SHE.........does not look feminine with THAT wig either. Truth be told.
@tamarastone1412 ай бұрын
And she is getting on my last nerve moving her hair from her eye every 10 seconds!!! What she needs to do is put some accessories on and some light makeup on to look more feminine
@Calcium-mn9eq2 ай бұрын
Neither do you, even with your pursed lips. Truth be told!
@seeia16732 ай бұрын
@@Calcium-mn9eqyou must be the wig lady
@JK-wp4nl2 ай бұрын
Agreed. It was distracting.
@Calcium-mn9eq2 ай бұрын
@@seeia1673 Believe whatever you like, since you're not smart enough to think beyond that. I said what I said. If you want to insult a woman's appearance, expect yours to be insulted as well.
@BTheTrue2 ай бұрын
i feel stupid with straight hair. .. i feel more confident with braids, curls and textured hair.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@Orlanzepol1232 ай бұрын
@@tintamanengu I think black women look silly with silky weaves of another ethnicity’s texture. I envision WW wearing Afros and kinky straight wigs and I clearly see how silly they look. It doesn’t match their facial features which is the same thing when you see a black woman like the BW in the video with broad features and wearing a European looking wig .
@mopride72492 ай бұрын
@@tintamanenguliterally me. My hair has to be textured.
@skyeamore57192 ай бұрын
When I was a kid I use to want straight hair and now I’m older I love my fluffy hair you can do so much with it
@user-nj5fd9so9s2 ай бұрын
I love my natural hair, I feel so different when I straighten it, I'm like, "now what??" cause I literally don't know what to do with straight hair.
@MzYumYum692 ай бұрын
She needs to stop saying "US" and "WE" because it's just HER. Itz one thing to like wigs for ease and style variety but to say you don't look feminine in your own hair is ridiculous.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@itsalrightitsok9292 ай бұрын
So ridiculous 🙄 !
@Orlanzepol1232 ай бұрын
@@itsalrightitsok929 She didn’t say all. She calls the ones who can grow long hair unicorns 🦄. There was a study which showed that African hair usually doesn’t grow at the same speed of caucasian or Asian hair. Maybe she’s referring to that study. The study also showed that Asian hair usually grows faster and longer than any other race. Why do you think you can find video compilations of Asian and white women with Rapunzel hair that’s passed their knees? You can’t find videos like that of black women. They are compilations of black women with long hair, but most of their hair reaches their shoulders or mid back.
@rosam6742 ай бұрын
@@Orlanzepol123 That was a racist study. Because all races grow hair from the scalp at the same rate. But Afro hair needs different grooming practices for length retention. That's why we culturally developed a variety of protective styles. If you handle your hair like straight-haired people do, your ends will fall off and you will be stuck at the same length.
@Orlanzepol1232 ай бұрын
@@rosam674 Racist? I know that people say all hair grows at the same rate but no other study that I know of has been done to debunk the study. Asian hair is estimated to grow on averages around . 5 inches per month whereas African American hair growth somewhere around . 3 inches per month. Do think black hair can grow on average 5 inches per month? I don’t know why it’s so hard to believe Asian hair can grow so much faster. Humans are the same almost entirely biologically. There are just some things other races are more efficient at than others. I bet you won’t have a problem believing that black males on average have more physical strength than other races. And that black people can endure the sun better than other races. The mere fact that black hair is so different than others ethnicities just proves that humans are not 100% alike in everything.
@iamthenicheee2 ай бұрын
I’ve noticed that black women with long hair have one thing in common; they all leave their hair the hell alone. They keep real simple routines and they don’t tamper with their hair very much. Most of the times their hair is tucked underneath a scarf, or in twists or underneath a wig. Their hair is ALWAYS protected. Protect your hair and it will grow.
@Butterfly-yk9bwАй бұрын
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@ladybird491Ай бұрын
Preach! My Afro is growing fast and getting pretty big and it's 4c hair, cause I get one trim a year now and keep it twisted and shampoo bi weekly.
@Austinflwrz17 күн бұрын
@@ladybird491after you shampoo and condition do you use products for your twists, and do you blow dry or twist wet? Thank you ❤ still learning trying to retain length and simplicity.
@Blackdove04212 ай бұрын
She favors Viola Davis and Viola looks good in her natural state.
@emmyl4872 ай бұрын
Exactly. This woman is actually beautiful. I hate that she can’t see that for herself.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@vangu29182 ай бұрын
She's been told she was ugly by the people who should have been boosting her up since she was a child. That sort of thing is hard to overcome for some women.
@wonderful4life2 ай бұрын
Viola Davis looks Beautiful in ANY style.❤
@radiancecarmen57122 ай бұрын
Right I think she should give a go . She should go to a natural stylist
@SarinaCampbell2 ай бұрын
I feel so sad for her. Love yourself girl first, girl.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@sharoncarsons57342 ай бұрын
And all the brown skinned women with waist lengths locs would prove otherwise. Black women's hair grows between 3 to 6 inches every year. So within 3 years most Black women's hair has grown enough to be considered "long". Understanding our hair and stopping the breakage is the key to retaining length.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@DionnaHayden2 ай бұрын
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@leslies2712 ай бұрын
I agree...I'll never forget this lady who's locks where soooo long, she had to carry them!!! This was in Jax FL...🥰🥂
@jonestacara2 ай бұрын
Locks is different because the shed hair is not shedding so the length is maintained in the loc.
@Tahiha2 ай бұрын
We’re just gonna ignore all the in between factors that prevent maximum growth, and length retention etc right?
@DionnaHayden2 ай бұрын
I believe this woman would be stunning with her natural hair. I wish she saw her beauty.
@HappinessYata2 ай бұрын
well she doesn't want to "look like Mufasa "🤷🏿♀️
@DionnaHayden2 ай бұрын
@@HappinessYataunfortunately, centuries of the smear campaign against black hair has worked psychologically.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@dianew70582 ай бұрын
I agree she would be stunning if someone could show her how to style her hair naturally. Have you seen the Trinidad stylist that transforms older women's hair. They go from sad to AMAZING.
@DionnaHayden2 ай бұрын
@@dianew7058yes, those videos have me about to cry! Amazing job and beautiful women!
@cebile14932 ай бұрын
Am I the only one who's a black woman and just hates the term black girl magic for no reason 😅?
