Think before you speak, hacking the secret of communication | Catherine Molloy | TEDxEnniskillen

you might think that you have communicated, however have you really? this talk explores the impact communication can have both negative and positive and how we can hack conscious communication. Author, Executive Leadership Coach, Communication, Body & Energy Language Expert
Talks about leadership, body language, communication, keynote speaker, and emotional intelligence This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

[@smyrnasstory]

“Thoughtless speech is like the stabs of a sword, but the tongue of the wise is a healing”

[@catherinemolloy1]

I love this ❤ thank you for sharing

[@catherinemolloy1]

😊

[@Abundance01]

Proverbs 12:18

[@lanhuongnguyen9988]

Thank you so much❤❤❤❤

[@shelaghbrennand348]

This is brilliant. It seems such a simple thing to do - conscientiously communicate - but clearly it’s not! Catherine delivered such an important message so perfectly.

[@catherinemolloy1]

Appreciate 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️agree If it was simple communicating wouldn't still be the number 1 most needed skill !

[@catherinemolloy1]

Yes such a little thing that makes a big difference ❤

[@user-fm2yw1gd1v]

Thank you, Catherine, for highlighting the importance of conscious communication and sharing your story and knowledge. I value your insights and appreciate you bringing awareness to such an important subject that impacts us all.

[@catherinemolloy1]

Thank you Vikki . Yes being aware of our self talk mixed with our non verbal can make all the difference ❤.

[@demipaterson]

Such fantastic information, I love the power of three!

[@catherinemolloy1]

Thanks Demi ! 😊 the power of 3 The tools we've all been given!

[@JanaSzIsBasicGlitch]

Yep... Gonna need that one.

[@rosminazuchri9090]

I am Rossy. This vidio very interesting n.helpful to learn communication in English. Thanks

[@Roberto_wisdomworld]

Amazing speech Cath ❤🙌 thank you for sharing your wisdom🙏🙏🌺💝

[@catherinemolloy1]

Appreciate 🙏🏻

[@vaibhav02]

I like the new perception towards misdirection and with a great example

[@catherinemolloy1]

Thank you. We had a lot of issues with slides not starting, etc, but we kept going and hoping the message would come through!

[@beverleyhenderson5956]

Amazing, thank you!!

[@catherinemolloy1]

Glad you enjoyed! Looking for more win wins in life x

[@bredamccaguemotivationalsp6732]

Brilliant TedX Catherine 🌟🌟🙌🙌

[@catherinemolloy1]

Thank you x

[@HassanYounes-official]

Great TEDx talk...Very relevant to our times.

[@catherinemolloy1]

Yes, when we make up stories for others, it often ends in confusion... always best to check in! 😊

[@prakashkumaroneworld]

Catherine , this is amazing stuff. knowingly or unknowingly we are a victim of mis-communication or missing the context of conscious communication. Thank for bringing such an important aspect of daily life. I truly agree conscious communication brings domino effect and high productivity. Once again thank you.

[@catherinemolloy1]

Appreciate 🙏🏻 thank you for taking the time to share!

[@catherinemolloy1]

❤

[@hulamei3117]

Needed this !

[@catherinemolloy1]

🙏🏻😊

[@moseshmoses5074]

thank you, I thought I was just going crazy. I've always thought of communication in the same manner. I am glad I've found this video.❤

[@catherinemolloy1]

You're so right ✅️ miscommunication does drive you crazy 🤪 😮😊... so glad it resonated x thank you for sharing.

[@transelite]

love it!

[@catherinemolloy1]

😊🙏🏻

[@MondayMorningActivation]

Great content. Always learning from your content.

[@catherinemolloy1]

Thank you.... like is a wonderful lesson! Xxx

[@kirankumar-hg5fd]

Just loved it😍

[@catherinemolloy1]

Thank you x

[@clementosea.8294]

An interesting topic this is, and was well presented.

[@catherinemolloy1]

Appreciate how easily we miscommunicate. The number one problem in all businesses and life. Just bringing some consciousness to our own language. Thank you

[@brightsideperspectives991]

“The response is everything.“

[@catherinemolloy1]

Absolutely 😊 nailed it... reflect respond

[@garybriandoherty7299]

Love it

[@catherinemolloy1]

Thank you for support.

[@user-ng4xp2ri5s]

hmnnn!!! Bravo 👏🏼 @Catherine for your presentation dear., yet in my opinion, WE are Not D Same individually. 1st Some pple will spite at U or even frown when u Smile at them, some will totally decide to go opposite just Nevis they are wired that Way. U making an excuse for yr husbands inability to have communicated his concern in a more gentle ñ verbal way rather than a smack ñ also communicating certain morales to a certain demographic may turn out to be a new schooling on yr Psyche altogether Nevis of Cultural beliefs but A BIG tHANKS to U for I did Learn somethings from yr Talk maam

[@adnangan7639]

terimakasih bu atas ilmunya

[@catherinemolloy1]

Thank you 🎉❤

[@kimberlykane7065]

Like being in a bad therapy session this Ted talk

[@maggiemaynard6199]

She's got the right ideas but could present it better. The intro story went on for too long...

