Tim Ross on break-ups | DON'T GET BACK WITH YOUR EX | Let's talk relationships

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[@Kristalwalker1972]

Never go back to a place God delivered you from…..hence, my ex. All of my blessings are in front of me…..not behind.

[@faithbylatrice]

A place God delivered you from 😭😭😭😭!!! Wheeeewwww!

[@lauradelregno99]

Preach 🎉

[@rondolbalfour1856]

Did you had his kids ?

[@finnessejets4231]

Im in front of you baby wya?

[@FaithandPurpose828]

@@rondolbalfour1856 Great Question!!!!🎯

[@characteristicallyauthentic]

“Stop using God for an excuse for the work that you won’t do!” 💯 💯💯

[@amonioda]

I almost FLIPPED my table!!!

[@berniceturner3596]

Thank you!!!

[@amandlaawethu1538]

They can't help it. They use God as a weapon against men, only men

[@erbi7745]

Agreed

[@DesireeGray1206]

Exactly . You can’t be with someone who can’t recognize their trauma or upbringing

[@berniceturner3596]

If you have love for each other and worked on yourselves , had deep conversations about what the problems were, along with prayer, forgiven each other and feel you have a 2nd chance to make it right, go back! Some 2nd chances have lasted .

[@RareAr]

35 and feeling hopeless like I’ll never have another connection like I did w/ my ex. Trying to lean on the Lord heal and wait. It’s not easy.

[@ChrisondraRoane-n9n]

😢😢😢 omgoodness same but I’m gonna have faith

[@campbelltish]

You will get through it 🙏🏾 I'm sending love & a peace of mind

[@danielledavis8566]

Ooo I feel you on that; hang in there hun, what's to come will be better that what's behind you 🙏🏾

[@latinajones5483]

Me too 😢 ugh. I’m trying to stay away so bad !

[@asiadp]

Same here :/

[@JohnBenitez-w3k]

Idk I’ve heard some testimonies where there was a break up, they fixed themselves, they came back together and now they’re living how God has called them to live.

[@bettinalounkokobi8950]

True, that happens but I think in this case the instruction was specifically for her not to go back

[@serenedione]

Right, I feel like this is my scenario.

[@serenedione]

​@@bettinalounkokobi8950okay, so this is not a word for everybody...thank you‼️

[@00Punk]

I feel like this is what I’m going thru right now, I’m 24. Knew this girl for 13 years since middle school, we always loved eachother, dated for 6 years, but I was young & dumb & we kept going in the same circles thru our adulthood. 0:02 My ex is now in another relationship & even tho she still wanted me in her life I told her I can’t do it bc she can’t show up for me the same way I can for her anymore. I I feel God has started working on me to reunite us at some point. This process started @ 23 last year in November & it’s been hard

[@1Darkwave1]

I am going though this right now. It's amazing... Nobody has ever given me what she has. We didn't work.... 8 years apart. Been through a lot in our separate lives... But realized that nothing or nobody could feel the spaces that she did. We both been working on ourselves, healing are chocolate traumas understanding ourselves and doing it all through faith and God. We have recently reconnected and guarded our centerpiece.... A 48 years old for the first time in my life I can see my future . Not living day to day anymore.... I put in the work and so has she and now we are stronger than ever and we both know that we want to work it out. I'm so excited. 🙏🏽!!! God is good

[@KFontLab]

“Work on you”…. YES! I always tell young ladies who ask “Be what you are asking for, become what you are seeking” You have to know yourself!

[@stan4288]

D reason why most pple find it hard to get over their ex is becos most of these relationships involved sexual and soul ties which are so damnnn difficult to break..God who destined sex for marriage was smarter than us but we humans would rather have our own principles and our own truths....this is especially for ladies who are entangled with deadbeat and no good men but somehow still cant seem to break out of the toxic cycle....first thing is to repair ur relationship with God and then he will give u clarity...❤

[@cassandragrayes6149]

Yeap. They always come back. Don’t go back. God is shifting us to what’s for us! I’m 33 and want to be married. I am fasting and waiting on God.

[@jeanthglee592]

“He fit who you were not who you are going to be”!!👏🏾

[@tamikabrown4647]

I wanted to throw my laptop...whewww🙌

[@chikamsoodume3601]

How is that most people are walking away with ..”don’t take your ex back “ ? This man said a whole lot ! Especially about showing up self aware if you want something real

[@daddylightsministry106]

Maybe it has something to do with the title of the show.

[@chikamsoodume3601]

Yeah maybe ..

[@86Kera]

@@daddylightsministry106lol I had to back to read it 😊

[@anjose9449]

Perhaps that is what resonates with viewers the most.

