This is the result of modern feminism

[@ghostaccountlmao]

As a man, I see a lot of my peers expecting women to cook, clean, have kids... and work! Wtf lol. Can't have traditional woman without traditional men.

[@user-xn8zb8gj6k]

What he’s saying is that she dosent work and also dosent do house chores and be a mom. Then the work is on him.

[@joeydigrado382]

That's what my girl does because I also work, pay the bills, hunt, fish, mow the law, fix things that break, and i also cook and clean once in a while etc. she better do more than just stick thumbtacks all over the walls.

[@marcodirectFayetteville]

Traditional men have never left that's why Candace called it Modern Feminism. Women have left their Traditiona duties and expect to have a Traditional man

[@henriquepereira6414]

Where??who?? shut up maybe a small percentage,but to measure the percentage we can use KZbin and all feminist videos with all that woman's speaking 😂😂

[@supario8529]

Where has this been going on.... My mom made us clean up.... and we ate leftovers half the time😂😂😂 Only difference between men of today and men of yesteryear Is the value of a dollar.... So basically the "realness " of men is now part of the Stock Market? Women wanting full time jobs is how they were able to Jack up the prices....[2 income households] Now that women are tired of working men aren't "traditional " unless they can overcome the effects of their asses joining the workforce 😂😂😂

[@waynelovejr.1005]

My wife told me that she would take care of the house. My part was the car maintenance, yard mowing, etc. We shared various other responsibilities. It worked well enough to raise 4 great kids. Our marriage was a true partnership with love and respect. God blessed me when I found her.

[@rickc4133]

Amen brother

[@kintsukuroi6300]

You found a good partner and for other people such experience will not be part of their journey in this lifetime. Just like there are people who want to be ballet dancers, famous artists, neurosurgeons and they will not become one due to different reasons such as an accident and cannot practice the sport or not entering into medical school etc, etc But people are so dramatic and cannot accept NO a decent marriage/finding your other half /twin flame/love of your life etc etc WILL NOT TAKE PLACE in your journey in this lifetime.

[@MichelleRomero-lf1nu]

I am grateful I have a real man as well.

[@rogueranger7989]

A Partnership As It Should Be ⭐️

[@josephcarilus]

That's a good testimony brother. However, I am wondering why you have stated everything in past perfect tense. You make it sound as if the marriage is no longer there.

[@intoreality1189]

“A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands.” - Proverbs 14:1

[@unclerhombus]

*HATE SPEECH!!!*

[@Sunmoonstars748]

Keep your cult to yourself ty

[@unclerhombus]

@@Sunmoonstars748 at least Christians can still even define what a woman is.

[@kathleenking47]

It shows, this isn't new

[@KuyyGasena]

Amen ❤

[@Renville80]

Both my parents worked full time (and came from working class backgrounds so one lesson they passed to us was ‘needs before wants’). They also split up the household duties; it was not uncommon for Mom to mow the lawn or Dad to help take care of laundry. They had over 40 years together (until Dad’s passing).

[@337cana]

That's the way is supposed to be, my parents did the same!!

[@americanapple4608]

@@337cana hours being with and taking care of your children shouldn't be compared to hours making income to support and provide for those children, they both have their essential places

[@MaryRosebud]

I was a stay at home mom. I appreciated my husband and loved taking care of my children. We didn’t have much money, but we had each other, and family is what matters.

[@madlaz5795]

So what happened ? Why the past tense?

[@ChanaRo613]

​@@madlaz5795Kids grow up and leave home!

[@jazshas]

My mom is 97 and I love what she said my dad told her. "You stay home and raise my daughters and I'll handle these hounds out here." She said he worked three jobs at one time. He was a truck driver and when needed he'd take on a second job. When all was said and done he bought a house, helped pay for our college educations, and bought cadillacs. This man also could fix things around the house and repair cars. He served in WWII in Germany. He and my mom grew up picking cotton and my mom still finished high school. Much respect for them. I miss my dad.

[@Pitbullmom]

Men these days aren't like the men of your dad's time. Your dad was a real man. Men these days are lazy and will take any low paying job and expect the woman to get a job to help make up the difference of what the family needs. More woman need to have the mentality of "if I have to do everything AND get a job, what the hell do I need YOU for?"

[@theadventurekidz-scienceho843]

Men are not like this anymore. I think women and men today both are the problem

[@bobsebring2819]

Amen, my mom stayed home to raise us kids and to take care of the house while my dad had risked his life every shift he did as a LA city firefighter. In addition, he did his chores at home too like fixing things, building things and whatever was needed that a man can do that my mom couldn't. God bless the greatest generation!

[@phil4v8]

🙏💞🌏🙏

[@nichellepeters5195]

Incredible, honorable and beautiful. I too, have an amazing, strong, supportive father. And my mom stayed home and took care of me and my sister. She held down the household. My DAD loved us and was never abusive or complaining. A true, real man. Thing of the past sadly. 😢

[@garrett621]

Candace working full time. Millionaire.

[@chitownladyj]

Exactly.

[@awandezwane1500]

Exactly!

[@michellesobey1943]

I stay at home and I cook. I despise cleaning but I chauffeur 4 kids around and trade while I’m homeschooling one of our kids. My husband is awesome because he will still help clean before people come over and take out the trash. Running kids around, schooling, taking to sports, trying to keep their clothes clean and the dishes done is exhausting, by the time supper is over I’m just as tired as him. I think the big thing is remembering that kids and house is a big job too.

[@caseycampbell6849]

As a woman who works 50+ hours a week and is still responsible for all the housework and cooking/providing food, etc. I can say I would happily stay home and devote all my time to that. I would be much less exhausted. The problem is so many modern men (mine included) don't want to do the work to provide for a woman to be able to do that. They want income padding from the woman AND all the domestic privilege a wife provides.

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

Why would you even entertain such a man?

[@cherylnegus2441]

You said it honey.

[@BleuBelair]

Stop generalizing all men, dude. If a man wants to provide for a woman he will gladly do it out of love. If women like yourself want to dedicate all your time on just work then thats on YOU. How tf do women expect a man to spend money on them but they’re both working making money? Whats mines is mines and whats yours is yours, is the way I see it. Even then, Relationships like that dont work out in the end regardless, its been proven. Lol

[@cherylnegus2441]

@@BleuBelair Answer to your question.... Just like how I work & spend money on him. But his motto was, "What's mine is mine & what's yours is ours." As proven by his secret bank account. Absolute shame that he was the example of men to me & the ruin of mankind. Cause he is, as with the man in this post, an example of the modern man. That's why women like me are becoming extinct. Cause there's NO WAY in hell I'll allow my daughter to be the trusting, caring, over-giving sucker empath that I was.

[@cherylnegus2441]

He actually said it "I don't want to provide for you & the kids." (His beautiful kids! Like they're actually really good looking kids, the baby was his replica - what bigger compliment can you get?). So he stopped working & happily had me providing for him. And I did. But a woman can only take so much. Now I am divorced some years & lonely as I am, prefer to be single than ever risk the stress, crying, frustration & pain of domestic violence, that might come with another relationship.

[@bev1018]

We women that wanted to be traditional wives and mothers were either shamed and ridiculed by radical feminists or met men that wanted women to do all of the traditional things AND go out to work on top of all that. Women like me were totally screwed over. Ben Shapiro was right when he said free sex and abortions only made men more selfish as the men could have the benefits of marriage without the commitment.

[@neolerades2987]

As a man, I can say that I would be happy to do housework if my wife did the men's work. Many women don't see that - that a man has to build a house, maintain a garden and yard, mow, fix and maintain cars, maintain a house - from cleaning gutters and roofs from leaves to painting rooms, repairs and maintaining everything at home. Washing rooms, washing clothes, cooking and the like is nothing to wash. Couples usually share raising children, and in my area both partners always work - and it suits everyone. Only in the US are women very condescending and think they work more than they should.

[@Kamishikyo]

Women are the gatekeepers of sex, women are the ones giving out free sex without commitment. That is literally you guys fault rofl.

[@GiaDivaful]

Ben Shapiro? Really? Lol

[@mrkiky]

A small percentage of men became more selfish, the rest just had to go with the flow, just like the guy in the video. He merely explains why he wouldn't pay for his date's share.

[@zozie275]

In this day, it’s difficult to raise a family on a single income, so there’s merit to the woman needing to work as well. But if that’s how the couple lives, then the man will need to understand that he needs to pick up some of the housework too because there’s not enough time in the day to do it all.

[@ashtonsquires3102]

I'm beyond thrilled and feel so blessed to get to be a stay at home mother and homemaker. I'm so thankful for my husband who encourages me to do so and provides for us!

