If WORRYING worked we would have worried our PROBLEMS away years ago!

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Timothy Ward

Timothy Ward

Күн бұрын

Why are we so quick to envision a future that is filled with sickness, poverty, and loneliness. That's not the Golden Years I want to manifest. I think about the future a lot, but I try not to worry about it ever!
Timothy Ward
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@billya3628
@billya3628 Жыл бұрын
That's why dogs are so happy, there is no past or future, it's always just now.
@latisewilson4561
@latisewilson4561 Жыл бұрын
Animals in general... they get it lol
@Polemic-2525
@Polemic-2525 Жыл бұрын
Good one. Excellent point.
@MegaFinalRound
@MegaFinalRound Жыл бұрын
They anticipate. They know.
@marleyite
@marleyite 11 ай бұрын
billya3628: Plus most of have owners to feed and care for them and they don’t have the stress of worrying about relationships, long term mortgages, cancer, diabetes dementia and a host of issues plaguing the modern man made society.
@turtleanton6539
@turtleanton6539 2 ай бұрын
​@@marleyiteindeed🎉
@nathanielcarreon5634
@nathanielcarreon5634 Жыл бұрын
Preparing for old age is different from worrying about old age.
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@carmichaelmoritz8662
@carmichaelmoritz8662 Жыл бұрын
@@TimothyWard If i knew then what I know now , i would never have wasted my body working hard. And also that most people are back stabbers and not to be trusted with just anything. The older I get increases my disabilities and if i don't eventually end my life I'll be bed ridden and that's no way to live.
@dryvonne1999
@dryvonne1999 Жыл бұрын
Very true
@dustygearhead
@dustygearhead Жыл бұрын
I’m 35. No marriage. No kids. I will be the fun uncle.
@sirgigglez
@sirgigglez Жыл бұрын
same.
@JediDarkForce
@JediDarkForce Жыл бұрын
Same here
@ChrisPMiami
@ChrisPMiami Жыл бұрын
Same!!!
@Wellziee
@Wellziee Жыл бұрын
same here
@benhartart9487
@benhartart9487 Жыл бұрын
I’m the 42 yr old fun uncle 😂❤
@Angela_Fleming
@Angela_Fleming Жыл бұрын
I recently turned 46. I have never been married and have no kids. I don't worry about other people's expectations of how I should live my life. I enjoy being by myself and have people in my life for when I need family and friends time. People should "do the things they love with people they love." It's more simple than most people realize. Take care Tim💕
@jasoncole7531
@jasoncole7531 Жыл бұрын
I love this in that you should do you and not worry about what society says and thinks society problem is that they want you to live by their expectations of what life should be but everyone has the right to choose what their life should be just be yourself and if society accepts then good and if not it not the end of the world
@Angela_Fleming
@Angela_Fleming Жыл бұрын
@@jasoncole7531 💕😎
@Diego-Designs
@Diego-Designs Жыл бұрын
I'm 46 as well, and feel the same way you do. I just like to be happy, have very few worries, and not live to impress others. I wasted enough years of my life living for others. ..
@Angela_Fleming
@Angela_Fleming Жыл бұрын
@@Diego-Designs Exactly!💕😎
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Жыл бұрын
👍🏾👊🏾😁
@neilfalcone376
@neilfalcone376 Жыл бұрын
I'll be 80 in September. I worried about big and small things throughout my life. It didn't make any difference. Now I'm grateful that I've made it this far inspite of myself.
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing 👍🏾
@Kenny2k08
@Kenny2k08 Жыл бұрын
Any advice for a 29 year old
@thebird9766
@thebird9766 11 ай бұрын
Thank you sir
@JHgjvdb
@JHgjvdb 8 ай бұрын
Any advice for younger ppl ?
@rubykanja
@rubykanja 2 ай бұрын
That's a blessing to reach 80. Wishing you good health and daily providence
@juniormephostopholese3062
@juniormephostopholese3062 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been traveling since I was 17 years old, now I’m 54 looking better than I was in my 20’s I speak 6 languages I am not taking any prescription medication, only take vitamins and exercise . Not stoping anytime soon. Saludos from panamá Central America 🇵🇦keep it up 👍
@sloppyfloppy79
@sloppyfloppy79 Жыл бұрын
6 languages?!?! Man, I only speak 2. I better get on it!
@Officialmonicajohnson
@Officialmonicajohnson Жыл бұрын
#goals 😆
@DISH2IMPRESS
@DISH2IMPRESS Жыл бұрын
Great job !
@LordMalice6d9
@LordMalice6d9 Жыл бұрын
I only speak 2 languages. Finding and having the time to travel is the biggest handicap.
