Things Not To Say To Gay People

Whether it's telling you that you don't "seem gay", or assuming you'll be attracted to their friend you've never met, people still say a lot of questionable stuff to gay people.
Here, eight men and women explain why, among other things, they don't want to be anyone's "gay best friend".
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[@wjwchloe5735]

*realizing that three of the lesbians are wearing overalls*

[@nyct0phile]

As a lesbian, overalls drive me insane. Like okay theyre cute but they're so stiff. I prefer jumpers instead

[@nirzareepandya2200]

wjwchloe and plaid

[@princebenvi6274]

*im wearing overalls rn* *a m g a y*

[@that_confused_person3308]

And plade

[@wjwchloe5735]

Sid Sidney I never said it was bad, it was just ironic to a stereotype , lmao

[@Name-nz9wf]

If someone says "You don't look gay" Just relpy back with "Well you don't look straight" And watch their response

[@klickingkayasmr7585]

Meow Kitty 😮

[@evierickinson9301]

DEAD

[@katjah.3240]

Ouhhh

[@rebecapolancoo732]

Bonus tip: wink when you say it

[@violet_9464]

Bowls And Stuff brilliant touch

[@KarrotJoos]

3/4 lesbians were wearing overalls. Overalls are gay culture you heard it here folks

[@jenniferp347]

I noticed this too! Are overalls in again for lesbians? First gay woman I met, and semi crushed on, in the 90s wore overalls a lot.

[@elishascoronajournals5448]

I'm lesbian and I'm wearing an overall dress (I'm obsessed with it XD)

[@newimprovedhubertcumberdal5219]

xD I’ve always wanted overalls

[@gwendalynnalvarado8277]

KarrotJoos you copied a comment

[@ancefreimane4325]

Welp I'm gay then😂

[@smaka-iz7dc]

*when did you choose to be gay?* '' On the 4th of September which is Beyonce's birthday ... '' I'M SCREAMING LMAOOOOOO

[@mirandanubbynubnub1497]

s. m when I was born actually

[@WiseTree547]

2/25/2004 when I was born

[@ansh0133]

@@WiseTree547 STOP. JUST. STOP!

[@Rage_Harder_Then_Relax]

@@joakkley9659 Stop changing your screen name....... and mind your own business.

[@user-xg8rl8zs9h]

to get attention like one of my bullies who bullies me for being straight

[@azerqwer5310]

"Does that mean you fancy me?" I'm gay not desperate

[@thegamingdoggo9519]

Same but im bi

[@msummers3809]

Yes you are

[@batmanthechad204]

I’m gay, I’m incredibly desperate But I’ll NEVER be that desperate

[@Himathan]

MY GAYDAR IS GOING CRAZY

[@geraldodelrivero8982]

News reporter: After being roasted by a gay person, little timmy later committed suicide last night. It seems that the epic roast was too much for him to handle.

[@emolybean]

i came out a while ago and a girl said to me “i cant see you marrying a girl” and i immediately said back to her “ i cant see you marrying anyone” whoops i guess

[@kayleighwolf976]

That is the most funniest comeback I have ever heard!!

[@emolybean]

Kayleigh Wolf Thank you, that was the sweetest thing to say :)

[@kayleighwolf976]

Emily B You're welcome! :)

[@YoutubeYoutube-hl7yb]

yuck the onl girl who loves you is your own mom

[@xkxxrax]

KZbin KZbin can’t say the same about you love

[@seveniue]

"when did you choose to be gay" Oh, I didn't choose, JK Rowling tweeted my homosexuality into existence

[@TojiOkano]

I chose to be gay when I saw my crush for the first time! #SarcasmIsMyFavoriteThingInTheWorld

[@octopusgummies5878]

Ahw yes

[@gucciiipeppa5438]

Hahahaha XD

[@melaniemartinezislife2527]

Now she tweeted trans out of existence lmao

[@sumtingwongholeefuk8051]

XD but she’s actually homophobic

[@broseidon1658]

“When did you choose to be gay?” Well, it started off as a 7-day trial, but I forgot about it and here we are.

[@InstruMentalbreakdown.]

I love this so much😂

[@benitodifrancesco7254]

You got that Logan Paul mentality

[@holysex1052]

@@benitodifrancesco7254 a who what now?

[@katelynnichols8305]

I bought premium

[@bvnny1379]

💀

[@alexisasheep6554]

"Does that mean you fancy me?" Excuse you, I have higher standards than that.

[@vinteage1078]

Omg can I use this quote?!! 😂😂

[@melsvdhoeven5789]

OMG SOOO MEEEEE😂

[@afellow.3148]

I'm bisexual and when I told a friend they backed away and said "I don't want to kiss you!" We're not friends anymore.

[@melsvdhoeven5789]

Smoretown i’m sorry if i hit any hard feelings but that is so dumb c’mon people get brains! I am very proud you said it but people shouldn’t react like that 🌈

[@michaelbarnes5771]

I'm sorry, but don't worry; one day you'll have a friend who will want to kiss you!

[@revelmixes]

girl 1: "do you scissor?" "erm that's not a thing" girl 2: "is scissoring a thing? "yes" _i'm so confused rn_

[@bigballoon9569]

onestopkpop Different people. Different ways of getting off.

[@silence8714]

Scissoring is a thing.

[@katastrofi7594]

onestopkpop It is an actual thing.

[@sallymanda3276]

onestopkpop. It's not really a thing but some people do like 3 percent of lesbians do

[@kathybramley5609]

onestopkpop mmv nss

[@bakes887]

I once had someone ship me with a gay guy. I'm lesbian. He's gay. That doesn't work.

[@sofiarou7603]

Oh it will just stop lying to yourself and wala

[@pixelpuddinge6138]

Thee Waffle what.

[@pixelpuddinge6138]

You really shouldn’t ship people irl in general

[@h3nson2k56]

... I'm looking for who asked that question I cant find nothing

[@Hazyla]

My classmate ships my lesbian friend (who has a girlfriend) with our male classmate

[@Falcon-xb8dn]

The girl in the red top and dungarees and the guy in the punk jumper are literally the best bit of this video

[@Adam_jd]

Trueeeee

[@SieMiezekatze]

*pink jumper

[@vicrvse]

Falcon yessss i agree

[@elakeyy]

She sounds weird is that a accent?

