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[@pounddog77]

When my ex-wife grew a goatee, I had a hunch she was up to no good.

[@glennguzla]

😂

[@gaymwangi8367]

😂

[@kamelmahouni999]

😂😂😂

[@kaykay7640]

😂😂😂

[@karmakat8016]

😂😂😂

[@barneylambo4527]

Time to quit being an attorney and start a T.V. career pal, you are gold.

[@poshcateyesunfiltered]

Absolutely

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

He and the NPD behavioral therapist. Tie them both together..

[@TAJMUSIC81]

Seriously. He’s good

[@fu.gee.tiiiiii]

literally he’s hilarious. i think he makes more as a lawyer though

[@saharagold]

So true. Saw him being interviewed first on Soft White Underbelly last year on FB. He is brilliant!

[@gameon2000]

If your spouse grew a goatee, he ain't just cheating, he just started a drug cartel in New Mexico and changed his last name to HEISENBERG!

[@anamericanprayer1967]

Bhahaha😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@marcoi7035]

lets cook jesse !!

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

It's not a he,it's a she!!

[@cookiewenchescookiewenches3904]

I was thinking Salamanca but yeah, Heisenberg works, too.

[@NDSTRUCTIBLE1]

You're Goddamn right

[@amywolfe7006]

As a marriage therapist of 25yrs…this man gets it

[@davidvetrano5910]

You're beautiful❤

[@Youraveragedemon-n3r]

I get what he's saying with the "Tell Tell signs" but just cause YOU THINK IT doesn't mean it's true. It's usually a 50/50. To me this is bad impulsive advice tho, i went thru hell for over 2 yrs living with my ex. I was CONSTANTLY BEING ACCUSED of cheating almost everyday when I WAS NOT and NEVER did when with her. She was young & insecure, it was toxic. Just assuming, attacking & prying thru privacy. Just have a normal sit down talk like adults & COMMUNICATE. I do agree with gathering proof to actually verify, but that's it.

[@Deeznutz...]

Upload more vids plz

[@nsondyyahoocomph]

I AM BEAUTIFUL

[@barbaraschultz1442]

Yup!

[@kdeloris2225]

As a lawyer, it doesn't matter what I know. It matters what I can prove. Spoken like a true lawyer.

[@spacemooseable]

How do you prove irreconcilable differences?

[@spacemooseable]

What is the standard of scrutiny for a no-fault divorce trial?

[@spacemooseable]

This man is fascinated by himself.

[@kdeloris2225]

​@@spacemooseableHe's telling the truth and that's always fascinating.

[@nopeno6514]

🕵️Actually it matters ; you can't prove what you don't know.

[@AlmaVasquezjr]

When they cheat, they have ended the relationship but didn't tell you yet . You are in a fake relationship.

[@RG-tt1ru]

At least on their side, that's true only for women and not for men. Men are greedy, women are stingy.

[@cathybutcher4826]

👍

[@marylougeorge9890]

Great comment.

[@MRornge800]

Yes, women have sex with another man when they lose respect for their current man. It's not good for either party to cheat, but men cheat for different reasons than women. Don't put your female way of thinking onto men.

[@MRornge800]

Men and women cheat with 2 different mindsets about it.

[@emmalay1962]

I could listen to this guy read the back of a shampoo bottle

[@romelynsolomon9931]

Same

[@majesticallymade6177]

🤣😂

[@EmpressKe]

😂😂😂😂

[@malhunt7]

Same! He is such an engaging speaker ❤

[@happyhappynuts]

Can absolutely see him reading the label too. "When you see the Jojoba and the glycerine, you just know that hair is going to be thick and shiny"

[@frankjamesbonarrigo7162]

He needs a podcast

[@traceyhopkins3698]

He does. Its called Argue in Peace

[@wgsmit02]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/pWbdaWBvhNVlpK8&si=OhumCUakCIT01beE

[@wgsmit02]

He was amazing here on soft white underbelly kzbin.info/www/bejne/pWbdaWBvhNVlpK8&si=OhumCUakCIT01beE

[@keovezo]

@@traceyhopkins3698 dang this is actually so low-key thanks

[@kayodudu5190]

He needs a podcast ASAP

[@hivemindconcussion2173]

Denial is a very powerful and effective survival strategy.

