What He REALLY Wants When He Ignores You

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Matthew Coast

Matthew Coast

Жыл бұрын

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@vintagebabyseventythree6244
@vintagebabyseventythree6244 Жыл бұрын
A couple of hours is fine. A couple of days means you’re not the only one he’s seeing.
@paularafa_
@paularafa_ Жыл бұрын
For sure
@amyr3285
@amyr3285 Жыл бұрын
Or that he’s married!
@noknapatalung8879
@noknapatalung8879 Жыл бұрын
Very true.
@moneymoney6817
@moneymoney6817 Жыл бұрын
OR YOU GET ON HIS NERVES ALREADY !!!!! AND HE NEEDS SOME SPACE FROM YOU
@pinacolada1393
@pinacolada1393 Жыл бұрын
@@hawaiigirl8089 that makes total sense. I needed to see this. This really changed my life rn. Thank you
@michelemichaylo4843
@michelemichaylo4843 Жыл бұрын
If someone doesn't want to talk to you every day, they aren't your partner.
@MarquitaKianna
@MarquitaKianna 2 ай бұрын
Facts!
@aaronlevesque2909
@aaronlevesque2909 Ай бұрын
It's not about want it's about healthy boundaries. We can talk every day just fine. But if you're having a mental breakdown if I don't reply within an hour of your last text; you have serious attachment issues that you need to work on as a person. Partner or not, they're still an individual with their own individual life. It is unhealthy.
@anakharon
@anakharon 7 ай бұрын
If a man starts to ignore you for days, its clear that he doesnt want you anymore. Just leave. Life is too short for stupid games.
@leiajones852
@leiajones852 5 ай бұрын
Right but I still wanna stay friends at least 😭
@Jupiiterr
@Jupiiterr 5 ай бұрын
ONG ONG LIKE WHAT I DINT WANT HIM TO LEAVE ME YETTTT
@Reallyfefairy
@Reallyfefairy 5 ай бұрын
@@leiajones852why would you stay friends with someone who ignores you like that ?
@leiajones852
@leiajones852 5 ай бұрын
@@Reallyfefairy Tbh I wrote that when I was still simping over him I’m over it now lmao.
@Reallyfefairy
@Reallyfefairy 5 ай бұрын
@@leiajones852 period lol
@Autumn-zd9nq
@Autumn-zd9nq 7 ай бұрын
What a guy wants when he ignores you… to be ignored right back because that’s what you should do since he’s choosing not to be a real man about anything.
@dexranger
@dexranger 5 ай бұрын
Or maybe he’s just not that into you.
@elizabethsepulveda9743
@elizabethsepulveda9743 5 ай бұрын
Right and she may not be that into him, either..after a while it gets old trust me, men forget that women usually tend to have more options than men do.
@Freespiritedqueen
@Freespiritedqueen 4 ай бұрын
Damn straight
@Freespiritedqueen
@Freespiritedqueen 4 ай бұрын
This!
@GreeneChakra
@GreeneChakra 2 ай бұрын
Thats a Good 😊 one!
@PrivacyPlease900
@PrivacyPlease900 Жыл бұрын
As soon as you see someone play stupid games, get out asap. If he pulls away, you WALK away, and don't look back.
@paularafa_
@paularafa_ Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@saturngirl3748
@saturngirl3748 Жыл бұрын
I agree its a sign that he's not interested or he may not even be thinking about her if its a head game and you don't give into it he might actually change his approach. Women are not going to chase them because we already got enough going on to be chasing people. If they really want somebody they usually go after her they don't flip flop like that unless there up to no good.
@Deoxys_da2
@Deoxys_da2 Жыл бұрын
As a teenager what is more fun without games?
@princellasmith7562
@princellasmith7562 10 ай бұрын
Yes! That's exactly what I say. Nobody who really loves somebody ignores them or plays games or disappears for a while just to see what that person's going to do. That is manipulative, controlling, and basically a form of narcissism. Do not play that game.