[@Godfavorsmi]

Sometimes it’s the right person at the wrong time

[@tanyshajackson4037]

Ughhh I hate when a person refuses to be aware of them or just plain unaware.. like you can’t see you but you see everything else

[@ericaburley9491]

I've heard people say regarding past relationships. Remember why you left, chances are not much has changed.

[@natural_free_spirit]

I’m not sure why, but it feels like in these times people are obsessed with relationships! Focus on self-love and learn to love yourself. Learn to be comfortable with yourself. Not dating, not having sex, and the right person will come I promise.

[@justbelit]

Yea everyone seems so codependent and the social media posts they buy into doesn't help. Also pastors always preach on the "spouse coming" never to just be whole and content living in your purpose which could mean community NOT marriage.

[@shirlsshirls8594]

Never ever go back to an ex. The risk far outweighs the benefits. Date looking ahead.

[@LDYMedia]

“He fit who you were, not who you will be” ❤

[@amonioda]

And this is EXACTLY why I’ve been taking the past 2 years in therapy to learn and love myself after my last relationship. My relationship with GOD is the reason why I have peace with being single and I’m fine with waiting for the right one. I’ve noticed that I attract different men when I work on my healing. Thank you so much Unc Tim!

[@katherinathompson4445]

I'm turning 38 this year.. this message slapped me up

[@loria.buttsesquire3867]

Me too, sis! #gutpunched ✝️

[@86Kera]

Me too !

[@4376_H3ro]

I shouted this whole clip! 😭🙌🏾 I felt it in my knower and my souler! Lol be encouraged ladies,all loves, be intentional about YOU! 🫵🏾🥰 So much love and prayers for us and these times! 🥹🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@KeiyaHood]

I like the part where he says we can instantly discuss what’s wrong with the other person but have no knowledge of ourselves, how we contribute to “the problem” the other person has. Sometimes we need a gentle reminder to have a discussion with the man in the person.

[@shawannamcday]

I felt that so deep he fit who you were not who you will be 😮😮

[@denikkaray4699]

Whewwwww!!!! “He for who you were not who you will be” I felt that thang in my knower!!!!!! Jesus

[@marcysweets]

i got a chill. i need to watch this multiple times, cus you're speaking all truth but you know our head hardddd.

[@rameekaswint6594]

He fits who you were not who you are!!!!! 😊that's a word... i felt that in my SHINIIII

[@4376_H3ro]

Oh my God, soooooo grateful this was recommended in my algorithm….THANK YOU for this WISDOM! 🥺🙌🏾😭🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️‍🩹

[@aliciacoleman7970]

😮Pastor!!! Blew me back with that one.. just because it didn't happen in a time does Not mean God doesn't have a time for you.. Hallelujah

[@KhadijahJames-be1xp]

I’m 33 and thought I was done after this past relationship. Now I know what I need to do. Praise God for this message!!!! This helped me so much 🎉🎉🎉

[@alethiacampbell1365]

'He fit who you were, not who you will be' 📢

[@monetpenny2910]

You just spoke to me so clearly in a place that I have been avoiding. A place that the devil has been torturing me with. Thank you Tim Ross Thank you Jesus!❤

[@terrencelee9366]

I had to break up with my girlfriend of 5 years because of I had to realize her happiness mattered more than me being comfortable. Our relationship was just built on being adults living with their parents that had little to no responsibility. But as I started to approach 30 and she started dropping hints at marriage and a family I started to see that I wasn’t the man financially and mentally to give her that so I had to let her go, we haven’t talked in a few months and I won’t lie it hurts . I spent the night with a woman recently and in all honesty it didn’t feel right at all . Idk where our lives might go in the meantime, I know she’s moved on and that hurts but I’m happy for her and who knows when and if the opportunity comes maybe we can try a second go at it and this time we’ll both be ready .

[@Liabs07]

I've been working on my trauma so long and finally watched this after months of having it saved. Thank you God for confirmation. I'm so proud of myself and the work done and still in progress. I am now able to speak up instead of being the "NOTHING IS WRONG" type of partner. The work is uncomfortable at times, but darkness is even more uncomfortable as a Child of Light.

[@211jevonte]

This message also applies to ex employers, ex churches anything with an EX if you ask me.

[@GiMichelle30]

I'm in this situation now where I contemplate going back to my ex. I'm still in his divine timing thank you God!

[@spaasm717]

Just had my first counciling sesh since i became an adult, it was so good to break that barrier.