@baldeagle4710
@baldeagle4710 Жыл бұрын
People who feel the need to have a spouse, a career, a house, and 2.2 kids are always worrying about this and that. They can’t be carefree because they are bound by the system. A person who is living a cookie cutter life cannot just quit their job to travel. When you’ve rejected the system you live for yourself instead of trying to impress others.
@mitch5222
@mitch5222 Жыл бұрын
To me the problem is why I don't want a partner and kids. Why am I like that and why i was born like that. I didn't get a chance.
@glidkomer
@glidkomer Жыл бұрын
​@@mitch5222 Stop making up reasons to worry. There isn't anything wrong with you. Go find cool, fun and exciting things to do.
@mitch5222
@mitch5222 Жыл бұрын
@@glidkomer thanks. Probably due to my high anxiety about life.
@deadreckoning6288
@deadreckoning6288 Жыл бұрын
So true. I seem to have been born with a strong dislike of the system so I've mostly lived my life outside of it on the fringe. It's hard right now but a positive of getting older is you care less what others think. It's liberating in a good way.
@GuyzLikeMe
@GuyzLikeMe Жыл бұрын
I’m in my 60’s and am looking forward to ditching ALL my belongings, buy a new Hybrid SUV, a nationwide gym membership, travel and live out of my SUV. I had alternate plans but aStage 4 Cancer diagnosis changed those plans 6 years when I was told I was gonna die! Live for TODAY. God will give us our “Daily Bread”. Just trust Him!
@thatoks6498
@thatoks6498 Жыл бұрын
Amen God Bless You
@wolf-bearchief3705
@wolf-bearchief3705 Жыл бұрын
You are awesome
@Mkupnext
@Mkupnext Жыл бұрын
Preach 🙏🏽
@Ricocase
@Ricocase Жыл бұрын
Look back too far, you'll get depressed. See too far ahead, you'll feel anxiety. Take care of today so your future won't matter. Friends are 👪 too.
@Investinyourselfdarling
@Investinyourselfdarling Жыл бұрын
I have been working on this job for 3 yrs and i saw coworkers die a month after they retired. It was an eye opener for me. I dont want to live like that i left and have been feeling free since. 🎉
@bill9923
@bill9923 Жыл бұрын
Health is everything. If you have it give thanks daily. Being sick sucks trust me.
@baldeagle4710
@baldeagle4710 Жыл бұрын
For a while I was neglecting my health for my job. But now I prioritize my health over everything
@sun-man
@sun-man Жыл бұрын
I'm 65, widowed, wealthy, healthy, and this advice is how I live my life.
@sloppyfloppy79
@sloppyfloppy79 Жыл бұрын
36, not married. Did have a couple kids but that was in my early 20s. My oldest drives now. I live alone and spend most of my time doing whatever I feel like. I go hiking every weekend, play video games until 2 am, forge swords and knives for kicks and sell them randomly here and there, have a gorgeous garden, and just enjoy myself. I never thought living this way was going to be so satisfying.
@Dweeble233
@Dweeble233 Жыл бұрын
I was watching a documentary on aging in America and the focus was on people in nursing homes. My teen son walks by and asks why am I watching that as "you won't be in one". Whereas my children taking care of me is not part of my retirement plan, it felt good to know that he was in so many words telling me that he loves me and has my back.
@marianmoses9604
@marianmoses9604 Жыл бұрын
Kids say this and often mean it, but if you are felled with dementia or some other God-awful disease that demands 24 housing nursing care it usually is NOT something your kids will actually be able to provide to you, even if they deeply want to. Only very wealthy families can usually manage that. Everyone else either drops dead or is institutionalized as in that PBS documentary you alluded to. (Yeah, I watched that depressing dose of reality too…). So it still pays to plan for this if you do not want to burden your kids with guilt over not being able to follow through on the well intentioned promise.
@mariaradulovic3203
@mariaradulovic3203 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, that's called Stockholm syndrome.
@wheatstonebridge
@wheatstonebridge Жыл бұрын
Its not necessarily the case. Please dont expect this of your son. Stats show that sons dont do as much as daughter do anyways.
@dbs555
@dbs555 Жыл бұрын
Or the kid has other plans for you. As in watch your back.
@simonebrooks202
@simonebrooks202 Жыл бұрын
They grow and change...look out 😂😂
@cmeinmy50s
@cmeinmy50s Жыл бұрын
Keep doing what you do Tim… you’re living more of an exciting life than most average retired people that do nothing other then gain weight,pop pills, and complain about politics. I have retired family members that have nothing going on in there lives but body aches. Thanks for the inspiration
@baldeagle4710
@baldeagle4710 Жыл бұрын
Yes. And the married people our age are living boring lives and/or in the process of divorce. Being single is great! I have a drama free life and I don’t have to succumb to others wishes
@Francis_UD
@Francis_UD Жыл бұрын
@@baldeagle4710 damn straight bruh 👏🏻🤜🏻👍🏻
@Kenny2k08
@Kenny2k08 Жыл бұрын
Haha you described my parents who are 67
@lana8305
@lana8305 Жыл бұрын
I'm a 37 year old single female without a prospect in sight. I'd like to be married, but I don't want kids. I'm starting to give up on the idea of marriage when I'm not even getting approached for dates and haven't in years, smh. I just focus on traveling, volunteering, moving my body, and having some fun from time to time.