[@mariatimmins8846]

I used to work, picked my kids up from school handed them over to babysitter till their dad came home, finished work at 10pm and came home to my children waiting up for me... i gave up my job to do what i thought was my real job.... looking after my own children... but this is just my opinion.. hated the fact they wouldnt go to sleep until i came home, they missed me and it broke my heart bless them.. ❤

[@chipsandsalsaboss]

What sucks is women like me who want that so badly but all men expect me to be a feminist monster. Lose lose.

[@ilovenoodles7483]

Let's all band together and start putting it out there on social media that there are indeed STILL traditional women out there, who WANT traditional men, without the abuse.

[@sunnydaze5721]

Bayyyybee these men say they want that and then throw everything they do for you in your face at the end of the day!

[@jessicaauguste3260]

@@ilovenoodles7483👏

[@Secter84]

We're still out here and looking for good women. Not all us dudes are scumbags or unappreciative cheaters. I'm so disgusted when I see guys who have committed girlfriends/babys mom but treat them like complete shit & the girls never leave em and always chase them and such. I'm like mann id feel lucky AF to be in your position & have a loyal gf who loves em. I've had the opposite with relationships. Women who were terrible, unfaithful liars.

[@Cynn_Nostalgic]

Fr

[@leannshort2211]

Spot on!!! I’m so glad I’m a homemaker!!! I know I’m blessed and I thank God everyday! 🙌🏻❤️

[@fatimapastor236]

As a very independent woman I completely agree!!! HOWEVER I became independent due to men who just couldn't step up to the plate on any level!!! Now that you're waking up it's too late...the damage has been done!

[@random.3665]

I dont want to be mean, but maybe it wasnt that men in general didnt measure up, it was just the the portion of men who did wanted different traits in their partner. So its not that they didnt exist, they just didnt approach...

[@fatimapastor236]

@@random.3665 my friend it was never a lack of men approaching, they just couldn't stand up to simple expectations and if a woman has to be that strong then the man by her side is useless...I don't want to be mean either!

[@random.3665]

@@fatimapastor236 I think you missed my point a bit there^^. I didnt mean "men dont approach you", i meant "men that are high quality enough to fullfill your expectations dont approach you" I think be both agree that most men are not in a position to give a modern woman what she wants. The problem is that, because of that, the few men that DO measure up, and can fullfill expectations, have a LOT of potential partners to choose from (since most women look for a man like that, if they are looking for a man at all). Therefore, those men get to limit themselfs to the women that are basically 100% what they want, and will not approach those that they deem below that threshold.

[@fatimapastor236]

@@random.3665 I didn't miss your point at All my friend I understand what you are saying...however men that are high quality are usually high maintenance as well and expect to be admired and I don't give up control of " Me " to be an admiring fan. I never looked for the type of men girls today look for just someone with good caracter ,loyal and who can recepricate in a relationship very simple things that don't exist in men today. Maybe I should have been looking for material gain instead.

[@fatimapastor236]

@@random.3665 by the way there's no partner that 100% of what someone wants...but that's another issue.

[@thegrumpyhorticulturist]

WE. CANNOT. AFFORD. TO. STAY. AT. HOME. If you want traditional you better be making traditional type of money.

[@richradtylr4]

GET YOUR PASSPORT!!!!

[@wamz9191]

​​@@richradtylr4 Sorry, we don't want broke men either. 😅

[@col.cottonhill6655]

Traditional money was not that much! People didn't have all this extra income a few generations ago. It just wasn't extremely in affordable for basics like housing and food which are skyrocketing. And people blame the poor for buying too many gizmos and gadgets. Those are the only things that got cheaper. (Chinese mass manufacturerd crap!)

[@NotAffiliated]

@@wamz9191Yea, but the problem is that the economy has made it that practically all men are broke. They reduced our pay and increased the costs enough that nobody can afford to have kids anymore.

[@evam5589]

Bullshit grumpy.

[@AnitaFart2]

My husband always says if I want to stay home forever, I can. He'll work as much as he need to to provide for our family. I ask for little help like taking out the dogs and the trash. But I do everything else ❤

[@camillemiller2762]

I was a stay at home mom for 20 years. When our youngest child went to school, I went back to school, finished my bachelor’s degree and got my master’s degree. I have a career now, but part of the reason I did all of that is because it was almost impossible to survive on one income. We don’t have a lavish lifestyle, but women have been pushed to the point of having to do it all whether we actually want to or not. I loved being a stay at home mom and while I love my career, I miss being the one who kept our home running smoothly.

[@jbell6852]

Great point. Many women wouldn’t mind being SAHMs but surviving on a single income is difficult. Back in the day a hardworking minimum wage worker could own a home and pay bills comfortably. Today two of those incomes for a household wouldn’t suffice. Educated working professionals are priced out from buying homes never experiencing the so called “American Dream” that was meant for the middle class. You also have the issue of high divorce rates that affects why women feel safer having their own income. I think every household should do what works for them and not impose ideologies on each other.

[@masterkraft4746]

that's what you wanted ... no ? now you have it

[@levanahyll5884]

I tried the traditional women’s role early. Married at 20, had 3 children by 30. Was always alone except for my three children because the man of the house was out with his buddies and other women. He criticized everything I did, barely gave me money for groceries. I had to use hand-me-down everything from sheets to towels his mother would give me from her house otherwise we’d be drying ourselves with rags and sleeping on worn out sheets. My clothes and even my panties were given to me from my sister in law who thankfully loved buying new things often so she gave me her old stuff. I did use underwear with holes in them and lived in a manner I never had before I walked down the aisle and my dad handed me off to him. I was miserable, felt like a failure, felt ugly, felt like garbage because that’s how I was treated. My mother in law was the one who bought my children clothes and toys because I had no income. I put up with the treatment until he began to get aggressive with the children. Also I met someone who said the right things and made me realize I deserved better. I started a journal, also began watching a religious program that spoke about being successful, and progress. I got divorced, went back to school and got a degree, raised my kids and for a time I even found someone else. When after 16 years that relationship didn’t work out because we had different goals, I continued to work toward achieving my own dreams and desires. I’ve traveled and managed to buy my own house. My life is blissfully peaceful. No drama, no bs, I come and go as I please, do what I want when I want. I wouldn’t trade it for anything. Being in a relationship did not work for me. I was never happy. I’m happy now.

[@katben1625]

I’m so sorry you went through all of that - I’m very pro women being stay at homes but it needs to be with the right partner, some men love their women being at home bc they can control them and demean them, and that’s horrible because you’re so disempowered. I’m proud of you for marching towards your goals despite all of the challenges you faced. Women are incredibly resilient!

[@jeshurunhazelton7789]

U weren't submissive enough if U submitted maybe he would've loved U more U need to serve n sacrifice n put him before urself U are his provider protector n sacrificial servant it sounds like U need to step up n be better

[@levanahyll5884]

@@jeshurunhazelton7789 nah, I just got rid of a piece of garbage like my father told me to. My father was a real man. Provided for his family and had enough self control to not fall into temptation with demons. Men who cheat dirty their souls with demons. They are not men of God and as such, their wives need to leave them before they become lost souls themselves. You need to repent your sins and stop preaching Satan's word.

[@darkwyve]

It's true, there are more people out there that are (and many in relationships that would be) happy alone. The fact is humans are not cookie cutter pieces, we all have unique things that satisfy and complete our lives. Regardless of all that, if your story is accurate, then you never had a 'man' of the house, what you had was a man-child taking advantage of and abusing you. Hopefully he's rotting in a basement somewhere realizing you are the best thing that got away. If you can find extra happiness with someone else, then that's cool, but if you stake your entire happiness on someone else, you'll never truly be happy inside.

[@levanahyll5884]

@@jeshurunhazelton7789 that’s not what the Bible says, satan. I rebuke you in Jesus name.

[@PraiseYahforHeisHoly]

It's very scary to be at the mercy of a sinner. I wish women could stay home, and some do, but without the proper agreement, it isn't worth the risk. The person with power always makes the rules.

[@vicom134]

Don’t you also sin?

[@PraiseYahforHeisHoly]

@@vicom134 , we all sin, but I'm not trying to lead anyone or create a space of ultimate power in my house.

[@tammymoore859]

I understand your statement 100%!!

[@ifmusicbethefoodofloveplay2290]

Exactly! There are many layers to this. Some women like myself prefer to work rather than stay home. I get depressed if I stay home a lot. I feel incredibly empowered from developing skills, interacting with coworkers and clients, and supporting myself in doing so. Additionally, our economy and advancements would slow down A LOT if women chose to stay home. Women's participation in the workforce is a huge reason we've seen so much material progress in the past century. I wholeheartedly support a person's individual choice to stay home and be a homemaker, but to me, on a societal level, this is a clear "be careful what you wish for" situation. This arrangement is also simply unaffordable for most families. The man's gotta be fairly well-off if he can provide a comfortable living situation for himself, a wife, and kids.

[@kubetail12]

@@ifmusicbethefoodofloveplay2290Maybe we are advancing too fast, but it’s too late now especially it AI becoming widespread.

