This Simple Exercise Will Help You Respond To Insults

[@roninstrength1883]

“Stay curious… no matter what side you’re on, it’s better to let them have their opinion and try to understand them”. Great clip

[@danielreid3447]

I enjoyed seeing the example attack. Seeing the Seems like response formulated in real time was helpful. I feel compelled to opine that nearly everyone's political position is beyond self examination and certainly thoughtful introspection. Most everyone holds their beliefs at a cellular level and has no idea why.

[@NegotiationMastery]

Hi there. Thanks for sharing your thoughts! Great to hear that you found the example helpful!

[@iamgc369]

“35 to 40 seconds.” That’s brilliant advice ❤️✌️

[@ksw501]

More gold! Love the content you post. I’m practicing every chance I get, learning so much

[@NegotiationMastery]

More to come!

[@tomjeff1743]

Music definitely helps others

[@toms1197]

Just as an aside music is a tremendous help Everywhere for every possible reason and every possible person

[@louio]

Nope. Music can manipulate your emotions.

[@joshuarobinsonthecreativer8915]

I like using labels and mirrors. To be honest, it seems like I've added this into my daily conversations 😂. Always good stuff. I really appreciate the black swan technique and all that you guys do 😊.

[@NegotiationMastery]

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[@kizombeiro8130]

Yes, great as conversational skills too.

[@ianmccormick247]

Great topic. Plenty of reasons to learn how to diffuse insults today.

[@NegotiationMastery]

Definitely! Diffusing insults is key these days.

[@jonnypescado1]

Would a "no" oriented question or 2 be appropriate? "Would it be the craziest thing you've ever heard if someone believed that music can enrich & uplift the lives of others?" "Would I be a horrible person for trying to do that?".

[@NegotiationMastery]

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[@Maria_Moon_Angel]

It sounds like this is a tweak you're trying to learn more about so you could make black swan skills work better in a way that feels natural to you

[@jonnypescado1]

@MariaRodriguez-bp1tl it might be that, knowing the patterns, hearing "sounds like" so much sounded too scripted. I was trying to think of a way to break that up.

[@InSync3912]

@@jonnypescado1 Yes, it was pretty robotic to me. Normal people do not talk this way and it would raise all my flags if I heard such type of script at any negotation, let alone business one

[@JoshuaKhosa]

Definitely imo

[@cesarsanchezgutierrez3064]

Thanks for sharing great content!

[@NegotiationMastery]

Thanks for watching!

[@Elpipiton]

That's a hard one...good stuff guys

[@acceleratedtrainingacademy]

Awesome video ❤ love this

[@fivenineshaq]

What a great video to share with the world!

[@NegotiationMastery]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@acceleratedtrainingacademy]

I wish you would come to Australia

[@grahamesmith5523]

Is that not just too many "It sounds like...."

[@moonhunter9993]

You can also "name the game"

[@NegotiationMastery]

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[@josuemoisescisnerosangel8339]

Gracias gracias gracias, it seems that this is only in English, will it be ridiculous to have a Spanish session? 😊

[@NegotiationMastery]

Hey there! That’s a great question. Every Wednesday, you will be able to find content in Spanish on our channel. Stay tuned!

[@casamir1]

Painful (in a good way) to sit through the insult session!

[@azbugman1]

Barney Fifes one bullet "Sounds like" Ugh!

[@thundafundamentalist]

Thanks for this. Being Muslim and living in the west is hard.

[@NegotiationMastery]

We are happy to help!

[@JoshuaKhosa]

Living is the west is hard?

[@avgytenjoyer91]

It sounds like you don’t think music can help people. It sounds like there’s never been a moment in your life were you were struggling or feeling some kind of way where music was able to help you through that. Sorry this one hit me I’m a musician and i am not the most important person at my shows, that title goes to every single member of my audience

[@fitnesssoup7553]

Music is beautiful and brings joy into people’s lives. It sounds like this guy is a miserable codependent or narcissist who wants to give the impression of being benevolent! 😅

[@andrewmahesan1294]

Sounds like it’s so repetitive. Can’t see how this was turning around with a bunch of sounds like

[@joelgarcia78744]

The negotiator tried using mirrors, and the guy just slithered out of it, like he was playing a game of cat and mouse, which missed the point of the exercise.

[@andrewmahesan1294]

@@joelgarcia78744 this was a tough one, no doubt

[@juan3268]

This was cool, but it sounds like he was using it sounds like too much. I felt a self audit, or some no oriented ?s would have broken the monotony of the sounds like.

[@joelgarcia78744]

The role play was terrible. The guy kept moving the goal post. This is a great example of "proof of life" This guy had no intention of giving you anything to work with. You could hear it in his voice. Terrible.

[@mrlabonte]

Proof of life?

[@joelgarcia78744]

@@mrlabonte I guess it would be more "vision of the future." In hostage negotiations, does this person want to live/getaway? Or, are they on a killing journey?

[@mrlabonte]

@@joelgarcia78744 Oh right. I do think these things work at times, but theory is different to practical, and sometimes doesn’t exactly work out the way they do during practice. The goal is not always the same.

[@joelgarcia78744]

@Mister Labonte In this case, the negotiator would then have to figure out the best and quickest exit strategy. If the hostage taker's vision of the future ends here, the negotiators job would then be to get the person, in front of a window for a sniper to get a clear shot. It's not a sin to not get a deal. However, it is a sin to take a long time to not get a deal.