My ex is a paedophile | Life Stories

[@wagherbert]

This is one brave lady. Not because she called the Police, but because she is sharing her absolute vulnerability with us. Huge respect.

[@eddyposh72]

Look above at a reply to my post and you'll understand why. Not everyone is brave enough to report them when you get judged in the way I've just been for finding evidence and going to the Police.

[@RobertEkard]

Stronger than Arnold in his prime and more hairy than Robin Williams. More brave than the military guys than won all the wars. This of course is not a lie. At all.

[@lorra222]

I’m confused , a persons vulnerability should not exist, if it includes the helping of sexually abused children. Sorry, but not huge respect here, we should all have the courage as Human beings to speak out the truth.

[@eddyposh72]

@lorralorra222 but we should not be attacked by others for speaking the truth and revealing it when we find the evidence. To be told you should be arrested for seeing the material that you came across is ludicrous. Which one person has said should have happened.

[@catherinegrace2366]

Yes, I agree. Mad respect for her

[@Whenlifegivesyoulemonssss]

“Those children are worth more than that”. They absolutely are. Our justice system is an absolute embarrassment.

[@leopardprints]

The sentences for child abuse in general is way too low in the UK. It sends a terrible message. I've seen so many cases of judges claiming that the convicted who view CSAM are not a danger to children because they are not 'hands on' abusers. But specialist say that people who watch CSAM usually do have 'real life' victims- and that if they could get access to a child, they would abuse 'in real life' Also, the victims in the CSAM are being re-abused and re-victimised every time their abuse is viewed. So even watching it is abuse. The USA has the right idea with their harsh sentences for accessing CSAM.

[@DavidYoel13]

He wasn’t in the video

[@FBomb-z3t]

Jail sentences are based on what the justice system thinks society cares about. People care about murder and financial crime, fraud, counterfeiting blah so they get long sentences. Society doesn’t really care about the SA of kids, neither does the church or authorities - many of those in authority indulge in it.

[@user-yn9mx7xu1r]

It absolutely is twisted. The fact that adult pornography is so accessible to children online in sick and so hypocritical. An 8 year old could easily be exposed to it because there are no restrictions. How is that not a form of child abuse?

[@clairehorsfall1674]

Yes our justice system is shocking.

[@cvdinjapan7935]

I heard a police officer, when asked why all of these people aren't in jail, say that there aren't enough jail cells to hold them all. It's a terrifying thought.

[@magdebates2697]

plenty of cells for benifit fraud tho lol or any money related crimes.oh and dont offend any snowflakes or ya doing time in the CLINCK FOR SURE LOL

[@jt2284]

But they have the space for people who said nasty things about others on the internet. It's a deliberate act to let all these pedos free. Don't forget they covered up the Rochdale grooming gang for more than a decade.

[@R0llingHard]

But there's enough cells to jail right wing protestors 🤔

[@emilykilpatrick3751]

They should build more prisons then

[@goonwatchtv6434]

Incorrect, there are more than enough... but the government would rather imprison others for other things they don't like.

[@dliatrk]

at LEAST that face of a monster is out there. I‘m so glad they showed him.

[@popcornloot9719]

That was her new husband I think

[@kyrasl]

@@popcornloot9719no it’s not

[@kordei-7839]

@@popcornloot9719 no they broke up. He was her new husband back then

[@potatolover5436]

​@@kyraslNo, that is her new partner. She mentioned discussing her child with him, so how would that work if it was the ex?

[@kyrasl]

@@potatolover5436 idk what ur talking about. When she starts talking about pete the pedo thats when the pictures start showing. She doesn’t mention her new husband until the end of the video 💀

[@laurxnhunt_]

9 months🤢 you get more time for being a weed dealer than this, disgusting😳

[@simonehenry1388]

My ex got 2 years for the same thing I was in the same situation as her I didn't know her was a pedophile untill my now 9 year old son told me he touch him and he is his dad aswell but I went right to the police and they found stuff on his laptop and ps4 and he got 2 years in prison 😢

[@racheljada]

He got a suspended sentence and a fine so he didn’t even do the 9 months 😒

[@simonehenry1388]

@racheljada my ex did longer 🙄🤨the uk justice system is messed up

[@DavidYoel13]

@@simonehenry1388so not quite the same if I got you’re rant right

[@simonehenry1388]

@@DavidYoel13 he still a pedophile no matter what the situation is

[@mereru9681]

Found out my brother is one. It broke my heart, he had been my absolute best friend since I was a little girl and to find out he was looking at little girls… the horror, the betrayal, it was like a nightmare. My world shattered that day. I am very thankful I have my eldest brother still who is a wonderful person and my dear mum.

[@TimJohnson-x1o]

You sound a bit delusional. You have no clue what your eldest brother's dark secrets are either. How do you know he's any different? You don't.

[@tr3vk4m]

@@TimJohnson-x1o you sound like you have zero friends

[@brigwood7658]

@@TimJohnson-x1o What a weird f'd up comment. Is this seriously your take away from this post?

[@NeonPenguin975]

“the betrayal” You stabbed him in the back by disowning him.

[@MariaDonkova]

@@TimJohnson-x1o Sounds like your defending him? She obviously found the evidence on his computer. I hate this generation. Please grow up for everyone’s sake.

[@willytee90]

Pornography is made with the consent of all persons involved. “Child Pornography” doesn’t exist. It is child ABUSE.

[@mariekepeeters9483]

👏 exactly

[@Sweetirishwhispers]

Incorrect on it being made with the consent of all persons involved. A lot of sexually explicit video & pictures are done without the consent of the person(s) involved. Particularly in sex trafficking. Pornography literally means a video containing explicit material intended to arouse. I agree that there is no such thing as child pornography because a child can never consent to such acts.

[@laurenkelly41]

It’s no longer labelled “child pornography” It’s now called “CSAM” Child Sexual Abuse Material.

[@noodleandsprite]

CSAM

[@leopardprints]

Yeah, it's 'pornography' to the degenerates who watch it. CSAM centres the victims and gives the accurate description of what it is. Language does matter. Society needs to move away from using the language of the predators.

[@aliceatkins4873]

It’s disgusting to know how many men watch child sex abuse online. Men we know. The estimated numbers are horrific.

[@dt9683]

I don't even want to know. ..I hate this world

[@louwinters508]

​@chayfebruary9252 really. All statistics I've ever seen show it's men. Women too but much higher arrests of men. I mean I will look into this. But I do not believe you.

[@flavie7213]

“Among convicted offenders, 0.4% to 4% are female, and one literature review estimates that the ratio of male-to-female child molesters is 10 to 1.” Cohen, Lisa J.; Galynker, Igor (2008)

[@alextempleman4363]

@@chayfebruary9252that’s a load of bs iv just googled it. Woman make up not even 20% of crimes against children… where u at bro u one of them?!

[@SQUELCH-zj7il]

That's not true lol. Men make up the overwhelming majority​@@chayfebruary9252

[@lengmoua22]

It’s infuriating how many times pedophiles get little-to-no jail time. They’re allowed to roam free and re-offend. Idk how many times I’ve heard or seen stories about children or people being assaulted by re-offenders.

[@fay5479]

Average pdf abuses 115...and 2 out of 3 do speak up. The maths stinks, so many children are ignored !!!

[@machineofadream]

In the US you typically get a lot more time, and if you produce it you often get life. I see a lot of people in comments acting like this woman is American for some reason, blaming Biden or whatever.