[@MissFrancois]

Honestly, I'm starting to roll my eyes when men say this now. I have female friends growing older who long for a traditional marriage while these guys what to chase after IG model looking women and turn THEM into housewives. Also, men get your money up. You don't have to make six figures but make a decent amount of money to be able to support a family and live modestly and be submitted to the Lord to be able to lead a healthy and flourishing family

[@user-wh1gd5iz3e]

Yeah simps don't get dragged enough tbh they are a problem

[@bigbay1159]

Then put in the work and be something of value, don't talk about men if you are just a worthless area of space yourself...

[@TheMadNation]

What is modestly for you. If not 6 figures, at least close to it right? 95k per year? And the reason your friends are not married, is probably because they are not traditional woman. I am a man, i know most men want a traditional women, but you cant party all your 20s and call yourself a traditional women.

[@MissFrancois]

@@TheMadNation No, I know men who make 60k and can support a family of 6-8. It's just a matter of living simply and stretching resources. Also, none of my friends have ever been to the club and 5/7 are still virgins(never kissed a guy) and the other two have been abstaining since they came to know the Lord one 4 years ago, the other 9 years ago. Maybe your guy friends are as chronically online as you are, which is evident by how quickly you assumed that because women are single they must've been slutting up. I think that's what's actually causing the decline in marriage. Men who spent their youth porn addicted and obsessed with "ig models" so once they are old enough to get married they have a deep resentment towards women and start talking out their assets

[@MissFrancois]

@@bigbay1159 What is putting in work in regards to being a traditional woman?? I cook food that always gets compliments, I keep the portions of my shared house very tidy (I live with other women in my church), I dress modestly, all the guys in my church know my values, I try to work hard at all I do while simultaneously being available for family and friends when they need me, and I love the Lord (daily prayer, evangelizing, and spending time with Him while I read His word daily). What more should I do?? Should I quit my job, break into a man's house, and begin to serve him so he notices me and puts a ring on my finger??

[@AllBladesCut]

Gonna have to fully agree with the women on this one. Inflation has basically made living on off a one income budget next to impossible for most meaning the women has to work in most cases and if she’s working it also isn’t fair that’s she’s also expected to do at the house work. But it’s a case by case bases.

[@jeshurunhazelton7789]

It depends on each situation but yes if it was back in the day then the man works n the woman works in the home but these days if both are working then both should help in the house

[@Theoriginalurbanbuffalo]

Some of us are exactly like that. I was headed off to Harvard law school when I met my husband. We eloped on the beach in Hilton Head Island, I decided to put law school on hold, proceeded to have 4 children. I stayed home, cooked, cleaned, taught, drove, mentored, and respected and loved on my husband. We attended mass with our children every Sunday (and then some). He drove to NY from Pa. every morning and then back home every night, 2.5 hrs each way, so the kids could attend a great school and our constitutional rights were still intact, and not attacked. Every night when he came home from work, the kids and I would greet him excitedly with a hug and I would have his hot dinner on the table (from scratch). I put my smaller dream of being a lawyer aside, to fulfill a God given better dream of raising my family and letting my husband be the man of the house. The way God intended.

[@kubra_sultan]

Beautiful

[@danceguardmusicgirl1]

No, there are plenty of women who want to me stay at home moms and house wives. There just aren’t enough men who make enough money for it to be feasible. If you’re a man who wants a traditional wife, you have to have the income to back it up.

[@RichardsonEunice]

A lot of men do have the income to take care of their families. The problem is some women think "wants" and "requirements" are the same thing. And, they are not the same thing.

[@danceguardmusicgirl1]

@@RichardsonEunice the average American salary is < $60k per year. It is pretty unrealistic to expect a family with two parents and several children to be able to survive off of that one income. Diapers, food, rent, utilities, and education all add up pretty quickly. Its a whole different ballgame raising a family on $50k per year versus $120k per year.

[@mrs.hatfield1451]

Or, like us, you realize what you can live without and still be happy and well cared for.

[@SwornReaper]

How much are you talking about here????? Expecting living in castle and spending like a real queen??????!

[@missscarlet7902]

​@@RichardsonEuniceyeah yeah you want a woman to slave her life away just to struggle and be considered last. If I'm at home raising your kids and treating you like my damn child, BEST believe ima get my "wants" in life. Don't need to be your slave just to still struggle. You can't afford it for the woman to be comfortable, and then wonder why women don't want it.

[@BeeBee10]

The problem is that women at home are not valued by society. They are 'paid' by the husband, but have no weekends or holidays. The husband can just leave the woman and the kids at any time. Also many women have the capacity to do more amusing jobs than just cleaning. But this is not to say that a successful marriage with kids is not feasible. They have to agree who is doing what and then help each other regardless. Also raising kids is a tough job, but it's rewarding too, imo. 😊

[@scottaussem1771]

EvenSS screws stay at home moms. Heads up. When you apply forSS ask gor spousal concideration. Then thry will take your spouses income into concideration when you apply. I found this out 10 years late my wife was shorted$400bucks for 10 years..youve got to ask.

[@harvey1954]

As long as your husband values you that is what is important. Yes women have weekends and holdiays. Stop with the victimhood.

[@nguyencaotri3879]

"but have no weekends or holidays?" ??? They have the whole fucking week every week. Stfu, victim.

[@maryrowe8045]

Who gives a crap if society values you???? I care if my family values me!

[@narminbabayeva8847]

​@@harvey1954 when kids grow older it becomes very easy, I am not stay at home mom, but when I have longer vacatuos kids at school till 6pm, I am done with houswork before 1 pm, or wake up very late.

[@diposs937]

I love that I got to stay home and take care of my kids and household. When we needed extra money I got a job as a school bus driver and had all the school vacations and summers off with them. We’ve all got some great memories from those days.

[@cheetoesfrank5131]

It's also much harder now a days to make ends meet on one paycheck

[@jdeelp]

Very true

[@GodGunsGutsandNRA]

Not really, you have to make sacrifices. Do you really NEED the newest of everything, or the best of everything, or to eat out all the time. I see my friends go to work, worked their butts off, and most of their earnings goes to pay for daycare. I will admit it IS HARD, but it can be done.

[@racheltodd960]

Actually with childcare costs I can't afford TO work. Even if I wanted to.

[@erikgilreath3305]

No, you watch what you buy and don't waste your money!

[@col.cottonhill6655]

​@@racheltodd960you need to be able to be a top 10% earner! Or you aren't normal!!! Lol (kidding of course!)

[@erickaanaya3958]

That have destroyed men, woman, family and kids.

[@ashleybanks4115]

Some women still want that but I think we need to feel safe and secure that nothing will happen to us. we can live like that(relying solely on the husband) comfortably as long as the rug won’t be pulled from underneath us Men need to also meet women halfway. Show us that you want to be a team. That you got us no matter what. Make us feel loved and wanted. And Inturn we will take care of you the same way

[@JesusSavesTheLostBrokenConfuse]

Most sold themselves short on OF and let their kids do whatever.

[@ekenechristyike5461]

❤❤❤🎉🎉👌😇💃💃

[@ekenechristyike5461]

I saw my mum do all of that.. I like her being a wife to her husband my father but he changed and became a stranger just because he brings in the money. He made more money and the whole family a living hell. Being the first child and daughter, you don't want to know how his conduct and behavior traumatized me. The more men disappoint women, the more the traditional wife will vanish. FEAR OF BEING DISCARDED AFTER PUTTING IN YOUR ALL RO SERVE A MAN AND HIS FAMILY. I ITS A HORROR😢😢 MOVIE! You do not want to experience it in your dreams not to talk of in real life. Pls believe...it is not a joke when a man you poured in to waste your time and you can't get it black.... THEY WANT A TRADITIONAL WIFE BUT RUN AWAY WITH THE SECRETARY IN THE OFFICE JUST BECAUSE😢 GOD HELP US ALL

[@UzitheSaint]

I do think currently a lot of women have extremely high and unrealistic standards in what they expect from men not saying u can’t have any standards but they kinda have to be realistic

[@lucilleshayi2728]

Well said 🎉

[@danmo43]

It is all an over 100 year goal to get the woman in the work force for the taxable income by the government and the Federal Reserve.

[@randyzulf998]

Yes, and easier to get them working with pensions having gone largely extinct and social security is garbage if you dont spend your years working a good job and paying that tax. And with divorce as prolific as it is and women typically live longer than men, its hard today for women to take the risk not to work because theres a good chance of being alone one way or another at retirement and if that happens and they didnt work, they would either have to survive off welfare or start working late and do so until they cant instead of enjoying their golden years.

