This Almost Ended My Relationship | Relationship Advice for Women

Рет қаралды 8,211

Күн бұрын

Пікірлер: 33

@matboggs 2 ай бұрын

Get coached by Mat Boggs TODAY: www.bravethinkinginstitute.com/love-relationships/resources/mym/offer/strategy-session?div=lr&KZbin&Social&MYM_EVG&CNT_video

@auroraayala4508 Ай бұрын

Thank you for this. I believe that when we let our pride and guard down, amazing relationships flourish.

@CoilyCode 2 ай бұрын

Great storytelling. I let out a chuckle when you said the two of you still decided to stay the night together in spite of the disagreement😅 so relatable. Actually, my husband and I, when we have a disagreement, even though it’s a rare occurrence…we still cuddle up in bed at the end of the night (like always). We’re still upset with each other, but we still choose to stay close physically. It’s hard sometimes because you want to pull away, but we find that this helps us the next morning. We’ve calm down. What we love to say to each other “thank you for fighting for us.”

@celesteredding1550 2 ай бұрын

That's beautiful. I hope to get that way, wanting to still cuddle after a disagreement or argument. I still tell him (later on) that I love him but I don't want to cuddle or touch

@angelawaterhouse4323 2 ай бұрын

I think this video is awesome!! And so important! Married for 41 years. Sometimes both partners just need to suck it up and be nice even though you don’t “feel” like it. ❤

@kimfrederick7710 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing. More people need to know this and fight for the one you love, not to give up on love

@valitasperanzi2848 2 ай бұрын

Wow. Mat thanks for being so vulnerable. And for sharing. And dang your wife is amazing. You are lucky!!!

@adriannesimmons9326 2 ай бұрын

This is so true! I recently had a moment where plans got messed up. I was super mad at first but I decided to hear him out and not ride on the angry momentum and push him away. I put my pride to the side n leaned in towards him. Was it awkward? Absolutely! The point is don't let your emotions wreck everything that you have worked on building with someone.

@lauriesimonds9229 2 ай бұрын

The "What do you want" query is helpful in lots of situations. The capabilities and/or execution of obtaining what you want is the tricky part sometimes.

@annstar2793 2 ай бұрын

That’s right- it’s what we do in those moments, and both people have to care enough to do the thing and have the conversations needed to work it out !

@mining4goldmeister420 2 ай бұрын

That's called turning "towards" one another. One of the strongest attributes of a successful relationship and marriage. During time of conflict, stress, disappointment, sadness, hurt, betrayal(let down by someone's behavior), loss, disagreements, - you turn towards your partner, reach out to them instead of pushing them away or closing yourself off to them, or shutting down completely. Make it a "we" moment - not an "I" moment.

@precybuje5412 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for good advice ..hope I have incredible lovelife soon...

@Nancy2551-g6i 2 ай бұрын

Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.

@ellencraig6874 2 ай бұрын

So true, so true. I have come to realize that I might have been able to save my marriage if I just fought for it and not just went with the flow. By the time my husband realized I was unhappy, I was done. If you feel all alone in your bed with your partner sleeping next to you, address that feeling. Don't wait.

@Newtonwilson-yw4kg 2 ай бұрын

Facing difficulties in relationships is normal, but there’s always a path to resolution. My marriage went through tough times, but with the right assistance, my wife and I resolved our issues and enhanced our connection. Solutions exist if you’re willing to work together and persevere. Don’t lose faith-answers are possible.

@oglaskubuot 2 ай бұрын

I’m encountering serious challenges in my relationship and can’t bear the thought of losing her. My love for her is immense, and I miss her deeply. I’m willing to do anything to win her back. I would be extremely grateful for any advice or support you can provide.

@oglaskubuot 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for this advice. I'll promptly start searching for her online. I appreciate it. I'm optimistic that pursuing this approach will also lead to favorable outcomes for me; her absence weighs heavily on me.

@Newtonwilson-yw4kg 2 ай бұрын

Welcome

@jhrwaxq 2 ай бұрын

Bilgilendirme için teşekkürler efendim

@therealtulip 2 ай бұрын

I love your videos, Mat. Thank you for sharing your insights with us 😊💜

@KBArchery 2 ай бұрын

Great advice! What do you really want. Both of us hate New Year’s Eve celebrations. I’m easier on my husband. I don’t expect him to be perfect and have a plan every time. But we misunderstand each other and I choose to ask more questions now and find out my man loves me

@Jigolpets 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing 🥰🌸

@Musicisthelanguageoflove 2 ай бұрын

It's amazing how even just one throwaway comment that's not even reality of the situation now can trigger something in the other person that suddenly makes them decide you're not right for them. Often it's subconscious though. They can have old negatives it sets off that aren't even relivant to your current relationship. So sad this can separated you from the love of your life, as it did for me. They usually don't even tell you what it was till a later stage when it's too late, so it was never given a change to become resolved, which would've taken only a simple explanation if you'd known.

@tristamarie7115 2 ай бұрын

Do I have peace about the decision or am I trying to force it? 9 out of 10 times, if I don't have peace, then I'm forcing it and walk away. Also, am I excited to see the person/start the new endeavor (especially early on) or have some level of dread?

@karenhere9327 2 ай бұрын

👍 great advice

@karenpuopolo6965 2 ай бұрын

Good video Matt thank you for telling your stories gives us moments to getting to know you and advice all in one. My twin sister and I fight and usually we fight first and then flight and separate rooms and slam the door. in those fights are really intense but one thing that me and her always say is that we're lucky to be even alive to fight. The fights are really bad it makes me wonder why the fights are this bad they say everything happens for a reason but I wonder that reason is.. what's the reason for us to fight really bad, just so she can move out so to her bf and I feel replaced. Or the reason is i lose her just to live alone just feels kind of sad especially for twins. But I do want her to be happy situation is really hard. We lived with each other are whole lives and age wise makes sense she starts her life with her bf but I feel like she's moving in with her new twin she wants to spend all his time with him and not with me like it used to be.

@nelasolanovillegas2043 2 ай бұрын

Matt! Thank you for sharing your expwrience!!! Let me open to you....i've been dating a beautiful Man w/a beautiful soul....for almost a year ! We live in different countries....but....he came to see me 4 times ❤!!! Although he told me he was scared ....and he wants a casual relationship....he travel more than 10.000kms four times in a year! I can feel he loves AND I'm pretty sure he Is my partner even if he has that position now. Why should i do?❤ Should i turn the page ? Can relationship could be in different stages even if both of us feel we love Is each other?

@patriciarose2342 2 ай бұрын

When a guy projects his crap on me or starts to roll his eyes when I'm being serious, I'm done. Both are a sure mark of disrespect and the relationship is doomed. So I'm done now.