[@elakeyy]

The Orange Watermelon idk

[@MariaEduarda-uc6gt]

"It's not natural" Karen you have breast implants and a spray tan pretty sure those aren't natural either

[@dontdodrugskids4098]

God damn it Karen I told you to get some common sence and your still saying that crap

[@pbnjjj___2200]

S h i t , K a r e n . N o w y o u h a v e t o d i e

[@aliciamae3919]

my god karen you are so stupid

[@bellesbrunette677]

Charlotte the Jellyfish 😂dead

[@icouldnotthinkofagoodname4441]

It isn't natural tho.

[@leroyharris5756]

all the lesbians are wearing overalls this is representation

[@unfriendly_neighbour]

One of them wasn’t

[@arwen9129]

Laura Avocado I am not

[@mostbeautifulsinner224]

@@unfriendly_neighbour she actually wore one underneath. I mean shes a lesbian, their needs to be something masculine about her right!?

[@tommyphillips5850]

r/gatekeeping ?

[@parkersandy5464]

Oof I’m lesbian but can’t wear overalls

[@Marqkus]

"Are you sure you aren't confused?" "No. I'm definitely confused. *Confused why I'm your friend."*

[@jaxonville4]

"Are you a vegan?" "No, I'm not a vegan, I like cHiCkEn!" 😂😂 omg it killed me

[@Adam_jd]

Samee 😂😂😂

[@Adam_jd]

😂😂😂

[@benitodifrancesco7254]

@LIL Neckrope so?

[@ghostofsparta1045]

Her voice is so irritating like shit boy

[@womendonthaverights9144]

@@ghostofsparta1045 please tell me your not gay I watched this as a joke and made fun of it but all these comments are lesbians that are mad there boyfriend in 6th grade broke up with them I'm annoyed people find this E N T E R T A I N I N G

[@aliyahdevenee3155]

Random person I've told I'm gay: Person: you don't look gay. Me: Oh, I'm sorry I forgot to shower in glitter and rainbows before I left the bloody house this morning. I'll remember that for tomorrow, thanks for that honey.

[@alanwinters7767]

Aliyah Devenée right! People say that to me too. They’re like oh you don’t act gay. And I’m like yeah because I don’t scream "YAAAASS QUEEN" every chance I get.

[@lotus4972]

Oh sorry hold on I left my rainbow wig, socks, and overalls at home let me hop on my unicorn that shits pink glitter and retrieve them

[@aliyahdevenee3155]

Hermione Granger hahaha, ik right 🙂

[@smallfries4318]

ahh, oops. would you like me to start wearing makeup and scream all the time and have a super feminine voice?

[@veronikaandrasi14]

Random person: you don't look gay. Me: oh sHIT DID I FORGET MY RAINBOW AT HOME AGAIN?!?!

[@melaniegarcia3158]

if you say “oh it’s adam and eve, not adam and steve”, then you can adam and leave

[@BlueMiaou]

amazing

[@Hazyla]

Chamomile Tea I one person say of course it’s Adam and Eve. Steve is her dead name.

[@mustafa.bakes.]

Exquisite choice of words

[@deanamesman8954]

@__N___F_____ same

[@lele-sm4od]

saw this _exact_ same comment from a video titled "A Therapy Session For Homophobic People"

[@hisokasstickybungeegum4397]

I once heard someone share their experience when someone shouted "You're going to hell you know" and they just replied "And I'll be with all the other homosexuals, what torture." Edit: Lmao the fact that ppl r still commenting on this a year later- like,, idc if you're saying "We'Ll heLl iS toRtuRE eiTheR wAy" like oki oki,, masochists r quaking

[@mirandazhao1889]

*gasp* a tRaGeDy!

[@helenahelena7038]

I love this😂💗

[@sofiarou7603]

Are u sure about that I'm pretty sure u going to enjoy the torture u will go through while u r in hell (I don't know u so I can't assume u will go to hell still)

[@pixelpuddinge6138]

Thee Waffle what.

[@enzo8331]

@@sofiarou7603 if all the other gay girls are there I'm sure I'll be fine. -the lesbians

[@dulcae]

“oh but you’re too pretty to be gay!” can gay people not be pretty?? WHAT

[@distorted3271]

Lmao most gay people are very pretty

[@leahgainer6299]

Yep that's why I date em

[@Meekkhi]

jippun gay people can be pretty,but they can't be sane

[@distorted3271]

Ahwoofe um yes we are sane, thank you. Just because we like the same gender that doesn't mean our sanity gets removed.

[@rynefox2664]

Ahwoofe excuse me? If you don’t agree why do you have to make people feel bad because you don’t agree with our way of life

[@yurhomi4478]

The black girl has got an *unique* voice...

[@fanbase4226]

Yurhomi 24 I am loving it!

[@ooop5277]

agreed... kind of annoying

[@katk5205]

I've heard it somewhere before, it's like in a movie? It's so familiar

[@thomaskirkness-little5809]

She's going to join the Police Academy this summer.

[@stannos499]

"Unique"

[@SomeOminousEcho]

"it's not natural" Homosexuality exists in roughly 450 species.

[@Shrekthebabyswallower]

My doggo is gay/bin

[@julianhoward2896]

No it doesn't

[@mistercurmudgeon7353]

NOW WE KNOW HOW THE DINOSAURS WENT EXTINCT

[@dori_casper]

@@julianhoward2896 yes it does for example there are gay penguins

[@julianhoward2896]

dora harum Once again no two male penguin live in the same enclosure and enjoy each others company but they are not gay. Every animal on the planet show different behavior towards there own sex and the other sex, penguins are social animals and live in large flocks in the Antarctic and since they are in an enclosure of course they would want to be around each other I like hanging out with my best friend but that does not mean I am gay. Also there is no display of any behavioral difference in the penguin you are referring to than normal ones in the wild there are no signs of the having mating properties to each other. Lastley animals have there one goal in life and will go so far even to death and that is to reproduce and the penguin is the same way so since he can not have sex with the other penguin he is not interested. Animals are natural and smart.