[@rainsofhealing]

And they (tptb) have control over the kids while both parents are working n not enough time to properly raise their own kids, so the geeohvee does it

[@Southwestniga]

I need a Candace in my life she looken so delicious

[@desireenicole2497]

And its working

[@desireenicole2497]

​@rainsofhealing👏👏👏 yass

[@dandoss-xp2qq]

Times have changed, many households require both spouses to work to get ahead!, many times this is not a choice

[@ZolotarevDm]

Candace, it’s not the same here without your podcast! Come back online ASAP

[@lynda6550]

I usually agree with you Candace. But this is not so simple. Plenty of men abuse their power in this situation. I was everything you preach, tended to my partner, they repayed me by fooling around. Sent me into a spiral, my reality was destroyed. Took me a long time to recover. Please be kinder to women. I'm happy you seem to have found your own prince charming but life is not so easy for some of us.

[@Mistyfaery]

While she's still working. This is her job. She's paid to do this podcast. The lack of self awareness and hypocrisy on her part is hilarious 😂 practice what you preach, Candace.

[@DgardsGaming]

you are talking about the exception, not the rule. Yes, there are bad men out there but that is far and few between, though their more resentful men these days because of modern feminist too.

[@edelweissdebergbaldrian7696]

I was a traditional wife, I did everything and nothing was good enough. Then he decided he wanted me to go, and he forced me out of my house (yes he was cheating and all the rest). I had to go back to college at 47 with a kid in highschool and live on welfare. Too bad I couldn't get my 23 years back!

[@edelweissdebergbaldrian7696]

​@@DgardsGamingNo, this is not an exception! A woman is very lucky if she can find an honest reliable husband. I know there are terrible women also. The thing is I've realized I've never met a nice honest man. They were all liars, thieves, and Con Artists.

[@lizs991]

There has always been men who behave like your husband no matter how good a wife and mother you are.. It's an unfortunate situation now for most women because now they are expected to financially contribute to the household income and it's more difficult to get the father to maintain their own children now... It maybe that "modern feminism" has just gone to far every marriage should be e 50 50 partnership.. I do hope you have a lovely life now as I know how hard it is to bring your children up as a single parent household you should be so proud of yourself..

[@reginakiliba862]

Nowadays days it's hard to find a man that works and wants a family and provide for them. Now days women have no choice but to be independent

[@kittykat334]

I wonder why.

[@4rikoshei7]

You're not wrong!

[@thomasallen5317]

Traditional Men or Women are few and far between.

[@jazshas]

We need to go back to doing what was done back in the day. Women kept their legs closed and men their pants zipped. They married first then had children. 😊

[@aaronhenderson5929]

Women caused this… studies show men have slowly become less and less interested in having to deal with a woman.. marrying one just isn’t worth it now.

[@howdyyall417]

I'm 47 years old. I have always only wanted to do that. I have struggled my entire life alone because the men around me didn't want that. I never had a career goal outside of the house. The men my age still just want a "fun night". They have a much smaller pool of women who can look the way they want and be able to provide for themselves and are still interested in "fun". They don't want a woman everyday.

[@aidomuah]

My husband is the breadwinner of the family. I never worked in my life. He works all day and he provided me with a helper (maid) to help me at home with 3 kids. Now after 20 years married, the kids are all grown up… the kids help me with the chores. I sympathize with my husband as he already work hard all day to ask him to help with the house chores. But he does lend a hand whenever he can & I love his cooking ❤️😊❤️

[@Lynkoto.]

Where are all these men who are looking for a stay at home wife?!?! I live in (unfortunately) southern CA and there are no men out here looking for that type of woman. Most say "we can't afford a house and a family if only one works and the other stays home with the kids. We'renot living in the 1800s" Please point me to the direction where i can find a man who wants a traditional woman. I know how to cook, I love to do laundry, i clean, I'm good with kids, i want a family and i have a good relationship with my parents. I go to church every sunday. Please help, thanks! 🙋‍♀️😂

[@wandaprescott6672]

I Certainly Hope u Wouldn't Trust Someone Off The Internet !! 🤔😬😠 For No Amount of $Money...

[@etytomb9390]

"I live in southern CA" You ain't going to find a man in CA

[@billmoran6957]

Yes, there are. I come across them far and few between but they do exist I am in Los Angeles area

[@sportinlife1]

Real men ain’t looking for that. Like you said we can get further with 2 than with one. Even Beyoncé pulls her own weight. Foh with the stay at home mom. Not unless you working from home.

[@thomasallen5317]

The average income in Cartel Commifornia doesn't equal 25% of the bare minimum cost of living. Can't have traditional Families without traditional Pay.

[@pamelajeter3658]

I have met too many women who did as this man suggests and the marriage fails. No thanks. It is very important to have the ability to support yourself. Period.

[@OwThatHurt46]

Thats because men arent up to snuff anymore, literally worthless

[@SachelleCambria]

Thank you.

[@fayethayer1677]

I’d like to go to college and be able to support myself and then go traditional when married. That way if the marriage doesn’t work out, I’ll at least be able to support myself.

[@retiredby3570]

Cool, now start paying for your own shit

[@CozmicKaos]

There's nothing wrong with wanting to support yourself. But if you do, then you should not expect a man to pay for everything. That's the point he's trying to make. To many women these days want to be able to support themselves AND still expect the man to pay for everything

[@user-hp7dq8zc5t]

When my husband of over 35 years and I were first married, we both worked and rented a one bedroom apartment. At first, we couldn't afford furniture but we had a plan for our future. The best memories I have are when we sat on the floor eating spaghetti by candle light. We both promised to work hard, go to college on grants and scholarships. It was a roller coaster ride of ups and downs. But, it all worked out. Ours was a partnership. We always looked at the big picture and did not sweat the small stuff.

[@octaviaconstance589]

He's exactly right & and it's sad. I will welcome old school love_relationship any day... ❤

[@francesjohnson8205]

I had that but the man I was with, was abusive. He didn't look at me being at home wasnt a job. He put me down all the time, he did this in front of the children.So I left him and ended up making my own money, I made more then him. He ended up working at my job,that he put me down for. All I wanted to be was a stay a home mom.

[@Streetlocksmith]

Nobody cares, the red flags do exist, your fault for ignoring them and staying there even after the first day the abuse started.

[@sandradiaz09]

@@Streetlocksmithwhat’s wrong with you ? It’s call empathy and in end we all have our stories.

[@baconismything3585]

@@Streetlocksmith Tbh you seem like a red flag to me…

[@Mistyfaery]

Ignore ignorant people like the comment above mine. Congratulations on getting yourself out of the situation. And also, sense the point went right over the last commenter head....financial abuse is a very real thing. Some people don't even think they'll be that type of person either until they get that taste of power. Even small doses of power change people too. That's another thing missing from the discussion. Either way, that's the real reason most women don't want to be solely a stay at home mother anymore....our own fathers told us not to rely on men financially. It's almost like they know what men are capable of! 🤔

[@F.O.X.I.E.]

​@@Mistyfaery"even small doses of power change people too" It is so important to know this! Great comment 👏

[@sandieserrano2425]

We have to work....im retired now and found out that social security is based on your income...so women who stay at home, your retirement is very little

[@adamwolsey8589]

social security isn't retirement, that's the problem with people. retirement is retirement, you were never supposed to retire on only SS. it'll be gone in 30 years anyway.

[@DT-abcd]

You must be much younger than retirement age. Next thing you will say people that depend on SSI are lazy.

[@adamwolsey8589]

@@DT-abcd not the same thing, nice try though.

[@sandieserrano2425]

@@DT-abcd in my late 60s

[@sandieserrano2425]

@@adamwolsey8589 I'll be unalive by then

[@mariazilimamcintyrefrancis4765]

So sad and so true ... not all of us love the 9 to 5 , some of us just wanna be the care taker n nurturer of kids , reduces the risk of day care bad treatment.

[@JessicaSmith-kf7qs]

When I stopped working full time and stayed home with my son my marriage got better. We never fought over who did what. Now that my son is older, I will work part time and continue to care for the home, cook meals,drive him to practice, help with homework, etc. There has to be a balance. When I was “Doing it all” I became extremely resentful. My husband works full time and now that I’m part time, that works for us. Find what work for your marriage.

[@twobitsandpepper8235]

Me too, when I was working FT I was cranky at home, completely miserable at work and started drinking a lot. I was up from 4AM to 10PM every day, was always tired, always falling behind on chores, missing or forgetting important dates and events, feeling guilty about paying someone else to raise my child and missing so many precious moments. I recently joined the SAHM "community" and we're all already much happier and less stressed. I even have the time to get up and make coffee and pack lunches, rather than grab mushy breakfast burritos and expensive coffees at the gas station in a rush everyday.

[@oldtimer7779]

Being a good partner means I wouldn't expect her to be up and running from 6am to 10pm, we live together, we all make messes, men need to think about their woman, it's ok to help with bedtime, dishes, cook dinner, raise your family together. It's not ok to work 8 to 5 and put your feet up, that's selfish. I've been happily married for a while.