@jamieboer3466
@jamieboer3466 8 ай бұрын
Guys generally dont play games in relationships
@moonlightstargem1006
@moonlightstargem1006 Жыл бұрын
Guys don’t want that. Let’s be real. They want to chase the cool girl until he traps her and gets her co dependent on him like a house maid and a mommy. Then he gets sick and tired of ya and tries to devalue and discard you. Not worth the trouble ladies. Keep it movin’
@venusallegrayerkovich592
@venusallegrayerkovich592 Жыл бұрын
truth....
@BobSmith-kd4oc
@BobSmith-kd4oc Жыл бұрын
Without attitude about men you will never be married
@emilycooper442
@emilycooper442 Жыл бұрын
@@BobSmith-kd4oc plenty of men have an attitude towards us too. You apparently think we're all gold diggers scheming to divorce you and take your shit.
@AJ-oz9vy
@AJ-oz9vy Жыл бұрын
I agree. Men really think women are there to fulfill all their needs but hardly give back in return. It’s nothing new but I love seeing women resisting this dynamic and demanding a better quality relationship from men.
@zimkazenstv6379
@zimkazenstv6379 Жыл бұрын
We need ladies school to avoid being co dependant and trapped
@sharonbartley808
@sharonbartley808 Жыл бұрын
This is foolishness. If a man behaves this way, bounce. When a man is into you, you know.
@Mel-vb5pj
@Mel-vb5pj Жыл бұрын
There’s nothing wrong with being busy. Ignoring someone means you KNOW they are looking for contact or connection and you are NOT giving it to them. There’s no reason to do this in a relationship. What we women want is an adult who can simply communicate that he has things on his mind and needs alone time….
@peaceofmindofpeace1650
@peaceofmindofpeace1650 6 ай бұрын
Exactly it's not complicated but some men make it difficult and when you adress it decently they gaslight you that it gives them stress. So they are the victim and the woman is the one who is making it hard. They try to reverse the situation. Basic communication. Can be 2 word text. Respect. If you care and like someone you will reach out. At least within 3 days.
@desiderataomayan3960
@desiderataomayan3960 5 ай бұрын
Just Communicate.....
@Shiekhempathpowers
@Shiekhempathpowers 14 күн бұрын
💯👌🏽✌🏽🙄🙏🏽😂
@Here_Today_
@Here_Today_ Жыл бұрын
No one’s ignoring anyone if they’re busy- they’re busy!! If someone is ignoring you, they want you to go away.
@redfather5342
@redfather5342 Ай бұрын
Yeah you got it
@Billiard-cp1my
@Billiard-cp1my 11 ай бұрын
I think the real red flags are when his behaviour changes e.g. if he has been texting you twice a day and he suddenly doesn't bother anymore. I would say, he is either going off you or he has found someone he prefers. I think women know when things have changed. I certainly do. I now listen to the alarm bells instead of ignoring them like I used to. It is better to have temporary misery, having to let him go, rather than a lifetime of misery knowing deep down that you can never really trust him. I think in relationships sometimes the penny can suddenly drop that the other person is not for them.
@Lovemeorhateme313
@Lovemeorhateme313 6 ай бұрын
Yes I went through that 😢 now I’m realizing it smh
@Freespiritedqueen
@Freespiritedqueen 4 ай бұрын
​@@Lovemeorhateme313me too
@alick7825
@alick7825 2 ай бұрын
This really helped when we went from talking daily to no contact for a week. He would message me to ask about my day and it would spark a 6 hour long call. It was wonderful, but I realize now I was putting a lot more effort in than he was. I didn't realize that I was the one messaging first, complimenting him, offering support and devoting time I didn't have to him while he was just soaking it up. I wanted it to be easy. I didn't want to play games but he kept "testing" me. I wanted someone I could confide in and he didn't want to talk about anything too serious. I just wanted him to make it clear how he felt about me and I suppose his silence did just that.
@involuntarilycelebrate
@involuntarilycelebrate Жыл бұрын
He wants me to ignore him right back as far as I'm concerned. Bye boy
@lalaacosta4818
@lalaacosta4818 Жыл бұрын
If it's a couple hours, I'm not gonna freak out, but if it's been days or weeks- I'm out. And he better not come back around, cause I'm busy
@ninisimone3381
@ninisimone3381 Жыл бұрын
Couple hours is still rude AF
@lalaacosta4818
@lalaacosta4818 Жыл бұрын
@@ninisimone3381 I guess it would depend on the conversation itself. And if I'm actually dating him.