[@fdyer]

" I'm not vegan i like *cHicKen* " the way she said that was too funny i caaant- Xd

[@hyukacado6564]

f.dyer0528 her voice is so cute too

[@ezekielsprophecy3203]

"So when did you choose to be gay?" "On the 4th of September... which is Beyoncé's birthday" *ME*

[@HarryEvans]

Hahahah glad you liked that;)

[@ezekielsprophecy3203]

Harry Evans omg 😂 nah I'm just stating that I'm Beyoncé

[@aSpectreAppears]

Well, it is a choice afterall.

[@teeth2106]

DPRK - Korean Reunification well i mean being an homophobic dick is also a choice. So shush

[@aSpectreAppears]

Ah oh, I upset a lesbian.

[@willowillowillowillow6458]

No I'm not a vegan,,,, I like *chicKen!* I literally love her now

[@maxbradley-cole3630]

I was crying when she said that 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@darkjade]

@Sid Sidney she is a vagitarian though

[@darkjade]

@Sid Sidney it's a joke

[@darkjade]

@Sid Sidney vag as in a woman's lady parts because she is a lesbian, so she is a vagitarian she east it

[@evansullivan3455]

Her voice is annoying as hell

[@eunoiasunshine3522]

People: u don't look gay Me:sorry I left my gay in the closet

[@sofiarou7603]

.... I don't get it

[@isobel7945]

Thee Waffle are u native?

[@sofiarou7603]

@@isobel7945 sry gay people always look funny no matter what lol

[@isobel7945]

Thee Waffle hmm wdym

[@isobel7945]

Thee Waffle are u homophobic lol

[@bridgetaldred1235]

I'm lesbian "do you like me?" have you had a crush on every man you have ever met? "NO" then why do you think I would have a crush on every woman I've met?

[@AlesiaDucky]

You know how people say that everyone has that gay cousin? Five minutes ago I realized... *i am the gay cousin*

[@borderlinelemon3542]

lol, relatable

[@theonionsystem7779]

I relate

[@klaudia6057]

Idk why but this made me laugh more than it should 😅😂

[@ems8097]

No Thanks yasss

[@Sofia-nc1tu]

same lol

[@BrunoAdame]

the worst part about the "gay-dar" its mixing it up with the "Iwishyouweregay-dar"

[@aferguson850]

Bruno Adame are you a top or bottom? how often do you go for sti testing?

[@dollietheaddict8340]

Fuck yes

[@nagisamomoe2033]

aferguson850 I don't understand why you would need that information...

[@antisocialafrican1469]

Bruno Adame WHY IS THIS SO TRUE OMFG

[@Dhruv99Pathak]

OMFG THIS IS GOSPEL

[@catfacethemole9551]

Don't forget Me:oh I'm a lesbian Person: who with Me: all the other lesbains in the world Person: no like your girlfriend Me: I don't have to have a girlfriend too be gay

[@tacobelle404]

exactly! you don't have to have a bf/gf to be straight!!

[@sofiarou7603]

Are u sure? Cuz u ain't actually attracted to the same sex

[@pixelpuddinge6138]

Thee Waffle can you shut up pwease big daddy pweasssee ill do anything *nuzzles u* and I mean *anything* *wuzzlez up against ur big bulge* òwó

[@asliceofbread1601]

@@sofiarou7603 if people like you didn't exist the world would be a better place.

[@sofiarou7603]

@Nicholas Aubé first let me ask question what makes a person gay in your opinion?

[@yodaiam1977]

“Why did you choose to be gay?” Well I was watching Nickelodeon and I just had this idea and I was like hey I should be gay and that’s how.

[@cg-dg8549]

Yoda I am you might be surprised because I know people become gay just for the attention form the teachers

[@another_useless]

@@cg-dg8549 no not really

[@oliviaschechinger1182]

@Yoda i am That is similar to how I became a homosexual. I was making lesbian cornbread and then I went outside and in my head I suddenly could only think about how my dad was still at the store with the milk so I couldn't make my cornbread. Then it hit me. Boom. Homosexual.

[@imbeluga6681]

You correct are

[@fanbase4226]

I had a lesbian friend who said "That's so gay" about bad things. And one day I was like, "Is it okay for you to say that?" and she said "I don't know." I still don't know how to take that.

[@yurhomi4478]

Sierra Blake It’s the same way atheists still say ‘oh my God’. These phrases are assimilated so deeply into our language that it is difficult to not say them, I guess 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@juketolson]

Sierra Blake That's so black

[@pvrpleheart4093]

Sierra Blake I'm gay and I say "that's so gay" all the time. One of my best friends (who's straight) say it all the time too, and it doesn't offend me. She even asked me if it was ok for her to say that. I personally don't care if I know the context, but also understand why some people may get offended. It just depends on the person.

[@LemonSte]

tbh i say thats so gay but not about bad things, me and my friends refer to cheesy or romantic things as gay in a kind of endearing way

[@juketolson]

Georgina Hollifield " I'll say whatever I want, it's just a word"

[@char9970]

“Who’s the man and who’s the woman in the relationship?” *Head explosion*

[@eilzmo]

Golden Beta mkay and that comment isn’t fucked up in the least. My eyes can’t roll far back enough

[@nyct0phile]

hONEY THATS THE FREAKING POINT. THe aBsEncE oF a geNDeR is wHaT mAkeS ME gAy dAmMiT.

[@eilzmo]

Nyctophile you don't make sense. I cannot compute you.