@tonyp9313
@tonyp9313 Жыл бұрын
Volunteering work is the worst thing you can do. If you like doing it or like it that's all cool. I can tell you from experience when I had to volunteer for work because I was doing courses in school, I felt like I was wasting my time in these said places. I have a friend who does that. She doesn't like it but still does it. I keep reminding her that it's a choice & she doesn't have to do it but for whatever reason she'll do it.
@titaniumcranium3755
@titaniumcranium3755 4 ай бұрын
Woah where are you? I'm 18 now and there's somethin about older women that pull me towards them like a magnet
@k8k9vanlifeplus
@k8k9vanlifeplus Жыл бұрын
Great video with excellent content; love your message❤ I m going on 70, living in my van for 3.5 years with my dog n loving it all. I m happier n healthy than ever before while on no medications. Our life is fun n an everyday adventure with a great deal of positivity. No worries.....be happy❤❤❤❤❤❤
@deadreckoning6288
@deadreckoning6288 Жыл бұрын
I like the way you think brother and I'm the same. I'm 59, never married, no kids, no home. Ive been stuck in a bad pattern of negative mind after a series of traumatic losses. Life is hard right now & and I've been feeling I'd like to leave clown world but trying to hang in there. I love the positive vibe of your vids.
@angelbabycards3595
@angelbabycards3595 Жыл бұрын
57 - 'Boy, you ain't wrong. Exact same thing here..' 😮😢
@reeree882
@reeree882 Жыл бұрын
Keep persevering and trying to hang in there! As much as you can, find the things and do the things that bring you joy. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
@thebird9766
@thebird9766 11 ай бұрын
Stay strong my friend!
@Patrelable
@Patrelable Жыл бұрын
Don’t worry.. about a thing 🎶 -Bob Marley
@gloriagraham4811
@gloriagraham4811 Жыл бұрын
Everything gonna be alright! Greetings from Northern Ireland UK.
@AnabolicAsylum
@AnabolicAsylum Жыл бұрын
I read about a study in Britain, that showed that people spend an average of 8 years of their life worrying about the future.
@karenramos9143
@karenramos9143 Жыл бұрын
You are not naive. You have the right attitude. We don't need to worry about what the future brings because it's not going to change anything. Just go with the flow and live life in the best way you can.
@marioarguello6989
@marioarguello6989 Жыл бұрын
I agree, be a dumbass and be happy about it
@jackieboy1593
@jackieboy1593 Жыл бұрын
It's still best to start investing when you're 18-22. Gives you way more time for money to compound, and you can take your foot off the gas sooner.
@shafserious2805
@shafserious2805 Жыл бұрын
You have to plan. U cant be worry free.
@fightthepower4648
@fightthepower4648 Жыл бұрын
"Live free or die trying"
@Zoet50
@Zoet50 Жыл бұрын
I’m 67, stopped completely working 12 years ago. I could have worked longer and had a ton of money, but no regrets . Thankful for my great health. Worse case I end up broke and live in a tent eating hot dogs. No big deal I would survive and be happy . As it is said, only thing guaranteed is the now.
@MegaFinalRound
@MegaFinalRound Жыл бұрын
Congratulations on retiring early.
@jaleesa00
@jaleesa00 Жыл бұрын
What about that steel company in Illinois that forfeited everyone's pension some having worked for 30 years in that union.
@latisewilson4561
@latisewilson4561 Жыл бұрын
Why that's horrible. Nothing is guaranteed. Day to Day
@jaleesa00
@jaleesa00 Жыл бұрын
@@latisewilson4561 I think it was LTV that filed bankruptcy. I don't even want to explain more because my words mean nothing about ppl who put in more years longer than I've been alive.
@ennuiblue4295
@ennuiblue4295 Жыл бұрын
They made a 'joke' in Gilmore Girls about their lawyer friend 'watch him defend someone who embezzled a pension plan and see what he can do', like it's cute 😔 a throwaway line, because people accept the parasite class (aka -elite- ) just crush everybody under a jack boot, but if we're *in* on the joke it's funny. Yeah we ain't in sh!t, and it's NOT funny!
