressed the makeup issue. I have natural looks but can rise to the occasion when needed. I have never had a problem attracting good men.They share that they prefer to know what they're getting up front & not be surprised when the makeup comes off. Great video.

[@sheilaboykins9544]

A lot of what your saying is spot on. And I am always smiling and I am a very happy person And I am very feminine And my problem is sometimes being so caring and loving a lot of times get me hurt. And I always try very hard to keep my emotions in check which took a lot for me to learn. So thank you for being real.

[@steeenab2306]

With my ex fiancé after my divorce I was more in my masculine because I was just trying to survive he was horribly abusive 😢 it was hard to get out but that’s was years ago now. I’ve been working on ME for over 10 years ❤. Now am ready to meet the one God really has. Finished with bad choices 😂 I get to BE what I want. Luv u Stephan. Thanks so much for this It really resonates. Blessings n hugs.

[@rshahid145]

You’re a strong woman , and of course you had to be in your masculine energy-the right man would understand this. Never feel like you have to apologize for taking care of yourself and family.

[@donnakimble3061]

Hey Stephan-- Just wanted to let you know that I actually chuckled when you suggested humor as being a characteristic men love!

[@chantelles5841]

This is so ridiculously on point!!! I love it

[@jamaicankay752]

Laughed through this entire video right with you ☺️… all qualities so true and on point. Definitely the best way to move as a woman…easily…Naturally. ❤️🌹

[@fondathompson1513]

I catered to my boyfriend but he didnt pour or match the energy on me. He was cheating and lied about talking to his old girlfriend. I trusted my intuition finaly after a year and then left!

[@WendelynMorall]

Wow... he is really good. A lot of stuff is beginning to make sense now. I appreciate the advice and the delivery is on point and keeps me listening and wanting to hear more. Thank you.

[@kimerickson1353]

Thank you for this. I learned every one of these lessons with my late husband. I feel now that, when the time is right, I will be able to easily step into another relationship.

[@akataakor8192]

Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together.......

[@akataakor8192]

Contact him👆👆.

[@kimlaura8663]

Thank you for enlightening me about masculine energy because I knew it existed in myself, but I could not identify what my own masculine energy did to my relationships, but I was always overcompensating for my fathers, brothers and uncles acceptance because it is like a club that i have forced myself into.

[@firstcareems2520]

Sir you are the truth!!!!!!! Love these videos. The way you go into depth about these topics and really break it down for us women who have been moving wrong and trying to understand love and men. I wish I would've known you years ago; you would've saved me a lot of heart break and time!!! Thank you. Please keep doing what you're doing!!!!!!!!!!

[@santanacarter4833]

I ABSOLUTE LOVE AND ADORE THIS 2-PART VIDEO MESSAGE!!! STEPHAN GIVE"S OUT SO MUCH VALUABLE INFORMATION THAT WILL HELP A LOT OF WOMEN..💯😍😍😍😩

[@unasmith6633]

The 3rd one especially, is the "kicker". So many times the emotions tends to take over. But you need to calm down, think about it, if you are not sure ask a friend someone you trust and respect. It's really kinda like follow your heart but don't leave your brain behind. Yes, I agree. Let him see you without the wig as soon as possible. Then he can make up his mind if he can live with it, or not.

[@MultiPrankster100]

😂😂😂 why is this so funny! Informative and comical- I love it!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad you enjoyed it and don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing ❤

[@LIONESSOFZION]

I love listening to him and I'm already married and have accomplished many of these aspects he speaks of and can confirm it is true. 💯

[@inahhanson6419]

I love your comments about loving your natural state. It is so hilarious. Lol. Thank you for your advice.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

[@Summer-tk8yk]

I can listen to you for the whole day! Really enjoy the content. Thanks. ❤

[@Rubykins64]

I watched that makeup part like 10 times now and I can't stop laughing. You tried your best though.😭🤣😭🤣

[@deethompson3592]

Stephan should be giving talks in our schools - such insight 👏👏👏👏👏Watching and supporting you from across the pond 🇬🇧 ✨️🙏❤

[@73odus]

In regards to physical appearance…I had gastric bypass surgery & lost 130 pounds, thinking, “Surely, I won’t be single, much longer.” 12 years later, I’m still single, so I don’t even know what to think anymore… Clearly, I have a major personality flaw that nobody is telling me about, and one that I, myself, can’t pinpoint.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏

[@jessicaborsum9377]