@Tahiha2 ай бұрын
It’s foolishness. People are people. No one and no one race is more special than the other. BW have taken on this fantasy mindset in order to dodge accountability for certain behaviours.
@Kayla-kd8ov2 ай бұрын
It's so corny and generic. They make us sound like mythical creatures.
@vixii62302 ай бұрын
No, me too. I equate it to people calling us “strong black women”. I am not strong, nor am I magical. I cannot do everything and I don’t want to.
@PreciousdaughterofChrist2 ай бұрын
literally same lol.
@myhair_issafoodie91912 ай бұрын
Nope! I hate it too! 😅
@1love8472 ай бұрын
OUCH! She said I don't look that good with any style! -This is so hard to hear. She is speaking self abuse into the universe.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@honks94842 ай бұрын
No, she’s speaking her truth.
@CrowGirl19902 ай бұрын
It’s just another form of body dysmorphia. That’s not her truth, it’s twisted. It’s like an anorexic person saying they are still fat when their bones are poking out of their skin.
@wonderful4life2 ай бұрын
@@honks9484Nothing true about that, beside her embracing self-hate.
@soleilwhitton6397Ай бұрын
@@wonderful4life HER truth! Not YOUR belief/theory. This woman has lived long enough to know who she is, how she is perceived/treated and how she feels about it.
@sharoncarsons57342 ай бұрын
Black women have spent so much time trying to conform our hair to European beauty standards that it causes a lot of breakage. Stop the breakage and Black hair grows to waist length or longer. There. Corrected that "Black hair doesnt grow" misconception for you.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@paigewhite12512 ай бұрын
In America; we _used_ to have hair. Nearly *every* little girl on my block had @LEAST shoulder length ponytails. Same with older family pictures; they had plenty of hair. 🤷🏾♀️ This *new* _lack of hair & edges_ amazez me as well. However, I thought it was because *most* "BW" dont know how to take care of it anymore. When you chemically _over_ process it, "grease" is not _IN_ / on trend, tension styles & a constant silk press are trend, & REAL hair is not considered a "polished" look...🤔🤷🏾♀️ most WILL be bald_ish. 😅
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@icilmaa2 ай бұрын
I'm not from America but I grew up with the same experience seeing many black girls and women with a full head of hair well past their shoulders. The damage I'm seeing on many young girls is shocking.
@cutiepiea36872 ай бұрын
Even jayda hair is a thin af from all the straightening and relaxing she be doing
@vixii62302 ай бұрын
Yep, I’m going back to that though. I stopped caring about it because I was dying it a lot, but I just want my natural beautiful hair back.
@07ikkin2 ай бұрын
👏 exactly. And I hate all the gimicky products like OlaPlex. I tried it on sale. Used it twice, it didn't help anything. Our mothers and aunts had hair, and they didn't have OlaPlex, they had grease lol so that's what I've went back to... products that mom used to use
@cleolewis3202 ай бұрын
I was getting so irritated how many times she's trying to get the hair out of her eye... Feels like I can💇😤
@Orlanzepol1232 ай бұрын
😂 It gave me anxiety but it’s something many BW do when they get a silk press or especially when they’re wearing a weave.😂
@vixii62302 ай бұрын
Every 5-10 seconds she was swooping out of her hair 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@mariabrowne81032 ай бұрын
I came looking for this comment 😂
@irulan91612 ай бұрын
@cleolewis320. That was honestly the most annoying part for me. I was like please stop touching your damn wig! And then I felt bad
@sharoncarsons57342 ай бұрын
Many African women are feminine and beautiful even when they shave their heads. Black women have the most beautifully proportioned bodies in the world, megawatt smiles, and skin that glows in the sun and is slow to age. I'm hearing a lot of jealously over what Black hair looks like when it's thriving because we've given it the loving care that it needs.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@emilyavery59702 ай бұрын
My sister has 4c hair and its down her back. She a kid who isn't putting relaxers, weaves, wigs and overmanipulating her hair. That's why its long. My hair grew the most when I wear my hair is protective natural styles.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@geraldinefrank33882 ай бұрын
Only when you start loving your true self, you start seeing that you were beautiful all along
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@JerseyJD242 ай бұрын
Yup and thing is I sympathize so much. people are subjected to harsh insults for the entirety of their life! I for sure dealt with this for a long time especially as a darker skin black women with a fit body type. I vowed to never wear a wig or straight hair again and I am much more beautiful. I get stares and compliments all the time now when I rarely use too. I’ll say a prayer tonight- that this women grows beyond this mindset
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
@@JerseyJD24 Amen and thank you for this beautiful comment ❤️💚😊
@tashboog5458Ай бұрын
That’s not how it works. Self love would lead to you finding your intrinsic value and applying a mamba mentality to it.. the progress is beautiful and the superficial is left in its rightful place of meaninglessness.
@gracefullyrachel65732 ай бұрын
I’ve noticed the majority of women who are saying they don’t feel feminine with short hair are older black women. Reason being is because in their generation their mothers,aunts, grandmothers etc were calling them nappy headed, etc. So most of it stems from generational trauma leading them to believe they will only have long hair if you wear wigs, weaves etc. This generation is more confident in their hair compared to our parents. Additionally, there was no KZbin giving tips and tricks like we have now. I’m only 28 and I still see older people in my family believing you can’t grow hair unless you’re mixed. It’s simply ignorance and misinformation about black hair
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@Spokentruths7252 ай бұрын
Im 29 and i agree.
@florencefarmer63712 ай бұрын
Come back in 40 years when your hormones have waned and the battle is on, if you choose to fight it, to not age like a traditionally granny. Nothing wrong with that, if that is your choice. But if you are choosing to age youthfully, suddenly what kind of hair you wear will become extremely important.
@lavonnealexander69362 ай бұрын
Yup my aunty and mom are like this it’s sad
@soleilwhitton6397Ай бұрын
Well at 28 you are living in the computer age with full access to hair care items/products/how to videos that promote that. Back in the day, we used white girl shampoo/conditioner, afro sheen hair grease or vaseline, sulfur 8 if you had a itchy scalp and a straightening comb fresh out the flame, lol. Which means most of the length and edges were burned off. If someone in your family had long hair they were biracial. But thanks to your generation, and innovations in hair care products and the fact that Black hair care is a billion dollar industry, we have all kinds of products to help our hair grow and thrive. We spend a lot of money on hair care. A. Lot.