[@harvey1954]

It's hard to put your feet up when there is snow to be shoveled, lawns to be cut, gutters to be clear, cars to maintained, etc. All the male stuff you crybabies conveniently forget.

[@jeshurunhazelton7789]

That's true n it's also ok for women to work n help pay bills

[@janicefinch3563]

@@jeshurunhazelton7789 It is and statistically more women are helping pay the bills than men are helping with housework.

[@jeshurunhazelton7789]

@@janicefinch3563 not every statistic is truth so maybe take it with a grain of salt

[@jeshurunhazelton7789]

@@janicefinch3563 that's like the statistic that women are more likely to experience violence n assualt by their partners again not accurate since it only takes into account reported abuse n even then not all reported abuse is actually abuse men underreport abuse for many many reasons if men reported as much as women it'd either be the same amount of abuse or more since women are physically weaker they're automatically seen as the victim n women initiate physical abuse more often it's socially acceptable in the west for a woman to slap her man we see this in movies tv shows n it's very accepted but the other way around n the man is seen as a monster

[@RoachesInMyWalls]

Woman here ✋🏻 I want desperately to be a housewife, it’s my dream to find an old fashioned man that will pay the bills while I cook, clean, and take care of the children. In this economy and this country it seems rare to find any of that.

[@tn1340]

You want desperately to be in a situation where you're more likely to experience financial abuse?

[@RoachesInMyWalls]

@@tn1340 it’s a dream to experience what life probably was. Obviously it’s not very realistic in our economy.

[@tn1340]

@@RoachesInMyWalls again, a dream to be financially dependent on someone else and in an unequal marriage?

[@tn1340]

@@RoachesInMyWalls life wasn't a dream back then. It isn't now. Although, with that being said, we are far better off. To think, I would need my husbands permission to open a damn bank account for myself

[@RoachesInMyWalls]

@@tn1340 so you’re judging people for wishing to have a different life style from your own? To be dependent on someone and take care of the house and children isn’t some ‘sin upon Christ’. For some reason you think your wishes for the future apply to every other woman around you

[@jorgru358]

My grandparents shared their work. That was a natural duty to support each other and have a stable family with 4 little kids furing and after the war. It's nothing bad to do the housework together or alone. A very well respected full time job and connected to dayly selfdisziplin. 7 days a week! There are multiple professions bundled together like cleaner, cook, care taker, provider, teacher, fitness instructor, sport mate, psychologist, nursing, logistic, driver, entertainer, artist, clown... and much more.... A common mom and dad. 😊

[@aminabahrami4159]

I do it all. Work, cook, clean, grocery shopping, paying bills, taking care of kids

[@madredetresmocosos9088]

There are plenty of young womwn out there and this is all they want...the problem is the young men are not there who want to work and provide for their family, step up and be a family man, they want a second mother while also looking after their kids, the home and also the finances

[@wegotit2587]

And 80% of these men guilt women into having kids too! It’s always fascinating how the media loves to point out women being the issue for not wanting to have children, but they never address why is that 80% of men want children and why most women do not!

[@soulanstreets222]

@@wegotit2587 It’s natural and it’s worldwide. When females of most mammal species are in an environment that lacks resources, they will not couple up and procreate because the chance of her offspring prospering is low. Women see the writing on the wall and are not willing to sacrifice their self sufficient life for poverty. The biggest indicator of financial security for a woman is who she marries. It’s easy for Candace Owens to turn her nose up at women who don’t want to risk poverty in a time of scarcity when her husband is worth $180 million dollars and can afford to give her and their children the very best of everything life has to offer. …the unmitigated gall of this woman. She is so out of touch with reality it’s not even funny.

[@jeshurunhazelton7789]

It's women who want a second father not men who want a second mother but go off

[@soulanstreets222]

Nah it's men who want to build households and have children and be the boss but don't want to pay the cost to do those things. It's also the men crying about how women are deciding to stay single, have no sex and no babies because tHe EcONoMy@@jeshurunhazelton7789

[@madredetresmocosos9088]

@jeshurunhazelton7789 I agree I works both ways. Some women are looking for a father figure, more men are looking for a mother figure

[@vinetagriffin5819]

But Candace isn’t stay at home, even considering her husbands wealth . Most women would gladly stay at home if needs could be met by one paycheck but unfortunately that’s not always the case .

[@mishiak]

Very valid point.

[@ad8447]

Yes. She can very well be a stay at home mom. Her hubby is a millionaire. She don't have to work.

[@belindadapi9734]

The hypocrisy is wild! Imagine going to work to tell other women to be stay at home mothers. Making millions while telling other women to be dependents.

[@emydemmo2]

​@@belindadapi9734True ! 🎯

[@Foxie770]

She works a few hours in the morning and does virtually all the cooking for her family. She also has staff. If you can afford it, staff is the way to go. That way you can be both impactful in the public sphere and a good wife & mom.

[@AChildofChrist65]

My husband wanted a traditional marriage. . . But I worked just as many and more hours as he did outside the home. But i was still expected tto cook, clean, but groceries, wash clothes, and make him happy. This is an issue!

[@meagan1504]

My husband and I decided to have traditional roles in our marriage, he works and I stay home and am here for our children, I take care of the moneyand make sure the bills are paid, do the shopping and cooking, laundry, most of the cleaning but he helps when he gets home. Its an equal partnership, if I am sick of cooking, he will, if Im sick or tired, he will do the shopping, he will do anything I ask. But I am home more, we raise our children together, we have a simple life.

[@markwillis2655]

Most people can't afford to have only one person in a household working.

[@MissChrys]

Yes. I would love to be home with my children, but ESPECIALLY now (within the last two years), I feel like we need every dollar to make it. I was living my best life when I was part time. My children went to pre k until 1, so I’d work until then, and then pick them up, spend time with them, and cook dinner and clean. My husband would come home to dinner ready. Since they have been in school all day, I work forty hours. Rush rush rush.

[@harvey1954]

That was because women flooded the jobmarket in the 70s. This allowed the rich to stagnate wages in the 70s.

[@rayne_zanders7837]

@@harvey1954bc women got freedoms and were sick of being stuck in terrible marriages. Sure working isn’t fun but it’s important to be financially independent in case something happens.

[@christophergibson3846]

The reason it's unaffordable now, is because millions of women joined the workforce

[@christophergibson3846]

​@rayne_zanders7837 only a small percentage of women were stuck in terrible marriages. Most were happy. More happy than they are now! Just look at divorce rates. Happy women were tricked, it's just more people enslaved by companies because they now can't afford not to work.

[@whitneyturner6258]

I think it comes down to an unhealthy power dynamic. Staying home, raising your kids and taking care of your home is a beautiful thing, until the second you get into a big argument and the man uses it against you that he’s the only one working. It happens ALL the time! Women have to have their own identity and a Plan B before having a family these days. You cannot simply rely on a man. Too many women become stuck and it’s so unfortunate.

[@ADorayme-mi5xk]

TRUTH!

[@tinabenson1492]

Yeah, my daughter is going through this exact situation now! Her husband doesn't even work a regular job with a regular paycheck cuz he just doesn't want ANY regular 9-5 job. He wants tocwork when & however he wants to work. 😕 Yet, she does the housewife/mother traditional whole shebang with 4 kids (youngest a 6 month old breastfeeding baby). He complaines that he makes all the money and she doesn't do anything!!! 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@coogan1000]

Sorry but women complain way more about it as time n time again they over exaggerat making stay at home mom's sound like it's the hardest job on the planet. Every mother I've met through my life are always beating there chest bitching about how there man has the easiest life. If u changed the roles women would still bitch. One thing I've learnt is women absolutely hate accountability n they find anything to always blame the man because women can never do anything wrong. It's disgusting, it's why I haven't spoken to my mother in years because I was told all the time how I destroyed her body n how being a mother is sooooooooooooo hard n bringing up kids is a job/chore. I felt like a burden all the time as a kid as i had to hear this crap all the time. I watch mothers throw plates at their partners because he came home from absolutely back breaking construction work n fell asleep on a chair n how dare he after she cooked over a hot stove for a hour but make it exaggerated to sound like it took all day while taking kids to school all day, doctor appointments all day everyday, sports all day everyday n cleaning all day everyday 24/7. When that's total crap as u sleep, eat n sit down to watch a movie with family. But mothers make it sound like kids never grow up, fathers never do anything ever, doctors appointments somehow are everyday, school is 7 days, kids r there all the time so cleaning is all day everyday n a roast takes all day n needs to be watch 24/7. Really it's a privilege to have kids n it's not a competition but hey accountability is womens kryptonite n it's somehow men's fault n fathers r the laziest creatures alive. I'll love how he breaks his body to pay for absolutely everything comes home n told never to bitch n complain but that's never good enough.

[@danelleschaefer3989]

Very true

[@necro_grin8515]

Women do the same thing if they're the primary financial role. Quit hating on all men, just because a few are a POS.