@aminamaradesa9778
@aminamaradesa9778 Жыл бұрын
👏 👏
@anonymous-od1gv
@anonymous-od1gv 10 ай бұрын
But then they will messege you and say that you are very quiet
@MiasSerenity
@MiasSerenity 8 ай бұрын
What if it’s your husband
@eftitasusarani5865
@eftitasusarani5865 7 ай бұрын
The fact is I went crazy thinking of him every second Untill I can't function normally 😂
@javireyes7333
@javireyes7333 6 ай бұрын
Me too
@asmitaroy1350
@asmitaroy1350 5 ай бұрын
I did tooo... I need to stop
@thankfulaB
@thankfulaB 3 ай бұрын
That's what he wants thats not healthy. Not being able to function normally is a sign of unhealthy attachment. And it is painful. I was like that. But I started studying secure attachment styles. I share because I know how painful it can be.
@9Dan22
@9Dan22 8 ай бұрын
If he is ignoring you, then to find the answer why do you ignore someone ? The answer is simple, he is no longer interested
@justacoginthefkery
@justacoginthefkery Жыл бұрын
If someone doesn't respond within a few hrs because they're doing something else, that isn't "ignoring". That's life. A day, weeks or months, yes. In that case, he clearly doesn't care & just wants someone to entertain him. On the other hand, I've seen guys get insecure or assume a woman is playing mind games when she's not responding within a freaking hour.
@sansadrake4133
@sansadrake4133 Жыл бұрын
They always have double standards
@foodiesworldUSA
@foodiesworldUSA 3 ай бұрын
Yeah… I was at a brisk of getting kicked out of my house and I working to take care of the rent snd bills! Now he did want to help me and I’m responsible for ignoring him but that’s not the reason I was in no communication because I had my own fears of what he wanted really because of my trust issues snd if he is real or just pretending to be nice! So all that energy I focused on work and I just realized that I may have hurt his feelings so now I’m messaging him but he’s not responding! He is probably thinking I don’t like him back but that’s not the case!
@dawnowens1951
@dawnowens1951 11 ай бұрын
The reality if he is intermittent about texting you- he is conditioning the relationship. He still wants to have sex with you on his terms. He doesn’t want a commitment. He is with you for an experience. Unless you want to be in a turmoil roller coaster relationship where you are simply a toy of convenience. Walk a way! Stop communicating with this person. The more time goes on and you give to this relationship the more you are putting your self at risk of being screwed up for life!
@peaceofmindofpeace1650
@peaceofmindofpeace1650 6 ай бұрын
True and those men are evil.
@dawnowens1951
@dawnowens1951 6 ай бұрын
@@peaceofmindofpeace1650 they truly are Evil. They do not care about the other person . The men we are talking about are out for their own pleasure.
@thankfulaB
@thankfulaB 3 ай бұрын
This is pure facts❤
@rebeccamcgibbon3922
@rebeccamcgibbon3922 Жыл бұрын
Seriously, if that’s what he wants he should just open his mouth and do her the courtesy of telling her. It’s about time men (and women) stopped playing stupid games and were just adults enough to be honest with each other!
@dominikak2100
@dominikak2100 4 ай бұрын
But maybe, he wants to feel like modern Casanova and he wants to see other girls fighting for him. I know such type it is not nice for girls being in love with him. He wants to use the girls and level up his self esteem.
@rattified
@rattified 2 ай бұрын
could not agree more.... i honestly don't get how/why they can't put forth 2 seconds worth of their energy to say I DON'T FREAKIN WANT TO BE WITH YOU ANYMORE
@tigre9271
@tigre9271 Жыл бұрын
I don't think my man is IGNORING me if he's busy. To me, IGNORING, is a conscious choice to avoid a person because they are either upset with them or playing manipulation games.