@kickinaddiction
@kickinaddiction Жыл бұрын
I was recently really struggling with anxiety about possible future worries. Jumped back on my meditation grind and immediately it made me realize that my imaginary worries of what could happen are extremely overblown. And that the world is SO MUCH bigger then my little worries. For that moment, I felt incredibly small and that I was totally self loathing.
@benhartart9487
@benhartart9487 Жыл бұрын
Doesn’t one “sit” into meditation 😂
@baldeagle4710
@baldeagle4710 Жыл бұрын
I try to focus on helping others instead of worrying about myself
@Nacole_Lashoun
@Nacole_Lashoun Жыл бұрын
Yes, I can attest to spending my lifetime “doing the right thing” only to have it implode. That’s when I realized that I need to live my life now. No matter how we plan, things may not work out. I now prioritize living and enjoying my life NOW! ❤ Everyday is a gift. I am no longer putting off my enjoyment. ❤❤ Thanks @Tim.
@reeree882
@reeree882 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@lincmerc1581
@lincmerc1581 Жыл бұрын
Man, I sure needed to hear this. It seems fear and worry is a driving force these days. I have to stop and remind myself what I've already endured and survived. I am obviously a survivor! We all need to remind ourselves not only what we're capable of, but what we've already been through.
@MsMaxinejoy
@MsMaxinejoy Жыл бұрын
I have a motto that I've come up with.... "Live for today, plan for tomorrow." I do what I can to enjoy today, work hard today. I've planned for tomorrow, but there isn't any promises.🎉
@dkidder1367
@dkidder1367 Жыл бұрын
An older gentlemen built his dream home down the street from my mom. He was mid 70's. He died one week later.
@luvvaluvva
@luvvaluvva Жыл бұрын
😂😅
@gooberpeas7926
@gooberpeas7926 Жыл бұрын
Starting at 6:37, I laughed with delight! I've done some unexpected things in my life by listening to that inner voice. Near age 70 now, I could write a book. Find quiet, listen to your voice, trust it. Timothy, you are right on.
@RobMangone
@RobMangone 11 ай бұрын
Chronic over thinker here. Going to save this video to rewatch when I feel overwhelmed with worry. This helped calm and reassure me. Thank you Tim!
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard 11 ай бұрын
You’re welcome. Glad it helped!
@adventureallie7683
@adventureallie7683 Жыл бұрын
Hi Tim I have a daughter who isn’t gonna take care of me nor should she, and I don’t really have any other family, and I kind of keep to myself and move around when I can. I don’t have any retirement don’t have much savings. And I am not at all worried about the future. some how it always just works out. And if it doesn’t, it won’t -and I’m OK with that too. I think you have to be OK with knowing there may come a day where you’re not OK. And it took me my whole life to get to that point, but I finally feel like I can accept whatever happens. I’ve been through a lot, I’ve lost a lot but I’m OK and I’m still here. And I know one day I might not be OK and one day I won’t still be here … I am OK with that -it’s life it’s not supposed to last forever and there’s no need to worry about what hasn’t happened yet, or what might happen. Because it might not happen. You might be surrounded by love and come into money and have everyone and everything you need when it’s your time to leave this world even if you have nothing right now. So we are wasting our time worrying about a future that is not promised now when we should be living & loving THIS time -because come tomorrow we might not have it. Today might be all we have. For some reading this and some not reading this it is. I am already on borrowed time. I should’ve died five years ago. Literally the doctor doesn’t know why I survived. But I’m not gonna worry about it. I’m going to live and be thankful that I have one more day even if it is just one more day I’m gonna make the best out of whatever happens even if it sucks….because someone always has it worse than i do. And no matter what I’m feeling I have to remind myself someone out there is feeling it worse and then I have to pray for them, and be grateful that I am still here to feel anything. So every rainbow I see, every sunset & every sunrise i witness,every moment I am given, every laugh I share, even every tear I cry alone, I’m here for it! I’m here for it for as long as I am given - and I am so thankful to still be here knowing full well that I almost wasn’t. What a gift --and for everyone who isn’t here I’m gonna do the best I can with my time because they didn’t get to … I am always aware when it comes down to it, that every breath is a gift, and that I am not entitled to any of those breaths-but for as long as I’m giving them, I’m going to do my best to help others and to love everyone and everything the best I can.
@msfullroller
@msfullroller Жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you for sharing!!!❤
@shafserious2805
@shafserious2805 Жыл бұрын
Your screwed
@deadreckoning6288
@deadreckoning6288 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful. You are a rare gem.
@AmigaA-or2hj
@AmigaA-or2hj Жыл бұрын
You come to this world with nothing. You leave this world with nothing!
