This singer is perfection. The song is very personal to me, having lost a wonderful wife, at 48. Cancer. I was fortunate to see Alison and Union Station live last year, what a night! Thanks for putting this beautiful compilation of images together.
@Spiritpup59 жыл бұрын
+george stacey Just want to say, I'm sorry for your loss.
@sliphorns9 жыл бұрын
+Jeff R. Just to say Thankyou.
@cynthiacampbell8669 жыл бұрын
+george stacey Same story here. 5 years soon. It gets easier, but this song always kind of brings it back.
@sliphorns9 жыл бұрын
+Cynthia Campbell You know that gap in your life now. My loss was many more years ago, but she was my lifeblood.my soulmate. Time passes, the loss does not, for me. Fortunately I am a buoyant person, but today I had a Christmas letter from the Hospice, asking for more funds............heart-breaking. Best wishes to you.
@philosophy20518 жыл бұрын
+george stacey ~ I can relate.
@fondajohnson47073 жыл бұрын
My dad played this song by Shenendoah over and over after my mom left us to start another life. I was 11 years old... but I still remember the loss the feeling and emptiness. How he ached for my mom to come home. Now, that he's passed without ever reconciling, and never remarried... I have my own tears to cry to this song. It grasps the truth of pain when losing someone by choice or death... Grateful for good music and beautiful voices.
@karandiems28132 жыл бұрын
ß9
@hppy2bhere Жыл бұрын
That's so sad for all of you. 😭
@juanitaalegria5773 Жыл бұрын
Her voice is so pure. She is in a league of her own.
@markkeneson68067 жыл бұрын
It is almost criminal that talented artists like this aren't played on Country radio stations.
@kaylamcderment15176 жыл бұрын
Yes! Bc modern pop country has taken over, you'll have to get in with a bluegrass station to hear her. Such a shame.
@muziklvrnfl28355 жыл бұрын
I agree totally, she has the voice of an angel, even Dolly Parton said so
@fres2death4694 жыл бұрын
Absolutely, this is such pure talent!! Noone knows for sure but i think its safe to say this is what an angel would sound like
@Lorenesque2 жыл бұрын
Her voice is so pure it is like a ringing bell in perfect pitch. I learned of her because of the Raising Sand album with Robert Plant. I knew all about him, for sure!
@josephdagel4612 жыл бұрын
Wish granted
@virgilcaine32918 жыл бұрын
Allison Krause is a gift to American music.
@amberswafford93055 жыл бұрын
Virgil Caine I have to disagree. She’s not a gift to American music. She’s a blessing to the world’s music. ❤️ See what I did there? Lol
@bobroose23455 жыл бұрын
Brings tears
@alexks48855 жыл бұрын
When youve lost something you know youll never be able to replace and youre hollow. You just go through the motions because inside youve died but your body just hasnt caught up yet.
@Lexilea684 жыл бұрын
And then one day the smoke does lift. God intervenes. Bless you brother Alex. Lexi
@tracielee-thearle66694 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@joshhamilton45913 жыл бұрын
I lost my wife 2 years today and this song still explains how I feel
@lizwhittleston59633 жыл бұрын
Lost my soul mate 16 and 9 mths ago and l never be whole again
@lisashireman5822 жыл бұрын
What if you feel this way,, but live in a house full of people? But everyone has there head in their phone or refuse to see what a shell you have become.
@ericfolloway22784 жыл бұрын
I believe she probably has the best female voice I've ever heard sing so effortless and pure if I could hear a angel sing It would sound a lot like her
@eleanorbaham36802 жыл бұрын
She is my Dad’s favorite..says her voice is perfection, sounds like an angel..after hearing her sing this song I’m inclined to agree..❤️
@shannonmcgregor46084 жыл бұрын
Allison Krauss sounds and looks like a angel.
@bernicewalsh34323 жыл бұрын
She’s more than an angel if that’s possible.
@wamblipaytah16003 жыл бұрын
Couldn't say it better brother!
@crimsonshadow80203 жыл бұрын
If the Angels don't sound like her, I will be disappointed...🤷
@LittleOrphanGranny2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely agree!!!
@rickbullock433110 ай бұрын
In my opinion, Alison is the best female country singer out there. I have never heard her hit a bad note. She is an amazing musician and she surrounds herself with other fantastic musicians and singers.