@hybridinfodesk4092 ай бұрын
I feel sorry for my sister. She is self projecting. Yah made us all different. No one size fits all. Her attempt to typecast us all is crazy. There are a lot of black women with long hair or at least shoulder length. Just say you like fake hair.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@Orlanzepol1232 ай бұрын
Y’all acting like this is an isolated case. Most BW hate their hair and no one can tell me different. Y’all don’t want to hear what she had to say because it hits too close to home. I think she’s making some women reflect and possibly now they’ll now do something about it because when you hear someone say something and it’s exactly how you’re feeling it’s like a wake up call .
@hybridinfodesk4092 ай бұрын
@@Orlanzepol123 I love my natural hair I won the natural hair lotto. It's combination hair so took me a minute to master it. Not sure the texture. Flat around the roots, loose wave on top that spike out to a point. Around the ears and neckline silk but tighter curl with a 3b texture. Fine hair but massive thick and curly only on the ends. My mother had it down to my elbows as a child. I have it below the shoulders. I'm gonna let it grow out to see how long she gets. The longer my hair gets the easier it gets and the texture changes. Most of the time it feels like silk.
@hybridinfodesk4092 ай бұрын
@@Orlanzepol123 I have a curl fro in the front, and long bob in the back. The top does not stand up. I love it, the shape, versatility, length and texture. I usually wear a loose curl puff in the back or a big spiked out one on the top of my head. Sometimes a slicked back ponytail into a braid. I style my hair every day. Usually some cream on the edges and brush it in. No water necessary. If I need extra curl or definition some curl cream activator stuff does the job quickly. I only wear it down inside the house cause I get too much attention with it out. She is big. Speak for yourself. Every woman in my family had long hair. Some still do.
@honks94842 ай бұрын
@@hybridinfodesk409we get it. You got “good hair” no one asked.
@cindychristian17002 ай бұрын
I'm not saying she's wrong on every point because there is hair abuse in our community based on textures! But she's projecting herself too much on everyone else! She should put the "me" and I feel" in her comments from now on!
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@ZoraVada-kn7tv2 ай бұрын
She better stop saying, "We." Im sorry she feels that way, but she is not going to put me in that self-hate box. My natural hair makes me look younger. My natural hair reminds me of a cloud, and I love it. The only thing difficult about my natural hair is detangling. Other than that, I will never ever wear a wig because i feel like it does not suit me at all, and it's so deceptive to me. I dont bother straightening my hair because I love how my type 4 hair is, and I dont want the damage from it. It's sad that some of us are still struggling to love ourselves. It is sad that some of us spread self-hate amongst ourselves.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@Chiko-sf1gb2 ай бұрын
I know this is kinda out of topic but honestly, mufasa had some luscious locks.
@emmyl4872 ай бұрын
I’m out here tryna look like Mufasa or Chaka Khan. 🤷🏾♀️
@Chiko-sf1gb2 ай бұрын
@@emmyl487 the effort I'm putting in is literally crazy 😂😂😂
@frankieallen49002 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@carlalamar6193Ай бұрын
😂
@IaminfinityX32 ай бұрын
She’s crazy cause she’s literally beautiful and she would look a lot better with out that wig
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@ninawestlake50052 ай бұрын
If she knows that it's a shame and internalized hatred, why rush to social media to voice this venom? What does it do for us? For her? Sjeesh!
@FearofGodmom2 ай бұрын
Pray for her deliverance from low self esteem demons. There's nothing more beautiful than a Godly woman who is confident in her Lord and in herself. Amen.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
Amen❤️💚
@sharoncarsons57342 ай бұрын
Hair growing and hair retaining length are not the same thing. Healthy hair is beautiful hair. Black hair can not be MANIPULATED into styles everyday without causing breakage. That's why waist length Black hair is usually loc'd. ANY hair style that requires daily combing, brushing, braiding, twisting, etc. reflects the European standard of how hair should be maintained and does not optimize the health of black hair.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@MILLIONDOLLARMAKER2 ай бұрын
US BLACK MEN LOVE OUR BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMEN WITH 4C NATURAL HAIR
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@NamasteInYourLane2 ай бұрын
Go away
@duckman24802 ай бұрын
Bro… why the hell would black hair go down? It’s a black trait to have an Afro to protect from the sun. If you need to put a nonsensical amount of product for it to go down you don’t have hair that goes down.
@honks94842 ай бұрын
Right. Only time my hair goes down is when it’s wet during styling time and then 20 minutes later it gets big again😂
@Orlanzepol1232 ай бұрын
@@honks9484 some BW with a loser hair texture like 3C eventually grows down because of the weight as it gets longer. But you’re correct. Black type 4 black hair grows out/ up.
@honks94842 ай бұрын
@@Orlanzepol123 Yea I know. I have 3c/4a and a few bits of 3b here and there in the back of my head. My hair is down my back rn but it just shrinks up to my shoulders and it’s so disrespectful🙄 can’t wait for it to relax more as it gets longer bc I’m currently growing it out some more.
@Orlanzepol1232 ай бұрын
@@honks9484 I too have 3b and 3C type . In my profile pic my hair is to my shoulders and it’s long and heavy enough to “hang”. I do have product on my hair but it’s not to make it hang because my hair hangs at shoulder length without product because I have very fine hair. I need product for moisture and shine and to define my curls more but my hair is wavy and curly even without product.
@honks94842 ай бұрын
@@Orlanzepol123 Lmao mine is just frizzy/curly without product but I feel you on the moisture part. My hair is on the drier side so I literally can’t live without some type of curling cream or moisturizing custard. I used to use gels for that but I didn’t like the way they made my hair so crunchy so I switched to custards and never went back😂👍🏾
@reecereece81792 ай бұрын
Sending love and light to the lady in the purple shirt❤ If she feels she does not look feminine with her short, natural hair this is how SHE feels. Let's NOT invalidate her feelings. Sometimes these current feelings have developed after people were mean, rude, or had negative comments about her appearance that we did NOT get to witness. Education is key, each person is an individual and should be treated as such. 1. Sometimes there are vitamins one lacks in their diet which is why hair does not maintain its length. 2. Also, sometimes it's medical conditions like underactive thyroid or Lupus or Cushings disease. Medical issues may require some individual research on how to navigate your hair journey, changing your diet, medication/treatment plan, taking necessary vitamins,etc. 3. Some women have alopecia, again, this will require specialized research and treatment to fix, if possible. Proper hair care is vital but it is honestly trial and error for most. What works for one 4c head may not work for another. One woman's hair may love a mousse, another woman's hair gets dried out by mousse. This is why we research, try different products for ourselves or start making our own hair blends/masks. Some hair grows with black castor oil, some have hair loss with it. Some get growth from Rosemary oil or avocado/banana blend hair masks, etc. Learn YOUR hair and what YOUR body needs. Leave the rest. Tearing people down for lack of knowledge is ridiculous. If your hair is short for now, watch some videos on short styles or get a hair stylist that can slay short hair. Sometimes the presentation makes all the difference and boosts the confidence. Good luck ladies....we need to lift each other up more!
