Time to Slow Down & Retire? Making Hard Decisions As A Woman Alone

[@texasmimi5566]

10 seconds in, I LOL, for real, at Hal's comment..."Dork". We love Hal!

[@joanrhoton8841]

Love you Desi ❤ Susan you are so talented and it brings me joy to watch your channel 😊❤

[@potterlinda02]

I was just gonna say the same exact thing hahhahahaha!!

[@ewaworonowicz2653]

Same! 😂

[@Nausome_nana]

When I heard “dork” I laughed out loud. I love their conversations with each other. ❤️❤️❤️

[@maxinebaskerville6020]

Ditto! 😅

[@SharrellKline]

I'm baffled by people who can't settle into retirement. I'm 64 and my husband is 66. We retired and moved overseas almost four years ago now and life has been nothing but adventure. We're living just our social security, yet we've traveled more than we ever have, and we're pretty well traveled. I read books, watch great TV shows, play card games, go to the pool, it's the best time ever. We're at our lowest weights since high school and take no RX drugs. When we retired, we were morbidly obese, and my husband had just gone through prostate cancer. Getting the stress of our old lives into our rearview mirror was the key. Every day is a blessing.

[@sharondoan1447]

What an encouraging story of retirement!

[@ernestinechersak4615]

Good for you!

[@barbaradobson9298]

@@SharrellKline life sounds grand. What country did you choose to retire to ?

[@peggyduncanbaggenstoss5380]

I love your story… I’m 71, retired at age 62, again at 68. I’m so happy and free… I have a circle of Godly friends I’d never have met if I hadn’t moved 150 miles from my hometown and family. Don’t allow fear to stop you from exploring life🎈🎈🎈

[@queenscotia769]

It's clear to see that excess stress leads to early death ..so you made the right decision at the time. Not being sarcastic , but , Well done. ..

[@KarenGreenhagel]

We retired early and never regretted it. Our time is our own. We enjoy the little things like sleeping in or staying up late if we want. We thrift shop or meet up with friends for lunch. We get to stay in during bad weather. We do a lot of walking and talking. This is the life!

[@bettyloumilstead7341]

I retired January 7, 2022 and it was probably the best day of my life. I had worked at high stress jobs for the last 25 years and was exhausted- physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. I woke up one day in March 2021 and, sitting on the side of my bed, said “I can’t do this anymore and I don’t want to. I’m done.” The day I turned 66 years and 3 months I applied for social security and notified my employer I was retiring. My first day of retirement I played solitaire all day, just because I could. LOL. No one telling me what I needed to be doing and when. I have never regretted the decision and for the first time in my life I can say I’m truly happy. If I start to think about what purpose do I have now, I just go into gratitude and tell myself this is my reward for working almost 50 years. Also, since retiring I’ve been able to stop taking blood pressure medication that I had been on since I was in my 30’s. Life is good now.

[@anns1921]

God bless you!!! I hope you enjoy every single minute of your retirement... you've earned it!

[@sondrasmith2691]

Betty, I sure know how you feel. However, I went straight into caring for my Parents(I am their only child.) I took care of Dad for months(because at 87, Mom couldn't handle him alone.) He passed Nov of 2023. Now, I am facing knee replacement with my 88 year old Mom. I will not be able to leave her side at all, even though I am married and have a hoke with my Husband. I am happy about your happiness. There's no way I could be holding down a job anymore.

[@cremebrulee4759]

My blood pressure was an extremely high, but it was higher than it should be when I was working. When I retired it magically dropped to normal. I love that I don't have to have all the stress and responsibility anymore. I don't have to be anywhere in the morning unless I have an appointment. I don't have anybody demanding anything from me any more, and I love it.

[@kateg7298]

Susan, there really are angels. I had skin cancer surgery on my nose and basically had it rebuilt. I had a scar from between my eyebrows down to my top lip. It wasn't fun looking for a long time. One day I was feeling really unlovely and walked into my grocery store with a baseball hat pulled down low. A little old man with bright white hair and the most beautiful blue eyes was demonstrating dipping strawberries in chocolate shell. I didn't return his smile and rushed past him even though I heard him say "Miss!". Well, guilt killed me and I turned back around. He said "I was sent to tell you that the scars will fade and you are still beautiful". Well, that opened the floodgates and I lost it for a second. When I looked up, there was no little old man. There was no food demo and no strawberries. Just poofed out of existence. I searched the store. He was right though. The scars did fade. I hope that you have a WONDERFUL week Susan. All my love to you and Desi! xx

[@ritastutler1470]

I love your story and believe angels walk the earth. God bless you. ❤❤❤❤

[@kateg7298]

@@ritastutler1470 It reminds me so often that God cares. God bless you too. I hope that you have a wonderful week ❤❤❤😇

[@susanlester1]

God is good all the time. Jesus sends His angels to many!

[@Goldencitygirl]

Thank you so much for sharing…I too have experienced the presence of an angel, spoke to me and encouraged me to visit Israel again and again…to volunteer…and to enjoy life, so many awesome surprises…♥️…yes angels are real…but then again I am a Christian and believe…they are spoken of often in God’s word…🙏 🕊️ the angel Gabriel sent to Mary the mother of Jesus to bring her good news…we remember as we celebrate Christmas every year…Blessings…♥️ 🇨🇦

[@rhodatuckey7119]

What a great true story...thank you for sharing...