@tamlououldhouse48894 жыл бұрын
I just lost my husband age 51 last Sunday he loved this song and her version. Been a rough week. You wake up one day a your other half gone. Your whole life goes upside down and changes drastically.
@TENNDOR4 жыл бұрын
Hi TamiLou. It’s not easy losing a husband , I speak from experience. I was widowed at 49 years. Praying for you
@cherylmandrackie58844 жыл бұрын
I lost my husband in June. This is exactly what I am now, with no heart and no soul. Just a ghost.
@Lexilea684 жыл бұрын
TamLou, may you find peace and the Lord keep you. I couldn't imagine... Lexi
@Lexilea684 жыл бұрын
@@cherylmandrackie5884 May you feel God's presence Cheryl.
@ellenvickers51397 жыл бұрын
This is the way I feel since lost my husband to cancer...Love and miss him so.
@pevensielavere2220 күн бұрын
My Dad and I used to listen to AKUS on our Sunday drives. I miss you, soooo much, Dad. R.I.P. Always, i will love you, and will play this song while I drive the back country roads, where we used to sing together, out our open windows...xoxo
@kaywydra68085 жыл бұрын
The song A Ghost in This House by Alison Krauss is definitely the true meaning of how a person feels when the love of their life is no longer with them.
@virginiahickman14234 жыл бұрын
Yes
@judybice52934 жыл бұрын
Definitely
@mariahjohnson89654 жыл бұрын
Amen to those words -- It's May/2020 and I lost my wife of 51 years last June -- I've always been a big Allison Krauss fan --- what a talent!!! It certainly hits home with me. David J
@pocahon84603 жыл бұрын
She didn't write it
@SarahJamesJazz2 жыл бұрын
@@pocahon8460 She doesn't have to had written it to own it, which she does in this heartbreaking, soul crushing version.... I just don't know another song, or another artist who reaches this level of truth in music........
@evenyonyozi8186 Жыл бұрын
It’s been almost 10years still waiting on one man in my life but listening to this song makes me feel like the real ghost in the house. It gives me closure Thank you Alison.
@HomesteadingWays4 жыл бұрын
I lost my husband in an accident at home in April 2018. Yes, this is how it feels.... thank you, Alison.
@thevictorianedge54653 жыл бұрын
I remember when that happened, I was watching a lot of homestead videos at the time. I think of you often. I hope you are doing well.
@lolashelle3 жыл бұрын
I lost my husband to Covid in January...this is exactly how I feel...
@HomesteadingWays3 жыл бұрын
@@thevictorianedge5465 yes, I'm doing as good as possible. Thanks for asking.
@HomesteadingWays3 жыл бұрын
@@lolashelle I'm so sorry...
@broncobra Жыл бұрын
Good luck, and God Bless, sweetheart.
@sheilameeks485810 ай бұрын
40 years ago, (this weekend in fact) I met the man of my dreams. We married in May of '84. We had 2 beautiful children, 12 years apart (medical issues on my behalf). Though we went through struggles, We NEVER gave up on each other, our marriage and our family. He passed away suddenly on July 4th, 2021. My 💔 heart was shattered and continues to be, because I went from being an 18 year old kid living at home with my parents, to being married. There was always taking care of me. I am a mere ghost in my home now. Time melts together. Most days, I have no idea what day it actually is. I was today years old when I found this beautiful song.
@regularity25567 ай бұрын
❤
@kirstcoop210 жыл бұрын
I get goosebumps every time I listen to this song. Alison has such an incredible voice!
@williamkirkland70024 жыл бұрын
You really get "GHOST" Bumps... Booooo!!! Happy Halloween 2020
@garykucera76682 жыл бұрын
WHAT BEAUTIFUL EXPRESSSIONS OF WHAT ONCE WAS, THIS SONG IS MUCH DEEPER THAN MANY MAY RELIZE, I TRUELY LOVE WHAT SHE SHARES IN THIS SONG...
@jonathanhockey99438 жыл бұрын
Beautiful, amazing, for anyone who has been lonely and lost, this song speaks to you
@conniebarker10718 жыл бұрын
Yes, it does! I feel lost without my husband. We were married for 32 days when he died suddenly at age 48. This song is exactly how I feel.
@WatchTower19618 жыл бұрын
Amen brother.
