This Is Us S05 E02 Clip | 'Randall Calls Out Kate Over Black Lives Matter' | Rotten Tomatoes TV

[@dana-theaeor1080]

“I hate seeing you upset and normally I would hug you and I would tell you that you did all the right things. I would try to make it all okay for you. But if I did that Kate, if I made things better for you, then where does that leave me? I’m sorry but I can’t do that. That has been my pattern all my life and honestly Kate, it is exhausting. I’m exhausted.” I didn’t realize it was my pattern too until I heard it. Damn. I’m exhausted too.

[@christophernewton8531]

Felt this spirtually my shoes, dreads, basketball shorts, fan in my room, and chain wallet that jingles are exhausted

[@ghostfresh22]

Never have I rolled my eyes harder than when I read this B.S comment 🙄🤣

[@222222ania]

I love the person Randall is but let's be honest: he loves to be a martyr.

[@BroJo676]

​@@222222ania Someone in a family needs to be the emotional wall when everything is falling apart. It generally is the fathers role and after Jack's death, that was the role Randall out of love for his mother and Kate and Kevin. So, write it off as being a martyr if you like but grow a backbone and understand life.

[@rickilynnwolfe8357]

Your exhausting Randall lmao 😂

[@ea7109]

Randell did nothing wrong. He literally told her how he feels. Didn't curse at her or blame her for anything. He told her how he felt!

[@naomibeautymind6226]

I do understand both sides. I just feel like Randall should’ve been vocal about how he felt. People are often unaware about things, that wouldn’t happened to them or are less likely to happen to them I may say. Randall’s feeling are definitely valid and I would be exhausted too. But I still kind of feel like he is putting whatever he and Kevin have going on on Kate. People can’t read minds. That’s something I had to learn as an adult. She didn’t address this issue in 40 years but neither did he. So both did their part I feel like. I understand I must have been extremely difficult for Randall to address, but just like Kate he had 40 years to do so.

[@yevgeniyaleshchenko849]

Yes, good point!👌

[@hananea.7049]

I agree with 100%. Its easy giving others the blame, but you always speak up about ANYTHING. Because if you don't, people wont know.

[@debbiep99]

As a black woman who has done the same thing he has in trying to keep the peace he went about it the absolute correct way in my opinion.

[@missmiou6273]

thank for your comment ,I was about to say the same thing, people cannot read mind , nobody can be expected to understand what you're going true if you don't say it and I think that it is what family is for , to say whatever you feel and know that you will not be rejected

[@theartistformerlyknownasth8612]

but you learned that as an adult, not as a child and randall is talking about when he was a child

[@belovedsunset]

This was a really great scene he honest about his feels. And Stop trying to make everything better for everyone else but himself.

[@eouveluz]

I COMPLETELY understand what Randall is talking about. I have a LOT of white friends here in Brazil. Some of them, years and years of friendship. I did my final paper at university on racial issues and been talking about it on my blog since 2015 and in my Instagram profile since january, last year. Two weeks BEFORE George Floyd we had in Brazil a 14 year old kid INSIDE his house and a 22y old guy WORKING on the street both murdered by the police. A week after George Floyd we had two more episodes that made through the news. But a lot of my white friends only paid attention in what I was saying AFTER George Floyd. People started to invite me to talk in places. I mean... why just now? What changed? It's the hashtags? The viralization? I think it's a good thing that a lot of white people started paying attention and listen. The thing is, when things like this happen, us black people... WE FEEL it. And beyond feeling it, we have to talk about it cuz people start to send me the videos, the news and ask me about it and all I wanna do is cry at my room. It IS exhausting. So... I love this friends of mine, but my wish is to say to them what Randall told Kate. This scene got me emotional because it hits home.