[@Misscrissy00]

Oooo, this is so good!! I'm glad I found this. I'm 1mo and a couple days posy break up and I tell you.... It's the distractions after a 21 day fast for me. The Lord brought me to Luke 4. Where Jesus fasted for 40 days and here comes the devil. Thanks for this episode. I love yall!!!

[@RinaJazzmean27]

I needed to hear that, I really did. I’ve been falling into doubt and it’s been rough. I’m not late I’m on Gods time, thanks Tim.

[@jarayshaw9928]

Man i swear his videos be poppin up at the exact time i need them too.♥️

[@Therealentreprenher]

This is some GOOD TEACHING.

[@jbill7808]

I thought about getting back with my ex wife. We hung out & she was acting like she missed me. Then she went back to her self. Making excuse about hanging out. I remembered why the relationship ended it

[@RhenaLoveTarot]

No matter how much they convince you that they have changed. Just known that either. When you do get back with them , they just gonna do things differently , so they won't get caught. Reread that so it can sink in

[@lashenamcelroy7446]

JESUS!!! 🗣️ “He fit who I was, NOT who I am going to be! My husband will steward me well and facilitate my growth! I’m a WHOLE GIFT 🎁.”

[@jamiweed8857]

Tim Ross I’ve been in the basement since day one. I’m crying at my desk right now because of the wisdom and confidence you are raising in your sons! I think you should do a conference for all young people to love themselves like you have shown your sons to do. May God continue to bless you. Love your sister in Christ Jami

[@chatwithanns]

Wisdom right here. You're timing is on point...thanks Mr Ross.

[@chatwithanns]

Ohhh loved that 'knower': "He fit who you were, not who you will be". Woah! ♥

[@CalebMenefee]

Hey Tim Ross, I recently broke up with my girlfriend because of fear. I feared to be real with her in difficult moments. I feared letting her know how my childhood affected why I struggled with my ability to communicate certain things with her. To give context it was my first relationship. I didn't take advantage of the wisdom of the people in my life to overcome that fear and led me to make a rash decision. But, this time apart from her allowed God to show me where I fell short, and what I need to do to grow. And gratefully, I've been taking steps to change, though there is still more work to do I just wanted your opinion about trying to restore the relationship because I have this desire for her to know the better me, if that sounds right . If so, advice while waiting for the relationship to be restored. But, if not, advice on letting the relationship go.

[@williamanderson9352]

JESUS!!! This is Sooooo good..

[@kennyhenderson9390]

Depends. 21 years together and married. We broke up but we worked at it to make it last. You have to heal and work on yourself both parties do.

[@kadeem1417]

This is heavy! Why he snap like that 🏁🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@jasminemwangi3687]

Thank you for this "He couldn't steward me into the person God has called me to be💯

[@86Kera]

I think we also need to add to the message that yes God does give us the desires of our hearts IF they align with him. Now that may not happen when you want it or it may not happen. I think we just need to be in a place to accept his plan. I’m learning this myself. Do think in abundance in all aspects, also learning for myself. Not to discourage anyone but we just have to accept realities sometimes.

[@lisabartley6944]

BLESSED WEDNESDAY TIM ROSS YOUR FAMILY TEAM AND ALL THE DWELLERS FAMILIES 🎉🎊🗣️🎤🙏🔥🔥🔥🔥🙏💪🤗♥️🤎👑💙🔥🔥🔥🔥❗❗❗❗

[@lisabartley6944]

BROTHER TIM ROSS I HOPE AND PRAY YOUR FATHER IS IMPROVING IN HIS HEALTH AND HEALING PROCESS 🗣️🎤🙏🔥🔥🔥🔥🙏💪🤗💙🤎👑♥️🔥🔥🔥🔥❗❗❗❗

[@querida1809]

Yes, Yes finally, keep talking I have said this sooo many times to people about Adam and Eve, God want them to take responsibility and accountability for their own action's but instead they blame each other. Relationship is team effort. You have to be on the same page with each other. Thank you for this upload!

[@marip5543]

Love it! Hard truths… self-awareness is key!

[@tianatreasures4349]

I listened to this with an open mind And I Thank You! 🙏🏿

[@sassypants0421]

He fit who you were not who you will to be. Poetic Bars Tim

[@Iamlindagraham]

Honestly. Good dictates. Leaning on our own understanding of things leads to further confusion.

[@kimberlybernard35]

That don’t get back with him was FOR ME SPECIFICALLY!!!!!

[@clariondenisha8457]

Omg! He fit who you were not who I will be!!!!! Jesus!!!!

[@SheSoLovely3]

I felt it in my soul and my pinky toe! This was so good!!