[@bibaolaitan5189]

I like how ppl are roasting her in the comment section, because the reality is most marriages is the opposite of what this man said. Women work like their husbands and are still expected to do all the work at home. This is actually the commonest scenario.

[@hopee7386]

My husband took care of me and the financial side of our relationship. He never complained about that and always said that if I wanted to work I could but I did not have to because I was his wife and he agreed to love and provide for me the day we were married. We were never blessed with children and I did work but he never allowed me to use what I earned to support us. He said that was extra income that I could do with as I saw fit. He was an exceptional man. I loved him unconditionally until he was killed in an accident in 2017 at 42. Today I feel like I’m living in clown town. It’s not a dream world but a nightmare. People with twisted hateful ideas have destroyed the roles of both men and women. I was never a feminist and I am certainly not one today. There is nothing wrong with a woman staying home because home IS where the heart is.

[@deborahdean8867]

I sure am sorry for your loss.

[@SK-ut6tw]

Candace is a working woman in her 30s. If her husband leaves her and they divorce. She will be fine. She advocates for a lifestyle she has never lived. Older women who lived this life will tell you to make sure you have a safety net. Family and money saved in case he changes his mind one day or becomes disabled or dies. Single mothers that were stay at home mothers are the most likely to become impoverished.

[@emydemmo2]

That makes her a hypocrite.👀

[@gingerjones111]

Exactly. Traditional wives who trusted and relied on their husband to provide are the number 1 most likely to become impoverished.

[@peterwalsh5068]

No, single mothers (like now) without men in the home are likely to become impoverished. Look at all the poverty in estates now, what’s the common theme? Fatherless homes. Well done feminism

[@SK-ut6tw]

@@peterwalsh5068 actually prior to first wave feminism, single mothers were rampant because men either died in war, or abandoned their families. Women were forced to work in factories or wherever they could. Feminism allowed women freedom and rights. Feminism 1st wave was very much needed. It's part why the West was considered a revolutionary place in world history.

[@nattiemania]

Have you ever heard anything about divorce courts? Yes, it's an institution that transfers wealth and fortune from men in the west to women. It's even harsher if the woman is a full housewife and has been out of a job for long to take care of the family. That is where I support alimony. That is why Kevin Samuels always told black women to "Marry before they carry" instead of living reckless lives by feeding into some deluded feminism movement where they end up raising kids that become convicted criminals, and bunch of hoes. That is your legacy, your long-term reward, your long-term, because at the end of the day, children will always favor their mothers in a special way over fathers. But in your case, i really think it's totally different. You are either deluded or just ignorant and chasing some things that will not save you long term.

[@msj793]

Whats rare is a man finding you that wants this “trad wife” and will remain faithful to you past your 30’s and not become abusive and controlling. I see wayyyyyy to many stories of traditional wives being discarded after their 30’s and the man leaving for younger women. The traditional wives not having life skills or finances to care for self and the children. Society is all kinds of messed up when it comes to family.

[@anastasia10017]

I agree. I would love to be a trad wife, but unless I married a billionaire and had a pre nup guaranteeing me millions and a house of my own in case of divorce, I don't think I could ever relax being dependent on a man. My mom was a stay at home housewife all her life and she expected me to be the same. When I think back on her life, being given a monthly household allowance by my dad etc ... I just can't imagine it and it would actually make me feel vulnerable and like I was in danger. But honestly, I would love to be home cooking and organizing our life (instead of my boss' life), baking for the kids and making nice hors d'oeuvres to serve with drinks for when my husband gets home. I even like doing laundry and I find ironing relaxing. I would love it but as I said, I don't think I could trust a man not to leave me up a creek with no paddle.

[@kalsumabegum7834]

True

[@cupcakepatrice8418]

I agree I’ve watched this payout to many times

[@MaryNordquist]

@@anastasia10017 The same occurs with working women. Cheaters aren't new to the human condition.

[@anastasia10017]

​@@MaryNordquist Working women still have a job, some employment skills and a resume. She may not make much money but she is not 100% dependent on her husband and has a life in the external world. A trad wife has none of that.

[@keepitreelcatfishing5883]

That man speaks common sense and logic. Something many modern women lack.

[@carm0924]

It’s rare to find a man that can provide enough without the woman having to work!

[@caelandavidson3059]

Get into a good church and/or school, invest in a good community, actually go out and show up to the kind of events that the men/women you are looking for would show up to. It’s difficult, but in the meantime keep becoming the person that the person you are looking for is looking for!

[@margichambers1819]

Even women in the Church help support their family income. This isn't about women. It's about the economy.

[@simple_naildesigns]

Agree!

[@larissagomes451]

​@@margichambers1819then church men must also do house work, if she have to work then their husbands must take 50% of house work and child care.

[@user-jc6db4io8c]

I think u give good advice. It's at least a good start for Christians to find like-minded partners.

[@jessicamontaperto810]

@@user-jc6db4io8csometimes singles retreats.

[@VNX-dc7wk]

If you honestly believed in this lifestyle Candace you wouldn’t have this channel or be working

[@Tamkat90]

PERIOD. She’s a hypocrite who hates other women (must have some deeply embedded issues with them) and she’s just capitalizing on the red pill bros anger for attention and money.

[@kittykat334]

You are missing her point and bigger picture. Good grief! She IS MARRIED AND HAS A CHILD! She is walking the talk, but airhead feminists won’t see their hands in front of their greedy and selfish faces.

[@viv9482]

My thoughts exactly 😂

[@TheQueenE92]

Thank you!!!! It’s so annoying that the woman advocating for this life style aren’t the ones actually living it! Like I’m sure she doesn’t film this at her home she probably goes INTO a studio to record and in sure her children at at home with a nanny 🤷🏿‍♀️

[@lajinkccat8995]

Yeah, My question to Candace is WTH are you doing out of the house?

[@klmmc]

As always, thank you Candace for your wisdom and honesty!

[@myrnawinters4573]

Simple and peaceful living is living in contentment and gratitude for what you have and what you do not have

[@user-vl8qw8hp1g]

He has a point, to a point. He wants to find a June Cleaver type of woman who stays home and does all the cooking and cleaning and domestic stuff. BUT... what he is failing to recognize is that HE LIVES THERE, TOO. HE should want to shoulder some of the domestic responsibilities if for no other reason than out of respect for everything she does for him and the family. PS I have been married for over 30 years. My husband has been the primary breadwinner for most of our married life, even when I worked full-time. He has always been willing to help around the house. It's called being a good partner.

[@alainap3278]

Amen

[@Paingo94]

I dont believe any man who is wanting a house wife is saying they wont help out at home. Because its our nature as men to provide for women. So providing financial stability or assistance at home... Same thing to me tbh.

[@user-vl8qw8hp1g]

@@Paingo94 not necessarily. It's noble for a man to want to provide for and protect his family. However, when SHE has to vacuum under HIS feet while HE and HIS MACHO MAN buddies are watching the game, his money doesn't mean a whole lot to the little woman.

[@callravik]

women work jobs and also do household work. You don't lose your manhood if you help her with household chores.

[@kermitdafrog8]

That's not what he's arguing. He's saying he's the one working and then also doing the house work and pay.

[@julialostetter8855]

If you live in the house, you should be helping take care of it. If you helped make the kids, you should be taking care of them.

[@kermitdafrog8]

@@julialostetter8855 What was being discussed was the man going off and working for the income to support the family to come home to the woman not being able to do house hold chores or do anything to help the man.

[@julialostetter8855]

@@kermitdafrog8 if the woman is staying home, she should be doing the bulk of the chores. But that doesn't mean the man should act like he's allergic to chores.

[@callravik]

@@kermitdafrog8 that is what I am saying too. Women work jobs and do household work, should they stop doing that because they are paying bills?

[@jennopalis]

I love staying home with my little girl while taking care of our home and cooking meals. My husband works full time and is the breadwinner. I am so blessed that he’s my husband and I know he is thankful for me too. ❤

[@heidikeller50]

A man who went through military training does not expect anyone to clean up after him.

[@twobitsandpepper8235]

He sounds sexy.

[@brandeegray7159]

The way I see it a man works a 12 hr shift, comes home and relaxes, a woman is working taking care if the kids and the home 24/7, no clocking out, no lunch break, no sick days, no holiday, completely understaffed, and then shamed when asking the husband for a little help..

[@davidward2634]

I don’t care either way but a SAHM is less work once the kids go to school, you now have most the day alone for whatever, it wakes a max of 1-2 hours to clean a house, half the women are just lazy, as a man I would take that offer, also little kids nap and everything else

[@edelweissdebergbaldrian7696]

@@davidward2634 So, this is your knowledge of a stay at home Mother?! Life keeps going when the kids go to school. PTA, bake sales, community involvement, carpools, ect... It's a job that never stops, and it isn't easy. There are always high expectations, and a huge lack of appreciation. So, why don't you stay home? Working a job is more of a break than running your butt off twenty four seven. Your lack of awareness is shocking!