@lorraineb.4698
@lorraineb.4698 6 ай бұрын
Even busy it takes a few seconds to check in every day or two
@sssparkle
@sssparkle 11 ай бұрын
A couple of days or more means he’s just not that into you. Move on. Don’t share your sugar with someone like that 😜
@maesua4425
@maesua4425 Жыл бұрын
When he acts cold or weird, I act like he's the best I can get. I increased his ego. Then he lose me. That's it! I'm easily done with him and move on. I'm tired of their games!
@mushfikajahan
@mushfikajahan 9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@mrakohk127
@mrakohk127 3 ай бұрын
This is eye opening .....please respect yourself and leave those shallow players alone
@margaretwince2748
@margaretwince2748 7 ай бұрын
Not narcs, they love it when you are confused about what is going on.
@stephcarrin
@stephcarrin Жыл бұрын
Got to love those silent treatments......
@heidijones7670
@heidijones7670 Жыл бұрын
Couple hours no problem, 3 days no contact walk away if im not missed why should i waste my time!!! 🤞🤞🤞🤞
@Fajournie
@Fajournie 10 ай бұрын
Lol if he ignores you ignore back
@britlove892
@britlove892 3 ай бұрын
Lol good advice I’m gonna try it 😂
@FeonaLeeJones
@FeonaLeeJones Жыл бұрын
I used to get so caught up in thinking that things were the worst if he was not answering my text right away but my anxiety really shined light on how insecure I felt about myself and the lack of love and validation that I was giving myself. I was expecting to get it from whatever guy I was with! Recipe for disaster by the way……
@duduzilehlongwane9296
@duduzilehlongwane9296 Жыл бұрын
It's so simple ladies you can play the same game ignore him report, block and delete his number just forget about him don't text or call him plse don't sound like you are desperate give him space sorry i don't have a big baby boy to worry about a man who doesn't even care about me.
@lynnmill4975
@lynnmill4975 Жыл бұрын
Wow thank you! New perspective and journey I didn’t know I needed to address. Screenshotted with. Love from Houston Tx
@duduzilehlongwane9296
@duduzilehlongwane9296 Жыл бұрын
Definitely there's a Prince or King who's waiting for you by God Grace he will make the way for me just be little patient forget about a man he will come not be a chase looking he must do the chase looking for a loyal trustworthy respectful curvy nice boobes Chinese eyes hardworking women if i qualified for his needs i will apply get what i deserve he must meet my needs a honest,loyal,trustworthy respectful man very confident clean and smart hard-working romantic who will treat me like a Queen as a first priority my sole mate.
@boxing9891
@boxing9891 Жыл бұрын
This is me even though my favourite saying to others...if you don't love yourself how can you expect someone else to love you
@jbeim777
@jbeim777 3 ай бұрын
I"m almost 40 and each year passing realizing im so much more happier being single. So much bs I was truly exhausted. I have so much love to give but its more worth it to put it towards yourself, friends, family.
@rahmasamir909
@rahmasamir909 2 күн бұрын
Same here ❤
@ladyofspa
@ladyofspa 11 ай бұрын
Not a bad person just not a matture one. For a relationship to remain stable have to communicate and resolve issues fairly. Everyones not ready.....✌️
@Infrared1967
@Infrared1967 Жыл бұрын
A man who plays the now you see me, now you don't "wonder game" isn't worth your time.
@Lovemeorhateme313
@Lovemeorhateme313 6 ай бұрын
Amen
@dr.bunnywilson8321
@dr.bunnywilson8321 Жыл бұрын
Men do NOT want a NEEDY woman!! You're correct in saying that she should have a life of her own!!! Not dependent on him to make her happy!!!!
@tiaalexander4007
@tiaalexander4007 Жыл бұрын
I'm a woman and I agree 💯 very important that we have our own life you will have better relationships with people's and it will be easier to walk away if the person is not showing you interest.
@eileen9992
@eileen9992 8 ай бұрын
Yes if he doesn't want to fulfill my needs then someone else will. "Needy" bahaha that's a ruse by narcissists
@SheerLunaSea
@SheerLunaSea Жыл бұрын
Why can't people just communicate like adults? If someone is busy that's one thing but if someone is IGNORING YOU to get some kind of message across, that's childish and dumb, grow up. That goes for both sides.