[@yasminh6428]

I once saw Child Abuse on Facebook when I was around 14yrs old of 2 young boys, one being a toddler with a group of men. I was in shock, reported the video and left. I'm 29 now and still have flashbacks of that video. It traumatised me...

[@terminator2girl]

I saw something like that on Omegle and literally am forever traumatized

[@EM-ch9uq]

@@terminator2girlI also saw a video pop up on Omegle when I was probably 14/15 and it was of a little girl less than 4/3 years old and a grown man. It’s so vividly stuck in my head. I’ve never forgotten how shocked I was

[@EmmaAlexandra-cy5eo]

I saw something similar on Facebook too a little boy and a woman

[@yasminh6428]

@@EmmaAlexandra-cy5eo It's concerning how it's managed to be posted on such sites.. My heart breaks for these kids.

[@yasminh6428]

@@terminator2girl Crazy how we see it as traumatic and other people as pleasure. Disgusting. Child abuse is definitely the worst thing in the world, to hurt children is an inhumane act.

[@gayham]

The fact she's decided to share this is so powerful I wish her a long and happy life after that trauma. But what is more concerning is the life of the boy in the video

[@leeasmr3857]

Poor women, now If people would found this out by mainstream media I wonder if people would judge her the same

[@blu4085]

I always wonder when this kind of material is found that how much time and resources are put in place to find the children and the perpetrators?..i have a hunch that very little is being done in that dept.

[@sparkythancztwise]

@@blu4085 they are working on it but it's like trying to divert or stop a river with a giant shovel They caught a huge international web of them some years back and shut down the dark web network and apprehended a good number of the participants and organizers, agencies working together cross-nationally, but more are out there. Some USA agencies set up sting operations and find perps who are led to believe they are online with a child and the perps initiate everything, they make it patently clear they believe they are in contact with a child and try to meet the child but then get arrested at the proposed meet-up they try to arrange. There are real resources and real people working hard and some of it is being stopped but perhaps never will we be able to do enough to stop it. Our species is too defective apparently.

[@sparkythancztwise]

@@blu4085 if there are ways to link the material to any source, they *do* pursue with a vengeance. But it is not always possible to connect seized material with sources, from what I gather. It would be foolish for the criminals to make that easy, and too many of them are highly tech savvy.

[@fionagrant2023]

He is probably deceased

[@Emily-se7oc]

Thank you for not staying silent and complacent. You’re such an amazing mother for that alone ❤ you did the best that you could in this situation.

[@dianacarter_art]

Unfortunately, I went through something similar. When my son was about 10 or 11, he found child porn on his dad's computer. His dad completely denied it and tried to delete his files. I packed up and my son and I moved back to the US. After a few months, the Met police contacted me about it. They caught my husband in an online chat room directed at child porn and incestuous conversation. He was arrested and they flew 2 officers to the US to interview us. I was always worried that my son was exposed to that disgusting shit by his own father. I divorced him immediately but the damage was already done. My son is now 25 and has so many issues that he's unable to work or go to school. His dad still denies any responsibility. 😢

[@gg_ingy]

I'm sorry you and your son had to go through that. What was his punishment?

[@nicochan1537]

So you didn't report him? 😅

[@izzybeangreen]

my ex used to look at porn the minute I left for work and watched it straight for at least 6 hours with our little ones in the play pen next to him. one of my sons started looking at naked women on his phone, I had to have a long talk with him, and now my other son, both teens now, said he never wants to be in a relationship and has No interest in looking at girls unless to judge what they are wearing, too short skirts or shorts, he can't stand it. I remember when he was really little and I wore a skort on a hot day, he got so upset, also a tank top. I just thought, wow my kid is so conservative! until years later when I came home and my ex was passed out and left his computer open. I also saw his plenty of fish profile. I have no interest in ever being in a relationship again. Its too scary out there, but I am glad this lady found happiness, prayers to all of the stolen and abused children,🙏

[@SWOTHDRA]

You chose him, your son now has the same genes and same demons in him

[@SWOTHDRA]

​@@izzybeangreenyou probably gave him boring sex and hardly any sex ever

[@Winteer10]

This made me feel sick! Praying for this woman, her son and the innocent little boy 😢 No kids deserve to be put at harm. I hope the boy was found!😞

[@gowdsake7103]

Prayers like that ever did anything !

[@ryna03]

If you haven't got anything helpful to add, please don't ​@@gowdsake7103

[@ryna03]

I was sickened and horrified. I can't imagine how awful it would be to see such vile things. Just the brief description was more than I wanted to hear.

[@rodckvs]

The god you pray is the same thing predators use a shield. There’s a whole institution. The church and all your beliefs is what eases abuse systematically. Stop living in the Middle Ages

[@sydbee9322]

my ex husband was convicted for sexually assaulting a 12 year old girl. he only got 7 years. the whole town shut me out just for being married to him but i had no idea.. thank you for speaking out. soemthing like this ruins you as a woman completely

[@lilo19951995]

you are so strong and i am angry for you. you are a kind lovely person. you deserve nothing that has happened to you.

[@sydbee9322]

@ oh my god thank you 😭😭🩷🩷🩷

[@lauramccann1841]

Came from tiktok to say bravo to this woman, she’s so strong, I hope her life is peaceful now

[@josephesposito3499]

Tik tok is a wo-MAN'S platform and it was a >wo-MAN who raped the boy. Why is there more wrath for her ex then for the wo-MAN who raped the boy?

[@URFUTUREUK]

Tik tok supports child abuse.

[@StinkyDroid]

Can you please share what the video is called on tiktok? I've done a lot of research into this story and it appears to be made up by tabloid newspapers. There is no record of these folks or the crime available on the internet besides tabloids. I would love to see that video.

[@brigwood7658]

@@StinkyDroid What are their names? (real names, not pseudonyms as is often the case)

[@michaeljacksonsghostheehee]

@@StinkyDroid you didn't look very hard. Just a quick browse showed me that he resigned his directorship of a security company, changed his name to Lowe and went 'no fixed abode'. Exerter Crown Court July '21

[@meglyo]

9 months and a fine? What on earth!!!

[@NikitaStewart-g8n]

The system etc protects pedophiles

[@lizxo2046]

He didn’t even go to jail, he just got a suspension..

[@boneitch]

Not even that. He didn't go to prison. So in reality, just a fine.

[@ndobolo80star86]

@@lizxo2046wow

[@SammyD87]

U get more for stealing a car, it's vile makes my blood boil, the justice system is a joke 😢😢😢

[@DirectDemocrat]

I watched your video whilst biting my finger from start to finish. That took enormous courage, and my heart goes out to you. I'm so glad it worked out in the end ❤

[@Peekaboo5819]

Mine goes out to the son and victims

[@ashotofmercury]

​@@Peekaboo5819 can it not go out to her too? She's also a victim of this. Or did you just want to try and look edgy on the internet? 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️

[@clarkndrekent]

whats crazy is that his ex probably watching this video sipping coffe at his new home with a same kind of ipad with full of this digusting stuff still.... cant wrap my head around it tbh

[@keenoled]

I think and hope you're underestimating how scared he was to be found out, and the fact everyone as he was taken by the police and as he went through court knew what he'd done. Humiliation and being found out is sometimes worse for this type of man than an actual prison punishment. Think of how many pdfs kill themselves when they're found out. Was it because they were ashamed of themselves being abusers? No, it was because they were humiliated.

[@aprilmaaarsters]

@@keenoledomg who’s side are you on? This response is disgusting!