[@Youmightknow111]

EXACTLY!!!

[@shawnpitman876]

@@edelweissdebergbaldrian7696 "why don't you stay home?" Because no woman will support a man who stays at home, no matter if he does everything or not. But keep being mad and proving that you're all misandrists these days.

[@aries3744]

​@davidward2634 Then we have to care for our in-laws and our parents due to their old age. Being a caregiver is a constant job, be it to our sons and daughters or the prior generation. And if there's a disability in any of them, the work is 24/7 and may last a lifetime. I say this out of experience and more and more babies are born with different conditions. Husband also expect to have a loving, capable, and productive wife...it's just too much to bear. We are not robots or dolls, there's a limit to what we can achieve and provide.

[@desi021]

Im a stay at home mom and I still expect my husband to help with house stuff and the kids. My “job” starts when he leaves for work but once home. The house stuff and the kids is both of our responsibility

[@racheltodd960]

I agree..this guy doesn't want to help raise his own kids lmao. Total loser

[@Snookscat]

Right. Stay-at-home Moms start by getting up before everyone else, end after everyone else is in bed. Take care of house, kids, pets, errands, cooking, cleaning, appointments, paying bills, you name it, and take care of husband when he’s tired from work and wants pampering once home (and then if he wants romance, regardless of how Mom feels by the end of the day), etc. When do these stay-at-home Moms get a break to do things they find enjoyable and relaxing while husband relaxes from dinnertime to bedtime? Are Dads out looking after the yard, cars, house repairs, with the kids under foot so she has some peace for a while? (Or are they playing video games and watching sports all evening because they worked all day, or “worked harder than she did” so are “more tired”, so “deserve” more rest”. Because you know, to pick up after yourself and occasionally share some of the load at home is “unfair”.). My parents both worked outside the home, and then Mom worked inside, Dad worked outside. My Dad never stopped except to eat dinner and watch the news before bed, went out twice a week after work. Mom was my chauffeur and chaperone if I had an activity. In-laws both worked (Mom in law usually part time), and she did most inside the house. They took care of the outside & gardened together. One year Dad bought Mom a better snow shovel for Christmas, lol. Really? In any case…Mom had her activity (that Dad joined because he wanted to do it with her), and they both went for a potluck and dance together once or twice a month at the community hall. One guess as to whose marriage worked out the best. Work together at home, each spend time with the kids individually, do chores as a family, and then you may be able to make some time to relax and/or do FUN things as a family, rather than one person stopping and the other expected to be the energizer bunny for 18 hours a day.

[@TheMadNation]

Oh stop acting like you work all day. Yeah sure its harder while kids are young. We are 3 men in the family, three incomes. My mother gets up at 9am makes breakfast, does some cleaning until 12 am, and then until dinner she either watches turkish series, or goes out. Comes home, makes dinner, and does whatever she wants until 11pm. So lets stop pretending like staying at home is a 24/7 job, yeah rarely it is, but most of the time, you are your own boss.

[@racheltodd960]

@TheMadNation once kids are in school and you have all day to yourself it's a life of luxury imo. When you spend all day with babies/toddlers it's very difficult.

[@TheMadNation]

@@racheltodd960 So? You suffer before and enjoy it later, so to speak. Even though its wrong to call caring about children a suffering, when its a blessing. But thats how the life works. Work hard and suffer early and enjoy it later.

[@67laquaa]

I find most often, that men expect a woman to take on that traditional role AND have a full-time job to contribute to the household. Many men now think that a woman is lazy if she wants to be a stay-at-home mom and a homemaker.

[@sa-eedadaniels6853]

I am a 41 year old stay at home mother of 5. Married for 20 years. Eldest 18, youngest is 5. My husband sees to everything financial, and i do everythjng else. He has children that people RAVE about. So kind, respectful, well mannered. The list goes on and on. Thatbis work that i have put in. Not everyone can stay at home due to financial constraints. But i am seen as someone who doesnt contribute to my household, and less than because i dont earn an income - Mostly by other women. We lost 2 before our 18 year old was born and my husband asked me to stay home and look after his child. 🤷‍♀️ I quit my job, and became a home maker. And im pretty darn good at it!

[@cheekfinesser]

What sucks is that I actually know men who do absolutely nothing and their wives work, pay the bills, take care of the children and everything. My sister is married to one of those men and it hurts me to see her work herself to the bone like that and seeing she isn’t happy

[@jamesyoung187]

There are husbands and fathers who do everything while the "wife" does literally nothing, and with holds sex. Yet this is somehow 'not as bad'?

[@RudesMom]

@@jamesyoung187The are both bad. Marriage is a partnership. If only person brings in the income, the bulk of the home (and kids) should fall on the shoulders of the other partner. If both work, then both share the cooking, cleaning, kids, etc.

[@staycool163]

But she is enabling him to be that way! What she needs to do is put her foot down, grow a backbone, and say enough is enough! Unless of course she enjoys being trampled on 🤷

[@JoeMACofNAC]

Thank you for your straw man retorts

[@Micahsophia]

She picked wrong unfortunately

[@familyunity70]

Wait a minute here. Women are not fully responsible for the home. It takes two people to maintain it. It’s unrealistic to expect that the moment a man steps in the home he can’t move a limb to help with home stuff and child responsibilities. I stay home and I do most of the home responsibilities but my husband also washes dishes if he sees dishes, read bed time stories, helps me put kids to sleep, changes diapers, helps me care for his children, and helps when I ask him. It’s a marriage, it’s teamwork. A man can’t just simply kick his boots off, sit on the recliner, drink a couple cold beers or play video games, flip through the channels, be served, and not interact with his children or help around the house with some stuff. I wife doesn’t just stay home and watches Netflix all day and gets spa treatment all damn day. Being a stay at home wife is a lot of work! It’s 2 full time jobs, your on call all the time, and you work grave yard shifts when you have small children too. Both work full time, both contribute to the home. If homemaker were paid yearly, they’d make approximately 120,000+ a year. Don’t underestimate stay at home mother or homemaker.

[@brendanpelly213]

Damn straight 👍

[@brendanpelly213]

Damn straight 👍

[@jesse4550]

That’s only true till the kids are in school full time. After that you literally have hours everyday to just sit around and do nothing.

[@familyunity70]

@@jesse4550 I don’t because I homeschool my children too. I don’t send them to public school and I cook everything from home. On top of all that, I also wake up super early to head to the gym for two hours and taking kids to extra curricular activities. I’m busy all day.

[@emydemmo2]

Well said. God bless your family 🫶

[@chocolate4135]

not every woman has the privilege to stay at home to take care of kids. i had to work, take care of my kids snd take care of the house too. i stayed single so i could raise me kids right and they turned out pretty good 🙂

[@twobitsandpepper8235]

Sometimes it's easier as a single mom, no man-child to clean up after too. And none of his debt for fancy toys he had to have...

[@leonwilliams3221]

My wife is angel… literally loves doing all the traditional things she tells me it gives her satisfaction seeing me and our daughter happy, which knowing she’s happy makes me happy and why I don’t mind taking her to nice places and giving her nice things.

[@pandabear5221]

The comment section is alarming. The problem here is God designed marriage and he designed it to be a certain way and we refuse to accept His design. The man and woman need to first put God at the center of their lives, make Him Lord of their lives. That is first, then each will behave according to HIS will morally. These failed marriages have to do with abuse and infidelity, just two of the things God never intended for marriage. These women complaining, you chose the "wrong" man. We must seek God for the right partner, when we don’t...everything is a possible outcome. Everything unpleasant.

[@simple_naildesigns]

Amen!

[@pandabear5221]

@LemonPepperOnEverything God didn't do that. Humans are sinful, rebellious, disobedient to God's Word and will. He says go right, we go left because we see something that makes us feel special or warm. Men AND women don't care about doing what God says. We have free will and by golly we will use it until the wheels fall off...to please our selfish desires. Choices, every second of the day we make choices that will either make us or break us. It's all on us, God doesn't force us, direct us, encourage us etc to do "wrong" we do that all by ourselves...then blame Him for the misery that ensues. Typical human.

[@kaybeekal]

The comment section is always alarming!! Scary times!

[@pandabear5221]

@LemonPepperOnEverything He didn't, that's typical of us humans. We always blame God when WE chose to go against His Will.

[@deborahdean8867]

​@@LemonPepperOnEverythingpoliticians designed the men of today. That is, if you're CERTAIN you really ARE a man. They get kids questioning that in grammar school today. It certainly isnt God's instruction that has lead to irresponsible co fisted men ( and women) , it's clearly the reconstruction of social morals by politicians and their subsequent political policies.

[@ROSIE78925]

Housewives are normal in India.