[@eilzmo]

Nyctophile wait I think I just got it nvm 🌚

[@rubyhunt7108]

Bro it's call sub and dom

[@summer_the_rae]

I was at school in class and once offhandedly mentioned I had a crush on Emma Watson (because who doesn't) and this happened Girl: WAIT. You're gay? (shocked) Guy, to her: nO, she's a lesbian Them: *proceed to argue over wether I'm "gay" or "lesbian" even thought I'm literally both* Me: can we go back to talking about photosynthesis

[@pixelpuddinge6138]

let's talk about harry potter so funee hahahhahahahahahahahahahhahahahahhahahahahahahahhahahahah 🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🤬🤬🤬🤬🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯😡😡😡

[@BlueMiaou]

i'm not even actually a lesbian and i say that i'm gay like what's their point

[@Hazyla]

I’m bi but I would’ve said no I’m American

[@uMaud]

*Most of people :* Hey, we have a gay in the group ! 😎 *My friends :* Hey, we have an hetero in the group ! 😎

[@cassidyaph9203]

*How do have sex?* Why do people automatically assume that a relationship is useless if they can't have sex?

[@aylbdrmadison1051]

There are many other reasons one might ask such a question. Just sayin. I admit it's rather forward and presumptuous to say the least though, lols.

[@eilzmo]

Like I appreciate your point but. Also I can't help but see "they can't have sex" hahaha. GAY people can definitely have sex trust me.

[@lowercasebadguy]

ALL THE ASEXUALS ARE TRIGGERED

[@fola_s]

I know right! You can have a perfectly happy and healthy relationship without having intercourse.

[@Lifthill_lauren]

Sofía Jiménez so the straight couples who can’t have children oh and straight couples who have sex for pleasure not children oh wait they take that all away too so stfu

[@45juushi]

Every time someone says “that’s so gay” I just say “it’d be better if it was gayer”

[@anyasea10739]

sᴜɴᴄʜɪ this comment is so underrated

[@21melpomene]

That's a great response. x'D

[@Willter13]

@Sir Panda thats gay bro

[@theonionsystem7779]

@Sir Panda I'm also gay

[@tryingtobeangsty1133]

It could be gayer

[@honeypots8787]

"Can we get healthy representations of gay people in the media please" YES _PLEASE_

[@SkaterBlades]

Tell me, what does that mean?

[@honeypots8787]

@@SkaterBlades, it's a quote from the video

[@SkaterBlades]

@@honeypots8787 I'll repeat the question, what does that mean and why are you saying yes please? This video is for the bbc, i don't think this is a healthy representation of us because it's just a bunch of gays bitching and complaining about non issues

[@honeypots8787]

@@SkaterBlades, what I mean is that I want better represantions of gay individuals in the media. I never said I agreed with BBC, in my opinion they've done some stuff I don't agree with, but I simply agreed with that statement.

[@vinylarts._1769]

" that's not natural!" Says the girl who's 69% made of plastic

[@nabzz7026]

69

[@lizziebmusic8634]

@@nabzz7026 nice

[@nabzz7026]

@@lizziebmusic8634 I know

[@sofiarou7603]

And?.....

[@BlueMiaou]

nice

[@joanawuschko3460]

I met a gay guy and the first thing he said to me was "NO! I can not be your gay best friend." I did not ask but it was funny

[@theonionsystem7779]

Did he say that as soon as he looked at you?

[@kashidean6874]

The girl in the checkered overall and the guy in the pink hoodie were just... Having so much fun, I don't know, it's wonderful.

[@aferguson850]

KashiDean it's gay

[@diamond5156]

aferguson850 I ship them so much! but they are *gay*

[@sakuraitonen9513]

aferguson850 And you are a btch

[@PreetiRachelJasper]

Her voice is sexy , would be interesting to date her.

[@HarryEvans]

Thank you hahaha I love her

[@confusedperson5409]

The correct response to "You don't seem gay" Is actually "Yeah but you don't seem brain dead"

[@jacobussmit1453]

I like how in the minds of people like you if someone makes an incorrect assumption about an individual's sexual preference they must be brain dead. You belittling troglodyte.

[@avai3345]

@@jacobussmit1453 I think what they mean is they are talking back to the person who immediately assumed they were straight. In a lot of people’s minds that is just the default to them.

[@makennakemp2996]

“Oh how do you have sex is scissoring a thing? No it’s not!” “Is scissoring a thing?” “Yes.”

[@rainbowsaremyfavoritecolor4612]

Once a dude said to another dude 'just dont hit on me' in like a disgusted tone and i just stepped in and said 'dont worry you have to be cute for us to like you so your all good' and just walked away.

[@joshuatweedy3396]

I would of said "we are gay, ,but we still have standards you small minded pig."

[@rainbowsaremyfavoritecolor4612]

Oohhh thats good

[@gabbytillis4279]

r/thathappened

[@bubble.boy22]

and then everybody clapped

[@sleepytae1984]

r/thathappened

[@HappyChappyable]

Did anyone notice that 3 of the 4 girls all wore dungarees lol

[@maxheadroom3839]

anuerimira Probably work in a factory.

[@kieran9474]

anuerimira it’s gay culture

[@waliidjama8873]

I'll implement that in my gaydar, *3 out of 4 lesbians wear dungarees*

[@maxheadroom3839]

Waliid Jama And bowling shoes.

[@waliidjama8873]

lesbian = dungarees

[@Daddy_Jinx666]

“That’s so gay” It got to the point when I was in highschool, I started saying “that’s so hetero” because the teachers weren’t stopping them from saying “that’s so gay”. And when I came out, my class found out I had a gf and literally tried to get me to rate their attractiveness and got offended when I told them I found none of them attractive because of the people they were.

[@beanhead7632]

I’m gay and just because I like girls doesn’t mean I’m going to go around fishing trying to look for a super hot girl and then like them because they’re pretty I do see a lot of pretty girls, but I don’t immediately crush on them. In my view it’s not really right because they could be mean/a bad person/etc. So always get to know someone first before you judge them Could be average but really nice or pretty but really mean..

[@STIclinic]

“You don’t look gay” Ok let me just- *Cuts hair to pixie cut* *trades pastel hoodie for flanel jacket* *trades tennis skirt for ripped jeans* *puts on beanie*

[@helenchelmicka7894]

🤣🤣🤣

[@localbastard7962]

As a pretty non straight human I hate the “Oh ok just don’t like me” It’s like “Honey I have standards I’m not just gonna see a random girl and be like... LOVE ME NOW!” This happens to any of you?