[@SKBottom]

It's the most common human emotion. It's easy to point out when someone else is deluding themselves, but harder when you are in the middle of it

[@Nimue333]

As soon as I know someone has a girlfriend or a wife, I don't see them again. I don't get how people could feel ok with being the person someone cheats with O.o

[@Hakar17]

What's even crazier is when they get with that person. I've had a few friends who have gotten a girl to cheat on her dude with them. Then started dating the girl and somehow be surprised when she cheated on them. I mean come on bro if she would cheat on her dude with you. Then why wouldn't she cheat on you with another dude it's crazy.

[@kate4biglittlevoices]

Bc the person married tells them they are not loved and want out of their relationship at home .

[@funkmonster]

Most people know they are going to leave their spouse or girlfriend or husband or whatever, they are just looking for another branch to grab onto. It’s called “monkeybranching” and women and men both do it. As my grandma used to say, never throw out dirty water unless you have clean water. You’re not supposed to sell your Honda until you know you have a Porsche waiting for you.

[@nopeno6514]

💯 Me too don't "touch" married or boyfriended woman. It's a recipe for trouble.

[@marylougeorge9890]

I believe that when You’re faithful and your Spouse accuses you of cheating = They Are Cheating and are Afraid you are.

[@cestlavie5713]

Bingo !

[@sadiegodwin205]

👌👏

[@chasnfireflies317]

Bingo!

[@Jeridone]

That’s what people who cheat say to avoid being accused of cheating.

[@Jayisinvisible]

This definitely happened to me

[@amyhartnett4374]

She is never just a friend

[@stephanied9629]

Amen!

[@flylady043]

The tattoos alone tells me you’re one gangster divorce lawyer…I bet your clients are getting the gold mine and the other half is getting the shaft 😂

[@MrsHecklefish]

I like getting the shaft... The tip just ain't the same without it. 😂

[@ctrguy9502]

Meh… maybe on the east coast… Tattoos are so mainstream now, there’s nothing gangster about em! My tattoo’d friends think it’s gangster that I don’t have a single tat! 🤪😎

[@heathermetz6576]

“If you think your spouse is cheating, they probably are.”

[@TXTrojan]

2 hour interview with this guy on Diary of a CEO channel, very good

[@miquelvillaroel468]

Extraordinary

[@honeytrionia7299]

Great interview ❤

[@cusz87]

Amazing interview.

[@Snoogylove1]

That interview is why I clicked

[@Carrie-i8r]

It was so full of wisdom

[@morganwhite2176]

I agree, but then we can’t forget that there are always those paranoid possessive partners who always think their partner has cheated on them, even though their partner has never left the kitchen. I once had a boyfriend who cancelled delivery of mail to our house so that no other man would ever be near me. Nothing ever went on and I was always loyal, never a cheater. There are those people too.

[@traceywarner652]

Narcissistic control freaks - they are out there too thinking you’re doing shit when you can’t even leave the house.

[@ivana4942]

My guy friend has a girlfriend like this. Yet she's very friendly with an ex of hers. 🙄

[@saharagold]

Yes, so true. Having experienced a diagnosed Narc, it's nuts how they think. They are such control freaks, they imagine anything to be cheating.

[@MP-wt9kz]

@@traceywarner652 or once burnt, always afraid of fire.

[@lburke2002]

It's more likely he was one cheating. Sounds more he was guilty.

[@andydelassus2734]

Marry the right person. I can’t stress this enough

[@fifilafleur5555]

… Or don’t marry at all.

