Tia Doesn’t Want Tamera’s Dating Advice | Apryl Jones Laughs About Her Breakup

[@LailahLynnTV]

Hey yall 👋🏾 I did the visuals for this video separately from the audio, so it may look like I have Tia amd Tamera confused, but its just the editing 😅

[@ElysianFeilds93]

I just deleted a whole message of me trying to explain the difference between the sisters to you. 😭😮‍💨😂❤

[@PrettyHair09]

😂😂😂😂 I hollered when I saw this! I'm like this is Tamera

[@charnesemccleave690]

lol - I went right to the comments- growing up on sistah sister, I was like, wait the mole is on the left side, that’s Tamera not Tia 😅😂😂

[@kikilicious99]

I noticed that and decided to leave it alone. We know Tia from Tamera!😂

[@fabfemme800]

@@PrettyHair09 me too! In the green dress I was like that’s totally Tamera!

[@ashleya.7481]

Anyone who has watched tia and tameras reality show knows they are COMPLETELY two different ppl 🤣 I can see why she doesn't want her sisters dating advice 😂🤣

[@BrownSugarNCurls]

Yes! I remember their old show. 😂

[@queenscarlettpimpsunkiss..5537]

‼️😂

[@Virgogirl45]

I was going to comment on this! 😂

[@TikaRoxanne]

Yes and Tia used to pick at Tamera all the time for being too strait laced

[@angelab9171]

@@TikaRoxanneyep. That just showed Tia didn’t respect Tamera being herself.

[@Hair4Two]

They dont date the same type of men or have the same expectations.

[@ceeceeceecee5515]

Exactly! Tia is not havin it! Tamara on the other hand……..

[@GoddesssofMind]

At. All.

[@Estrellitawilliams]

The only thing I can get behind is Tamara ain’t dating no broke man. Tia needs to take a page of her book in regards to ONLY that 😂

[@imo.124]

This!!!!¡! ​@@Estrellitawilliams

[@Hair4Two]

@Estrellitawilliams Adam has had some questionable behaviors so everyone has to choose what they are working with and with blogs implying he and Tamera may not be doing so well could be why Tia is saying nah I'll pass.

[@britneyl2385]

Hello, identical twin here… sometimes one twin doesn’t want to hear the opinion of their twin because they are two different people with different experiences. I respect the fact that her Tamera respects Tia’s boundaries by staying out of her way while she navigates through this herself. They have a great relationship and it shows. She is finding herself and it may be hard for others to truly understand that.. Best wishes to them both! ❤

[@santelaneal5374]

This is true. I have twin girls, they are only 4 but they are already there!

[@LakeishaYoung-jg9lk]

Right

[@vcowherd39]

🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@dejorareason2823]

I'm a twin to but I do have other siblings but I think me and my twin are the closest out of all the siblings not saying I don't love the other ones we just the closest cause we twins

[@Shay-rx4xu]

​@@dejorareason2823I have alot more in similar with my twin than my other siblings even though we r different lol if that makes sense so I know what u mean actually

[@Hazelbazel483]

I love Tamera. ❤ IDC what people say about her.

[@lavenderlillies8149]

Looove me some Tamera❤❤

[@andreavfirst]

Me toooo 😍

[@shebbysavvas4040]

Team Tam too!!!

[@jaysb5288]

Tamera seems happy with her husband and children. I wish her a lifetime of joy. Love is a beautiful thing .

[@stacycottman4712]

It's not surprising that Tia doesn't want Tameras advice. Although Tia and tamera are twins they both could have different attractions in people, styles and they see things from different lenses. They even parent different according to there reality show that they were on together. April Jones is inappropiate

[@Ourown311]

Yep pick me's don't want help

[@mrssuchafknladyy2078]

Exactly bc look at who she picked and I side 👀 his whole “political take” on things 🥴

[@lindak.mcleod5858]

April Jones is stupid look at her life !! April is like a doorknob everyone had a turn !!!! 😮😮😮😢😢 SADDD

[@chocolatechipcookieface3668]

@@Ourown311who’s the pick me?

[@Miss24EE]

That’s a little weird that Tia didnt tell her sister about the reality show though. A part of me just doesn’t think they’re as close as we (the viewers) would like to think that they are.

[@ashleyrogers1930]

They never gave me close vibes.

[@rogers5622]

Tamera seems like she will tell Tia that she don't approve of the subject of the show

[@BibleandtheBeat]

I also don’t believe they’re that close. I think their differences puts a wedge between them. I noticed a lot of times that their parents & brothers would kind of spend holidays and stuff with them separately….they rarely spent holidays all together it’s like they’re mom & bro’s would take turns, especially when Tia & Corey was still together. The father seems to always be at Tia’s more and their mom is always with Tamera. I don’t think Corey & Adam got along either and the 1 time I actually saw the sisters post a family vacation with both of their families together, not long after, Tia announced that she & Corey was splitting up. It’s just things I noticed like Tia has all these guests on quick fix, but Tamera has never made an appearance which is weird because they both love to cook & can put down a glass of wine…I think it would be cute and a great opportunity to show them as moms & aunts, they could have the kids around helping to cook & interacting with each other. They both have KZbin channels if I’m not mistaken so sister sister doesn’t have to be there end all be all opportunity to work together…and making an appearance doesn’t have to be a continuous thing. I don’t think they like each other much, but they love each other & they’re cool with how their relationship is. Look at their captions for each other’s birthdays, then look at the heartfelt messages they post for Taj or their parents….idk it’s all speculation. I love them both regardless and I accept their individuality, sometimes siblings just aren’t that close & I guess that goes for identical twins also.