[@Ann-pn9or]

I put in 32 years of my life into a narcissistic, abusive man, who made good money, kept a nice roof over my head and paid for vacations for us and our daughter. Now my youth is gone, my house is being sold, my daughter takes after her dad, and I have nothing to live for. Ladies, get out early if you are not happy. It's only gonna get worse.

[@nancy2401]

I pray that you will find true love and happiness in your life. God bless you.❤

[@Erika-Coach]

Oomg, I’ve been there too. My grown kids, just stuck to their dad. Then, he passed away in January 2022. And? Nothing has changed. They? Blame me for his passing. Sooo, at now 72…I’ve lost hope. And purpose.

[@LadyBug1967]

@@Erika-Coach I think purpose is an overused word. People who are very religious and happy in their religion would say their purpose is to praise God for giving us this beautiful Earth and for giving us life. I think if you do that you will begin to feel differently. I had a friend who basically was an atheist but she loved to go to the Catholic chapel that was so small and she'd just sit in the quiet of that chapel. That gave her a feeling of peace and a feeling of Hope & purpose. I actually obtained at a bead show a very old rosary made in Italy and I could feel the power of it because it had been used by someone proberly for decades. I keep it in my wardrobe and sometimes I go in and I touch it or I put it around my neck and I can feel its power. I am wanting to start to say some type of rosary because that simple form of meditation is wfound in all religions. That gives purpose and peace to life. Kids pass through us but they are not of us and I would not put much effort or thought into how your children have followed their father and not you. The famous poet kahil gibran has beautiful poetry on that & you might look that up. It's his most famous poem in the West. I don't recall the title but if you get a book with his poems you will see it. Good luck 🍀and God bless🙏

[@brigittavanderputten3596]

Yes, that life takes all your self assuredness and ability to see something better....been there. It takes time to heal from that but now you're free to get to know yourself again. I wish you the best in life.

[@indyblondy1340]

I left a narcissistic husband who convinced me I was nothing. Get therapy and find yourself and realize how he screwed up your thinking about life. I am now 74 and happy and content on my own. There is so much more to happiness than just your ex and your daughter. Regain your self respect and strength as an example for your daughter and other women.

[@mmcs4973]

If all the women who thought the face looking back was old and not worth seeing, what role models would exist for the women coming up behind us. Age is SUCH a privilege, and as a cancer survivor, I live in gratitude, every day. For the changing seasons, sunlight on water, sun on my face, autumn leaves under my feet, all of it ☘️

[@tattletalez3858]

I thank God every morning ❤

[@specialk2514]

I'm 62 years young and have found a wonderful relationship with God so that I too live every day grateful and in awe of everything great and small.

[@Chamiogirl]

I, too had cancer age 44yrs old. I"m now 60yrs old and live a good life and decided to "retire' and do whatever I wanted to do at 58yrs old. I take a lot of pleasure in being in touch with nature, photography, gardening and making the most of every day whatever the weather.

[@teddic6214]

Very simply said, “Susan, you make a difference. That’s why we all love you so much.”

[@dorisdaylight8415]

I would feel like I had lost my very best friend in the world if you stopped doing videos. You have been a lifeline to me. I mean that. You have kept me going when the going was so rough that I couldn't bring myself to even breathe. Words cannot say enough Susan. I could never send you enough hugs, love, joy or blessings for what you continue to do for me. 😘😘😘💖🌹

[@lindafolk4598]

It's really okay for Susan to take vacations. Im sure you all agree!! We don't need to be that codependent. Let's support Susan's need to stay healthy and balanced. Otherwise we are being selfish and inconsiderate of her normal needs. A vacation!! Maybe even 2 weeks!! Gorgeous for it Susan! Take a break! You deserve it!!

[@dorisdaylight8415]

Oh of course Susan can take breaks or spread out her videos. I didn't mean that. My heart went out to the idea she would retire from them completely, forever. That would be the most difficult thing, never to see Susan again. It would be a real loss to me and I wanted Susan to understand how meaningful they can be to someone out there she's never met.

[@Mphscat]

This video was just for me!!! When Covid shut down the U.S. in 2020, I was 58 and a bartender for events working 6 days per week and on my feet and lifting heavy things right along with the men. After being blessed with a rest due to the pandemic I decided not to return to that job. It was just too physically demanding and damaging to my body. I retired at 62 with peace and joy and gratefulness for living long enough to be able to do it. Having lost three best friends who died before enjoying their retirement, I am going to enjoy every day of it even if that is just staying home and resting. So enjoy retirement Susan but please continue to come visit with us and bring Desi and Hal as we all love them too!

[@cremebrulee4759]

Gratitude.

[@anngosda7333]

I quit at 63 yrs old. I have been retired for a year now.I haven’t heard from anyone at work and I don’t miss it at all. I only make the minimum wage social security but I make it work.

[@SuperGreycloud]

No one bothers with me either, since I left my job.😊

[@marilyncamino6928]

I don’t know how you do it week after week, but your videos are always so uplifting, interesting and enjoyable. Thank you.

[@jayemowrey1416]

I am retired I retired at 65 I'm now 75.... I must say that I have never ever regretted it.... The financial situation is very hard, but I am so much more at peace and emotionally so much happier.... I plan each day as to what I would like to do and who I would like to help... No stress lots of time with family that all live very close... I am very happy and content!!!!