[@SimV239]

In a family dynamic, when there’s so much love , most don’t want to talk about the difficult topics.. for example, the scene where Kate confronts her mom at the bar, where Kate just sang, but didn’t want her mom around, to see her sing.. she always felt inadequate in front of her mom, because her mom, in the process of making Kate feel her best.. forgot to ask her, how Kate really feels! it’s not like, it doesn’t cross their mind, it’s just, they become protective & want the other person on the edge, to be loved so much, they just believe love heals everything..! In this situation, you can’t really blame anyone..! Some just don’t know what to say & if it can be even said & how it’ll be taken & the consequences of it.. they may not want to lose a great friend they had all these years..

[@ester186]

Exactly ! I’m Brazilian too and I experienced the same

[@eouveluz]

@@SimV239 I agree, it's not about blaming anyone because it's not about blame. It's about respecting the feeling and the time people need to process things. And in the case of racism, it has to do with social responsability and sensibility too.

[@eouveluz]

@@ester186 pois éee!!!

[@rosalima7861]

Is this suppose to make me sympatize with Randall ? I am a black woman and this is wrong on so many levels. People process things differently. If your not VOCAL about your feelings, how can anyone really get to know you ? This is what ruins friendships.. marriages.. etc. Open your mouth and say how you feel EARLY. Kate can't apologize for something she has no clue how to process.

[@mesinjana]

True.. I think they just wanted to address this issue and say these things through Randall. I believe there were better ways to do so than showing him lashing at his sister on something that's not under her control.

[@rosalima7861]

@@mesinjana Very true. I agree.

[@marcuscross8051]

She's trying to reach out to him and comfort him, and he pushes her away. It's a damn shame he let what was going on elsewhere affect his relationship with his sister. She's not responsible for all the times black people have been mistreated, so why give her that cross to bear? It's only going to make her less likely to want to talk about this issue with him in future, which is the exact opposite of what should happen.

[@theartistformerlyknownasth8612]

i sympathize with randall, not everyone is good at self advocacy, especially randall, he internalizes everything and never asks for help until he has a breakdown. this season is about randalls growth and learning how to advocare for ones self. all youre doing is taking lesson you learned as an adult and trying to say that all kids shouldve known that all along

[@theartistformerlyknownasth8612]

@@marcuscross8051 but she is ONLY reaching out because of george floyd, not because shes truly concerned for randalls safety. this is meant to be a message for racial allies in the real world, only caring about it wehen its front page news does not an ally make and that was randalld point

[@Sacrificallamba]

This scene is more than Randall is right or Kate is right. It's how both of them are human. Both Kate and Randall don't "look the part" to the boomers or the oppressive people. Kate is struggling and it is seen of and talked of. Randall's struggle is far more complex yet not spoken of. Randall shouldn't have the need to speak. It is obvious but often not noted. It is often difficult to realize someone in the family is struggling, and Kate didn't realize it in 40 years. This scene is a symbol, that we, as a society, have failed to recognize the sufferings of the minorities, especially black people. Randal just did his best to voice his thoughts. Kate tried her best to help. But, both lack more skills and time. This scene is a reflection of a lot of real-life relationships, where one is a minority and the other is not, and how even though there is a lot of love but they don't know how to express and cope with what they are feeling.

[@moveslikeninja1]

Yeah I agree with you on this I dont think either are really in the right or wrong.

[@nafisachowdhury26]

The truth hurts sometimes. Randall's truth hurts him. It's fair for him to share that hurt with his sister. I don't think Randall was trying to guilt Kate out but he was trying to hold her responsible for her words.

[@jennadrouillard9553]

Love them BOTH! It’s a beautiful and painfully honest conversation that the entire world should be having... this is how we heal and come together.

[@Noesus]

I think Randalls frustration about it, is that he feels like people only care if it makes big news.

[@BroJo676]

Yes and people only care about this type of issues to make them fêlé better about themselves and point fingers at other people for their racism.