[@orvilleraposo7760]

We must be aware of the unconscious, that which is outside our consciousness because unconscious thoughts emotions behaviors attitudes biases inclinations cause us to trip. We can be mindful only when we are conscious of the unconscious, that which is outside of our consciousness, all that is automatic and conditioned like our reflex actions anger and our very nature... Once we become conscious of the unconscious we can become mindful and conscious and aware.. And live deliberately.. Consciously.. Mindfully.. With awareness and translate that into conscious communication

[@catherinemolloy1]

Wow, you nailed that ❤😊 an aussie expression 👏... you got that right !

[@ekene626]

Love the story, but why would tensing up, make someone upset.

[@LarryP248]

The content here is extraordinary. Reading a book on the same subject was a transformative experience for me. "Mindful Mastery: Living Intentionally in a Chaotic World" by Kyle Ash

[@catherinemolloy1]

That's awesome thank you for sharing. My book was traditionally published with international rights being sold to UK and they made it business book of the year in 2018. The Million Dollar Handshake. If you get a chance to read it I hope you enjoy it ! 😊

[@SumitGupta-so3jv]

Good

[@catherinemolloy1]

Appreciate 😊

[@kazukisaita8111]

Sorry I didn’t exactly get what she wanted to tell me because of my English, Could anyone tell me the main point of this Ted talk briefly if it’s possible 🙏 As far as I know, before taking action, people might as well think second thoughts so that we can take away the miscommunication

[@catherinemolloy1]

Hello 👋 we react before we speak ... if we think about the action we just did ...eg the talk and me leaning back ... then used our words to match eg. Do you need to change lanes? ...Then you would decrease the amt of miscommunication you have in life. You see what we think isn't always right ! We need to be more conscious in the present . 🎁

[@kazukisaita8111]

@@catherinemolloy1 Thank you for your help！！　It’s pretty much straightforward and good examples! I truly appreciate it

[@catherinemolloy1]

@@kazukisaita8111 miscommunication is the number one biggest problem in all businesses and housholds today . Yet the solution is simple. We need to be present /conscious of our actions and think about our responses in the moment. Thank you for your response:)

[@LLMTECHSTORIES]

​@@catherinemolloy1 thank you for this video, conscious communication. How do I practice this? Should I prepare myself before hand? Or just before doing any action, think. How to put this into practice daily? 13:53

[@catherinemolloy1]

Yes, it's about being present and conscious of our thoughts, which domino into actions and words. Sometimes, we need to explain our actions so as to not confuse the other person !

[@YasminYoruba]

I think so intellectually but I can’t say what it is I am thinking 😢

[@catherinemolloy1]

Interesting isn't it ... One part of our commuication is just being aware of our micro expressions, and what we are thinking to help avoid miscommunication , however, you may find writing it out first will help you when delivering what it is you want to say. x

[@vlogons]

how can i improve my English any body can talme. because I'm learning English language...

[@smirkfanta5535]

1. Watch movies 2. Read books 3. PRACTICE speaking with someone And the third point is the most important

[@CB19087]

My communication is a mess. I've used humour all my life to avoid showing up authentically. Sometimes I say things that sound abusive and I think why? Why did you say that??

[@catherinemolloy1]

Wow that’s great that you know this ❤ first step to being more conscious and present is understanding you. I know it's not easy, but practice will get you there. Cheering you on 🎉

[@antandshell]

"Would you like to change lanes " is still a trigger. Let him drive, he doesn't want your help.

[@ibeshkhadka]

Don't just assume what they want to say from their behaviour communicate properly...!

[@1minute.everyday923]

JESUS LOVES YOU ALL ❤️

[@travisarmour8709]

pretty basic stuff, not sure why all the praise here - are people generally this naive about this stuff?

[@CourtneyW-jr6fx]

In the words of the Bush famuly wouldnt be pertinent Mac

[@gami195]

Wasted 14 minutes of my life, not a good talk.

[@creep_919]

Agreed.

[@JeffGoldberg-bx2tv]

She just kept repeating herself for 14 minutes

[@MobileZoneel]

She share her own experience with us and i think it's best ever in ted talk

[@risimahlongwani1103]

Fr she was just yapping for the first 10mins

[@ottomaan1186]

you dont need ted for whining about the personal stuff. primitive

[@SJT929496]

She seems like she’s in an abusive relationship if she knows her husband is mad by how hot he is. He went off on her for nothing and she blames herself which is classic victim mentality.

[@catherinemolloy1]

Interesting point. Everyone has energy language, and not a lot of people tune into it. As an expert in the field, I read this well. Communication is the number one biggest problem on the planet. So I took this small example to show you how quickly you miscommunicate through making up incorrect stories for each other. If you can take that away maybe you can make a difference with your family friends and teams. 45% of marriages end in divorce 90% of these are registered due to miscommunication.

[@GretchenV95]

Especially after that many years of marriage? Surely he’d understand her habits and body language by this point. 😅

[@catherinemolloy1]

Now you know why there is so much miscommunication people react in a nano second before they consciously think. That is the point of this. To stop and bring more consciousness to your life. Communication is the key to business and life successes and failures!

[@user-ko2tu3ss3o]

Boring. And the cause of much 2nd hand embarrassment.