[@pegsanders2807]

In some ways, I feel like I gave up on some important things a long time ago, but after spending a horrible week in the hospital fighting sepsis, I came home with a resolution to get rid of the things I no longer need in my life--physical, mental, and spiritual clutter--so I can renew my connection to the things that matter.

[@dorisdaylight8415]

An amazing resolution. I have come to that conclusion too. Pity we didn't see it when we were many years younger, it would have been so much better. But I suppose that is what they call 'wisdom' and that is something you get from experience, ha.

[@marycanfield6441]

My story this week revolves around my husband, 74 years old. On Monday, he ended up in the hospital with a TIA. The hospital admitted him and gave him many tests for his heart. He had to have an angiogram and there was blockage in 3 arteries, so they inserted two stents, the idea being he'd have the third stent 2 days later. As they wheeled him back to recovery, he had a heart attack. They rushed him back to surgery and were able to remove the blood clots that had formed around the stents, blocking the arteries completely. It was terrifying. I thought for sure I would lose him. He survived and was able to have the third stent without any problem. We came home yesterday, and things are different. We both realize how very blessed we are. Time to make positive changes to diet and exercise. It's a second chance and we're going to take full advantage of it.

[@ehpeachylove]

Wishing you both continued blessings. And healthy recovery . So glad you still have each other. 🙏🙏🤗

[@guestguest2030]

Praying for you and your husband! 💙

[@marycanfield6441]

@@ehpeachylove Thank you!

[@marycanfield6441]

@@guestguest2030 Thank you!

[@justmaria5806]

It is never too late to do everything that the two of you can do to be the best the two of you can be. We might be battling age and health conditions out of our control; but we do have the ability to make the quality of our lives so much better. You can't lose when you have each other to cheer one another on!

[@catmama54]

I definitely believe that angels exist, and often they come with four paws🐾

[@sabinekoch3448]

Yes! I have two orange kitties…8 paws…

[@stellajohnson5301]

I always say that when God ran out of angel's wings, he made cats (and dogs)!!!

[@catmama54]

@@stellajohnson5301 I love that and agree

[@AlisaPetersen-g8x]

Susan, I was walking down the sidewalk in town this morning, looking at older ladies around my age (66) and above. I can't help but see myself as a young, vibrant, attractive woman. But I'm not. And they weren't. And it made me sad. But after listening to todays video, I realized that I/we can't judge ourselves against the young women. I/We need to not judge at all. But what I/we should do is support each other and acknowledge what our years have gone through. There's so much! Older people are forgotten. But WE can remember each other, and respect and love each other! This is our time! The young have their day coming. It seems to happen all too fast. So, keep doing the videos if that's what you're heart wants to do. I, for one, look forward every week to see what you, a beautiful senior woman, has to share. You are a delight!

[@LittlePoet]

You are so sweet, kind and wise! We all belong to a pretty great club!!!

[@rosannadana2922]

I think thats the hardest to deal with, accept

[@stellajohnson5301]

User-rw etc. etc. etc. you are so right. I always say you're not older, just reaching a new normal. Nothing stops you from fixing your hair, wearing a little make up to brighten your face, adding a great pair of earrings and an outfit you put some thought into. For instance, even if it's jeans and a sweatshirt, as long as they're clean, add a long necklace and some strappy sandals with a crossover bag and you'll look sensational. Well, that's my thinking anyway! Good luck.

[@virgierutledge3004]

I was planning on retiring in June 2014 from 30 yrs of teaching. It was my dream to teach and I did but as the years went by the stress was not worth staying. My husband met me at the door one of many very late evenings from work and said "You don't have to do this anymore." I said really? He said figures do not lie and we had planned ahead. I put my two week notice the next day. I really did not know how exhausted I was. I think it took me 6 months to get rested. I missed teaching children but not the rat race. I have been home now for 10 years. I do not use an alarm. He retired about 4 yrs. later. We do what we want and when we want. I do tutor several of my grandchildren but if something interesting comes up I call my DIL and she is fine with me not doing it. Sometimes she does the same. My health is so much better being retired. God bless.

[@latherandlace]

This was quite profound. I just turned 65, and I'm at a crossroads. I'm glad you posted this. Love Hal! Thank you! And thank you for not wanting to leave yet. ❤

[@planetissa4899]

Oh boy,I am too,just turned 65 in May and I'm asking myself this daily. Need to pay a couple of debts off first!!🫤

[@Irishgrl59]

I just turned 65 and im at a crossroads too ❤​@planetissa4899

[@GregLincoln-b9y]

@@planetissa4899 Can i ask you a question if you don’t mind?

[@laynesnipes562]

I am almost 74 and I love watching you. I feel like I have a reason to go on living and you are a part of that reason!