[@kathyhuse9743]

Been thinking about all the times Randall has had race issues/discrimination. There have been a lot. 1. The 1st pool episode. 2. The way Rebecca's mom treated Randall. 3. When Randall was going to take the white, red headed girl (now it sounds like Charlie Brown) to the prom and her father wouldn't let her go. 4. The way Randall's former company treated him when William died. 5. The episode where Randall and Jack bonded at the karate dijo. 6. Randall and the teacher at his special school. 7. The 1st adoption judge for Baby Randall. So many others. Now George Floyd. He's experienced a lot. Maybe he'll use some of these issues ij his political career. You know he's gonna go further than just Philly city council

[@kylovesart]

He's valid in how he's feeling but this wasn't fair the way he went about it.

[@mariamshah338]

I agree

[@entertainer_ev2747]

Ik im a week late but THANK YOU

[@debbiep99]

He's kept it in for so long. He couldn't do it any longer. He was completely justified

[@mariamshah338]

@@debbiep99 he was justified but he shouldn’t have went about it like that. it’s not either of them’s fault the position they were placed in.

[@debbiep99]

@@mariamshah338 went on how? He was very calm and was very clear on how he felt. These comments are unbelievable trying to dictate how a black man should express himself.

[@quinnmorgendorffer8435]

Kate is trying to understand, that is a step. She was a kid and she didn't know how. I understand he can't cater to her to feel better yet he can reach out later and say this would help to involved or this is how i feel. Kate has had her own deep struggles beyond weight, rejection and pressure from Rebecca who loved Randall most. She has dealt pure self hate and she has a sweet heart. Her small sad "I love you"...was all she had to offer him when she was uncertain of what to do. So she offered Randall love, that is pure and more than some siblings give.

[@asifrahman60]

True.

[@BroJo676]

In childhood and her teenage years she was a kid, but in early and mor ematiren adulthood she wasn't and had to wait 40 years for her to start caring about Randall's feelings a sa black person. You've got to be kidding, right?

[@debbiep99]

Randall was completely justified in this scene. He speaks the truth of a lot of black people. We're exhausted.

[@amandaf.6564]

@Sophie Hart When you're black it doenst matter how rich you are. Racism doesn't see that.

[@skywillfindyou]

From what? Making crimes, not following officers orders and forcing them to use force on you?

[@4tk37]

@@skywillfindyou sigh..

[@keziahmwangi9920]

I didn't think it was fair for Randall to load this over Kate.She's been a good sister.

[@SuperAbid0001]

He’s not saying she hasn’t been. He’s not just there to make her feel better tho

[@yevgeniyaleshchenko849]

@@SuperAbid0001 Noone asked him to make her or anyone feel better though

[@sibanipanigrahy5509]

@@yevgeniyaleshchenko849 absolutely agree. kate has been a real good sister. Randall's feelings are absolutely valid. i cannot imagine what it must hav Been like for him. but kate cud not hav any idea bcoz she was a kid amd had so many issues of her own. he cud hav been more vocal about his issues and gotten help. i say this AS a randall. i keep everything inside amd it comes out like this. again i know he did not hav to validate Kate's feelings or made his issues smaller to make kate feel good. but honestly, this was a little too rude

[@2012GodIlove]

@@sibanipanigrahy5509 he’s the outsider in this show. They should’ve made more of effort than him. I am saying this as an ESL teacher. My students come from all over the world, but it is up to me to make them feel like they belong, like their culture matters. In an earlier season, Jack told Randall “ when I look at you I don’t see color.” Randall replies then, “ you don’t see me dad.”Because Randall is an outsider in a sense they should have tried to talk to him when issues like this arose. I was raised in and still belong to a mixed church and I feel exhausted. Exhausted from sparing my counterparts of the feelings towards racial injustice, exhausted from hiding my irritation that 9:00 minute video had to ignite disgust and anger from them, exhausted of excuses given to policemen. So I get how Randall feels, why should he have to explain his feelings. His siblings never had to explain theirs to him. He knew it would make them uncomfortable so he hid it.

[@debbiep99]

He was speaking his truth. Was he supposed to do what he's always done and be quiet about it to make her feel better about herself?