@michaelcar4012
@michaelcar4012 Жыл бұрын
Good advice. Who wants a partner that is going to drain them mentally. That's an insecure person and you do not want a person that is is insecure of who they are because then you are in trouble.
@lmusima3275
@lmusima3275 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been situations when it’s been several weeks or months. By the time he recommences communication I can’t even remember his name or who he is 🤔😯
@TheRalphie2020
@TheRalphie2020 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@paularafa_
@paularafa_ Жыл бұрын
I like that. You had better forget his name. Lol
@colleenfremont-smith3783
@colleenfremont-smith3783 Жыл бұрын
Lol hit ‘em with the, Sorry who is this?
@colleenfremont-smith3783
@colleenfremont-smith3783 Жыл бұрын
Lol no but in all seriousness, don’t respond⚔️
@Billiard-cp1my
@Billiard-cp1my 11 ай бұрын
His preferred option at the time dumped him😁😄
@lex28lush10
@lex28lush10 2 ай бұрын
Couple of days is not that long in some cases ... life can be so caught up with work and study and self-care and rest...
@cassannequeenofeverything9186
@cassannequeenofeverything9186 Жыл бұрын
I don't think of it as him ignoring me, more of he has a life outside of me, he has two jobs, kids, hobbies, friends I have the same (well only one job) I'm certainly not waiting by the phone. I just tell myself he's busy/preoccupied with things and he'll be back...then he is! Live your life! Definitely wouldn't want him waiting desperately by the phone too. I've dated clingy men and it's a real turn off.
@thegod1067
@thegod1067 16 күн бұрын
Because he made me feel something ive never felt before, i didn’t expect it to end over one argument about our communication.
@artemis1style
@artemis1style Жыл бұрын
I do have other things I do but he's ignoring me long times, not how he used to be.
@dougparson4407
@dougparson4407 6 ай бұрын
If I have stuff to do I tell her and if its something she can assist with I ask her if she wants to help. Even when I am super busy for a week I make time for a date night. But regardless of the task or time away - I always bang hard at night and she knows I still want her.
@Tmacpherson
@Tmacpherson 2 ай бұрын
Just ignore them back
@user-qs6zw4gu5p
@user-qs6zw4gu5p 2 ай бұрын
Sorry you don't ignore someone you love and you strive to be with them.
@mayradayful
@mayradayful 8 ай бұрын
Why don’t they man up and say things straight!
@medicalmommies
@medicalmommies 2 ай бұрын
He wants you to move around!
@paulatristan8189
@paulatristan8189 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like he wants to play the field and when and if he's ready to see you, text you or call you he'll do it. That's why he wants you to still have a life going on so your not hanging on to his nipple's constantly. Keep a healthy active lifestyle and I'd date to. Don't be his "call back girl" ladies. Keeping it light and fun still having your own life would be good. Don't get serious right away I'd continue to go about my life and if he calls you he does handle it from there.
@livvyo2123
@livvyo2123 11 ай бұрын
This is arrogant behaviour, he need not bother to call back.
@2Ryled
@2Ryled Жыл бұрын
I had a guy loose interest after date 2, bc I didn't go to bed with him. Found out he dated girl in another dept, and was sleeping with her. She got friday, I got sat. Glad I didn't. He bragged he was doing her to others. I don't chase, and got a bad feeling like he wanted dinner over with to get to sex. Dodged a bullet
@Billiard-cp1my
@Billiard-cp1my 11 ай бұрын
Never ignore those bad feelings. Intuition is built into women for a reason.
@sweetmintkiss
@sweetmintkiss Жыл бұрын
I think when you are in long term already, people need a few days break here and there, especially those with very busy lives. People need breathing space too, and its nice to communicate productively. But when you just starting and person dissappears for long time...its not a good sign
@moonlightstargem1006
@moonlightstargem1006 Жыл бұрын
Oh yeah. Not good. At that point they are doing it on purpose to try to mess with ur mind & hurt ur feelings. I say ghost back & move on
@Marcycat7
@Marcycat7 7 ай бұрын
If he ignores me he's going to get my absence. Maybe even permanently. "F" around and find out.🎉
@aceb4634
@aceb4634 Жыл бұрын
Most women don't sit by the phone waiting for a man who purposely ignores her. And men know that. If a man is trash enough to ignore someone to test them than move on. Ice seen many men who do this but freak when their woman isn't immediately available. That's what I don't understand.