[@RDCFemmes]

My response to that is grow up. Being close doesn't mean you tell everything and I am an oversharer but I am mature enough to know that other people not telling me everything equates lack of closeness or consideration

[@SincerelySedae]

I don’t want dating advice from my sister either. We have different life experiences. I also thought we left Apryl in 2020. 🙄😂

[@lachannajones]

I was done with AJ when a few years ago she made a video teaching her little daughter how to twerk... 🚩

[@princessofpennypinchin]

Same

[@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473]

No unfortunately her dating Taye Diggs brought her back up Ugghh I think Apryl is just not it but she uses her beauty to stay relevant So over her

[@ashleyshayia8087]

I’m like girl who?😂

[@lynnpatterson-cameron4903]

Honestly, do you really care about her dating life? We all have our own problems whether they’re good or bad experience. I’m not watching the show about that. I will stay on the positive vibes.❤❤ thank you so much for sharing. We all appreciate you and we love your channel. Honestly, I wish you well and hopefully a man will find her..

[@Jess_cool25]

Y’all can talk all the crap about Tamera and her husband but they look genuinely happy and at peace in their relationship.

[@rosaperks1873]

A photo isn't worth a thousand words. People can appear to look one way and it be another. Not implying they aren't happy. But let's not use photos to determine that

[@Jess_cool25]

@@rosaperks1873you’re absolutely right. I agree. I base my assessment on more than pictures though. I’m a fan of Tamera’s and I watched her for 10 years on the real. I’ve watched countless of interviews and lives she has done. From that, I can sense and feel she’s happy in her marriage though as she’s said herself, her marriage isn’t perfect. However, like you said, none of us really knows the truth behind closed doors of any person we don’t know personally. Sometimes we don’t even know the truth our friends and family members live. So ultimately we don’t really know, but, out of speculation, based on all the material out there where they appear, I would say Tamera is mostly happy and fulfilled in her marriage and family.

[@cian2898]

He put her through hell before they got back together and got married. No thank you

[@Jess_cool25]

@@cian2898 We don’t know that for sure!

[@AJ50858]

Yup. I ❤️ Tam & her family. They all look happy. I also think Tam is much prettier & nicer. I don’t think I could be friends with Tia. I also think Tia is jealous of Tam

[@lightworks3172]

Tamara has only dated two men, and as far as I recall, she was intimate with just one of them. She mentioned this on the Real, and one of those two men happens to be her husband. Tia, on the other hand, has been with Corey since high school, so seeking advice from her might be like the blind leading the blind. She probably wants to seek guidance from someone with more dating experience, considering how dating dynamics have evolved over the past decade or two that either of them were in it.

[@funsizedazzy6708]

Tamera been on dates she dated the guy from the game she dated around but relationships was like 2

[@taunyb5429]

​@@funsizedazzy6708 I don't believe she's talking about casual dating. She's talking about relationships.

[@fah232]

Exactly

[@funsizedazzy6708]

@@taunyb5429 it’s about dating because you have to date to get to relationship lol

[@taunyb5429]

@funsizedazzy6708 But you don't necessarily move on from the dating phase to a relationship. Tamera has said she only had 2 relationships.

[@shelola2747]

No, Tamera's advice is "out of date"! She hasn't dated in over 10 years herself! These are different breeds of men in this current dating pool! It's hard to navigate through it...period! However, some advice is better than no advice at all!

[@miaprice3590]

Well said

[@tashahall1855]

This is true. I remember a youtuber thats like 32 been with her husband since 19, trying to give dating tips🙄. Mind you her parents arranged the union. Im like girl you have no clue on whats out here and thats a good thing. Speak on what you know and be happy

[@FreedomofSpeech865]

No advice is better than bad advice

[@saetae9208]

The same principles still apply. Its men and women not much that doggone different

[@godsgirl7201]

True! also she’s more religious has a religious perspective to dating and Tia doesn’t not like Tamera

[@Jaheartsjonas]

Taye Diggs gives me the same vibes as Wayne Brady and I'll leave it at that

[@theoriginalCoCoSmith]

Hhhhmmmm 😂😂😂

[@CCB1234abcd]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Bree5three]

Yep, they into ANYthing and anyone… that ain’t black

[@Bree5three]

Yep, into ANYthing…that ain’t black

[@kayb2454]

Right😂🤭.

[@Bueller.Bueller.Bueller.]

She knows about red flags! She has been married and DIVORCED! She is a grown woman! She is doing what many people do after being married for a long time. Figure out life how we all do!