[@NewfieFedora2]

I think this a very honest scene.

[@RC-gd7nt]

I didnt expect to be this moved by this clip. Thank you for sharing x

[@NYD666]

Yeah, I'd be exhausted if I had to be randall too

[@jehustrachan6015]

I love the fact that he finally expressed himself. But his anger was at the wrong person. Yes I get that he didn’t want them to worry BUT THEY ARE HIS FAMILY 40 years. As an adult he choose not to express himself earlier. He waited until the country was on fire to lash out at his family? Wmf Rebecca and Jack protected him from racism the best the could. Also are we forgetting how he treated Jack in that episode when he had the black male teacher? Smft

[@rickilynnwolfe8357]

Randall pulls the black and white card out thro the whole damn series . Why is it a black and white thing thro the whole series ? Enough already think he would have been better off raised by his real father and maybe he wouldn’t have wined so much thro the whole series ! love has no color I do believe he is a Martye !!!!

[@BroJo676]

Girl, shut up.

[@sandrameesala6804]

That was fair of him to say. We all have to navigate these conversations during these times and its okay if the victims dictate the terms of it

[@salmanghori7181]

This is why Randall is my least fav of the big 3. He knows his way around words, a little too well, and he uses it to the best of his abilities, but sometimes he ends up hurting people, and being so wrong. You lived in the same house, right? Then why didn't you go and tell her how you really felt? She was a kid just like you. Was she supposed to just guess? Anyway, love Kevin, love Kate.

[@toricole7212]

He isn’t my least favorite, but I felt like this sene shouldn’t have been for him and Kate. Randell lived a good life with his parents and siblings. He has been successful in his school and work because he had support. Rebecca did a lot as a mother to make sure Randell felt loved, connected with other black people, and even kicked her own mother out when her mother was showing favoritism and racism. So with all that support and success because he lived is loving home (not a white home, any household can have a loving and supportive home; like Rebecca & Jack and Randell & Beth both provided for there families). if any of this “needed” to be addressed in this tv show, I’m surprised they didn’t use Deja. She grew up rough for most of her life (and may have seen a lot of things) and is still young enough to not understand how the world works. If she blamed the entire white race and police officers for her and other black people’s problems,that would make more sense, but for how successful and loved Randell is, it felt off.

[@anthonyanderson9303]

​@toricole7212 the point in using Randall is no matter how rich or successful he is, no matter how good of a home he had, he still was a black man in America and had to deal with everything that comes with that.

[@andreatwolfpack]

As a black man what tf do she gotta apologize for? Mind you I don’t like her character at alllll but the huge problem is people don’t realize that we are all just people. Blaming her for others actions are wild (yes I understand the why) this mindset is what started everything to begin with. Also Thinking other people are responsible for the sins of others.

[@estarshiru7321]

God this show!!! I sob every scene

[@lindaindallas3356]

Randall is finding his voice, which is good, but he is blaming everyone else for his own choices. He is no better than when Kevin lashed out at the family at therapy.

[@devworlddaily]

What choices has he made that he is blaming others for?

[@II-gg5my]

He isnt blaming anyone. And please dont compare him with Kevin.

[@alittlebirdysaid]

@@II-gg5my The show is very explicitly comparing him with Kevin, it's a fair talking point.

[@ebonyjefferson4697]

I’m so proud of Randall for finally speaking up.

[@savannastreet7]

He’s lashing out at the wrong person. They adopted him, took care of him, he’s his mom’s favourite child, went to the best school. And this is how he treats them in the end? There should be a civilised discussion with his family. About them failing to bring up this topic. It’s not a crime what they did. Its ignorance. His anger should be towards someone else. Not his family who’ve been there through thick n thin.

[@ebonyjefferson4697]

@@savannastreet7 He’s not lashing out at Kate. He’s holding her responsible for her actions or lack there of. He’s finally expressing his feelings which he has never done because he WAS grateful and didn’t want them to feel uncomfortable. He put their comfort above his own but he’s choosing not to do that anymore. That burden is no longer his to bare. Kate needs to deal with her own guilt, Randall was just speaking his truth!!!

