WEDDING RECAP | things I regret, best decisions, and what I wish I knew before planning a wedding!

[@chinadollh]

I first watched this when you posted and thought I’d never need it and now I’m months away from getting married and planning my own wedding! My fiancé doesn’t want to do a first look before the ceremony and your experience has made me feel a lot better about it. Thanks for sharing!

[@heather6404]

I really do recommend having a first look with your spouse before the ceremony. It doesn't take away from the moment of walking down and seeing one another. But to have time before to be able to pray with one another or take personal photos, it's something you won't get at any other time during the wedding, and it's so special.

[@makaylamais9154]

I was in my friend’s wedding in October and she had QR codes on the tables so the guests could read her and her husband’s story/testimony! I’ve never seen that done and I would love to do that myself!

[@caitlynrose9985]

As a wedding photographer, I can confirm it’s industry standard to pay for things in full before the wedding day! You have a contract in place to protect the both of you when it comes to deliverables ☺️

[@GiannaBaresse]

i cannot get over how beautiful you looked!!

[@michellereedg]

thank you so much Gianna!

[@laurelmaerz6286]

Loved this video! I got married two years ago but this was still really fun to watch. My biggest regret is not hiring a videographer. At the time it felt too expensive, but now I really wish we could watch our wedding day back! One of my favorite things we did at our reception was a dance with the couple who had been married the longest, which was my grandparents who have been married over 70 years! It was so special.

[@meman6964]

Ooo, I love this idea

[@scarlettmeyers7012]

Loved this! My husband and I just got married a couple months ago. Something we did that I love is we did a “first touch”, where we didn’t see each other, but stool back to back and held hands and read our personal vows/letter to each other. We didn’t want to read something sooo personal in front of everyone, so we did personal vows privately and then we did traditional vows during the ceremony. It was great to do the first touch because we got to connect before we saw each other but didn’t ruin the surprise of him seeing me walk down the aisle. I wish we would’ve hired a day of coordinator or just had a family friend that we trusted coordinate the day. I personally wasn’t stressed out, but my sister who was my matron of honor was doing most of the coordinating and I know it was stressing her out. I wish she would’ve been able to relax more. Overall, don’t stress toooo much about the wedding day. Somehow it all comes together. And the marriage is what really matters.❤️

[@dr.softie7501]

I think clean and simple are an aesthetic and really happy that you touched on this. Personally, I think this looks better than having too much stuff

[@erinmcdonnell1088]

I love the idea of an intimate wedding and hiring a videographer and then maybe after our honeymoon or whatever we can have a larger just like backyard bash and invite EVERYONE too and just play the wedding video... which maybe sounds like I’m being cheap lol, but I really just love the idea of a smaller, intimate wedding! My parents eloped so I’ve just always imagined myself doing something smaller as well

[@KatieGregoire]

100% agree about the first look being when you’re walking down the aisle!! Definitely one of my favourite memories as well 🥰

[@chi2om]

I don't plan on ever getting married but these and baby videos always get me excited for those who want those things. love the fresh and fun vibes. beautiful

[@corik1065]

For the lunch/eating thing. I knew I was going to be super nervous and would have a hard time eating so I had a bunch of snacks. Fruit, veggies, donut holes, pita and hummus, lunchables! Just small things to make sure I was getting food but nothing heavy

[@callirose6]

We got married at 12pm with the reception starting at 5pm (cocktail hr first). For family and wedding party we had a light lunch a my parents house. My biggest tip is take the day. You are putting out money no matter how much it is so enjoy the day. I’m so glad we had a “long” wedding day and were able to get the pictures we wanted without rushing to the reception.

[@kristinhaag842]

I’m getting married in October! Dreaming of mums everywhere and all the beautiful fall colors 😍 cider and donuts for our late night snack!

[@arijaneiro]

Thank you for talking about the first look ❤️ I was feeling pressured with everyone saying it is important but my fiancé and I really wanted the first look to be walking down the aisle. This whole video is so helpful! 🥰❤️

[@mariamangion21]

Your videos are my FAVORITE to watch because everything you do is so refreshing, calming, and unique ❤️ I love the simplicity of your style, and the peacefulness of your life. 🤩 I really appreciate that you share your life with us!

[@michellereedg]

Maria! your comments always make my day- thanks for always supporting me!