[@clairehorsfall1674]

😢😢 isn't it Very sick man.

[@AC-mp7cx]

@@aprilmaaarsters i think its important to hold people accountable, but also treat serious mental illness and not throw out the entire person. This can prevent further escalation

[@SonOfMorning]

​@@aprilmaaarsters I don't think he sided with Pdfs

[@LouUploads]

British justice system ought to be ashamed

[@skyeasmr2855]

Unfortunately it’s a global epidemic.

[@Lauren-hz7qh]

Just awful!!

[@skaaka-r1l]

literally its absolutely vile

[@laurxnhunt_]

@@skyeasmr2855unfortunately Britain is one of the lowest for sentencing for crimes like this. I know someone that got 7 year for dealing some weed💀

[@jennbrandon8182]

@@laurxnhunt_in Germany you get 4 months probation….

[@RandomAnonymousChick]

It's so sad how common this is and how enabled it is by silence and violence. Thankfully people are speaking up. Brave Woman. Thanks for posting ❤

[@catcat9582]

It's child rape not porn

[@HarrisonFjord-n3v]

Found the child enthusiast

[@sparkythancztwise]

accurate

[@AussieDobergirl]

It's not called child pornography any more for that reason, it's called child sexual abuse material (CSAM)

[@josephesposito3499]

Yes, and it was a >wo-MAN who raped the boy. That seems to be getting lost.

[@mercuric7045]

⁠@@josephesposito3499nobody is suggesting that the woman who abused that boy is getting a free pass.

[@asifs100]

Please never ever blame yourself Rosie. You are a brave woman and you did everything right.

[@HiNickCares]

Why? She picked him.

[@janiyahtheunicorn719]

@@HiNickCarescause she didn’t know?

[@HiNickCares]

@@janiyahtheunicorn719 The problem with that is that men with criminal convictions end up having 30% more children than average, there also more likely to remarry after a divorce. So, women do seem to have a way of working out which men are bad, and which aren't.

[@Frostjotnar]

@@HiNickCaresWe clearly don’t because if we had some supernatural ability to predict the future we wouldn’t ever be in situations like this.

[@Lauren-mc2tf]

​@@HiNickCaresyeah let's keep blaming women for everything rather than holding these sick monsters accountable, that makes all the sense! Have a horrible day.

[@MarleneG-pe5ij]

Thank you for speaking out both to the police and to the public. My mom froze and didn’t do anything. It ruined me worse than the abuse itself to grow up knowing she wouldn’t protect me. She even testified in my dad’s defense and paid for his lawyer. Her spending over $100k and to call me a liar all for someone who destroyed me was horrific. He got 20 years and she is all alone. I was 29 when I finally filed charges MYSELF. It’s pathetic that I had to do it myself and I didn’t have the courage until I had been through 10 years of therapy and psychiatrists. I had to spend 22 years having panic attacks by myself in secret and thousands of dollars just to get there. If you are scared to file charges because it has been so long since it happened, please use my example that it can be done. You can do this.

[@halliemosteller8678]

Ugh why are so many people so depraved! Child porn was also found on my dad’s computer a few years ago and we had to watch him get handcuffed on the street in front of our house and get sent off to jail for 9 months. He had hundreds of files of the most horrific child porn as young as infants and toddlers. It makes me absolutely sick!!

[@lovelymix8056]

Wow! That must’ve been terrible for you 😢

[@denisajerabkova9001]

im so sorry to hear that, dear! 😢

[@juntus89]

@@halliemosteller8678 it's horrible yes, SO many female teachers having intercourse with school pupils and so many sexually abuse kids like the woman in the hard drive she found. Women are omg sick

[@andresmontana4466]

Wow. Sorry for this. I'd kill myself if I did that to my kids.

[@seizuregirlllll]

Omgsh! I can’t even fathom how that kind of content is even available! horrific.

[@gabby3709]

This lady is so brave. Thank you for sharing. I hope she finds peace

[@aldastroud9671]

She is more than brave !! She didn't lost the trust in man...

[@pedro_peyote]

good men would do everything to get such a good looking, lovely and strong women. to have a healthy family. and this disgusting monster threw it all away for absolutely nothing. no less then nothing.. he threw it away to go to hell.

[@lesliemartin3]

Thank you for posting and I want to say, I'm 42 and I've been single for almost 6 years. The idea of dating someone in my age range scares me to no end. I fear I may be single forever on account of never wanting to go through this exact situation. I may never wish to know the depths of depravity one may have and so if it means it's simply the cats and myself from here on out I'm OK with it. I'm child free by choice and the reason is heavily based on the fear of my child going through the same things I did.

[@sonalsharma5855]

Fear doesn't save life, it prevents it

[@inosuke4708]

I sounds like your trauma is stopping you from enjoying life to the fullest. Don’t let your trauma stop you from living

[@lesliemartin3]

@@inosuke4708 a few years ago a friend of mine who is a gay man explained to me that there are several men over the years who have confided in him some very scary sexual practices simply bc they believed that bc of his own sexual preference they were in a safe communication zone. He had people tell him they were aroused by animals, and other things id rather never mention but the scariest thing was how they believed their depravity was hand in hand with homosexuality. It scares the hell out of me because when people suffer from sexual proclivities that do not align with regular sexual practices these depraved acts progress much like an addiction or a mental illness...anyone who has read up on Reddit confessions or statistics regarding illegal sexual behaviors resulting in arrests know that men of a certain age group make up the majority of the known cases. I realize I'm living in fear but in all honesty I am totally fine. I do not wish to be in any sort of relationship until I feel I'm a good fit. This may take some time and I look forward to seeing myself return to a condition I'm confident and happy in.

[@MomMom4Cubs]

Why should your abuser continue to deny you a life full of love and happiness? Yes, that's a serious question.

[@boneitch]

People often assume that those who commit evil acts look "evil". That they act evil always, that they are clearly different. It's a hard pill to swallow that those people *are* normal people. They can be people that we loved and trusted. Thank you for sharing this.

[@gottalovetheinternet]

There is signs, though. They very often target single mothers, for example

[@damionkeeling3103]

There's a video showing Hitler giving a speech and the audio has been changed to use his voice to speak in English making him sound like a standard politician and it does show how mundane he actually was. At the time Germans would have seen him as a blue collar type speaking his mind, similar to hearing someone involved in the unions today.

[@aldastroud9671]

Well she doesn't, coz she couldn't wait to date again...giving the " oh so difficult to date again" can't keep they legs shutt!! She didn't thought about her son again!!!!

[@laoch5658]

@@damionkeeling3103 churchill was a bad man too but you Brits worship him

[@Skindoggiedog]

They can often be the "nicest" people you know. Because that's their cover. That's how they get close.

[@Makwandentandeun6jn]

Whenever I hear a child cry, my first instinct the to hug them. These people who harm kids are what we can never fathom.

[@lena-Ramone]

They are psychopaths and demons

[@saml8136]

Very sadly, sometimes they started as the very abused children who were needing a hug

[@AbianahTheGemini]

I could never harm a child.

[@susanna8612]

​​​@@saml8136 it's not excuse tho. Adults can allways choose... to seek therapy, to seek professional help and break the cycle. And not all of them were abused themselves. Probably mayority wasn't. It's pure selfishness, incapability to feel empathy toward other people.