[@brittanybarba2234]

@@savannastreet7 he didn’t lash out! He was so calm and collected

[@savannastreet7]

@@brittanybarba2234 lol he wasn’t. He was just mean and arrogant. Those guys literally loved him more than their biological kids and this is how you react lol. Honestly the recent episode dealt with racism in a much much better way.

[@BroJo676]

​@@savannastreet7 loved him more than their biological kids. Randall was grateful and always strive to make everything easier for his parents because he didn't want to be the ungrateful adoptee. Not hard to understand though.

[@anafula1963]

Randall on a roll

[@thickymcghee7681]

Randall plays a great victim here. He is mad his family never talked about it, but he never brought it up, because he didn't want to make them feel bad. Well which one is it bud? Can't have your cake and eat it too. Choose one! LOL!

[@4tk37]

shut up

[@BroJo676]

His family could’ve tried to stand up for him, knowing he was the odd man out in this whole story.

[@faithjasmine4565]

I love the way he speaks

[@joelhochhalter638]

I see both sides, but I thought Randall was being a bit harsh, I think Kate was sincere when she apologized and wanted to acknowledge the stuff going on in the world against black people, but Randall didn’t see it the apology, and when he said she’s never apologized before, at least she’s apologizing now

[@devworlddaily]

Beautiful scene Randalls storyline is so painful Both actors acted from a place thats real Its amazing how when the topic or racism comes up without even seeing the person who has made the comment you just know that the comment has come from a white person

[@80bbygrl]

Why does this show need to be so DEI? OMG 😮😂

[@donnageorge8830]

I get his emotions and emotional state but as someone who was similar but he needs to own up to a few things in this episode and GROW. It 1. Nobody said he needed to make them feel better that was his choice. 2. We can blame those around us for our emotional state but it does not make us any healthier or improve our emotional mindset. Especially if we are complicit in keeping quiet. 3. Us that are passive aggressive both will say the wrong thing unintentionally. 4.THIS will lead to us looking for others to blame. 5. We sometimes can use our emotions to seek empathy before we own up to our own issues AND self inflicting behaviours that cause pain. They BOTH need to grow from this and be better. Randall needs to first see his faults before that growth can happen. Just my 2 CENTS. PEACE LOVE JOY

[@BroJo676]

All the things you say about Randall cna basically be said to Kate as well. She's the even more emotionally immature sibling on this one and instead of listening to him, she burst into tears first. Socially, we are conditioned to express empathy for someone who starts crying, regardless of whether they're right or not. And him holding her accountable for it is rightful and normal.

[@amritmanak348]

I think he should he blame his parents instead for not educating Kate and Kevin but nonetheless his feeling are completely right and valid

[@janthrasher8879]

I think he should blame his drug addicted biological parents!

[@kylovesart]

@@janthrasher8879 for what exactly? for realizing that they weren't equipped to raise a baby and surrendering him to people who could help? Or for his adoptive family making mistakes and not handling race properly?

[@tymekpro16]

He is grown man and it is a little to late to act like "buh huh You didn't spoke with me about my race" except that they did. They even speak with him with subtle racism that his grandmother was doing. Also saying that he comfort everybody but he needs to look at himself. Dude, all he did all seasons was looking at himself. Even saying that Kevin was selfish is just terrible because he was the one that helped him with second breakdown (even his own wife didn't get that something was wrong), Kevin helped with anxiety attack, he helped him with Beth, and who Randall called when he had breakdown with the Bulgral, exactly- Kevin. He is the most selfish person in this show so I want to ask when will he start looking for someone other than himself?

[@Ice-tc5vn]

@@kylovesart Yes, he's adoptive family are scumbags for taking him in and loving him as if he was one of their own.