[@jennifercooljeo6552]

Not infront of the world.

[@Bueller.Bueller.Bueller.]

@@jennifercooljeo6552 she is already a public figure...no choice about that

[@godsgirl7201]

True! also she’s more religious has a religious perspective to dating and Tia doesn’t not like Tamera

[@Ilove2teach52]

I’m glad she is marching to her own beat💯

[@CiaobellaAmour]

Tia should take her sister's advice but then again,she knows her sister more than anyone else looking from the outside 💁🏾‍♀️.... Tamera's marriage may not be what it appears 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@ceeceeceecee5515]

Exact!

[@margaretsilas7773]

I agree

[@dyamondbutterfly]

At least she’s married 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@chloeisme8783]

Yep so right, and something about Tamera is off, I always liked her sister tia more than her.

[@chloeisme8783]

@@dyamondbutterfly yep but that dont mean nothing now days, she probably going through it in private

[@ChanelStar1]

*Most of my married friends have been married for YEARS and I've told them several times I appreciate your sentiments but I don't want their advice. 1. They are not having the same dating experiences that I'm having. Social media has completely changed things.*

[@brandonleemoss]

When you want advice from people who have something you want 🤔 And the morals of a good man have not changed since the beginning of time😮 If you trying to keep up with trends then you're not taking dating seriously😮

[@ChanelStar1]

@@brandonleemoss *They can give me marriage advice but not dating. I have friends who’ve been married 10+ yrs they haven’t experienced dating during this era. Most of their husbands are not even on social media.*

[@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473]

Yesss this! I got the best dating advice from my married friends “court men who are not on social media like our husbands” LOL Yeap and working pandemic I met a black ER physician have ZERO social media. Had a facebook he hasn’t gotten into since 2012 and not influenced by red pillers and don’t listen to them. Just got engaged best dating advice ever GOD IS GOOD

[@ChanelStar1]

@@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 *Those are my favorite kind lol*

[@diwi5823]

@@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473You don’t “court” men, Silly Rabbits. It’s always obvious that Blc women are the men in relationships bcs your men are not masculine or provider men and it’s so embarrassing. Ugh

[@markiehwarren8866]

Just cuz they are sisters doesn’t mean she needs to get advice from her. It’s not hard to believe

[@LakeishaYoung-jg9lk]

Exactly

[@rogers5622]

Right . I don't take advice from my married sister . She has been with her husband for 16 years and knows nothing about dating in 2024.

[@markiehwarren8866]

@@rogers5622 exactly these men different lmao

[@Rue100]

FACTSSSSSSS 😂

[@BlackCreekAlabama]

I’ll be 55 in August I’ve learned the difference from someone venting and someone that wants advice, it’s a fine line and I had to learn to just listen and then ask if you want my input!

[@FaithandNova]

Once someone says they need to talk this has been my motto for the past couple of years “are you venting or looking for advice so I know how to handle this conversation”.

[@deja_1111]

“Sometimes you have to laugh to keep from crying “, that’s what my mother and grandmother say✨

[@km4336]

💯

[@Rue100]

😊

[@mrs.hopson9426]

I say it all the time

[@livenowliveright8509]

I absolutely love Tamera and thinks she’s such a wise soul. You all can say what your want about her, but Tamera is genuinely happy, is a great mom, actress, and killing their wine business. I used to like Tia but I suspect she’s lost and looking for advice from the wrong persons. I do wish her peace and happiness, but Tamera is way more my kinda chick.

[@angelab9171]

Well said.

[@claire-benedictluposo3720]

I share the same sentiments ❤

[@jennifercooljeo6552]

Exactly

[@pelomk9022]

We're not privy to any of their lives. They show us what they want & it's mainly the positive aspect. So who knows? Tamera may not be as happy as you perceive her to be.

[@livenowliveright8509]

@@pelomk9022 Please, Tamera is very happy. I watched their reality show when it came out, and Tamera is very much who she is. And so is Tia. As a wife, mom, and business owner, Tamera is ecstatic! Your swear everyone is unhappy because your are. No, marriage goes everywhere, right and wrong, but I can tell Adam is a good husband and loves his family.

[@kenyafromcali]

Tia was always dismissive of Tamara’s feedback on their reality show. Tia is a bit of a big head and diva.

[@YourRealtor_Marissa]

Tia is grown and doesn’t need dating advice. Plus dating now is a lot different than dating in our younger years.

[@LakeishaYoung-jg9lk]

For sure

[@jennifercooljeo6552]

If dating is a lot more difficult and different with her lack of experience shouldn’t she get advice

[@YourRealtor_Marissa]

@@jennifercooljeo6552 if she does not want it then no.

[@torriebrown9607]

Apryl is messy. After the she dated her Ex's band mate and put it on line. TRIFLING.

[@rogers5622]

And anyone who knowingly gets with her should expect Messy

[@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473]

Yeap but they love “exotic” women as they say so they get what they want Apryl is a horrible human being and they all know it but chases her down to wife her up

[@GoddesssofMind]

I love Tia! She’s quirky she looks a hell of a lot happier excited for her. Lol this make me wanna watch Sister Sister.