[@Totek6]

9 MONTHS SUSPENDED FOR 2 YEARS!!!! So he did absolutely no jail time. This country is absolutely disgusting. I've known people caught with weed and only weed be given MUCH worse sentences. I genuinely feel sick 🤢🤮

[@lukepaul7931]

The gaols would be overflowing otherwise…

[@moosebtk]

Can you imagine the embarrassment she must’ve faced, thinking people would judge her for being with an animal like that? He deserves to rot in hell

[@livmarlin4259]

Together with Michael Jackson.

[@MLGDuckk]

@@livmarlin4259 Why do you keep commenting about Michael Jackson?

[@livmarlin4259]

@@MLGDuckk Because he molested little boys and didn't serve a day in prison!

[@Thenetherlandsman]

@@MLGDuckkCmon don’t tell me ya don’t know about the recent Diddy news

[@MLGDuckk]

@@Thenetherlandsman How does that relate to Michael Jackson?

[@a_baby19]

Poor woman mentally and emotionally traumatised for the rest of her life 💔 I hope she heals. Can’t believe he served no time! Absolutely shocking! This man is a danger to kids and he’s allowed to go wherever

[@chz9392]

None of them serve time,they get the most lenient sentences for the most horrendous crime ,look at huw Edwards

[@aldastroud9671]

If she was traumatised for the rest of her life she wouldn't be already married again... because is a nice guy 🙄 the other was a nice guy also. And makes no difference that he wants to get marry , they normally do because people see it less likely to be a child abuser. I personally can't even imagine be in bed thinking about my partner could be ...obviously she isn't traumatised or she wouldn't be able to do it. And again she put her child in danger.

[@pedro_peyote]

good men would do everything to get such a good looking, lovely and strong women. to have a healthy family. and this disgusting monster threw it all away for absolutely nothing. no less then nothing.. he threw it away to go to hell.

[@josephesposito3499]

FOOL. It was a >wo-MAN who raped the boy. He ex only watched. She's not traumatized, she's just a scorned old bag

[@Stunkos]

@@aldastroud9671 Yes her new husband might be a secret paedophile but have you considered that she might actually be a secret paedophile too and is doing this to cover her tracks? I mean there's just as much evidence for either scenario.

[@PandoraDeExplora]

I also discovered violent child porn on my abusive ex Tony's laptop. I have PTSD from this and haven't been able to talk about it. I'm grateful this brave lady is speaking on youtube, gave me courage, thank you! when i confronted tony (anthony), he was nervous ( hes a very bad liar) and defensively gaslit me and said " well if you're the one who discovered it maybe you're the one looking it up " , and i said, that doesn't make sense; if i were really a pedophile, why would I confront you? wouldn't i just keep that to myself? . Shortly after he claimed his brother had broken his laptop... I talked to some police officers including a friend who worked in the sexual exploitations unit, and they said they were behind on navigating cyber crime. so I've felt sick for years knowing there's nothing they can do so far, and that he and many others are out there perpetuating this deplorable crime. I know he was sexually abused as a child, but theres no excuse to continue the cycle. I also have trauma working as a child in the corrupt cult of hollywood but that makes me empathize and more protective of children like I was. It is beyond triggering to come to terms that I dated such a sicko. I havent been able to sleep properly for years resulting in chronic back pain from chronic tension and panic attacks, causing me to be unable to work full time. I would sleep better if there was a way for victims to report these ppl anonymously and with gov subsidized legal aid or some sort of support. it is a public safety/health and community concern.

[@lacyhardman1282]

I understand this all too well. My ex is currently is prison for child porn. I found stuff and kicked him out. I didn’t have enough evidence at the time of our divorce to keep him away from my daughter. It took about 8 or 9 years for the FBI to finally catch him and lock him up. I had to deal with my daughter going over to his house every other weekend all that time while he lied about me to everyone saying I was crazy and made it up. I told the police, the FBI, the judge, child protective services, and no one did anything for years until the FBI finally got him. Luckily, he never hurt my daughter, but I completely empathize with this woman. It is absolute hell to go through. To know and not be able to do shit about it.

[@rosienelson898]

Wow…..it’s just shocking how hard it is to get justice for the children. Time and time again i hear horrific accounts of how someone has battled to get justice! I hope you have found peace and that you have support and love around you.

[@SWOTHDRA]

Ahhh so you framed him , nice job. I dont believe for a second he did anything wrong. Why would the feds get involved

[@elizabethalexander6528]

Life stinks often. My former husband was a salesman who abused me the kids and the schools had their own restraining orders. I was sober after 9 years I relapsed hard on alcohol. It's been hell. Better now but my oldest died from massive heart attack. I didn't even know his heart was bad. Thanks to the court in Milwaukee he got the boys and the house. The day after my middle son turned 17 he tried to kill him. They finally had enough and called 911. I am furious at the state of Wisconsin for protecting this first class creep.

[@SWOTHDRA]

@@elizabethalexander6528 you chose him, for his salesman money, this is what you get. You could have gone for a normal regular dude who would do anything for you.

[@queenofthebutterflies5212]

OMG, you poor thing. I'm so sorry

[@lulumoon6942]

Former Longtime Victim Advocate here. Your response to this couldn't have been better. None of this was your fault. You've saved so many children because of your willingness to take responsibility for the situation. Wish you & your son healing & peace.🙏🕊️

[@cheesecake4648]

How did she saved children ?

[@caitlincassandra]

@@cheesecake4648 her ex would now be on the sex offenders registry and would not be able to get a job working with children etc. so she may very well have prevented harm.

[@evapektas]

Very Well said

[@Skindoggiedog]

This is exactly nothing to do with you.

[@allergic5]

When she said, that “those children are worth more than that” that broke me. But she is sooooo right! Idk why they get such low punishment.

[@a-sheep-of-christ]

What about young boys bullied by their female classmates while the female teacher watches? I feel those women also need to go to jail, and those girls who bully young boys and falsely accuse them need to be suspended, educated on misandry and marked in records for their insane behaviour.

[@mist4727]

@@a-sheep-of-christwhat th has that got to do with this ? That’s a separate issue, take it somewhere else!

[@katyrusso1989]

@@a-sheep-of-christ What about it? False accusations are bad too but that’s not the discussion here. Seems like you just want to distract from the conversation of pedophilia with “what aboutisms”…. which is pretty suspect.

[@Rschu]

Thank you for being the voice this little boy needed. Your voice and your actions have a profound impact.

[@livwinter441]

We talk a lot about hearing the pain and the authenticity in somebody’s voice but Jesus Christ. Wanted to give this woman a hug many times listening to this. So brave.

[@GlobalVisa-pf9pt]

My husband has ADHD, depression and was on medication for many years. When we moved and he had to get a new Doctor. Unfortunately because my husband was nearly 68, the Doctor said ADHD medication was not recommended for someone his age and he wouldn't renew his prescription. The Dr didn't even offer to wean him off the meds! He left him with no meds and had him go. God so kind a friend recommended us to mushrooms (psilocybin) precisely. After his experience with shrooms five years ago till now there's no more ADHD, depression and mental disorder. Shrooms are life changing. There is no way you can put into words what it feels like..

[@olegkroitory304]

Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

[@ChildCONTENT0]

Hey mates! Can you help with the source? I suffer severe anxiety, panic and depression and I usually take prescription medicine, but they don't always help. Where can I find those psilocybin mushrooms? I'm really interested in treating my mental health without Rxs. I live in Australia don't know much about these. I'm so glad they helped you. I can't wait to get them too. Really need a reliable source 🙏

[@cemalcanguzel3683]

Yes sure, mycologist hamidshade43. I have the same experience with anxiety, addiction. Shrooms can really help break the spell. Whatever spell you may be under.