[@morena2435]

the right one might stop loving you as well. Do you see yourself as a quintessence of perfect traits for marriage and only your partner’s “defects” can ruin it?😂😂😂

[@drew8979]

And people ask me why I'm not married lol

[@dialac1]

I’m not afraid of being cheated on. It’s happened multiple times already. The difference with marriage is that they get to leave with cash and prizes at your expense. Not happening!

[@2up2care38]

​@@dialac1yup im not afraid of marriage, im afraid of divorce

[@Noajoa22]

@@dialac1 well it's a good thing prenup's exist.

[@travelingdude1621]

@@Noajoa22It’s a good thing the choice to never get married exists, which is even much better. 😃👌🏻👍🏻

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

Only u know why, your gut is still rumbling for now..pay attention to the guts

[@all-things-under-heaven]

He's a guy who will tell you things you don't want to listen to

[@kathleendubois7128]

If it wouldn't enter your mind to cheat on your spouse, then it's very difficult to recognize that behavior from someone you love and trust, even when presented with this type of evidence.

[@dialac1]

True

[@ishyandmikkischannel8811]

Just like a person wouldn't expect their mother to betray them, they don't expect their closest and must trusted to cheat.

[@cocochocookiedough]

❤

[@milkman45828]

I was completely dumbfounded when my ex wife cheated because I would of never put myself in that position to cheat on her

[@suelynrogers]

​@@milkman45828same here

[@shanquammie9964]

"unless you have a head injury"😂😂😅😅😅😅

[@EinDahl]

My gut has never led me astray. The few times I've been cheated on, I knew. Don't know how, just knew. Always, always, always listen to your gut - it's trying to tell you something your conscious mind hasn't caught up to yet.

[@andreLjackson82]

I hate this might be true

[@bayoubabe6698]

He’s the best divorce attorney I’ve ever seen-in many interviews. He absolutely knows the deal of marriage and relationships! Total respect for him.

[@aeonflux36963]

I just found this man on the channel Soft White Underbelly. Incredible! I could listen to him all day!!

[@jessicaagosto3633]

me too

[@George.Andrews.]

Me three.

[@Shadykilla]

He also has an interesting interview with Matt Walsh

[@SC.......]

I thought that was the same guy. He looks younger or different in this video.

[@momof1576]

As a lawyer I concur.

[@greenlizardballs]

Real life Saul Goodman lmao

[@keddy5627]

James is The Shit! Keep em coming!!!!

[@tailtap2222]

Just my 52 year old opinion, but I think people shouldn't be able to marry until 25. Also, young engaged couples should have a "mandatory" weekend or at least a sit-down with a divorce attorney to really see what is at stake. Like I said, just my opinion.

[@aquilinaciamacco2410]

What's even more shocking is the fact that victims of infidelity don't end the relationship. I have ended contact with every single cheater, liar, user, loser, moocher, and abuser and each time? my life just got better and better for it! Don't ever stay with someone that would disrespect you!

[@hydraulics]

Maybe time to examine why you attract so many cheaters. No one's ever cheated on me....

[@boop8127]

Denial is strong because we dont want to be broken

[@michellek8076]

Always trust your gut intuition ladies. If you think he may be cheating, HE IS!!!!!

[@thakraken6995]

That is a faulty line of reasoning. Facts do not care about what you feel

[@forzali]

Same goes to guys

[@Hakar17]

​@@Vasilia4It definitionally does but the original statement is still correct and applies to dudes as well.

[@thakraken6995]

@@Hakar17 this statement is not correct. Just because you have a feeling about something does not mean your feeling is valid

[@Cristina-ne7xf]

Cheating is a moral homicide, to me!

[@Scratchync]

I first saw you on Mark’s channel and you impressed me sooooo much with your understanding of marriage. You were SPOT ON with EVERYTHING you said!! And, I am sure you have seen it all.