[@jennifercooljeo6552]

It’s all fake

[@eleayeproctor9490]

Pretending to be. She is realizing the streets are cold and nasty out there.

[@christineharris2197]

​@@eleayeproctor9490Damn 😂 , You damn sure ain't lying.

[@godsgirl7201]

lol

[@angeluvsvid]

I finally can tell them apart how different they look now 😊

[@randomworld4615]

I love how free spirited Tia is. I wish her the best.

[@brandonleemoss]

Yeah destroying her marriage just so she can try her luck out here in the streets😅 .. Good luck 👍 🌝🤞

[@GoldenSighlence]

@@brandonleemoss Are you married? What’s some advice that you have regarding maintaining a healthy marriage from your experience?

[@TheOriginalScorpioBelle]

Free spirited? I never get that from her.

[@duskytraveller8261]

​@@TheOriginalScorpioBelleRight I'm like free spirited???? Maybe Tamera but definitely not Tia 😂😂😂

[@christineharris2197]

Tamara is the Free Spirit.

[@PinkOwl31]

This dating scene is waaay different from 5 years ago, 10 years ago... Etc. so i wouldn't want Temaras advice either. Heck, i wouldnt even give advice having been married several years. I wouldnt even know what to tell myself if i was dating. Id stay single in this dating market. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@sgriffiths0280]

Apryl use these men to further herself and career. She used Omarion to her singing career hence to why she always singing on IG live and dated Taye Diggs to start an acting career. She also dated Dr. Dre but he saw right through her. She also used Fizz to get Omarion jealous but that didn’t work. Tia making it hard for herself to make a man love her. I’m tired of hearing about her divorce write it in a damn journal.

[@torriebrown9607]

Your comments was on point.

[@supremegoddess5347]

Goodness you sure know these people and you’re not even a close friend or associate whooaaa 🤔

[@dahliar410]

April doesn't have a career. Those men are using her not the other way around

[@rhulesuperior40]

What career 😂

[@ynmonroe]

@@dahliar410 I kinda agree with you. I don't know her; first time hearing about her honestly. I was wondering who pursued who. I mean, didn't this video say that Taye digs pursued her? If so, how could she be using him? Unless she brought nothing to the table, emotionally, etc, which doesn't seem to be the case because the video mentioned him gaining some kind of healing from it, then it sounds like it wasn't all about using him. But who knows right? Just seems odd to assume that. Also, if there is an audience for Tia's sharing (I'm not it), then who does it hurt unless she's lying and making things up?

[@ladyblackbgb]

These twins don’t seem as close as I thought they were, if you’ve ever seen their previous reality show together you know what I’m saying.

[@ygtchris1626]

I’m not surprised, when they had a reality show Tia did the same thing. It was clear Tamera loved working with her sister/being together whereas Tia prefers to be more independent. That’s perfectly fine but it was kind of sad to watch because Tia didn’t communicate it well she would just do stuff on the low or blow Tamera off leaving her blindsided. They were talking about a Sister Sister reboot and everything, Tamera was really excited and wanted to get the ball rolling but she eventually picked up on Tia being disinterested.

[@Clonehalle]

Tia has definitely stated that she wanted to do a Sister Sister reboot. Her and Tamera were fighting for it but they hit a dead end with the executives and they both stated this in interviews. Also, both stated that the producers of their reality show tried to cause exaggerated conflict amongst the two for storylines and ratings which is why both decided to end their show. Amazing how both of these ladies get criticized so in these comments. Love them both and their choices ❤.

[@blah21blah22blah23]

Tamara is not about to get involved with Tia’s midlife crisis. That’s all that is.

[@feefs2139]

💯 😂😂😂

[@TheJasmineJoanis]

Couldn’t agree more 😂

[@angelab9171]

There’s nothing surprising about Tia not wanting Tamera’s advice. They’re different people. If you watched their reality show you know they had a period where they didn’t talk for many years unless it was work related. They have completely different personalities. Tamera had to tell Tia she didn’t want her parenting advice when she was pregnant because they see things differently. Tia was into that attachment parenting stuff. Being twins doesn’t mean they’re the same person. But, in this case Tamera said Tia doesn’t want dating advice from anyone, not just Tamera. Most people would tell Tia to keep some of her biz off social media but if that’s what she wants to do that’s her choice.

[@unapologeticallyromel7096]

Hey I believe they are close but I understand everyone is different they may not want to hear about what their siblings have to say.

[@QueenAlexandre]

Apryl laughs because they were never a couple, I told you guys before that it was all a show 😎

[@Jess_cool25]

Tia is making a mistake by going the reality tv route! Hopefully this doesn’t destroy her and her bond with her family.