[@mehdichikh7378]

Certainly, he's an exceptional mycologist, and i highly recommend his expertise.

[@ChildCONTENT0]

Where do I reach this dude? If possible can I find him on insta?

[@stephaniedorst5233]

I‘m so glad her son was safe! Thank you for sharing your experience, it was very helpful 🙏🏼

[@joninio6542]

According to the Daily Mail (MAILONLINE) Peter Loram has changed his name to LOWE. He was sentenced at Exeter Crown Court by Judge David Evans, again, according to the MAILONLINE (9 August 2021). Respect to Rosie.

[@rosienelson898]

He may well have changed it again. People who are convicted are able to change their name easily and without trace thanks to our ridiculous system! This renders Claire and Sarah’s law completely pointless! Things MUST change for the sake of our children and our future generations.🙏🏻

[@sparkythancztwise]

thnx

[@sparkythancztwise]

@@rosienelson898 spread images of his face everywhere. {but check laws, we can't use the kind of information here to malign an offender in the community, it's illegal. We can only use it to protect ourselves. Can't engage in libel. I never told my neighboring landlord the kind of guy he'd rented to. Too risky. They have sex offender registries here. Some of them are old photos and don't get updated if the offenders go rogue, but you can still recognize faces. It is a good tool. I had to teach an admin of a school to use it who was running a collective of half-homeschooled kids and families, with credentialed teachers on site. I had to help several people who worked with kids understand that you *cannot* *EVER* allow random people access who purport they have something of value to share with or teach to the kids as visitors, and you have to screen parents too. [Public school do criminal record checks on *all* personnel. All people who run summer programs and nature excursions and alternative schools should too. I got so mad when I found out a half-brained "teacher" (I asked the admin if she ever saw his degree, because he never said in his bio which university he'd earned it from, so I couldn't check.) He'd wanted to bring some rando dude he met juggling on the beach to the private school site to "teach the kids juggling and other super cool stuff he does". We already had a mother in our community who was credentialed and trained and screened teaching circus arts for PE no less. I got that male teacher shitcanned. He did something else that crossed a serious line of another sort too. (not sexual but BAD) Back to sex offender registries, ikd if they have them in the UK but we have them in the USA, and they bear monitoring. I was horrified when I scanned it and saw the face of one of the people who moved into a house very near us at our former residence. He'd been convicted in another state of a lewd and lascivious act on a minor (that is the legal terminology used in that state). idc how long ago it was. I caught him on our property "walking his dog" after dark once and accosted him and told him I was calling the police if he didn't leave immediately, that I'd seen him on the registry and that he was to stay the fuck away. [I had an adolescent son at that time, which I did not bring up. He knew. He saw us take walks. Before I saw him online and we stopped ever walking near his place.] He told me that *my* landlord gave him permission and I said, "I just revoked it. Leave NOW and if I ever see you on this property, in our parking areas, or again anywhere near this property (multiple rentals on site in semi-rural zone), I'm calling the police immediately. You won't get another warning." He left. He walked his dog the opposite direction far away, I saw him, a lot. I was glad when they moved away. The landlord was pissed who rented to them, they left a disaster behind and he was a meticulous type, kept beautiful grounds. I was more glad when we moved to a better place. The landlord we'd had was *rotten*.

[@josephesposito3499]

And the wo-MAN who actually raped the boy? NO punishment for her?

[@sarads7877]

@@josephesposito3499 well i don’t know if it was possible for the police to identify her.. if he downloaded that video from a random sketchy site on the internet, she could be from anywhere.. us, canada, russia, uk, hungaria 💀 like it’s surely not easy to determine who she is… If they could find her, they surely persecuted her

[@carly102982]

Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

[@juanmacias3]

Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!

[@snoopdoff]

Yes, steve_porassss . I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

[@speedemonxs]

I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

[@juanmacias3]

Is he on instagram?

[@snoopdoff]

Yes he is steve_porassss.

[@madmax2005_ali]

I’ve co e from tik tok as I saw a small clip on there wanted to hear the full story and it’s so sad what this women is telling us I just wana say you are so brave may you stay strong and may god protect u and your son god willing🙏🙏🙏

[@purestdoll]

Talking about god when he allowed these children to be rap3d is insane

[@michaelcaine2405]

pedophiles are everywhere can't imagine what this lady is going through.

[@englishblade]

especially in the court room

[@livmarlin4259]

Even pop stars like Michael Jackson.

[@shea1219]

@@englishblade I agree. There are many in the court room. There are law enforcement, lawyers and judges who are pedos, but no one wants to talk about that.

[@suzanneblaylock9598]

EVERYWHERE.

[@janiyahtheunicorn719]

@@livmarlin4259except Michael isn’t one! Hope that helps. ❤

[@solbjrgkristiansen3699]

Child abusers don`t look like monsters!!! They might be the most "friendly" person you meet. Brave woman. Sometimes the reality is even, worse then your worst nightmares. You don`t know who you are actually living with. Until the monster appears.

[@nothanks1239]

My cousins were touched by their step dad. He was a teacher at a junior school. These sickos can be anywhere at any time.

[@suzanneblaylock9598]

Watch films about the Muslim men, they marry 11 year old girls all day long.

[@HiNickCares]

Who picked him?

[@nothanks1239]

@HiNickCares Stop blaming the victims. The guy was a teacher. These people purposely make themselves appear friendly and great with kids. It's not like he said on the first date "yeah, and I touch kids". So, stop with all this "who picked them?" Nonsense.

[@HiNickCares]

@@nothanks1239 You're not a victim if you picked him.

[@nothanks1239]

@HiNickCares of course you are, because you're not made aware of their intentions and they purposely tricked you to get to your kids. The only way you're not a victim, is if they made their intentions clear and you invited them in anyway. Think about what you're saying.

[@danai.p]

A petty thief would get more time. How is this even possible? Sadly, it’s not the first time we’ve heard something like this. One moment, you think you’re with someone you know your whole life, and the next, they turn into your worst nightmare. You’re so brave and strong for what you did!sending you a big hug. I hope you find peace and healing from everything you’ve been through.

[@Rschu]

Yes my 22 year old son is doing 4 years and 8 months for intent sell supply drugs. It’s his first ever offence. He’s in maximum prison. Refused bail. I can’t think too hard about the juxtaposition and the sentence structure which is so unjust. My son was not born with an addiction, statistically he may never relapse either. However, sexual deviance is part of this man’s damaged psychological structure. He will always remain a danger as arousal to children is an entrenched paraphilia which sadly has no treatment to cure. I only hope his offending stops at the CAM offences for which he was caught.

[@lucciangel6260]

Cause the ones that make the laws are the ones doing it too. … so…

[@matheteuoglobal]

About 10 years ago I had a dream that my husband (ex) was busy with pornography. I got up from the bed and walked to the sitting room where he was sitting busy with hard-core child pornography. Shortly after he was totally exposed for adultery, porn, false Facebook profiles and grooming minors sexually. Unfortunately the law system failed me at that time...May the Lord give you supernatural strength and may you find total healing soon.

[@noodleandsprite]

She’s such a brave badass woman. I hope she is still in therapy. I was molested as a child and my mother did not take the right steps to protect me. She in fact made it worse but confronting my abuser (my oldest brother) in the completely wrong way. I resented my mother my entire life for that. She died of an overdose three years ago.