@Billiard-cp1my
@Billiard-cp1my 11 ай бұрын
It's called manipulation. They also enjoy thinking about how their woman is pining for them, sadistic! Move on and never look back.
@annabethsmith-kingsley2079
@annabethsmith-kingsley2079 Ай бұрын
If you're ignoring someone on purpose, you're a child.
@Deleted4678
@Deleted4678 11 ай бұрын
But we are talking about a whole week not an hour 😂 yup he’s gone
@jennsteeves2790
@jennsteeves2790 Жыл бұрын
How do you know if he’s ignoring you to test you? Ignoring you so you focus more on you? Or ignoring you because he’s slowly fading out because he’s a pos
@starlistener8285
@starlistener8285 Жыл бұрын
If he's testing you, he plays games. Cut the cord immediately.
@jamieboer3466
@jamieboer3466 8 ай бұрын
If its a guy 9/10 hes not ignoring you.
@Freespiritedqueen
@Freespiritedqueen 4 ай бұрын
Yea
@Sanna.E
@Sanna.E Жыл бұрын
Is there never a time where a guy would want me as a girl to reach out? Like it seems like he's ignoring me but he wants me to give him attention?
@briannall6232
@briannall6232 Жыл бұрын
Probably nothing. He's busy with someone else. DUHH
@boxing9891
@boxing9891 Жыл бұрын
Truth
@ty70056
@ty70056 6 ай бұрын
Or busy doing work or something else in case of introverts
@lorraineb.4698
@lorraineb.4698 6 ай бұрын
There are so many reasons they could be ignoring you.😮
@derrti8632
@derrti8632 4 ай бұрын
He wants you to ignore him right back !!
@CradleEpiscopalian56
@CradleEpiscopalian56 9 ай бұрын
And when you try to end it he goes nuts. Wtf?;
@jennyferhicks6669
@jennyferhicks6669 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like games to me .
@Lamapanty
@Lamapanty Жыл бұрын
Nice, you do shorts! Hearing the very last part cheered me up "why would you hang onto someone- ignoreing- you-..." or in my current case; Talk down on you, hostile, negative, name calling and a major buss kill. Its a new acquaintance, clearly insecure, imature and can't deal with having another female around. Despite my attempts to include them and keep an open mind. So as you teach; I'll just leave the drama and look for better things.
@GreeneChakra
@GreeneChakra 2 ай бұрын
If he shows up out the blue, acting as if you disappeared, its Games.
@marieredmon-sc9dm
@marieredmon-sc9dm 7 ай бұрын
Life too short to be upset.
@user-di1eo2fr1x
@user-di1eo2fr1x 7 ай бұрын
Yes bro thank you but I just want to live my life in peace, freedom ❤
@lifeoutsidecomfortzone
@lifeoutsidecomfortzone Жыл бұрын
He’s describing what a healthy person in a healthy connection would want (sans intentionally ignoring someone)-your partner to have their own life and be happily independent. We all know though that someone INTENTIONALLY ignoring you with no seeming rhyme or reason usually points toward wonderfully less-than-healthy character traits such as manipulation and just plain being an asshole.
@lynnnahdaya6632
@lynnnahdaya6632 Жыл бұрын
Ghosting
@BoldAgentMedia
@BoldAgentMedia Ай бұрын
Ignoring for an hour when it could take literally seconds to say he is doing something and would get back.
@jennifermichener-zc2iw
@jennifermichener-zc2iw 8 ай бұрын
Well this Woman doesn't give energy to people who dont have time for me. Just the way it is. Lets face it if a guy is interested then you wont feel like you dont matter to him. Same goes the other way I think. People make time for those they care about.
@arthurnolasco185
@arthurnolasco185 5 ай бұрын
There's a third scenario. If he doesn't initiate contact for a day or 2, and he has a job or is studying, then he's probably sleeping or just having some quiet time to recharge his batteries.