@bushmaster78938 жыл бұрын
Wow Rainy Days....that really sux...sorry for the hurt you hold inside.
@pikschus6 жыл бұрын
I have no words for the emotions this evokes in me :(
@jonathanhockey99435 жыл бұрын
I am still returning here 3 years later, I lost my dad, I lost everything, the only person I loved, but I am so thankful also for what he gave to me, and I am living a good life, trying to fulfil all I can in life
@scampbellbhs4 жыл бұрын
How does she sound so good with absolutely no vibrato in her voice?
@CathyRayMusic3 жыл бұрын
@Alison Krauss OH YES!!! She has such Perfect vocal control that she uses it WHEN SHE WANTS TO!!! It's very rapid and she uses it to "Mold" a song. Harry In Cartersville...Ex Drummer who just discovered this jewel only 3 or 4 months ago. I'm an addict for her music now!!!
@yvonnehope7155 Жыл бұрын
My hubby passed away 4/6/2023... i feel this song and words right to my core...unfathomable pain and emptiness.....
@janefogg92377 жыл бұрын
Two years ago, I lost my husband and this CD was in his car. I never listen to it and only until two months ago, I listened to the entire songs. My daughter 37, lost her husband, and i found this song so personal to both of us. She lives with me, and each verse is so close to home. We both share the lost of our husbands, we both live in the same house, parts of the song belong to me and parts belong to her. The song is unbelievable and the fact that my husband left it in his car for us to share in this absolutely wonderful, it makes it a gift from someone. Thank you Jesus.
@Parrish_MuhoberacАй бұрын
One of the most beautiful and haunting pieces of music I've ever encountered.
@alanqueen44696 жыл бұрын
She has the most angelic voice.
@rickbullock43316 ай бұрын
I’ve listened to this song numerous times and love Alison’s vocals. She is definitely one if not the purist voices around today. Alison has also surrounded herself with amazing musicians too. She’s absolutely great.👍👍🇨🇦
@Lorenesque2 жыл бұрын
This unbelievable song touches my heart in so many ways. I have lost two husbands and I know I will be alone forever. Alison Krause’ music is a great comfort to me. Her songs are like comforting prayers. May God bless her.
@dicksanders82062 жыл бұрын
Glad this lovely music is a comfort to you. God bless.
@Tonyguy1412 жыл бұрын
you may not be alone reach out
@jerelinastumph66698 ай бұрын
When I hear this song , I think of my Daddy , when my Moma had passed on to live in Heaven and what his feelings and thoughts were days in and nights. I tear up and miss the both so much. Now they are both in Heavens Home. I Love you Moma and Daddy and my brother Blane. 💜💚💙
@kathleenrisner9270 Жыл бұрын
Alison Krause singing I'm Just a Ghost in this House the most beautiful love story ever heard. Alison captures our hearts wrapping each in debilitating sadness. And, a spirit rises from the ashes as the Phoenix never dies.
@captaincassbag78137 жыл бұрын
My dad picked this beautiful song for his choir to sing and it just reminds me how music can change the world and how pretty and sad it can be. It is really sad that people don’t appreciate how much work people have to do to get an absolutely beautiful result
@fres2death4694 жыл бұрын
My mother plays this song all the time after my dad passed, and it hurts my heart
@dannywoody54972 жыл бұрын
This is definitely the spiritual side of country music
@maryjones431510 жыл бұрын
this girl has the best voice sings country music I love her music.
@anglerfish82783 жыл бұрын
That is a voice given by God. And she plays music too. Can not ever get enough of this beautiful lady. Ever.
@ldonahue04285 жыл бұрын
On of my favorite songs ever...she did a GREAT job!!
@jeromes51835 жыл бұрын
Jesus, her voice is piercing in this song. Truly moving.
@danjohnson767110 жыл бұрын
Alison is AMAZING, and this Prestwood lyric is incredible. Songwriters eat your hearts out!
@IHeartAtx Жыл бұрын
The patience and precise control Alison has over her voice is awesome! Not a note rushed, deceptively gentle, no extra little frilly trills to disguise weak phrasing or breath control.
@deb5200 Жыл бұрын
There is just one word for this song, and for Alison Krauss's voice. . . . . . . . . ."pure."
@vinniemacleanjr53362 жыл бұрын
Greatest voice for a female period! This girl can sing the phone book ! And nail it !!