[@mag3970]

i am so so sorry this happened to you..i truly hope you’re doing okay and got a lot of support and help from others while dealing with this. i wish nothing but the best for you

[@MrAgmoore]

Jesus...

[@peixeess]

😢❤

[@LouisaWatt]

That must be devastating for you. Being let down by someone you trusted to protect you adds layers of grief.

[@gamayun1224]

The abuse by older brothers of their sisters is rampant: psychological, physical, sexual. It's not talked about nearly often enough.

[@beezusanne]

She is such a beautiful lady and has such a beautiful voice too. I am so grateful to her for speaking out about this issue and hope others hear her message.

[@lilymitman]

My dad is a pedo. It took me a long time to come to terms of what he did to children and to cut him out of my life.. it’s such a hard thing

[@SWOTHDRA]

Its funny I see only women posting these thinhs

[@Emy53]

I hope you reported him to authorities especially if he was SA'g children. He belonged in prison.

[@worsethanhitlerpt.2539]

My dads kind of a perv but I never liked him anyway

[@NourKLI]

So he is still walking free?

[@lilymitman]

@@Emy53 he went to jail for only 10 years

[@The-Portland-Daily-Blink]

I want her to know it was NOT her fault. She was a victim, and was NOT responsible for HIS crimes. Poor woman...

[@staceymagee4900]

This is where desperation, loneliness and stupidity get you. Shagging a pedo

[@S4n4389]

Thinking about the fact that as I am currently writting this comment, another little boy or a little girl is getting abused by monsters is killing me. Poor children.

[@rosiep7337]

Myself and my daughter, who was also abused at 4-5 years old by my boyfriend, had to report my father a year ago and he was arrested after my daughter found child porn on his computer and we are still waiting a year later for the police to check all his devices which they took away a year ago after searching his house. We have had no help processing all that has happened even though we both have contacted our doctors for therapy. My daughter lost her job after emotionally having a breakdown and has been given anti depressant medication. We have absolutely no regret in reported it as we know, from my daughter’s previous experience, that there are children suffering for these sick twisted people to watch these videos and pictures and we can not stay quiet. I think the punishments given to these people in the UK Courts is nowhere near harsh enough and they should all go to prison. I was so proud of my daughter for standing up against her Grandfather and doing what was right and reporting him.

[@rosienelson898]

I’m so sad and annoyed to hear what’s happening (or not happening) in this situation! I can’t speak for the police but i know that in May 2020 they were arresting approximately 450 people a month in connection to viewing child abuse online. Imagine the amount of devices they have to go through, record etc. That is no excuse but perhaps explains the length of time it takes. With regard to support, there isn’t any! I started a support C.I.C after it happened to me. I spoke to hundreds of people who had been affected and together we worked through the emotions, feelings etc and were able to change the outlook for those affected. If you are able to i would thoroughly recommend finding a good, experienced hypnotherapist who will be able to help you deal with everything going on. It can be life-changing. I send you hugs (even though i don’t you). I hope that you can see an end to this turmoil soon and get the help and support that you deserve.

[@rosiep7337]

@@rosienelson898 Thank you for your reply. That’s shocking how many a month and explains what the Police said when my daughter was told the devices are still being triaged. Presumably there are more serious cases than ours which are being dealt with. Not sure you will know the answer but are people arrested for child porn online allegations allowed to get new devices ie laptop, iPad and smart phones? I would have thought this would not be allowed but my Father has got these which were either missed when they searched the house or he has got them since.

[@rosiep7337]

@@rosienelson898 sorry I just realised who you are. You are so strong to do this video and it will help so many people. I’ve told my sister, partner and a few close friends about my Father but until I got confirmation back from the Police with the full facts of what he has done I haven’t told the rest of the family. It’s completely destroyed my, my sisters and my daughters childhood memories with him as everything feels tainted by this and he is not the man we thought we knew. Unfortunately by the time the Police get to his devices he will probably be dead as he is in his 80s. We just desperately want to know exactly what he has done, as my daughter just found downloaded titles and she didn’t open them. The titles were very graphic and had “daughter” in the title hence why we desperately want to know. I’ve always felt uncomfortable at times around my Father and I have blocked a lot of my childhood memories and I worried now that this is the reason why I can’t remember much because it was traumatic. I’ve tried to get counselling from my GP surgery but I’m still waiting a year later and heard nothing. 😢

[@PeakDennisReynolds]

@@rosiep7337 I find it absolutely baffling how common paedophilia seems to be in this country. For you to have to deal with a partner being one and then your own parent being one is beyond tragic. So sorry for what you and your daughter are going though.

[@rosiep7337]

@@PeakDennisReynolds Thank you for your message. Myself and my daughter are really struggling and so far have not been able to get any Counselling. My daughter lost her job through having a breakdown earlier this year and she has been so strong pulling herself out of it and starts a new job tomorrow supporting people who are struggling themselves with homelessness. She is using her own experiences and turning it into something positive and I’m so proud of her.

[@parmavi2]

Thank you for speaking out and being so vulnerable. It’s so important to hear from the victims who aren’t necessarily the victim of the crime, but the victims of the knock on effects of those crimes. The effect on family members of sex offenders are huge and from working with those offenders, I know how important it is for family members to hear stories like this so they know they are not alone in how they feel during the aftermath. I hope this lady has received a lot of support and for those who are going through similar and not already aware, the Lucy Faithful Foundation offers support for family members of these kind of offenders.

[@graceygxld8371]

She deserves happiness. God bless to even report him first without confronting him is a strong powerful move.

[@Pot8o-w7s]

There would be no point confronting someone after finding what she did, if anything, confronting her would be dangerous for her.

[@luvyatubers]

God created chi mos and is one himself

[@VertiGhost99]

God bless? Really? Did you not listen to the story? Child being raped. One of millions. And you still think God is real... And good 🤦🏽🤦🏽🤦🏽

[@heatherhigson342]

Thank you so much Rosie for sharing this absolutely daunting situation, what a monster …. It’s ridiculous these people never get locked up

[@leannedyson4925]

Sentences for these creeps needs sorting

[@madmax2005_ali]

Ppl need to start a petition and do something about it can u imagine how many others tht are duin this and we don’t know it’s disturbing 😢

[@josemengelez6947]

​@@madmax2005_ali german police recently busted a cp site with over 400,000 active users. there just aren't enough prisons on earth to jail them all. the best you can do is actually educate your kids about inappropriate touching and keep a close eye on relatives and friends of the family who seem overly interested in them.

[@MichaelKemner-wj9nc]

They don't get harsh sentences because alots of people in govt are also pedophiles.. In the US pedos have infested the upper echelons of govt and Hollywood... Epsteins "list" still hasn't become public.. Lots of very rich and powerful people don't want it to become public.

[@montanawebb846]

I am 100% certain judges and jurors who view that and go ‘yeah let’s not even lock him up’ are up to the exact same thing!!

[@damionkeeling3103]

Or the law has a maximum and there are differences between having content and creating content which reflects sentencing. Similar to how having drugs and selling drugs are sentenced differently. You can argue that the sentence should be longer but that's on politicians to deal with, not judges and jurors.

[@crystal4348]

Bingo!

[@marigoldbeam5475]

Bingo! And the legislaturors too, who make lenient laws. They are all in it together.

[@PeakDennisReynolds]

@@montanawebb846 100 percent.

[@charlottekey8856]

Masonic handshakes. Includes most judges.

[@senoritabella3]

She is courageous. I can hear the trauma in her voice, i cried with her. Bless her. Prayers for healing for all.