@asmitaroy1350
@asmitaroy1350 5 ай бұрын
What about just small texting but no calling for 6 days continuously
@lolo0302
@lolo0302 Жыл бұрын
Are u the representative for men.? The girls that follow this need to get some self esteem and stop learning how to constantly guess what's going and how to cater to your man. if your ignoring me I'm so okay with never seeing u again. When 2 people are interested in each other it's not guessing game. Dude I love being single....test me please
@sansadrake4133
@sansadrake4133 Жыл бұрын
😂. If there were more people like you then men wouldn't get away with their crap. Its because they know the woman will be there waiting for him, he probably does this s***
@insanelygorgeous8888
@insanelygorgeous8888 Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@LisaS1
@LisaS1 2 ай бұрын
Years ago I was in a terrible relationship and I wasted probably 14 years (married & living with him 2 of those yrs) with this guy who did not love me. In the 1st so many years that's what I'd do I sit and wait for him to call. He would ignore me for days. My mental illness kept me hanging on to him as I couldn't face the pain of breaking up. He put me through a lot of mental/emotional pain and even gave me 2 black eyes once.
@user-uf5wl5ck5z
@user-uf5wl5ck5z 8 ай бұрын
What if he ignores you because you congratulated him on his birthday?😂
@fiona3929
@fiona3929 3 ай бұрын
He doesn't let you do what you want and have freedoms so you dont and THEN he gets mad that you dont do anything without him 😂
@Faith-ko5eg
@Faith-ko5eg Жыл бұрын
What he could do is explain what’s going on and why he’ll be out of touch for a while. In the videos of yours I’ve seen I feel like you’re training women to be narcissistic supply.
@teahousebakery5123
@teahousebakery5123 Жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯
@judyperri9496
@judyperri9496 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely We should just be our true selfs Not into game playing If I don’t fit your life, please feel free to move on, the sooner the better 😂
@sallyannhenno3909
@sallyannhenno3909 Жыл бұрын
I don’t think so. He’s teaching you to value yourself and not to settle for bad behaviour. If you love yourself, someone else can bring love to your life and add to the experience. If you don’t love yourself, then you’ll be looking for someone to complete you. In the latter, you’ll be less likely to walk away from bad behaviour, and will end up in a toxic or codependent relationship, and it’ll be exhausting. Look after yourself, find the good in yourself, find things you like to do, and the right man will find you. It’s not narcissistic. All therapists even teach you that you need to love yourself first too
@jamieboer3466
@jamieboer3466 8 ай бұрын
​@@sallyannhenno3909he's encouraging bad behavior
@peaceofmindofpeace1650
@peaceofmindofpeace1650 6 ай бұрын
Exactly. Explain it. Small effort! So both can feel relaxed and secure and able to enjoy their days without anxiety caused by a disrespectful selfish figure.
@marikaaspland5915
@marikaaspland5915 Жыл бұрын
As long as its ignoring. Move on. But be sure he's not in strife.
@courtney1496
@courtney1496 Жыл бұрын
Man I don't have the energy for the silent treatment. I just give him his space for a while then talk to him like normal, no attitude.
@asmitaroy1350
@asmitaroy1350 5 ай бұрын
If a man needs soooo much space that he would go MIA for days then he should stay alone rather than in a relationship 😊
@noknapatalung8879
@noknapatalung8879 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Matthew, for these excellent tips. In the past, I hung on too long to men that were ignoring me ( they told me they were busy working, had football practice, they were busy, etc. I found out much later, they had found someone new.) No more of that for me.
@fatumaahmed4304
@fatumaahmed4304 Жыл бұрын
if you are freaking about hours of no contact get a grip and have life dint be needy
@tarajones3832
@tarajones3832 Ай бұрын
just give him the same energy back
@juanitabetance1317
@juanitabetance1317 7 ай бұрын
💟 OH. HELL. NO. TALKING. FOR. DAYS. BYE. CANT. DEAL. WITH. THAT. NO. NO.
@chikkamarco1431
@chikkamarco1431 Жыл бұрын
Trust me that is what he wants.. Thank you for the message really needed it.