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

A friend mine was going tru a divorce got blindsided,nothing about cheating,money and MIL,living with them.any way he found out his lawyer became a lawyer after his divorce seems like his ex took him to the cleaners. So he became a divorce lawyer, well my friend and his ex were going back n forth. With intimate relations here and there,before the final ax, the lawyer told him "HAVE FUN" I've seen and heard it all 😂

[@DaniStenko]

not trying to be rude, just genuinely... can't understand what you're saying. Would you mind rewriting it? I legit want to understand it, because it sounds like a cool story and some sort of experience one can learn from :) I'd rather learn from other people's mistakes. Thanks in advance :) (didn't mean to be sarcastic, I promise) @@MattyNelson-rs3ik

[@Grace-sm7cn]

This is bad advice. I work with couples and there are often situations where one spouse has major insecurity/trust/jealousy issues and constantly thinks their partner is cheating when they're not. That kind of behavior can actually sabotage a good relationship.

[@tresjolieme81]

Yea marriage isn't the fairy tale ending for 90 percent

[@Trenchant468]

Many years with a controlling jealous bf. He oppressed all my joy because it all seemed like evidence to him. I never cheated. He never believed me. He never trusted me. He never got help. I finally gave up and let him go. He has a gf and I’ve been alone for years. If he saw this it would confirm all his erroneous fears.

[@chasnfireflies317]

Never ignore your gut. My 1st is now with the woman who was banging him on and off all thru our 25 yrs of marriage. They deserve one another. My 2nd husband showed me a man who could be faithful. He passed away from cancer. I enjoyed your SWU interview. Great insight! Just FYI, some of us out here ARE capable of devotion and faithfulness to the guy who deserves it.

[@laraoneal7284]

This guy is hilarious. Truth being spoken here but in an honest dramatic manner. 😂

[@sisis_eyes_wide_open]

I like this guy 😂

[@CaseyCoxx]

This is almost exactly how it happened. My step dad started working more, staying out later, and finally after a year of keeping his now gf a secret… he finally came home and out of the blue told my mom he wanted a divorce. That was 4 years ago lol it’s still going on. We all saw it coming but her because she stayed oblivious.

[@Regal23_]

Im so sorry. I didn't know men cheated and initiated divorces 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

Then you as an adult child ,should have told her ,him,, what's up ,mom and dad?

[@davidvetrano5910]

He's telling the truth as soon as I separated from my ex she was already seeing someone within a month, she was all about the money

[@doncorleone2713]

Women usually monkey branch.

[@roberttruth2717]

She was seeing him months before she seperated😂

[@ashleyblansett2755]

Yes. He’s telling the truth!! 💯 💯 Btw..sorry you went through that. You are better than that. In due time you’ll cheerful you missed a big bullet.

[@novagalaxy342]

Yup, your gut feeling, intuition never lies.

[@fifilafleur5555]

Best thing I ever did was get out of my 12 year marriage to someone who was arrogant, dishonest and manipulative. They took their wedding vows and then when things got hard their solution was to go outside the marriage, live a double life and lie to me. I went on to date two more bad ones (who proposed marriage) after my divorce. Just more of the same behaviors and games… only these two had much less going for them than my spouse. Multiple divorces & kids. I stopped looking for a life partner. It’s been a HUGE waste of my life and has always led to disappointment . The dream of getting married, having a family and a devoted spouse is becoming a thing of the past. Like finding a needle in a haystack.

[@MsggieB.6870]

My husband said when we first met and we were putting the "CARDS ON THE TABLE". He said" IF A MAN TELLS YOU HE ONLY WANTS TO BE YOUR FRIEND, HE'S A LIER!,HE ONLY WANT TO "F" YOU! And will do and say anything to make it happen." Best advice to give a woman. I wish I knew this years ago.

[@DietDrDoge]

When she went from always wanting to talk to me and always spending time with me. To suddenly barely speaking to me and always "stressed" always getting upset when i would try to communicate with her as i had always did and it was never an issue until suddenly out of the blue.