[@missimtrying]

To the people saying that Randall should've just spoken up and told them, you are wrong. Sorry to say. It is not on the person of colour to create a safe space for white people to deal with racism. Ya'll are saying he's had 40 years to speak up. She's had 40 years to show up for him. Both are making valid points for their lived experiences. But I'll say it again racism is not on the person of colour to fix, it's on the people who benefit from it.

[@alexhoneybee9677]

I'm black and I didn't know how to feel about this scene. I mean....randall isn't wrong. but neither is kate. she only wanted to be there for him but instead he made her feel bad for it. I don't think I would have handled her that way - we would have just sat down and talked about things. I don't know. but either way - this scene and the whole show was BRILLIANT

[@jennabryan1658]

Kate didnt put her knee on anyones neck and has nothing to apologize for.

[@janderson947]

No but she never acknowledge this UNTIL now he LIVES this and randal is just honest and tired she never asked until now he never wanted them to feel bad so instead he just walked away take care of randal this time hes choosing him..

[@devworlddaily]

Ur white arent you

[@yevgeniyaleshchenko849]

@@devworlddaily You're self-centred, aren't you. Noone diminishes your struggle, stop attacking people and understand what they are saying!

[@yevgeniyaleshchenko849]

@@janderson947 She never acknowledged cause he never shared and cause she can't read minds and understand something she personally never experienced. She was his sister and she didn't "see" his colour (isn't that what you are fighting for), she was just a kid who could not be expected to understand all the nuances

[@janderson947]

@@yevgeniyaleshchenko849 okay and now randall is black is not like it's not noticeable ,just because it want discussed doesnt mean it's not there randall doesnt want to discuss it more its emotionally exhausting hes not the bad guy for not wanting to either kate isn't bad neither is randall

[@vonniehull6992]

I'm very confused on how we are supposed to NOT see color... yet see color and feel guilt over everything. How was the family to treat him as an equal... and yet treat him different due to being a different race. Seems impossible to accomplish.

[@Ale-is1dk]

No no, Randall is right. Yeah Kate has had issues too but this is Randall’s identity and all his struggles from his whole entire life just because of his skin color

[@yevgeniyaleshchenko849]

This is not Kate's fault though. She doesn't pin her weight issues on him, for example...

[@miriamsnowbell9572]

Kate, what a decent person. Randal , what is wrong with him.

[@janderson947]

Sigh nothing,randall is focusing on RANDALL FOR ONCE that's all he told her he loved her but he's always taking care of everyone else Rebekah and hes tired and he never wanted them to be offended that's why he never bought it up even though he wanted to when randal came home from that dance miguel even had an idea but Rebekah didnt but he knows that he'll just end up consulting kate for her guilt and then he has no energy to to so hes going home with his family who will understand he loves kate but he doesnt have to explain anything to his family and that's why hes going home to spend time with them...

[@Loladee19]

Absolutely nothing !

[@patrisimartin4059]

I get what they were trying... but it's done terribly, it out of place Randall saying that to Kate. This same conversation would have had a lot more sense between Randall and another politician trying to sympathize with him

[@BroJo676]

Why? Why him not wanting to extinguish his feelings as a Black person who's always felt out of place in an entirely white family, isnt receivable when dealing with one of this White person he grew up with?

[@Bekka_boo13]

So glad Randall called kate out on this...

[@yevgeniyaleshchenko849]

On what?! On her not being able to read his mind and understand all the nuances of his individual experience?

[@Bekka_boo13]

@@yevgeniyaleshchenko849 she uses fake tears to get herself out of situations...they never asked Randall once what it was like to be a black boy/man growing up...I wouldn’t be able to understand as I’m a caucasian female

[@blooketandticketytoc]

Kate did nothing wrong tho.

[@DarkClassicGamer]

@@Bekka_boo13 those aren’t fake tears. Jesus girl

[@Bekka_boo13]

@@DarkClassicGamer yes they are, she always does it

[@grunk3643]

Worst scene in This Is Us history.