[@marciamellow1211]

As long as you have your health then it is attitude... my life is so blessed,I am 72 now...live like I want to. GRATEFUL❤

[@YardleySlicker]

Hi Susan, when the time comes for you to move on from your Little Poet channel, you will know: with sadness, peace, and the surety of this amazing accomplishment. Just keep the videos up and they will keep on giving. I’m 73 and went to see The Rolling Stones last week. It was very gratifying to see so many older people-older than me who came to hear “the soundtracks of our lives.” I got my husband situated in his seat with a cold drink and then thought about the merch line. When we arrived there were so many people in line to buy the concert tee shirts, we shook our heads and went to find our seats. Sitting there, and knowing he and my son were had been looking forward to getting the tour shirts I debated whether I had the energy to make the hike back up 25 rows to walk to the escalator to get to the one merch stand. He couldn’t do it. I decided I wasn’t going to be defeated - so I did it! The 45 mins in line went by fast with people watching and I was back to seat in plenty of time. I’m proud of myself! And proud of the people who came with walkers, canes, and wheelchairs to honor a special time in their lives. Love to you and Desi❤

[@LittlePoet]

I just adore you so much..you words are so kind....xxoo Happy Sunday to you, SUsan & Desi

[@YardleySlicker]

Thank You😊

[@florencecavallaro4599]

hi my name is florence and i am 66years old and i loveeee//the rolling stones/I always wanted to see them in person

[@YardleySlicker]

@@florencecavallaro4599 Hi Florence I think it meant so much to the fans of our time to see the Stones - be in the same room with them! Every day in the 8th grade I played the Aftermath album when I got home from school, clearly many people did the same.

[@conniemurphyover70stillgla47]

Just slow down I have retired three times since I was 50. Now I am taking a break from KZbin and going to the beach as often as I can😊

[@jdk5379]

I retired at 59, after losing my mate. Moved, & went back to work part-time driving for seniors. They are are so wise, funny and inspiring to be around! I’m so grateful for a new beginning 😊 Thank You Susan - Love & Joy to You, Hal & Desi! 😘🫂😘🫂😘🫂

[@lynnewright31]

That sounds like fun, do you work independently or for a company?

[@elliecobb2734]

You are so right, we indeed are the sum total of everything we have lived, good, bad, and sometimes just being. I just turned 84, my body may be old, but I'm not. I "retired" at 63, when one day I realized my plate was too full. I loved my job, but I loved my family more, and at the time, my husband was ill, one of my beloved brothers was dying, I was raising two grandchildren, and getting ready for my little sisters wedding, as her matron of honor. At 69 I started day care for my youngest grandson, who was followed by a little sister, both with me when my daughter returned to work at the end of her maternity leaves, this continued until the middle of covid, when my daughter stopped it ,due to concerns we would be exposed, as she and her husband were in required positions.I am very active in my church, and am now the caregiver for my husband, who has dementia. I walk with a walker, due to arthritis and vertigo, but I do just fine, take care of my home, still cook, laundry, etc, my hubby helps, with direction, and we laugh as we talk about what works, He can still walk, and I can still think. we're good, and we are happy, and so very greatful, after nearly 59 years of marriage, and two wonderful kids who help. Time with my grandkids and great grandkids, my two surviving siblings and their kids, not to mention dear friends. God is good ,life is good. We have weathered much loss, sickness, accidents, just like all have. Life can be hard, but at the same time, beautiful. Finding what makes one feel needed, is so important, what you bring each week is a loving gift I look forward to. Keep Smiling Susan, you are so loved!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

[@trishalou592]

I think Desi is your angel that watches over you.

[@LittlePoet]

I think so too!!!

[@MarieColbert-k8k]

Me too. ❤

[@juliekulczak5939]

Please don’t leave Susan..what you do here each week is very meaningful to so many. Change for many is difficult, but we all have to have a reason to get up each day and to keep going. Love your videos, your poetry and the many subjects you’ve broached each week. Keep doing what you’re doing..you and Desi.💕

[@heidibee501]

I retired when my husband died. I lost him, my tenant, and my job in one hot July. In the same month my daughter's nanny moved out of Province. So l took the nanny's place. Monday/Friday l lived with my daughter and took care of my grandkids. On weekends l was at home with my cats and one grandkid. The nanny came back and l stayed home prepping my house for sale. My life has been living itself for years and I'm just trying to keep up.

[@sabinekoch3448]

Lovely comment - you made me laugh… not sure, if you realised how funny it was? I’m also trying to keep up with my life- 70 an$ still teaching!😳😃

[@dorisdaylight8415]

I am so, so, sorry for your loss. I know, I am on my own too now and can see and feel the struggle you have had, are still having. I didn't laugh when I read your comment. You are just going with the waves and trying to survive the best you can. Life doesn't always allow you to have it how you want it, you just have enough energy in you, to stay in it. Best of luck to you, sending my love.

[@trinarenae8625]

Some of us will likely never have the “opportunity” to retire… and barring a miracle that will be me. At 61 years old I’m 1 year in to building a new business; a business that MUST succeed because I’ve got nothing to fall back on. I’m not whining, it’s just my REALITY. So I’m giving it 110% and I know God is with me❣️🏃🏻‍♀️

[@laurievanzon2126]

Best of luck Trina! Hope you are a success!

[@trinarenae8625]

@@laurievanzon2126 thank you SO MUCH❣️😘

[@terrystarling6040]

Wishing you success and miracles!

[@trinarenae8625]

@@terrystarling6040 from my heart to yours, thank you so much❣️🤗

[@Goldencitygirl]

Praying for you in your new adventure to have every success…🙏 🕊️ ♥️

[@irenetovar7756]

The last place I worked became hell for me, so I retired 6 years ago, June 1st. The first year, I was hanging around with my friend from high school, and I felt like I was on vacation. I still hang around with her, but these past few months, I've been feeling sad guess because of finances. Today I'm going to write a list of what I'm going to do in my home. It needs a lot of work. Thank you for your fun inspirational videos. Desi is so adorable, and I love his pink watermelon bow tie. See you and Desi next week.

