Three things to remember when you’re dealing with difficult relationships

In this practical conversation, Lysa TerKeurst and Melissa Taylor talk through the reality that difficult relationships usually affect us all.
In this video you will:
-Stop feeling alone in your struggles by embracing the reality that life is messy, so relationships are too.
-Discover the tools needed to have an honest conversation with a loved one today.
We hope this helps you today friends!

[@krystalburrell]

As always, these messages from Lysa are right on time! Thank you for listening to the Spirit and using your voice to strengthen women for the Kingdom!

[@actionsupplymining4242]

Yes Godbless her

[@sherryluxedreamtravels7966]

Collecting evidence I'm right & overthinking...this is ME! Fortunately, I decided to not prove I was right just other day! Excellent, excellent, excellent 👏

[@dawnsisson]

When the conversation always turns into an argument. I don't know how to approach it again. When you live with the person you can't have a conversation with.

[@Jennyinreallife]

I learned to stay silent and ask the Lord to lead me and guide me. I tell the Lord I won't speak unless you give me the words. Its hard but God is faithful. I usually tell the person I'm in conflict with I need time to process. I hope that helps. In love, Jenny

[@samanthagould9136]

:( I'm learning prayer does more good than my own words to those I love and have difficult relationships with.

[@elizabethterry528]

M the same kind.

[@pamwehking2457]

I have 47 yrs. of experience like this😢My husband lied from the beginning ...about his age(14 yrs older than me), about being raised in a Christian home (he wasn’t), about being a Christian (not a believer). Yes,he has come to faith but is 47 yrs of staying a ‘baby Christian’. Our 39 y.o. son committed suicide in 2019...I cannot begin to explain what that has done...he argues about anything-or has no opinion which he equates to being “middle of the road” whether it is politics or religion.Everyday I wish I had left when I was young & first found out these things.My youngest daughter said she used to keep her favorite clothes in a bag b/c she was sure we’d be kicked out of our house-her si kings did the same!My husband is also constantly harping about $$ and though he promised my Mom he would send me w/ the children back each summer to see them, he NEVER did😢My kids grew up never really knowing family...Such guilt...

[@dawnsisson]

@@pamwehking2457 so very sorry for all your pain and loss. Nothing can change the past but you can change the future with God's help. I pray God will give you wisdom, strength and peace and much comfort in the loss of your son

[@ChereeLS]

This is **so** helpful. Thank you for sharing this. I want to honor God--what a miraculous way to shift my perspective and actions toward my part in these fractured/ended relationships. Thank you again 🙏

[@samanthagould9136]

Such a good reminder! I was recently reminded to always consider whether my words and actions are focused on being right or on the relationship. This quick lesson took that idea even further. Thank you, ladies!

[@darciaridenour5296]

So so good advice. Lisa, my mind overthinks so bad I cry so much because of this. I make everything so hard.

[@charisamartin2152]

As a 1 on the enneagram I relate with this so much! I learned so much from this short video.

[@shhaabamm]

I love this house.

[@mclaire899]

This is exceedingly helpful, thank you🌸

[@marthajenkins46]

Lysa, I am blessed by your ministry. Thank you! Please check into the roots of the Eneogram (sp) that you often refer to. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@hoademo965]

Very powerful guidance! Statement and suggestions Thank you.

[@cherylmitchell6611]

Thank you so much!!

[@tinabrooks4397]

This is a conversation that I can never have with my husband, minister/ narc.

[@marjorymsuku9312]

"...that you are honouring God by trying [to improve the relationship]."❤🙏

[@lisagoldsmith7435]

I was thinking the same thing? Is it me? Or why do I attract wrong people. And when I talked about everything that I was having trouble with I felt so better and that’s exactly what was going on dreading the reaction of what I said and when we had the conversation all the expectations were gone and my distrust was gone about everything.

[@rebeccahayhurst442]

Great advice and wisdom

[@lisagoldsmith7435]

Lisa so am I. I have learned that too!! Wow great question!!! What is my motive???

[@RosyLife79]

Lisa, will you please do a video or something on permanent goodbyes and when that is okay. We don’t see any of this discussed. Please. You speak about it on page 166 in Chapter 10.❤

[@hoademo965]

Thank you

[@robinsmith4499]

I began to to experience the peace when I did have to justify my being right. Being a victim is not on my DNA anymore.

[@OfficialProverbs31Ministries]

Thanks for watching, friend!

[@MaryellenS.13]

When the people won’t speak to you, it’s impossible to repair. How do you break through when blocked?

[@sarahwatson6068]

Lysa and I have the same Enneagram 😃

[@eleanorgathright605]

What in the world do you do with people that will not have the conversation with you?

[@ayoutubegirl5933]

You move on. Nothing you can do. If they real care about you they will open up.