[@ocean4594]

Saw this advertised on TikTok. Poor women, well done to her for calling it out and leaving. Although it seems like that's what anyone would do, you'd be surprised

[@brise8093]

I came from TikTok too and you're absolutely right, so many partner/women stay and act as if they don't know about anything while kids are still being abused and this disgusting content is still being shared.

[@Irishcome1st]

Such a beautiful and eloquently spoken lady. This is truly harrowing, what a horrific discovery, her foundations have been rocked. All trust has been broken forever.

[@suzanneblaylock9598]

It's common ! And it always has been ! She can join millions of other women, mothers, etc. Get in line.

[@Irishcome1st]

@@suzanneblaylock9598 is your comment designed to undermine her story and her sharing it with the public to make other won’t vigilant?

[@roku3216]

The first time I saw my future ex tickling my daughter’s crotch I lectured him thinking he was just stupid. Then there was another time, and my mother also witnessed it. During the divorce I tried and tried to get protection for the kids but CPS was no help, assuming I was lying. When my daughter described something worse and there was still no help, we fled the state. I was arrested and he got full custody and I didn’t even get visitation , but I got probation and had to pay restitution and child support. The children were not allowed to have a guardian ad litem. I took a polygraph that supported my truthfulness but it wasn’t allowed as evidence. Be warned, this is how it can go.

[@Every26Seconds]

Where do you live? My story is in the comments. Maybe I can help

[@roku3216]

@@Every26Seconds In the US. Daughter annd son are over 18 and he has had help from his family gaslighting them to the point where they’re afraid of contact with me.

[@roku3216]

Forgot to add, they were 11 and 5 at the time. Best to you and yours.

[@Every26Seconds]

@@roku3216 I’m so sorry

[@roku3216]

@@Every26Seconds 🫂

[@NotsoinnocentMm]

Thank you for being so brave. My abuser only got 3 years for doing the worst of the worst to 4 children under 5. That’s actually considered a long sentence for these crimes. It needs to change. If the government isn’t run by nonces ? Then why do they get off so lightly ?!!!

[@MeHoyMinoy-cv3ps]

Under 5 😢. 3 years!!!!! These types of offenders seem to get way less than other crimes. This type of thing is the absolute worst. I hope you are okay, you should never have gone through such things in so sorry you have.

[@zarszars4063]

You hit the nail on the head!!!! Pies never left! I wholeheartedly agree our entire country is run by nonces always has been always will be!

[@Mikados_Advark12]

Because governments have eroded the criminal justice system over many years by not funding it properly. There are insufficient numbers of judges and barristers to prosecute these cases. They also cut the police numbers. It is in a desperate state. We will sympathise with the plight of doctors are nurses, but turn a blind eye to those working in the criminal justice system.

[@leetlbt]

​​@@zarszars4063 I've come to that conclusion that our once great country is now run by a bunch of nonces thats only possible reson how country is being run into the ground.

[@kathryngreaves432]

This poor poor woman is traumatized. Child abuse affects everyone involved, these dirty criminals hurt the children mentally, physically, emotionally, they steal the innocence of children, they ruin lives and leave the poor victims in turmoil. This poor woman I can see felt sick and still does. I hope she's doing better mentally now and I hope she's able to trust people again because not everyone is like these abusers. Those children are worth more than that what he got. A fine doesn't change the past, it doesn't revoke the injustice done. I hope your well now and moving on. Hope you happy too💗

[@arevchick]

She’s courageous for speaking about this! It’s good that she showed a photo of him, so mother’s stay away from that man. If others will be as courageous as her to report this abuse, maybe less of this would be in the world. Praying for all the children in the world, this is so horrific and tragic. That man should have been imprisoned longer.

[@mikardo8864]

The only thing you can say about this awful story is that this woman is absolutely amazing. The first thought she had was empathy for those poor children and concern for others.

[@bec5250]

You did so well. I'm not surprised seeing one image sent you to drink for two weeks. Imagine being a child who experienced this over and over for most of their childhoods. This is why so many turn to drugs and drink. The experience of child abuse completely destroys a human being; completely destroys a child, and the adult they should become.

[@nancynancy1587]

find the video of Soft white underbelly called "In memory of..." (30:38).Half of these people were abused in some way, they are all dead... I cried when I later found the story of Jake (10:30) who was SA by his father who sold him to neighbours and recorded it... Such a handsome and eloquent guy... Its just tragic... No wonder he got into drugs and finally died, because of aggregated trauma and all the damaging things he tried to use to heal it... I cant, really ;(

[@ashotofmercury]

​@@nancynancy1587SWU is great, but depressing, channel. 😔

[@bitokay147]

This is horrifying because she can never unsee that. Prayers out to her.

[@annierita4772]

Thank GOD she needed the card reader that day she might’ve otherwise never known 😢

[@emusaurus]

She probably would have been happier not knowing

[@annierita4772]

@@emusaurus sorry?? Happier living with a pedophile in the same house as her son? Happier to lay next to a man who gets off to child abuse??? Absolutely absurd. Id rather be traumatised for the rest of my life than oblivious to that.

[@AyAReI00]

​@@annierita4772Als the video was about a little Blonde boy.... And she had a son .... People can be SO stupid not to add 1 + 1 .... Pe.dos look for women with kids for the kids and pretend to be in a relationship with them while waiting for the correct moment to FINALLY let their horrible inside thought winn

[@maggiekaykay1]

When I was 18 someone hacked my Facebook and posted one child pornographic picture. That’s the only one I’ve ever seen and it’s burned into my mind forever. It’s very disturbing how that can affect you.

[@maggiekaykay1]

I’m 33 now for reference

[@majapeacock6930]

What a brave lady to share her story with us ❤️

[@mwahhha226]

never bring a strange person into your home when you have kids under 18

[@NV-Ducz]

He wasn’t a strange person at that point

[@kcv0605]

He could just as easily have been the biological father of the woman’s son/her first husband. Everyone is a “strange person” to begin with, and a huge proportion of these offenders are at home with their first wives and biological children.

[@oyster3403]

The biggest risk factor for child mistreatment is the presence of a step-parent at home. See: the Cinderella effect. Not all step-parents, but the evidence is strongly suggestive of that link.

[@kcv0605]

@@oyster3403​​⁠Yes but this case was not about the physical sexual abuse of a non-biological child in the household, it was about downloading images from the internet of unknown children. My point was that this is not a crime predominantly being perpetrated by men who happen to live with children they aren’t related to. Separate issue. In a sense, the main risk factor for “child pornography being downloaded onto devices in your household” is just having an adult male in the house at all. The risk of that particular scenario is not meaningfully elevated if the male in question happens to be, for example, a new boyfriend or husband after a divorce (which does indeed elevate the risk of physical sexual abuse of your own children).

[@user-nz9nf9ug2q]

What a massive myth, did you even watch the video?

[@jeanettehinds4253]

You poor dear, you've been through it haven't you? But you know what? Look at you now. You are a survivor, able to sit and tell the world about the most horrendous experience in your life and maybe help others going through the same nightmare. I want to thank you for your bravery and for your resilience and your determination in protecting children.

[@umeko6187]

You were right to call the police immediately. so many people respond with denial. you did the right thing. i'm so sorry you and your family had to go through that.

[@jackienevison3616]

The justice system in the UK is awful! 0 time in jail but I’ve known people who have went to jail for shoplifting. I hope those little kids managed to be saved ❤ well done for speaking out xx

[@celessejoseph]

Any judge who is letting someone like that not serve any time is definitely someone who participates in the same activities

[@lg6757]

So true 🤢

[@bingusslingus7020]

Unfortunately very common for nonces to get let off in the UK.