[@barbaradobson9298]

Tell Maggie we love her too. So glad she had a good visit with her daughter and was able to decorate and spruce up her porch and home. Hope she enjoys her swing all summer long.

[@planetissa4899]

Please do not quit KZbin, I will miss you very much!!!And so many others too!!!😢

[@Kitchensurprise]

Life comes and life goes. At 74, I am content. I have raised two children ..one I haven’t seen or talked to for 10 years and one I am very close to, lost my husband of 52 years..Enjoy time with grandchildren, my daughter and sisters. Live alone and tackle everyday challenges…it’s ok.. Do I miss my former life before..absolutely. Do I get down…absolutely. Do I find self worth and happiness now…absolutely. Life is short. Enjoy as long as you are allowed ❤

[@Lea2008-k8b]

The age I am today, is a privilege many never reach. I have learned to be grateful for each day. I am here because God is not finished with me yet, he still has work for me to do. You are a gift Susan, thank you for all you do.

[@AliciaFerrer-p6m]

Susan, I am 62.5 years old and I just retired 2 weeks ago. I have worked nonstop for 46 years, raised 2 kids and also my x husband. The way I see it, it’s my turn now to stop and smell the roses, listen to the birds and little more, basically enjoy the simple things in life, and not be on a clock, or the 9-5 Monday thru Friday schedule. I have the need to feel “productive “ anymore. Only happy, calm, and a peaceful life, taking it one day at a time. I always look forward to your videos. Take care.

[@jacquelinestarr3267]

I love being retired I retired at 62 and am 71 this year I feel fantastic happy content...I had a wonderful career and I feel so happy because I enjoyed it ..I'm now building a beautiful home ...my joy is decorating and shopping cooking ha ha I love watching you I hope your continue to run your channel for many years to come

[@jenniferlee7167]

I just eliminated the stress and kept a job I love and I proclaim I am "semi-retired", I care for animals and walk a couple of dogs on weekdays. I also care for cats, but I control where and how many I can care for. I got AFib from COVID as a nurse early in the game (2020). I quit nursing and retired from that in May of 2021. I had never even taken a vitamin, now I have three prescriptions and I get tired so I pace myself. I have my weight under control and I walk two to three miles per day in good weather. I think we must do what we can and what makes us happy. I put up boundaries to protect my health. I love semi-retirement and hope to do it until I am 75! I cannot see myself doing nothing, so another activity will present itself. I will be 70 in a few months like you Susan.

[@marilynmcintosh2674]

I really really loved my job as a Library Director and felt that I would want to do that with the rest of my life. The sister of a coworker said that when it’s time to retire, you will know it and I thought I will never know, but low and behold there came a day when I was 70 years old that I felt it was time to retire. Sometimes I feel like I’m living in a dream. It’s so wonderful and I love retirement more than I can say. Some people want to retire young and some want to retire old and some never to retire at all. Some people financially have to keep working. I also subscribe to the philosophy that there is no sense in having regrets. The past can’t be changed and we only have today. Enjoy every day that’s because that’s all you have. I believe that for me the key to loving my retirement is to find new challenges and to keep active. There are so many wonderful ways to volunteer and to find new hobbies. The world is literally your oyster.

[@mableannelliott5392]

Thank you again, Susan, for a fabulous visit.

[@cindyhernandez7240]

Thanks for update on Maggie . 😂❤ Great questions. Please keep showing your story. ❤ you inspire me so much. I just turned 59 and a widow my retirement may never come. The quote gratitude over fear gives me hope. Each week you give me hope. ❤ Thank you for being a shining light. Yes the Angeles are among us ❤

[@Mariposa62196]

There are Angels like Hal and there are Angels with no wings but fur,to stay by our side. Even if no one is at our side. Without family and friends,since my last dog passed I'm in constant grief. I'm 62 years on the second of July,I get my puppy Monti.

[@suzettecooper382]

Enjoy Monti's company. I understand your grief and feeling of family loss which I also endure. I hope you find joy in your new pup

[@stellajohnson5301]

Pets are so amazing. So glad you decided to get Monti. Nothing like a whole new chapter in your life as witnessed and contributed to by Monti!

[@keepingitreal618]

❤❤❤❤

[@lose999]

I retired at 64 after 31 years of teaching Montessori preschoolers. Physically, I could no longer sit lotus style on the floor and I was tired of potty training. The first year was filled with travel and fun. Now, I'm 71 and don't have much of a purpose anymore. I look forward to seeing you every Saturday. You give me something to look forward to. Xoxo😘💕

[@yesitskitti]

The one utuber that I cannot miss an upload

[@Melissa55]

I don’t know if and when Doug and I will retire. Right now Doug is old enough to, but it doesn’t seem like we really can yet. So maybe we won’t. I loved this. Take care and much love ♥️♥️♥️

[@cjsgma9]

I worked for a government agency for 35 years until it turned against me. I retired & floundered for a year (it wasn't pretty 😢) But then my grandchild (love of my life) was diagnosed with autism & there it was. My purpose! He has progressed so much the last year & I am so dedicated to his overcoming this! God does work in mysterious ways...& I am grateful. 😊

[@ninjanana102]

I'm so happy to hear that your grandson is progressing! ❤

[@GregLincoln-b9y]

Can i ask you a question if you don’t mind?