[@jessicaagosto3633]

this lawyer is one of a kind!!!!

[@kjc1878]

Guy is funny as he brutality honest

[@namelastname8872]

"They've grown a goatee" hahahahaha

[@George.Andrews.]

Facial hair changes often indicate a person is going through emotional exploration. My X tried to brush me of with "all the girls have got one" but I knew something was up.

[@randomeyes]

As a kid we used to say the phrase "two-timing"😅

[@personne7542]

B.S. My ex had these hunches that I was cheating and she was completely wrong. It was ridiculous.

[@melissaanderson2573]

This interview is a gift and a gem!

[@rhyslynjones5817]

Saw for the first time (yesterday), this gentleman. ❤️❤️❤️❤️ his straight shooting honesty. I agree with all he had & has to say. THIS IS REALITY PEOPLE!!!

[@marcusmagnificus1984]

Cheaters and all their apologists wouldn't love this. They hate being caught and being exposed. 😅

[@mrjakesh1]

I agree. If she's hiding her phone and suddenly works late, she's cheating.

[@Raven-w4e]

Not everyone is meant to be together til death. That's only 10% of people.

[@loriannstanislawski99]

Well this solidifies my experience. But he also did have a head injury and his personality changed, had a new job and it was more difficult than his last job. I supported him through it - emotionally, psychologically and all the home duties. Still pisses me off to this day.

[@CanadianLoveKnot]

My girlfriend accuses me of cheating, but I am not. So is she projecting? Which means she is cheating?

[@grechelestrada4846]

this man is everything …i’m glad i found this guy to listen to

[@tiffanystarbeck2279]

A hot Attorney with arm sleeve tatts. My future ex-husband.😂😂😂

[@saramatthews7159]

He is VERY hot!

[@tiffanystarbeck2279]

@@saramatthews7159 🔥🔥🤣🤣

[@toby4643]

You're hilarious and this comment is so on-brand, considering.

[@tiffanystarbeck2279]

@@saramatthews7159 he is! I first saw him on interviewed on Soft white underbelly! 🔥🔥

[@tiffanystarbeck2279]

@@toby4643 🤣

[@NLR759]

People who are honest and would never cheat have a hard time imagining that their spouse is capable of cheating on them.

[@traceywarner652]

This guy has a whole KZbin interview and he is just fascinating.

[@KD-id2ul]

Love you James 😂 you're the best!! Most people live their entire life in constant denial 😂

[@lyndseywilliams3618]

If your partner accuses you of cheating and you aren’t, they are likely projecting.

[@fifilafleur5555]

Not necessarily. I used to accuse my ex husband because my intuition was setting off alarm bells. I had never once cheated but I caught him cheating with a private investigator… and that wasn’t the first time.

[@planetf9267]

New underwear is the sign lol it happen to me. All of sudden there was a package of new underwear in his drawer.

[@Chad_Max]

100% this. If she's buying sexier underwear as opposed to her usual combat fatigues all of a sudden, trust me its not for you...

[@vivavidadela]

@@Chad_Max😂😂😂😂yes, I started to buy new sexy underwear because I was working on my self worth and self confidence to leave the relationship. Not because I was cheating but you are right it wasn’t for him either😅

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

Underwear?he could say the same for you,,unless it's been 20 years since he purchased underwear😅😮!!!!!!!

[@otiliaioan5348]

Haha come on!! No faith??

[@Vitalbowhunting]

The point is to be the husband who keeps in shape, dresses well and keeps his wife chasing.