@KaySeminomadic2 ай бұрын
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@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@smilingface4761Ай бұрын
Black hair does grow. I didn't think my hair would grow but it did. Speak for yourself.
@pillowlava68942 ай бұрын
I can imagine the lady in the purple looking with a cute Afro puff bun! I can see the beauty in her like that. I love my hair I just HATE the maintenance. Gotta have two days off just to style and make sure it looks decent
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@Cocoflower5282 ай бұрын
I’m experimenting shampooing my 4b/c hair everyday. Trimmed my hair April 1st and my bangs were next to my eyes. In almost 30 days, those bangs are at the bottom of my nose. Our hair grows really fast. I just think we have to wash it and stop doing those tight hairstyles.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!!💚❤️
@chanaelcaldwell2 ай бұрын
I maintained more length when I washed it every 4-5 days rather than waiting. I might go back to that.
@naimaamina77592 ай бұрын
Ever since decided to go natural my hair has been growing. My hair gives me confidence and it’s truly my crown.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@brwnchild24102 ай бұрын
Stop believing your experience is everyone else’s experience just because you haven’t witnessed it does not mean it can’t be true for someone else. I feel sorry for her because her imagination and experiences are limited. because if she knew better, she would understand there are many different factors as to why a person hair won’t grow. your reason and my reason could be completely different.. with attitudes like that how can a black woman get use to the hair growing out of her OWN scalp!
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@MrsDollBabie2 ай бұрын
This lady sounds like Samantha Cooker. That "X, Y, and Z" just gave her away.
@jazzyrain62152 ай бұрын
I was thinking the same thing. I think this is her for real.
@feminineone96102 ай бұрын
It is HER
@thepageisblanc2 ай бұрын
I beg to differ lol. On a serious note, every hairstyle is not suitable for "natural hair". For example, perms and relaxers tend to cause more breakage in 4c hair than it does to 4a or looser hair. I know because I have both textures and was relaxed in high school. Braids damage thin hair more than it does to dense hair. All the women saying black hair doesn't grow are styling and manipulating their hair in a way that causes breakage. All hair grows. It's the lack of length retention that has some women confused.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@lenorawilson23262 ай бұрын
Someone made a comment that she looks like Viola Davis. Yes she dose look like Viola Davis, but Viola herself only recently within the last few years decided she was going to stop wearing wigs and embrace her natural look. Viola spoke about how she had an issue with self image and how she didn't like the way she looked. She felt she wasn't petty enough, even with all her awards she hide under wigs. Wigs can be a great protective hairstyle. It doesn't mean we don't have long beautiful hair under wigs. It's a great way to change your hairstyle and color without damaging your own hair. But it doesn't make us any more or less beautiful. If we as a community especially black men stop putting down block women and comparing us to other races or mixed women then a lot of our black sisters wouldn't suffer with low self-esteem and self hate.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@ladybird491Ай бұрын
She waited until she won the Oscar which means she submitted until she won, so I am not really about her.
@mssingh66122 ай бұрын
I feel prettier with my real hair than when i put on a wig. I only feel pretty with synthetic hair when it's in braids or corn rolls.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@ammasatyam2682 ай бұрын
She has beautiful sharp features. She would look amazing with her natural hair.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@MK-hh1vo2 ай бұрын
As a natural BW, I measure my "length" by how high my hair stands up. I have to "do stuff" to make it hang down my back. I like my high top hair. I also use shrinkage as a styling tool. With the combo of a twist out on top and a wash n go on the bottom, I've created some stylish hair "cut" looks without the scissors!
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!!💚❤️
@blaqueruby49462 ай бұрын
Hair doesn’t have to be down to the waist... hair down to the shoulders is fine... Everyone can grow their hair to this length... Blk hair does grow, but not all BW know how to grow it. The problem is racism took away the ability for BW to take care of their hair. It’s all relaxers, wigs and weaves. BW across the globe need to go natural and collectively invest in finding out what works for us...
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@kaylabean36932 ай бұрын
Omg I literally just made a video about this! It’s heartbreaking that this is the main idea that’s being pushed on us
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@Blackdove04212 ай бұрын
My question is why do most want the headache taking care of long hair takes time!
@biancalord4882 ай бұрын
Short hair takes way more time and effort
@matxalenc84102 ай бұрын
@@biancalord488Yes. I've had both and short hair was high maintenance. With long hair, worse comes to worse, a bad hair day and I can put my hair in a puff with a headband or scarf.
@MsZoeee2 ай бұрын
I was just thinking this 😂❤ I prefer my hair either in a short cute do or Chaka Khan styles.