[@juntus89]

@@celessejoseph great argument. I loved the part where you provided evidence...

[@emusaurus]

Judges are not gods, they don't get to pass judgement personally. It is done to the letter of the law. Get an education mate, sounds like you missed a bit too much school.

[@natnaelberhanu-i8w]

So how come I can't call a straight person who sympathizes with the LGBT or a straight person that says gays don't deserve jail time someone on the DL? Matter of fact, if you heard a homophobe say gays deserve to serve time in prison you would think they are in the closet.

[@networksandstuff]

This was a hard to stomach video. She was courageous and did the right thing to contact the authorities.

[@personincognito3989]

Thank you for saying his name and showing his face. You're very brave to react right away. Kudos for you. He served no time!!!!! He participated in the destruction of so many lives yet he served no time?!

[@callmeskullz8069]

As a single mom to a boy...one of the many reasons Ive never dated. Im sitting here crying while she is telling her story.

[@karenwilliams7600]

You are very brave to have made this video. You will help so many people. God bless you. Xxxxx

[@denisegrist488]

It’s not actually child pornography it’s child abuse

[@DavidYoel13]

Well he wasn’t in the video so it’s child pornography

[@helenestiernstrand6575]

Thats a very mild label.

[@offgrid123]

No! There is NO SUCH THING AS CHILD PORNOGRAPHY. It is always CHILD ABUSE images. Ffks stop normalising this demonic and sick thing.

[@HarrisonFjord-n3v]

Found the chimo

[@design4leathercom739]

@@DavidYoel13 child pornography user is a child abuser since creates a demand for such ''product''..nothing better to say ha? discussing the specific difference..perhaps you one of those sick monsters,

[@Amyymimi]

The fact that he didn't even serve time shows that this country is an absolute disgrace! Those poor poor children

[@luvyatubers]

Not surprised, people go to church weekly or more and pray to a chi mo creator in the sky. Stop doing that! You are part of the problem!

[@leetlbt]

I truely believe this is how our country is being run in to the ground bcos people in postions of power are compromised and perverted its the only thing that makes sense to me.

[@PhilippaAllen-pt1fu]

Wow. Sending so much love your way. I cannot begin to imagine what you went through but you're out on the other side now.. stronger.. massive respect and so brave for speaking out xx

[@lisayeary4256]

Mine too. I turned him into the sheriff’s department Married 23 years

[@NelsonVanDweller]

Are you still together?

[@angeladorrington3636]

Such a brave woman,she’ll never unsee that awful image

[@bcc7777]

I called the police on my husband too. She was only 2, and not my child, but I would never allow a child to be hurt. He took his own life two months later. Although, it was shocking and devastating, I'm glad he can't hurt anyone else.

[@morgan3625]

I fucking knew how it was going to end. Give me ONE case where justice was actually served in this country in cases like this ffs.

[@Mikados_Advark12]

There are many cases

[@Every26Seconds]

Well I’m in the US but I got justice. I was abused in every possible way by my mom’s bf throughout my entire childhood. I told and no one cared. Once social media was a thing he would message me and I would block him and he would make a new account and do it again. So I decided to use that and started talking back, I made him feel safe talking about what he did and of course the statute of limitations was up so what could I do… well there’s a loophole now and a big change to the law because of my case. I got enough information from him to turn it in as new evidence and after 30 years he was arrested and I looked him dead in the eyes as I testified in court as the jury cried! He got life! My goal is to get my story out there and help others do the same thing. So I hope that gives you some reassurance and encouragement.

[@mrscrofford]

This is one of my biggest fears. Unknowingly married to someone like that 😢 Poor woman she’ll probably never trust a man again.

[@SWOTHDRA]

You cant uknowingly marry somebody like that if you really take the time to know somebody.

[@mrscrofford]

@@SWOTHDRA yeah it could happen for a short while but if you have any good sense of intuition there’s no way you can’t know something is off.

[@SWOTHDRA]

@@mrscrofford exactly, I mean he has to find time to search and watch this stuff, other red flags maybe in some comments he says.

[@josephesposito3499]

Um, it was a >wo-MAN who raped the boy. Did you miss that?

[@brigwood7658]

​@@SWOTHDRA That is just so naive it beggars belief. You serious?

[@bengtekman8616]

You are a strong human. Don´t let them speak and explaine. Photos like that tells everything on who he is.

[@larissaberry4560]

Thank you for putting his face out there and telling your story. I’m so so so sorry you, your boy, and those children went through that. This “justice” system really isn’t fair in the slightest and it sickens me to hear this outcome. I really hope that you heal from this awful situation

[@idkeither37]

My best friends father is also a pedophile. He touched our friends in our neighbourhood. He was arrested because 1 girl was brave enough to come out and speak to the police. During lockdown, we didn't know we was aressted otherwise maybe other children would have come out. He only got 7 months and is out living in the same area as us. They still see him...

[@rosienelson898]

This is just tragic, fills me with despair to hear it! It cannot be called a ‘justice’ system when children have to live around the convicted person who abused them. 7 months in comparison to a life long sentence of self loathing and mental health problems for those children is not justice!

[@leetlbt]

​@@rosienelson898sadly the criminal justice system is just that justice for criminals.

[@Infinityxxxxxx]

What a SPLENDID...WONDERFUL, SENSATIONAL video for the channel @Fabulous Magazine... 🤦‍♂

[@jenniearnold92]

She's so brave coming forward with her story it couldn't have been easy to say these things, I really hope her and her son are doing okay now ❤

[@katiejohn4213]

Disgusting outcome. Those poor children. I really feel for that this lady too

[@daisystewart1]

Thank you so much for sharing and thank you for including his name as well as his face. The world needs to know who this monster is

[@MLSBeauty123]

Wow, so anyone can hold this type of ography and never spend one single day in prison from it? Wow what an amazing world we live in, what are laws for then??

[@LauraNoka-qy1do]

It’s really bad. It could have been his first offence and the fact that he didn’t directly harm a child. It’s all taken into account. It’s disgusting

[@holliecoates-e5y]

Ye its so wrong. Even people found with piles of this sort of context can get away with it as they didn’t “make” the images or videos. Its so bad

[@SQUELCH-zj7il]

Probably because they haven't got room to hold all of them. They're in the tens of thousands

[@Lucy-ou5hf]

Many of the people who work in the law; judges ect, they are pedophiles themselves.

[@lovedaybebe5881]

Huw Edward’s ……. The same conviction ! What are we saying societally , to give men and women a slap on the wrist ! Disgraceful ! Thank you for sharing your story !

[@debradowner8761]

Having a stepparent in the home increases risk of abuse by 700%, sexual abuse by 400%.

[@chrisalister2297]

My comment is in no way meant to target women. It just blows me away how often you will read in the news where a woman leaves her children/babies with a "new boyfriend" that she's barely known for 3 weeks. She has to go to the store or work because the boyfriend is a piece of trash. Well, you know the rest of the story. The mother comes home to find her children raped, beaten or dead. You're children ALWAYS come before your own needs. Your needs will just have to wait until your children are grown up.

[@Stardusted1]

I know how you felt. That feeling of having been touched by such evil, slept with it, loved and cared for it. You feel like your body has been corrupted by having been with them. Takes a long time for that to go away and it is really normal I think. Bless you and your family. ❤️