[@brizzybre]

Pinky toe HAHA

[@crystalcarter9375]

Man, Man of God!!! You’re on point!! God bless you and your wife. I needed that!!

[@daphdaph906]

I love this question and the way your preparing yourself much as possible..I'm happy for you ma'am Tim, this advice is so helpful. Thank you for sharing

[@reality3595]

THIS IS SO GOOD!!!

[@rae-geanjenkins2867]

I wish I had found this page 2 years ago. It would have helped so much. Grateful to find it now though.

[@MsBdoll87]

😂😂 to the ending at the big black mommas! Great advice though uncle Timmy!

[@porchewilliams1422]

THIS WAS FOR ME! PRAISS GOD! SPEAAAKKKKK 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾👏🏾

[@ed16837]

It will take a great deal of emotional maturity from both to agree on conflict resolutions, where it all went wrong, how are things going to be different etc etc but there are some things that you can't come back from in a break up depending on your boundaries, going back can work for some people and it can work out great but for others it could be worse than the first time so just have to know the other person wants to work our the relationship as much as you and pour into each other in the best way possible

[@deannasimmons4756]

He kept the clip completely loaded billet after bullet 🔥

[@pastrylover1120]

I needed to hear this badly.. thank you for being open to letting God speak through you.

[@ILiveUpToMyName]

😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨Man that breakdown was crazy!!!

[@daschuhow]

Fabulous!! I felt that thang! 😂

[@ImJustSayingBTW]

I love this video! Thank you. I'm listening to it for the second time, back-to-back and will share this.

[@stellaraze3794]

Not God working on the fade 😂🤣

[@angelahairston4761]

I agree! God knows best, but that doesn’t stop women who are in their 30s from feeling like… OK, so if this time is just for me to work on me then dang I must be jacked up! And all these other people weren’t? The thought does go through my mind often and I’ve probably been in therapy longer than most people! 🤷🏾‍♀️😆

[@WonkyWomanLife]

Hard to start over at 61 and sick

[@blessingbennett18]

YOU DONT HAVE TO TELL ME TWICE TIM!! 😂 I aint never going back in JESUS NAME 🙌🏾

[@A.D-e7n]

Wow, this is everything 🙌🏾

[@cmechell4702]

Thank you brother Tim 🙏🏽

[@amandlaawethu1538]

Men do not be triggered in a negative way. Listen give yourself time & treat them the way they are asking to be treated. Protect yourself at all cost. If your person does come back & truely apologies & gives corrective behavior then give it a try. They are primarily saying dont go back because it has an intended aim at men & they know its a draw for the women (click bait). Protect yourself at all cost.

[@EDaniels514]

I just would like to move on from my kids father and figure out how to be a very good single mother.. any episodes on parenting with God?

[@nonadavis7866]

You betta teach! 🤎

[@b.malieka]

I love this !!!!!!

[@faithful0487]

I will be a gift to the man who be able to Steward me❤

[@TylynnMusic]

This is so good!

[@ImJustSayingBTW]

36 and never married. Great video

[@deejaytrapz8730]

Don't be like a dog, that eats it's own vomit after it puked it out. 🤷 Best advice from Ma Mama🎉

[@thetravelpalette]

This is beautiful ❤

[@justbelit]

Work on you and stop idolizing getting married. If a spouse is for you, it will come when the time is right

[@Naeem_El]

Preach!!!

[@constancelatimore4467]

Love love love!

[@daninejenkins7074]

This helped me!!! My God!💜

[@trustnun_staylow]

This clip one of dem ones 💯🤞🏽

[@PushRadio]

This is GOOD.

[@admmgllc]

Work on you!

[@tonyabarnes802]

Wow! This was for me!

[@delishiousdishesbyyolanda6301]

I felt that thang too!!! 😂😂

[@nicab564]

I needed this ❤❤❤

[@miamiflorida6965]

Let it go, and let God!

[@SafeRn]

This is good❤

[@shanaparrilla978]

I’m trying to but I think I’m so afraid f being alone so I try with him. He doesn’t take accountability I feel like I’m changing and he’s not. He always makes excuses why not answering his phone and I feel like leftovers . He will wait all day sometimes 24 hours almost to call or text 😂. Then makes elaborate excuses. I think he has another woman I’m not sure . I was almost tempted to look at his phone but didn’t

[@Jah-Marii]

Realist comment I’ve seen!

[@righteousmasculine]

Ask GOD to remove anything out of your life that is not of him and once he move it don’t fight to keep it.

[@MLagarde0425]

@@righteousmasculineThis

[@yallcrazy302]

Yeah I have this mentality too but if he ignored me like that, I wouldn’t let them get into a relationship with me in the first place