@reeree882
@reeree882 Жыл бұрын
Yup! So, why worry? I'll think about that the next time I do.😃
@advancedinsight246
@advancedinsight246 Жыл бұрын
So very very true Timothy... Worrying is so bad for our health... I think in your seventies and later, you will be able to take care of yourself... I know sick 70 year olds and I know vibrant and active seventy years olds... 'Great Commentary'!
@cikanyoro
@cikanyoro Жыл бұрын
Tim.. I 💯 agree. I am 38 and single with no kids and I envision a future where am loved, provided for and financially stable.
@blastproces
@blastproces Жыл бұрын
At 40 I feel 25 because I’ve reserved myself and have all my time to me. 👍
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Жыл бұрын
I feel 25 too somedays lol 😂
@Mazxlol
@Mazxlol Жыл бұрын
I wish it was so easy to just stop worrying. I try to stop worrying but not always can achieve that.
@bilalrashad6636
@bilalrashad6636 Жыл бұрын
I feel suicidal sometimes so getting old is not a problem for me, it means I'm closer to death
@HEALTHYHEARRTZ1111
@HEALTHYHEARRTZ1111 Жыл бұрын
AMEN!! I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS TIM 😊
@ronbrown8611
@ronbrown8611 Жыл бұрын
Also you can always change things up at any moment. Maintaining health is so important. Every day is a new day a new choice.
@fredrodriguez177
@fredrodriguez177 Жыл бұрын
What future? You can make your own, whatever and whenever you wish. You can change your present that may affect your future. But you will have to boldly go into the future without worrying about it. Don't live in fear. Fear of the unknown. Amen brother
@linzoe8031
@linzoe8031 Жыл бұрын
Up until now, I have not worried about things. I have so far had a fairly enjoyable and unconventional life. Recently though, I have started to worry about my age, physical condition, and not having work available as I age (or the inability to do it) and no savings. It started to lead to panic, and regret- even though at the moment, things are fine. I realized the worry is about not having a plan, and feeling like there are no options. At the same time, I realized basically what you are saying- worrying is not going to get me anywhere. In fact, it might be creating that "sick, alone, homeless and broke" future, if I do not let it go! Time to change my focus- my future looks bright, and it is going to be OK!
@ChildfreeLiving
@ChildfreeLiving Жыл бұрын
Well said 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 People spend far too much time in their youth worrying about being old! I just don’t get it. Live your life in the present moment - it might not always be easy but with practice you can enjoy your life *now* and then when/if you do get old, you’ll have amazing memories! ❤
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@mateaukalua4426
@mateaukalua4426 Жыл бұрын
I am almost 30 and don't spend any time worrying about getting old.
@reeree882
@reeree882 Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@LindaColleran-ec1bm
@LindaColleran-ec1bm Ай бұрын
Great family channel great single channel great channel for everyone Great mentorship
@Hannibal247
@Hannibal247 Жыл бұрын
Great message Tim, I think a lot people let fear dictate their lives. We need to live more in the present.
@samanthasamantha1830
@samanthasamantha1830 Жыл бұрын
I love everything about this wonderful message! Why worry when I can dwell in possibility. Thank you, Tim!
@advancedinsight246
@advancedinsight246 Жыл бұрын
Timothy... You live your life not submitting to stress!!! Good job!!!
@carolynhudson2701
@carolynhudson2701 5 ай бұрын
I admire his strong minded attitude. He is such a positive person and very spiritual. I wish him many blessings😊
@samcraig6718
@samcraig6718 4 ай бұрын
Hi Timothy, I'm 47 and single with no kids and have never been married either. I'm also quite introverted too. But occasionally enjoy a good conversation with others. My take on life is this. It's short and before we know it it's all over. So don't spend too much time worrying or thinking about life. Just enjoy what you have while you got it. Because the one thing that we don't have, is an abundance of time. And time starts working against us from the womb until the tomb. If I may borrow a little of your analogy friend. And we can never get time back and oneday the clock will stop. So just believing that has helped me to appreciate my time down here just a little more. Take care my man. Cheers friend :)
@c.t.2252
@c.t.2252 15 күн бұрын
I'm in my seventies now, and the years from 65 onward have been the best years of my life.
@susanhannon7596
@susanhannon7596 Жыл бұрын
LOVE YOUR VIDEOS. Every time I watch one I feel good. Common sense, positive messages - that makes me a big fan.
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Жыл бұрын
Thanks! Glad my videos can give you a good feeling. Mission accomplished!
@Videoaddict345
@Videoaddict345 Жыл бұрын
Hey Tim love your vlogs, I am at the ripe old age of 64 and still feel that good things are coming for me. You're right about separating worry from thought I'm guilty of it too. I think the millennium is going to change the way people plan their future, according to they're hopes and dreams, we can only wait and see.