@LakeishaLifestyle2 ай бұрын
May some of our people with self hate learn to love their natural self, And embrace the beauty and natural power that comes with being you, naturally. I hope they learn to love themselves just as much as the other races admire us but most of the time it turns into envy and hate. This was a very informative video❤ thank you darling for educating those who may have a different mindset or non belief that we are limited when it comes to hair growth. 🦋
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@SunRise-cd5cb2 ай бұрын
(Long Sigh)...lies, ignorance and straight up foolishness on Black women's part. I'm Black, not mixed...just Black. I have the kinkiest hair you can imagine. I'm not mixed. My hair is now 36 inches long. I make my own hair tonics. I take every day to learn , nourish and understand my hair. I have no chemicals in my hair. You know, I cannot believe we are still having these stupid conversations in 2024. But here's the thing...we are. Black women for the MOST part do not have long hair, due to destructive hair practices....period. Let's admit it and just move on. Have a nice day.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@SunRise-cd5cb2 ай бұрын
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@rochellefreeman4019Ай бұрын
Say it louder for the
@user-mp4ir8nn7k2 ай бұрын
These women are WRONG… Ive been doing hair since I was 12. I became a licensed Beautician and Black Women grow hair down their back. My hair grew to my shoulders and then I’d cut it. You have to have patience to grow hair honey and we have it❤
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@user-nj5fd9so9s2 ай бұрын
I big chopped june last year it was basically a buzz cut until it grew enough for my lil curls to pop, my hair is back at the length it was before in less than a year, yes i have type 4 hair and i got so many compliments on my very short hair and im thinking about cutting it again.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@jcjackson44462 ай бұрын
Well there is something I noticed depending on your hair type in the 4 type category kind of dictates how fast it's going to grow. However with consistency and patience 4c hair can grow just as fast. It's just that we were not taught that from the time we were young. If our mothers knew better they would have done better. Now you see more mothers who know what to do with their daughters 4 type hair to get to grow. So when these little girls start kindergarten, they are starting kindergarten with hair just as long as the other little girls who are not Black. Because for a lot of us little Black girls know that's where it started that's when we really notice our hair was lacking and we felt confused. Like why is their hair like that, or I like my hair I just wish it was longer, etc. you fill in the blank. But yeah we weren't taught correctly how to grow our hair. But you knew those few "unicorn" Black girls when you were young, who had long hair and it was 4 type hair, even 4c hair.... And their mothers knew what to do and they weren't sharing the secret lol. But now we know better, so we can do better. All the information is out there now. Yeah it's a bunch of deciphering.... But it's not rocket science. Now it becomes a matter of patience, perseverance and learning to love our hair enough to wait for it to grow. Nurturing it, taking care of it, it's part of us, we were born with it. There's a lot worse things to be born with isn't there if you really think about it. I mean we were actually born with something unique and beautiful and we've been tricked into thinking that it's not. Because if we embrace it, reveals our power within and out. And we may find that if we take that patient spiritual hair journey, we will grow as our hair grows. We will start growing to know who we truly are. It can be very spiritually empowering to grow your hair like you could never imagine.... It's not an imagination, it's actually a reality, embrace it. Admit you are lazy with your hair. But that's only because you presume it to be difficult. Why are there not much more difficult things in life? Be real. The movement is happening embrace it, love what GOD gave you. GOD does not make mistakes . IT REALISTICALLY WILL TAKE YOUR HAIR AT LEAST FOUR TO FIVE MAYBE 6 YEARS TO REACH BRA STRAP LENGTH OR BEYOND. AND THIS IS ALL BASED ON IF YOU CAN KEEP YOUR LENGTH THOSE YEARS. And I have proven this on myself. I never had loose hair past my shoulders. But when I locked my hair for 20 years, it grew past my butt. So I buzz cut my hair at 59 to less than an inch almost 4 years ago. After watching the KZbin videos on 4C hair. I developed a regimen and now my hair is getting close to bra strap length, and it's very full. Okay and here's the kicker I'm 63 years old, my hair is 4C high porosity, thin strand, supposably the "difficult kind". But I don't think of it that way I think of it as my hair and I know it grows, I just need to learn how to take care of it to keep my length. See if I listen to what this lady saying I wouldn't even have attempted to grow my hair at such an age. Cuz supposedly at my age my hair isn't really supposed to grow. But I don't believe what people say, I always believe what GOD tells me. And there is power in prayer for all things that are good. And God has always told me to "wear the hair I gave you" All the information is out there now, there's no more excuses to keep buying that taboo voodoo cursed hair, or putting chemicals that kill you or make you sick for vanity's sake.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@amalakram87552 ай бұрын
i think the reason black hair don't grow as long on average is that black women have taught to to let it do what it don't naturally do, wethere it be taming it or styling it, white women don't use gels on their hair yk.besides what i see from white women isn't really that long usually armpit length even i had longer than that BEFORE i started taking care if as natural, shrinkage just doesn't show it
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@jerm-gv9rv2 ай бұрын
Yeah and like you said no shrinkage for untextured hair so you ALWAYS see the full length
@purpleglitter9596Ай бұрын
If we act like natural hair is feminine for a few decades and promote it on TV then it will be considered feminine. We have the power to make it feminine. These things are learned programmed perspectives.
@tintamanengu14 күн бұрын
So true 💚❤️
@soundsofepip2 ай бұрын
My natural hair is shoulder length. Your crown is beautiful, sisters. We have the freedom to wear our hair the way we want. I wear wigs for fun because it is like wearing 💄. You are beautiful. Again, we need to hear this you are beautiful.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@jonestacara2 ай бұрын
Our hair is different and that’s ok. Most black women length retention is slow and it is A LOT of care, time, and effort for it to get long. My mixed niece doesn’t have to do anything for it to grow super long fast. Asians, Hispanics, and most whites hair grows super fast and is easy to detangle or blow dry and go. In one year their hair is down their back and they can wash blow dry and curl it regularly without damage. Once our hair is healthy is a lot easier to maintain but let’s not act like that’s super easy. It’s easier for certain grades because the kinkiest of hair has a fine strand that is easily damaged.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@ayedrey2 ай бұрын
If only she'd grow her hair out to see how fantastic she would look. She's missing out because she doesn't like her hair
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@DJ-vj4viАй бұрын
As a millenial black woman. Why do black women in my generation still care what black men think about them? All that matters is how you think about yourself.
@harrietsmalls17622 ай бұрын
Thank You for this video. I appreciate what Monica said. If we don't love and appreciate ourselves for what it is, they will keep us in a box like Monica said. I got tired of relaxers taking out my hair. I wanted to be free with my natural hair from junior high school into high school. Then I discovered these tutorials on how to take care of my natural hair. I was so relieved and thankful. I still use them to help me. I refuse to listen to this lady saying we're not pretty, no beautiful with our natural hair. We can't grow long hair. That's a lie. My hair was to my shoulders when I graduated high school. You can look feminine with your natural hair. She feels that way about herself. I refuse to think that and feel that way about myself. If they don't like my hair, oh well too bad. I'm going to wear it the way I want to.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@patriciamay2690Ай бұрын
Natural hair does grow. I straightened my hair for many years. Now I love my natural hair. To grow hair, apply peppermint oil and castor oil to the scalp. Wash it at least every 2 weeks. Take a table spoon of extra virgin olive oil once a week internally, with lemon 🍋. Yes, eat the lemon after consuming the oil. Occasionally, I take castor oil, and I eat a lemon after. You will see your hair grow so fast. It's also about what you put in your body‼️ Don't eat too much sweets and carbohydrates. Exercising helps, get your blood circulating to your scalp ❤ massage scalp
@tintamanenguАй бұрын
I'm currently using castor oil and tea tree oil, I've never used pepper mint but would love to try. As far as drinking the castor oil I've only done that once when I was constipated , nice to hear about other uses. Thanks for sharing 😊
@Blackdove04212 ай бұрын
She keeps saying we are we speaking French and she’s speaking for all of us silly woman.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@ninawestlake50052 ай бұрын
Does she even know what 'we' is in french and how to read, write and pronounce it. She'd better get on that than this sad generalized rant.