@brenttrlak34010 жыл бұрын
this is thee most beautiful song ever..wow she does sing thru her heart...peace..
@shawnahicks11105 жыл бұрын
Alison has a beautiful way of singing exactly what the heart feels.Thank you Alison for your gift !
@dicksanders82062 жыл бұрын
Yes, she does. And so does Mary Chapin Carpenter.
@sharrensattar50273 жыл бұрын
Alison voice is perfection
@Lowgun53 жыл бұрын
Every song she sings is perfect. She plays a mean fiddle too. On top of all that, she attracts amazing talents to make music with her. She is an angel sent to this earth to show us mere mortals what the angels sound like when they decide it's time to sing a few songs.
@bonniea50824 жыл бұрын
Her voice is so beautiful. Love her!
@richardglazebrook21636 жыл бұрын
One of the most beautiful voice in music ♡ her voice beautiful song # 1 song ♡
@jimmiejordan18 жыл бұрын
I was asking the Lord as I was listening to this song, " Father what do you do when you did EVERYTHING correct and you still loose? He told me, Son then you know EXACTLY what I felt while enduring the Cross. For I had done nothing wrong and yet paid with my life.
@wendymontague94758 жыл бұрын
Jim Jordan
@tylerwalker46468 жыл бұрын
couldn't say it much better than that
@TLC92919647 жыл бұрын
WOW!! Powerful!! Thank you for sharing. God bless you Jim
@jerrymorris22437 жыл бұрын
Wow BEAUTIFUL
@theresakappos24736 жыл бұрын
God never lost though.. Jesus didn't lose ... HE WON! right? or am I missing something here.
@stonedslytherin8587 Жыл бұрын
I came out to my mom and at first she was so supportive but then she just changed and listening to this song (been listening to this my whole life) has me crying in my kitchen in the dark at midnight. I can feel the pain physically in my chest. I cant even explain it to her.
@reeferjames14325 жыл бұрын
Alison makes this song timeless. With God at our side, all things are possible. We lost our father last July. I held him as he took his last breaths. My mother is still struggling, especially through these past holidays. For all who are hurting, may the good Lord ease your pain and give you comfort. You are not alone.
@pspfantammy513 ай бұрын
I guess I joined the club I never wanted to be a part of. I lost my best friend and love of my life 2 nights ago. It’s so quiet here tonite. I miss him 💔 RIP KRH
@charmainesims92642 жыл бұрын
This song is absolute perfection and absolute heartbreak. The lyrics are SO well written, (thank you, Hugh Prestwood) and the melody is perfect. The version by the band Shenandoah was wonderful but cannot compare to the hauntingly beautiful rendition by the angelic Alison Kraus. Kudos to the band and the background singers as well. The harmonies were perfect. Alison has the voice of an angel.
@chantalscherer41623 жыл бұрын
One of the best songs ever and the lyrics are amazing.
@juliecox22636 жыл бұрын
This song sends chils down my spin... song has such strong meaning.. and to see someone u love dearly feel the same way this song says.. breaks u more than the loss itself
@larrysnyder34756 жыл бұрын
Beautiful voice and beautiful lady. One of her very best songs. No one can sing this like she can.
@craigschepers78946 жыл бұрын
Brings every memory of loss to the surface....emotions etall
@janosistvan52265 жыл бұрын
Can't think of anyone better than her to sing this song. What a fine artist her angelic voice smooths out the rough edges of life to an acceptable level. What a great song for her also what great lyrics.
@rayetheirdge4048 жыл бұрын
Her voice is as beautiful as she is. I just love to listen to her mesmerising voice. She can melt all your cares away
@paulletchworth81276 жыл бұрын
This song was meant for Alison what a unbelievable voice , best female singer on the planet period!!!!!!!
@jodywilke46425 жыл бұрын
This is a beautiful song, but very sad. Alison has such a lovely voice--I would love to see her and Union Station perform live! Until then, I guess I'll have to keep watching their videos.😊💒
@chrisdanford78687 жыл бұрын
Alison's voice makes the tears flow. She is truly blessed by God. Such beauty and perfection.
@Gary-n5l7y11 ай бұрын
The voice of a ANGEL, AND THE LOOKS OF A BEAUTIFULWOMAN!! I'VE LOVED HER SINCE I FIRST SAW & HEARD HER. ❤❤ .. GWP.
