Think Hard Before Leaving a Good Man

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[@MsJoyce31202]

We think hard about leaving bad men so we'd better think hard about leaving a good man. You know, he won't do right but you hope and pray. You leave, he leave, y'all leave or whatever and RETURN🙄. Anyway, anybody grown knows there are time in relationships when there are downtimes. People must stop wanting to jump off buildings everyday.

[@donnell8402]

What a lot of women don’t understand is a lot of men may want to get with them, but very very few men will actually care about them. Two different things.

[@MsJoyce31202]

👍

[@DeshaunDamon]

Don't sex unless there is a deep caring beforehand. Sometimes it's there at first sight ( soul- ties) or it may develope after some dates. Either way, the connection, vulnerability that makes room for love MUST come before you have sex IMO.

[@helloladieswithromwills6426]

Truth.

[@dclarke2179]

@@DeshaunDamon If a women doesn't have sex, she has to be more active or equal in courting process.

[@DeshaunDamon]

@@dclarke2179 Agreed. Postponing sex forces both parties to show what else they bring to the table. This is why it's critical to have patience if you wish to develop something meaningful. Hence the term "fools rush in".

[@karensmith129]

I am guilty of this. I was young and dumb....thought I had time and plenty of other dudes to conquer. Now I scroll on social media and come across pictures of him traveling and spoiling his wife. We still converse every now and then. We both agree that we are each others "would've, could've, should've's". I cant do anything now but try to give my daughter some game. Smh. Oh well.

[@Yelutheleader]

Jesus... that sounds terrible

[@TheBanjoShowOfficial]

@@Yelutheleader I don’t feel bad. Not one bit. They know what they’re doing and they still mess it up. You made the bed, now you get to lay in it. Some women exist just to raise a man’s value, and they do that by abandoning those men. That’s how they then realize how much value they actually have. They realize how much they gave to an ungrateful person.

[@DesertFit.]

Daaaaaaamn

[@DeshaunDamon]

Ladies, be strategic in all life's decisions. With that being said, feeling complacency or working through difficulties in our relationships is not the same as incompatibility. Acknowledge what is important to you (for me that's great sex) and make it a deal breaker. The right relationship should catapult you to the next level; make you feel inspired and that all things good are obtainable. Don't be w/ a man just be in a relationship. As women we put ourselves in mental trick bags. Acknowledge what you need and don't compromise. If you're not happy, exit quickly. In the proper relationship you should frequently be overwhelmed with lust, joy and excitement; If you're like me and great sex is important - you should feel like a pornstar every single time he climbs on top of you-period. My point is, stop looking for a good man and instead attract a man who is good FOR you.

[@erab.8236]

Thank you! 🙏🏽🔥🙌🏽👏🏽

[@heymisswest]

I just read this and omg spot on!!!! Wow

[@TheBanjoShowOfficial]

Horrible advice, “don’t feel happy? Just leave” fucking atrocious advice that will end up in so much heartbreak and confusion. Love is not a feeling, love is a commitment to someone past the immediate infatuation you have with them. You’re sticking by that person through thick and thin. Do you leave a marriage when you suddenly don’t feel happy? That’s ridiculous, you work through the problems, you communicate, you solve things. If after all other efforts have been exhausted, the other person doesn’t reciprocate your effort, then you leave. You don’t leave off emotional highs and lows. This is the type of thinking that leads to single mothers. Jesus Christ. You females want literally perfect men on this earth and offer nothing in return. Instead of asking “what can this man do for me?” You should begin to ask yourselves “What can I do for this man so that I’m a good wife to him?” And I promise you, if you ask it genuinely and answer it genuinely, and act on it, that man will never let you go.

[@busyrand]

Cosigning with a heartfelt message. It's always been painful for me to discover how poorly exes have done after we part ways. They've all gained 40-60lbs in the following 6 months and never really recover. Sometimes, not being ready for the good man you've prayed for (I've been told I was this by a woman I would've married) is more too heavy to recover from when it's clearly/primarily not the guy's fault this time. We love y'all... I'm not masochistic so I've never entertained any further contact/conversation after the fact.

[@HacoHoncho]

Regret is powerful. Do people really ever recover from regret?