[@kate.3110]

Why??

[@Jay-xh9dl]

No, just the worst comment on a “This is Us” KZbin video for undermining the showcasing of an important discussion that everyone should be having.

[@grunk3643]

@@Jay-xh9dl Its called pandering and virtue signalling to a cause thats built off lies. Black people are oppressed by themselves by their hive mind thinking that they are victims and white people are the enemy. Its rubbish. The important conversations that need to be had aren't being had here.

[@maimai.alfonzo]

@@grunk3643 oppressed by themselves girl something wrong in your head

[@sianlester1327]

@@grunk3643 shut your damn mouth. You don't know what you're talking about. You don't face oppression on a daily basis. How dare you say black people oppress themselves??? What about their ancestors? Would you say they enslaved themselves? What about George Floyd and Breyonna Taylor? Did they force those police officers to kill them?? You're insane and a fool and you should be ashamed of yourself. You do not get an opinion on this matter, it is not yours to speak about.

[@NYD666]

Kate was constantly bullied for her weight, had to deal with an abusive boyfriend (while her family looked on and watched) and has had a miscarriage. SHES HAD A LOT TO DEAL WITH, RANDALL.

[@KS-di4df]

But to not address this issue even once in 40 years is insane! Randall had a constant struggle with his identity, with wanting to know his biological family, he's dealt with anxiety for years, and recently had to watch the biological father he just found die. None of these characters have had a particularly easy go of it. But there's a pattern, which is that Kate and Kevin support each other and Randall offers support where he can, especially to Rebecca. Since Jack, who you see supporting Randall in the flashbacks (even though even he got things wrong), I don't know that Randall has had that kind of support from the Pearsons. Which is why it makes sense that he just wants to be with Beth and his kids in the family that does support him.

[@NYD666]

@@KS-di4df so, I'm adopted with a mom who lied about a medical condition to me. She knew the whole time and didnt get me any help.

[@NYD666]

@@KS-di4df randall is mostly selfish and takes his wife for granted. He has been coddled most of his life by jack and rebecca

[@KS-di4df]

@@NYD666 ummm... I’m sorry that happened to you, but how does that make the fact that Randall’s siblings never bothered trying to understand his experiences as a black man okay? Like, that’s his family, and it’s the responsibility of family to support you through things like that... and just because it doesn’t always work out that way, doesn’t make it okay.

[@NYD666]

@@KS-di4df they each have their own issues. Why does randall barely ever try to see life from their side? Hes so up his own hole. It's hard to care. Kevin was practically NEGLECTED; so hes addicted to seeking attention and approval from others. Kate is so absorbed in herself about her weight that she gets insecure and angry around thin people. It's hard to look at other people's problems when you have your own, and you often dont try to put yourself in other people's shoes when they have problems you dont relate to. Didnt randall hang out with black people before beth?

[@claudiam2474]

Ok but i think she knows one or two things about being bullied or not fitting in...

[@4tk37]

Not the same as race

[@BroJo676]

You have control on your weight but not on your race. Grow up.

[@tintasitemba8768]

It became too much about Randell

[@feorix182]

this is what overreacting looks like.

[@Loladee19]

How many awards do you have as an actor ?

[@yevgeniyaleshchenko849]

@@Loladee19 He/she didn't say Sterling was a bad actor in general, chill. They were just expressing their opinion on this particular scene, which is their right.

[@mikechan8555]

Randall on a roll

[@222222ania]

well they never touched on sexism and sexual abuse and metoo was a big thing in 2018 why is race so important but sexism or homophobia are not

[@dako_syeed1163]

Such a dumb scene🤣

[@4tk37]

not really

[@BroJo676]

Such a dumb comment.

[@mikechan8555]

No no, Randall is right. Yeah Kate has had issues too but this is Randall’s identity and all his struggles from his whole entire life just because of his skin color

[@OfficialDjFreire]

Worst scene in This Is Us history.