@GorillaCrewWarGaming2 жыл бұрын
This song touches a lot of people who have lost their love. I wish I could hug ALL of you........
@MidnightWriter82107 жыл бұрын
I love Alison Kraus; her voice has the power to evoke empathy and sorrow...
@ShingInAction10 жыл бұрын
I love her! Bet voice soothes my mind and soul. ..
@ShingInAction10 жыл бұрын
Her* voice!
@tylerwalker46468 жыл бұрын
when it comes right down to it this can tell the story of each one of us
@nathandeal97036 жыл бұрын
Agreed. It can be the story of us getting over someone that they loved so dearly and lost to soon, or trapped in a bad situation where it doesn’t feel like anything you do matters.
@jebsmoak9254 жыл бұрын
God yes smfh
@toosexy79553 жыл бұрын
@@nathandeal9703 I used to love to work in my flower garen,NO MORE, I loved to Sing, "NO MORE" Sometimes I forgt to eet just sitting in my chair all day & wondering why my husband left to go to heaven on e special day..."CHRISTAS MORNING"...Seems like I don't have a HEART anymore for anything.."TEARS"~
@gaylinnames65558 жыл бұрын
love her voice she does this well
@skidoo39968 жыл бұрын
i'm in love with that song
@septsong18 жыл бұрын
me too!!!
@TheStonedstone7 жыл бұрын
And me
@rick-gy3lm4 жыл бұрын
One word to describe Alison Krauss. Perfection.
@Carl53838 жыл бұрын
Love Alison and Union Gap's arrangement of this song. It's got rich ballad, soul, blue-grass tones. Good song. Good production.
@rosebarnwell60168 жыл бұрын
Carl5383 Funny! Union Station, not Gap!
@ellenrik5 жыл бұрын
That would be Gary Puckett and the Union Gap, This is Alison Krauss and Union Station.
@marthapike65697 жыл бұрын
Amazing and haunting !!!
@susananderson55559 жыл бұрын
I love the lyrics. "I'm just a whisper of smoke..."
@dangervich6 жыл бұрын
"I'm all that's left of two hearts on fire" Yes. Me too.
@marianoconnor19234 жыл бұрын
My favourite female country singer, what a song what a voice ❤️
@StephenEJones2 жыл бұрын
She is and has always been an amazing musician!! Violin to vocals she is one of the greatest!! Her voice cuts right to the core of my soul. Her voice has this angelic yet sweet and seductive quality that is almost hypothesizing.
@traylorvh6 жыл бұрын
So beautiful, my husband loved her voice. I didn't play this one for him, but have played it many many times over the last six years since he died. Because, I am just a ghost in this house. I love my ghost he is with always. When you have had the best, nothing else will do.
@SuzyBriseno8 жыл бұрын
I don't pick up the mail I don't pick up the phone I don't answer the door I'd just as soon be alone I don't keep this place up I just keep the lights down I don't live in these rooms I just rattle around I'm just a ghost in this house I'm just a shadow upon these walls As quietly as a mouse I haunt these halls I'm just a whisper of smoke I'm all that's left of two hearts on fire That once burned out of control You took my body and soul I'm just a ghost in this house I don't care if it rains I don't care if it's clear I don't mind staying in There's another ghost here He sits down in your chair And he shines with your light And he lays down his head On your pillow at night I'm just a ghost in this house I'm just a shadow upon these walls I'm living proof of the damage Heartbreak does I'm just a whisper of smoke I'm all that's left of two hearts on fire That once burned out of control And took my body and soul I'm just a ghost in this house Oh, I'm just a ghost in this house
@marcellamiddleton63348 жыл бұрын
love this
@WiesbadeWildcats2011 Жыл бұрын
Heart break will do this to you I KNOW IVE BEEN THERE
@judyharl6546 жыл бұрын
So beautiful she sang on CMT artist 2018 with Kelsea Ballerini
@jacquesanthony18584 жыл бұрын
Absolutely Breath Taking, and wonderfully amazing
@elisafrankle86552 жыл бұрын
The most beautiful voice! My favorite version❤️❤️
@glenysward37412 жыл бұрын
I think Many of us have gone through this much pain and can write a song that we all love.
@greggreaves17273 жыл бұрын
Dan Tyminski's harmony is spot on. I love this tune.