[@Breadystickle]

Yeah this has happened to me before, I was at a table with my friends and some of their friends and I said: "oh I'm gay" And then one of their friends said "What?! You're joking right?" "Um?" Then they frickin stood up and stepped away from me and said, "cause if your not then I gotta go, you're joking right?" And at this point I was kind of uncomfortable and decided to just say "yes, I was just joking" And then she sat back down and I asked her why she had such a problem with people being gay. "Oh I dont have a problem with people being gay, I just dont want them to like me." I of course asked her more questions but she was clearly not only uneducated about "the gay" but she also didnt know what homophobia was. Long story short, I am gay, I am so very gay, and everyone at that table knows it, except for her.

[@Ghost_Sparrow7909]

Straights: I dON't wAnT To CAtcH The GAY!!!11!!1!

[@mercuriart]

"So, I'm gay" "Oh, alright, as long as you don't like me!" *str8 laughs* "Nah, you're ugly. Pass."

[@Papanda1995]

FacelessDragon ugh, yes, a girl I have been friends with for YEARS (granted she is from a small village in Burma) said that when I came out as bi “Um okay, just don’t like me, okay?” *“Don’t worry, I don’t think of you like that”* “Okay, because I won’t have a problem with you as long as you don’t try to hit on me” *“I won’t”* “Okay... you’re sure you’re not into me?” 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@teeth2106]

Hyper Autismo seriously hope you're joking you sound like an thirsty teenager trying to improve your ego 😂

[@amogus5902]

People say 'thats so gay' around me, so now I say 'thats so straight'

[@thecatface8255]

Why do it doesnt sound good.

[@stapler_matt820]

Gay

[@Ray-ew4yy]

I started saying "that's so straight" way before anyone ever said to me "that's so gay" XD

[@somegirl8410]

@@Ray-ew4yy that just sounds retarded

[@abf1031]

i actually say that so much

[@noneofyourbusiness1199]

When people say to me "oh, you don't look gay", I love saying to them "yeah, you don't look straight either". The look of panic makes me so happy 🤣🤣🤣

[@sillyman2]

Ok thanks I'm stealing this.

[@queen_of_domination]

First of all….I don’t ask straight people how they have sex. So, why in the hell would I be interested in how gay people do it? What two grown people do behind closed doors is their business.

[@pqlasmdhryeiw8]

Pink and squeaks, you two need your own TV show.

[@Donice09]

They really do

[@HarryEvans]

Loooooooooool, can you imagine!! Thank you :')

[@makalahcollins4469]

he responded to u lmao!!

[@dennisstaughton7474]

pqlasmdhryeiw8 ...and it HAS to be called "Pink & Squeaks"

[@pqlasmdhryeiw8]

Harry Evans omg, you replied! Please please do at least one pilot episode together! x

[@noornoory98]

when i came out as bi, the first question a friend at the time asked was "did you decide over the easter holidays then" ???? ????? ??? no mate

[@ARizo-vv5dp]

Pff same I've had that experience before when I came out to someone and they were like oh so you decided over break or just now? I was like what

[@thewonderlander1372]

The fuck?

[@bellabennett1677]

I told my friend im bi and she asked if i wanted to get with her. I said no and she started crying.

[@sabosage]

As a bi person this cracked me up! What a silly question! "Oh yes, I had a lovely easter holiday. I meditated in the park and it turns out, I have a purple aura. I decided that's a clear sign I'm bisexual."

[@algonzalez6853]

decide to come out... maybe... that's what they.... meant...

[@callumLB05]

I’ll say whatever I want

[@suulu6708]

I am straight but I would lowkey kiss Beyonce if I had the chance 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@user-xg8rl8zs9h]

i mean... who wouldn't? i am a straight male which doesn't make a goddamn difference

[@rosarioavalos7656]

She wouldn't kiss you

[@dori_casper]

I feel that towards many female actors 😂

[@nightdog5971]

@@wilsonxfarmiga7413not salty at all

[@BlueMiaou]

that ain't straight honey *wink wink* jk but

[@xuntitledx6991]

Honestly thoughh the whole “oh I love gay people!” thing makes me uncomfortable af like,, my gay ass doesn’t love you mate take a step back pls lmao

[@carmellapride7412]

Venom Baby *NO PAPARAZZI* 😂😂😂😂

[@schws001]

Yeah sure it might be annoying but it’s better than living in the 40’s when no one would EVER say that

[@rasputinsfinger396]

I love gay people

[@joshuatweedy3396]

@@schws001 i would rather it be like the 40s where no one says "oh i love gay people"

[@aylbdrmadison1051]

It may be better than when they threw rocks at gays (that was in the 70's and 80's. It was much worse in the 40's), but it still makes me uncomfortable . . . And I'm not even gay.

[@lucillemcconnell6540]

The Bible said Adam and Eve so I did both

[@emmixo]

YES!! This needs more likes 💖

[@catherinechan1142]

Hahahahahahahh i love this

[@miepmiep4010]

Love it

[@adorablekitten3003]

They had us in the first half not not gonna lie

[@filiphavojic8045]

Well it's BIble not Heteroble.

[@jademarshall9957]

My brother always says “that’s gay” and I just sit there wanting to go off and yell at him but I’m still closeted so I clench my teeth and try not to lol 😂

[@nasrinv]

I actually actively use the phrase “thats so gay” to describe aweosme and lovely things since uh well the definition of gay is an adjective that describes positive shit 🤷🏻‍♀️ because i was getting frustrated with ppls idiotic ignorance using the word to describe something negative and bad

[@sofiarou7603]

Yeah sure

[@Hazyla]

Pixel Puddinge you’ve been watching to much click

[@melinapiccolo3526]

*three* out of the four gay girls are wearing overalls _wtf_

[@cutekinoko_]

Melina Piccolo lmfaooo yasssss

[@allesundmehr]

also a flannel!