@ZE308AC
@ZE308AC Жыл бұрын
I try not worried about the future because I can't control the future.
@jan2821
@jan2821 Жыл бұрын
Love these type of videos. Worrying does more harm than good 😌
@enigmathegrayman2953
@enigmathegrayman2953 Жыл бұрын
“It’s easier to deal with stuff when you know you’re the cause of it” 😂 memorable quote, right there!
@glidkomer
@glidkomer Жыл бұрын
That is very true.
@handsomeX
@handsomeX Жыл бұрын
Facts! A positive attitude alone will put you at an advantage.
@kickinaddiction
@kickinaddiction Жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed this massage today! Perfect timing for me. 👍
@steelearmstrong9616
@steelearmstrong9616 Жыл бұрын
Tomorrow is not promised nor guaranteed to anyone. Tomorrow does not exist. Life is not meant to be happy although we strive for it. It’s about survival. Life is a tough gig for everyone. We are all winging it. Paranoia and anxiety is healthy and it is for our very survival. It’s only when it’s chronic that it becomes unhealthy. Love is anxiety. Life is suffering. Attachment is suffering. Everything we do is out of fear and love. Just do you and enjoy what you love. We don’t have long. Life is short. In the end nothing matters. And remember, It’s just a ride… Bill Hicks…..
@dagg310
@dagg310 Жыл бұрын
the older u get the better .... less and less future to worry about lol
@BronxBombers_726
@BronxBombers_726 Жыл бұрын
I'm an old man in my sixties. I agree don't worry yourself but you do need to plan and be aware of your plan for when it does occur. Trust me, it will come quickly.
@deanaderrick3474
@deanaderrick3474 Жыл бұрын
I enjoy all your little talks so much. I listen regularly. I not only saw the sheriff car slow driving behind you, but I had a palpable physical reaction to it. It scared me. I'm a white, 51 year old woman so not specifically predisposed to fearing police......what I felt in that moment shocked me.
@Imblakeimblakethatsrght
@Imblakeimblakethatsrght Жыл бұрын
I can't comprehend how one could hate on your videos Tim. You made another great video.
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@wheatstonebridge
@wheatstonebridge Жыл бұрын
Who hates on his videos?
@Imblakeimblakethatsrght
@Imblakeimblakethatsrght Жыл бұрын
idk, I just can't see how anyone could@@wheatstonebridge
@swanskambakua2985
@swanskambakua2985 Жыл бұрын
It's the social programming. But they forgot that the social contract has been broken: being married with children now doesn't mean your children won't be weaponized against you when you become old. Being a loyal employee now doesn't mean the company will prepare a safety net for you in your old age. In other words, the old ideals don't apply to today's realities. You can play by the rules and still end up old, lonely, and alone. No guarantee.
@deadreckoning6288
@deadreckoning6288 Жыл бұрын
So true. Society, gov't, institutions.....the system doesn't care about you, one iota. So it's wise to live one's life with eyes open.
@MistyMcLane7985
@MistyMcLane7985 Жыл бұрын
My strategy is working for myself. I'm not very good at it, though, but I might take a class on how to survive out in the wilderness. Thank you for your motivational messages 🙏
@alphonso2241
@alphonso2241 Жыл бұрын
Big facts Tim! That's exactly how it has to be especially if you want a piece of mind and serenity in your life!!
@acceptinglife6491
@acceptinglife6491 Жыл бұрын
I love your outlook on life. Life honestly isn't that serious we live and we die and leave all of these things behind. I personally don't want a conventional family or life. I'll just book myself into a fancy nursing home when I'm in my 80s and die with my age mates 😂
@angelam9495
@angelam9495 10 ай бұрын
Live in the moment, what's going to happen will happen ❤🙏🏽✨️
@arkadiuszkalisz9903
@arkadiuszkalisz9903 Күн бұрын
Thank You Tim!!! Grettings from Poland :) worrying about the future is my big problem. I keep wondering what else I could do to have a peaceful old age - I do it for the good of my family, but at the same time it takes a lot of my energy now. I wish I could think like an 80-year-old... im 35 I would like to spend more time with my family in nature, but at the same time I worry about the future. I have to break down and realize that I already have a lot and worrying won't change anything.
@timothyswauger3984
@timothyswauger3984 Жыл бұрын
I love your videos Tim. Your perspective on life is so simple, yet so deep.
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Жыл бұрын
Thank you! Glad you are enjoying the videos 👍🏾
@soindifferent_
@soindifferent_ Жыл бұрын
That’s the beautiful thing about community, you can create one and find one where ever you go. I use to worry about the future but, I’m pretty content. When you have community you’re never really by yourself.
@markrossi6773
@markrossi6773 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the wisdom man. As someone who struggles with anxiety, this helped me a lot. Thank you.