[@jeanieturner5183]

I quit my business in 1997 as an interior designer, when I was 47 when my husband was diagnosed with cancer and told he might have a year at most to live. I am so thankful that I did . He was in and out of the hospital and I was able to go and be with him 24/7 at the hospital. At the time we had three grandchildren . My husband passed 20 months later. I then took care of my grandchildren to keep me busy and what a blessing. My grand children increased to four. I moved to because my son wife left and the youngest child was 3 and his wife left for someone else and my son kept the kids. Now the kids are grown and the older three are married. He remarried and moved to another state. Now I am 76 and I really had to adjust when the time came that I know longer had someone to need me 24/7 8 years ago. I am happy with these decisions I made .

[@susanwilson4695]

You are the angel in this world, it is a better place because you are here.

[@jeanieturner5183]

@@susanwilson4695 you are to kind. Thank you

[@jayemowrey1416]

Don't you dare retire 😢... We would miss you terribly and I think you would miss us... We give each other purpose and support and that's important !!! Too old 😂 never! Our looks has nothing to do with what's inside of us !

[@dorisdaylight8415]

I didn't say it that way, but i would cry too, lots. My comment was hit by a person who said 'we were being too co dependent'. With every video you get closer to Susan , you just can't help it she is just the loveliest person and one you would want to have as your closest friend. Susan's videos bring women together, help support them, restore faith in others and have true purpose. She is doing a wonderful service to so many.

[@Sarahbee-o8t]

I always thought when I grew old life would be so much easier and more fun boy was I wrong 😢

[@dorisporis8]

I know it's a lot to expect, Susan, but please never retire from this, our great community!! You have given with such sincerity, and invited us to do the same. I am glad you keep on for all the right reasons. I am not retired yet at 68. 2

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you so much!

[@gail5152]

I’m very glad you are here. You inspire me 😊

[@jeanettec6212]

I was hit by a dwi man, wanting to kill everyone in his car, and said he was going to hit the next car. That was me. He had a huge Cadillac, and I was in a cavalier. I went off a embankment in deep snow. I tried to get out of the car, when I came too, and the door wouldnt open. I thought oh the window is down but it was broke out. I tried to get out of the window while saying help me. But I passed out upside down.I woke up laying in the snow in a ball. I tried to get up and couldnt, I looked over at my car and was hearing help is coming so I thought then I will just sleep because Im so tired. There was a man with dark hair that was shoulder length, all dressed in white standing in front of me and I said is this a hit and run? He said Im so sorry. I tried to see his face but no matter how much I blinked my eyes I couldnt get the blur out. He said I have to go. Im so sorry. I said please dont leave me! He said Im sorry I have to go. I was so sleepy I fell asleep, until I heard ambulance and said to myself they are here! I opened my eyes and in a distance I could see what looked like soldiers because there was so many, and they were trying to get down the embankment where it was less snow. I will never forget how I was so thankful for them. I must of smiled. I was stripped of my clothing in the snow so they could see the injuries and put me on the stretcher. I didnt feel cold. But remember telling them darn I just bought these jeans that they were using scissors on. I said please dont cut off my coat. I dont think I had it on. I dont know. I told them about the man and they never in all the times they questioned me or talked to my family did they say it was the persons who hit me from the other car. They were picked up miles from the scene by dogs. They couldnt of done that and came down that embankment. I believe I was talking to my guardian angel. I will never forget him. I had five broken ribs, punctured lung, bruised kidneys and liver, bruised pancreas, and spleen with severe internal bleeding. Those paramedics stayed at the hospital until they knew I was ok! That was amazing! Everyone was telling me they didnt and wouldnt leave. Yes the word of God says we have guardian angels matthew 18:10. Mine kept me safe, he watched over me and left when ambulance was there. It was a accident that was intentional of someone driving 85 in a 35 mile an hour road. I was going 35. It was snowing heavily. Jesus is always watching, always knows everything.

[@madelinekimbro2440]

Your testimony is beautiful and so important. I hope you are ok and have recovered from the accident! Please continue to share this story with others because people need to know we are truly blessed and being watched over and helped by angels and that Jesus loves us. The world is a dark place and your story will give people hope.

[@jeanettec6212]

@@madelinekimbro2440 Thank you Madeline. That was beautiful what you said. I suffered a concussion and then got pneumonia. It was a terrible recovery. The job I had was demanding my return or be let go after 30 days or else! The attacks were all evil. The Lord helped me. I suffer still today physically, BUT GOD! I do continue and will continue telling my stories, because God wants me too. I appreciate my brothers and sisters in Christ like you. Thank you for your time. Right now my family needs prayer and appreciate all who can take a moment. Thanks again and God bless.

[@florencecavallaro4599]

I thank JESUS every single day iam alive//for sure//

[@deborahcrandell4004]

God bless you and I am so happy you survived to tell this story. I hope you have recovered from all your injuries. My prayers for you.

[@darlene2861]

Susan I just love your channel and messages. This week I ended up with emergency surgery and it has been a very painful time but has tough me so many lessons about my life. Hal and Dezi and you look so amazing ❤

[@hollyhart7942]

So happy that you are here! Look forward to your video every Saturday night!!❤

[@kathleenritchie8216]

Don't let the old woman in! Great video. I am 67 going on 46! Enjoy your days! Much love Kx

[@lisaboling5336]

I am retiring in September. I will be 62 in August with 43 years of service at my job. It is time...Hello to Hal!!!!!!

[@cherylthepearl827]

@@lisaboling5336 enjoy it and congratulations 🎉🍾 🙏🇺🇸

[@melbelle2049]

Pray on it and don't worry!