[@kat2513]

CAUSE IT CUTE

[@NymphetaminexXxGrrrl]

because in a video about disproving stereotypes they must in fact subconsciously reinforce stereotypes haha

[@MikRaine]

gay culture, catch up

[@luchie2388]

There is a pair of gay penguins at my local aquarium, they give them an fake egg to look after every mating season. It’s very cute

[@erinmiller1433]

lucia 28 The Central Park Zoo gave a real egg to a pair of male penguins. A male/female pair had two but had never been able to raise more than one chick, so the keepers gave the extra to the male pair.

[@luchie2388]

+Erin Miller cute!! I love that!

[@anyad6131]

lucia 28 aww ;)

[@Lady_dromeda]

Oohh pengwings

[@existentialcrisis5710]

I love the term “Gay penguins”.

[@carolusrex2407]

Hello, my fellow LGBTQties ❤️

[@mirandazhao1889]

hey :))!!

[@user-xg8rl8zs9h]

im not...... GET SIKED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i just came here to see how many people would shit on other's opinions! i personally could give a quantum shit.. but, you do you, boo, imma go do me off of a cliff'cause my life sucks

[@BlueMiaou]

aww

[@enzo8331]

Hello!!

[@monke2102]

Why are u gae

[@lithia4069]

Me: I’m gay Them: Oh...*takes step back* well as long as you leave me alone we can be friends! 🤪

[@daisyalvarez180]

I hate it when people say, “that’s gay!” In a negative way and I’m not even gay... I think..

[@conorgildea1163]

www.google.ie/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=m.youtube.com/watch%3Fv%3DNzKfcaKCevk&ved=2ahUKEwixpLvLx8rcAhXlJcAKHaptAKsQyCkwAHoECAkQBA&usg=AOvVaw327QVxEfT6SnWs_zH7y-_might

[@JDonaldBin]

i'm gay and gender fluid so i just end up saying: yh thats fair

[@Luke-ls9yb]

I’m gay and I don’t have an issue with it

[@fighterartist6696]

I only say it when someone says or does something that is either really gay like actually a homosexual act or for the irony of a lesbian saying it.

[@Kornknealious]

That's such a gay comment.

[@orpheusly69]

To be fair, I'm someone's gay best friend and I'll be anyone's gay best friend because I need friends

[@arsewell]

Jes that's a great attitude! Everyone needs to stop being so offended and trying to out tragedy each other "well I'm gay, soooo" "well, I'm gay AND black, soooo..." "well, I'm gay AND black AND a woman, sooooo....." "well, I'm gay AND black AND a woman AND i have no legs AND I'm blind AND my house burned down with my entire doll collection inside. And also my parents, sooooooo........"

[@joshuatweedy3396]

@@arsewell well there is no beating that

[@icouldnotthinkofagoodname4441]

Your pf makes a lot of sence.

[@kayleighwolf976]

I can be friend, but if I knew you for real. Then we can become gay best friends!!

[@kayleighwolf976]

Celia Lazuli I could be your best friend, I have a big sister who is Pan as well. My oldest sister is an Alli, the second oldest is Pan, The third oldest is Queer and me I am Lesbian. But those are all girls, and I have a feeling my little brother or big brother might be gay. I JUST have a small feeling, plus I have gay friends but I don't have GAY best friends... None of my friends really talk to me, so I need a real best friend who can stand by your side no matter what..

[@nunyabusinessbro8527]

Gay man: "You can be my gay best friend." Lesbian: "No one ever says that to me." That's because the only people who say that are women... Most straight women don't want lesbian friends lol.

[@homosexualsam6887]

I'd rather be friends with a lesbian, straight girls act feminine around me or ask me if I wanna be their gay best friend when they meet me and I tell them I'm gay. They're annoying, not gonna lie.

[@nunyabusinessbro8527]

@@homosexualsam6887 I understand how annoying it can be for you guys. Sorry to hear man. I prefer to have gay males as friends as well💜

[@homosexualsam6887]

@@nunyabusinessbro8527 Straight girls are fine, I have nothing against them. Some just seem to think that we're only here for their pleasure.

[@steamyspiceisnice9665]

I’m gay and I’m middle school, it’s not fun to hear “that’s gay” all the time

[@1cyyy]

Eh, I don't think it's that offensive as most people just use it ironically. Those who don't are just idiots so you can easily ignore them.

[@steamyspiceisnice9665]

Ice most of the time those people who aren’t using it ironically or as non offensive will usually just say the f slur to me

[@1cyyy]

@@steamyspiceisnice9665 Yeah, that's true. People who say that kind of stuff are just messed up or trying to get a reaction because they think it's funny.

[@yobequiet1381]

Yea if they say that, they still in the 50s, they bad at insulting

[@dingdong3508]

One time, a girl in my class learned I was bi and she said something along the lines of “do you like me?”. And I said “no, your not my type.” And she got mad at me. She wasn’t even gay.

[@yukinofairytail7137]

Satan’s Niece ugh I got that with a friend :/ And I was like duh you're straight! Why would you want me to like you? We're friends okay?! nothing's changed!

[@BenMaxwell37]

I shouldn't laugh, but it did make me chuckle, sorry!

[@BeanBoyGabe]

Lol

[@coffeepoweredkatie6290]

Yeah when I was in high school I told my 'best friend' I was into girls and she was all "well..so long as you don't like me" then acted weird the whole day. Then next time we had school I found she'd spread it around and told all the girls to stay away from me cause I'd perv on them. Gotta love the straight 'friends' lol

[@ddevyni]

Just say you only fall for pretty girls. You'll piss her off even more 😂

[@charliefielding2297]

"I don't mean it a homophobic way! I just mean something is bad or horrible!" freaking amazing quote.

[@Pppppppppppp566]

*frick off*

[@JesusChrist-tq5sy]

I thought it said, "things not to say to people." And i was like "well that's easy. I don't in the first place."

[@SnowFox-gv2rn]

“So when did you choose to be gay?” That’s the equivalent of asking a person of color “So when did you choose to be black, brow, yellow, etc?”