@Mpm.611
@Mpm.611 Жыл бұрын
Yes me too
@ac1dfoxdie716
@ac1dfoxdie716 Жыл бұрын
yea man i feel u on that . i dont like having to worry about all the bad stuff people claim when u get older . im only 32 i dont wanna think of bad things
@Yung_Wicklove
@Yung_Wicklove 4 ай бұрын
Awesome perspective! I’m worried about the future all the time but it is so pointless to worry because I’ve always figured out what to do in my past.
@honoreejennings1998
@honoreejennings1998 Жыл бұрын
Timothy I'm glad I found you. You are a fresh breath of air. I love your videos. Keep them coming. They are very positive and inspiring to many!❤️
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Жыл бұрын
Thank you! I’ll do my best to keep the good content coming!
@allynnamccleod8862
@allynnamccleod8862 Жыл бұрын
I just found your channel. Looking forward to watching every one of your videos. Love your 'try it and see what happens' attitude towards life. I'm 69 getting by on rather minimal social security but it keeps a roof over my head, so why worry, be happy.
@jsnaggz
@jsnaggz Жыл бұрын
Only a minute and a half into the video and I already know this is gonna be another Timothy Ward golden nugget in video format. 🤣
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Жыл бұрын
I appreciate you saying that! 👊🏾
@lindashelby2246
@lindashelby2246 Жыл бұрын
People that worked all those years are talking about when they retire they will be living in a van. So what did they spend all their lives working for there is no greatness at the end. And most people body will be so broken down and which is the plan they will be living their last years in nursing homes or hospital or hospice. 😢 what is great about that. It’s sad we are programmed this way. Funny how people say oh he didn’t work blah blah is why he/she is this way. But they get quiet when someone worked all their lives and now so broken down and money saved is now being spent on being hospitalized or rehab to get up a walk again etc. This world is a throw up coin no matter what you do because if your health gets the most of you in the end you are done and you have not done any traveling etc just work work work. I seen all examples and it’s scary so why not live live live.
@saramatthews7159
@saramatthews7159 Жыл бұрын
I've literally worked with a handful of older ppl in their late 50s/60s who bragged about what they'd do after retirement...only to pass away in less than 5 years after they retired. Smh
@avonnabors
@avonnabors Жыл бұрын
“we suffer more in imagination than reality” Seneca
@beyondplutopodcast
@beyondplutopodcast 5 ай бұрын
A bar!!!!!
@jessejames4967
@jessejames4967 Жыл бұрын
Great message brother. Im always telling people not to worry about anything. Enjoy life ...do what brings you joy and when a challenging situation arises that requires us to make a possibly difficult decision, address it and navigate through it until its resolved. We are not even guaranteed tomorrow so let's be present in the moment while joyfully considering how we would like certain aspects of our future to play out, while not stressing or worrying about matters that don't exist now and maybe never will. Life is a game and a journey. Lets have fun and play it well.😊 Thank you Tim for all the inspiration and encouragement to resist the programming and exercise our God given ability to think critically and choose our own adventure. Fear is the enemy "they" use to keep us stuck and worrying. We can choose to live outside of that emotional/mental construct. Health hack: fresh lemon juice squeezed into a glass of warm spring water first thing in the morning with a teaspoon or two of bragg apple cider vinegar. Live long and healthy homie. Much love. ✌️
@DeniseONeal-jw7ms
@DeniseONeal-jw7ms Жыл бұрын
Hi Tim. I don’t worry much about the future, I only have today and I’m enjoying every minute of it!!!
@blutkind9202
@blutkind9202 Жыл бұрын
This might sound grim but, if my health fails at 70 or whatever, I personally, am completely capable of squeezing the trigger. It all closes out one day better to make that choice yourself than let fate be cruel.
@deadreckoning6288
@deadreckoning6288 Жыл бұрын
I feel the same. It's taboo in this society isn't it? To be in control of one's own life and health. I'm not interested in extending life if a certain quality isn't there. No hospital bed, tubes or machines extending life unnaturally for me. I reserve the right to be in control of my own destiny.
@briandanielson5818
@briandanielson5818 Жыл бұрын
47 no kids and live a mostly solo lifestyle. My dog passed away last year, and things just haven't been the same. Was pretty depressed, so I left my job for the summer to just do whatever, side jobs and hustle moves. I'm actually making more money doing that and I have more freedom, much happier.