@ChristineC.-bd2qr2 ай бұрын
I remember when I made the decision to go natural, my family gave me grief over it. My Mom said I would look like a lesbian, my Aunt talked me into buying a wig I never wore and even my hairdresser tried to convince me I would not like it. In fact, I got the most compliments on my hair in it's natural state from white people. Twenty years later I am still rocking my natural hair and I love it!
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@aem4832 ай бұрын
It grows it's that we don't some of us don't retain length because our hair is prone to breakage more because of our textures some of us sometimes its best to leave it alone
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@gold-in-melanin74882 ай бұрын
We are too caught up in hair!
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@carlalamar6193Ай бұрын
And also some medicines will cause the falling out of hair..sometimes you're forced to wear your own hair or if you wish a wig...
@nomessnostressАй бұрын
Madam cj walker and others found out how to moisturize African American hair! Sometimes it doesn't grow because ppl doesn't know what to use, how to care for the hair, etc.... its not just oil that will grow it but more so figuring out what works best for our hair
@tintamanenguАй бұрын
So true 💚❤️
@ladybird491Ай бұрын
DETOX! hair tonic detoxing grow afro hair fast. We need to start making our own tonic.
@lashellanderson77732 ай бұрын
The key is to keep it moisturized and the only way to do that is use an oil gel. It coats the hair strain and use oil gel butters. Our hair don't stay moisturized for long. Once I switched to using oil gel my hair has far less breakage.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
Thanks for the tips!💚❤️
@Austinflwrz17 күн бұрын
I think there’s so much information that trying and staying consistent becomes overwhelming.
@tintamanengu14 күн бұрын
Yes that's another thing. Who do you believe? Anyway I hope we take time to learn our hair on an individual level only we can know how best to take care of it and enjoy wearing it.
@Austinflwrz14 күн бұрын
@@tintamanengu true, gotta stick with it. Trial and error and acceptance.
@greeneyedbandit50352 ай бұрын
Mine grows pretty fast, I chopped it off in January. I don’t use growth oils.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@soleilwhitton6397Ай бұрын
We have every texture of hair in my family. The standard/goal was to make sure your hair was clean and done before your hand hit that doorknob. I can't remember what shampoo or conditioner we used but the staple was a straightening comb, afro sheen and a jar of sulfur 8. If your hair was course, it was painful to get your natural hair done. So our mothers' used Vigoral (light green liquid chemical that smelled like rotten eggs) to gently relax our hair. because the kids would cry while getting there hair done. It was tough. But when our hair was done, it was manageable, neat with a cute little style. and we shook those curls around like princess's. And it was easier for our mom's to do our hair. No mother wants to struggle with their kid every day just to get their hair done. It cut down on a lot of drama/trauma. I had cousins that had long flowy hair that grow mid-back and I was envious as a child. But it was up to the parents to ensure that we accepted and loved ourselves as-is. But Grown-Ups can be petty AF too. My hair was like mixed chicks hair but one grade courser and I wore my hair in 2 plaits forever and got it straightened on Easter, Thanksgiving and Christmas. It grew to a little past my shoulders but was full and healthy. It was what it was. But no one every said, I had a full, healthy or beautiful head of hair. But now I realize I did. In everything, you want to look and feel your best. So natural or not, no judgement. Or there shouldn't be. I get what this lady is saying. I am not a fan of afros/puff balls/cornrows and never wanted to have one. It was just a preference. I don't have the facial features to rock short hair so I have always worn my hair long and straightened. Relaxers for years. Now I am natural and get silk presses.
@crystalriley96712 ай бұрын
I am in my 50s and majority of my life I have worn natural hair and nails. Only when I am required by "others" for special events, I will do a wig and/or fake nails. Over the years, many women and men have complimented me on being natural. I explained, that my head sweats, so I cannot do straight style nor do I like fake nails because they feel strange on my fingertips. We need to get back to doing what is"healthy" for us and not worry about what others think. You will instantly feel 100% prettier, stronger, and more confident when you are not scared of the rain or care about opening up a bottle. Also, we need to get back to highlighting our complementing to our natural sistahs and brothers versus saying things like" that doesn't look attractive". God made us in his image, so that makes us all BEAUTIFUL!
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@MILLIONDOLLARMAKER2 ай бұрын
ALOT OF BLACK MOTHERS KILL THE ROOTS OF THERE DAUGHTERS HAIR BY PUTTING PERMS IN THEY HEAD. DONT PUT PERMS IN YOUR CHILD HAIR, JUST GREESE AND WATCH IT GROW.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@jaifyre702Ай бұрын
I don't know what she's talking about. My hair didn't grow right because I didn't know what my hair needed. When I found out that my hair needed different than what my child needed I started to realize I had been going about my hair care all the wrong way. I found out what my hair needed. Porosity played a huge role in my hair care. Now that I'm treating my hair right I'm seeing it come right back to life and growing wildly. Find out what your hair needs vs what you want it to have.