[@adamkyron]

Tia wants to dip it and do it, not settle down again

[@SidneyShaw1214]

I used to watch the Tia and Tamera reality show and they seemed to have two totally different lifestyles One leans more to the mom side and the other to the dad (if u know what I mean 😂) they also seemed somewhat competitive about work so they always seemed not to be as close as I had always thought

[@rogers5622]

It's always interesting how their Dad seem to be closer to Tia and Corey. you NEVER see their father interact with Adam 🤔but their mom seems to be with both.

[@kashataylor6430]

Tia sounds like one of those people that have to bump her head.

[@fah232]

Most of us have to....

[@lilith.in.capricorn]

🎯 She’s always going to learn her lesson the hard way 🤧

[@kikilicious99]

Tia doesn't want advice from Tamera bcuz she lived enough life to manage her dating situation. Also, Tamera is a bit more conservative, and Tia already knows her sister's opinions and some of them she just doesn't agree with. Tia will be ok. It's not easy finding someone of quality that you're sexually attracted to, shares your core values, and click with. It will take some time, and i hope she finds someone compatible.

[@jennifercooljeo6552]

She already had that man and she divorced him for a petty reason. Now she’s avoiding that reality by avoiding her sister

[@omphilemoerane2569]

​@@jennifercooljeo6552oh what was the petty reason she divorced him?

[@catluva2285]

No one gets divorced for "petty reasons". Tia was just classy and respectful enough to keep her issues mostly to herself. I applaud her for that, and also applaud her family for (apparently) minding their business and respecting her wishes. Boundaries are the key to long life!

[@shawnlittle73]

Let Tia figure out the dating world out on her own…

[@chrysanthemums4963]

It’s funny bc I’ve been mostly single, and I would tell her to gth off them dirty dating streets! 🤣 but her quirky prideful self needs to learn that herself.

[@LuxuryBAR-bg1nx]

Then she can shut up about it because we really don’t care

[@shawnlittle73]

@@LuxuryBAR-bg1nx You must care because you’re responding!

[@charlenacole5019]

Tia gives Mid Life Crisis! All the Ticktock crazy videos & pics, it's giving I need attention , I need any Man's attention...Girl Relax, let love fing you

[@bobbiewright1500]

Tia has to know wealthy men are not checking for a 44 year old woman; especially if they don’t have children ; those men wants women 35 & under !

[@shaylaparks17]

Exactly! I’m like no one sees through this?

[@MsWhocares14]

No one sees what you see because if you had followed her way before divorce she made the same type of content then. No one knew about her tik toks fr until she announced she was getting divorced.

[@nitaboo008]

Interesting, I don't take it that way. I feel like she's doing what millions of others are doing by making fun videos and enjoying life 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@barbiebandeaux]

Or she is finding happiness on an individual level and powering through a difficult time and space in her life

[@Bulldog-mi3om]

They are the cutest twins

[@bippityboppityboo2u]

Her twin knows her better than anyone else. She doesn't want the advice for a reason 😂😂

[@jennifercooljeo6552]

She’s jealous of her sister and doesn’t want to hear wisdom. Tamera is everything Tia wished she was

[@bippityboppityboo2u]

@jennifercooljeo6552 I don't know the details of their relationship as sisters, nor do I know if that's the type of life tia desires. Seems like they are polar opposites and contrary to what the world says, that's quite alright...

[@duskytraveller8261]

​@@jennifercooljeo6552Agreed

[@godsgirl7201]

lol

[@godsgirl7201]

She’s also still healing from pain

[@FNJ720]

I’m happy for Tia that she’s doing her. Go girl! From one Tia to another!😎

[@tashahall1855]

Being in a bunch of relationships or dating alot of ppl doesnt make you anymore of an expert than sum1 who hasnt. From my experience, usually the ppl who get around are bad in relationships hence why theyre always moving around.

[@brettsfav4]

💯

[@zzizahacallar]

I think Tia wants something of her own and maybe felt she should keep it from her sister for the time being. I wouldn't have done that because it's hurtful. Apryl Jones no comment.

[@toppagirl]

She’s always done dismissive things to Tamera. I think there’s some jealousy there…especially after watching their reality show. She is mean spirited.

[@AMBROSIA1320]

​@latasih Omg, yes!! Always dismissive! Tia is a mean girl. She repeatedly made Tamera cry and would never apologize. She knew what it was like to be pregnant and keep it a secret til she was ready, but she pestered and bullied Tamera to come out about her pregnancy before she was ready. She definitely has a mean spirit. We get it, she wants to be separated from your twin, but the way she goes about it, is nasty.

[@jennifercooljeo6552]

@@AMBROSIA1320she doesn’t want to take the advice because she will tell her she was wrong. Tia should take the advice of a woman who has the life she doesn’t have but wants. I think Tia thinks she’s better than her sister but now at her big age looking desperate and dumb online all in the name of “healing”.

[@feliciabailey4477]

Some people laugh to keep from crying 😭

[@KoKo_Creme]

I think Tia wants to be the sister who has it all together but she is not. It’s obvious they are totally different but I think Tamera can give her some good advice. Everyone needs to talk to someone and get a little guidance or advice.

[@Ladonay]

What’s wrong with just being single and enjoying it? Why does everyone need to be booed up? Enjoy getting to know who you are at this stage in your life. You do not need to be coupled up with someone in order to be happy. Coupling up with God is enough for me.