[@sofiarou7603]

It's not cuz being gay is a choice and how u were born ain't

[@PT-jh4to]

@@sofiarou7603 When did you choose to be straight? I'm just curious

[@sofiarou7603]

@@PT-jh4to I honestly never chose it cuz when I hit puberty this boy went up to me and talked to me and well I had a crush on him and with the gay community it's like they have gay in their mind so they think their gat

[@PT-jh4to]

@@sofiarou7603 So you are saying that being gay is a choice but being straight isn't?

[@sofiarou7603]

@@PT-jh4to Yess queen jk it depends on how u think about it if u think how to clarify your sexuality is being with the same gender or the opposite but maybe it's just me but I don't get the feeling feelings for girls

[@debjonesloyal4190]

Or "im not gay but for you id make an exception". My nan was the best when i came out to her she was 82 she said "ohh we had lesbians in the factory during the war. Its nothing new love".

[@dontworryimtotallyfine6090]

Deb Jones PEOPLE, learn from this woman!!

[@eilzmo]

I love your nan.

[@cherylcat3099]

Throw back to my friend who was trying to prove just how accepting she was and proudly stated, "I would date a gay man"

[@404usernotfound_]

Cheryl Cat Oh my gosh 😂

[@izzyrafiei9087]

This comment is my new favorite thing. lmao

[@Pppppppppppp566]

The irony tho

[@anyad6131]

Cheryl Cat I'm not sure they would date her tho...

[@suchanawfulfck7801]

omfg that's..something else

[@freeplays7162]

lol your KZbin channel name has me dying “BBC Three” WHYYYY LMAOO💀💀😂😂😂

[@gvtterslag]

Im loving the girl with the black overalls haircut its so cool I'm jealous I want it

[@savannahmayfield714]

my friend was at hot topic like last month and she was looking at the pride stuff and this lady walked up to her and said “with hair like that you must be one of them! you’ll go to hell for that” and her mom literally said “she’ll see you there” and she said that she will never forget the look on the lady’s face lmao

[@user-jm6cl6fj1l]

AI G how? The mom will give her company when walking to hell, its warm and there will be gay people everywhere

[@ianskerrette4547]

*OHHH SHIIIIT GET REKKKKT JDIRJGIWI DAAB DAB *

[@leboopydoop3518]

Savannah Mayfield hope ur friend was ok

[@liv2782]

and then everyone clapped.

[@Nico-Callahan]

THATS THE BEST COMMENT FROM THE MOM EVER!!

[@drago1514]

Oh man I had a gay friend and when they found out I was lesbian he was like 'I've always wanted a lesbian friend' lmaoooo

[@lexZender57732]

Drago Draws Maybe because it’s hard for gay men to friend lesbian women, in my experienxe

[@trash912]

im a lesbian, and my best friend is gay. we came out together when we were 13, and if anyone asks if we're dating, we give the shortest answer: *we're both gay*

[@trash912]

daCGisHere 23 i don't give a shit what your god thinks of me sweetie

[@trash912]

daCGisHere 23 im agnostic

[@trash912]

daCGisHere 23 actually, non religious people make up less than half of the gay community, so you're wrong there. also, that's only gay people who are out of the closet. its likely that many more religious people are gay, but they either suppress or hide it because their religion tells them its wrong.

[@BigW1gga]

The black chick with the squeaky voice is cute asf Send her to my house please

[@alexandra8619]

I came out to my friends and they hugged me and said they were proud of me and I was so confused

[@ceydino]

Alexandra's Awesomeness that’s actually a p nice reaction in my opinion

[@alexandra8619]

Marinette Bam yeah compared to some other things

[@ceydino]

Alexandra's Awesomeness Well what did you not like about that reaction? I’m sure they didn’t mean „I am proud that my friend is gay“ but rather „I am proud of you for having the courage to tell me this and come out to me“

[@alexandra8619]

Marinette Bam I’m not quite sure what they meant but I just really wasn’t expecting that reaction so I was a bit jarred

[@ceydino]

Alexandra's Awesomeness that’s absolutely understandable

[@Monster-dz5jv]

"But you don't seem gay." Damn I'm not trying hard enough then

[@susie4560]

I describe everything I own as gay, mainly because I'm gay so....

[@muffnfff]

I got 2 rainbow shirts and i just pointed at them and said “gay gay” and I pointed at myself and said “gay.”😂 (Its 4:30 in the morning help.)

[@user-ji6gq7wg9g]

you see this sandwich? Its gay

[@xemriot]

Yeah same. I just say everything is gay, bad or good since I am gay. All i see is rainbows lmao

[@GlitchTubeSubscribePlezBro]

MY PHONE IS HELLA GAY

[@rumtumtugger5651]

Glitch Tube saem

[@datlittlegayemokid2316]

Ok. So in school I was the only openly gay best friend. I was called “the gay best friend” and then there’s me “ I have a name you know”. Who else can relate

[@mirandazhao1889]

mEEeEE and thats why I didn't come out or join the GSA for a while,,, :///

[@reekinladz33yrago59]

*COUGH* I dont care if you're gay, it just means u have a different sexual orientation to me, it doesnt mean anything *COUGH*

[@ihyfxntazy]

I wish more people were like you. sigh.

[@matteussilvestre8583]

Do one about introverts Oh wait

[@brenmoyer4896]

Lol!!

[@egnato1165]

I mean I'm an introvert myself but I think i could perfectly work with cameras and stuff. I would be kinda nervous, but nothing I can't deal with

[@cherrycosplays9891]

Introvert Outside Honestly same

[@fizzy249]

Introversion doesn't mean social anxiety or agoraphobia

[@arttria8614]

*incoherent mumbling*

[@tianahobbs5568]

the guy with the pink sweater and the girl with the high voice are so cute and funny together

[@HarryEvans]

awww thank you

[@tianahobbs5568]

Harry Evans

[@lai17]

Yeah

[@carterkc6429]

Ikr??????

[@imogentredwell4980]

" I like *chicken* "

[@baylivlogs5274]

Me: *Exists* Girls in my class: ...Ok so you like me right?