@tintamanengu14 күн бұрын
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@fishchicken41882 ай бұрын
She said MOST not all but everyone hair grows it’s just that not every black women know how to retain length.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@missmaya75682 ай бұрын
I agree with her statement of… “ the black community thrives off ABUSE and TRAUMA!” It’s really a shame how we sometimes treat one another. I come from an extremely abusive family (e.g., my mother, grandfather and passive-agreesuve grandmother). My uncles and an aunt thought that it was okay to put their hands on me as well as most family members on my mother’s side. I know this is not the main topic of this video, but as black people we need to learn to keep our hands to ourselves. Just be cay out can physically put your hands on someone doesn’t mean that you should. As an only child, raised by by mother’s parents, most would probably say that I was very fortunate to have been raised by my maternal grandfather and grandmother. But the abuse at my grandfather’s hands as well as my own mother (who took after her father) was a extremely traumatic/demonic. I often cried/prayed for my biological father to rescue me (which never happened). Every aspect of my life was abuse and control. When I got married my husband saw it one day when I was about to discipline/spank our son. I am thankful and grateful because I didn’t want to continue that cycle of abuse. That’s not to say that our son has never been spanked. But, as parents (or guardians of children), there is a line that need not to be crossed. I know that The WORD of God says “spare the rod/spoil the child”, but I seriously don’t think that Jesus Christ meant for His people to abuse their children. The Word also says.. “Fathers, provoke NOT your children to wrath…” this verse is sooooooo important. That’s verse is “the line”. I grew up with a lot of HATE for my mother and grandfather and I knew that I had to forgive them if I wanted the Lord to forgive me. We as black people need to do better. It’s NOT always necessary to put hands on someone. We need to seek the Lord and pray and ask for His guidance. Our ancestors were brought to the U.S. under HORRENDOUS conditions and treatment. We have to do better and break that cycle of mistreatment. Love one another. Talk to your children and pray for and with them. Lean on the Word of God. And break those strongholds that keep holding us back. Don’t you know we are THE CHOSEN PEOPLE OF GOD!!!
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@missmaya75682 ай бұрын
@@tintamanengu - Thank you, my Dear. Be blessed in Jesus Holy Name.
@Shellie-bf3wx2 ай бұрын
Nutrition is the key and answer to why? I cut my hair in the summer because it’s really hot. Grow it out every winter because it’s so cold. It’s about 2” below my neck line from September to April. About 8” of hair growth in seven months. Processed foods alcoholic beverages and all those chemical products. You put in your hair doesn’t grow hair. They grow industry investors rich. Eat leafy green vegetables to grow long thick fingernails. Eat a mouthful everyday. This country is killing us slowly education is the key.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@carlalamar6193Ай бұрын
Facial features are an issue for many people...its not just hair...many people are not happy with what they are born with. When you love yourself..except yourself...no wig or weave will change how you feel about your self...that unhappiness is subject to be passed down to your daughters..its much more than HAIR...
@tintamanengu14 күн бұрын
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@sharoncarsons57342 ай бұрын
This nonsense that Black women only wear hair pieces because we have issues with our hair needs to stop. Hair pieces are a styling option used in beauty pageants throughout the world. They can reduce the amount of styling damage if used carefully. Ariana Grande says she wears hair pieces to protect her natural hair from excessive styling. Yet everyone swore Beyonce had short hair because she wears hair pieces. Just plain nonsense. Beyonce has waist length natural hair. Her hair would not be that healthy if she did excessive styling.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@yolandaatkins3317Ай бұрын
Enjoyed your content. I understand the lady concern about natural hair and beauty standards.
@tintamanenguАй бұрын
Thank you, there is some truth to some of it.
@ladybird491Ай бұрын
I had locks for one year and they grew so long that they kept wrapping and wrapping and sat like big pile of ropes on my head, was too heavy.
@tintamanenguАй бұрын
Did you cut them?
@Peacewithn2 ай бұрын
I just posted a video about this on my tik tok, it has nothing to do with your race and thank you for making this video, woman of African descent needs to know they can grow long hair
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@AfroPrincessDiaries2 ай бұрын
Yes. Our hair takes more time to grow long but IT DOES GROW LONG. My hair in my profile picture is all mine and is down my back when stretched or straightened, granted it took about 5 years to get that way. Patience and taking care of it helps. It will grow long, it just takes time.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@flowd74512 ай бұрын
She’s right!! 😂takes , I used to wear my hair out for 6 years. I saw growth but the stress with natural hair is REAL!😂. Getting micro locs was the best decision ive ever made 👏🏾!
@tintamanengu14 күн бұрын
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@GS-uc9ylАй бұрын
Our hair does grow. The problem is a lot of us just don’t know how to properly care for our hair. Overly manipulating the hair, using chemicals, wearing tight hair styles, etc., leads to breakage and us not retaining the length. My hair was waist length before I loc’d it.
@tintamanenguАй бұрын
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@ihatethugАй бұрын
@@tintamanengu relaxer is terrible can you make vid on that
2 ай бұрын
wow she just said “ we thrive off of abuse and trauma “ crazy thats not my identity
@true4585Ай бұрын
Say that again. I rebuke that!
@Brandiisbeloved2 ай бұрын
i do look pretty with my natural hair. i look the prettiest because it goes with my full features. Im more self conscious and feel less pretty weaeing hair that everyone know isnt bad. i felt most conscious taking off a wig every day and being faced with my natural self. So glad thats behind me and i learned to pour into my hair.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@freedamitch94852 ай бұрын
As an entrepreneur God has given me a new make over from inside out spiritual an physical, as forth physical God showed me in a dream where as to wear my natural hair disregard wigs, all wigs is not good wigs ,if I we all come the knowledge of the rituals an where abouts these hair pieces come from we would throw them in the trash an embrace our God given hair. God bless
@OolongG9522 ай бұрын
Well, the lady in the car did say, that black hair doesn’t grow as fast as other ethnicities. I know I screwed up my hair up by using heat and other chemicals. But when I braided my hair without chemicals, and used good conditioners and other conditioning treatments, it grew faster and healthier. ,
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
❤️💚 it can take a while to learn how to best take care of our hair, I'm glad you figured yours out. And I pray for the same for each one of us.
@OolongG9522 ай бұрын
@@tintamanengu thank you so much for your prayers.
@marceejohnson4113Ай бұрын
I look hot, sexy and feminine in my natural hair. I'm a hit....