I just wanna say how much it soothes my heart to know that there are people out there like you who are truly educating our society because it is so unhealthy out there and I’ve watched a lot of your videos and I always tell guys that a real man will lead with love and nurturing. “I know that comes off as a feminine trait!” But it’s the piece that truly allows a woman to let her guard down enough to trust him to lead and your educating and leading a large population of women with so much love and nurturing in your words and for this reason I believe they are hearing you. Thank you being a true example and taking the time to talk these issues out. 💗

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@caronhagler9358]

My first date with my guy, I was make up free. I only wore lip gloss. Even though I wear wigs, I took it off and showed him that I have my natural hair below. I kept it real 100%

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤

[@starseed484]

I LOVE your video Stephan, you make me laugh I can agree with this video 100%

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@starseed484]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I meant VIDEOS! All of them are powerful All my gratitude 🌟

[@djuanamccray5601]

You are so absolutely 💯 right, I love what you're saying and this is definitely true in my world🙏

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thanks for watching I appreciate your feedback ❤

[@pattysanchez9141]

Stephan What else can I say that most haven’t already ? YOU ARE AMAZING !!! ❤ I watch all your videos and have bought your books. I watch videos over and over again. I learn something new with every video. God Bless you Sir!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@Realness4sho]

Lovely message darling. 🌺 Only Guilty and Unhealed folks will “Dislike” your advice. ✅💜♥️💕🥰

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you!

[@evasccl7846]

Another great video Stephan, thank you ❣I would like to point out that those women who have more masculine traits, all I know is that they had to develop that side in order to be dad and mom at the same time in order for them to cover all the needs and responsibilities that were left on her shoulders. Yes, because there are men whom abandon the woman whom had his baby and all the responsibilities he'd have with/for the child alone. That behaviour is cruel and there are women whom not only take it all in and concentrate on bringing her child up, but she goes on doing the right thing for the right reasons. Many decide or feel forced to put their woman's needs aside for their children and when they are 18 these women are so depleated... in every area, they then got to work extra to recover themselves and it does not help men not actually be willing to dig why she is the way she is... what is her story, all she had to overcome in life ... love heals and restores faith, awakes love and build dreams. It takes a special man to do that work and embracing her in such vulnerable state could and would change the lives of all involved. These are the cases nobody talks about, these are the women whom still need to feel loved and cared for at an emotional level in particular. And yes, this excess masculinity developed can make a woman ill and take her life away. Let's be real, people want easy and long gone seems to be the making effort and being genuinely patient and lovingin these cases Stephan. Thank you 🤗

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

It isn't an easy situation but we need to focus on doing what is truly best 🙏

[@evasccl7846]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Indeed, and doing the right thing for the right reason even if you are the only one doing it... hats off to you !(that i admire and deeply respect).

[@kerrondonegal-ewen9479]

Well said and so true. We need to learn balance and give ourselves a break to feed ourselves

[@tprucha]

Women can do it all but there is a price and they need to be honored…. But are often taken advantage of and expected to always be so strong. They are depleted not damaged. It takes a real man to be for her.

[@akataakor8192]

Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together........

[@Jettingred4]

Ty Stephen😇🙏❤️ Great listening to your ideas! Truly helpful and uplifting 🙌😍 Love the statement about Sense of humor because I find that extremely sexy in a man. Most of the jobs I’ve had were with men and laughing was so important in our work environment. Life is tough enough, so happiness makes a day so much easier 😃

[@marygraham9893]

My guy had a Mom who worked on cars with him, raised chickens and sold eggs, sewed, pressure canned their foods. I had to laugh, those are all things I enjoy. I'm very much country at heart. But he is comfortable with me enjoying things that make others uncomfortable. That's special. I respect him. He smart, hard working, visionary in business, and caring. I try to find ways to be supportive. To let him know I believe in him. Our commitment is to get acquainted and build a friendship. I love camping and fishing. He loves camping, fishing; and hunting. It has been his time to be alone. That is an area where he'd still want some time for himself yet sometimes it is something we could share. That would need to be respected. Much to learn about each other while knowing you never fully know anyone.

[@inahhanson6419]

Cater to your man is another one. It is so funny to hear you speak on that. I was raised by my grandmother and that is what I was taught to do. I love to cater to people. I love how you explain your topics and how you just have a good time doing it. 😆

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback!

[@catherinemcdonald9141]

Thank you, a thousand times Stephan. You have made me a very happy woman. I now feel I am an ideal woman. Individually I knew I had these qualities but my confidence hasn't always been the best. So I went on a healing journey and I now love myself, warts and all. That is the blessing in this life for me. Your video has given me my confidence back. Such a helpful video. Much love from Scotland x