@bboss7712
@bboss7712 Жыл бұрын
I like Tim’s mentally. I can honestly relate to it. The man is living his life without fear. The majority of people are living in fear every day. Smh 🤦🏾‍♂️ it’s really sad if you think about it. And everything around people perpetuates that fear using the media, jobs, the news. etc
@ivan.r1459
@ivan.r1459 Жыл бұрын
"Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes, don't resist them,that only create sorrow let reality be reality, and let things flow naturally in what ever way they like." Confucius,
@Luckyluckyluc
@Luckyluckyluc Жыл бұрын
Separating 'thought' from 'worry' is such an important point..! There's nothing wrong with thinking into the future and developing plans to make the best of it BUT once you start worrying about it you are doing yourself nowthing but a disservice, breaking your head over something that in and of itelself doesn't yield you anything. You are a great man, Tim..! 💟
@johnnymouse886
@johnnymouse886 Жыл бұрын
Your so great Sir ,all the young people should listen to you , we need more gentelmen of your kind in our schools. All the Best to you this speech save my day. Thank you
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@wheatstonebridge
@wheatstonebridge Жыл бұрын
My parents are strongly worried about aging and getting old and losing dependence. Unfortunately, their fears regarding this has affected me a bit, but Im working with my counselor on trying to desensitize a bit. Also, to stay healthy and trust my faith in God.
@abrahamcano1981
@abrahamcano1981 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your videos, Tim! I'm a big fan. Most people are caught up in the system and their daily grind and are jealous of your somewhat carefree, non pressured life. I hope you continue to encourage more people to live your type of lifestyle because people need an escape from their daily work routine. Most people are working out of a necessity and not for the love of their job. Take care and God bless you!
@Hannah-eq5ff
@Hannah-eq5ff Жыл бұрын
If I'm not worried and you are worried for me I'm good. ✨
@nuruisake
@nuruisake Жыл бұрын
I enjoy when this man cooks. To keep true to one's morals and ideals is lost these days.Thanks for the words of wisdom old man.
@TimothyWard
@TimothyWard Жыл бұрын
😂
@angelam9495
@angelam9495 10 ай бұрын
Exercise, eat well, stay hydrated, love on who love you, go outdoors and enjoy 😉 😘 😊 🎉
@KingSausage74
@KingSausage74 Жыл бұрын
As my big brother always says "tomorrow is not promised," so I enjoy today. Worry about tomorrow tomorrow. I'm 49 if I look back at my early 20s I'm doing way better than I thought I'd be 30 years later.
@Cactusdinner
@Cactusdinner Жыл бұрын
I'm 46, single, and no children by choice. I'm addicted to worrying about everything but mostly financial stability in the future.I have to constantly remind myself that worrying and being hypervigilent doesn't keep me safe.
@angusorvid8840
@angusorvid8840 Жыл бұрын
A great point. Many of my friends and family members often bother me because I don't plan things years in advance. I never believed in getting a 401K because I never thought it would be something I could rely on, and with the housing crash that proved to be true. So I never took a job that would lead to one. I just hopped job to job. One reason we can't worry about the future is that we can only plan for today's problems. We don't know what the future may hold and what technology may alleviate problems, perhaps replacing old problems with new problems. We don't know what sort of crazy politics could create bad or bizarre laws that will alter life in ways we can't even begin to imagine. Rather than people freak out and create a bugout bag, they ought to lead a more bugout sort of life, just be mentally prepared that anything can happen and mentally prep yourself for that. It's more important than all the planning in the world because, again, you don't know what problems may, or may not, present themselves.
@Millennialmtb
@Millennialmtb 8 ай бұрын
Ive gotten into outdoor activities like mountain biking and hiking , jogging to have a great life you cant let the outside noise disturb your inner peace .
@courge37
@courge37 Жыл бұрын
Omg you need a book of quotes. As a chronic worrier I needed this!!! I love your content 🤩
@Anthony_Torres
@Anthony_Torres Жыл бұрын
Good shit Tim
@qp9857
@qp9857 11 ай бұрын
I am definitely going to use this mindset. I have some many older people in my life and see there see their lives and im like oh lord please lol i dont wanna live like them. But i do have good things going for myself.. so i need to stop ✋🏿
@terrencewalker1982
@terrencewalker1982 Жыл бұрын
I'm only 41 and i don't care anymore because I got a beautiful wife and daughter at home.
@majormccargo356
@majormccargo356 Жыл бұрын
I am a 75 year old, single Black man. And I am NOT an old man yet! What you say is true. Especially about "worry". People don't understand just how powerful the mind, and one's thoughts really are. I have a good life. I frequently travel internationally (homes in a couple of countries). And some younger people might envy what I do and did (although I confess that life is a little slower for me now). I didn't plan. And I am not what you would call "rich". But I am more than comfortable and will never wonder about my next meal, a roof over my head, or healthcare/security. I just lived life at a realistic pace. My pace. Not someone else's. And I made decent decisions ... decent, at least for me. And so, I might let you all know how it turns out, when I finally become an "old man".
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