[@maddiebeeles9363]

Ahh I’m so glad you posted this. My wedding is in February and we’re going for simple decor, very classic and romantic. My biggest problem is trying to please everyone when in the end it’s my wedding and nobody else’s

[@michellereedg]

totally feel that! it's so hard when you have so many opinions coming at you

[@baileykipp2743]

Michelle! I'm getting married in July and I am so excited to see this video is up! From watching your videos from the begging, it's felt like I've grown up with you:) So sweet.

[@michellereedg]

this is so sweet- I hope you have the best day ever! thanks for being around for so long :)

[@SundayswithJamie]

Just went wedding dress shopping today and this came at the perfect time!!! 🥰🥰 you always drop so much wisdom, Michelle! Love your videos and podcast 💗

[@michellereedg]

oh my gosh so fun! that was one of my favorite parts of planning- trying on dresses :)

[@andreagomezguerra3602]

You looked absolutley beautiful ✨ your happiness shined that day💕

[@michellereedg]

thank you Andrea!

[@GraceTorresPhoto]

Wedding talk is my fav!! I’m a wedding photog but also got married less than a month ago! Paying in full is standard, and you have a contract to protect both of you! So you shouldn’t ever have to worry about deliverables because it should all be spelled out in the contract. A professional will always communicate what and when to expect things to ease your mind too 🥰 We also did a more intimate wedding! I am SO happy we did!! I think if we had more guests I would’ve felt so overwhelmed tbh!

[@portillobrie]

Got engaged in February, and getting married in November on our anniversary! I’m also prioritizing budget, food, photo/videographer with simple decor and casual venue. Great video!

[@meghanoneil8868]

Im not sure if you'd be able to do this, but with the footage the photographer gave you are you able to make your own wedding video and share only the parts youre comfortable with?

[@EdinaWeasley]

Ok honestly though thank you so much for the first look advice! I’m currently engaged and planning my wedding and I’ve always envisioned my fiancé seeing me in my dress walking down the aisle first (and so has he) but I’ve been feeling pressure to do a first look. It’s so nice to hear from someone who didn’t do one and was super happy they didn’t so thank you😊

[@MelissaReist]

Perfect timing! I got engaged a month ago and starting the planning process 💍 absolutely love your dress!!

[@sydneybarbour]

Loved this video and excited for more wedding content! We got engaged in February and are planning our wedding for May 2022 in Punta de Mita, Mexico! I'm so torn between doing a first look or not (I've always dreamed of the traditional walk down the aisle) so hearing the pros and cons in this video was really helpful. Hoping with a destination wedding it'll be smaller and simply just a fun weekend with our family and friends :)

[@sweetness371]

My brother got married two weeks ago and for during the day they had Subway sandwich platters brought in for the wedding party. It was really nice to have those available to eat throughout getting ready during the day. We even gave some to the photographers and hair/makeup people. I'd say their one regret was not having a videographer. They thought they'd never watch the video in the future, but there's so much that you miss or forget that would have been nice to have captured. And for other people to watch too. Oh, also, their day-of coordinator was VITAL. She took care of EVERYTHING that day. See even cleaned up someone's puke at the end of the night so they'd get their security deposit back. Lol. She was amazing.

[@SarahSchneider2]

I was just a bridesmaid at a wedding last month. It was only a 4-month engagement and included a wedding venue switch a month maybe 2 before.

[@AC-by4nf]

Wow the lighting of your wedding footage is just beautiful!! So flattering and dreamy looking!!

[@laurenjoyp]

i just got engaged on the 9th!! this is perfect!!!🥰

[@michellereedg]

congrats Lauren!!

[@Dermatillomaniac]

Congrats!! 🌼

[@kittylover4974]

OMG I have been waiting for this!!

[@teeevans7280]

I'm getting married on October 1 this year!! We've been together since I was 16 and now I'm 22. The theme is "enchanted garden" so the colors are kind of all over the place but I think it'll look good. I'm so nervous yet excited.

[@therachhill]

I completely agree with you about the first look. I loved that you included some of your wedding footage in this so we can see some of it but you were able to keep the whole thing private. Your day was beautiful!

[@mileypup10]

Love this video and the shots from your wedding, so beautiful! I always learn so much listening to how you budget and manage your money over on your podcast and on this channel... I'd love to see a video/podcast on how you saved up money to pay for your wedding!

[@hanab.]