[@L8-APEX]

Man I'm done trying to find my "other half" or that person I'll be with for the rest of my life. I honestly don't think she even exists at this point in time other than in my head. I was in 3 relationships the past 3 years. One I caught cheating, the other two I suspect were also. I was faithful until the end and helped all 3 out of dark and terrible situations only to get kicked to the curb when they got bored or because of a minor disagreement. I'm done putting all my time, energy, and money into girlfriends I know wouldn't be there for me when it matters. I have always wanted to have children and I long to be a father. But it's just not worth it with the girls who've agreed to date me

[@spacemooseable]

Why would a credible divorce lawyer feel the need to get all tatted up??? Very suspect.

[@vitaminq4348]

"Unless you have a head injury...!" 😭😭😭

[@StStStS]

Arguably falling in love does cause a head injury!

[@gertvandyk954]

It's always on the phones....

[@itsbrendaful]

When you’re in trauma you just can’t see it. BUT your friends can. I have been that friend and I’ve had that friend .

[@mathias2868]

I had a extremely jealous ex gf who would come up with cheating stories with people i've never even met. So no this is not true, never ever cheated on her.

[@squatchpnw2331]

You should hear his full interview on the soft white underbelly

[@marylougeorge9890]

Yes. 👍👏

[@EmmaAnimalWelfare]

It's spectacular

[@squatchpnw2331]

@@EmmaAnimalWelfare everyone planning to get married one day needs to hear it. He's giving us pearls in that interview.

[@EmmaAnimalWelfare]

@@squatchpnw2331 couldn't agree more. Everyone should know what their legal rights are before entering a marriage. I'm so glad his interview exists because I can at least plan ahead now 😅

[@susannigro9494]

Maybe your future steady boyfriend but this guy has seen too much to get married again

[@Wouldntyouliketoknow1111]

Not the head injury 😂

[@travelingdude1621]

Men and women are totally different from each other. The bottom line is stay single and never get married.

[@fifilafleur5555]

I would agree. Relationships & marriage today are a joke.

[@mfawls9624]

I'm friendly and outgoing in a lot of ways. I am sure my wife thinks I cheated. She has. But here's the thing. I wouldn't cheat, even though I know I could. One...I did cheat once while dating, as the relationship was winding down. I felt so shady and unmanly...like man up, end it then do what you want. Two...I'm married. Who could I cheat with that I would find attractive realizing they're aware I'm married but would still want me? Really. Do I have any respect for a woman that would do it with a married father?

[@derekseifert7]

I miss the energy I had back when I was an athlete, so that's why I'm working out and trying to lose weight. I hope my wife appreciates it.

[@debbiecooper6835]

Lollll 😂 he is straight to the point

[@clairehg2671]

LOL….yes! Thank you. Found out my husband has been cheating for years. Yes, I had a feeling. Boom. Oh well! 😶

[@facdoro978]

James please start a podcast or something. You are the shit.

[@detectivekornfed]

James' podcast is called Argue in Peace.

[@steved6269]

Jason Bateman's older brother is a lawyer?

[@ericdinesh63]

😂😂😂

[@DaniStenko]

hotter* brother. Here, fixed that for you :)

[@sabrinabrodie9145]

This is the second time this has come through my feed and I’m going to say… Amen, again! Lol

[@xander-with-a-z]

As a divorced soldier , after 23 years of service I can 100 % confirm that if your spouse is even mildly attractive, the amount of attention she is getting is overwhelming .

[@gregort911]

Yoga instructor 😂

[@Rorybae]

OMG THEY ARE CHEATING! " unless they have a head injury" LOL

[@tom23245]

This man is a great speaker. Very engaging to listen to. I assume he's successful as a lawyer just based on the psychological effects of his speaking ability.

[@jamieworthy5163]

He’s just not that into you. Lol

[@sadiapsychology]

100000000 percent true

[@lucianavillanti3990]

I adore this lawyer! He totally gets it. No one is better than him!! 😂❤💯👌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@Chad_Max]

Any change in appearance or clothing are dead give aways that something is up. Trust me, as a guy who has slept with a fair share of women who were in committed relationships, those are the keys. If she's dressing up more, taking care of her appearance, etc. she's not doing it for you. She's doing it for someone else, that you can count on despite her explanation to you. On the flip side, if she has let herself go or stopped dying her hair then it means she no longer values your opinion of her physical appearance. This is a major red flag - expect her to become more combative as time passes over trivial things. This is a precursor to divorce most of the time. Good luck out there gents...