[@danielle5391]

Dating back when Tamara was dating, compared to now...is not the same.

[@lottisglow]

Babe, that’s not Tia in the green dress

[@theoriginalCoCoSmith]

Seek help she showed pictures of both what is the problem

[@kimlvspizza]

Tia is doing a lot rn on social media

[@lastella1994]

Yes she's been doing too much.

[@unapologeticallyromel7096]

Now Tamera not knowing about her sister reality show is werid to me because my siblings would know but I'm pretty sure they are close and if her show ratings do good maybe Tamera will be on the 2nd season.

[@torriebrown9607]

Well Said

[@JLayla9142]

But she ran her butt to file for a divorce and hijacked publicity from her sisters book tour

[@angelab9171]

Tia had a history of leaving Tamera out of things. When they had their reality show, one of their big arguments was because they were working on developing a show together but Tamera got blindsided when the guys from the network came to her upset when they found out Tia was also working with different people to develop a different show that Tamera didn’t know about so they scrapped it. Tamera told tia should would have supported her other projects if she had just been honest about it instead of having her looking crazy. Tia didn’t think she didn’t anything wrong. Their close twin relationship was also more for the public brand than real life.

[@toppagirl]

@@angelab9171she’s very nasty to Tamera.

[@Jess_cool25]

I don’t think they’re closed. There’s a lot of pain in that relationship. I wish them healing!

[@SeekingGreetings]

Tia and Tamera haven't been cool and close for a couple years, now.

[@roxannefuentez8779]

Tia has never treated her sister well she totally did her wrong when she got married she talks down on her all the time if you watch their old tv show where she got married on. So not surprised she doesn’t want her sister’s advice.

[@monicaduncan7433]

He dodged a bullet for sure😂

[@jennifercooljeo6552]

Definitely, she is so cringe

[@monicaduncan7433]

@@jennifercooljeo6552 yesssss

[@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade]

Exactly! Taye is corny to me and a little sus (i get the feeling that he’s in the closet) BUT April was a downgrade from his ex wife (career and maturity wise) April deserves someone who is on love and hip hop… not someone who is walking emmy, oscars and tony awards red carpets

[@monicaduncan7433]

@@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade 🤣🤣🤣right

[@chef_ekrystina6918]

I think Tia wishes she wasn’t a twin lol she tries to separate herself from Tamara every chance she gets. As far as April… there were signs. Smh

[@lindajones4080]

Tia always has treated Tamera wrong.

[@bobbiewright1500]

It’s probably jealousy !

[@TarotByBayou333]

Right lol

[@FNJ720]

What did she do “wrong”? Maybe there’s a reason for it.

[@ThomasBrown-ig1wx]

Jealousy

[@TarotByBayou333]

@@FNJ720 there’s no reason for underlying jealousy. Sometimes siblings get into a competitive spirit. Maybe she sees something very pure in Tamera that she wishes she had who knows. But if you are spiritually gifted you can see there’s something going on.

[@africanqueen2200]

I love this for Tia! I will definitely watch her show. I watched every episode of their reality show and it was good. The only reason why it ended is because 1. Corey didn't like the film crew setting up so early in their house he is the type of person that keeps to himself and keeps his business out of the streets he got tired of the crew showing up at the house. 2. When Tia and Tamera weren't really seeing eye to eye the show wanted them to fight and have more drama for everyone to see and they were not with that so they called it quits.

[@nitaboo008]

Always been a fan of Tia, live and enjoy ur life girl ❤️

[@urbanfrugalchick1158]

She is tired of sharing the spotlight with her sister and yet her sister face is in 90 % of this video LOL

[@theoriginalCoCoSmith]

You people are sick she showed pictures of both of them always complaining about stuff

[@jennifercooljeo6552]

@@theoriginalCoCoSmithyou are sick, emotionally. Relax

[@newlife9830]

I don't see an issue with not accepting your sisters advice. She may know more on the inside about their marriage than we know from the outside. Maybe she doesn't like the style of her sisters marriage.

[@NikkiPresents2024]

Tia and Tamera know each other in real life. I see my siblings past and present relationships and I would never take relationship tips from them. We do not know if Tamara’s relationship is good just because she has been in it for so long. 🤦🏾‍♀️😂🤷🏽‍♀️. I am happy the twins aren’t doing a reality show together again. The last one was rough when they had hard times. I think it impacted their relationship. I think April may be immature. Remember she dated band members from the same band. She is very MESSY.

[@NoseyNuNu]

I don't always take my sister's advice lol i think its pretty normal 🙂‍↕️

[@lovelyish1]

Judging from their relationship on their show. They not as close as you see other TWINS! So it’s not surprising she doesn’t want her sisters advice.

[@choconethotcoco4717]

Tia and Tamera are in their 40s, whose going around in their 40s asking for advice from anyone about their life and the decisions they make in their life! At that age one would think you make your own decisions but if you're not sure or uneasy about your decisions you then seek out advice. For the most part at 40 you should have your own mind, make the majority of your own decision and rarely need to consult with others. If you find yourself constantly spring boarding your decision off of other people, you are not secure in your decision making abilities and that's a problem.