[@sarahjane4908]

So is poverty

[@ROSIE78925]

@@sarahjane4908 India is diverse in every aspect you know

[@deborahdean8867]

​@@sarahjane4908you can be sure, in India it's not the impoverished woman staying home all day.

[@elizabethbogert4730]

I wish I knew everything else she said! I’m a stay at home mom and love it! Cook and clean and homeschool, I love this role I’ve been given ❤ so blessed

[@longshankdrills8799]

100 % truth brother. They want their cake and they want to eat it too. Their money is their money. And your money is OUR money. Nope !!!!

[@janicefinch3563]

You can say with men. They want women to contribute to the household, but also want them to do the housework.

[@twobitsandpepper8235]

@@janicefinch3563 If the woman is doing all of the housework, then she shouldn't have to pay all the bills too. Modern men are selfish.

[@ClickyPen0101]

Women have a choice now. That's why Candace, a married mother of 3 children, can choose to work outside the home instead of being a housewife who home schools her offspring.

[@darkfatekod3962]

They've ALWAYS had choice.

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

women have had that choice for DECADES. what are you talking about?

[@MgtowFreightTrain]

Yeah that's called feminism. Candice is a feminist and what she did to Crowder was despicable

[@JamenLS]

That's not the point. He's saying they expect men to help with traditional female gender roles while being a traditional man. Women don't want to do anything at home anymore. Once they got choice, they decided to become less attractive and less valuable

[@ClaireGreen-wd2gm]

​@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kpOh whole ass decades after uncountable thousands of years of not having choice

[@keekers]

Yeah. Even when the women works, a lot of men expect her to do all of the housework and take care of the children too.

[@motherearth5462]

If i could have stayed home and raised my babies, I would have. My husband expected me to work (1ft job and 2 part time), pay ALL the bills, raise the kids, do all cooking and cleaning, bathing kids, homework help, shopping, all yard keep up and fix the vehicles when they broke down. I wasn't even allowed to park in the driveway. A 6 car driveway!!! His money was his money. My kids are grown, I'm exhausted...I got sick and can't work anymore. He called me lazy and bitched me out telling me I'm now living off of him...Packed my things n moved out. Now I can park in the driveway!!!!

[@sandieserrano2425]

And my grandmother was a farm wife and worked all day long feeding the animals and cooking...

[@sarahjane4908]

My grandmother worked full time once all her children were in school. Starting around age 40 she was a working mom of 7 kids. This guy doesn’t know what he’s talking about.

[@DT-abcd]

Main thing it's too expensive for the middle class and poor. People forget this is not 50 years ago

[@lajinkccat8995]

Politicians and corporations are doing their part to shrink the middle class these days .Its not the build up that occurred after the war.

[@1lthrnk]

I knew 3 guys I worked with, when their wifves fist got pregnant they would quit their jobs. He worked a lot and she raised the children. These families had 8-14 children and they wouldn’t take assistance from the government. This was their religious beliefs and I respected that about them

[@realtortiffytom]

I am a woman who is a stay at home full time homeschooling mom of two boys (not sharing custody) who is passionate about my design as a woman and mom raising boys old fashioned and God fearing. I can so relate to the way he feels on the opposite side because when I am out, I don’t run into men who are offering help lifting heavy things at the grocery store, opening doors, complimenting attire, wanting to lend a hand. I do run into it some but it’s rare. I’ve asked men about it and they say they’ve been rejected or told off but a man is designed to lead so don’t allow others to influence who you are and how you behave. Either it’s right or it’s wrong. Same for females who are old fashioned and want to nurture and support the husband, children and home… you don’t stop being who you are just because the majority are feminists now and most men aren’t behaving as leaders now.

[@redone3302]

The fact that social media has people generalizing as "women are this" or "men do that", thats whats disgusting. Candace Owens loves her self righteous soapbox but shes as much to blame for the dumbing down and warping of the minds of "men" and "women". The most interesting and worth while people are still here, we just don't have social media accounts!

[@anastasia10017]

there always were roles set for men and women. it was a way of organizing life. it only now that women are expected to do men's responsibilities and live like men and now men are criticized for not doing housework. My mother had very distinct ideas what was a woman's job and what was a man's job -- women took care of the kids and cleaned the kitchen. Men cleaned the gutters, took out the garbage and fixed the roof. Checking the house door locks and windows at night was very definitely a man's job and my mom would get very upset if she had to do it.

[@bateriesnotincluded4128]

@@anastasia10017Most wives have to pick up a job these days so if both are working both need to help around the house. Id absolutely adore being a housewife, but I wasn’t dealt those cards so compromises have to made. Balance is key.

[@geegee_509]

You forgot to mention that she also works. Candace has constant sponsorship and a plethora of business ventures. She has a nanny, an assistant and I’m sure even someone to clean her house. I just can’t take her serious when she touches on this subject because she is by definition a “boss babe”

[@emydemmo2]

​@@geegee_509Looks like she's being a hypocrite. She's talking sh!t for views and clout.💀

[@bateriesnotincluded4128]

@@geegee_509 Happy someone said it!

[@leahhogan9008]

I run my own business, cook, clean and love / mother my child. My husband and I split chores and do what needs to be done.

[@user-rm2my8ew8h]

My wife has been working overnights. The past year and she misses being a stay at home, taking care of the home The thing is she had to get a job because I was very sick and the verge of dying. God bless her.

[@mariabennett4624]

There are woman who want to do that but men today want her to work at home cook clean and go to work and pay half the bills too. Oh hell no.

[@pricelessprincess001]

It’s a MYTH women wanted to be stay at home wives when most DIDNT HAVE A CHOICE and if you EVER spoke with those women, you would know many HATED their lives and wish they could pursued their passions in life.

[@Mistyfaery]

Exactly. It's a fallacy to say someone that had no choice in the literal sense, legally, WANTED to do those things. Also the irony in her making her own money with this very podcast instead of being a stay at home is hilarious. Does she not see her own hypocrisy? Also choices. People need to stop trying to force feed their own ideologies onto others.

[@DT-abcd]

How many times have you destroyed men's lives?

[@ADorayme-mi5xk]

Truth! We can watch old black and white movies to catch a glimpse of the real June Beaver lifestyle. Better be in high heels with a tiny waist and rub your man's feet as soon as he gets home, and don't expect to run the money, drive a car or ask him where hes been all day. Lol All these women talking about the good Ole days have no clue.

[@melissasavage5996]

I notice in those black and white films men were always smacking women. Now days let a woman hit a man first and the first thing a man will say is you wanted equal rights you got it! But before women had right rights men were still hitting them

[@nayjavu]

Lol are you serious? Soooooo many women literally wanted to do those things in exchange for not working. Lol MANY.

[@sherienichol1580]

It’s rare to find a man to just simply respect you as a human and as a woman. We are independent and living peacefully. A man will have a beautiful loving woman and dog her completely out! That’s why we choose the single happy life! It’s not worth it anymore.

[@Youmightknow111]

Very true.

[@ladylarson12]

Thank you 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@ellsworth1984]

Mary a woman from overseas I did and that was almost 25 years ago. And it's been wonderful. 😅😅😅😊😊😊

[@earnyourimmortality]

The grandma sitting on the porch to greet her children & grandchildren during family reunions & gatherings is becoming a thing of the past. Truly sad 😔

[@Zabeth1313]

Some women went to work to save to escape their crazee husband🤣😡

[@Usapatriette]

Women today prefer to focus on their career/job rather than on their husband if they even have a husband. Sad how feminist indoctrination has hurt women and the culture in general.

[@chloewst9458]

I had a pregnant manager when I was a kid still working at BK when I asked her why BK manager she told me "I was bored so this is what I'm doing till I pop" 😂😂😂

[@francheskashope2669]

Some merit. There's also a short supply of men. Thank God He gave me mine but it took a long time. There's a lack on both sides, it's not just the women.

[@ghostring3624]

“Her money is her money. His money is OUR money.”

[@user-pj6rs1gp2l]

As I’m getting a little older, I’m noticing more subtle nuances in work and social settings- it’s more complicated than that. I began cooking at a young age and was expected to help out around the house- yes, these are important skills and habits, but we need to really learn how to fill in the blanks and short comings of one another, in any relationship. Roles can be done by anyone, priorities shift and we all have goals we wanna reach. Not everyone wants kids. Partnership and lifting weight off one another as we navigate life is the way to go imo. Attitudes like selfishness and greed really need to fade in personal relationships.

[@marysolnarvaez5743]

Maybe it’s because the way Men treat their women, making them feel unsecured of their future. Women feel the need to make their own money to secure the future for themselves.

[@OneVoiceMore]

LOLOLOLOL...MAybe it's because they're lazy, entitled, combative and insecure IN NATURE. Food for thought. You may have to nibble at first.

[@SachelleCambria]

Exactly.