@diehardXPLRfan
@diehardXPLRfan 4 ай бұрын
This video give me even more anxiety
@sophiachin1262
@sophiachin1262 Жыл бұрын
Good, get out then... why are we even in touch at all. If I end up pregnant. God will let you know. Bye then. Strangers are strangers right??? So closure n dual blocked. I know how to bless people or curse them on their way out so choose. I'm over it. Nobody hates a good person but the demons n them so let them go! It takes 5 minutes to breakup or resolve to stop knowing someone. Get your departure gifts n go. I know my worth. Deuces on you bruh. Karma right?
@ourfinancialfuture9457
@ourfinancialfuture9457 12 күн бұрын
why do we always have to assume stuff ? why not just set a boundary and if they don't wanna do it they will just go away . relationships are worth communicating and getting to know why your partners does what they do not assuming it.
@lindamccloud3434
@lindamccloud3434 5 ай бұрын
guys ignore woman for hours and days too. I move on
@lanacompton9469
@lanacompton9469 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely💯 You’re always spot on. This is you’re true calling. Helping others in many different ways with all you’re insight and knowledge and experience. Well done Matthew👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@MatthewCoast
@MatthewCoast Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that.
@lanacompton9469
@lanacompton9469 Жыл бұрын
@@MatthewCoast You’re so welcome!!!
@beebee32002
@beebee32002 Жыл бұрын
what if it's not 1-2 hours, and not 1-2 days, but half a day like 10 hours?
@mindue78
@mindue78 14 күн бұрын
Follow this advice and you'll get hurt less: 1) You can tell VERY early on (within a month) if the guy likes you and is interested. You'll know. If you're still wondering after a month? Hes not into you (and probably chasing someone else), and just using you for an ego boost 2) If after 3 months, he doesnt commit- walk. Guys KNOW within 3 months if they consider you as long-term material. MOST men will know after 10 months to 2 years that you're wife material.
@evelyngotbeter
@evelyngotbeter 8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. Correct. Luckily for me it's hours, and not days. But hours for several days, due to very busy schedule. I instinctively go about doing my things. It's innate to want your significant others' attention 24/7, but it doesn't work like that. Very good advice. Thank you.
@DayanaDeHabana
@DayanaDeHabana Ай бұрын
Yeah it's different when he all of the sudden ignores me when I say good morning but before he used to get all happy about saying good morning. I didn't even do anything to him and it's been going on for a few days.
@111TreeofLife
@111TreeofLife Жыл бұрын
Ignores me? Thank you next
@alissamorones3780
@alissamorones3780 Ай бұрын
Dang my boyfriend will ignore me for a couple days and tell me that it’s normal to give him space. He will play video games for 12 hours straight and be okay without talking to me for days. I guess it’s time to let go 😭😭
@marlenehaigler6603
@marlenehaigler6603 7 ай бұрын
What if it’s every weekend?
@Bohorockerchic925
@Bohorockerchic925 7 ай бұрын
We all have fuckin full lives in which are phones are attached to our hip
@sharonbeers4621
@sharonbeers4621 Жыл бұрын
Love this advise, instead of looking outward look inward! Thanks
@Shannon-to5ie
@Shannon-to5ie Ай бұрын
What he really wants when he ignores you? Not you!
@laoisemeehan
@laoisemeehan 3 күн бұрын
He says he wants me badly but then he pushes people away who care about him, including me. I ask to spend time with him and then he starts to ignore me... It feels like a mind game, should I block?
@nancycemeterygirl5176
@nancycemeterygirl5176 7 күн бұрын
If he doesn't talk to me for almost 2 months??.. Means he got someone else 😂
@jumanjiday7970
@jumanjiday7970 11 ай бұрын
He would be a lazy man,run.🏃‍♀️
@lesliethomas5088
@lesliethomas5088 Жыл бұрын
wavy too confusing. That's what has this Whole We hate women war going! when the woman has a Full life. he go crazy!
@jaynewhy6161
@jaynewhy6161 Жыл бұрын
Oh dear God I have the opposite problem!! How do you get them to ignore you?? Man I'm only one person give me a chance to reply.😕
@asmitaroy1350
@asmitaroy1350 5 ай бұрын
Give'em to me😅😅😅
@lilliestrauder259
@lilliestrauder259 Жыл бұрын
Truth just communicate
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