[@helloladieswithromwills6426]

It's possible.

[@MB-ss1nq]

Yes... by denial and repression of reality... by burying it deep in the depths of one's mind to haunt them in the middle of the night.

[@claraht.6999]

Fortunately, regret has been a good friend of mine,because i can do bad by myself.

[@rockfresh5359]

​@@claraht.6999 Y'all are doing bad to and no man joining you in misery independent women with debt and kidz mad men not stepping up so go do bad we been heard the message no need to tell us especially progressive BM go talk shit to a poor BM

[@claraht.6999]

@@MB-ss1nq Spirituality poor man, keep it moving.....

[@darrenhawkins9040]

What's up Big Rom, You made me think about a young lady that I was flirting with in a department store line she told me that she notice that I caught her eye but the guy she's with she said she know he wasn't good for her but she didn't want to take a chance so she's staying with the one she knows he's not good for her because they have been together for a long time and she wasn't sure if we would make it, insecurities destroy female's within.

[@popa213]

Majority of women don’t know they had a good man until they leave him so this video right here is going to be too late for them uncle Rom Lol. Half don’t even know a good man when they meet one. Most will tell you “he’s only a good man if he deals with my BS”, and last (this one I find funny) once he stops dealing with her BS and puts his foot down she will feel he wasn’t as good of a man as she thought he was or will say I knew he was just like all the rest. Then she will feel justified inside for leaving him all while knowing he was actually Mr right. It usually always hits home after she becomes a strong independent single mom. 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@TheSincere20000]

This going be alil long but this is from the mind of a Amazon women unfiltered. I really think she is speaking for alot of inner city sistahs. Her ideas she shared is the reason alot women can't get man in this me me me society. I talking to a chocolate 5'7 big hair soulful looking sister who was 42. Who you would consider a Amazon women. She told me told me straight up she don't want a relationship. She likes to travel by herself but also likes when men takes her on trips. She said if she goes on a trip with a man they are indeed having sex. That she also talks to men overseas. That she loves black men but prefer white and Asian men because they worship her. She's exotic to them. She feels like to black men she's just basic. That because she's dark skin she at last on the totem pole. Also because there so many black men incarcerated that there is 1 bk men to 8 bk women. So has to have options. She then mentioned the small penis Asian man she dated. She had get rid of him because he had two kids. But he worshipped her but was too touchy feely. She said she likes her own space. In she doesn't want be bothered sometimes. She said this after mentioning her bk ex texted her and said she never find a man like him. So she was saying the Asian man was better because he worshipped her. She was suppose to go out on a date with me to get hot cocoa and look at big houses with Christmas lights. Which seems so weird after her telling me all this. It like she put me as the guy she talks to and could potentially give her the big black d she craves while still tricking with white and Asian guys in America. While pursing purse bags from African guys. I feel like this is the mindset of some chicks in the social media area.

[@aryiascolbert8487]

They need to know the difference between a man who sees you plans a night vs the man who sees you and plans a life.

[@naturallyhoneybrown]

Thank you

[@stacygreen9861]

Message💡

[@hazelrogers7729]

For women who were abusive men and decide to divorce then the ex does something tragic. The woman is stuck with the stigma of someone elses actions

[@bapbap22]

So what. It’s their own responsibility to heal.

[@WIGAHOLIC14]

Just because he a good man doesn't mean he the man for you.

[@zorbaccimyst4288]

Typical black woman many of them take good men for granted. Like they're a dime a dozen. Which they often find out, that's not the case.

[@Mcdowells]

@@zorbaccimyst4288 I watched my God Mom Savage her daughter about an ex like that 😂 stop taking people for granted!

[@Yelutheleader]

@@zorbaccimyst4288 We can look at the community as a representation of what certain women find as the man for them lol

[@jahleelx9270]

Why would u be with him in the first place if he wasn't for you? Yall make all kinds of excuses for doing good men wrong and then wonder why you end up alone with cats because u thought the grass was greener on the other side.

[@nathanielflar4941]

That's the kind of talk that get women ran through and single later on in life... Women who think like you end up busted. If he is a good man, then he's a good man period. What the hell are you looking for looks money?