@brendangamble88248 ай бұрын
Absolute Bliss. This is the saddest song in the world. And perfectly sung.
@carlosbernasconi4965 Жыл бұрын
How fantastic way of conveying the hollowness and dark feeling after a great loss. A.K.you are really great !!
@bjgsag3 жыл бұрын
I love Allison ,such a sweet voice !
@ilene514 жыл бұрын
absolutely beautiful Alison
@carolynexpress7 жыл бұрын
I can so relate to this song.. love of my life died at 33..it's been 36 yrs and nothing has changed..the pain remains ,Nobody could ever take his place..
@kellykelly60495 жыл бұрын
Carolyn Jackson I’ve learned that just because we share a commonality, one will never be able to compare or feel an ounce of the hurt and sadness that resides within us. That being said, I too lost my everything almost exactly a year ago, he was 35 it was unexpected and tragic.. it becomes easier to say to those around me that I’m okay, but I’m merely pacifying those that just don’t get it. Heal? Healing would suggest I have a wound. I don’t have a wound, I am missing my soul, my heart, my world - it left me when he did. I can’t put a bandage on that and it will forever remain, I’m just learning to live without, not suicidal but I’m also no going to rush out of the way of an incoming missle and I’ll not be a hero stepping in front of a child about to get hit, I will only be greedily jumping my place in line. I’m just a whisper of smoke.. I’m all that’s left of two hearts on fire.. I can keep breathing, keep going because of one fact- one day I will see him again. Each day I awake, wondering, will it be today? Some days I feel like a prepubescent youth waiting for love to find me, dreaming of what might be..feeling as if it’s so far away. Best of luck Carolyn :(, you are not alone
@toddrandall39595 жыл бұрын
Please don't think I'm making light of your loss, or the obvious pain accompanied by that. But you have a tremendous amount of time to be thankful for with such an amazing love. I'm 53 and have never known love like you've experienced. I am trying to grow old gracefully, but it gets harder with each passing year. I would encourage you to celebrate what you have that can never be taken away, memories... As for me, I'm left with nothing.
@jonburrows26845 жыл бұрын
@@toddrandall3959 very well put
@kleineskindmarshall74134 жыл бұрын
wonderful im so touched ,smiling in tears lost my husband recently.this song went straight to my soul thank you for shareing.beautiful job.
@flamencoprof Жыл бұрын
This is a great hymn to lost love. In my case it was divorce. Could be other. I learned to play it on guitar because Alison's version was the first I heard. Hugh is here on YT and worth listening to. We all have ghosts, even if we are not one. Be nice and hope you don't cause one.
@kevingill6483 жыл бұрын
Love this woman! her music is beautiful with meaningful lyrics
@elainemontano43797 жыл бұрын
i have tears in my heart and soul!! I lost my beloved dad and mom also , I gave them everything I had.
@celestialskye15 жыл бұрын
I did too Elaine. I miss my Parents each day I'm alive.
@amedeofilippi63366 жыл бұрын
So sad , though so beautiful song, she made my cry.
@rebeccawitherington6835 Жыл бұрын
It's been 5 years since my husband died I'm not over it. When you love someone that's real. This is what it is like
@alanqueen44695 жыл бұрын
Most amazing voice, and a great song.
@cathylewis51749 жыл бұрын
amazing woman with an amazing voice
@grahamd47645 жыл бұрын
Not a country music fan; but this chick makes my heart melt.
@gracenatassa166610 жыл бұрын
There is class and there is class... Alison you are CLASS... You sing like a bird :) x
@elmer17123 жыл бұрын
Lost my wife due to liver cancer.Last month. This was one of her favorite. Eventhough this song sure relates too the way I feel right now.
@mike-rayner-videos5 жыл бұрын
so very beautiful
@piyabiswas94752 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful song
@RichardBentley-n8c10 ай бұрын
She has a voice of an angel 😇❤
@marinaassanti34152 ай бұрын
Meravigliosa, angelica Alison
@mrpensive73414 жыл бұрын
They don't call her Alison (the Voice)Krauss for nothing, Love this song beautiful!!
@rosebud195912 жыл бұрын
It hurts when you lose the love of your life, & you never get to say goodbye.!!! No car to get there before he passed... Never got to say goodbye... That's pain..