[@joniwilmoth5826]

Thank you so much for who you are and for all the joy, encouragement and introspection you bring to me each week! You keep me going!

[@janenoland2624]

We have missed you Hal!

[@sandykish9608]

Yes, Hi Hal!! 😂 He cracks me up!! Dork!😂😂that hat, and the leopard sweater!😅❤❤❤thank you both for the laughs! How truly blessed we are to walk through this life with you Susan, I So Love you

[@srobs1216]

So glad to hear the update on Maggie. I am glad she was able to spruce her front porch up, and I hope she sat there with her daughter and had THE most wonderful time❤I am so glad you and Hal had a great weekend too❤

[@leeanagrant860]

Please do not ever leave us. I count the days til I can watch you. You are so smart with your views of our life. Love you Susan and God Bless You.

[@sandykish9608]

My Saturday Evening is not complete until Suses video!! Like the best present I get to unwrap every single week!! Thank you so very much for sharing your life with us ❤

[@jackieo8693]

I don't think we should think of retiring but think of "what else would I love to do?" I always learn from your videos!

[@elizabethbarranon622]

Letting go of my long career as a wedding florist that I loved so much was hard. At 65 I could not keep up with the physical demands of my job. A dear friend said to me “ May God bless you in this new season of your life.” So wise. I found peace in those words and I am blessed and am embracing this “new season”.

[@seekingserenitydaily]

Good Morning! I too am facing those types of hard decisions. I'm a 62 year old, widowed, junior high teacher and I'm starting to get the questions/suggestions about retirement. I do feel older but still look forward to being surrounded by those crazy kids, getting up each morning with a purpose and a goal. I'll keep preparing for my retirement but I'll be sure to keep close tabs on what is best for me both physically and mentally! Keep up the great work - I appreciate your work!

[@nan----]

Thank you, Susan, for another lovely video!! 💖

[@danageorge2575]

Angels definitely exist. ❤

[@angelasmith3830]

Thank you Susan my Sunday girl! Please keep on doing what you do! You are such a positive force in my life.xxxxx

[@judybryant3880]

Glad you aren't quitting. You touch people, some who don't have anyone else. I had to laugh when you talked about a 1000 places to go before you die. I think a lot like Hal sometimes and your comment, the pharmacy. As far as a purpose, we can't all have astounding purposes in our lives. Sometimes we're just here to smile at someone or be there when someone needed you. We don't all have a place in history books but we all can serve others when and how we can. Maybe we just listen or pray. God put us here and we do have a purpose.

[@rdiannh]

Thank you for the update on Maggie. Your videos are always so well done. Hal is such a hoot!

[@LittlePoet]

You are so welcome! I just love it you found me and Desi!

[@cindyhalpern3187]

I like hanging out with you, Desi, and Hal. You are someone I look forward to visiting with. After a bad week, I know you will be there to cheer me up! You teach me so much. You keep me company. You make my laugh and cry. You sometimes give me that extra push to never give up. I hope you stay!

[@JustKeepinItReal.777]

I enjoy your videos about the life of a woman. I love that you’re never too old to be seen, to be heard….. You’re helping a lot of women to go on in life.

[@Cary-pr6vw]

Dear Susan, I am 68. My husband passed June 5th as he was taking his afternoon nap. So unexpected. Completely not ready. Iam caring for my mom with dementia. And my son just moved here on dialysis awaiting kidney transplant. Some days I just want to hide under the covers and... other days I know I am needed. But I need to do something I can't seem to find my pretty, and why bother..I love ur videos, I watch every week. I love ur new home and Desi in ur garden..lol. There is one video I can't find, it was the one u talked about ur hair cut style. I love ur hair style and would like to know what to tell the hair dresser so I can get that type of cut... Your video's always seem to be just what I need. Thank you for your humor and sincerity Cary Hughes Trying to find some pretty for myself

[@karent3004]

I love Hal...."what does this shirt say"? "Dork"!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@LittlePoet]

That's our Hal!!!

[@NN-ht1lp]

Susan, you mean so much to all of us! Too early for you to retire!

[@mkbrown3902]

You do what's right for you, Desi, your garden, and your grandkids. ❤🐾 thanks for sharing you time with us. It's important. It was great seeing Hal.

[@kimim2702]

I retired happily at 59 after a long, successful, and stressful career. Retirement was wonderful until the political environment changed. Working is a great distraction from the issues of the broader world. Now that I’m retired, I seem overcome by the destructiveness of the human race. Working to find peace and happiness and praying for a brighter future for this planet.

[@sharonpence6919]

Love seeing videos with you and Hal, he is a hoot and makes you laugh, me too

[@lindafolk4598]

Another lovely visit and good thoughts to think on! Thank you Susan! I was surprised there were 3 ads that interrupted your video. I'm wondering what changed? Maybe you can explain Susan. Was i the only one that had 3 ads? You and Hal sure have fun with each other! A great friend to have! I enjoyed all you shared with us! Please feel free to take a week off. We will survive, we wont forget about you and you can have a break from filming and creating a video!! Love you Susan❤

[@deborahhenderson5219]

I’m 72 and still working weekends only. I’m retired from an Armstrong Garden Center in San Diego. I’ve been there 19.5 years! Working weekends brings in a nice extra amount of money~ plus free money going into an ESOP account. There are days that when a Friday comes along & I think… “ oh darn~~ I go back to work tomorrow for the weekend “ when I REALLY want to get some extra rest or opposite get up & do some more out in the yards, etc. Then , I make it a positive thing and look forward to the extra money plus~~ I help people learn & understand about growing beautiful plants, trees , shrubs, flowers! I have “ eye candy “ all around me. Sounds of water from all the fountains ( Susan, you NEED a fountain) wind chimes etc!!!!! It’s a great environment to work in. One thing that is harder for me, but still very durable is I’m on my feet all day both Saturday & Sundays…. I’m wiped out Sunday night/ Monday & mostly chill with my Labrador. The rest of the week I’m free as a bird to do whatever!!! So I’m not gonna complain! I do plan to completely retire in 2 year’s.