[@tams7411]

The girl in the red shirt and checker overalls's voice is so adorable oh my goodness

[@Local_Hobo]

Whenever someone asks me Are you gay? I say DAMN STRAIGHT! I love the confusion

[@erinmiller1433]

Local Hobo I legitimately laughed out loud at this.

[@erinmiller1433]

Hyper Autismo Where did THAT come from???

[@erinmiller1433]

Hyper Autismo Because he made a joke?

[@Local_Hobo]

Thanks for your concern, but I'm not retarded. And even if I were, so what?

[@leahgainer6299]

Hyper Autismo- Shhhh people like you cause problems

[@thewildonesappear6594]

I myself, am lesbian, and when I get, 'so why did u decide to be gay', I go the opposite way, 'So why did u decide to be straight'. 'I don't get being gay' 'I don't get being straight' 'You too young to know you're gay' 'Your too young to know you're straight' 'I know another gay person, I think you'd get on well' 'I know another straight person, I think you'd get on well'

[@inesrebelo2844]

THEWILDONESAPPEAR love this

[@thewildonesappear6594]

3.14159 26535 89793 23846 26433 83279 89 what doesny

[@Zoomiorferferfe]

THEWILDONESAPPEAR you’re*

[@thewildonesappear6594]

Zoomio I really don't care tbh mate

[@mayyahbhatti4425]

THEWILDONESAPPEAR you're too young*

[@anmai1462]

I’ve had someone randomly, in school in the gym, tell me that I looked straight...

[@sophiatownsend9735]

what's up with the overalls, is that a lesbian thing? wait..... is that another thing not to say to gay people? help please

[@mischr13]

lol you're sweet. just wanted to say that. i'm bi so idk...

[@Chars.Cameraaa]

Whenever someone says “I have a lesbian friend you should date.” And I’m like “oh I have a straight friend you should date.” And that shuts them up.

[@theonionsystem7779]

@-めぐみん because it can be so annoying for us for someone to just do that all the time like, leave us alone and let us find our man ourselves

[@unfriendly_neighbour]

The lesbian community is so small chances are you’ve already dated them.

[@cynicalsweety7670]

okay so like I'm queer and I had a friend who kept calling people f*ggot. When I asked her to stop doing it, she said, "I have gay friends. I'm allowed to say it." Like ??? I'm ONE of them and I'm literally saying that you aren't...

[@theonionsystem7779]

Hyper Autismo leave.

[@StephenStraughan]

Cynical Sweety except people are allowed to say whatever they want.

[@cynicalsweety7670]

Yes, well some of us are offended by it and ask people not to use it. We expect our friends to have enough decency to keep harmful phrases to themselves because they say they care about us. Everyone is different.

[@cynicalsweety7670]

Yeah like sometimes my friends and I do that, but I got bullied a lot and my parents are kind of abusive so I'd just rather not hear that shit towards me. Like it's chill if friends do that together as friends (if all parties are okay with it) but it just depends on the group.

[@cynicalsweety7670]

nah it's just i feel like shit around them. It's fine. I'll be leaving soon anyways. Thanks for the concern though.

[@7JoWel7]

Thank you so much this video helped so much omg xxxx

[@envyrem]

The whole “gay best friend” this was so true for the guys in my math class. They really liked me and thought I was hilarious until they found out I was bi not lesbian, then they hardly talked to me anymore. You’d think it would be the other way around, but I guess they just couldn’t be good friends with someone who has the potential to be attracted to them.

[@20Unbelievable06]

being a person in a wheelchair, I get the "how do you...?" questions a lot. I just ask them right back "how do YOU ...?" usually shuts them up.

[@MoonyFBM]

NotDeadJustYet but people might be actually curious though. It is exiting for me at least to know how different people do different stuff. And if they have some kind of disability I do wonder how they do stuff. ‘Cause obviously they can’t do it the same way as I would’ve done it. So instead of just throwing back a ‘I assume you’re being mean so I’ll just snap it hit back’, why don’t you just slap them with facts. Just answer the question (ofc you can do it with a little sass).

[@Abigail13255]

FnaFBMinecraft because it's none of their damn business.

[@MoonyFBM]

But people might be curious. It's human nature.

[@Abigail13255]

FnaFBMinecraft it doesn't matter if they're curious that is not their business. It's not the wheelchair user's job to educate them and be made uncomfortable just because someone is "curious". Don't ask these questions. End of.

[@ires2249]

The bad thing is as a lesbian in a wheelchair people just don't ask because they think it's impossible.

[@nikola_like_tesla8111]

Is it just me who thinks the guy in pink is adorable?

[@vinteage1078]

Omg 😂👏 slayy girl!

[@miaivanov7024]

ilikebacon wtf how this was posted nine months ago?! I can understand fat but how can he age so much and get gray hairs like that’d be at least 3 years not nine months

[@fabulousarmadillo8877]

Nice profile picture!

[@jabiru1232]

I'm not gay so...

[@easegasm]

that's very t-gay lmao

[@niik2422]

1:04 she has the cutest voice omg

[@QueenPineapples]

Omg i told a girl im bi and she said “oh do u have a crush on me or something?” Um im just like u im not attracted to eVeRyOnE i see.

[@junehatter8479]

I had this friend who, every time I saw her, would bring up the fact that I'm a lesbian, make lesbian jokes, constantly reference lesbian stereotypes... I'd known her for years, and before I came out to her she treated me like a normal friend and like a person, but then when she knew I'm gay suddenly I was her Gay Best Friend. At first I was just relieved and grateful she was so enthusiastic and accepting, but my nerves ran thin pretty quickly

[@No-ef4ui]

I feel bad. Tell her off. She is being EXTREMELY rude and you should tell her to treat you like she would treat a normal human being!

[@Sheriff_GrimLaw]

June Hatter No one gives a shit that you’re gay except you. x

[@magbi9427]

June Hatter You should just tell her that it annoys you. If she stops, then you know she is truly your friend yet if she doesn’t, ditch her and find a better friend.

[@maya-gs4px]

@@Sheriff_GrimLaw well obviously that friend gave a shit

[@iliketokeepthingsanonymous6191]

100th like!