This was SOOO helpful!! Really hoping this wedding thing is a whole series!! 😍

[@Kimbuucha]

I'm getting married in less than 2 weeks and hired a videographer last minute and SO glad I did. Also my wedding coordinator has been worth every cent so far and gives me so much more peace of mind leading up to the day. Enjoyed this video. Cheers 💖

[@AmyVChurch]

Getting married at the end of August so this is great! Thanks Michelle!! 🥰🌟

[@michellereedg]

congrats!

[@fizzyfoal]

I can’t tell you how timely this video is! I’m getting married next weekend! 🙌🏼

[@michellereedg]

oh my gosh congrats! that's so exciting :)

[@lizthecontentcreator]

I recently got engaged 💍 & I'm planning for a fall wedding this year. I've just been binging wedding content.

[@BeautyFreak08]

Omg, I have not heard of the last dance idea, but I am FOR SURE doing this. HOW SWEET. :')

[@LinhDuong-ip4eo]

I love your videos cause the sound is so gooddd, clear and loud enough

[@naomiecusson2987]

thanks for giving us your tips and tricks ! getting married september 4th🥰🥰 i would love to see a more detailed budget video for wedding planning if you feel comfortable ! if not maybe tips on how to track your budget, how to save money, etc ! you are the queen of budget i feel like 🤪

[@kennediwhite-villalba6817]

Getting married next month 🤩 and watching all of your newly wedded vlogs and just the months leading up to your wedding has been soo fun to watch! Can’t believe it’s almost been a year! Congratulations!

[@nataliesmith2306]

Thank you for this!! I'm getting married in September to my high school sweetheart! I really needed to hear the part about minimal decor because I felt I needed to make it bigger but I like the simple better! So important to do what you want and not what others want/did! Love your videos and podcast!

[@simplyleah5587]

Not even engaged yet but I love hearing your advice for when I do get married in the future!

[@sara.rossomonte]

Never been so fast! 🤣 your wedding was so sweet, so I had to run🥰

[@michellereedg]

thank you Sara!

[@okaymiranda]

Getting married in May 2022 and we just locked in the venue! Love the idea of preserving your flowers in resin and I'll definitely have to look into that in my town.

[@ashleybeckner393]

I have been patiently waiting the wedding video since you mentioned it last year. However if you decide to keep it private, it was so special getting to see some of the footage in today's video! It looked like you had a perfect day 💕

[@makaylakolson1437]

This is so exciting! I’ve been watching since your early high school days. I was so excited when you got engaged, and now I’m getting married next year myself! So excited for wedding planning videos! ♥️

[@melissanavarro9296]

This video is awesome, I wish I would have seen something like this before I got married. But I had fun in my wedding. One of my biggest regrets was not having a good photographer and not hiring a videographer for the wedding day. One of the things I did appreciate it was having a small Ceremony a conformable dress

[@kortnievinyard5541]

THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS! I will be getting engaged next month and definitely need all the advice on planning I can get! Love you and your videos!

[@lexharperr]

Love that you’re talking more about your wedding!! 💙

[@emilyzomer8539]

Something I regret is my dress, I think I could’ve gotten something more flattering for cheaper (I loved my dress though, don’t get me wrong) and something I do not regret is our photographer!💗

[@nikki6081]

I'm getting married on Sunday October 8 of 2023! Im so excited! We tried to book our dream wedding of 2022 but our venue was already booked on a date that we wanted. I don't regret waiting an extra year though because its making money alot less stressful!

[@rachelgrimsley7655]

I’m dress shopping today! So excited and loved this video

[@laurenlunden5299]

getting married in November in Dallas! The Lockharts are doing our photo and video and I'm so excited!!! Doing just a very timeless and classic wedding in Dallas!

[@admirbarucija2018]

I’m excited to see the video once I get home!! Happy Saturday Michelle 🤍

[@amymcnally9915]

Michelle!! I’m so happy to see this video. I’m getting married next year and am so lost. I feel like you’re my bestie calming me down and giving me advice LOL!

[@gindymartin8979]

Thanks for all your help. Great video❤️

[@truecollar9059]

You look stunning! Love wedding content, as I’m one of those girls who can’t wait until they get married 💍

[@patriciaakao2789]

Super useful! Thank you for sharing ♥️

[@annabanana771]

I want all the wedding content 😍

[@KimNuzzolo]

You looked stunning and I looveee the greenery you did! Wow so unique, pretty, and money saving?! Love!

[@RubyLocknar]

Truly the most beautiful bride ✨❤️ Love your videos, Michelle!