[@Farfar3881]

I don't blame Tia. People always seem to know best about your life I’ve been divorced widowed at 28 and now remarried so I’m speaking from experience.

[@SammyFavoured]

Tamera my fav twin she’s God fearing a good wife and isn’t online shacking her butt going through a midlife crisis

[@Carolina_girl86]

She didn’t get married that young. She was 29 turning 30. She started dating him in 2000 when she was 21. That wasn’t really young either as in the first person she dated as it’s making it out to seem although I know Tamera has said they (she and Tia) were prudes and didn’t want to date, so maybe he was her first real bf.

[@RepentImmediately]

Tia is broadcasting some strange energy 🧐 tffffff......

[@NoOne-wt3sv]

I think what are witnessing is a woman who was robbed of her singledom in her 20’s thus having those cringey, embarrassing and less than “wise” building blocks. She seemingly is working backwards. Her behavior fits to me. She is having her second youth in her 40’s. I say let her have her fun.

[@angelab9171]

@@NoOne-wt3svTia wasn’t robed of anything, she made a choice to get married young.

[@toppagirl]

@@angelab9171Thank You! these people will make excuses for everything when it comes to these celebrities🙄

[@NoOne-wt3sv]

@@angelab9171 I think you get what I meant… not necessarily robbed but let’s say she traded in a developmental stage in her life to get to know herself better for traditionalism. A young wife and mother. A budding marriage.

[@angelab9171]

@@NoOne-wt3sv Tia met Corey when she was 24. That’s not young. She was 30 when they got married. They weren’t young at any of those stages. Generally, people wait until they’re older to get married and start a family (even when they’re in a relationship) so they have that time to figure themselves out before tying themselves to someone else. If she didn’t take the time to learn herself and live before marriage that’s on her. I think Tia is just one of those people who has an issue with aging. She acted like she was having a midlife crises when she turned 35. She was being mean and judgmental to Tamera for not being as fun as when they used to go out partying and drinking in their 20s and Tamera had to tell her she wasn’t in that same place in her life anymore. Corey seemed annoyed with Tia then too because she was constantly talking about proving she still got it. That just reeks of insecurity.

[@ashleylee9525]

I don't know Taye from Rent. I know him from the Wood and the best Man, oh and How Stella got her groove back

[@danif4750]

Tamera is so sweet

[@blossomingrose11]

I think we are so fickle. At one point we were so happy for Taye and Apryl now were saying he dogged a bullet. We are human Jesus. She had a human moment and the crazy thing we still don't know the story behind the breakup because they were mature enough to keep that private. Such a bipolar mindset society has lol

[@Prismatic9008]

Tia outchere living her best life. She is probably not settling down anytime soon after that prison of a marriage she was in, and I don't blame her 😂

[@thinkitnotstrange]

The picture of her in the green dress is Tamera not Tia, the mole is a give away

[@TheKaydij]

She is trying to come into her own I guess and wants to navigate it fully solo, ready to embrace every high n low on her own time and faith.

[@mikelowry2865]

She probably just want to figure it out on her own. And that’s okay! I had long term relationship straight out of high school only to be 27 and never really dated. I had to learn how to date. Made so many mistakes but learned so much about myself.

[@nyahe3261]

It’s none of Tamera’s business. Tia is grown asf. Sometimes doing things in silence is best. Not to mention for all we know Tamera’s marriage maybe not all of that for real. She may be revealing things about herself that her own twin doesn’t know.

[@MrB590]

Tameras marriage is happy and fine , they are very happy in my eyes.

[@jennifercooljeo6552]

Grown doesn’t mean smart or wise. A humble person would listen to anyone’s advice, you don’t have to take it but it doesn’t hurt to listen

[@nyahe3261]

@@jennifercooljeo6552 At the end of day. Tia is going to be Tia humble or she is doing what she wants to do. If that’s how she wants to show up in the world then that’s on her. No one should care. I understand that everything should be taken and nothing should be disregarded, but obviously she doesn’t want anyone else’s opinions. We don’t know what she has been through in her mind or what space she’s in exactly. She’s not required to listen to her sister or anyone. Furthermore, her sister does appear to be happy but everyone has a different version of happy and maybe she sees her sister life as something she doesn’t want for herself. For all we her decision to not take her sister advice could in fact be a wise choice for her whatever her circumstances are right now. We don’t know these people and everything is speculation even my response. Honestly they got rich people problems which don’t seem like problems to me, but hey I am just chiming in.

[@nyahe3261]

@@MrB590 True and people thought Will and Jada were couple goals making references to their relationship in songs and etc. Look at them now! Sometimes what we get to see isn’t real.

[@LuxuryBAR-bg1nx]

@@nyahe3261AND we really don’t care about her divorce then lol she can shut up about it because it’s not that deep. Even her ex husband has moved on happily lol everyone happy except her and I wonder why?