[@kamaliancirranoush1916]

You have extreme selection bias, as the married women you slept with were the married women who are cheaters. Plenty of women, myself included, improve our health and appearance for ourselves and for our husbands, and have never and will never cheat because we are not cheaters.

[@bluebutterfly5062]

So when she takes of her appearance, she's cheating. And when she let's herself go, she's becoming combative? 🤔

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

Women get tired,especially if their needs are not met,emotionally or financially.Same ole,same ole,day in day out!! you ask yourself,why bother,?,my husband gives me compliments days later ,when I was looking nice,back then a few days ago,,he's done that several times. why can't he say on the very day,honey you look really nice,,I do when it's him..looking nice..

[@OZ01209]

You were with women that cheat. Don't put all women in that category. I have let myself go over the last 5 years because I am tired. My partner compliments me all the time and says I look beautiful without makeup. I work a lot and graduated in 2017 with a BS. On top of getting things done at home. My partner helps with basic home stuff, but he's not financially stable, therefore he doesn't have money to take me out. He hardly ever wants to do things. I have to come up with plans to do things and then pay for it. Then on the rare days that I have off and feel like doing my hair or makeup to make ME feel better he always says "Who are you getting dressed up for?" It is so disrespectful! I used to get mad and so I stopped for a while because I didn't want to hear him question me. But even after 10 years of being together he still says that instead of just saying "hey, you look really pretty." Or "I like that eye shadow color." No, he gives me more complements when I look like crap vs. when I look groomed. He has never been clingy, he gives me space to hangout with my friends. But if I get home after 8pm multiple days of the week he says things like, "oh you're gonna be late again." Or "do you think you'll be home one night this week." Or "oh, you're leaving again." - It's not like I'm partying. I'm either working, going to the gym, going to dinner with my friend, or going to visit my sister. He's invited to go to all of them with me or come hang at my work. But he chooses to stay home... So why the "guilt trippy" comments to me? I know he's not cheating, so maybe he's projecting his insecurities...? Then when I am home all we do is sit on the couch and watch TV. Or he goes on and on about religion and conspiracy theories.

[@therealjd1503]

@@OZ01209sounds like he is not the one

[@thorasguardselectrician2013]

Dude keeping business flowing 😂

[@qmoorman]

A successful marriage is like hitting the lottery.

[@lisalehr4635]

Locked out of phone and computer

[@VivKittie32]

Nice tats bro.. great advice too.

[@Vicooptem]

The most coward behavior is to cheat in a relationship. The bravest thing you can do is flat out say”my feelings have changed I’m not in love with you anymore”. My motto if think your spouse/bf/gf is cheating it’s okay to snoop!

[@denolea]

This is very dangerous to say, my dad used to think my mum cheats on him all the time, even when she was with the family members or at her job. It was clearly delusional. She suffered a lot.

[@elliewilson8863]

Love to heard your thoughts on marriage- you missed your call on being a marriage counselor . I am a widow but find you so helpful and truthful for those who may be passing through marital difficulties. You’re funny too and I love your sense of humor.

[@sandwich1846]

This man is a savage/gold

[@realestatecoach8626]

You’re a great actor! I like your expressions and the way you express yourself! I love your Passion for your work and love of people as well. I love that you care and like the good book says “In all thine getting , get understanding!” You have great understanding!

[@mamamoonie]

This man is everything 😂

[@csh8754]

Wearing cologne that I bought he has never worn. Shaving his pubic area for a first time...

[@livelovelife32]

This

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

Wow ,that is definitely a tell sign