[@alyssaclark2238]

Hi Michelle, I’m so excited that made this video! I’m getting married in July and didn’t think to preserve my flowers!! I also live in Dallas but we are getting married at a Greenery in LA and you definitely helped me think of a few last minute things I haven’t planned yet! Also ur dress was gorgeous. 🤍

[@laurajoyn2552]

This came at the perfect time!! 🥰 Getting married at the end of October!

[@emstalu101]

your wedding was so beautiful ! i know you prefer to keep aidan out of stuff which i respect and think is awesome, but maybe one day he can be on the podcast to talk about his take on all of this or maybe a marriage advice episode, lol !

[@yanilcabrera9998]

Thank you!! My wedding is July 9!!! Can’t wait 💋

[@lauramariska]

Loved the video! I am getting married in july, we will do a botanical minimal theme. We start in the church and then move to the vendor which has a botanical industrial vibe already along side a river 🥰

[@JS-kj9yq]

Michelle when are we going to see your wedding video??? I’m dying to see it! 😍

[@michellereedg]

I mention this in the video, possibly on our 1 year!

[@laurenpc880]

It looked like such a beautiful wedding! Great video!!!

[@shannalazo]

I was my friend’s day of coordinator at the Brik in February so this brought back all the mems 💕

[@alannakalixo]

I’m so glad you’re making more wedding related videos! ✨ I get married in August, so this video is super helpful!!

[@jennxbunny]

You had such a beautiful wedding! Love it 💖

[@destinyhollislodge138]

Looking at your video made me feel like I was looking at my own wedding!! We have such similar tastes! Great video.

[@igacecylia]

First of all congrats you’re wedding looked beautiful from what you showed!! Also I’m getting married in 2023 (we need to save haha) and I love videos like this - I’m slowly planning and it really helps to see what to focus on. Plus a side note my fiancé is actually from Fort Worth! I love it there (I’m from Uk)

[@kpwashere9]

Hey Michelle! I loved this video. I'm getting married at my church in Charlotte, NC on October 23, 2021! We are going very simple but classic, like yours! I would love to know what all you bought off Etsy, and also what readings you chose for your ceremony. Love you!!

[@CaylaGrace]

got married in March and had a lot of regrets and things i wish were different leading up to the day and things i really wish we would've done

[@jtully614]

Recently engaged and love your wedding 😍 so beautiful.

[@carmensegattini]

Love this share, Michelle! 💕💕

[@leahmoore5332]

I'm so excited you posted this! I am getting married in October!

[@alyssay.mcghee8637]

You made such a beautiful bride!!

[@sarahnunez7865]

I wish my husband hadn’t heard about a first look! He fought for one so bad but I fought harder. 😉 I’m traditional in that way.

[@ellimirenda3899]

This video is super helpful thank you!!! I LOVE your pearl earrings you wore on your wedding day- do you mind telling me where they're from?

[@adrijam2557]

Your videos are so unique and I love it 💕💞😍

[@Itallia135]

You had the perfect wedding 🥰

[@sallyhudson7196]

You were a beautiful bride! Looked like a very lovely wedding.

[@picklepirate]

oh my gosh, who is your videographer! I’m in Texas and I love these videos

[@emilyl7619]

Omg I haven’t watched yet but I am so excited for wedding videos!! We are getting married next December so I can start planning soon!!

[@michellereedg]

so exciting, I hope it's helpful!

[@emmah209]

Getting married on October 15, 2021! We are keeping it very minimal and laid-back 💕

[@evachris7424]

Just the video that I wanna see!!

[@michellereedg]

awh yay!

[@kate_rae_porteous]

Love you both!

[@Lilly-tg2ly]

I love watching your videos! Greetings from germany ❤

[@michellereedg]

awh thank you Lilly!

[@natalieminassian]

This is so helpful bc I just got engaged in November 💛

[@athenanagel8335]

An incredibly stunning bride. Beautiful. 🥰

[@maddybritt264]

Loved this!!! Will you be posting your wedding video from your videographer? 😍😍

[@SLKx89]

Thank you for making this video. I am getting married next month in July and will potentially be making a few minor adjustments now :) Can you tell us where you got your wedding day earrings? I love them!

[@carlaroca2300]

Loved it! More wedding videos, please! :)

[@04sarebear]

My biggest regret is not having a video of the ceremony - even if it was just a friend filming it!

[@thesophieduncan]

I just got engaged this week :) this video is perfect timing! Michelle, do you have any advice on how to start the planning process?