[@keshawilliams7260]

I’m sorry but I’m proud of Tia . After a breakup in a public space hurts more than a private space.. Tia keep going . Sometimes a relationship is not the end goal but being happy and secured is for sure the end goal

[@Pebbles0831]

She’s her own person! She dies not have to take her sisters advice just because their sisters! Her sister just got very lucky to get a good guy !! Just because she dated more doesn’t mean her advice will be a fit fir Tia! And you never go back to where you were unhappy just because dating is hard ! She has to live and learn on her own. Everyone’s journey is different so people need to stop trying to get others to follow other people’s journeys . We are all meant to live and learn in different ways and this is what people don’t get. !!

[@nakiastokes4825]

I feel sorry for Tia. Divorce is divorce if she wanted it get a divorce for whatever reason that’s fine, only they know their issues. But the way she’s carrying herself is making people not like her. she think she’s getting praised for this new fountain life, but she actually looks stupid and the only people she’s getting praised from is bitter women. she needs to read the room/Internet.

[@TarotByBayou333]

Something seems off with Tia and Tamera. It seems as if Tia thinks she’s above Tamera. I feel Tamera can sense it but Tia gives me secret mean girl for some reason with her sister. I love em both but it makes me wonder a lil bit about their relationship. They don’t seem that close

[@angelab9171]

From watching their reality show, Tia’s mean girl ways towards Tamera is not so secret. After Tia tried to get that teenaged girl fired from her job over a SM comment I think she just might be a low key mean girl period.

[@TarotByBayou333]

@@angelab9171 I agree! It seems like she over compensates by trying to seem “friendly” and relatable with all those social media posts she makes. She even copies Tamera’s reels by trying to make hers “better” but Tamera’s authenticity shines through more in my opinion!

[@angelab9171]

@@TarotByBayou333 agreed! Tia was always trying to outshine Tamera for some reason. When Tia got that Christmas musical movie she kept rubbing it in Tamera’s face and asking Tamera if she was jealous because she (Tamera) is the better singer and always wanted to do a musical. Tia seemed disappointed that Tamera said she wasn’t jealous and was happy for Tia landing the role. Like why wouldn’t you be happy for your sister getting a job? Tia always has come off attention seeking. It’s weird.

[@Julia93939393]

I believe their last name is pronounced “MOwry” not “Mawry”. Just based on hearing Tamera pronounce it on the real

[@MoDavI-sl7iy]

I actually liked Apryl & Taye together. Now I'm wonder if it was all REAL.

[@Jay_Dickenson]

There’s a certain muscle you have to have to navigate the dating scene that can only be developed through experience. Tia is moving in the right direction for her so kudos to her for that. Maybe it’s just me but I’ve always felt like Taye & April’s relationship was a PR relationship. I’m a fan of Taye’s and it always seemed like his ideal partner would be a man and there’s nothing wrong with that.

[@markiehwarren8866]

🤦🏾‍♀️🤣

[@talltalllady]

This is about Tia but there's a lot of pictures of Tamera. The first pictures in the light green dress are Tamera

[@MulattaMermaid1]

I don't want my family's dating advice either lol. I like to figure people out on my own I can't wait to see her show though

[@changes649]

Tia and Tamera were never tight. Plus if she is gonna get advice, it should be from someone in her same situation or similar. Tamera cannot relate.

[@HaahmayanShaalManasseh]

Tia got a little hood in her 😂

[@ahviwe]

These girls are beautiful ❤️

[@Jess_cool25]

What Tamera said was respectful. She said she respects her sister not wanting her or anyone’s advice. Stop spreading negativity between these sisters!

[@Plum_bird]

Tia has left Tamera out of the info circle before (the game ),so I wasn’t surprised. Tamera is often trying to do joint projects but Tia is not interested. After Tamera got her feelings hurt enough, she just let Tia be Tia.

[@blkgm7005]

You can have a really close relationship with siblings & love them down, but still have your own thoughts, opinions & choices that are different than your sibs. Not to mention dating in general is VERY than it was a decade ago. Let them women live their life how they chose for themselves.

[@AroundTheWayTalk89]

Apryl is legit a pass around and very immature she’s a clout chaser.

[@pooh4025]

Apryll Jones has that J Lo,Halle Berry syndrome 😢

[@lindal3841]

Tia has been a twin for much too long. She wants to individuate and do something for and by herself

[@wildkims2008]

Love how they showed Tamera for almost a full minute at the beginning while talking about Tia😂

[@yumyumb0125]

Most sisters don't want to hear advice from their sisters, especially when they know information that the public may not be aware of. In Tia's defense, I can understand her wanting to bump her head on her own. A lot of times we do that even with advice and that should be okay.

[@queenlthrives]

Regarding Tia and Tamera , and thinking Tamera has all the answers or advice because of her "perfect" marriage. Wow. I thought people would've learned from Jeannie and Jeezy about always believing in pretty pictures on social media. You just never know. I think Tia will be fine. But only Tia will know. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I wish her nothing but the best, along with Tamera. ❤