[@GregLincoln-b9y]

Can i ask you a question if you don’t mind?

[@z.norton3326]

Susan....dear Susan.....I am so happy that you love what you bring us every week here. I love it too! I so look forward to Sunday mornings after I grocery shop sitting at my computer and seeing you and Desi and all that you give to us.....hope, joy, laughter, love.....and things to think about. Love and peace to you and Desi.....till next week my friend!!!

[@streaming5332]

My Sunday mornings would be boring without Susan. I watch a utuber in America who's 85. She's so good at what she does she has hosts of followers.

[@marisejones6046]

Would that be Sandra Hart ? I am such a fan of hers as well 😊

[@streaming5332]

@@marisejones6046 Yes, I find Sandra very soothing, and well travelled she's been to my city in Australia a few times.

[@J4orce]

Thank you, Susan, for everything you have shared with us. It has really helped me a lot. I'm retiring from teaching at 70, but if someone was a professor, there's a special status (Emeritus) where you can still stay and go at the same time, which has made that decision a lot easier. I also decided to move north (like you did). That decision took years and lot of driving around the upper Midwest (and I'm almost done with that--I think I found the place!).

[@debbiem4255]

I love watching your KZbin videos every week. I always enjoy seeing you, Hal and Desi! Please don’t stop making your videos! ♥️🤗🐾

[@trishaannesuta8152]

I am so happy we were able to help Maggie and that she is happy. It was great seeing Hal again. You are both so fortunate to have each other as friends. I just love that little Desi, he really makes me smile. God Bless us all.

[@divapal2933]

Who is Maggie

[@trishaannesuta8152]

@divapal2933 Maggie is a woman who wrote to Susan regarding a visit from her daughter If you go back to the episode this one it will all be explained. It is very heartwarming.

[@janeashton2027]

Hi Susan, yes you are right, I have never asked myself what I want in life, except what I dream to do in life, you and Desi have a brand new week, hugsssss ❤❤❤

[@ladylibertywdc8324]

Angels are real. Believe.

[@NancyStarr-o3l]

10 44 am Sunday. You are so encouraging in hoping ne with my retirement at 67. You are so positive and make me realize I don't have to stop living. Thank you.

[@CassieDavis613]

Thank you for the Maggie update.

[@joan634]

I just retired 2 wks ago ,I'll be 65 in September. Time to live my life , might not be exciting but its mine . I want to spend time in my yard , with my nieces next week ,with my son hanging out . I've lost so many people my age that worked past 65 ...my job was important 40 years . Now its time to for my family and anything I want to do yiippee

[@MaryEllenAfter60]

Hi Susie!!! I haven't been bored for a minute! Love retirement. Always so good to see Hal. Looking beautiful, my friend. Desi is the king!! I'll be sure to check out the video you recommended. Love to you and The Dez...Mimi

[@LittlePoet]

I adore you my friend...my beautiful wonderful friend!!! Never bored!!! I am never bored! I may not be able to film every week, but I will make videos until my hands no longer work...my eyes no longer see and my heart grows cold...which I hope will be never!!! YOu taught me to be strong...and takes breaks from the news and just live...love you so! SUsan & Dez

[@DebraStevens-jm7pt]

We need you in our life. It's so fun to share your experiences and how you feel about life. Please do a video when you want.

[@maryannwhitten5123]

Hi Susan, Hal & Desi! You always have such fun with Hal! Love Deal's picture in the garden. Love y'all!

[@celestebateman01]

Your videos are so visually stunning, peaceful and informative. A great break from all the trauma in the news. Your skin and makeup are gorgeous. Keep up the great work. ♥️🦋

[@nataliadavidson9390]

Susan, thank you very much for what you are doing!

[@KhrystynaBraverman]

That was great; thank you.. 🌻

[@mbunstine]

I would so miss the beauty of your videos. They're are the highlight of my week.❤❤❤❤

[@myrahclemens3414]

I like that Maggie brought a swing. I hope that she and her daughter will have great memories sitting together on the swing❤

[@thehun2500]

Such a sweet story about Maggie, I’m so glad you were able to help her and it was a success. Great to see Hal again!

[@kimneely4034]

It’s sooooooo good seeing Hal looking well. ❤❤❤❤

[@kathyhoward2760]

I’m so glad that you still do every week as long as you can because it is an inspiration to me to get up and move . I laugh and cry giggle blush l love watching your videos don’t stop unless you don’t want it anymore. Love you Desi Hal and hearing about your son your grandchildren. ❤

[@theraptureisnearbelieveinj448]

Maggie bought a swing! I ❤ it! So glad to hear the visit with your daughter went so well! 🎉