@tintamanenguАй бұрын
YES ✋🏾
@carolhayden4971Ай бұрын
I have dread locs down my back now they were down to my butt. I cut them up to bra strap. They are down my back again in less than 6 mos.I have worn a bleached blonde flat top . Shoulder length Bob in the past. Long thick hair is prevalent in my family
@tintamanenguАй бұрын
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@RachaelIme2 ай бұрын
You're completely right, ppl just want overnight hair growth magic products. It doesn't work this way I have been natural since 2017 6 years and half now, to be honest I didn't see that massive growth until 2022 when I stopped over manipulating my hair. I know genetic may play a role but if you're not handling your hair with tender, love and care? You will still struggle to achieve your hair goals, It took me almost 4 years to educate myself, ever since I got the knowledge my hair has been thriving like crazy. Thanks a lot for sharing. 🤗😍😍
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
💚❤️ thanks for sharing too 😊
@RachaelIme2 ай бұрын
@@tintamanengu You're welcome 😊
@michellerowe-smith5803Ай бұрын
She just has self hate and I’m glad she said it. She needs to do the internal work.
@Dashomin2 ай бұрын
I used to wear wig almost everyday but now I try to wear less wigs especially most is made with asian hair (a different race) if it is not a wig that is synthetic. We should start loving our own hair and not try to force our hair type to an different race our hair curly and kinky is beautiful
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@h8mars2 ай бұрын
what that lady needs is bi monthly trims, let that hair drink up water, and wash weekly and watch her see results. everybody has to properly take care of their hair or else it’s not gonna look right. i get told all the time i look 15 when i wear my natural hair out meanwhile i’m 21+. she needs to love herself and her hair will follow suit
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@dawnssound2 ай бұрын
Well I need someone to explain mine. Ive been natural 9 years and my hair has not grown pass my neck. I've done it all. Aloe coconut oil, rice water, henna, leave in conditioners, shea butter, mango butter, multi vitamins, etc. And it still breaks constantly. My hair still hasn’t grown any longer than when I relaxed it. My nails look nice though so how isn't my hair healthy enough to remain strong but the rest of me is? I do not get it. And I'm tired of trying.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
I've only heard you mention products, what are you actually doing or consciously avoiding in order to grow your hair? Products are just a part of it.
@user-pw6tn7hc7k2 ай бұрын
As an African I can say this is weird...seeing people hating themselves....it's sad
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@Ebs24242 ай бұрын
She’s not capping about majority of bw not having long hair. I live in Canada and majority of black girls do not have long hair. I’d say shoulder length is average for bw here. Wigs and braids are definitely the favourite choice. I’m natural with waist length hair and I feel the stares most from black people. She is not confident and she doesn’t know how to make her hair grow, but the average black woman is definitely still with her. Majority of people will only give long natural hair praise, if you got 4C to the floor, people will definitely freak out when seeing that because that ain’t average. Let’s not lie, like this isn’t true. Her whole video is none-sense but there are a couple facts there …
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
My response was to her saying natural hair just doesn't grow like that.... damaged or undamaged, she says that without the consideration of unhealthy hair practices common in our communities. A black woman with long hair is not pulling on her hair every other week with tight hairstyle and glue or gels and she probably has a good hair care routine. That's why I said it's not and never will be about race. Our hair can grow with the right care....but she seems to think otherwise.
@user-uo4vt9ms6d2 ай бұрын
Our hair will grow if we take care of it. ❤
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@talltalllady2 ай бұрын
Monica spoke the truth 💯👍
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@GeminiCloudTech2 ай бұрын
Hmm, lemme tell ya. I've had long hair all my life until the 7th grade. Girls used to play in my hair, and at one point, i thought they had "rooted" me because after i suddenly cut my hair into a bob, it never grew past my shoulders. Prior to the cut, it was past my mid back (im 5'3). My stylist and momma didn't want me to cut it, but Monica was in, i loved her, and i wanted HER hairstyle like. Fast forward 30 yrs later, and i now wear U and V part Brazilian kinky wigs because that's the texture my natural hair is, so it blends perfectly. I take it off every 3 days to wash my natural hair and the human hair wig. My hair has grown 6-10 inches monthly 😲 and now past my shoulder blades. What's my secret? Castor oil, tea tree oil for my dry scaly scalp, and leaving it the hell alone when i braid it down for the wig.
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@wonderful4life2 ай бұрын
...6-10 inches monthly?!?!?!? Has Guinness contacted you yet?👀
@true4585Ай бұрын
There is no way your hair grows 6-10 inches a month. You probably mean a YEAR. Thats normal. My hair is 4b 4c (have some 4a but it’s small and irrelevant), and mine grows about the same. 6-8. 10 inches? I call cap.
@top489Ай бұрын
So sick of the Black hair discussion. It is such a personal matter that it’s no one’s business. I wear crochet braids because I love the ease and versatility. It has nothing to do with me not loving myself or trying to be like the non Black women. There are so many pressing things in our economy so the hair discussion is nonsense. You do you boo!
@tintamanengu14 күн бұрын
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@SheritaLee-er4spАй бұрын
I love my short natural hair I get cut by a barber I save a lot of money also instead of pay 100 to 3or 500 depending on the style I pay 25 with a 10 dollar tip. And it also stop taking up a lot of time, wash and go. When I had hair longer than what it is now it took 1hour hour and a half to style now that I'm disable and not in the best of health I have no time to be doing my hair it one less thing I have to worry about of course you still have to take care of it but it is not all that time consuming.
@tintamanengu28 күн бұрын
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@jacquelinemcintosh7717Ай бұрын
I love wearing my natural hair, it is short and beautiful. I don't care what people think.
@tintamanenguАй бұрын
As you shouldn't 😊💚❤️
@jacquelinemcintosh7717Ай бұрын
A big celebrity like Rhianna is now showing off her natural short hair. Get a grip black women.
@extrashotofespresso_2 ай бұрын
I see where the woman is coming from. For me, the problem isn’t the texture of my natural hair.. it’s the fact that it’s short and fine.. if my hair was longer I know I’d be viewed pretty. I already have the “preferred” natural hair texture but I just can’t stand how it shrinks. I currently have micro locs. My hair grows faster when it’s loced but I am so tempted to put loc extensions because short hair doesn’t bring out my beauty in my opinion. Also, you’ve never seen the lion king? Girl it’s such a classic😩. My fave childhood movie
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
Maybe I should watch the lion king because this has been everybody's reaction my entire life, I really hope it will be worth it. Also whatever you decide to do with your hair I'm sure you'll look great.❤️💚
@lashwithlex2 ай бұрын
I think black men started this… I’m not a feminist but they are the ones who actually had the most to say about our hair
@true4585Ай бұрын
They created the hair relaxer!!!
@abrown2582 ай бұрын
Girl love yourself you are beautiful & enough. Who hurt you?